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Mine: "Sit on my face and grind until your juices run down my cheek."
/r/TheRedPill08/10/17 06:07 PM
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Nice! Put on 2x speed while you read the book and your reading rate will increase.
/r/askTRP09/09/17 07:23 PM
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Why? Not trying to get erotica or some shit. Just wondering if people have instigated sex in places I haven't thought of. Doing in on the bed gets boring.
/r/askTRP09/09/17 06:18 PM
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No particular order, Google/Amazon can give you the authors. Gang Leader For A Day 48 Laws of Power Mastery Seduction The Rational Male Trilogy Leonardo's Notebooks Sex God Method Why Nations Fail Dangerous The Way of Men What Every Body is Saying Creativity Inc. How to talk to anybody The intelligent investor One Second After Game of Thrones So Sad to Fall in Battle The Company of Heros American Sniper Unpopular Opinion: Didn't care for Models.
/r/askTRP09/09/17 05:14 PM
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I don't keep track. the person who initiated the activity pays.
/r/askTRP15/08/17 11:22 PM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vOvwTWhVT24
/r/askTRP08/08/17 03:28 AM
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Meh. Whisper takes more time but it's a better pull rate.
/r/askTRP01/08/17 11:06 PM
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Soft next. Act like nothing happened wen you see her. Treat her no different and feel free to hit on other girls in front of her. If she texts, short and sweet replies but don't ask her to come over unless shes says she is "bored" or some shit. You lost frame but can get your dick wet again if you show patience and control over the situation. Short answer: treat her as a learning experience, if she offers or asks for sex you are home free at which point retain the soft next until #3 then she is …
/r/askTRP01/08/17 10:54 PM
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Physically, go to the gym mentally, say No more
/r/askTRP26/07/17 02:27 AM
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The more fit I get the higher my standards. I have abs and expect any girl I have to not have so much as a muffin top. Have self respect and this isn't even an issue. Oh, and stay away form online dating.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/17 07:19 PM
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Yeah she can get anybody. Any girl no matter how larger can get some schlub to fuck her
/r/TheRedPill18/06/17 07:17 PM
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I agree with most of this. 1) Rag doll. I, personally, don't want her to be a rag doll in bed. Being sapiosexual I'm not a fan of ONS or the like but prefer her to crave me. Your comment about stop touching her is on point - I'll grab boob when I want but then I suddenly stop one day and we go to sleep without so much as feeling her leg I'm almost always getting a wake up BJ. If she isn't actively initiating sex but rather just bends over I lose interest. 2) Just go to H&M or whatever. No. If yo…
/r/TheRedPill02/05/17 02:19 AM
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It was on the book shelf. I don't hide game theory or anything, I just don't bring it up. If she asks my thoughts I say what I think with no filter. What out would you recommend besides just saying "no"? Even in the book he talks about women who know about TRP...
/r/askTRP25/02/17 02:57 AM
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/rTre_Walker I probably know you lol. WCS is the shit. I have so much in terms of opportunity to style and show off. I can let her dance around me if she is good, or dance around her if she isn't. The dynamic of skills doesn't have to be even. Both parties can dance to their level and have fun. It is your job to make her look good Make her look good and she gets tingles because we all know all her girlfriends were watching. Can confirm Country Two being very BP. I see it almost shameful how beta…
/r/TheRedPill17/02/17 12:40 AM
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I boulder. Not as much as I should, but I got once every two weeks or so. Struggling to make time for it. I picked it up easily and was doing double dynos inside of two months. I agree with the weightlifting. I never realized how important forearms were until I got into bouldering. Membership is 40 a month. Gear: 11 for gallon of chalk, 10 for bag, 80 for shoes.
/r/TheRedPill14/02/17 04:59 AM
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I do swing, zouk, and country. I don't have to try when I walk into a bar.
/r/TheRedPill13/02/17 11:07 PM
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You need to be top 20% or this isn't going to do anything for you. I'm the best dancer in my city; Humblebrag. Went to an event for my style once and I signaled the girl with one finger (come hither type thing). She gets up and says, "wow, you make me come with one finger I can only imaging what you can do with two". It's like shooting fish in a barrel once you are top 20%.
