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| 2 | Where do you go once you've 'made it by faking it'? This excellent TED Talk will take you to the next level. Brené Brown: The power of vulnerability | smokintreesinatree | /r/seduction | 27/07/12 05:44 PM | |
| 0 | Flirting while high.. : trees | smokintreesinatree | /r/seduction | 02/08/12 05:23 PM |
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| 2 | I'm an Introvert! Help me out!your quoatibility is freaking me the fuck out | /r/seduction | 12/08/12 10:42 AM |
| 1 | I'm an Introvert! Help me out!your post is stressing me out! | /r/seduction | 12/08/12 10:21 AM |
| 1 | Experienced PUAs of Seddit: NOBODY has been able to help me with this; I keep pulling girls home to my bed but... no sexy time.https://www.google.com/search?q=last+minute+resistance | /r/seduction | 10/08/12 08:10 PM |
| 1 | [FR] One success and one failure from a D2 yesterdayi love the conditional raincheck, stealing it | /r/seduction | 10/08/12 07:25 PM |
| 1 | [FR] One success and one failure from a D2 yesterdayshe probably has a boyfriend or something. when she made the first objection in the car, i'd have said "why, is your boyfriend coming home earlier than expected?" but anyway. next time a girl doesn't wanna do something, don't make her do it. until you know what you're doing, she should always be the one who wants your company more than you want hers. people on here spend a lot of time worrying about coming across as an "AFC", but not enough time avoiding coming across as a "THG" (typical horny g… | /r/seduction | 10/08/12 07:24 PM |
| 4 | Experienced PUAs of Seddit: NOBODY has been able to help me with this; I keep pulling girls home to my bed but... no sexy time.it's either she has a boyfriend or she's afraid you're only interested in her for sex, so once she sleeps with you, she may never see you again. what follows is a solution for the latter. when she rejects your sexual advances, just smile, say no problem, we can just watch tv or whatever. just turn the lights on and do something boring, or put something boring on tv, and don't give her much physical affection (but don't be cold, either). when she asks why, just say "oh babe, i'm not upset at all!… | /r/seduction | 10/08/12 07:04 PM |
| 5 | Talk to muchstart relating to the emotions behind their stories, not just the content. for example: "oh you fed the elephants at the zoo? that must have felt so <insert>! whenever i want to feel that way, i <insert>." also, ask more open-ended questions, ask them to expand on things, etc. | /r/seduction | 10/08/12 06:58 PM |
| 2 | Does the fact that dating/pick-up is all a number's game depress anybody else?It doesn't matter how much you are interested/attracted to a woman...it doesn't matter how much you have in common or the connection you may have...it all boils down to a statistical percentage statistics are just a way for us to account for variables when we don't understand how they fit into the equation. all the things you listed improve the odds of your getting those digits, as well as bunch of other things we can't account for. She wasn't interested (she didn't say that, but she just never … | /r/seduction | 10/08/12 11:05 AM |
| 2 | Am I making eye contact correctly?http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ior3iIXjMTU | /r/seduction | 09/08/12 08:53 AM |
| 1 | How do you manage more than one/ a few relationships at the same time and avoid relationship status ?yeah they will have some good experience-based advice for how to get mono girls to accept your polyamorous lifestyle. | /r/seduction | 09/08/12 08:38 AM |
| 1 | How do you manage more than one/ a few relationships at the same time and avoid relationship status ?xpost this to /r/polyamory edit: not /r/polygamy | /r/seduction | 09/08/12 08:19 AM |
| 4 | In conversation remindersyou shouldn't be consciously remembering stuff like that. just pick one new thing to practice each day. | /r/seduction | 09/08/12 04:46 AM |
| 1 | Beginner Protip: Turn off the text tone for your phonelove this | /r/seduction | 08/08/12 01:20 PM |
| 1 | Seddit, what are your go-to questions/ jokes/ games etc. to spark life back into a dying conversation?touché. | /r/seduction | 08/08/12 10:35 AM |
