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I know somehow I was the asshole though for holding her phone number hostage, lol. I was like bitch you used shit I paid for to talk to other men, meet, and god knows what else. Then when I said I don't even care what is on the phone, I just don't want to pay 600 dollars for it...damn right I was keeping something she seemed to show concern about.
/r/Divorce_Men19/05/26 11:13 PM
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Consult a lawyer, but don't let her hook you for shit like that. I still owed like 600 bucks on my exe's cell phone lease. She refused to give it back to me unlocked so I could turn it for a refund (I had to buy it out). I refused to give her phone number back to her, lol. I eventually got the phone back, but she locked it so I couldn't even turn it back in. Glad I didn't give her back the phone number, I got petty due to more lies being exposed.
/r/Divorce_Men17/05/26 12:57 AM
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No, the person she pretended or presented to me was not the person I ended up marrying. It's my fault too though, since I saw some red flags, but figured they could easily be explained away. I remember two weeks before my wedding, one of my close friends and I went for drinks. He asked me "You sure you really want to do this man?" My response to him was "I don't know, lol". There was a lot of stuff too that happened and I would have felt bad backing out since her mom got cancer unexpectedly and …
/r/Divorce_Men17/05/26 12:48 AM
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Yea, that's the cliff notes. They probably were friends too, lol. I mean my house is cluttered now, but that's cause I live alone and don't really care. There is a difference between cluttered and filth though where trash won't be taken out, dirty dishes, and shit like that.
/r/Divorce_Men10/05/26 03:31 PM
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My ex-wife claimed this too and she was the violent one. She broke a door window, threw things at me, and physically assaulted me a few times. Usually when it involved exposing her lies then confronting her about them. I remember one time we got into a huge fight over shit I found out she did, so she called her brother who was with a friend of theirs for an audience. He called the cops and she was rubbing it in my face how I was going to go jail and all this shit. I waited till she left the room…
/r/Divorce_Men08/05/26 02:30 PM
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Coming home to a gross house, her laying on the couch, and complaining about some non-existent shit. While, her spoiled fucking kid sat around playing video games. Nothing is worse then in a loveless, sexless marriage, and then dreading walking through the front door. I used to stay at work longer just to avoid coming home. Not to mention the things I found out she was doing during the day after coming home from her part-time job, while I worked to support everything.
/r/Divorce_Men08/05/26 02:21 PM
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I been in a better mental place since my divorce. I haven't dated or hooked up with anyone in the years since. The sporadic contact I've had with my ex though confirmed the revenge played itself out without my assistance at all. The dude she was still in love with reached out to me and confirmed things with me. She got back with an orbiter dude that was in love with her since high school. She lied to be about having cancer a year after the divorce and tons of other lies I found out about after t…
/r/Divorce_Men26/02/26 01:04 AM
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I wouldn't say you missed the flags, but you chose to ignore them like I, you, and 1000's of others have. I do agree with most of your points my ex-wife was nearly all you describe except overweight, she used to fat shame people including me too. I started getting fat when I was married due to depression and not caring. I've lost about 50 pounds though over the past 2.5 years. How they talk about their "friends" is another sign. My ex had a new best friend every other week and align her beliefs …
/r/Divorce_Men26/02/26 12:50 AM
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Don't do a fucking trial separation. I fell for that shit and it was a waste of two years of my life and ended up costing me more money, stress, and pain. If she's acting that way now when you are under the same roof the behavior will stay the same or just get worse. She's either checked out or has someone else on the side most likely whether it's physical or emotional.
/r/Divorce_Men22/02/26 06:21 AM
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Yea, unfortunately I didn't do my due diligence fully and should have got the 330xi. They moved their lower models to four cylinder turbos. I did do some internal upgrades like cluster and interior trim, but I do like the car a lot.
/r/Divorce_Men02/02/26 11:38 PM
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You're probably going to get bent over in spousal support or alimony. My ex-wife was similar had part-time jobs or shitty teaching positions. She wanted to get her master's degree, so I was fine with that and we agreed as long as she was in school full-time it was fine. Of course I couldn't point out I went to school full-time while in the military or night school four days a week when I go out working full-time. Well, I got fucked when it came to support. They took our salaries and based on dif…
/r/Divorce_Men02/02/26 11:15 PM
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Well, I didn't get an M8 just a used F30 328xi. She did make shitty comments to me about "nice new car". Prior to that she got the new cars or I drove a beater that I kept running.
