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smoochie100/r/seduction25/09/16 03:24 AM
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One of the best videos in this sub! inspiring!
/r/seduction03/10/17 08:29 AM
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Next goal: Make situations/evenings like this the standard instead of the exception.
/r/seduction24/09/17 03:19 PM
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This plus don't add them on fb if other communication is possible
/r/seduction14/09/17 04:48 PM
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First of all, people like to talk about themselves. So why dont you ask more questions? That also gives to you time to warm up. Secondly, sometimes the other party is boring and there is almost nothing you can do to make the conversation interesting because a conversation is not a one man show. Being self-conscious about it probably makes it worse. And people notice if you try too hard. And you sound like you try too hard. The most important thing for you to realize is that you do not need to ha…
/r/seduction14/08/17 06:02 PM
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Probably everything in this story is exaggerated and made sound more cool and smooth than it was but otherwise sounds like a typical ons after a party to me. Happened to me, happened to others.
/r/seduction17/06/17 05:09 PM
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Fair point! Still disagree, but I will try to make more substantial contributions in the future.
/r/seduction27/05/17 03:27 PM
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A friendship is defined as a relationship with no romantic interest. Therefore, if romantic interest exists from at least one side, it's not a friendship/friendzone and vice versa.
/r/seduction27/05/17 05:57 AM
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And you leave with certainty instead of uncertainty what she would say!
/r/seduction04/05/17 04:29 PM
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Probably that is what the readers want to hear
/r/seduction28/03/17 01:13 PM
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That is a comparison, not a metaphor.
/r/seduction10/02/17 09:31 PM
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You do not hear the stories of persistent guys that failed. Survivor bias.
/r/seduction13/01/17 11:11 PM
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There is a difference between folk models, which are never tested, and scientific models, whose validity has been shown and which were exposed to falsification.
/r/seduction29/12/16 12:18 PM
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Come on, what's her name. What is the matter about sharing the name if she is a public person already
/r/seduction27/09/16 11:17 PM
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Well, of course it is not 100% right in every situation, but it can be an orientation. A little bit of own independent thought is not too much to demand, isn't it?
/r/seduction19/08/16 11:47 AM
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Read Marc mansons take on patience with changes. You are in the process of change and it takes time to see effects. Besides that: you are only 18. There are so many guys and girls who never had a partner at that age. People feel when you are under pressure to get a gf. It makes you needy, nervous and unattractive. Just do your best to improve and let it flow. If it works out with one girl, fine, if not, fine as well. Live a fulfilled life and the girls will come by themselves. A relationship wil…
/r/seduction30/07/16 07:21 PM
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quality post!
/r/seduction25/07/16 02:39 PM
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Seduction teaches not to be the bad boy. It's about self-improvement. You did not get anything of the stuff in this sub here.
/r/seduction09/06/16 09:15 AM
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Good start is giving her a flirty or sexy name and calling her by that sometimes. Honest compliments: do not say "you look nice" but look for something specific and make compliments on that: I like your earrings, you have a real good taste. I like how your hair looks like chestnut today. Casually mention a sexy times story from the past. Ask her something inappropriate with a smile once. Kino! With that, she will get your vibe. Bonus: if you know that she learns/speaks another language, call her…
/r/seduction09/06/16 06:14 AM
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I can back you up here, one year is perfect in my experience. Everything can have changed in that time but not so much that it would be weird.
/r/seduction23/05/16 09:56 PM
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Do you mean youngblood?
/r/seduction07/05/16 04:55 PM
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someone posted a summary of it on reddit, which will save you the time of reading this a little bit repetitive book
/r/seduction11/04/16 02:46 PM
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It's not working that way because you confuse probability and outcome. The outcome of rejection is not zero, it's negative. It stings, it hurts, it makes yourself insecure and so on. If it would have an outcome of zero, you would have nothing to lose and it would be no problem. Secondly, the probablity for D is imho higher, lets say 40%. The subjective expected value of Option D is dependent on how likely you think a rejection is and how much a rejection hurts you. Based on that, for many the su…
/r/seduction10/04/16 11:31 PM
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Also: often girls say 'you are too nice' but mean too boring
/r/seduction03/02/16 06:39 AM
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When did you post your last FR?