/r/TheRedPill13/02/17 11:06 PM
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Not crazy about coloring books. Never going to use that one. I will say, Ikea dates are great for me. Take her there, wander around, let her fantasize about your life together. Personally, I love Ikea - just feel like I'm snooping someone's house and that's enough for me. Let her talk and giggle while she makes up a plan for your future apartment together. Get to the beds, lay down with her and eventually comment how yours is softer. (I've a fucking water bed, never a turn off and in some cases …
/r/TheRedPill13/02/17 11:02 PM
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it's his job. disappeared for 18 months or something like that based on contract to work.
/r/TheRedPill05/02/17 08:01 PM
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Bitch stop the excuse. I'm 5'7" and have a bad knee. I blew it out (again) last summer showing off on a trampoline. I'm back to 250 squats and aim to beat my PR of 350 by summer (1 year after my fuck up). Get up at 5 am and get your daily chores done. Work out, eat healthy, develop interesting hobbies, dress well. Do those four things and you won't suffer with the ladies. I've worked hard for my broad chest and it paid off. Girls will make up excuses to feel my chest. They then realize I have ab…
/r/TheRedPill09/12/16 12:18 PM
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What music do you listen to? Country: 2 step,country swing, one step, ballroom, waltz Oldies: Lindy hop, east coast swing Latin: salsa, bachata, ballroom, zouk (more of a electronic/tripy Brazilian style) Pop: West coast swing, zouk, east coast swing, bastardized one step R&B/Hip Hop: hip hop (not a partner dance)
/r/TheRedPill25/11/16 04:35 PM
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I'm honestly surprised how much people are obsessing over this. I wasn't trying to write a Penthouse letter. I kept it general to make a point about hobbies and not specifically my own. I don't sleep with 4 women I know. I dance with them often and actually enjoy their friendship. I don't pull at my social club because I don't shit where I eat. Friday and Saturday nights are a different story. I recently set a "traveling dance FWB" in another state. We only see each other at competitions. Short …
/r/TheRedPill23/11/16 12:30 PM
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Shear utter will power... and booze I drink socially now, but don't need it to grease the wheels.
/r/TheRedPill22/11/16 11:51 PM
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My first 6 months dancing sucked. I didn't even become remotely entertaining until 8 months in. Most bars (at least down here) have free classes to get you to the location and drink after it's over. I can't tell a guy enough how happy women are that you are simply trying to learn. Surrendering like you mentioned was a mental hurdle for sure. It takes a long time to feel the music. But when you do, the girl knows it and her level of fun sky rockets. Like I said, you need to be the top 20% of skil…
/r/TheRedPill22/11/16 12:13 PM
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I like the way you phrased it, men are told it's okay to be comfortable and that is a trap. What we need is to become uncomfortable and to find comfort in that discomfort. That is a very good summary of the point I'm trying to make. Too many men think video games are cool. The dad bod isn't a fitness goal.
/r/TheRedPill22/11/16 12:09 PM
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My social circle is 95% women. I know one dude who I hang/workout with who is RP. I avoid interactions with betas honestly. I answer there questions and move on. How do you seem to have a different woman every week? Abs. Brah. I deliberately don't hit on them. Two of them are engaged. But every time I go out everyone assumes we are a couple regardless of which girl I'm with that night. It is immediate social proof. These girls offer to introduce me to their friends/roommates. One of them actuall…
/r/TheRedPill21/11/16 12:46 PM
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We all pull from personal experiences. My sister and all her friends have never experience predudace against them. If anything they get better treatment since they are surrounded by thirst, sexless geeks all day. I have never look at a person and said to myself that I will assume anything bc of race/gender etc. Prove your worth. If I am right (no idea if I am) I would assume you are a quite, shy girl. That is why people don't listen to you. I know a chick who aced a heat transfer test. I wasn't …
/r/TheRedPill19/11/16 12:53 AM
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I know a female engineer. She spends an extra 10 hours a week more than I do in the lab. She has worked on the weekends for free. I asked her why she did it and she responded that as the only female in her department she has to prove herself as capable. Girl, you got hired. They like you. You've proven yourself. She complains about the Male Dominated atmosphere and how "hard it is for woman in STEM" yet has never had a case of discrimination for her genitals. I call her a liar on her BS. She mak…
/r/TheRedPill17/11/16 12:05 AM
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I also feel it goes the other way around here. It sounds like a lot of guys on this reddit purposely act cold towards women. They push the masculinity too far IMHO. I'm simply her friend. I don't bend over backwards for her when she calls. When I want her to come out and stop whining about losing a friend I say just that. I've been told that I have no filter - my best and worst quality. I say what I think and don't sugar coat anything. This allows me to be emotionally there but still maintain bo…
/r/TheRedPill16/11/16 11:56 PM
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I take these weaknesses more personally than I should, but when I see weak, dadbods at the beach I am reminded that the reason there is such a shitty stereotype for the physique of married men & fathers is because of these fucking fucks that let themselves go. I just want to grab these dudes and yell, “You want to know the real reason your wife cheats or won’t fuck you, it’s because you’re pathetic and there are better men who deserve her pussy and attention.” I said a paraphrase of this Friday …
/r/TheRedPill16/11/16 01:00 PM
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I use Trunk Club. It expensive and only use it to buy things I can't nail down in stores. They offer style options and I take what they recommend, find the cheaper options at H&M or Old Navy and buy those. I make good money but I'll be damned if I pay 100 dollars for a casual shirt.