| 1 | Seddit, what are your go-to questions/ jokes/ games etc. to spark life back into a dying conversation?this is a great question! it's super general, but it's specific enough to be easy to answer, plus it's fun! i'm asking everyone i meet this from now on. | /r/seduction | 08/08/12 10:23 AM |
| 1 | Seddit, what are your go-to questions/ jokes/ games etc. to spark life back into a dying conversation?you need to say it in a way that makes it obvious you don't give a shit if she responds negatively. | /r/seduction | 08/08/12 10:21 AM |
| 1 | Beginner Protip: Turn off the text tone for your phonewow, this takes me back. i'm a bit ashamed to say that i've done this, and that it works. some phones will even let you put calls from specific numbers on silent, too. just don't tell her it's on silent, though, or she'll realize that you're still responding as soon as you see it. | /r/seduction | 08/08/12 10:06 AM |
| 1 | How to use my birthdayone fun thing that women do at bachelorette parties is they play games that have all the women talk to all the guys in the bar. within an hour, the whole bar is super social and everyone knows all the girls. i've never seen guys do anything like this, but i think it could work. | /r/seduction | 08/08/12 09:05 AM |
| 1 | Wanted some opinions on females that can go toe to toe with you? (Alpha Female?)EDIT: Thought about this more, a specific question I have is how do you get a alpha female you are in a "game war" with out of tactical mode around you so you can have the possibility of something deeper? Do I put down my weapons first? yes, just compliment her on her skills. tell her you find that sexy in her. she'll assume that you only date fiesty girls like her. | /r/seduction | 08/08/12 08:58 AM |
| 3 | HELP! Need to learn how to dance by Fridayyou won't make yourself into a great dancer, so just embrace your shitty dancing and have fun with it. you just don't want to appear conscious of or concerned with your bad dancing, that's the worst. you don't even have to dance, though. i just say something like "you know that energy inside you that's feeding off of the music and just wants you to release it on the dance floor? yeah, i wish i felt that! as soon as i do, you better be ready." | /r/seduction | 08/08/12 08:26 AM |
| 1 | Wanted some opinions on females that can go toe to toe with you? (Alpha Female?)nice. these women are seductive, they know it, they get off on it, so do i, and so do you apparently. when you recognize she's running game, feeding you a line, etc., just smile and say "respek", or otherwise compliment her on her highly refined skills. the biggest thing on her mind right now will be fear of your being judgmental, so you need to be positive and open-minded, this is a bad time to get jealous. if she's open to it she might provide you with some game wisdom. | /r/seduction | 08/08/12 04:32 AM |
| 1 | Flirting while high.. : treeswhy are you so desperate for advice right now? how about you go to that topic and be a giver for once in your life? don't embarrass us, buddy. | /r/seduction | 02/08/12 09:14 PM |
| 1 | How Embracing Vulnerability Can Make You Infinitely More Confident (And End Up Hurting You Less In The Long Run.)nice i'll check it out, thanks! | /r/seduction | 29/07/12 05:22 PM |
| 4 | As a girl stumbling upon this subreddit, this is how most of these pickup techniques would make me feel IRL.take it easy. i know, it's ironic that so much effort is expended researching, reshearsing, analyzing, etc., to create the appearance that no effort is being expended. but how about you try mentoring someone that comes here for help. what are you gonna tell them? "just be yourself!"? they've heard that before. they're here for a jumpstart, and these robotic pre-prepared dialogues and behavaiors are just that. a jumpstart. they worked for me, and they work for lots of lonely guys who never learne… | /r/seduction | 29/07/12 02:54 PM |
| 1 | How should a man approach a woman at a yoga class?i've gotten so used to being direct with my interest that i feel like any time i'm not expressing it i'm saying "hey i'm just your friend", but that's probably my own insecurities. | /r/seduction | 29/07/12 02:23 PM |
| 1 | How should a man approach a woman at a yoga class?i guess i might be overly cautious on this one | /r/seduction | 29/07/12 02:16 PM |
