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Meanwhile I feel the same way about having my first 4some (fffm) and know its not going to be that much grander than a 3some, but I want it off the list. Ideally recording it for myself. Maybe 3somes are overrated, but that just depends on how much you value it and certainly lack of experience with it could build it up in your head to impossible levels. For me they are totally worth it and something I've done with most of my SO's. I build it up in their minds when fucking them. Teasing about add…
/r/TheRedPill02/02/21 10:44 AM
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Shes gonna do both. I'm sure she actually believes she won't fuck any of these 100 guys because she knows plenty of dudes are unfuckable. But just like always, sex will just 'happen' with the right guy.
/r/askTRP30/11/20 07:02 AM
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Well I gained the knowledge I needed to from here, mostly just opening my eyes.
/r/TheRedPill11/10/20 06:27 AM
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I like your mindset. I never quit quitting either, but it's really hard to not beat yourself up when it feels like you lack self discipline.
/r/askTRP18/02/20 05:28 PM
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I used vaping to quit cigarettes, eventually finding cigarettes quite gross. I wouldnt smoke one even if I was without my vape, or in the middle of quitting and had an opportunity to have a cig. Eventually I just cut down the vape over time. I let myself vape every other hour when not working, and cut that to one hour on, two hours off. Then I just stopped and haven't looked back. I have had many failed attempts, but I really suggest stopping 100% and not using it 'once in a while'. Just leads t…
/r/askTRP18/02/20 05:25 PM
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Will add to the reading list, love topics involving our ancestry and were we evolved from for hundreds to thousands or generations
/r/askTRP27/08/19 03:05 PM
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Yes, and it seems like OP is attempting to view this from a males perspective, which you can't do when viewing female motivations, actions, ect.
/r/askTRP27/08/19 03:01 PM
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Well we aren't going to agree, as I tend to heavily side with the people promoting the carnivore diet on youtube. Factory farmed meat, raised on soy and grain, isn't all that good for you imo. Grass fed is the way to go, if one can afford it. How can a diet that we evolved to eat not be the way to go? We are the apex predators at the top of the food chain. Our brains only grew our size because we could secure enough calories from animals and sustaining ourself on fat. Our bodies sacrificed the s…
/r/askTRP13/06/19 01:44 AM
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Still never been to a decent barber and just tend to go through periods of growing my hair somewhat out and just cutting it real short. The 20-30 bucks is without tip, correct? If so, is that something you should tip 10 bucks on?
/r/askTRP12/06/19 01:00 PM
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Grains are nowhere near as healthy as people tend to think they are. I have been struggling to cut carbs out to start keto, but I fully believe it's healthier and our ancient ancestors were in ketosis all the time and not running exclusively on carbs like most people do now. As for dairy, the lactose intolerant people are fairly obvious they can't properly brake up the lactose sugar molecule which causes inflammation. I still have my dairy, but it could still be causing low-level inflammation th…
/r/askTRP12/06/19 12:58 PM
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I've also had trouble cumming for most of my life. I've noticed it is easier with an emotional connection with an LTR. No more porn, jerk off even more infrequently (or as others suggested, not at all). Incorporate some bdsm into the bedroom, makes it more fun and perhaps you'll stumble upon something you enjoy far more than you thought possible. Don't focus on cumming so much; perhaps it's a mental block. Feel more enjoyment in the whole process instead of it just being a (fun) tool of a end go…
/r/askTRP30/05/19 11:33 PM
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Start hitting the gym harder than you are, and eat way better. Realize relationships end and just enjoy them while they last.
/r/askTRP11/03/19 11:08 AM
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Just wanted to say I think you have a great point. I've known for a while I enjoy sex with an LTR more than just casual sex, I just like the way you worded it all. My last experience with this was first meeting my last ex. I thought she was average or so and wasn't sure if I would keep seeing her. Yet it turned into the best sex/ltr I've had in my life after getting to know her and getting introduced into bdsm and kink. Perhaps TRP played a role in making the relationship more enjoyable as I had…
/r/askTRP27/02/19 11:41 PM
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Still been struggling to make progress in the cold approaches. I have made a few approaches (which used to be zero) and gotten two numbers, but I wait for perfect moments or make excuses. I equate it to when first going to the gym you can be nervous or self conscious, hell I struggled to bench the bar my first day. You just have to be consistent to make progress. I also know it's all in my head. I'm not a knockout, but I should easily be smashing consistently if I just got out of my head and wor…
/r/TheRedPill09/02/19 01:55 PM
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I know you're joking, but some people may not aware you should wait minimum one month between uses (with 3 months being the ideal wait between uses).
/r/askTRP07/02/19 06:02 PM
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Do more research into it, but from what I understand fasting can help preserve muscle gains (assuming you eat adequately when not fasting). I've also seen anecdotal evidence of people in the carnivore diet gaining lean body mass while not even working out.
/r/askTRP07/02/19 05:45 PM
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Well that's some good rage material
/r/PussyPass13/12/18 05:47 AM
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Why not both?
/r/askTRP15/11/18 09:46 PM
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This is similar to the rule of texting for logistics only. It's not a hard-set rule because it's the only thing that works, but for the vast majority of guys they should stick to the rule because otherwise they can easily fuck up texting and many do. Just like having an easy lay with your ex. It's not that you can't, but many guys may not be able to handle the emotional aspect, and may get back with her if given the opportunity. Your stereotypical alpha won't care and do what he wants because he…
/r/askTRP26/10/18 03:36 PM
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I'm in the same boat. I was kissless until my 18th birthday and only dated that girl because she approached me. Been in 3 LTR's for ~6 out of the last 7 years and never really worried about getting laid because the gfs always down to fuck. My 18 year old self would be beyond proud of what girls and experiences (3/4somes, kink parties, ect) I've had by this point. Only issue is I've never gotten a single girl from approaching. All have been from the internet (Okcupid used to be godsend) or connec…
/r/askTRP23/10/18 08:30 PM
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The short of it is if you don't believe you have a chance, then you don't. Also just because it might take 2 years to get high SMV doesn't mean you won't have success in the 2 year span, and your future self 2 years from now will be beyond grateful.
/r/askTRP23/10/18 08:17 PM
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Sounds just like the recent ex. Was the first relationship I went into with RP knowledge and she gave me a lot of things I wanted out of a partner. Doesn't hurt she introduced me to the DD/lg dynamic and exploring the bdsm world. Became my gym partner for roughly a year. She always pushed me toward the right path and I even opened up emotionally one or two times (with drugs involved), and never loss the respect. I know that it's over and that it was just my turn, but the pain is still there. Pre…
/r/askTRP22/10/18 09:32 PM
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Add some mediation to your routine. It can help you deal with negative thoughts and give you a time every day to disconnect from the world and be with yourself.
/r/askTRP07/10/18 06:20 PM
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It's not as effective but all you need is your body to start working out
/r/askTRP15/06/18 12:25 PM
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Entertain a thought experiment where men became the desired sex (the value of dick and pussy were exchanged), I believe women would be just as clueless as men are in todays society. What we see in today's society is the result of putting pussy on the pedestal.
/r/TheRedPill07/01/18 06:09 PM
