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| 2 | Is Cold-Approach Really The Hardest Way To Meet and Date Women?Yep, mine is around 1:20-40. Depending on the day. | /r/seduction | 23/05/22 01:11 PM |
| 1 | Is Cold-Approach Really The Hardest Way To Meet and Date Women?So the transition? All of my conversations and "openers" are organic, and I free flow through my conversations as well as know where to take them. Much of this is coming from the mindset of having to have a particular structure or having routine stacks. Which aren't terrible if you have severe social anxiety and want to break through it. But it is limiting because you're stuck to that frame work. How I do my approaches is that I am constantly listening and gauging their reciprocation of conversa… | /r/seduction | 23/05/22 12:17 PM |
| 2 | Is Cold-Approach Really The Hardest Way To Meet and Date Women?I don't really associate with PUA. I guess I do do it to a certain extent. But I'm minimal in how I use techniques. Because what I do works for me, and that I don't pressure anyone and I always leave people in a better place. I am far from those weird, creepy PUA's that do all of that super mechanical bs just to try and get a girl to like them. | /r/seduction | 23/05/22 12:13 PM |
| 1 | Is Cold-Approach Really The Hardest Way To Meet and Date Women?I do the best in Daygame myself. And no one knows about Daygame. I don't think women walk around paranoid about someone talking to them unless they're in a really shady city. | /r/seduction | 23/05/22 06:13 AM |
| 1 | Is Cold-Approach Really The Hardest Way To Meet and Date Women?As opposed to what? | /r/seduction | 23/05/22 04:55 AM |
| 3 | Is Cold-Approach Really The Hardest Way To Meet and Date Women?For me, I find cold-approach. I love it. I don't find it a waste of time. I love meeting people, and love the process of meeting women. | /r/seduction | 23/05/22 04:13 AM |
| 1 | Having a debate with friend: Does a 6’4 average looking guy need game?Everyone does. There is no easy, simple solution. | /r/seduction | 19/05/22 01:08 AM |
| 2 | Having a debate with friend: Does a 6’4 average looking guy need game?Why would you want attention? What's with this level of entitlement and expectation that you're only good with women and dating, if they flock to you like you're some emperor of Rome in 250BC? And why are those the only 2 options you're focusing on. Supermodel and incel. Why isn't it good enough to date women you're attracted to, and take action to meet them? | /r/seduction | 19/05/22 12:47 AM |
| 1 | Having a debate with friend: Does a 6’4 average looking guy need game?What's this "idea" about "wanting attention". On one side men say you have to be "Alpha" and take action and make the first move. But then those are the same guys who complain that they have to go out and actively meet women. That's exactly the whole premise of being "Alpha". So you aren't sitting there, trying to magnetically attract women with the law of attraction, just because you're 6'3 and think you're entitled to get all the women you want by doing as little as possible. | /r/seduction | 19/05/22 12:39 AM |
| 2 | Having a debate with friend: Does a 6’4 average looking guy need game?Ask yourself this seriously. Is every guy over 6'3 that has a decent physique, with a girl, married in a relationship? This idea that a girl will just throw themselves at you because you're 6'3, with a decent body is ridiculous. So what about connection? She doesn't care that he's introverted, has no drive in life, no passion, goals, or has any ambition in life? Has terrible social skills, dumb as a brick and has the charisma of a bag of cement? So by this theory, when you go to the clubs. Every… | /r/seduction | 18/05/22 11:41 PM |
| 2 | I (23F) want to make a move on my older neighbor (52M), not sure of how to go about itGo to your local retirement home and see if you still think this. You're not going to see ripped old men walking around in bathrobes smoking cigars. I can assure you that. This idea that just males get better with age is absolute bs. Successful women can also become better with age if she also looks after herself. | /r/seduction | 18/05/22 11:23 PM |
| 1 | This is why your interactions and dates keep fizzling out and going nowhereI really appreciate this man. Thanks for the comment! You into cold-approach yourself? | /r/seduction | 17/05/22 11:32 PM |
| 1 | How to slide into DMS as a girl?It has no context. He could just think you're a telemarketer trying to sell him some shit. At least try to have a normal conversation first. Women don't understand this, but almost every time (and often) fake accounts that have attractive women will DM guys to get them to sign up to an adult site. So you risk coming across as a spam bot or a telemarketer once again. | /r/seduction | 17/05/22 11:31 PM |
| 1 | How to slide into DMS as a girl?You could literally send him a single smiley emoji and 95% of the time he will text you back. It's very easy for you guys. | /r/seduction | 17/05/22 07:41 PM |