| 2 | How should a man approach a woman at a yoga class?a lot of guys are so careful to show absolutely no interest, bc they're deathly afraid of rejection, that when they finally show interest after building up rapport, it just doesn't make sense. it's quite common. | /r/seduction | 29/07/12 02:13 PM |
| 1 | How should a man approach a woman at a yoga class?oh that's what you meant by 5 minutes. probably not to that extent, but she might see you as more of a potential friend than a potential lover. | /r/seduction | 29/07/12 02:05 PM |
| 2 | How should a man approach a woman at a yoga class?Yes. I am talking about 5 minute segments, though. Not half an hour. can you explain what you mean? And you don't get friendzoned before AFTER the first date. It's on the first date you escalate. If you are not able to escalate on the first date, things gets complicated. guy asks girl for first date, girl says "but we're friends! i see you as a friend! i'm sorry! now it's awkward!" | /r/seduction | 29/07/12 01:49 PM |
| 9 | How should a man approach a woman at a yoga class?here's the problems with building rapport before showing interest. women can sense this shit. she's gonna know he's into her but too scared to hit on her like an alphamale. and when he eventually hits on her later, it'll just confirm it. also, building rapport before showing sexual interest is the most common way guys get friendzoned. | /r/seduction | 29/07/12 01:45 PM |
| 2 | How should a man approach a woman at a yoga class?why would it be awkward? if she says "oh sorry i have a boyfriend!" and he says "oh, no problem! far be it for me to interfere with a happy couple. it was nice to meet you! take care!" (smiling, waving, turning body language away, waiting for her to say bye so he can walk away) it would not be awkward at all at the next class. the only way it would be awkward is if he said the same shit to another girl in the same class the next week. | /r/seduction | 29/07/12 01:40 PM |
| 1 | How should a man approach a woman at a yoga class?after class, smile, eye contact, hi, pause, sincere compliment, exchange names, tell her you find her attractive, ask her if she has 10 minutes after you guys get cleaned up in the locker room to grab a smoothie (or whatever) | /r/seduction | 29/07/12 11:59 AM |
| 2 | For Sedditors like me who often get tongue tied and keep hitting conversational walls, is there any sort of life hack or list of ideal responses and how to keep a dead conversation alive?nice! | /r/seduction | 29/07/12 10:49 AM |
| 1 | For Sedditors like me who often get tongue tied and keep hitting conversational walls, is there any sort of life hack or list of ideal responses and how to keep a dead conversation alive?i think the key is to get better at reading their emotions. it's not easy, because people hide their emotions to minimize their vulnerability. it sucks when you make them cry, that's the worst. making them upset and yelling at you is fine, because you can let them vent, then apologize sincerely and say you respect them for standing up for themselves, you really like that about them. | /r/seduction | 29/07/12 10:26 AM |
| 2 | Am I the only one here who does this with girls who have boyfriends?well poly people would call that cheating, because it's purposefully misleading someone into thinking you're monogamous with them when you're not | /r/seduction | 29/07/12 10:03 AM |
| 0 | Am I the only one here who does this with girls who have boyfriends?women in relationships in general do that all the time... it's just something women do, but i'd think poly women would be way less likely to do it. i don't know for sure, though. | /r/seduction | 29/07/12 09:47 AM |
| 4 | Am I the only one here who does this with girls who have boyfriends?poly people are generally dedicated to remaining completely honest in all of their relationships. | /r/seduction | 29/07/12 09:16 AM |
| 3 | Does intelligence help in attraction?no, because you overanalyze shit and that fucks you up. | /r/seduction | 29/07/12 08:35 AM |
| 5 | How should a man approach a woman at a yoga class?are you in the class? | /r/seduction | 29/07/12 08:25 AM |