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The same thing is currently happening to my mother and step-dad, she's already confided in me how unhappy she is. Told me she feels incredibly bad about it but she doesn't want to continue to be happy. So now I'm waiting to see if he's going to be a roommate with us, or if my sister and I will have to contribute to make up with the difference. Also I'm curious what my mom will do since she's working a cushy 20 hours a weeks.
/r/TheRedPill24/11/16 11:30 PM
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Well I guess the easiest way to put it would be having a long term plate. I don't expect the girl to stay around, and let any girl I get with I would never expect my dick to be the last they ever have. So why bother with monogamous LTR. She's not yours it's just your turn, so why bother making that turn exclusive? I get to have my own fun, I get to have 3/4somes. I still get to retain the emotional positives of having a ltr while having the sexual fun of new partners. It also keeps some dread ga…
/r/TheRedPill06/10/16 04:01 PM
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Ahh, I see. I can agree with him. I've done non-monogamy in my last 3 relationships and trp has only reinforced my decision to continue doing so.
/r/TheRedPill05/10/16 10:55 PM
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Separate what she is from who she?
/r/TheRedPill05/10/16 09:35 PM
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You forgot women's studies and photography on that list
/r/askTRP28/09/16 08:32 PM
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Although I don't see many pro non-mongamy red pillers on here, I have always been drawn toward the idea before finding the trp. I find the ideas associated with trp reinforce that I want to continue to be non-mono. People always say 'shes not yours, just your turn', to never fully trust but verify, prepare for branch swinging, and much more. I just find it easiest to just know about everything she does and indulge in new experiences. I get enjoy the ltr while still having my hookups and so far 1…
/r/askTRP21/09/16 10:57 PM
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There's a reason why the advice you always see here is to never hook up with an ex again (which is just seen as common knowledge anyway). Even the advice on how to bang/plate an advice always tacks on you must have iron strong frame, which it seems you do not since emotions are strong. I get wanting to fuck an ex over jerking off, but ultimately it's just going to slow your personal progress and gaming other, hotter, woman.
/r/askTRP28/07/16 11:53 PM
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This actually sounds like a lot of fun, I gotta suggest this to my buddy.
/r/TheRedPill28/07/16 10:26 PM
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I wish I had done this so much instead of being a bitch for months. I missed that sweet satisfaction of being able to just shrug when they tell you it isn't working out. On the flip side what you wrote that they wonder if there ex's new gf is hotter is true. Within a week of dating a new girl she tried hacking my email and told me the new girl was ugly and not worth my time. The fact she found out so quickly and how she reacted to me dating someone else helped me finish swallowing the pill.
/r/TheRedPill12/06/16 03:15 PM
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I agree with a lot of your points, and I have experienced that love you described twice and both times it ended out of nowhere due to another guy. I see the mistakes I made, and I also see the problems both relationships had but how each was great in their own ways. I've seen some posters say that wanting that type of love is childish and BP, but I disagree in how I currently adopt RP into my lifestyle. However, I get that you should be able to be happy without depending on another person, that …
/r/askTRP28/05/16 11:42 PM
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You already know the answer for what you should do, just has the strength to actually do it. A lot of the advice here is not only because it's in your best self interest, but also because the alternative can really fuck you over. There are so many women out there without kids, why get into a ltr with a single mother and help raise her kids like a cuckold. Some guys will suggest never moving in, but I believe we can all agree moving in within a year is a bad move. Lastly, you're going to put your…
/r/askTRP24/05/16 01:57 PM
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Not exact but similar. Ex cheated and then left me (I was a huge bitch and forgiving). Few months later finds out I'm seeing/fucking a chick and she starts telling me maybe she made a mistake, ect. Amazed me and broke my fragile frame at the time. Thankfully I fucked up and went back to being a bitch and she ignored me right after.
/r/askTRP23/05/16 01:31 PM
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About two weeks ago my gf told me something that didn't surprise me, but did surprise me she was conscious of it, she told me she wanted to be married to man who would have no issue letting her walk away if she threatened to leave. She realizes that she wants someone who doesn't need/want her as much she wants/needs him.
/r/TheRedPill22/05/16 02:34 PM
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Good to know, I live outside of nyc and been curious about spots near nyu, pace, ect.
/r/TheRedPill18/05/16 03:19 PM
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I blew my first driving test even though I knew I had the ability nessecary to past. I got too nervous and self conscious which lead to failing. Re-took it a month or two later and passed just fine. You know what to expect and more than likely pass this time.
/r/askTRP16/05/16 10:10 PM
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I always read moving in together can push you into her frame because it's a sign of commitment and makes breaking up messier so the guy is less likely to leave, a lite version of marriage or kids. I realized with my last relationship I almost, if not always, was the first to contact her after anything happened. I would always make it a bigger deal than it had to be, and I showed I needed her more by contacting her first. Even though I can point to her cheating on me with guy A or B as the point …
/r/askTRP08/05/16 03:51 PM
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Just remember this experience and learn from it. You really thought you had something and I'm sure she thought she was in it for the long haul too, but just like that it can all end out of seemingly nowhere. I apply my own experience from a past breakup into my current LTR. I always ask myself if she were to leave would I be okay? A few time she has gotten pissy out of nowhere and I handle it very easily knowing I would be fine if she left. So when she acts up, I don't pay her any mind and don't…
/r/askTRP08/05/16 01:06 PM
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I noticed that this double standard exist, like many other double standards, because they are projecting what they are doing, or would do in your shoes.
/r/askTRP06/05/16 08:46 PM
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Many, many things but where would I be without making mistakes and learning from them.
/r/askTRP04/05/16 04:01 PM
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Only one way to find out
/r/askTRP03/05/16 12:22 PM
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A slut I used to know told me she fucked a guy purely on the fact be drove an Aston Martin.
/r/askTRP03/05/16 12:21 PM
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Never expected this to happen
/r/TheRedPill24/04/16 04:36 PM
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"what would I do if this ended today?". This is how I try to keep my relationships now, where before I never asked this question to myself because I assumed things wouldn't end.
/r/askTRP22/04/16 09:04 PM
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Cheated on and then broken up with (didn't even have the balls to break up), and finding posts on trp and seeing the truth on there.
/r/askTRP11/04/16 01:55 PM
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It's fine, we all have setbacks sometimes. At least you recognize it and can move on from this point stronger than before. I was in a similar situation not too long ago and it sucked but I only had myself to blame.
/r/askTRP10/04/16 01:56 PM
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Exactly. After experiencing it firsthand a few times and reading everything here, there's no denying the truth. There's no going back, not that I'd want to go back. Some people actively chose to lie to themselves though. I parallel it to obese and lazy fucks telling themselves they can't change things but it's also okay that they can't anyway.
/r/TheRedPill09/04/16 09:04 PM
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Wow, great perspective on this. I didn't consider what the undertone of that line meant, just accepted it.
/r/TheRedPill09/04/16 12:14 AM
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Can confirm, I'm literally in the top .01 % of men and never tell anyone
/r/askTRP08/04/16 12:07 AM
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Well sounds like you already know what to do, just make sure to fucking do it. Act as if this relationship is over because it is, act as if she has already fucked chad.
