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| 1 | I have a bartender my numberBrah I work in the service industry. Unless she already has a crush on you she ain’t texting you back. Trust. Bartenders flirt for money. So do servers. None of them wanna be picked up at work (for the most part). Find out where the restaurant employees hang out AFTER their shifts and you’ll have a much better chance | /r/seduction | 18/04/21 11:34 PM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]Don’t think about it, just comment on something going on around the environment. Don’t overthink it or be goofy and awkward about it tho. Like you could literally comment about anything with the right confidence and attitude. Even something like “That’s an interesting chandelier, how much do you think it cost? Oh btw my name is “name”, what’s yours?” And just take it from there. It doesn’t matter what you open with as long as you open Just make sure you’re interesting after that. Ask leading que… | /r/seduction | 18/04/21 11:27 PM |
| 0 | Girls don't do things by accidentYes they do. You just have to discern if it’s an accident or not which is quite easy to discern | /r/seduction | 18/04/21 11:21 PM |
| 3 | Is eye contact the most powerful “tool” of seduction?Yes, it you know how to use it You can’t be a creep with it, you have to go for the quick look, look away, quick but a bit longer look, look away, repeat a couple of times. Then wait wait for the tables to turn and wait for her to start looking at you first. When you’re already talking to her if you can get that sustained eye contact you’re pretty much in. Again it’s all on how you use it. Eye contact used correctly can build insane sexual tension. You really don’t even need to spit any game if … | /r/seduction | 18/04/21 11:16 PM |
| 2 | Roughly speaking how many percent of your quality of life is dependent on your dating/sex/love life? And how much of your free time do you invest into improving your dating life?I’d say about 10% of my quality of life depends on my dating and sex life. I’m happy and in a relationship right now but I’m not happy because I’m in a relationship Honestly if you aren’t happy sex, relationships, and dating won’t make you happy. Trust me as somebody who was very unhappy for a very long time and was consistently in and out of relationships and getting laid all the time Also the less effort you put into getting laid the more you’ll get laid. Well at a certain point. You’ll get it… | /r/seduction | 14/04/21 06:33 PM |
| 1 | Into Me or My Coke?Didn’t even read the post. As a former hardcore substance abuser I can tell you that even if she is into you if she’s really into drugs, drugs are always gonna come first. Trust that, drugs>everything for any in a cycle of substance abuse. I loved a lot of girls when I was abusing substances heavy but the drugs ALWAYS came first to the point where I was stealing their scripts Tread carefully my friend | /r/seduction | 14/04/21 06:29 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]This is exactly it. The thing is when you’re at this level it’s hard to put into words what’s essentially just as simple as human nature. When you know you know and you don’t know until you know. Shit I hope I can help at least one person get to this paradigm. It’s really not about women at all. It will certainly help with women, it will help a ton, but it’d really about the frame you view life and human interaction from. Once that truly shifts to what we’re talking about the possibilities are e… | /r/seduction | 04/03/21 07:51 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]For sure, getting there is certainly a journey, especially if it doesn’t come naturally to you. Therapy (if you have warped views on women) and coaching can go a long way in that tho if you have the money. If not the camera works One thing that clicked for me is to expect nothing from anyone. Reminding myself that nobody owed me anything helped a lot. Everyone is just a person, man, woman, non-binary, doesn’t matter, a person is a person. If you seek genuine connection with no expectations event… | /r/seduction | 04/03/21 07:28 AM |
| 3 | [deleted by user]This is literally it. This is how you do it right | /r/seduction | 04/03/21 07:19 AM |
| 2 | Modern womenExactly, this is straight up abusive behavior and he’s a predator and he’s preaching predatory behavior. I feel bad for every woman OP ever dates or tries to game | /r/seduction | 04/03/21 02:46 AM |
| 5 | Modern womenThis shit is straight false my dude. Sure that misogynistic manipulative bullshit might work for a little while but it won’t work for long Buying into this misogynistic straight up abusive bullshit (that admittedly “works” in certain situations for certain people) is why half the dudes here will become incels or never get with girls. I show weakness, I show my sensitivity, I show all of that. I do very well. I know the shit your spouting can actually “work” in certain situations because I used t… | /r/seduction | 04/03/21 02:44 AM |
| 3 | [deleted by user]They aren’t outdated, they never worked. Fuck him and his rapey PUA shit | /r/seduction | 04/03/21 02:29 AM |