| 3 | On letting godamn i'm not even sure this is possible. i went through the same thing, it was an exciting, yet bumpy ride. it taught me a lot, though. now i find myself doing/saying to girls the same things she did/said to me. and it's gold. | /r/seduction | 29/07/12 08:00 AM |
| -1 | Am I the only one here who does this with girls who have boyfriends?funny thing is, he was being a douche, and i didn't downvote him. and his original comment of "this belongs in /r/dating advice because it's not about seduction" made no sense, because we were talking about friendship. but i guess a lot of people who get cheated on come to seddit to try to regain the power in their relationships, and my comments just poured some salt in their wounds. | /r/seduction | 29/07/12 07:46 AM |
| 0 | Am I the only one here who does this with girls who have boyfriends?complicated? chicks with bfs/husbands want usualy casual sex only. the simpler the better, for them. | /r/seduction | 29/07/12 07:39 AM |
| 0 | Am I the only one here who does this with girls who have boyfriends?If she has a strong desire to be faithful and monogamous with her boyfriend yup. this is how they let you know they're willing to cheat. you clearly express sexual interest in her after you know she has a bf, and then she criticizes her bf. | /r/seduction | 29/07/12 07:38 AM |
| 0 | Am I the only one here who does this with girls who have boyfriends?yea, no cheating with hood chicks. | /r/seduction | 29/07/12 07:36 AM |
| 1 | Am I the only one here who does this with girls who have boyfriends?i'm in an open relationship and we use boyfriend/girlfriend. girls in relationships of anykind, though, often lie and say they're single to avoid scaring you off. | /r/seduction | 29/07/12 07:35 AM |
| -2 | Am I the only one here who does this with girls who have boyfriends?not a waste of time AT ALL! women cheat more than men, you just have to be discreet and not get them in trouble. | /r/seduction | 29/07/12 07:23 AM |
| -1 | How to proceed when all you have is her facebook?she wouldn't have said to add her on fb if she was open to going on a date. the only exceptions would be 1) if her phone is broken, or 2) if she has a boyfriend who checks her phone, shares a phone bill with, or who might get suspicious if she's texting/calling someone new. girls cheat more than guys, so don't get scared off if it turns out to be a boyfriend. unless he's violent. | /r/seduction | 29/07/12 07:20 AM |
| -2 | Am I the only one here who does this with girls who have boyfriends?be honest. how many people downvoting the "share and share alike" opinions are butthurt because they've been cuckolded? | /r/seduction | 29/07/12 07:09 AM |
| 1 | Am I the only one here who does this with girls who have boyfriends?it's not your girl, it's just your turn. | /r/seduction | 29/07/12 06:45 AM |
| 6 | For Sedditors like me who often get tongue tied and keep hitting conversational walls, is there any sort of life hack or list of ideal responses and how to keep a dead conversation alive?i needed to learn the hard way how to balance my teasing, i think most people do. made some chicks cry. | /r/seduction | 29/07/12 06:25 AM |
| 4 | For Sedditors like me who often get tongue tied and keep hitting conversational walls, is there any sort of life hack or list of ideal responses and how to keep a dead conversation alive?here's an exercise to get good at telling a story about anything. if you can't think of anything to say, just tell a story about the last thing she said. if you can't remember, point at something nearby and be like "oh shit! a _____! i love those things, this one time ..." exercise: http://www.reddit.com/r/askseddit/comments/xaedw/i_know_how_to_talk_to_people_but_not_what/c5km5bm | /r/seduction | 29/07/12 06:25 AM |
| -17 | Am I the only one here who does this with girls who have boyfriends?i didn't downvote you, douche. | /r/seduction | 29/07/12 04:02 AM |
| -7 | Am I the only one here who does this with girls who have boyfriends?he's talking about being friends with her. why would you be friends with someone whom you don't respect? | /r/seduction | 29/07/12 03:59 AM |
| 2 | [FR] Staring out with daygamegood points | /r/seduction | 29/07/12 12:51 AM |
| -21 | Am I the only one here who does this with girls who have boyfriends?agreed | /r/seduction | 29/07/12 12:12 AM |