/r/askTRP06/04/16 04:55 PM
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Same here. Cut and never had an issue.
/r/TheRedPill21/03/16 11:27 AM
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Well we got to the same school which increases it, but 3 days a week everywhere because of school, and then one or twice on a non school day if work allows me the free time. So I average out to about 4 times a week. I am the type of guy who could probably see her everyday, but I always make sure I'm getting my school work in and not missing a day in the gym over seeing her because I have plenty of time to do so in the future.
/r/askTRP13/03/16 09:23 PM
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You think someone texting and driving will feel guity? I bet she blames the dude that was killed and is annoyed with the 90 days too.
/r/PussyPass08/03/16 08:29 PM
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"Love"
/r/askTRP02/03/16 05:47 AM
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I was her second and I'm willing to believe her, but honestly doesn't matter if she had more or not. She has told me she wanted to be shared but her ex wasn't into the idea, but she did fool around with 4 girls. My situation is a bit different with I don't mind sharing her and she doesn't mind me being with others too, so I keep getting to practice on my game.
/r/askTRP26/02/16 06:49 AM
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Personal situation. My girl loves to slap me away and resist and all that jazz, but just wants me to take it and finds it hot when I do. OP's situation does sound different though.
/r/askTRP23/02/16 02:45 PM
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I agree if they keep returning you're doing something right. Someone I used to know kept visiting this guy (dude was at least a 9) and told me that the sex was bad but it didn't stop her from seeing him many times.
/r/askTRP18/02/16 07:44 PM
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Did you tell her to say hi to him for you since you dropped her off to him? Very nice of you to get her a lift.
/r/askTRP16/02/16 09:59 PM
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I'm not sure if I would count this as a shit test. My girl asks this sometimes to help break the tension if I'm staring into her eyes or just smirking at her and wondering what's making me smile. To me, the question seems to be her why of saying, what's up? Or trying to start a conversation with me without presenting a conversation topic itself. Never bothers me when she's asks and I easily get away with either saying 'nothing' or actually tell her what's on my mind (usually that hot blondes ass…
/r/askTRP12/02/16 09:23 PM
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Yeah its something I'll never quite understand but would never want to be in that guys (or yours) shoes and deal with possible false rape claims. Oddly, she never confided in me that it felt like rape or sexual assualt to her. Guess even for her that was too low or something? I honestly expected her to tell me at some point at a very minimum that it felt like assualt or something? However, she's only ever kept it at didn't cheat, but was stupid but not rape. She hates the guy now and hasn't talk…
/r/TheRedPill07/02/16 05:41 AM
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My ex cheated on me with this dude and basically said he had a power over her and she was afraid to say no, ect ect, and then went back for a second time lol.
/r/TheRedPill06/02/16 05:21 PM
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I've seen it so many times without much problem. But something was different this time and it really hit me.
/r/TheRedPill04/02/16 08:31 PM
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Yes you could have done more, but you have to keep doing (and generally fail) in order to gain the experience to get better at your game. You said you're new so expect some failures, it's a learning experience. It's the process of learning almost anything.
/r/askTRP03/02/16 04:09 PM
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What to do? Start gaming other women.
/r/askTRP03/02/16 03:59 PM
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Most enjoyable change I've made is lifting and doing it consistently. I can see the changes in my body, and my weight slowly increasing. I made the change because I've read lifting releases chemically that physically make you less stressed out, along with all of the other positives. Beside I had more free time now to do it and I wanted to make my dad proud too. He's always given me tips, worked out with me when I visit, and bought me 20 lbs weights.
/r/askTRP01/02/16 11:32 AM
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I do like that answer, because I do see potential. I felt as if she wanted to define the relationship as a way to feel like less of a slut. Thanks, I will keep that as a big red flag in mind. I'm used to this from me ex when we met it was very foward and fast as well (told me she loved me in 3 weeks), and I fell into her frame.
/r/askTRP25/01/16 02:34 PM
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I was planning on waiting and letting her prove her worth to me, but she does keep trying to push the issue. I'll keep delaying it and evaluating, but it isn't a relationship I would ever take seriously.
/r/askTRP25/01/16 06:01 AM
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Would be the main reason I'm here and asking for advice or any insight.
/r/askTRP25/01/16 01:28 AM
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Thanks for linking this haha
/r/askTRP24/01/16 11:05 PM
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Be a man and tell her straight up what's on your mind?
/r/askTRP23/01/16 06:35 PM
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Great explanation. Helps me look at my own situation.
/r/askTRP23/01/16 02:36 PM
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I'm still young so things can easily change, but I personally thing having an ltr is fine if you can handle it. I personally do like having that connection as it makes the sex all the better for me. Good read up on LTR game https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/1tjcbg/ltr_game_maintaining_frame/
/r/askTRP17/01/16 10:19 PM
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I assume you're confident she wouldn't do it because odds are very likely she wouldn't do it. Sounds like she just wants attention/validation since she was dumped. If she actually did it, you would probably feel bad but her life is not your responsibility. You can be there for her during her emotional downs, but don't feel the need to, it's your decision how to spend your time and who you choose to help out.
/r/askTRP17/01/16 10:09 PM
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That's what I never understood but thankful it occured because it led me here. Yes yes ex is responsible, but the dude basically stole her away. She must have told him she's cheated on 100% of her relationships by now, how does he think this time is different? She literally cheated on someone for him. And the weeks I spent trying to get her back while she had broken up with me he would cover 95%+ of expenses. possibly 100% but she bought gifts for him, because it wasn't cheap dates either. She w…
/r/TheRedPill17/01/16 01:08 AM
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Very well said. I'm feeling particularly burned out today, but it's only my own responsibility to not feel this way and use this anger as motivation to better myself.
/r/askTRP16/01/16 10:57 PM
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Move on.
/r/askTRP16/01/16 11:55 AM
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I think you handled just fine, although it did seem like a comfort test but if you aren't pursuing a ltr then you don't really need to pass those. I agree with billbob02 that you should just keep things light and humerous.
/r/askTRP16/01/16 05:05 AM
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I feel like I just answered this but summed up real quick 3 year open ltr, think she's a unicorn. She falls in love with another man and how eerily similar this was to my first ltr had me wondering why I had 2 women talking about moving out, marriage and kids and then fall in love with another man and brush me aside so easily. Find trp, see how much of a beta bitch I was being in my relationships and how false of an idea 'the one' was (And by one I meant there were multiple 'ones' out there you …
/r/TheRedPill15/01/16 04:24 PM
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Exactly, I can dig it.
/r/askTRP15/01/16 03:36 PM
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Wish I had that mentality with my last 2 breakups but any mistake is a learning experience. I mean without this breakup being as rough as it was I wouldn't had attempted to find trp and I wouldn't be bettering myself like I am currently. I'm very thankful for the great experience I had during the ltr and how much I grew during it(honestly made me a better person over the course of 3 years), but most of all how much I'm growing now that I'm by myself and only have myself for motivation. It's weir…
/r/askTRP15/01/16 03:24 PM
1