/r/TheRedPill23/09/16 12:01 AM
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One thing to mention is that - Tinder especially - these dating apps and sites filter matches based on popularity. If you get lots of matches with low quality women, it's because you are not being selective enough. I used to swipe for anything not a bot on tinder. I was getting low quality matches or none at all because the quality girls aren't even seeing you. Your rating is too low. I became more selective. Maybe one girl in 50. Boom. Better matches with better women. The algorithm pre-selecte…
/r/askTRP10/07/16 10:01 PM
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You want a short cut. Trp isn't about short cuts. You can't be a party animal wo cash and you can't have cash wo a job therefore you can't be a party animal wo being a working stiff. This mentality is what is wrong w this country, just looking for free stuff. Such a long post saying how you "thought a lot about life" is pointless. Go lift, go to school, get a job then live it up on the weekends.
/r/askTRP16/05/16 10:19 AM
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The cats eat her that's what happens
/r/askTRP11/05/16 02:51 AM
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Just leaving this here: Christianity =/= Catholicism Cut it out with the one night stands. Go to church. Find a nice, smart catholic girl and marry her. Have kids. Raise them to be decent people. OP don't do that^
/r/askTRP10/05/16 10:24 PM
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Step 1) If you do ballroom and swing then you will know about the musicality of the dance correct? Most music is 8 counts with breaks drawing out the notes (vocals holding a note or a guitar riff for example). If this isn't familiar youtube it and figure it out. Start listening to club music and the remixes in your car and pay attention to the science behind the music. Step 2) Now that you can predict how the music will flow and move, you can start to play with it. At this point, you need to dec…
/r/askTRP01/05/16 09:37 PM
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I like to test compliance in early stages of seeing a chick. My go to is "wear red lipstick tonight". If I get push back then I know not to invest too much interest/time/money in that order. If she does it without asking I push the limits until she does protest. At that point I have a solid read on how big a pain she will be long term. Can't help ya on the tail end. I don't let it get that far. Maybe give her chocolate when she is good and lemon water in the face when she takes a piss on the rug…
/r/askTRP22/04/16 10:58 PM
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There was a great post about this article a while back, but here is link to it again: What body type women prefer
/r/askTRP22/04/16 07:17 PM
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i know a girl who randomly shaved her head bc she felt more attached to it than God. Beautiful long blonde hair to the waist to bald in an evening on a whim. Never decided if it was the right choice or an attention play...
/r/TheRedPill20/04/16 03:06 PM
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acutane and lift heavy shit
/r/askTRP11/04/16 11:48 PM
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Second the Boundless comment. That is why I quit reading it after finding TRP. It is useless. Exactly how I feel. Nobody takes care of themselves in the Church. "The body is a Temple" is the main reason I worked out prior RP. TRP got me doing weights (all cardio prior) but now that I know I am a catch I don't want to date anyone I know. Turn to online dating and its worse.
/r/TheRedPill06/04/16 07:00 PM
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You said it right. It does carry to the emotional side. My first gf (pre RP) refused to do anything outside of her house. Wouldn't go anywhere or do anything. Broke up because all she wanted to do was watch movie. Then she would go out with her friends and do fun stuff. I couldn't come because I had a dick and it might fall into her in public. She was so concerned about staying a virgin she basically didn't date.
