slynn2 Archive

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1	Is it too late to for him want me? Can Long term FWB turn serious? Hi ,I hope am not repeating what someone has said. I have a large family mostly male cousins and brothers and they're honest with me regarding the way men think. Men categorise women when they meet them and interact with them. In this case you're a FWB. It's going to be very difficult for you to move from a FWB to Girlfriend. You offer him easy sex, in return for almost no investment in you.My advice is it's best for you to move on, and work on loving yourself first. This will lead to you gettin…	/r/RedPillWomen	14/08/19 02:46 PM
5	Meeting a married man? I'll be very blunt. He's a married man with a family. You're a single female in her 20s. If you continue meeting him and end up dating him, he'll use you for sex and an ego boost. You'll maybe get a couple of dates and maybe some gifts. However at the end of the day if you fall for him, you're going to waste your youth, beauty and fertility on a loser that can't be respectful of his wife and family. Cut him off, block him and find an unattached Alpha male to give you tingles that actually lead t…	/r/RedPillWomen	03/08/19 05:54 PM
5	Dealing with discouragement from a rad-fem mother Sorry about that! Sometimes moms do things for our best interests but it's coloured by their perception and beliefs. Sometimes just nodding and doing what you want to do anyway is the best way. You don't owe her any explanation on what you're doing and giving her one can actually lead to you always having to defend yourself. Infact i'd change the subject or not discuss certain "sensitive subjects" with her if you feel like it'll lead to an argument. If you feel that it's getting too annoying you…	/r/RedPillWomen	03/08/19 05:43 PM
2	To those who lost their virginity recklessly before getting red pilled, how do you feel about it? I lost mine due to my then boyfriends pressure. We'd been together on and off for 3 & a half years and i honestly did it to keep him and the relationship. Three months later i broke up with him for good. I was 17 when it happened. I regret it and at the same time not so much. I regret that i was so weak and dumb to think sex could keep an asshat but at the same time I'm glad i experienced that heartbreak and disappointment bcos i was never that weak again. I think bad experiences can be turned i…	/r/RedPillWomen	01/08/19 01:56 PM
1	How important was your husband's income or financial stability in the relationship? So so true! Couldn't have said it better!	/r/RedPillWomen	31/07/19 08:51 AM
2	How important was your husband's income or financial stability in the relationship? This. Drive and ambition are very important	/r/RedPillWomen	31/07/19 08:46 AM
2	How important was your husband's income or financial stability in the relationship? My husbands income/financial stability was important to me of course. I knew that after having kids i didn't want to go back to work immediately until they were in kindergarten so i could look after them so ofcourse he had to make enough money for us to be able to do this. My husband and i come from a similar economic background and education so that was important for compatibility. However I could have dated a wealthier man and actually was doing so before my husband but his character (or lack …	/r/RedPillWomen	31/07/19 08:43 AM
1	Acting desperate and as if your crush is "the last decent guy on the planet" Never seen that scene but I love it! Yes be Jackie Burkhart or Samantha 😊	/r/RedPillWomen	31/07/19 07:34 AM
9	Acting desperate and as if your crush is "the last decent guy on the planet" By the way one of my favourite lines in a series was Samantha leaving Smith. Paraphrasing "I love you, but I love me more" . I think it's very important to remember to love you, have a romantic relationship with yourself and don't compromise on this. Otherwise you'll end up miserable. The perfect relationship imo is one where the compromises don't change you so much that you lose yourself. 😉	/r/RedPillWomen	30/07/19 03:45 PM
4	Acting desperate and as if your crush is "the last decent guy on the planet" Hey! Really sorry you went through that breakup it sucks and I have been there. First things first I'd recommend you working on loving yourself first. Like really really loving YOU warts and all and developing a higher self esteem and self confidence. I went through a similar situation in my late teens except I dated him for 4yrs and always thought he was better than me so i let him get away with murder and treating me like dirt. After that experience and developing a higher self worth I expecte…	/r/RedPillWomen	30/07/19 03:36 PM
2	When to break up? Thanks for your responses, in my opinion he doesn't seem right for yiu because he's incapable of self reflection and sounds like a know it all and judgemental. I'd leave him myself because i don't believe you can change a man nor should you want to!	/r/RedPillWomen	30/07/19 08:41 AM
6	Husband's expectations after marriage. Hey! I totally get where you're coming from, when i got married housework wasn't my favourite activity. Infact i absolutely hated it but it's necessary ! However after 11yrs marriage i have found some tips and balance with my husband. When he was working and i was a SAHM i did all the housework and cleaning but he put the rubbish away and dealt with household repairs. I've found the best way to get help from your man is to ask with a smile, and when he does it show gratitude in your way- a kiss,…	/r/RedPillWomen	29/07/19 04:16 PM
10	When to break up? Hello! Regarding his reaction to having different opinions do you get the feeling that he thinks his viewpoint is right/superior and he wants to impose his views or is it more that he wants to get to the bottom of the issue to really understand your side ? If you're not sure i would try to see just how far he takes an argument (play devils advocate to annoy him slightly or alot lol) and see how he reacts. Is he just passionate or does he become disrespectful and mean? That would show you more ab…	/r/RedPillWomen	29/07/19 03:40 PM