Exactly this. I unfortunately pissed off both of my ex's prety bad during the break up but I would always act cordial and try to be friendly but they don't want anything to do with me so but it doesn't matter. Ran into an ex at the gym, said hi and moved on because she doesn't want to talk and it doesn't bother me seeing her or talking.
/r/askTRP15/01/16 02:51 PM
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I always had trouble eating but when I started lifting I drank a protein shake with whole milk every day, easy calories. I actually started to get hungry in the mornings and now I'm rarely, if ever, skipping breakfast which keeps my metabolism up. I was 125 in Nov (was basically depressed and didn't eat all the entire day) and just shy of 140 now.
/r/TheRedPill15/01/16 02:59 AM
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Exactly how I viewed my last relationship. I thought it was the end of the world but instead has lead me to here and become my best self. Just like the op, I'm lucky I didn't lose anything (divorce, kids, stds, ect) and see how positive of an experience it was to be burned and witness AWALT/hypergamy up close.
/r/TheRedPill15/01/16 02:46 AM
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Ex fell in love with another man (also attempted to get another guy before this man but his SMV >>> hers, he was basically chad). I acted like a stereotypical beta bitch in the situation and dragged that mess on for a good month. It also brought back memories of my first break up and how eerily similar it was. So what was the common denominator here? Find some post on here, how to plate an ex (with the intention of wining her back instead of just plate lol), and ended up reading a lot more on tr…
/r/askTRP14/01/16 11:20 PM
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Just on one plate, but working on another who's giving off heavy vibes of wanting a bf but definitely not happening (tattoos, piercings, not fat but doesn't work out, about a 7 because those tits) I also have a chick in the city who I can get whenever I want but is an 6 and I haven't felt desperate enough to go for another visit any time. She's the most active CC rider I've personally met and told me she's doubled her number from the last 3 months alone from the last few years and I think that'l…
/r/askTRP14/01/16 11:05 PM
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Great video btw, very informative.
/r/askTRP14/01/16 10:35 PM
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This is how I've always thought of it. I want to be with other women. I enjoy the three/foursomes. I enjoy hearing the stories my partner had, as well as telling them my stories. I wasn't into the bar scene at all with my last ltr, but I always wanted to try picking up girls while using my girl. Seems like fun and something I'll do someday. So of course an open relationship/polygamy sounds great on paper but there are always difficulties. The main problem most people have, and what you stated in…
/r/askTRP14/01/16 09:18 PM
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No contact didn't work as you contacted her? or did you mean you guys went no contact then broke up? Just stay no contact. Lift, read, work more, do anything to take your mind off it. It's hardest at the start but gets better. Nailing some girl can always help speed along the healing process.
/r/askTRP14/01/16 04:28 AM
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Subtext in her words seems to be that she's getting attached but isn't doing anything to stop it. If she actively stops talking and seeing you then a soft next seems appropriate.
/r/askTRP13/01/16 05:24 PM
1