| 3 | It seems like being well dressed doesn't matter to women.Being “well dressed” in a traditional sense doesn’t matter. It’s all about having a style and owning it. Like I’m 28 and I still dress in skinny jeans, hoodies, flannels, and band tees for the most part and basketball shorts in the summer. That’s not what a 28 year old would be told to dress like by somebody teaching them seduction but it’s my style and it works for me. It’s all about how you carry yourself and own your style. Make it yours Bet I’d do better at a night club in a hoodie, Levi’s 5… | /r/seduction | 04/03/21 02:24 AM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]Never try and game them. I work in restaurants. They fucking hate it | /r/seduction | 02/11/20 10:48 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Straight up cash grab $$$ | /r/seduction | 01/11/20 02:43 AM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]Bro all the witchy girls in their late teens and twenties rn. That shit is literally what’s in | /r/seduction | 31/10/20 09:08 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Also co-star | /r/seduction | 31/10/20 09:07 PM |
| 4 | [deleted by user]You got a gold mine you didn’t even know about | /r/seduction | 31/10/20 08:47 PM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]I work in restaurants. Same age range same shit. | /r/seduction | 31/10/20 08:06 PM |
| 9 | [deleted by user]To make friends? Unattractive females have hot friends. Dudes have friend circles. Networking is never a bad thing and you clearly don’t understand it | /r/seduction | 31/10/20 08:04 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]I can wine and dine ;) But yeah your analysis is spot on. They’re taking a perverse pride in being seen as the rejects of society | /r/seduction | 31/10/20 07:50 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]I think it’s an incel edgelord “badge of honor” at this point. I mean shit they pride themselves on this shit basically and they actually think they’re nice. We’ll be the ones to pay tho, they studied the blade while we had casual sex | /r/seduction | 31/10/20 07:24 PM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]Isn’t seduction and sex about human connection? Wouldn’t improving your social skills elsewhere improve them with romantic prospects? | /r/seduction | 31/10/20 07:11 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]How so? | /r/seduction | 31/10/20 07:07 PM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]Bro slut shaming is misogynistic tho. You’re actually less misogynistic than you’re coming off as. Sexual freedom and openness for women is a huge part of the feminist agenda. Nobody gonna judge a girl for fucking within 15 minutes in the bathroom and yes if she wants to be treated as an object in that moment that can be part of the kink. The difference is you don’t view her as an object after it’s over. She’s still a person | /r/seduction | 31/10/20 07:06 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Exactly, plants are “nice” nobody wants to date them. Actually I hate the word nice, I’d rather use genuine and kind. However those can’t be your only traits. Somebody can be genuine, kind, and still incredibly interesting. One can be kind, funny, intelligent and passionate at the same time. They aren’t mutually exclusive. That’s what “nice” guys can’t seem to wrap their head around A lot of abusive jerks are passionate and funny and intelligent and have attractive traits which is another thing … | /r/seduction | 31/10/20 06:58 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]It’s a huge trend with gen z and millennial women right now. Why not take advantage? | /r/seduction | 31/10/20 06:55 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Yup, a bad rep can ruin your game in an entire city (not to say it always does, I know known abusers and rapists who still get laid unfortunately). That’s the thing though. It has to be genuine niceness. Also if being “nice” is your only trait you aren’t interesting and nobody gonna want you lol | /r/seduction | 31/10/20 06:54 PM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]Good luck, you got this | /r/seduction | 31/10/20 06:51 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]The friend zone doesn’t exist btw. Friendship is a gift and not something to be thrown aside like trash because you aren’t getting your dick wet from it | /r/seduction | 31/10/20 06:07 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]And this comment right here is why it’s not working for you. You don’t give a shit | /r/seduction | 31/10/20 06:01 PM |
| 1 | For gods sake, stop neglecting your pictures!Selfies work if they’re done right. Generic “sadboi” face selfies obviously don’t work | /r/seduction | 31/10/20 05:59 PM |
| 15 | For gods sake, stop neglecting your pictures!Holy shit this. Everyone of my friends who are women are extremely turned off by low quality low effort tinder pictures. Also NEVER hold a fish you caught in your picture, trust me on that. There’s whole Facebook groups dedicated to making fun of “fish guys” I didn’t read the OP tho, but don’t neglect your pictures on tinder Edit:ok just read it, everything he said is spot on and idk why he’s getting hate. High quality pictures obviously get more matches | /r/seduction | 31/10/20 05:48 PM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]Well start trying to do something (with consent of course) and that problem will disappear quick. I had the same problem. You might fail a couple times but with practice you’ll overcome it. If you’re getting girls In bed even if you do nothing with them you’re more than 90% of the way there | /r/seduction | 31/10/20 05:38 PM |