| 1 | This is why your interactions and dates keep fizzling out and going nowhereMuch appreciated man. Years and years of experience. ;) | /r/seduction | 17/05/22 07:39 PM |
| 2 | This is why your interactions and dates keep fizzling out and going nowhereInner-alignment also helps that process of magnetism. :) | /r/seduction | 17/05/22 07:38 PM |
| 1 | This is why your interactions and dates keep fizzling out and going nowhereWell, a small minority will make it easy, but that's because there's already some natural chemistry there. And honestly, to find natural chemistry is really hard to find someone where you just click on every level and it just goes smoothly with no bumps in the road. I think that's what most guys do. Just go on a date and throw their bait into the water and pray that something happens. Which is probably why I hate the term getting "lucky", because it takes the responsibility out of your own hands… | /r/seduction | 17/05/22 11:16 AM |
| 1 | Is women liking bad boys an age related thing or an individual preference?Both. Typically girls that are considered to be more "toxic" are the ones that will go for the bad boys to compensate for a lack of strong father figure in their life. As for age, after the age of 25, women start shifting their preferences to guys which aren't "Bad boys" anymore. Because as thrilling as it was, they know they get treated like shit every time. So hopefully, they learn their lesson. That's the reason why they like mature guys the older they get. In most cases though. | /r/seduction | 16/05/22 09:23 AM |
| 1 | "People are dating all wrong, according to data science"I'll never find violence or porn arousing. If it does, then something is seriously wrong. Sure a bit of bdsm, but all of the really aggressive shit, drawing blood... No thanks. | /r/seduction | 16/05/22 09:19 AM |
| 8 | let's face it.. only socially creepy PUAs, social outcasts, and people with autistic tendencies will do cold approach because it is against the social norms. Stop presenting cold approach as a legit way to meet womenI've dated hundreds of women from cold-approach over the last 10 years. Just because others want to limit their way of meeting people, doesn't mean I have to. I find cold-approach extremely liberating. And I'd rather meet a girl from cold-approach so I can tell my kids that I had the balls to meet her, rather than relying on friends or a dating app for our story of how we first met. | /r/seduction | 16/05/22 09:13 AM |
| 9 | What's the most profound thing you've learned while dating?By going out ans meeting women. | /r/seduction | 16/05/22 02:58 AM |
| 46 | What's the most profound thing you've learned while dating?Yes. They're just people. | /r/seduction | 15/05/22 11:52 PM |
| 87 | What's the most profound thing you've learned while dating?Strangely enough, the best thing I've learned is that women are more similar to men that are different. I think women are awesome. But they also have their own flaws too and they're just people. If you give them a chance to open up, the almost always will. And you have about 500 chances a day you're missing that are women walking right by you that you can meet. So many girls that I met, that I thought was going to go no where are still in my life today. Most of all, a true, deep, sense of unshak… | /r/seduction | 15/05/22 11:34 PM |
| 1 | How do you approach a big group of attractive girls?Greet them all by using a general statement. "You all look like insert here. Then you can ask them all a few questions and the ones which are more receptive you can focus your attention on them and speak to them while still sharing your attention with the rest of the group. Sooner or later you will find the 1 or 2 girls you really get along with. But you also have to engage the rest or they will get pissed off you're ignoring them. | /r/seduction | 15/05/22 07:53 PM |
| 1 | How Being "Non-Needy" Is Killing Your Text GameBingo! | /r/seduction | 15/05/22 06:22 PM |
| 1 | How Being "Non-Needy" Is Killing Your Text GameI sense a black piller... So you're saying that of a girl isn't attracted to you in the first 5 seconds that her decision is set in stone, carved into granite, to never change? You can influence her levels of liking you, which can affect how attracted to you she is. I've done this at least hundreds of times. I know. You're going to say she's already attracted. But trust me. They weren't at first. | /r/seduction | 15/05/22 06:22 PM |
| 1 | How Being "Non-Needy" Is Killing Your Text GameThats true. But that's why you should always ask her out so she has some idea where it's going or what to expect. | /r/seduction | 15/05/22 06:20 PM |
| 2 | How Being "Non-Needy" Is Killing Your Text GameThere is so much extreme advice out there, and it's easy for young insecure, inexperienced and broken men to believe it. Mostly because it's polarizing that they think it must be true. | /r/seduction | 15/05/22 06:18 PM |
| 1 | How Being "Non-Needy" Is Killing Your Text GameJust talking from experience. 😎 | /r/seduction | 15/05/22 06:17 PM |
