| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 2 | See’s women as “therapy and sex” wonders why they leave him | LVM LOGIC | sluggish_prune | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/08/21 07:36 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 16 | Can we talk about how being with a porn addict seriously impacts a woman’s psyche, body, and life?This makes me want to cry. My husband would start sighing and pull me about and be rough out of frustration I used to have to hold back tears DURING sex. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/21 08:33 AM |
| 13 | Can we talk about how being with a porn addict seriously impacts a woman’s psyche, body, and life?Yes, almost 20 years we were together. I lost my husband, friend, my person to porn addiction. I spent years trying to fix it but truth is it wasn’t my problem to fix it was his. I will never be the same person people don’t realise how bad it is, it’s like a form of abuse being constantly put down and rejected and replaced by porn. The sad thing is they end up limp d****** losers all alone, at least we can get out and move on. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/21 08:27 AM |
| 29 | We're finally seeing the effects of porn use in boys and menI married my childhood sweetheart, we laughed every day, we were best friends,literally he was an amazing man and I honestly don’t think I’ll ever love anyone again as much as I loved him, I will probably love him till the day I die to be perfectly honest…. But then porn happened and although all the good parts of him never changed, he consistently chose porn over me. He would reject me and save himself for porn and so on. Years I put up with this and I finally decided I would rather be alone th… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/21 08:20 AM |
| 8 | What are some examples of imbalanced relationships that stand/stood out to you in media? I’m currently rewatching Harry Potter for the first time since joining FDS, and I’m finding Hermione’s relationship with Ron… a lot less endearing than I used to 🥴THE NOTEBOOK!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/21 01:11 PM |
| 52 | Do any of you realize that the LVM or scrotes in your life try to recreate or mimic scenes and characters from movies or tv shows?Wait … why is this true omg | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/21 08:06 PM |
| 105 | What's coming next? Do you think things will get better or worse?This every damn day of the week. Single women are the future. Men are fun for dates but would I want one living in my home? Erm no. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/21 05:29 PM |
| 29 | What's coming next? Do you think things will get better or worse?I can relate to some of this, although I do date and will continue to do so I do not wish to enter a committed relationship even with a HVM. I am divorcing and have come to realise my life is better without a man in it. I go to the gym 5 times a week, I am improving my health, recovering from an ED and my work and social life are both thriving … my children are also thriving. I am for the first time in a long time very happy. I have had months to think about this and I’ve discovered the reason i… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/21 05:25 PM |
| 29 | And this is why you should NEVER allow yourself to become financially dependent on a man.I smell 💩 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/21 02:40 AM |
| 162 | Pickmes will blame other women even when it has nothing to do with them. Classy.If my Husband paid for sex, you could have him sweetheart. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/21 05:10 PM |
| 37 | The American Taliban weighs inI’m so frightened for my daughters, truly. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/08/21 11:48 PM |
| 15 | He’s dumb af if he thinks we won’t be able to pick him outThe flaw in his plan is we can spot him 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/08/21 08:42 AM |
| 43 | What does the FDS think about being a stay at home mum?I was a SAHM for 7 years and it meant I couldn’t leave my husband when I wanted to, I had to wait and that was bad for both of us. Never let go of that independence for anyone, and that includes children. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/08/21 04:57 PM |
| 42 | Made a 3 min tiktok about how dangerous life is for women, and pointing out actual male privileges. I pointed out that even if men actually experience more violent crimes, those crimes are pulled off by... MEN.Men’s reproductive rights could all be solved if they took responsibility for their own damn contraception and full responsibility for any children they do create. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/08/21 12:50 AM |
| 162 | This was shared by a pickme who is currently the target of a NVM I and my friend group recently cut off due to his gf finally breaking up with him and sharing all the messed up stuff he did to her. This type of thinking will lead u right into the arms of an abuser. Save your best for yourself.That meme is sinister. Like I am in shock. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/08/21 11:45 AM |
| 6 | Reinforcing and maximizing the benefits of no contact through visualizationLove this. I am “block happy” as I call it. I once had an abusive man who attacked all my tweets continuously tell me by blocking him I would be creating an echo chamber. 👀 I mean yes .. an echo chamber of peace. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/08/21 11:40 AM |
| 163 | Broke up with my bfHey, I too am in the middle of a breakup / divorce so I empathise with you, it’s hard even if it’s the right thing to do. I think you made the right choice but you haven’t wasted 3 years you have experienced 3 years and have took steps to ensure it wasn’t 4, good for you. The only tip I have which has made things easier for me is literally spoiling myself, having fun, spending time with good people and doing some things I know my husband would have never done. I have booked a solo trip for the f… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/08/21 11:33 AM |