| 3 | [deleted by user]And remember it’s much better to fumble with asking consent than to assault somebody | /r/seduction | 31/10/20 05:36 PM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]Thank you for asking this question because it’s important. You can do it without killing the mood. You can say something light like “so would now be an ideal time start kissing you or would that have been ten minutes ago ?” to start. It’s all about delivery tho. Also remember you need to ask consent for every action. Consent for kissing doesn’t mean consent for anything else. You need to get consent every step of the way. No means no (Anything but yes means no). Practice makes perfect | /r/seduction | 31/10/20 05:35 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Don’t hate the hustle of women using twitch to make money with their bodies. Men sexualized women let them take advantage of that at least. It’s all a game my friends | /r/seduction | 31/10/20 05:26 PM |
| 0 | Stop being so serious!Preach! There are no rules but having fun. Making fucking into science class is for sex ed not seduction | /r/seduction | 31/10/20 05:20 PM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]I 100% agree with you in this. I think we’re on the same page. I wish I didn’t do the shitty things I did or buy into the misogyny but the past is the past and now I’m a proud as hell feminist ally to make up for it | /r/seduction | 31/10/20 05:16 PM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]Why would I lie to you about that? I have nothing to gain | /r/seduction | 31/10/20 05:12 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]You’re literally the problem. This mindset is the problem | /r/seduction | 31/10/20 05:11 PM |
| 2 | Is anyone still practicing seduction during this pandemic?Brush up on that e-game | /r/seduction | 31/10/20 05:08 PM |
| 2 | Do you guys have a lot of good friends?Also good friends>any girl you’ll ever pull. Unless she ends up becoming your best friend. Then marry her | /r/seduction | 31/10/20 05:04 PM |
| 2 | How to balance “deep” intelligent conversation with lighthearted flirting?Just don’t think about it and go with the flow. Some girls want deep conversation and to get straight to fucking, don’t wanna fuck around with fun flirty shit | /r/seduction | 31/10/20 04:56 PM |
| 1 | Asked a girl out in person for the first timeI’m proud of you! Huge step! It gets easier and easier and you’re taking it well. Now no resentment | /r/seduction | 31/10/20 04:56 PM |
| 1 | I have a stupid question, if I am approaching a girl, ain't I automatically putting her in pedestal?Nah, you’re approaching a human being with the intentions of making some sort of connection. We’re social animals it’s what we do. Approach men you find interesting and want to be friends with too. Approach with no expectations | /r/seduction | 31/10/20 04:55 PM |
| 3 | What a difference mindset makes!Yes yes yes, go to parties to have fun, get fucked up, and make memories you won’t remember. Don’t go to pull girls! The girls come with the fun | /r/seduction | 31/10/20 04:52 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Of course the journey was necessary but I could’ve saved myself a lot of shitty behavior and misogyny that PUA taught that I had to unlearn to ascend | /r/seduction | 31/10/20 04:51 PM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]Also I know model status good looking guys who can’t get laid. Like perfect jawline, gym rats, everything. Just has a blockage with women | /r/seduction | 31/10/20 04:49 PM |
| 0 | [deleted by user]I was never a “beta” type and I’ve always looked as life as a game but I’ve viewed women or any people as objects | /r/seduction | 31/10/20 04:48 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Agreed | /r/seduction | 31/10/20 04:46 PM |
| 1 | What is the sexiest/ seductive perfume a woman can wear?Subjective However I’ve had a deviated septum for years that I just got fixed so maybe I’ll have more of an opinion on this in a month or so | /r/seduction | 31/10/20 04:45 PM |
| 1 | Do you guys have a lot of good friends?No I used to but I’m a drug addict with bipolar disorder so that fucked that up. I have my people though and women to keep me company | /r/seduction | 31/10/20 04:43 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Also holy shit I didn’t realize this would blow up. This is a sock account I made last night to deal with some issues and I just ended up here somehow. I’m glad it’s helping so many people! I’ve been on reddit for 5 years and I’ve never gotten this much karma. Thank you guys! | /r/seduction | 31/10/20 04:41 PM |
| 3 | [deleted by user]I’m sure I’ll evolve, good to know to take advantage of it now tho lol | /r/seduction | 31/10/20 04:37 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]It depends on where on the spectrum you are and if you’re looking for sex. This post was not targeted at Asexual people but the same theory can work for asexual romantics who want to find love with a like minded partner | /r/seduction | 31/10/20 04:36 PM |
| 3 | [deleted by user]90% of the people I’ve met who think they’re ugly are AT LEAST average and average can turn into attractive with swag and style. Don’t get down on yourself plz | /r/seduction | 31/10/20 04:34 PM |
| 3 | [deleted by user]Don’t be hard on yourself. You’re probably not ugly and you probably have charisma. Everyone has their own charisma. 90% of the people I meet who think they’re ugly are AT LEAST average | /r/seduction | 31/10/20 04:33 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]I like your vibe | /r/seduction | 31/10/20 04:31 PM |