| 1 | How Being "Non-Needy" Is Killing Your Text Game😎😎😎 | /r/seduction | 15/05/22 06:16 PM |
| 1 | How Being "Non-Needy" Is Killing Your Text GameYep! | /r/seduction | 15/05/22 06:15 PM |
| 1 | How Being "Non-Needy" Is Killing Your Text GameThat's it! | /r/seduction | 15/05/22 06:14 PM |
| 1 | How Being "Non-Needy" Is Killing Your Text GameExactly. I screen out those girls that just want to play games for validation very fast. I feel like I've lost nothing too. | /r/seduction | 15/05/22 06:14 PM |
| 1 | How Being "Non-Needy" Is Killing Your Text GameHow to have a normal conversation is quite self-explanitory. | /r/seduction | 15/05/22 06:12 PM |
| 2 | How Being "Non-Needy" Is Killing Your Text GameIf you're consistently getting flaked on, then it's a reflection of a lack of connection in your interactions. | /r/seduction | 15/05/22 06:11 PM |
| 2 | Has any of you tried the AMS (Alpha Male Strategies) cold approach?Awesome response man, love it! | /r/seduction | 15/05/22 12:14 AM |
| 1 | Just went out and did about 15-20 approachesYeah, see, that still leads a lot of variables up in the air. Now it makes more sense. But yeah, agree. A lot of shit out there is over-complicated. | /r/seduction | 14/05/22 07:33 PM |
| 2 | Just went out and did about 15-20 approachesAhh, there's where the problem lays. 10% in PUA terms is from meeting her, to sleeping with her. But this seems to just be talking about asking her out on a date, and her agreeing. I'm skimming through the study now. Does this actually take into consideration of them actually meeting up and seeing each other again? Or simply her agreeing to catching up? There's a big difference between both. And I don't think it mentions under what situation or scenario or how long they've known each other befor… | /r/seduction | 14/05/22 07:25 PM |
| 3 | I got my first rejectionYou're welcome man. If you like, give me a follow because I have been and will be posting a lot more to help guys out on all levels such as yourself. :) | /r/seduction | 14/05/22 07:07 PM |
| 1 | How to be less boring of a person?The chances are man, is that this is more about your self-esteem than it is their reaction and your idea that you need to get a certain reaction to be interesting. Unless you live in a sitcom like Friends, you don't need to be best-friends, always laughing, having the deepest intellectual conversations about the universe. Having close friendships is more just about feeling comfortable to open up to someone. Which can just mean being there for them and building a lot of trust. And also, it takes … | /r/seduction | 14/05/22 07:05 PM |
| 2 | Just went out and did about 15-20 approaches"conducted in 1978 and 1982". Males and females are pretty much the same now. But the social expectations and subtle differences change interactions quite a lot. I have experimented with very short approaches. And you can tell by a girls sub-communication from her reaction by how interested she is. But the problem is that just because she appreciates you compliment, that doesn't necessarily mean she's attracted to you. Now, to go the other way. I actually do agree with you. This is why I've refi… | /r/seduction | 14/05/22 06:59 PM |
| -1 | You can't logically convince someone to find you attractive.Spam by definition is "digital junk mail — unsolicited communications sent in bulk over the internet or through any electronic messaging system.." This post isn't spam. And why are people so reluctant to help others grow their channels if they're helping you? It's just a Youtube channel. If it was a sales page or product page, that would be different. But it's not. | /r/seduction | 14/05/22 06:53 PM |
| 1 | Looking for a PUA group in MünchenI'm not from Munchen, but I definitely think I can help you. You can ask me here or in my DM's, I don't mind either way. :) I'm also very used to (and love) dating German and European women. | /r/seduction | 14/05/22 06:48 PM |
| 2 | Thoughts on coach Kyle?Each coach has something you can learn from. Even the worst ones out there. Don't sit around playing favourites and thinking who's best. Take something you like from what you've seen or heard. Try it 15 times and see if it works for you. Because the same thing, same tonality, same body-language can work for one guy and not another. In my personal opinion, I quite like him. As he is quite likable and that means he has a higher chance of being better than other guys. And he's more down to Earth, l… | /r/seduction | 14/05/22 06:45 PM |
| 5 | Just went out and did about 15-20 approachesI've been consistently doing daygame very consistently for over a decade man, that study may have worked on a select 20-50 people. But out in the field, that's absolute fucking bullshit. Sorry to be so brutal, but there is absolutely no truth to that. Even guys that are considered to be the "Best" in the field, get barely a 10% average "close" rate. This study will do nothing other than affect your ability to approach and your mindset. | /r/seduction | 14/05/22 06:41 PM |