/r/seduction21/01/16 05:58 PM
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The regions seem to be pretty obvious to me.. You don't need necessarily a study for that
/r/seduction28/10/15 07:01 AM
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I think you open too fast after establishing initial attraction. I mean, you meet her and it's quite tabula rasa. Then you establish attraction, she shows interest and you open yourself, show interest yourself and become vulnerable. After you got the initial attraction, you have to keep the iron hot, but with confidence and coolness. There is a leap between initial attraction and her completely falling for you. I think, during that gap, you start getting needy, nervous etc and this is when the a…
/r/seduction09/10/15 11:01 AM
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Alright, I misunderstood then. If you read his blog, you'll see that he tries to back his claims with citations of scientific articles most of the time and I have the feeling he does not stretch the interpretation of a finding like others do. I find he is a great source for personality growth. Does it lead to more success with women? I don't know. Does it help you on your way to confidence and happiness? My answer would be yes.
/r/seduction08/10/15 05:52 AM
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It's not a long book or expensive, so why don't you just buy and read it? You are not buying a house dude :D Anyway, imho the book is more about personal growth than pickup. If you want routines, concrete examples and lines, you need a different book. I personally enjoyed reading a lot and I think everyone at least takes some insights home, probably because the perspective on game in this book is slightly different. I would definitely recommend it.
/r/seduction07/10/15 09:04 PM
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Looks are the entry ticket though. The rest is what you make of it, you have to pay the cards you have been dealt.
/r/seduction07/10/15 03:36 PM
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A lot of the posts in this sub are beginner bullshit. This one has some valuable insights in it, thanks! Saved!
/r/seduction30/09/15 05:56 AM
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I remember there was a quite recent study which is the most common one. I vaguely remember it to be 'playing with hair' but I am not sure. Does anyone have it?
/r/seduction21/09/15 03:44 PM
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Just be honest with them.
/r/seduction16/08/15 08:44 AM
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Fun to read, I agree with most points!
/r/seduction07/08/15 05:19 PM
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I think the feeling is normal. It becomes less once you score a hot one for the first time, because then you know you can do it. But your problem seems to be that you take the game too serious. I have far more success if I approach a girl from the perspective "I want to meet nice new people that contribute to my life. If a sexual encounter comes out of it, great! If not, then not, a new acquaintance is great as well." that takes out the pressure to score because your intention was not to score b…
/r/seduction13/07/15 10:11 PM
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This sounds a little bit passive to me. I don't want to present myself as an adventurous option that she can take or reject. I want to be the one who chooses who he wants to be with. This sounds a little bit like the "if I am lucky, a girl will like me" story. I am not an option, which can be taken, I go for the women I want.
/r/seduction05/07/15 08:56 AM
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Imho both are not disjunctive: you can go out and talk to women and improve facets of your game at the same time.
/r/seduction03/07/15 02:02 PM
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So many bullshit videos out there. For me this is a great one and I especially like that he comes to his points very quick without a lot of blabla around. Just his message and then end of the video. Nicely done!
/r/seduction27/06/15 11:14 AM
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If you enjoy meeting new persons and flirting (I do a lot personally) then you are just doing what you like, just like everybody else. If you would be called a creep openly multiple times, then you would make a fool out of yourself. But I am sure nobody calls you like that. Change your perspective instead of a goal directed approach see it as a nice social interactions. Some few times something sexual comes out of it, but if not, it's a nice new contact you made.
/r/seduction14/06/15 10:30 AM
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Push and pull. Get your homework done, mate ;)
/r/seduction23/05/15 03:53 PM
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Is it down?
/r/seduction20/05/15 02:45 PM
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It's only a test to see if she could get you
/r/seduction16/05/15 02:16 PM
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Whenever you feel like it. Dude, don't overthink and bend yourself. However, the time between end of work and early evening, 5-8 pm maybe, is probably the easiest time to respond.
/r/seduction14/05/15 04:31 PM
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That was my first thought as well.
/r/seduction13/05/15 06:38 AM
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Can you link the books you mentioned?
/r/seduction18/03/15 07:07 AM
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I agree. For a long time, I relied on the girl's honesty to tell me on her own that she has a boyfriend the time she realizes I am flirting with her. Some do, but some like the attention and that is why I tend to ask indirectly early on. I usually drop a statement like "if you had a boyfriend you could go with him" or more direct: "why does such a beautiful girl not have a boyfriend?"
/r/seduction18/03/15 07:02 AM
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Great post, I completely agree. You can't overrate the importance of keeping eye contact during talking. Magical moments arise during this, but do it smooth and don't stare like a creep. I would add that you can also raise sexual tension through the conversation content. Talk about a funny sexual encounter, a extremely passionate ex girlfriend or a romantic night you organized for valentine once. Just mention it by the way and change topic soon, just to add another spicy anecdote later. This bri…
/r/seduction04/03/15 09:41 AM
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You finish the article out of nowhere. Did you do anything to get her back?what did you text? I think you did everything right, maybe too aggressive in the end. But, no risk, no fun, it could have ended differently. Maybe your perception of the evening is a little bit biased. No matter what, she definitely was into you and it was not you that she rejected. It could have been the alcohol and she suddenly realized, what was happening, really anti-ons education or a boyfriend.