Evolution.
/r/askTRP13/01/16 05:21 PM
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How we lose? We are all out there for ourselves. Sure we can help one another but having a kid for the reason to help better the world? We aren't here to change the world.
/r/TheRedPill12/01/16 05:52 PM
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My man Sanders
/r/askTRP12/01/16 12:31 PM
1

After reading, seeing, and experiencing the truth I don't think I could ever go back. Perhaps I'll have bouts of weakness or do something BP'er would do, but at the end of the day you still realize the truth.
/r/askTRP12/01/16 04:21 AM
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It's like leaving a dog alone with a steak.
/r/askTRP11/01/16 01:01 AM
1

Well who's the one to decide all of this then?
/r/askTRP11/01/16 12:30 AM
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It's that grey area. I mean it's not like we're counting how many girls we're hooking up with.
/r/askTRP10/01/16 11:37 PM
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Don't see why blowjobs wouldn't count, or my number is far less haha. I guess maybe because it's easier but I've always prefer blowjobs to fucking.
/r/askTRP10/01/16 11:24 PM
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Sexually active since 18 (like legit few days after my birthday and I had my first kiss day before my 18th), so 4.5 years now. Was in 2 serious relationships for pretty much my entire time since I was 18 up until almost 2 months ago, which is when I found trp shortly after. My count is at 16 now, but I definitely agree quality over quantity. Also I personally prefer that connection after seeing someone multiple times, makes the experience better.
/r/askTRP10/01/16 11:15 PM
1

What would you say to your friend if came to you and explained this situation?
/r/askTRP10/01/16 09:37 PM
1

Maybe this is a morality issue but I'm afraid of leaving my LTR because of her dependence on me You aren't culpable for anyone's happiness and well being beside your own and maybe some family members.
/r/askTRP08/01/16 08:09 PM
3

This is all the wake up call you should need. I know AWALT, but this sounds so stereotypical. I guess what occurred is you've fallen into her frame (at least for sex) and she doesn't lust for sex for you but see it as an obligation and just throwing you a bone. If you marry her I would bet some money one day down the road while you're getting sex maybe monthly for no effort and just piv missionary, chad is fucking her ass and cumming down her throat while she begs for it.
/r/TheRedPill07/01/16 06:22 PM
2

Most of us learn from experience unfortunately. But hopefully op learns after this experience.
/r/askTRP07/01/16 02:33 AM
2

Do what makes you happy and do whatever you want because you're a man. However, getting revenge on a woman who's was just acting in female nature is something I don't think you would want to do? Maybe even see this as a challenge to being in control of your emotions and staying in frame. Sometimes I even wish my ex who 'introduced' me to trp just dropped me and didn't prolong things (which is my fault it was prolonged of course). But, thankfully, we all got here so we can learn the truth and bet…
/r/askTRP06/01/16 08:31 AM
1

Remember when a girl professes hee love to add, "Right now I feel like I love you". Obviously not every women is going to tell you they're crazy about you and in love with you and it means something, but you should take it with a grain of salt. I've had women plan their marriage with me and it's amounted to just cheating. I agree with the other guys. Next her and forget about hee until she decides to make plans but you sound really invested with someone you've only hung out with once months ago
/r/askTRP06/01/16 02:45 AM
2

Dammit dude I'm having a giggle fest at work
/r/askTRP06/01/16 12:30 AM
1

Yeah never hurts to read it again, I'll probably do it again sometime since I'm off next 2 days
/r/askTRP06/01/16 12:20 AM
1

Like others are saying, read the sidebar it answers everything. The essence is just be your best you. Not the best you are content with, but hit your maximum potential, starting working toward that.
/r/askTRP05/01/16 11:00 PM
1

Just like the other guy said, only go there if thats what you want, if it's in your best interests. It's akin to choosing what college you should attend and deciding to pick the one your gf is attending. Pick it if it's your best option but picking because of a girl isn't a good idea.
/r/askTRP05/01/16 10:58 PM
2

At 6 months I think this is someone you don't want as a ltr. Big red flag and don't let her being open and honest (as opposed to just fucking this guy without telling you) as a good thing. It's just an ASD by telling you
/r/askTRP05/01/16 10:03 PM
1

Pretty successful night getting that far :p
/r/askTRP05/01/16 09:39 PM
1

If you really want to change it, everytime you do a behavior you don't want (smile at a time you don't want to smile), recognize you just did it and ask yourself why you're smiling. Attempt next time to not do it, will eventually work. Otherwise, why would you want to change it? I would own that and do what fits your style, people don't expect otherwise I they are close/know you.
/r/askTRP05/01/16 07:47 PM
1

About as much as having a huge cock. Might help, but you can't control it and doesn't stop you from getting laid so why even think about it.
/r/askTRP05/01/16 07:41 PM
1

I agree you don't want to over do it. I've had more success letting them suck my dick though.
/r/askTRP05/01/16 07:34 PM
1