| 4 | I got my first rejectionI understand exactly what you feel man. When I first started, I would literally go to a park where I think it would be the easiest to approach a girl... After pumping myself up from watching Youtube video's... And if anyone was within eye-shot of seeing me talk to another girl, I wouldn't approach her in fear of people thinking I'm harassing her or if they somehow knew about PUA (which is very unlikely). But your mind will jump to crazy conclusions just to protect yourself. People say this all t… | /r/seduction | 14/05/22 06:38 PM |
| 1 | How to be less boring of a person?In the nicest way, this comes from a place of selfishness. You're just thinking about what you're interested in, and potentially what she's interested in to make it fun for you. You should by default be looking to make the interaction fun for her, by being interested in her. What makes her tick, respond, cringe, react to certain subjects, laugh, get a little defensive... But as an overall, the more interests you have the more you can relate to others. And by being able to be deeply relatable, yo… | /r/seduction | 14/05/22 06:32 PM |
| 11 | Just went out and did about 15-20 approachesBy you asking if they're polite, seems to suggest that you've potentially had harsh rejections or worried about getting harshly rejected. Is this true? | /r/seduction | 14/05/22 06:27 PM |
| 5 | Just went out and did about 15-20 approachesYou don't know how long he's been doing this for. The question might have good intentions, but if you ask a person who started investing in bitcoin, how much money he's made, it might dissuade him from keep going as he's too focused on the goal. Numbers are an okay goal to have, but there could be many other things going wrong even if you are getting them. | /r/seduction | 14/05/22 06:26 PM |
| 2 | Just went out and did about 15-20 approachesYou'd probably be less than 0.5% of the current entire population in the last 50 years. | /r/seduction | 14/05/22 06:25 PM |
| 3 | Just went out and did about 15-20 approachesIf your "Game" (I hate that terminology) has to require pure luck to get any results then you are the reason why you aren't getting results. Not "Game" itself. If I walked around beating myself up and attacked myself for every woman that rejected me, I would have easily given up over the last 10 years. You never learn any skill in life by just giving up every time you don't succeed at something. If that were the case, you should never do bodybuilding, investing, art, coding, or anything that req… | /r/seduction | 14/05/22 06:24 PM |
| 2 | Just went out and did about 15-20 approachesAwesome work man! A few questions for you :) What was your take away from going out and doing those approaches? Which ones were your better approaches? What do you think you can work on? What does your "average" interaction look like? If you answer these, I'll do my best to help you. | /r/seduction | 14/05/22 06:18 PM |
| 1 | 👱♀️ Here's How You Can Use Tattoo's To Make Deeper And Stronger Connections With Women From Cold-Approach 👱♀️Read the whole post and I go into detail and explain some people get them just for the sake of getting them. | /r/seduction | 14/05/22 07:44 AM |
| 2 | 👱♀️ Here's How You Can Use Tattoo's To Make Deeper And Stronger Connections With Women From Cold-Approach 👱♀️Thanks, 10 years in man. I don't sit around and talk shit with hypotheticals. I go out and test every single possible theory, variable and possibility which comes from experience. Not empty knowledge. | /r/seduction | 14/05/22 02:40 AM |
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| 6 | How to act after a rejection?Ideally you want to get into a flow state where you do get rejected, but you thank them and meet the next person. There will be times when you meet a girl where you think she's attractive and really like her but for one reason or another she will reject you in person or face to face. What I think is best is sit down, and let that frustration and disappointment settle in, let it dissolve on it's own. And approach after it's faded away. You don't want to be taking that energy into the next interac… | /r/seduction | 14/05/22 02:20 AM |
| 1 | How Do You Know If You Have Good "Inner-Game"?And don't think just because someone posts a group link that they can't give genuine advice and ask genuine questions. That's a terrible place to come from. | /r/seduction | 14/05/22 02:16 AM |
| 1 | How Do You Know If You Have Good "Inner-Game"?No I'm not. I posted this for everyone to learn from. That's just a group where I post more posts like this. | /r/seduction | 14/05/22 12:55 AM |
| 1 | How Do You Know If You Have Good "Inner-Game"?If you liked this post, I have a Free group where I discuss PUA and cold-approach to help guys who are wanting to learn about Daygame, or to improve where they currently are if they have any sticking points. If that's something that interests you, Join Here: https://www.facebook.com/groups/696956901592043 | /r/seduction | 13/05/22 11:52 AM |