/r/Divorce_Men02/02/26 11:02 PM
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I been free of my abuser for about 6.5 years. I've lost about 60 pounds, increased my salary 85K, and financially better off. Love and relationships are lacking though, since I haven't dated in like 10 years or had sex in like 7 or 8 years. I'm 44 too with no children and leery of ever dating another single mom again. I have done some traveling and enjoy being alone after being in a toxic relationship for awhile. Also everything I thought or figured would happen has come to fruition. I figured s…
/r/Divorce_Men02/02/26 01:30 AM
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I wouldn't say not broke, but I made out 'ok' I suppose. I owned my home before, but she was entitled to the equity increase while married. I pretty much agreed to whatever she wanted to keep her cheating, lying, and greedy ass away from my home equity and 401k equity. I had to take all the debt, pay off the car, give her the car, and 2K a month of alimony for a year. It's been a little over six years and my house has increased by like 200k, my 401k 100K, and my salary has increased by 85k. More…
/r/Divorce_Men02/02/26 01:12 AM
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Yea, man I had similar issues with mine and they even sent over some copy/pasted documents from another case without updating the details. I was beyond pissed off and then they never sent me notification about a time sensitive doc, until I reached about something else and the secretary asked me about it. Once they get that deposit and run it up, then they don't give a shit anymore. My home was pre-marital too, what they should have done is get an appraisal before marriage, during marriage, and n…
/r/Divorce_Men09/01/26 08:21 AM
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Were you married for at least 10 years? She could be entitled to 50% of your military retirement pay. The same applies for SSN I believe too when it comes to retirement.
/r/Divorce_Men29/12/24 08:27 AM
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Wow, I didn't have any of my own kids with my ex-wife thank fucking god. But, they must have came from the same pod. My ex-wife told my mom and other people that I raped her. She made up stories of me abusing her and not letting her leave the house. She told one of her ex-bfs who I am pretty sure she cheated on me with. That she had to punch me in the face and kick me in the stomach twice in order to escape my grasp...like wtf. She made up a whole story about a pre-teen her son was friends with …
/r/Divorce_Men29/12/24 08:06 AM
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Yep, I was also assaulted once when confronting her about some of her lies.
/r/Divorce_Men07/04/24 06:49 AM
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As difficult as it is. I would not take anything someone you are divorcing says to you, unless it's the most amicable divorce on the planet. My ex would say things she knew that would hurt me just to hurt me on purpose.
/r/Divorce_Men18/03/24 12:24 PM
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/r/Divorce_Men23/08/22 08:19 AM
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My ex-wife tried this shit when I caught her talking to another man. She called her brother up who lived with one of her ex-bfs who is back with now and settling with. She called them up, so they could hear us fight and then her brother called the police on me. I was prepared for what she was going to do though. I opened all the blinds to the windows, sat on the couch, and made sure I would have line of sight when the cops came and they would have it of me. She proceeded to sit down on the couch…
/r/Divorce_Men12/06/22 10:57 PM
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Not sure if she did that, she is weird like that. her brother stole the wedding ring and pawned it for drug money. she got that back too apparently calling me up crying. I said something again like. I am glad losing a ring affected you more deeply than destroying our marriage. now though it's spilled milk, i'd rather she did pawn it.
/r/Divorce_Men29/05/22 08:49 AM
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Yep and that is not even 1% of the shit I went through or found out. Once one of the AP contacted me though the circle was completed and I had a lot of missing parts filled in or things I thought were true. I knew I was not crazy, but to have actual proof showing it was liberating it was like my sanity was handed back to me.
/r/Divorce_Men26/05/22 04:41 PM
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I spent 5 years and I think my ex was NPD, ASPD, and/or histrionic. Her AP sent me her Reddit username and she was claiming in those actual sub-reddits that she was a narc, manipulator, and all kinds of shit. When I confronted her about that she went crazy on me and said it wasn't true.
/r/Divorce_Men26/05/22 07:39 AM
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Yes, I paid off the car, gave it to her, and gave up the equity in it. I kept my paid off car prior to the marriage and a car her parents gave me before we got married. But, the car was something she wanted very badly and seemed to think I cared about it, lol. I ended up buying a used 328i after the winter car I had finally crapped out. When she saw that she got all pissed off at me, lol. I haven't bought a car since 2005 other than hers.
/r/Divorce_Men26/05/22 07:35 AM
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I gave the succubus a family heirloom ring like an idiot. I have asked for it back several times and she claims she has sentimental attachment to it. But, treated me like shit most of the marriage, lol.
/r/Divorce_Men26/05/22 07:08 AM
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