| 1 | arswcute. | /r/seduction | 29/07/12 12:01 AM |
| 1 | What does it mean when you're maintaining great eye contact, but the girl is looking all over the place?oh i didn't mention, if your eye contact is too strong, she could feel uncomfortable returning it. holding eye contact is super-aggressive in a lot of cultures, too. | /r/seduction | 28/07/12 11:34 PM |
| 1 | Recently became attractive, still not alpha enough, please help !i'm proud of ya dude! | /r/seduction | 28/07/12 11:26 PM |
| 29 | Am I the only one here who does this with girls who have boyfriends?it's usually the cheaters themselves who are paranoid and untrusting. watch out for that, big red flag. | /r/seduction | 28/07/12 11:16 PM |
| 10 | Recently became attractive, still not alpha enough, please help !you know what the definition of being alpha is, really? it's not thinking about who you "should" be, and just being. not trying to manipulate the outcomes of interactions, and just going along for the ride. good or bad, whatever happens will hopefully at least be interesting. some girls will bring out your playful side (usually extroverts), some girls will bring out your serious side. it doesn't matter which one you are, as long as it's not done with desperation. | /r/seduction | 28/07/12 11:14 PM |
| 1 | Starting in a new citydo you enjoy playing any sports, even if poorly? | /r/seduction | 28/07/12 10:58 PM |
| 2 | [FR] Outcome Independence: Another "I've just had an amazing night of sex so now I'm giving you advice" postdude. high five! | /r/seduction | 28/07/12 10:57 PM |
| -32 | Am I the only one here who does this with girls who have boyfriends?but don't you disrespect her for her vile cheating ways? | /r/seduction | 28/07/12 10:56 PM |
| -10 | Am I the only one here who does this with girls who have boyfriends?everyone has the urge to cheat, who cares if the only reason they didn't do it is they didn't wanna get in trouble? once you get over it and stop trying to control your girlfriends' actions, it stops being hypocrisy. | /r/seduction | 28/07/12 10:42 PM |
| 2 | [FR] Staring out with daygamecool dude, good luck. try to take a (pref female) friend with you next time to watch your bodylanguage, that might be where you're going wrong | /r/seduction | 28/07/12 10:04 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Staring out with daygameyes, or just walk over to the group and say "hey guys, your friend over here is really cute, i wanted to meet her. is it okay with you if i borrow talk to her for a couple minutes?" | /r/seduction | 28/07/12 09:05 PM |
| 11 | [FR] Staring out with daygamenice effort, dude! where are you doing this, the street? the best place for street game is places where people wander around. areas with lots of stores and maybe a nice view or something where people are just walking slowly, wandering, window shopping, chatting, whatever. good places for daygame are anywhere your day takes you. the mall is good, especially since you're in hs. tons of jailbait in there, and it's a bit more social. see a girl who catches your eye in bebe or something, just walk in… | /r/seduction | 28/07/12 08:54 PM |
| 1 | Seddit, how do you guys qualify women to make sure they aren't batshit insane or psycho?there might be some truth to this.. | /r/seduction | 28/07/12 07:52 PM |
| 1 | Question: A girl said I should send her (nude) pics..What exactly should I do that's not weird or creepy?? [NSFW]what is there to hide? chances are she's already picked up on your true thoughts already, anyway. women get a sense about these things. by hiding them, you're coming across as needy. desperate for approval. by being an open book, not playing any games, you come across as secure and confident. | /r/seduction | 28/07/12 07:01 PM |
| 1 | Is it possible to act too selective and distant if you've already established she is attracted to you?ohhh i thought you wanted to text them but were holding back to avoid being needy. well then, you're already winning by not playing games. they're frustrated because they're not getting their way. tease them about it, flirt with them. 'you're so spoiled, you're lucky i'm attracted to you', etc edit: another good line is "does that usually work?", and you can get a running joke going with "babe, are you trying new lines out on me?" and when she tries to manipulate you, tell her how good of a line… | /r/seduction | 28/07/12 06:40 PM |