| 1 | How Being "Non-Needy" Is Killing Your Text GameThere are so many more ways than 2 definitions of what "adding value" is man. Way more. Some say humour. Some say body-language. Non-verbal alpha communication. How much you earn. Your energy / vibe. Telling interesting stories. Raising her buying temperature. The list goes on and on. Why not just say specifically and exactly what to do? The problem is that everyone has different values, core values, social values and personal values, so when you say "bro, just add value" it means absolutely not… | /r/seduction | 12/05/22 06:53 AM |
| 1 | How Being "Non-Needy" Is Killing Your Text GameThanks, really appreciate it! | /r/seduction | 12/05/22 06:51 AM |
| 1 | How Being "Non-Needy" Is Killing Your Text GameIt varied. Some just say only text when she texts you. So you just mirror her. So if she only texts once a day. Then you only text once a day. And then it just becomes this game of mirroring. And most women won't text much unless she likes you enough. Which is why I think you need to make an impact at first to some degree. | /r/seduction | 12/05/22 06:49 AM |
| 1 | How Being "Non-Needy" Is Killing Your Text GameThis is in reference before you're both intimate. | /r/seduction | 12/05/22 06:48 AM |
| 2 | How Being "Non-Needy" Is Killing Your Text GameGuys in this industry think that if you just send a text and do nothing that she's going to be so impressed by you being "non-needy" it's going to make her chase you. That's not how humans function, or anyone that's emotionally stable. But yeah, I'm glad your partner reached out and you took it one step at a time, which I think what any normal interaction should look like. | /r/seduction | 12/05/22 06:46 AM |
| 2 | How Being "Non-Needy" Is Killing Your Text GameBut if you know how to calibrate and respond to her energy, vibe and what she's receptive to, you won't be "simping". Because calibration is all about backing off when she isn't receptive. | /r/seduction | 12/05/22 06:45 AM |
| 3 | How Being "Non-Needy" Is Killing Your Text GameI like this! Awesome train of thought! | /r/seduction | 12/05/22 06:44 AM |
| 2 | How Being "Non-Needy" Is Killing Your Text GameI LOVE THIS! So true! | /r/seduction | 12/05/22 06:43 AM |
| 1 | How Being "Non-Needy" Is Killing Your Text GameWhat does exactly? | /r/seduction | 12/05/22 06:43 AM |
| 1 | How Being "Non-Needy" Is Killing Your Text GameAgree. Perfectly said. :) | /r/seduction | 12/05/22 04:56 AM |
| 2 | How Being "Non-Needy" Is Killing Your Text GameI've been in this a long time. 11 years now. Playing Fire used to say this back in the day, but Alex changed his stance on it. I think... UMP (Ultimate Man Project) says the same, but I could be wrong. Almost every single cold-approach channel I saw, said this. And believed it 100%. Only in the last 3 years, a few guys have started to question it. | /r/seduction | 12/05/22 04:31 AM |
| 1 | How Being "Non-Needy" Is Killing Your Text GameHey guys, here's a link to this group. I don't know if you're allowed to post facebook links and groups in this subreddit, and I am still waiting for Admin's to DM me back... But if you wanted to cut the BS out of all of the dating advice out there, and become proficient and efficient by improving your cold-approach... Check out the group below. https://www.facebook.com/groups/696956901592043 | /r/seduction | 12/05/22 03:54 AM |
| 10 | How Being "Non-Needy" Is Killing Your Text GameAbsence doesn't make the heart grow fonder if you're boring the shit out of her. It's going to do exactly that. Make her absent. I'm ot saying sit on your phone 24/7. But I am saying that this whole try hard thing of ignoring her just to get your dose of ego, to feel good about a woman chasing you is just ineffective and immature. | /r/seduction | 12/05/22 03:30 AM |
| 5 | How Being "Non-Needy" Is Killing Your Text GameI never said all day. But I personally like to keep the conversation fun and interesting. There's this idea that if you text someone too much, you become friend zoned. I think it's the opposite. If you text women the right way, you increase your chances. But it seems men are either lazy, or they don't want to take accountability of making the first move and leading the interaction. | /r/seduction | 12/05/22 03:28 AM |
| 6 | How Being "Non-Needy" Is Killing Your Text GameAnd in their minds they think they're being "non-needy" and wanting you to chase. When who the fuck wants to sit there typing to themselves to just fill their ego up of being "chased". | /r/seduction | 12/05/22 03:24 AM |
| 28 | How Being "Non-Needy" Is Killing Your Text GameYeah, that's a whole different post. I want to keep them reasonably short. | /r/seduction | 12/05/22 02:39 AM |
| 4 | How Being "Non-Needy" Is Killing Your Text GameExactly! Someone gets it! 🥳 | /r/seduction | 11/05/22 11:43 PM |
| 6 | How Being "Non-Needy" Is Killing Your Text GameI hate these vague terms such as "value". Value is what I think of when I want to get a discount at my local store. And this is very cliche PUA advice that's just recycled without being questioned. I'd rather just talk to her as a normal human being than doing all of this PUA gimicky shit and trying to be "ultra high value". | /r/seduction | 11/05/22 11:15 PM |