Curious. Anger toward what exactly?
/r/askTRP05/01/16 01:38 AM
1

Glad I can be helpful!
/r/askTRP04/01/16 04:05 PM
2

And they won't stop asking to be validating asked am I fat? Does my stomach turn you off? Of course blue-pill me was just fine and just said no it's fine.
/r/TheRedPill04/01/16 04:01 AM
0

I thought my recent relationship was decent enough but every red flag you listed just went ding ding ding as I was reading it. If she's cheated before, She'll do it again. I'm the open relationship type so I was never 'concerned' about cheating. She cheated on every guy she was with before me and surprise, did it to me as well. Three times actually. Before I read trp, each time she cheated I didn't think she was a horrible person but instead I just wasn't open and comfortable enough with what sh…
/r/askTRP04/01/16 03:40 AM
1

Came here to say that. At least for me it's one of the harder trurths to accept but it's something you know is true deep down.
/r/askTRP04/01/16 03:24 AM
1

Are you better now, overall, with this situation then you were 2 months ago? I'm willing to believe yes. I've had pangs here and there but 1.5-2 months ago I was a crying, bitch wreck and way better now. Look at the improvment you've had in 2 months and think about where you could be in 2 more. Then 2 more. It's still pretty recent and you can't control feeling emotions. But you can control putting them to good use and not letting them drag you down. I was a bitch 2 months ago. I'm in the infanc…
/r/askTRP04/01/16 01:42 AM
1

Awesome Asoiaf quote and very applicable to TRP. Never thought about the crossover of the two hmm
/r/askTRP02/01/16 04:02 AM
2

Great write up. Anger is very natural, but using it as a motivator instead of fueling hatred is the best thing we can do.
/r/TheRedPill02/01/16 12:58 AM
3

That's why we're here. Would be nice to treat them equal and as friends. Ht it just leads to unhappiness and experiences that introduce us guys to the rp.
/r/TheRedPill29/12/15 05:38 AM
2

Very well said. Always thought about the 'asshole' guy getting the girl and it makes sense it's becsuse he thinks (because he is) better than her and owns it. We are the prize to be won.
/r/TheRedPill29/12/15 05:36 AM
1

I loss a possible plate that had a bf but wanted my dick so bad. We had done something once before 2 years ago and she really wanted to again but she always had a bf (different bf now than the one she cheated on with) So the mistake I made was texting her sexually and asking to come hang out when she was going to be home for the weekend and it was obvious what we were gonna do. So she felt guilty and told her bf what happened. Instead I should have not pushed much and just said we should meet up…
/r/askTRP28/12/15 02:45 PM
1

Exactly. There are more than enough women out there willing to accept just being a sex object to someone they find hot enough
/r/askTRP28/12/15 02:38 PM
1

I don't think it's 'wrong' to use her for sex while you search for the next girl, If you can handle it. However, wouldn't it be better to next her now? I would imagine she would want to cuddle and hang out beside just fuck and I would be too disgusted to do such things, knowing she's cheating.
/r/askTRP27/12/15 01:07 PM
1

There aren't any magical words or comment that's going to give you the insight you need to get over this woman. You don't have to hate her to get over her though. Basically, you have to equate it to doing anything else in life, like lifting. If it was easy to get ripped, more people would be ripped. Same as accepting RP truths can be hard at first. You got to just be a man and who what you have to do no matter how hard it is.
/r/askTRP25/12/15 06:07 PM
1

Oh I would never not use a condom. I think she's just used to rare because she was in a 3 year ltr that just ended
/r/askTRP25/12/15 06:03 PM
5

Actually never though about the comparison to a female nice guy, actually really accurate haha.
/r/askTRP25/12/15 03:22 PM
6

I have a friend who constantly is fucking new guys and wishing some would commit to her and she gets so surprised when each guy, after fucking her, ignores her and moves on. She's usually fucking up and getting guys way too hot. So she's dissapointed she cant even hold down a fwb but she's going to keep riding the CC.
/r/askTRP25/12/15 03:07 PM
2

I noticed that very much as well. Ex fucked guys constantly without an condom but I was too pussy to stop or end that. Actually 2nd day we met it was sexual and she told me she uses condom but she had to 'test drive' it bare first. I was young and stupid and so glad I didn't get anything. Only person I fucked bare so far. One girl I'm seeing now we had a quick coffee date and she's telling me hey you're not going to ask for nudes or send me dick pics right? Same night sends me random nudes (I sh…
/r/askTRP25/12/15 03:02 PM
1

I was weak.
/r/askTRP24/12/15 10:06 PM
1

Depends on how long but I wouldn't get a gift. Maybe get a round of drinks or a coffee or something on me next I see them. I don't expect either one of my plates to get me anything.
/r/askTRP24/12/15 08:21 PM
1

Ignoring or one reply and nothing else are both fine. Just don't reply back instantly. My ex contacted me over thanksgiving and it just lead to me feeling like shit because it was recent. I think you're over thinking things and should do what you want (ignore or only 1 text then ignore) and realize neither really matters. Who cares what she thinks, it means literarly jack shit. If she thinks you ignoring her makes your butt hurt, who gives a fuck, she's an ex and in the past forever.
/r/askTRP24/12/15 08:18 PM
2

Fuck yeah I'm awesome :p
/r/askTRP24/12/15 08:14 PM
8

Start looking for other plates and wait until she asks you for more sex. When she does contact you again maybe try to comfort her ASD, but as long as the sex is good that's all that really matters
/r/askTRP24/12/15 08:13 PM
-1

Sounds like an ex of mine haha
/r/askTRP24/12/15 03:51 PM
2

We've all been there... Were you 100% surprised or did you have some sort of suspicion, like the angles she had of pics?
/r/askTRP24/12/15 03:49 PM
7

Talk about the gym and clean eating, shit she knows nothing about. See how awkward you can make it before she leaves lol
/r/askTRP24/12/15 03:48 PM
2