| 3 | What does it mean when you're maintaining great eye contact, but the girl is looking all over the place?chances are she's bored with the convo and just would feel bad ending it. if you don't think that's it, though, just ask her who she's looking for. she'll explain why she's looking around, and you can talk about that. | /r/seduction | 28/07/12 06:31 PM |
| 1 | Question: A girl said I should send her (nude) pics..What exactly should I do that's not weird or creepy?? [NSFW]angle the camera to the side or something so it's not too revealing. take a bunch of pics and pick one that looks good but wouldnt have to be blurred out on primetime tv. then, tell her to send a pic doing the same pose, naked, and you'll advise her on her form edit: that's actually asking a lot. she prob wouldn't want to send a full body naked pic. if you do decide to send her this (and you shouldn't feel like you have to), then i don't really know where to go next... edit2: duh, make it sexual… | /r/seduction | 28/07/12 06:24 PM |
| -1 | Seddit, how do you guys qualify women to make sure they aren't batshit insane or psycho?all women are crazy, especially the single ones. and they're good at hiding it, too. | /r/seduction | 28/07/12 06:22 PM |
| 1 | Is it possible to act too selective and distant if you've already established she is attracted to you?you're both playing games. but you have to keep in mind, she's had more experience than you, and you still haven't fucked her, so she has the advantage. how do you win in this situation? you simply say 'i'm not going to play games', that automatically makes you superior. to answer your overall question though, once she's attracted to you, you should focus on finding a way to express your genuine attraction to her based on something other than her looks. once you do that, it lets her be super slu… | /r/seduction | 28/07/12 06:19 PM |
| 1 | Need help w something fairly minor.it's usually best to do non-appearance related compliments, but sincerity is really the most important thing so see how it goes | /r/seduction | 28/07/12 02:10 PM |
| 1 | Moving to a whole new state for community college: Picking up CC girls."hi, there! i was just on my way to class, and i wanted to stop and tell you, that you are really cute!" if she says something, just wing it from there. if she just stares at you, she's probably trying to figure out if you're serious or just fucking with her. introduce yourself and do the whole getting-to-know you chit-chat. | /r/seduction | 28/07/12 09:55 AM |
| 2 | Need help w something fairly minor.don't use a height-related nickname, too predictable. just wait until you get to know her a bit better and see what things she loves.. favorite fruit is a peach? call her peaches. something will come to you. don't feel rushed, if she asks what her nickname is, just say you haven't gotten to know her well enough to come up with an accurate one. | /r/seduction | 28/07/12 09:44 AM |
| 2 | Getting Introverted Girlsty, frient! | /r/seduction | 28/07/12 08:26 AM |
| 11 | [FR] Went to the mall today, Epic Fail :(dude don't you dare beat yourself up over this, you actualy went out! lots of people don't even make it out the door! next time, forget all that rigid body language. if you aren't comfortable, girls will sense it. just stand normally, and the only thing you should change is shift your focus to your shoulders once in a while and let them drop, bc you'll probably find that they're tensed up. now, there's no reason why you have to start out approaching hot girls. you know why that's a bad idea? bec… | /r/seduction | 28/07/12 05:48 AM |
| 1 | So I have the opportunity with many "potentials", don't know where to go from thereyeah i dont know, something like "dude, you're so much fun, and i'm sensitive about my personal space, please don't grab on me like that." (smile) <back to normal convo> | /r/seduction | 28/07/12 05:36 AM |
| 9 | Getting Introverted Girlsmy experience confirms this | /r/seduction | 28/07/12 04:48 AM |