/r/TheRedPill06/04/16 01:42 PM
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It can always be higher but I am personally happy with how I look. I'm a short guy so a little goes a long way w a V frame. I like to use pics showing me doing something : surfing, dancing, shooting. Cute dogs also give them something to message about. But those aren't allowed. This was more of an exercise/experiment anyways so I'm not to worry about it. I prefer to meet women in person anyways. This post is honestly mental masturbation pointing out the poor quality online amplified through a re…
/r/TheRedPill06/04/16 03:48 AM
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Thanks for the suggestion. Wasn't posting for relationship advice but it is always welcome. TRP has changed my life and I meet plenty of women now. Just wishing they were someone I could take home to the mother. Every girl I've met in the past year has been a slut. Maybe that is just the opened eyes and I can never unsee it...
/r/TheRedPill06/04/16 02:48 AM
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Fake it until you make it. Realize it probably isn't going to go as you would like. You probably will make an ass of yourself. Get more experience but you have to start somewhere! Rub one out, do ONE shot to calm nerves if needed. Take her to a pool hall. Free looks down her shirt with kino opportunities when helping her shoot.
/r/askTRP24/03/16 09:16 PM
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Dressing trendy isn't that big of a deal. It is dressing nice. It is important to distinguish. I can't reference the study I read, but they found that guys don't care what a girl wears on a first date becasue he will undress her with his eyes anyways. As long as it isn't sweat pants and baggy tee he is happy. Girls, however, care about appearance and therefore care how the man presents himself. Because she cares about looks you should look good to fit her expectations. She dresses up (makeup and…
/r/askTRP24/03/16 03:02 PM
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I haven't walked my lab with a leash since year 1. He only uses it at the vet's office. I can cross the street w him no problem. He sees a squirrel and will look for consent before he chases. Beat the shit out of him for chasing a cat once. Never did that again.
/r/TheRedPill21/03/16 08:58 PM
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West coast swing, salsa, Zouk, east coast swing in that order is my preference. Youtube is a kick ass resource on deciding what interests you
/r/TheRedPill03/03/16 04:58 AM
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haha there us a grandma who i love dancing w. not sexual at all, i just enjoy her style
/r/TheRedPill23/02/16 03:59 AM
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Leave your ego Yes yes and yes. It took me 3 months to just no suck. After 3 more I didn't bore her. Another 3 and I'll actually be halfway decent. I find I don't have to game at all when I dance. My dance group is there to dance with side lessons and not the other way around so I experience the sink or swim environment. But as I have gotten better (combined with being the only guy there who lifts) the girls come to me. With that said, don't shit where you eat is solid advice. Kino is frowned up…
/r/TheRedPill23/02/16 01:44 AM
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this is why I did research w professors to prove on the resume that I knew what I was doing. Frauds exists. I know a guy who spends more time copying from a file than just doing the HW.
/r/TheRedPill19/02/16 10:32 PM
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I had one professor who literally wrote 3 tests and just scrambled the problems each semester. Just didn't give a shit thanks to tenure.
/r/TheRedPill19/02/16 10:30 PM
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Point of office hours, when you go to ask a question, make sure it is intelligent! Don't sit down and say "I don't understand the HW or the lectures" but rather say, "I don't understand how to get A from B when I tried C and I can't find my error. Asking for them to find your error works wonders! It shows initiative. Even if you are completely wrong, you tried and I have been given complete solutions just because I actually dropped 3 pages of chicken scratch on their desk. Test banks are a reall…
/r/TheRedPill19/02/16 10:29 PM
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Creativity Inc. - Ed Catmull
/r/TheRedPill14/02/16 06:27 PM
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I could care less actually. It is more of a gauge of attraction for me. Is she invested enough to do it? I've had one girl refuse and it ended terribly. Coincidence? I think not!
/r/askTRP11/02/16 03:28 PM
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My personal preference is: bonus points for red lipstick
/r/askTRP11/02/16 02:22 PM
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Rereading "What every body is saying" because of what you just said actually. I suck at body language due to mild Asperger's. "Him" was a bf of a girl I used to know who was always kissing her neck and stuff in public. She liked it at first, but by the end of the day she just looked bored. Maybe its just insecurities, but I have always viewed being too touchy as clingy. Maybe I just need to get over it?
/r/askTRP09/02/16 07:45 PM
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Yeah, she loves to feel up my chest so I was hoping for this answer. Just don't want to shoot myself in the foot since I have noticed a friendgirl react negatively after an entire day of him feeling her up. Now that I think about it though, that chump didn't have a 6 pack or shave his neck beard.