3	How does a girlfriend behave differently than a wife in a relationship with a man, and how can a girlfriend be of value to him without giving away too much too soon? Oh and btw I don't believe in waiting for marriage before sex because i consider that part of testing for compatibility but ofcourse that depends on your culture and beliefs.	/r/RedPillWomen	29/07/19 03:14 PM
6	How does a girlfriend behave differently than a wife in a relationship with a man, and how can a girlfriend be of value to him without giving away too much too soon? I'd say honestly if you want to get married the most important thing to do as a Girlfriend first is to get to know him. He's not the only one choosing YOU ARE AS WELL!! You should never ever forget that either as a RPW. When he's your boyfriend you can still leave, if you feel that you cannot commit to him for life because you notice during your relationship recurring issues because those get bigger not smaller during a marriage. I'm very happy with my husband we've been together for over 10yrs …	/r/RedPillWomen	29/07/19 03:09 PM
1	What do you offer? I'm going to sound bad then lol but I have never wondered what value i bring to a man because that is for him to decide. I'm married it's been 11yrs. Met him when i was 21 almost done with uni so didn't have much of a career and no money lol! Instead what i think matters more is being compatible and genuinely liking each other as human beings and enjoying being with each other and having fun as a couple. I think asking yourself what value you bring to a man isn't very useful since every man sees…	/r/RedPillWomen	28/07/19 07:35 PM
1	Have you ever HAD to hang out with your husband’s ex girlfriend? I can understand that! To ensure she's not invited again tell your husband that you're trying to keep the peace but would like to have as much distance with her as possible. That you're ok being polite but your patience has it's limits after all she is his ex. He will definitely do what he can to make sure her presence around you is rare. Also being polite with her if she's trying to be manipulative and play the victim will only highlight her bad character so you'll always look classy.	/r/RedPillWomen	28/07/19 07:01 PM
1	Miscarriage I'm so sorry. Again as every wise person here has said you're not overreacting, you have a reason to be sad. Take care of yourself and grieve. This too shall pass	/r/RedPillWomen	26/07/19 01:08 PM
3	Should I interfere with my sister's future marriage to "save" her fiancé? Agree with everyone here. Tbh you sound very manipulative and childish. Back off and leave your sisters relationship alone otherwise you'll lose your relationship with your sister and likely cause a family drama if you're the cause of their breakup	/r/RedPillWomen	26/07/19 01:01 PM
5	Have you ever HAD to hang out with your husband’s ex girlfriend? I'd go to the party dressed to the nines and kill with Kindness. You have the upper hand don't forget that. If you act up or are negative to her SHE'LL look like the victim. So take the high road always. At the party be extra nice so her pettiness is more apparent to everyone. She might try to bait you but let that wash over you like water over a ducks back. If your DH wanted her he'd be with her but he chose you.	/r/RedPillWomen	26/07/19 12:50 PM
3	Should I continue talking to this lust-filled man? As everyone is saying i'd stop all communication with him and block him because he sounds like a creep sorry. Reasons 1. You don't know him andhave never met him yet he claims to love you. This sounds like a tactic to butter you up by saying what he thinks you want to hear so je can get intimate with you faster 2. His angry reaction to you saying you want to slow things down is manipulative. Any normal person can understand your need to know him better and if he was a good person he'd respect yo…	/r/RedPillWomen	26/07/19 12:42 PM
4	20s to 30s: Dressing young, feminine and conservative during the summer Easiest way to always dress classy and elegant without showing too much is choose one area to highlight and cover the rest. Say show leg with a short skirt or shorts and cover up top. Another thing i do is wear less makeup say if am wearing a short dress, i'll make it look more elegant with a flat shoe, minimal jewelry and a more no makeup look. Your makeup can move you from classy to overdone and trying too hard in a second.	/r/RedPillWomen	08/06/19 08:21 AM
1	Resolution: cleaning for my Captain Zone cleaning is when you divide your house into various zones: dining rooms, bathrooms, living room etc. There are 4 or 5 zones. Each zone is one week of the month. So you do an extra chore per day for your particular zone. Might be rearranging kitchen etc. So basically each zone will be covered for atleast one week each moth. Hth. Check out zone cleaning videos on YouTube for more ideas.	/r/RedPillWomen	21/05/19 01:19 PM
3	Regarding my man’s n-count I think is honesty is great but it would definitely be a dealbreaker for me too	/r/RedPillWomen	20/05/19 10:45 AM
1	Resolution: cleaning for my Captain Hi! I hated housework before but now love doing it and you get used to a clean home ya know? What got me started was the book "Sink reflections" the flylady method and " zone cleaning". I clean a little everyday as i work fulltime.	/r/RedPillWomen	20/05/19 10:15 AM
1	I hate children. I thought kids were gross and annoying at your age too 😊 Now i'm a mom to a beautiful one and cannot imagine my life without her. You might end up like myself, or might end up with no kiddos but don't be hard on yourself.	/r/RedPillWomen	14/05/19 10:58 AM