| 4 | How exactly do I become a: genuine, respectful, classy, alpha, gentleman without coming across as needy/desperate?it's a long journey, and it's different for everyone. you have to experience different kinds of relationships. date a girl way out of your league who you're obsessed with, then date someone who's obsessed with you and you don't give a shit about. seeing relationships from both of those perspectives teaches you a lot. you won't find that in a book. also. make some genuine friendships with hot slutty girls. getting an unobstructed view into that world will change your perspective forever. to be 'a… | /r/seduction | 28/07/12 02:11 AM |
| 4 | Getting Introverted Girlsis thise code for fob asians? im guessing you're usually playful/bantery with the extroverts? try going in direct/genuine/low energy with the introverts. the whole time you're talking to them, they'll be trying to figure out whether you're a player or you're being sincere. so, give them your full attention, and treat them with kid gloves, in a gentlemanly way. let them know right away you're attracted, and go right into rapport. | /r/seduction | 28/07/12 02:03 AM |
| 1 | Oneitis Is The Easy Way Out, And The True Contributing Factors To Oneitiscongrats dude! it's a hard process but totally worth it in the end. | /r/seduction | 28/07/12 01:44 AM |
| 2 | So I have the opportunity with many "potentials", don't know where to go from thereyeah i know dude, it's scary to put yourself out there, but once you say that magic word "sexy", it's all easy. she's either gonna be really attracted to you and willing to pretty much follow your lead, or she'll back off, in which case you saved yourself some time talking to a chick who wasn't gonna be into you anyway. | /r/seduction | 27/07/12 11:58 PM |
| 1 | So I have the opportunity with many "potentials", don't know where to go from therewell, when you first meet them at the party, thats when you do the stuff i said (unless their boyfriend is around). don't wait until facebook, then it's a lot harder | /r/seduction | 27/07/12 11:37 PM |
| 1 | So I have the opportunity with many "potentials", don't know where to go from thereoh do it in person for sure! you see them at school or something right? | /r/seduction | 27/07/12 11:09 PM |
| 1 | How Embracing Vulnerability Can Make You Infinitely More Confident (And End Up Hurting You Less In The Long Run.)yeah it's a great talk, you'll enjoy it | /r/seduction | 27/07/12 10:51 PM |
| 1 | How Embracing Vulnerability Can Make You Infinitely More Confident (And End Up Hurting You Less In The Long Run.)yeah, and it's the ultimate show of confidence. at the end of the day, if you're avoiding being vulnerable, it's out of fear. you should do a follow-up post in the form of your takeaways and tangential thoughts from this ted talk https://www.ted.com/talks/brene_brown_on_vulnerability.html? | /r/seduction | 27/07/12 10:38 PM |
| 1 | Go on a cruiseare you going on singles cruises? how much do these run? | /r/seduction | 27/07/12 10:29 PM |
| 0 | I'm going to a large all-day electronic music festival tomorrow. Anyone have any experience with "festival game"? If so, do you have any tips/advice?IDENTITY??? bring a lot of weed! instant socialization tool. find people who are already smoking weed and offer to share a J with them. meet their friends, their friends' friends, etc. | /r/seduction | 27/07/12 10:28 PM |
| 3 | Beating a Dead Horse I know but I need some help with getting over this girli went through something similar, except not as extreme. i had to delete the chick from my life for a year. no contact. no pictures, texts, calls, mutual facebook friends, nothing. eventually, i got over it, and you will, too. you just need distance. delete. | /r/seduction | 27/07/12 10:22 PM |
| 2 | How Embracing Vulnerability Can Make You Infinitely More Confident (And End Up Hurting You Less In The Long Run.)nice! i really believe that vulnerability is the key to higher-level game. it's good to finally see a pickup-related article on it. | /r/seduction | 27/07/12 10:18 PM |
| 1 | Journey to living in reality and not my mind"blah blah blah blah" (fast, making a silly face) (they laugh) (smiling) "you guys look like fun. what's up?" | /r/seduction | 27/07/12 10:16 PM |