/r/askTRP09/02/16 07:34 PM
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as r/meatcurtainrod said, it doesn't matter what you do as long as you act manly. Be in shape, command the dance, don't ask a woman to dance but rather offer your hand wordlessly. I've got women stashed all over town from 3 different styles just by doing this. I would add one caveat to the "pick anything" and say shy away from Waltz. Salsa is fine, but waltz really depends on the follow knowing what the lead (you) is going to do next (her feet are between your, bonus for kino, minus for no true …
/r/askTRP05/02/16 11:53 PM
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In my experience the women there kinda expect what you are doing. Not saying it is impossible, but their guard is up. I like to use more social settings than classes for this reason. You are doing something fun that you enjoy, you aren't there for chicks. They come then great, otherwise you have a good time no worries. By being more at ease with yourself, they aren't thinking about you actively trying to get in their pants. Just may experience. May differ by location.
/r/askTRP05/02/16 09:16 PM
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I'm Hispanic, so the odds will be against me in every single way possible. STFU, it makes no difference. Have you ever seen the equal opportunity employer paragraph? I've been asked if I'm male, but we know why that is. Next excuse. Are you going for a full time job or a co-op or and internship? Play up the Java. It is in high demand. Play up the top 15% thing. Your grades can't be shit if you're in that. You are in toastmasters so you know how to speak, but are you personable? Do you come off a…
/r/askTRP05/02/16 03:46 AM
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We need a Red Pill crowdfunder for this. I won't go back to Gold's because they had loads of cardio machines (including the man free zone) and a small weight room smaller than my little uni gym.
/r/TheRedPill04/02/16 11:34 PM
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Dominance, in my experience, is more subconscious than verbal. I read a tip from a self help book about envisioning a strap (like what they hang from by their teeth in the circus) hanging from every door frame. Raise your chin to get that strap. Sounds dumb, I know, but by simply raising your chin you: * look taller * puff out your chest * exude confidence * look like you own the place cause other faggots are looking at their feet There on other things you can do, but this is the best basic thin…
/r/askTRP03/02/16 11:18 PM
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not a big fan of "how's it going?" because it is an open ended question. You're putting the conversation in her hands. Drive the text game to a meetup. For example, latest chick gave me her number out of social proof. Me: -PIC of dates- "sent pic of dates if interested" Her: smiley face, lol, what should I put in my phone for a name? Me: Star Lord: Infamous intergalactic outlaw Her: lol, seriously Me: loosely based on my life, was a beaver in my hallucinations -didn't answer her question, she dr…
/r/askTRP03/02/16 11:12 PM
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you should be in at least 1 club (fraternities don’t count) and something off campus as well This^ My social circle tripled when I joined a club. Got kicked out of the first one for not being beta in a martial arts club (like, how does that happen?) Was miserable for a year until I found my current one and my social circle tripled again. For those of you who don't do math, I now know 9x as many folks on campus compared to first year. Build connections. They get you jobs, girls, and social proof.
/r/TheRedPill03/02/16 10:28 PM
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Don't drink and carry. Yes. It gets grey fast if you did even under the limit. Side note: if you screwed up and had 1 beer and legally defended yourself, remember, alcohol is banned in shooting competitions because it is considered a performance enhancer. there is a sweet spot when you are slightly buzzed when your hands get steadier.
/r/TheRedPill02/02/16 10:49 PM
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1: post on ASKTRP 2: Who gives a crap about single awareness day? The entire "holiday" is designed to get beta buxes to spend money.
/r/TheRedPill02/02/16 01:28 AM
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I had the same issue for a while. Dark sunglasses, chin up, look forward with occasional turns to check out the ladies. When you get more comfortable (or its cloudy) work on eye contact. At 40k nobody is gonna remember you tomorrow (good and bad thing there) so just try to get comfortable making eye contact for those 3 seconds it takes to pass. I bet they will break first.
/r/askTRP30/01/16 04:54 AM
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Don't do this. It puts the ball in her court. She is in control. You are in her frame. Yes, if she ignores you and you save time, but she most likely just isn't willing to invest time to plan a date bc every johnny with text game does it. Take the lead and tell her to show up. I have gone as far as to dictate what I want her to wear. For example, I did this Wednesday: "X at 6, bonus points for red lipstick!"
/r/askTRP30/01/16 04:49 AM
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slow motion - trey songz
/r/askTRP29/01/16 08:56 PM
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I got a chuckle out of this. Rock on and prove me wrong brother.