| 16 | How Being "Non-Needy" Is Killing Your Text GameYou can have great conversations with women that are fun, interesting and dynamic over text without it being "needy". It's as if you talk like that as soon as you send 3 extra letters that you're slapped into this 'needy zone' for life. I like talking to women, online and offline. And if you're always sitting there paranoid, counting every text and worried about how "beta" or "needy" you're going to come across, of course it's going to feel like a chore. | /r/seduction | 11/05/22 11:04 PM |
| 1 | UPDATED Seddit Rules / Posting Guidelines - 10/21/21I have a facebook group that I use to help men with their dating lives. Are you allowed to post your facebook group and page in the post, or the comment section? | /r/seduction | 11/05/22 01:32 AM |
| 7 | This Is Why You're Struggling To Connect And Show Intent With WomenI disagree. Just because you can show sexual intent. It doesn't mean you know how to ground it. Use escalation or calibration the right way to get the most out of it. | /r/seduction | 10/05/22 01:03 PM |
| 1 | 🌏 My Personal Bible On How To Meet And Date Women From All Over The World 🌍Hah, no hard feelings here. I was just blunt in my disagreement. You're Saul right? The Aussie? You were coaching once, but not anymore. I'm also Aussie. | /r/seduction | 10/05/22 11:03 AM |
| 0 | 🌏 My Personal Bible On How To Meet And Date Women From All Over The World 🌍I don't. Math does. 20 approaches a day for 10 years ans I had about 4 weeks odd total in that time. | /r/seduction | 10/05/22 06:09 AM |
| 1 | 🌏 My Personal Bible On How To Meet And Date Women From All Over The World 🌍Oh, forgot to take it out :| I think advertising groups is not allowed in here, right? | /r/seduction | 09/05/22 11:34 PM |
| 1 | 🌏 My Personal Bible On How To Meet And Date Women From All Over The World 🌍"And pretty much every woman on the planet wants to be intellectually stimulated. Not specific to Russian women at all". This is complete BS. I have met so many women that just want vapid, fun, conversations. And as soon as you talk about politics, history, science or medicine, their eyes glaze over. Have you ever tried watching a documentary with 80%+ of women? They hate the idea of it, and even if they do watch 5+ minutes of it, they're bored out of their mind. Most people don't care about dee… | /r/seduction | 09/05/22 10:56 PM |
| 0 | 🌏 My Personal Bible On How To Meet And Date Women From All Over The World 🌍This was just a basic guide for most cultures for men who are travelling or meeting people from other places. What did people want? A full psychological profile of every single person from every culture? Fucking hell. This is just my observations of meeting and really getting to know people from all around the world and dating them. It's not like this didn't take and hour and a half to type and 10 years to figure out myself. But because I didn't exactly specify each individual unique personality… | /r/seduction | 09/05/22 10:45 PM |
| 0 | 🌏 My Personal Bible On How To Meet And Date Women From All Over The World 🌍What a way to excel at life and educate yourself. | /r/seduction | 09/05/22 10:41 PM |
| 1 | 🌏 My Personal Bible On How To Meet And Date Women From All Over The World 🌍Sure man, would love to connect. And how do you know I have a cold-approach coaching group? (I'm pretty new to Reddit). | /r/seduction | 09/05/22 10:40 PM |
| 2 | can someone explain the reason for skewed male:female ratio on dating apps and pretty much all real life social settings such as bars, clubs, etc?First, what's the worst is when people try and use stats from Dating Apps to justify their theories that, that's a representation of dating in the real world. Dating apps are specifically designed from a marketing perspective, knowing that there will be more men on there, so they intentionally skew the algorithm so it makes it more difficult for men, than women. So then you have to pay for silver or gold, to get you to pay to get attention and eyes on your profile. It's all just a business model… | /r/seduction | 09/05/22 10:35 PM |
| 1 | What pushed you over the edge to finally start cold approaching?Nothing really pushed me over an edge. I just saw other guys doing it and getting results, and knew I could too. Besides, who wants to sit on dating apps all day swiping when you can see an attractive women walking down the road and speak to her. Plus there's not competition in Daygame as there is at night. She's all yours, in a conversational sense. I've met too many women in daygame that I thought weren't going to be receptive, which ended up being very intimate partners that I still talk to. … | /r/seduction | 09/05/22 10:28 PM |
| 5 | How do you personally word it when you are asking a girl on a date?You need to build a solid connection first and that the conversation is going both ways on text or in person and preferably both. No matter how you ask her out, won't matter if she doesn't want to spent time with you one on one. And there has to be a level of trust and comfort there. Here's what I use... "Hey, I'm going to have some free time *later this week/next week*, and was thinking of heading to *nature, park, markets, beaches*. You're more than welcome to join me". Don't think that you ha… | /r/seduction | 09/05/22 10:16 PM |