To answer that first question, there is plenty of game still left over between your height at shorter (although I'll agree women want guys to be taller and not just a tad taller). I mean I abosoultely love girls that are in the 4'10" to 5'1" range and we are both plenty tall for those girls. Taller guys have it easier but it's only one factor and outside of your control at that. Conversely, some guys are just too tall for them as well lol.
/r/askTRP24/12/15 03:46 PM
2

Exactly. Have to remember it's just your turn. Accepting this gives you power over the situation and allows you to remain in control over yourself.
/r/askTRP24/12/15 05:59 AM
1

There is no right or wrong, just your personal preference. I think this might be a deal breaker for a lot of guys though, so it's more in the 'right'. Obviously, based on your response, this is a deal breaker and you don't need anyones approval but your own.
/r/askTRP24/12/15 04:24 AM
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Not married but in hindsight I see so easily what happened and how much of a beta bitch I've was, especially toward the end. Not full on beta but more of a mix, which works for ltr. I do see all the mistakes I've made throughout the years and how avoidable a lot of things were. I'm still of the mindset where I find the truth somewhat depressing. I'm not letting that stop me from doing what needs to be done and keep approaching women but I'm not sure if I would use the word liberating just yet. S…
/r/ThankTRP24/12/15 04:00 AM
1

Duh he said it right here. If she is content, and you are getting yours, don't worry about her happiness /s
/r/askTRP24/12/15 03:50 AM
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My old self has always been of the mindset of if you start it, how and if I decide to response or escalate worse is your fault for starting because I didn't start this. Of course now I understanding keeping frame, calm and collected is much more important in response but I just never understood why people start shit in the first place.
/r/askTRP24/12/15 03:48 AM
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In response to the edit. It depends how far along you are. If you can own the style/game you personally prefer then go for it. There are multiple approaches and methods and you should do what you're good with. I equate it to starting anything new (hobby, craft, ect). Beginners are given basic and similar starting points. Once you're experienced and developed enough you can begin to separate and do what fits you best because you're experienced. Hope that made sense. Very long day haha.
/r/askTRP24/12/15 03:46 AM
3

Sounds like you're getting head tomorrow if you do it right haha. I agree with the other poster it's ASD.
/r/askTRP24/12/15 03:39 AM
1

Just the fact alone you are developing oneitis means you should develop some distance and not text (esp considering the fact you didn't want the commitment).
/r/askTRP24/12/15 03:37 AM
0

Is this in the context of an open marriage? Assuming so, "No, she's actually quite into it"
/r/askTRP24/12/15 03:31 AM
1

Actually replied to a post similar to this in asktrp a day ago, so I'll just copy paste it. When my ex left me for another man she said she loved more then she ever loved me (3 years vs 3 weeks), and I realized how similar this breakup was to my first breakup, except she was worse because (I let her) she lead me on for a good month while I tried to win back her love this was after cheating on me a year ago too and forgave that as well. I was really distraught and started looking around reddit fo…
/r/TheRedPill23/12/15 07:26 AM
1

My problem exactly lol
/r/askTRP23/12/15 04:07 AM
0

Well how long is the real question, not like it's going to make it too far. I guess a year is kind of long but I doubt it would make it too far.
/r/askTRP23/12/15 04:03 AM
1

Great write up. Haven't missed a single day in 3 weeks and I don't plan on missing a day unless I get sick or something.
/r/TheRedPill22/12/15 08:10 PM
1

The hamster is strong with this one. Actually seems pretty average haha
/r/askTRP22/12/15 07:51 PM
2

That's a great way to put it. I didn't even think about it but both my exs as soon as they don't love you, they believe they have never loved you and nothing was ever there. Never heard of the halo and reverse halo effect before.
/r/askTRP22/12/15 07:50 PM
1

Not only that, but I love the idea of you that I have in my head right now. Not the actual person you.
/r/askTRP22/12/15 07:47 PM
1

Agreeing with everyone else. It's over and some one else is giving her more tingles. Women will say they want to get married and have kids and not understand the weight of that statement that it means to men. They just have the Feelz for it and then just tell you. They fantasy about it. They don't understand the weight that that statement means to men though. They all talk about forever and the future and then next week they're lusting over chad. AWALT
/r/askTRP22/12/15 07:45 PM
2

I feel as if I could do decent on interviews but I have very little practical experience in my field. I'm sure I could do the job if trained a bit. Definitely relates to women. Being confident is great, but you want something to back yourself up so that you can be confident.
/r/TheRedPill22/12/15 05:50 PM
4

Agreed. Rather have the truth than bullshit, no matter how much it sucks haha. It's life.
/r/askTRP21/12/15 07:09 PM
2

Well I'm doing better now. Lifting more than I ever had before and not skipping leg day. Well it happened just last month so I'm still getting used to finding new women. I've had success while with my ex, but there was no pressure and I always had her if anything, so I've only done the online thing before, but I've approached (unsuccessfully) 2 girls for numbers so far, which beats my previous number of never lol. So currently just trying to improve my smv. I have accepted women love differently…
/r/askTRP21/12/15 05:29 PM
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When my ex left me for another man she said she loved more then she ever loved me (3 years vs 3 weeks), and I realized how similar this breakup was to my first breakup, except she was worse because (I let her) she lead me on for a good month while I tried to win back her love this was aftee cheating on me a year ago too and forgave that as well. I was really distraught and started looking around reddit for advice or anything to relate to my situation and eventually found trp and realized the tru…
/r/askTRP21/12/15 02:30 PM
1

Do you ask for separate checks when you order or when you actually ask for the check?
/r/askTRP21/12/15 03:35 AM
1

This is my favorite quote now.
/r/askTRP11/12/15 03:04 AM
1

I don't think it really matters, I'm going to do what I want to do anyway. But ill find out then haha
/r/TheRedPill10/12/15 08:58 PM
-1