/r/TheRedPill28/01/16 10:07 PM
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Geez man can you say I enough? So MUCH needless OVEREMPHASIS credibility in this post just tanks. You've read 60 books huh? I cleared that when I was like 12. High school and college had me clearing 400 page books every 2 weeks. I am an aspiring musician with SERIOUS potential. I am acquaintances with famous people. Friends who are grammy/juno winners. My work speak for itself. Social proof is real, I'll give you that, but this just sounds like bragging. There are ways to create social proof wit…
/r/TheRedPill28/01/16 02:18 PM
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yes! one of the best posts on here. Also saved it off
/r/askTRP28/01/16 05:18 AM
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Yep, love it! 800 songs so far;)
/r/TheRedPill24/01/16 11:28 PM
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I got tailored dress shirts from slim fit and I get complements all the time. Women care about the V shape, not necessarily your size. Which is good b/c I'm on the shorter end of average.
/r/TheRedPill23/01/16 12:30 PM
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I agree. I'm happy being below 170. Lean and cut is sexier then swole to most girls. A guy here made an exellent post about how most girls find Tyler in Fight Club statistically most appealing.
/r/TheRedPill23/01/16 04:31 AM
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There’s no door-holding, no hand-holding and definitely no free drinks Free drinks... yeah, not gonna happen, lol.
/r/TheRedPill21/01/16 10:09 PM
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I always have a hard time finding time to lift during the semester. I would suggest you take the same approach I did and schedule it like a class. It just isn't something you can miss. Use this same technique for your guitar practice. Always keep money on hand. It is smart, keep it up. I take notes on a tablet because my handwriting sucks. I can focus on getting nice big letters without worrying about space. The autoconvert to text is also nice if you aren't drawing diagrams. I can't draw. I use…
/r/askTRP20/01/16 11:40 PM
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I have read literature about how women become more reclusive afterwords. Like, refusing to be touched as well as depression. You may be right, but my understanding is she would never text back "yes that was so much fun! We should totally do it again :) <3". Many on here advocate a follow up text after a ONS for this reason. I don't believe she would still be all hugs and kisses after an assault. For better or worse, this is the main defense. There was another comment from a lawyer who had more t…
/r/TheRedPill19/01/16 03:17 AM
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I honestly wouldn't have done any of this with any other girls I know. But the antidepressants and her asking if she can do my laundry set off alarm bells.
/r/TheRedPill18/01/16 08:15 PM
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My game improved a lot when I was in an environment I was comfortable with. No, not your mother's house. Get a hobby. Get good at it. Go to events around that hobby and you will automatically have a subject of interest with all women there. Once you get comfortable with this, you are ready to start branching out to new venues such as bars and clubs. In addition to Models read What everybody is saying by Joe Navarro.
/r/askTRP17/01/16 08:58 PM
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I like the Theory weekends. This should become a thing.
/r/TheRedPill17/01/16 07:25 PM
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*your
/r/askTRP15/01/16 04:31 PM
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Shrug "you're loss" Walk away
/r/askTRP15/01/16 05:12 AM
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The psycho punched him in the temple. That's what killed him.
/r/TheRedPill15/01/16 01:43 AM
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as an engineering student under 21 (read: not going to bars or parties) I feel you brother fist bump
/r/TheRedPill14/01/16 03:30 PM
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Had never been exposed to reddit before. A beta geek at a summer job got linked to it and asked for my opinion on the subject matter since we always debate shit - be it women's rights or gun control - we always differed. I guess he thought I would disagree with y'all and he would have some fun with me;) That was 9 months ago.
/r/askTRP14/01/16 03:46 AM
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Its called the anger phase. Read the side bar. Man up and except the reality. Complaining about shit may make you feel better, but it was a waste of my time to read this post. I'm just hoping this community here will be more understanding the great thing about this sub is that we call poster out on stuff. Hell, I've been called out. Take life by the balls and live it. If you are unhappy with the gf dump her and go make yourself happy.