| 1 | I want to bring a board game to make my coffee dates better. What are some good games?I think you had one or 2 girls that you were intimate with that liked board games ans now you think it's this smooth move. You don't want to play board games. You aren't 14. You need to be close to her, and intimate. You can't build that intimacy while playing board games. It's just not sexy or attractive. | /r/seduction | 09/05/22 10:41 AM |
| 0 | 🌏 My Personal Bible On How To Meet And Date Women From All Over The World 🌍It's easy to get offended on the internet. Don't take it so personally. I'm Australian and we have a lot of Bogan (Red Necks) here. But I still stick to that statement. | /r/seduction | 09/05/22 10:35 AM |
| 1 | 🌏 My Personal Bible On How To Meet And Date Women From All Over The World 🌍Been doing it for 11 years. But I slowed down from Covid over the last 2 years. So about 9 years all up. | /r/seduction | 09/05/22 10:28 AM |
| 1 | 🌏 My Personal Bible On How To Meet And Date Women From All Over The World 🌍I said this is a general cultural observation to the women I met. I dated at least 30 from each culture and met well over 100. So even if I didn't date them, I understood eho they wanted to date and how they hold their relationships and social life. No one, not I, you or anyone can list every single nuance of human behavior. But these are typically what you can expect from the general population. | /r/seduction | 09/05/22 10:27 AM |
| 1 | 🌏 My Personal Bible On How To Meet And Date Women From All Over The World 🌍Sorry, but I completely disagree with this. And if I went into every single vague nuance about every single culture. This would have to be it's own book. Not every single woman likes intellectual conversations. Especially most women and people from the UK who much rather small talk and banter. If you're still at openers man ans what to say... You have much, much work to do. You shouldn't be focused on the opener as much as the energy as you open with. You can have the beat opener in the world, b… | /r/seduction | 09/05/22 10:25 AM |
| 3 | 🌏 My Personal Bible On How To Meet And Date Women From All Over The World 🌍I'm currently 38, and been doing Daygame and cold-approach for 11 years now. I realized a lot of guys over simplify meeting women, but at the same time struggle with dating. So I gave this quick guide because if you treat people the same and date someone from South American compared to Russia or Asia, it's going to be a huge struggle for you. So yeah, that's why I wrote it. And thanks for appreciating how much time, energy and effort it took to acquire this knowledge and to write this post. :) | /r/seduction | 09/05/22 07:25 AM |
| 1 | 🌏 My Personal Bible On How To Meet And Date Women From All Over The World 🌍Of course. Having someone in your hometown that isn't accustomed to your culture, as opposed to someone that's been in your culture for 3 years is going to change over a period of time. I didn't want to get too explicit. But dating girls and sleeping with them are different from each culture, especially for Asian cultures is because there is no hookup culture. Or very little of it. And the sex for them, because they aren't as open as many Western countries is not as varied as the West. And they … | /r/seduction | 09/05/22 07:01 AM |
| 1 | Red Pill Men are Just as Bad as Third Wave Feminist WomenI know this is a bit. But I can't predict how people are going to react to a post. | /r/ExRedPill | 28/04/22 11:19 AM |
| 1 | Red Pill Men are Just as Bad as Third Wave Feminist WomenEducate me then. What was I wrong about? | /r/ExRedPill | 28/04/22 12:44 AM |
| 1 | Red Pill Men are Just as Bad as Third Wave Feminist WomenWell, seems to be pretty solidly connected with reality, considering this lawyer has it on his website as a form of sexual harassment. - https://www.jmllaw.com/blog/how-long-can-you-stare-at-a-female-co-worker-without-being-creepy.shtml And apologies, 5 seconds, not 3. It is and legally can be constituted by law, as sexual harassment. | /r/ExRedPill | 27/04/22 10:29 AM |
| -2 | Red Pill Men are Just as Bad as Third Wave Feminist WomenWhat? This makes absolutely no sense. How is calling someone biological by their sex, "harmful"? I'm not saying you should disrespect them as human beings. If anything, call them what they identify with. Sure. But the whole entire premise of trans people, is someone that now identifies as a sex, was previously the opposite sex. There is absolutely nothing dangerous or harmful about that. | /r/ExRedPill | 27/04/22 10:13 AM |
| -7 | Red Pill Men are Just as Bad as Third Wave Feminist WomenYes, exactly. It gave you the politically correct answer. | /r/ExRedPill | 27/04/22 10:11 AM |