| 3 | break up reminderYes! Men often wait until they meet someone else before leaving instead of just taking the time to be alone which lets be honest 99% of them need. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/08/21 10:36 AM |
| 6 | break up reminder100% this. Currently at the beginning of a divorce and I wish I realised this years ago. No one is entitled to me or time, no one. Edit: and I also wish men would do the same, because if my husband was more honest we would have lived happy, separate lives a long time ago. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/08/21 10:33 AM |
| 11 | Woman Refuses To Coddle Man-child on a Date, Comments Are Full Of Man Babies Saying She Has No Empathy for Mental HealthI am empathetic to peoples mental health problems, but I don’t actively want to be responsible for them. I’d wish him well and gtf out of there. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/08/21 11:18 AM |
| 8 | Do I really want a relationship, or am I just conditioned by society to feel "fulfilled" by having one?I feel you, I am happy to date but I will never again enter a committed relationship with a man. I like HVM’s company, but I don’t want them living in my house. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/21 12:36 AM |
| 5 | 🤡🤡🤡I have no issue with people playing video games. It’s when it becomes an addiction I’m like 👀 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/21 12:33 AM |
| 4 | AITA, boys shouts at girlfriend, girl moves out the next dayYou know my stbx husband was like this and it is soul destroying. You can’t be human around these people, mistakes are something they can make but no one else. Never again will I let a man raise his voice to me. Good for her | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/08/21 07:28 PM |
| 34 | Ugh, expect?First of all “during puberty” this isn’t a woman it’s a girl … vile 🤮 Secondly, what’s his point ? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/08/21 12:07 AM |
| 5 | Reminder: Delete your dating apps! Your sanity will thank you.God yes. Cesspool. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/08/21 11:55 PM |
| 12 | if you are childfree, vet your partner’s reasons for being childfreeI was speaking to a friend who is very vocally child free and it made me realise there is a difference between “child free” and “hates children” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/21 12:13 AM |
| 3 | Anyone else not dating becauseI am open to it but no one fits the bill so I’ll enjoy life until they do … if they ever do | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/21 12:05 AM |
| 4 | Women choose to reduce their quality of life to let a man go raw and I‘m tired of itIt’s because they are all circumsized in the US. They are in the wrong don’t get me wrong but this is definitely a reason to why they have sexual problems | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/21 11:47 PM |
| 1 | Women choose to reduce their quality of life to let a man go raw and I‘m tired of itSince splitting from my husband of many years I have been birth control free and I swear I cannot believe how long I put up with that stuff. Never again | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/21 11:45 PM |
| 5 | Men won't listen to women on how to "repaur" their dead bedrooms.I was in a dead bedroom for a decade. I was the one who wanted sex and he didn’t. I tried everything to make him happy, I honestly lost myself. I then went to solo therapy and learned the problem wasn’t me it was him. He used it as a way to control me so I left him. If someone, male or female tells you you can’t seek intimacy anywhere else but they also wont provide it to you they are a low value person. People need to leave unhappy relationships, it is so worth the short heartache. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/07/21 08:19 PM |
| 19 | FDS as a single mother?Hi 👋🏼 Also a newbie, I love FDS. I was married to a LVM who used sex as a weapon. I am now a single Mother, well partly - he is a good and active Father. My situation is a little different from most though, I have no intention of ever being in a committed relationship again. I would still like to date though now and then. For me, the thought of being independent and single is bliss and this sub has honestly saved me mentally! Good luck ❤️ Edit for typos | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/07/21 01:19 AM |
| 6 | We need to start talking about pick me teachers who use girls to keep the bad boys in class behaved. Because I definitely experienced this and it was terrible.Wow this makes a lot of sense | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/07/21 01:12 AM |
| 10 | Reject pornification and leave your pubic hair alone. It has a purpose, a job to do and it's healthy to keep itNot itchy | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/04/21 02:56 PM |
| 36 | If ANY sex work was empowering, men would be against it. Libfem is a plague to women as a whole and why we will never progress. This is one of the truest things I've ever heard. MEN DO NOT WANT US TO EVER BE EMPOWERED. REMEMBER THAT.Honestly I agree | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/04/21 04:55 PM |
| 6 | Saw this on twitter - Hinge date puts woman's pictures through an analyzer online to "check if she is actually attractive," tells her her "forehead is too big," then tries to secure a hang out next weekI pray to the universe everyday begging that my daughters are lesbians | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/20 04:45 AM |
| 3 | Seriously disgusting. And I left his name visible, as he is a public figure and has an entire page dedicated to this nonsense. 🤬Take your bald, floppy a$$ d**k elsewhere. Younger men are available. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/20 09:24 AM |
| 1 | Why don’t women like video games or board games generally?I am a massive gamer and it’s always assumed I am a fat weirdo 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/20 11:53 AM |
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