/r/TheRedPill13/01/16 04:57 AM
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My dad is 5'5". My mother is 5"3". I clock in at 5'7". Not saying that I am tall, but your fear of having a short kid is unfounded. Its all about familial genes, not your perse. this is why your parents could have both had brown eyes (the dominant gene) but your's are blue (recessive). This happens because offspring DNA is based on the last hundred years or 3 generations of traits. If your entire family is short and so is hers, then your son/daughter may be short. The men on my mothers side all …
/r/askTRP12/01/16 04:46 PM
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Leil Lowndes. She also wrote another book called, "How to make anybody fall in love with you" which could be compared to maple syrup. Once you boil off all the useless material such as "certain women liked this odor of men's under shirts, others preferred the shorter/heavier/different diet." The whole book can be condensed to 1 chapter talking about how most couples with few outliers are withing 2 points of each other. So a HB6 will date between a 4 and an 8 realistically for a BB. She states RP…
/r/TheRedPill11/01/16 07:37 PM
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Can confirm "How to talk to anybody." Excellent resource on maintaining social proof will some tips on Game.
/r/TheRedPill11/01/16 12:36 AM
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Like I said, it may have been just shitty instruction or beta close mindedness on my part. It was like 2 years ago. Mid swallow of the pill I got into west coast and love it for all the reasons you just outlined.
/r/TheRedPill10/01/16 11:32 PM
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A strong, confident lead can make almost any girl look good without any effort on her part. Yes, I take a friend girl who is very good at styling with me sometimes. I dance with her and we look incredible. I then go up to the ones I am interested in and escalate.
/r/TheRedPill10/01/16 07:49 PM
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I gave salsa a shot but found it hard to use it in a club (should note I wasn't taught like that guy in the video). I now do West Coast Swing dance which looks very similar to what the OP linked to. The only difference is the option to travel more and with more flair. My beef with salsa (again, may have had just a poor experience with it) was the girl needed to know what was happening. If I more left she had to know to slide right, with WCS this helps but isn't needed as the style it led by the …
/r/TheRedPill10/01/16 07:46 PM
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have it. love it. highly recommend reading it once a year.
/r/askTRP10/01/16 03:55 AM
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i drink whiskey in place of beer. same buzz for less calories. i also only drink about once every two weeks.
/r/askTRP08/01/16 02:39 AM
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If you want to learn dancing, I would recommend West Coast Swing dancing if there is a group in your area. YouTube is great (Michael Kiehm for the win) to learn new patterns. Find a girl and practice. The learning curve is steep for a lead, but well worth it. West Coast incorporates all dance styles: Waltz, Lindy Hop, Country Swing, and a little bboying. All these are exclusive to themselves, but different pieces can fit into wcs but no the other way around. This makes it very flexible to music.…
/r/TheRedPill07/01/16 08:54 PM
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Same here. YouTube is the shit for learning SolidWorks. You can also use it to learn computer languages. Currently teaching myself Python.
/r/TheRedPill07/01/16 08:46 PM
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I agree, no excuse. I go to a very small school with a smaller christian populace. Most girls come in as freshmen with a boyfriend at home. As a result of this, I run game and tease, through dance I have learned to escalate through touch but I still won't steal another man't girl. Just no that kind of guy. My church is also very small with all girls who aren't a land whale are taken. It is pretty standard to expect a wedding soon if you see a young couple sitting together. They don't wait around…
/r/TheRedPill05/01/16 12:30 AM
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I can relate to this post a lot and can confirm how all Christian girls want an Alpha. I was raised to be a nice guy. My dad always told me, "the right girl will come along, just be patient and trust in God." Never mind the fact that he married at 35 to my mother who just got out of a divorce. He was even set up for the date by a mutual friend. He lied to my mother about being a Christian and didn't get saved until I was 2. I am fortunate that I learned many RP mannerisms through martial arts as…
/r/TheRedPill04/01/16 11:54 PM
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Not with traditional east coast swing. West coast allows for a more advanced lead such as myself to just spin the girl in many different and complicated looking patterns (they aren't complex at all). West coast is very forgiving for the follow. She literally can't screw up if the lead knows how to compensate. With this said, the learning curve for the lead (man) is steep. I should have prefaced that I don't go to clubs without some sort of dance floor. This preselects that they are there to danc…
/r/TheRedPill27/12/15 01:22 AM
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I learned swing dancing in college. Best thing i ever did. West Coast swing can be done to any music. I can grab any reasonably sober chick at a club and make her feel/look like a million bucks. Game gets SOOO much easier when she is coming off that emotional dance high. Another poster also noted that pregame dancing with a few chicks helps. I can confirm. I deliberately "orbit" a female friend of mine. i don't hit on her or anything but simply take her with me when i go out since she know how t…
/r/TheRedPill27/12/15 01:10 AM
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I only have snap chat and only use it to show how awesome my life is. I only look at my bro's stories for the same reason - they are the only ones with anything interesting.