| 2 | Red Pill Men are Just as Bad as Third Wave Feminist WomenI'm happy to be corrected. | /r/ExRedPill | 27/04/22 10:01 AM |
| -5 | Red Pill Men are Just as Bad as Third Wave Feminist WomenThat's fine, you're more than welcome to disagree with me. But this is also the problem with Feminism. Is that you get a different variation of it where ever you go. And of course if you go to a popular 3rd Wave feminist website, it's only going to tell you what you want to hear. Here's a few things you should consider. I'm not here to change your mind. Which this information has clearly left out. Antifa is a group who acts off the premise of third wave Feminism, which has recently died down, bu… | /r/ExRedPill | 27/04/22 10:00 AM |
| 3 | Red Pill Men are Just as Bad as Third Wave Feminist WomenThis is about 5% of what I was referring to in my post. It seems people just have seen the word "feminists" and ignored everything else. I'm talking about the indoctrination and herd mentality that often get broken, insecure people, (men and women) to make them feel like they're a part of something bigger or to give them a sense of purpose by being part of these social movements. | /r/ExRedPill | 27/04/22 09:36 AM |
| -17 | Red Pill Men are Just as Bad as Third Wave Feminist WomenThere are 3 waves of Feminism. I won't go into them all, but you can look it up. Third Wave is Feminism in the last 20/30 years, which has focused more around attacking masculinity, men, gender politics and identity, rather than focusing on core social issues which are secondary at best. | /r/ExRedPill | 27/04/22 09:27 AM |
| 0 | Red Pill Men are Just as Bad as Third Wave Feminist WomenOkay, I'll be fair and throw you some slack. In the last 10 years, which social issues has Third Wave Feminism fixed, that has now made your life better, easier and happier in your every day life? And how has it given you more rights to live a better life? And also, I'm politically neutral. I lean left for some issues, right for other issues. But I'm quite strongly neutral. I don't favour sides off of my own personal beliefs and biases, which I try to limit as much as possible. | /r/ExRedPill | 27/04/22 09:19 AM |
| -9 | Red Pill Men are Just as Bad as Third Wave Feminist WomenIt seems you haven't read the whole post, and you're side-tracking my comments and focusing on one specific comment rather than taking consideration to the context I'm using it in for my overall point. But to address your question, which is not specified to my comment, yes. 3rd wave feminism has become so highly identified with individual character, traits, pronouns, that it's lost all meaning to it's original purpose. This "movement" alone, has successfully created a trend of calling masculinit… | /r/ExRedPill | 27/04/22 08:43 AM |
| -16 | Red Pill Men are Just as Bad as Third Wave Feminist WomenI can address this easily, but it seems in the comment section so far, that people are just reading the title and throwing a comment down without reading the rest of what I said. The reason I said this was to note the correlation of herd mentality between these extreme groups, while simultaneously proclaiming they're 'free thinkers' or some other variation of superiority because of their personal and political groups. | /r/ExRedPill | 27/04/22 08:34 AM |
| -13 | Red Pill Men are Just as Bad as Third Wave Feminist WomenThe many I've met at rallies certainly do. | /r/ExRedPill | 27/04/22 07:51 AM |
| 2 | Need to improve inner game and start approachingif you ha e any other questions you're more than welcome to ask. So long as you don't bombard me with 50 questions. Keep going out man. And rather than trying to 'kill' that part of yourself and thinking it's something wrong to get approach anxiety, try and come at it from acceptance and go with it. Don't fight against it. That's where you find those sociopathic / numb PUA's who've lost all sense of their Humanity. | /r/seduction | 23/11/21 02:35 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Daygame is more associated with street game and meeting girls in public spaces. What you're more wanting is social circle and warm circle game. Trust me, you don't want to be known as the weird pick up guy 20 years later at your reunion that just used to try and hit on every girl he could. Have a conversation with them, add them as a friend on Snap or Insta and then maybe ask them out. It's also highly risky as you have a reputation to uphold. | /r/seduction | 23/11/21 02:14 PM |
| 3 | Need to improve inner game and start approachingI've done Daygame consistently for 10 years straight man, and it's normal to still have a strong fear and anxiety of cold-approach a few months in. Depending on how much you go out. It's very normal to worry about what girls will think about you. I wouldn't say you have inner game issues as much as you're just a normal human being. However, I do recommend trying to talk to everyone and anyone, and use momentum to get comfortable speaking to girls, even girls in fashion stores and supermarkets to… | /r/seduction | 23/11/21 02:05 PM |
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