/r/seduction02/03/15 01:33 PM
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They want to be desired but with honest interest
/r/seduction19/02/15 09:06 PM
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I like his approach, but I think the book itself is mediocre. He repeats his theory very often and he only sees one causation for everything. he constructs a relationship between early childhood and behavior in adulthood which is very questionable since every life is different. There also seems to be almost no structure and the book is in parts really confusing. There is better literature with less crude theories that promote to put the needs of oneself as priority.
/r/seduction17/02/15 06:22 PM
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You can start by "how about a coffee together with me and my friends? Without any intentions, just as friends. Would be cool if we could continue our conversation there." I would definitely start with a meeting together with others since this is most of the times the signal for no sexual intentions. If she does not want to because of her boyfriend (or any other reason), don't bother and move on to another sparring partner :)
/r/seduction05/02/15 02:21 PM
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If you have a river flowing through your city,have a Picknick there, then go for a walk along the river, throw some stones in it, watch the people or walk into it knee-deep. A bar where they make exotic or famous cocktails with a lot of passion and effort. Go shopping together (pretend you need a new suit or something like that) Easy hikes Sightseeing Go out photographing together Geo caching The cinema is only okay if you have time to talk afterwards. Then the movie is an easy conversation star…
/r/seduction04/02/15 07:22 PM
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If you have some spare money to get yourself some books for your journey, my personal recommendation would be "Things Might Go Terribly, Horribly Wrong: A Guide to Life Liberated from Anxiety" by Kelly Wilson. This book was one of the most influencing books I've read in the past two years and really changed my perspective.
/r/seduction02/02/15 08:51 AM
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Why do you make such a big thing about reading a book? Just buy the ebook, it's cheap and reading it does not take very long. Personally, I almost never regret reading any book since i always gained the one or the other wise words out of it. And I really enjoy manson's book. But if you are seeking help and you think your anxiety is at a psychopathological level, I suggest reading about acceptance and commitment theory and seek for professional help. Manson's book is definitely not for that.
/r/seduction01/02/15 06:05 PM
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I don't get why a lot of community members are so fixated on phone numbers. I mean, it's easy to get them since it's very uncomfortable and impolite not to give it out when someone is asking for it directly. a lot of girls give out the number and then don't respond if they are not interested. A more valid measure would be numbers with further writing going on.
/r/seduction01/02/15 05:58 PM
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Great advice about the conversation starter, I will definitely built that in my future conversations. Thanks!
/r/seduction01/02/15 02:41 AM
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if she is not interested, the best text message game in the world can't save you. In my opinion, you did nothing wrong. If you text about the evening ("I really had a great time"), then do it at the same night, following with something like "sleep well!". Between dates, I would signal that I think of her by 1-2 text and then ask again for a new date 2 days before you wanna date. In the end, if she is interested and you don't act like a psych, e.g. sending 20 texts a day, you can do nothing wrong…
/r/seduction30/01/15 07:48 AM
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First of all ask yourself if you really want to deal with such a woman.
/r/seduction30/01/15 07:43 AM
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she asks for your intentions, you answer that you are not looking for a relationship. Or did I miss something relevant here? Imho the correct answer would be a witty and funny remark that does not answer the question. could be exaggeration ("I really wanna marry tonight") or anything else.
/r/seduction28/01/15 09:46 PM
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First of all, cut out "being wrong" of your vocabulary. there is only "not interested (for whatever reason)" and this is something perfectly normal – you are not interested in every female you see too, right? and if she rejects, it's her loss. The class itself is not a good situation because it has a work vibe inherent. But you lay the foundations there. as already mentioned, start eye contact, show that you are happy to see her and smile to her. but I would leave it at first sight and maybe 1-2…
/r/seduction28/01/15 08:56 AM
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Make the sexual encounters with women not your main focus but a pleasant side effect. You like to meet new people, you like interesting talks and you like to be social. That is your main intention. If sometimes a sexual encounter arises through that, nice, if not, also nice. But if you are superficial and in the end don't care about people but only sexual encounters and the count of them, a lot of people won't like it. However, no matter how you are, if you stand up for yourself, there will alwa…
/r/seduction27/01/15 11:19 PM
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What is your specific issue? By the way, please only show that you are bad at something when it's about something irrelevant to dating/masculinity (e.g. I am so bad in baking, but I made some muffins for you) or when you already showed unquestionable competence in that field (if a professor does not know how to set the volume in YouTube infront of his students, no one thinks he is stupid as he has already proven his cognitive power). Thus, you have to earn credit for the "I am so bad at this"-cu…
/r/seduction27/01/15 11:08 PM
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Why do you even let your intentions get fixed on "relationship yes or no" by her?
