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That sounds like manipulation and not something that should be encouraged... Why would you want to decieve the man you love?
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/22 03:08 AM
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The messages I'm getting are so confusing. Fascinating Womanhood and Laura Doyle say you need to let him lead, make the decisions and support his actions, then he will automatically be happy but "Why men love bitches" says that if you don't give him a "mental challenge" and "appear as if you lead the train and tell him when you both get on and off" he will loose interest and you end up a doormat.
/r/RedPillWomen18/04/22 08:47 AM
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The biggest thing he does that makes me feel cherished and respected is not engaging in hurtful/sarcastic banter, which is so common and a norm for a lot of guys. I also appreciate how he always answers my messages as soon as he can so that I feel heard, even when he is in the middle of a video game. When we meet up, he plans the most amazing dates so that our limited time together feels special and makes me warm and fuzzy inside for the months we are apart (we are LDR).
/r/RedPillWomen16/04/22 09:26 AM
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Thank you, I probably needed to hear that. I've started to make myself really busy with my studies and a new job opportunity I've got, but still shove everything aside when he asked me to talk and I compromised on sleeping hours for him. I'm really lovey-dovey, so he got a cute wake-up message everyday, got regularly asked how his day was, was assured that he is missed dearly and got everything he asked me to do, but I never got anything in return which drove me to the current point. I had a fin…
/r/RedPillWomen12/04/22 06:46 AM
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We want to get married in a year after we both get our Masters and I will move to his country, so its something to look forward to. I'm really happy with the changes I've made and I'm greateful that he encouraged me to do it. The only thing making me frustrated about it is him not being happy with my current weight, where I'm happy how I look. I'm around 114lbs/52kg at 5'4/165cm, but he wants me to be more active and exercise 5 times a week, where I'm sometimes too busy and tired to do it. Where…
/r/RedPillWomen10/04/22 08:55 AM
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The first thing to do is decluttering and selling, donating or giving away your old clothes that you don't want to wear anymore. Keep only things that you absolutely love and you can imagine etill wearing it in the future. I recommend you reading "The little black book of style" by Nina Garcia where she explains what are the basics you need to have in your closet, how to combine different pieces together and where to look for inspiration. As the person above mentioned, find colours that make you…
/r/RedPillWomen02/04/22 06:25 AM
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After I got with my bf, friendships with single guys have gotten impossible. Men who I have been 5+years good friends with suddenly get jealous that I'm spending a lot of time with him and start complaining that I changed (for the better, but still *changed*). I needed to cut ties with all of them and kept only brief contact with men who were in a relationship/married and I liked their SOs. My advice to you - keeping contact with a past love interest is a big NONO and it will spiral down really …
/r/RedPillWomen01/04/22 02:18 PM
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I recommend you watching dr. Michelle Daf on YouTube, she has a series about overcoming male behaviour and letting your femininity blossom (her playlist "feminine rehab"). It helped me a lot :) Good luck on your journey!
/r/RedPillWomen21/02/22 08:29 AM
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I can't argue with his subjective view on things, there will be always things that he finds weird or doesn't like and it's fine. The issue is that I would like to recieve praise/compliments in a similar amount to this criticism and don't know how to achieve that.
/r/RedPillWomen29/01/22 04:07 PM
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He takes criticism very well. If it would be valid, he would change it but if he thought it was unreasonable, he would explain why he doesn't agree with it and ignore it.
/r/RedPillWomen29/01/22 03:45 PM
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Yeah, we had lots of conversations about it. As I mentioned in a reply below, it's about setting high standards for ourselves and he acts like a gatekeeper of it until it slips out of control.
/r/RedPillWomen29/01/22 03:41 PM
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No, I'm just sending a photo where I think I look good and he criticises it. His reason is that he has a really high standard for himself and I should have it too for myself. We had lots of arguments where he admitted he was too harsh on me about his demands and apologised, but he doesn't seem to see that he crossed a line until he makes me cry.
/r/RedPillWomen29/01/22 03:39 PM
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We differ in love languages. I'm a words of appreciation type and he is spending time together. So he is giving me a lot of his time, is always available to talk, includes me in all the activities he is busy with and so on, which I'm really grateful for and I enjoy spending time together. This also makes me feel important and loved by him. I only wish to be appreciated a bit more by words.
/r/RedPillWomen29/01/22 03:27 PM
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Solution to The Chair problem? What do you do with clothes that are worn one time but aren't that dirty to wash them immediately (like jeans or sweaters) but too "dirty" to put them back into the warderobe so they just stay on The Chair?
/r/RedPillWomen11/01/22 10:26 PM
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I'm not adressing it straight away because most of the time I can deal with it myself, without involving him (so I won't nag him about a small thing) and I let it stew to think if it's really that big of a problem for me. Most of the time it's nothing and I can solve it without involving him but there are sometimes situations like this where I miscalculate how hurt I really feel about it and it spirals into this (it has happened maybe 3 times in the past 10 months, so not that often). EDIT: He h…
/r/RedPillWomen22/11/21 10:53 AM
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It looks like something happened to that person because she didn't finish her 365 days, the last entry was in 2009. Such a shame... EDIT: I got too curious and wrote her an e-mail. I will update if she ever responses.
/r/RedPillWomen27/10/21 09:59 AM
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When it comes to feminine mannerisms I recommend Lisa Hart on Youtube, I have learned a lot from her. Edit: I also recommend Level Up Journey.
/r/RedPillWomen04/09/21 10:55 AM
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