| 2 | Where do you go once you've 'made it by faking it'? This excellent TED Talk will take you to the next level. Brené Brown: The power of vulnerabilityi'm not sure what that means, and i like it. | /r/seduction | 27/07/12 08:16 PM |
| 1 | Meeting "hot girl's" friends. Should a different approach be taken?no, don't flirt with her friends. unless you want to fuck them, which is definitely possible. just treat her friends like you would your little 12 yr-old sister's friends and try to pretend they're ugly. | /r/seduction | 27/07/12 07:05 PM |
| 1 | Men of Reddit, Is Being Called a Dork a Good Thing?whether it's good or bad just depends on your perspective. the best thing to do is take anything they say as a compliment and sincerely thank them. if they were trying to dis you, they'll feel frustrated. if they were joking/teasing, they'll feel validated. how is being called a dork a good thing? she feels comfortable enough with you to tease you. she wouldn't walk up to a complete stranger and say that, because they'd take it as an insult and that would be rude. we tease our close friends and … | /r/seduction | 27/07/12 05:39 PM |
| 1 | What does r/seduction think of this article on PsychologyToday? Do any of you "pretend" to be something you're not when in field?this is fine as a stepping stone. there's a really good ted talk on being vulnerable that will take you to the next level when you're ready. http://www.ted.com/talks/brene_brown_on_vulnerability.html | /r/seduction | 27/07/12 05:32 PM |
| 1 | What does r/seduction think of this article on PsychologyToday? Do any of you "pretend" to be something you're not when in field?i did do this at first. telling other people's stories that hadn't really happened to me. saying things i never would have said because it's what a confident guy would have done. i cringe thinking about it today, but i guess it gave me the jumpstart i needed. | /r/seduction | 27/07/12 05:31 PM |
| 7 | So I have the opportunity with many "potentials", don't know where to go from thereyes. pick something that you like about them, and tell them you find that sexy in them, and continue the conversation. if they smile, they're into you and they'll follow your lead. if they back off a bit, they just wanna be friends, and they'll be cool as long as you don't get weird. this is a simplified version of the juggler method, but it's pretty much all you need right now. | /r/seduction | 27/07/12 05:29 PM |
| 5 | Talking to other girls in the same club after # closing a girldefinitely get other girls' numbers. other girls will have noticed you getting the first girl's digits, and they'll be easier to open. girls don't expect you to be monogamous after they give you their number. as long as they don't find out you're using the same lines on other chicks, it's cool. do you think she's not talking to any other guys that night? for the few that are insecure enough to get scared off by your being a player, then you did yourself a favor because you don't want that emotio… | /r/seduction | 27/07/12 05:26 PM |
| 1 | Does abundance mentality cause cognitive dissonance?they really are everywhere, dude. go on okcupid and just browse. all those women are real average women that you see everyday and don't bother talking to. and they all fantasize about meeting a guy randomly because they've seen it 1000 times in movies. check out juggler/charisma arts and start approaching women during the day. you don't need to impress them, just convincing them that you're genuine and not creepy is usually all you need to do. | /r/seduction | 27/07/12 04:10 PM |
| 12 | Feeling weird and guilty about sexstop hoarding the love | /r/seduction | 27/07/12 04:01 PM |
| 4 | Feeling weird and guilty about sexthat's totally normal, it's because of our puritanical society, which demonizes sex. it seems like a bad thing at first, but it ends up making sex a whole lot more exciting. be greatful for it. | /r/seduction | 27/07/12 04:01 PM |
| 3 | Posture: What's Good?every once in a while, focus your attention on your shoulders, and let them drop. you'll often find that your shoulders are tensed up and high close to your ears, which is bad bodylanguage. other than that, do exercises to work on your anterior pelvic tilt, if you have one. | /r/seduction | 27/07/12 04:00 PM |
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