The longer someone spends with you, the more attractive they tend to think you are.
/r/TheRedPill10/12/15 08:54 PM
1

Yup. Softly softly. Hold her down before you tie her down. Spank her before you whip her. Never use the words kinky / bondage / BDSM unless you're sure she's into it. While many women are into sub sex, most are also aware of the feminist ideal of being in charge and are reluctant to submit. Powerful orgasms will make her change her mind. Very much the same experience. It took time but I had her calling me daddy and want to be used. I was even able to make her cum to the idea of of me fucking oth…
/r/TheRedPill10/12/15 04:10 PM
1

Have an example of the comfort test? I'm curious.
/r/askTRP10/12/15 03:54 PM
2

You should hit her up if you can. I'm sure she'll be calling you sir in no time...
/r/TheRedPill10/12/15 03:46 PM
1

Agreed D/s is the ideal way to maintain a LTR. I somehow fucked mine up by constantly failing test and she's calling someone else daddy. My personal issue was she was dating down with me. I'm betting myself now and I know by the time I hit this guys age she's seeing I'll be a way better man. I'm in no rush to get older but being young sucks haha.
/r/TheRedPill10/12/15 03:46 PM
1

Great write-ups. I keep thinking about all the tests I've failed over the last 3 years which led to her thinking far less of me. At least I understand it and can learn from the past.
/r/TheRedPill10/12/15 02:34 AM
2

I'm very much the same way, I just don't get jealous barring extreme examples (basically the women wanting to hurt you). Just how I've always been. Seems very natural for me to gravitate toward an open relationship. But what's annoying is that the woman would want you to get jealous. They feel that you don't care if you aren't getting jealous. Do you think it's good or bad? Trp doesn't seem too big on open relationships, but the women believing you aren't fully committed to them/don't care plays…
/r/askTRP09/12/15 07:51 PM
1

This is something I need to do like yesterday
/r/askTRP09/12/15 05:35 AM
0

Well my dad's advice would be to have a couple naps throughout the day.
/r/askTRP09/12/15 05:23 AM
1

I go to retro in nyc. I would it's s 65/35 split. Plenty of women at mine and most of them super fit.
/r/askTRP09/12/15 02:41 AM
1

I had only a vague idea of what the trp was when with my ex and thinking she was a unicorn. Course, AWALT and im here learning. She did exactly what I've read in countless stories and realized I wasn't unique and all the mistakes I've made with comfort tests and being beta and appearing weak to her. I've only been reading here for about a week and I really do believe in the all women are loaded but dammit I'm still under her spell and I don't know what to do. I know. Lift, plate women and wait f…
/r/askTRP09/12/15 02:21 AM
3

I definitely agree that the women was to be used and treated like a slut, spanked, ect ect. But I always changed it up. Plenty of dominant sex but sometimes just passionate sex. Although i mean this in the context of a ltr. Is that seen as bad or something?
/r/askTRP09/12/15 02:13 AM
1

Awesome write up. I know a simple up vote should suffice but you really got to me with this response.
/r/askTRP09/12/15 02:10 AM
1

Yeah I've gotten pissed off at an ex of mine specifically because she would freak out if I was doing what she was doing.
/r/askTRP09/12/15 02:00 AM
1

Great start making the first move to kick her from your life, on the right path.
/r/TheRedPill06/12/15 04:27 AM
-1

I went through the same exact situation of them falling in love with another man while with me twice with both of my two girlfriends. My first I got through because she didn't lead me on and cut it off clean and i found my recent ex who helped me get through it and told me she loved me in three weeks time. I never understood shit testing or keeping my frame but I'm learning about it now. Although she led me on for a good month and kept promising me a future and love ect ect, I'm very glad that i…
/r/TheRedPill05/12/15 06:15 AM
0

Well I assume the cycle will eventually end or any bounces will be rare and quick. My lifting has increased dramtically compared to what I've done over the year but it's busy time with school and retail but I always do what I can at home. Without my dad's influence and own lifting I'm not sure how productive I'd be right now but He's great motivation because he was a skinny fuck like me at my age. I feel like I've always known, to some small extent, how women were but I had the one that was diff…
/r/TheRedPill05/12/15 04:35 AM
1

I definitely have done bouncing back and forth between angry, depressed, and elated but it's all toward my ex instead of with women in general. Much better as of the last few days, but maybe it's a phase still? Just gotta keep on keeping on.
/r/TheRedPill05/12/15 02:36 AM
1

Quick question about the anger phase. Is this a very common thing to go through? I haven't experienced this anger phase, except specifically toward my recent ex and for only 1 or 2 weeks. Now I've accepted she's just acting like the average women and even though I didn't know what a unicorn was at the time in the dating world, I had felt she was different than most women but of course AWALT. At first it was scary, but now it's quite comforting to see how eerily similar she acted like these women…
/r/TheRedPill04/12/15 10:23 PM
0

Forgot to check which sub I was in before commenting.
/r/MensRights15/10/15 05:29 PM
22

Obvious /s there right?
/r/MensRights15/10/15 01:59 PM
0

Ah, good ol' Staten Island. Always in the news for great stuff. Wasn't too long ago that guy got choked out by a cop.
/r/PussyPass28/10/14 12:18 PM
5

Just watched this video a few minutes ago, you beat me to the punch. The chick with the red hair is definitely annoying, but the most infuriating was the one who kept calling the guy scum non stop.
/r/MensRights09/04/13 02:57 AM
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Why aren't you getting help?
/r/MensRights11/03/13 12:06 AM
2

Kinda sad to think that it would be lucky if she was even sent to prison at all, even for just 6 months.
/r/MensRights10/03/13 11:59 PM
1

Also a pic wouldn't show consent, you would need video to really help.
/r/MensRights10/03/13 11:57 PM
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