/r/askTRP19/12/15 02:24 AM
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I've honestly never been a fan of BJJ. I know a guy who does it and his argument is all fights eventually go to the ground - a valid statement. I'm a shorter guy but I still find MMA the best solution for "clean" fights with good cardio. However, Krav Maga is what you want if you are looking to just beat the crap out of anybody who pisses you off. Is is so efficient that it won't be much of a work out.
/r/askTRP19/12/15 02:19 AM
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I myself do west coast swing. It is very challenging with a high learning curve, but to the average chick at the club, any guy with 6 hours of dance under his belt is a better dancer than the rest. If you want a challenge, do west. If you want to pick up something relatively quick, try east coast, though more onus goes on the girl to know what is happening so it is harder to do at a club.
/r/askTRP15/12/15 10:38 PM
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I like the liquid analogy. Oil and water don't mix. Don't conform as it is helpful to neither participants.
/r/TheRedPill10/12/15 07:14 PM
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Most patterns are a 6 count yes. They way we get around it is using the 6 count to stay in sync and hit the main eat drops. In my career club, we don't focus on staying on beat but use styling to accentuate the major themes of the song. An amateur girl won't notice, as she will generally just be impressed that you don't step on her feet.
/r/TheRedPill01/12/15 12:26 AM
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I do east as well. East is more "bouncy" and you are always are arms length. This doesn't encourage kino like WCS. WCS is much more fluid and sensual as you can tell. I'm in the Midwest, location has nothing to do with it. Des Moines is a little empty I hear, but west is just style terminology. Ask you club. I learned at school and west was not as popular bc it was "an east club". This forced me to look outside and go to career memberships like i talked about. As your swing club, Michael Kiehm i…
/r/TheRedPill30/11/15 06:20 PM
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Excellent point on the "no talk just dance" opener. I don't offer my hand usually. I literally make eye contact from 5 feet away -most gals stand at the edge of the dance floor, when I'm done with one girl I pick the next one out before the next song has started- point to her with a smirk on my face and do the "come hither" motion with my finger. This even works in groups. My favorite thing to do is find a group of 5 girls, pick up one and try her out. If she interests me, I do game. If not I pa…
/r/TheRedPill19/11/15 11:40 PM
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I think the importance of knowing how to dance here are TRP is understated. I've seen on asktrp how dancing doesn't help as the girls add sexuality to every dance - which is true. However, you don't have to just dance with other swing dancers (though it does make it more fun). When people think of swing they think of 1920's-1950's syle music with Charleston line dances and very bouncy music. Curious OP, what style of swing do you do? I advocate learning all styles with a heavy emphasis on West C…
/r/TheRedPill19/11/15 10:12 PM
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I don't go to a club that doesn't have dancing (think country bars - not humping in a group). All the girls there are there to dance so I go up to a group of at least 3 girls and grab the closest 1 to me and do a song. I talk her up during fancy spins and dips like no guy every does to her because they are all drunk. After that, if I don't like her I grab her friend. Dancing around is expected at these places so you get no judgment. I've been told to dance with her friends. If we have a connecti…
/r/askTRP14/11/15 06:05 PM
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MMA is by far the best with the possible exception of Krav Maga. Krav Maga will win you any fight, but its so efficient that you won't really tone. You basically fight dirty and win withing 15 seconds. MMA has a set establishment of rules but it is still very strenuous and quite dangerous. I know MMA and would get killed by a level 1 Krav Maga student simply because they don't "Play by the rules." I just don't have a gym near me that teaches it sadly.
/r/askTRP14/11/15 05:58 PM
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Same here. Before I swallowed the pill is wasn't jacked but still thinner than most guys. I was online for 4 years and got a grand total of 2 messages from girls cold. Maybe 10 responded to my messages. After swallowing the pill I deleted my profile and went for a more traditional "day game" approach.
/r/TheRedPill13/11/15 10:03 PM
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I'm all for helping a person out on the side of the road. My sister can't change a tire, she can't break the nuts. However, I would NEVER hand a random person - no matter how hot she is - my hard earned money. I'm curious if this girl asked for the cash or this Beta offered it freely like he did his balls.
/r/TheRedPill02/11/15 04:32 PM
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