/r/seduction27/01/15 11:02 PM
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I totally agree. If you indicate that your intentions are of sexual nature early on and stand for it, there is no way to be friendzoned. The possible outcomes are these: Case 1: She is also interested in you. Fine, then you both gonna have a good time. Case 2: she is not interested in you. Also fine, because she will let you know right away when you get sexual or ask straight. You know it and move on to a woman that is interested. If the girls gives you mixed signals, go straight for it. If she …
/r/seduction27/01/15 10:52 PM
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It's difficult if it does not arise naturally. Talking about sexual topics can set the right mood. I got it on once with a girl because we talked how there is no good colloquial word for vagina. Talk a little bit about a funny sexual encounter or something like that, but only tease. Compliment her, tell her you think she is hot, pretend to be a little bit in awe when you see her because she is stunning. Eye contact helps, sitting close to each other and slight contact of the legs can help. Touch…
/r/seduction27/01/15 12:31 PM
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The shield exists, but it is not an anti-date shield but an anti-date shield. This shield says "I am not that cheap and easy and I don't go with everyone". You already know her, so you already show she is not an replaceable random girl, which already reduces the shield heavily. One option would be to talk to her while you are out with friends and she mentions something she likes doing, e.g. going to concerts, then you can pick that up and go for "yeah me too. Do you want to go on a concert with …
/r/seduction24/01/15 06:33 PM
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If you have her number, why not ask her out on a date, just the both of you. Make sure that you indirectly indicate that it is not a normal meeting as friends. If she insists to bring friends, then you know she is not interested. If she is going out with you, proceed as usual ;)
/r/seduction24/01/15 03:51 PM
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In my humble opinion you are comparing apples and oranges. Making out in a night Club does not mean anything for future contact, that is true. But no girl older than lets say 18 does make out with a girl she does not find attractive. It is definitely more than just pleasentness. Making out at a date is something I would call pretty serious as it is a very conscious decision, it's not about the experience itself and usually there is not a lot of alcohol in play. Girls give a short kiss on the che…
/r/seduction21/01/15 09:26 PM
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what is your definition of kiss please? a woman making out with someone is definitely more than "your presence is pleasurable for her", at least where I live (europe).
/r/seduction21/01/15 09:01 PM
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Just don't act on their flirty behavior. respond to messages way later distanced and friendly, but using as few words as possible and if they ask you out tell them you don't have time. Usually everybody gets it after a certain time, but if you have the feeling the other one, who does not get it, is suffering ask him if he has feelings and share the brutal but correct truth that she is great, but you just don't feel the same.
/r/seduction21/01/15 06:38 PM
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What do you mean with bitchy girls?
/r/seduction21/01/15 05:32 PM
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because women like assertive men who have their plan of life.
/r/seduction21/01/15 08:44 AM
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trust your gut feeling and be yourself. If you feel like texting, don't think and do it. but leave it at one nice short message without setting up another date. something like "This was a wonderful evening".
/r/seduction21/01/15 08:42 AM
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I think she says some really common knowledge things, but they are listed to strict. don't talk about the ex: you can do this, but don't overdo it. but a funny comment on the ex can show that you are not too serious with yourself and your past. have a plan/be the leader: yep, that is what all women expect. put away the phone: common way to show respect for the conversational partner; is not only valid on dates. But the rest of her text shows a little bit what is wrong about the modern womens' pe…
/r/seduction21/01/15 08:39 AM
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I think the key to a successful compliment is to be precise and name something graspable. Something like "you look great" can be said by everybody without really looking at the person. But if you notice something like "i like how your eyes shine blue in the sun", "i like how you smile when you smile when you say something naughty" or "your curly hair looks wonderful" you show that your compliment is honest and you really noticed it. If you are not a beer drinker, you would never admire her beer …
/r/seduction10/01/15 12:08 PM
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that is the reason why being yourself is the most important thing. if you use pick up tactics to appear as a guy that you are not, it won't fit in a longterm relationship sooner or later. see the pick up tools as tinder to start a spark/conversation, but don't act and stay yourself (imho).
/r/seduction05/01/15 06:51 PM
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this post has pretty reasonable recommendations, but in the same manner as a lot of guides, the precise action implications or tips are missing. be unpredictable, fine, that's always interesting. but how could that be looking like? how am I unpredictable but do not appear weird or crazy. it's as useful as "be interesting". also, people want what they can't have, correct, but it also has to appear valuable to them in the first place nevertheless.
/r/seduction05/01/15 06:48 PM
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