| 3 | [deleted by user]I didn’t think you would, just saying yeah if she wants to sleep in your bed it’s usually a good signal my dude. Get consent and go to town | /r/seduction | 31/10/20 04:30 PM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]As long as you have consent do you | /r/seduction | 31/10/20 04:29 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Starting to realize that. Nor would 100% of PUA material which is conveniently a paywall for profit industry.... | /r/seduction | 31/10/20 04:29 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]I mean it could be, get consent first and don’t be a rapist, but more often than not it is | /r/seduction | 31/10/20 04:27 PM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]Being more confident is a decision. It’s gradual. It’s acknowledging challenging the negative thoughts about yourself you have 1000s of times a day. It’s doing something new even small everyday. It’s practicing and improving at things. And then one day it just clicks. That’s literally how it happens Ask anyone who wasn’t confident and now is, the click is real | /r/seduction | 31/10/20 04:27 PM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]Oh trust me I’m huge on DBT, mindfulness, and meditation | /r/seduction | 31/10/20 04:25 PM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]A lot of guys think they’re unattractive when that simply isn’t the case. Also he’s obviously charismatic in some way judging by the witty comment that we all laughed at | /r/seduction | 31/10/20 04:24 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Be interested to read this | /r/seduction | 31/10/20 02:49 PM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]Just because a guy is nice doesn’t mean he can’t Dom lol | /r/seduction | 31/10/20 02:47 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]You’re wrong though dude. I think opposite to you and I do well | /r/seduction | 31/10/20 02:46 PM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]Pretty much. People are people. Women or men. The overthinking and mental gymnastics that a lot of men go through are just so self defeating and unnecessary. This shit is supposed to be fun | /r/seduction | 31/10/20 08:02 AM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]But I’d argue I’d you don’t have fitness, nutrition, and social skills down yet seduction is the last thing you should be worrying about | /r/seduction | 31/10/20 07:32 AM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]That I agree with. We all know inner game is what elevates average to legend tho | /r/seduction | 31/10/20 07:28 AM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]So you’re saying “inner game” only works if you’re already “there” ? Maybe I underestimated the social skills and fashion sense of this forum. If so that’s my bad because yes this will go over their heads | /r/seduction | 31/10/20 07:22 AM |
| 0 | [deleted by user]I’m not denying pimps and hustlers can get women for turn tricks for them (usually with the promise of drugs, money, protection, or power coming with the territory). I’m also saying that if I paid them more, gave them better drugs, or had more clout I would get the girls over them. Pimps and hustlers are fleeting and always watching their backs for the next dude taking over and tbh the hood is a different world than where most of the people here are running game. That shit is survival to some of… | /r/seduction | 31/10/20 06:56 AM |
| 3 | [deleted by user]All I’m saying is find yourself before you play the game. Find and refine your style. Ask people what works for you specifically. What they like about you if you have to. Nobody is going to be able to emulate my style with the same results and vice versa | /r/seduction | 31/10/20 05:14 AM |
| 3 | [deleted by user]But neither friendships nor love affairs are transactional and either can end at any time for no particular reason no matter the amount of time and effort you put into them. Friendships and Relationships aren’t capitalism People just leave sometimes. Most of the time you don’t get closure. Viewing friendships, sexual flings. or any relationships as transactional is setting yourself up for a world of pain and getting left over and over again and asking why Learning to let go is one of the most im… | /r/seduction | 31/10/20 05:11 AM |
| 29 | [deleted by user]27 | /r/seduction | 31/10/20 02:43 AM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]I’m not even currently pursuing seduction that’s the thing. It just happens | /r/seduction | 31/10/20 02:00 AM |
| 6 | [deleted by user]It becomes habit | /r/seduction | 31/10/20 01:29 AM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]I’m 27. We’re the same | /r/seduction | 31/10/20 12:59 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]I agree “shit tests” are real but like you said they can be an opportunity to flip the game on its head and sweep her off her feet. Also failing one isn’t a death sentence My main point is misogyny is a game killer And I bet you agree consciously thinking about shit tests when interacting will hurt your game. Brushing off shit tests without even noticing them is the best way to “beat” them | /r/seduction | 31/10/20 12:16 AM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]Hmm, interesting view. I LOVE my therapist now and he’s helped me tremendously. I’ve just hit a stagnant period with him and I care way too much what he thinks. Thank you so much | /r/seduction | 31/10/20 12:14 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Probably the same thing you’re telling me to do. I’m in the process of finding a new therapist because my growth has stopped with my current one and I want a clean honest slate. I worry too much about what my current therapist thinks and look up to him too much as a father figure | /r/seduction | 31/10/20 12:06 AM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]Thanks for the reply! I need to bring this up in therapy more but it’s been kind of a “taboo” topic for me. I really don’t like opening up about it | /r/seduction | 30/10/20 11:54 PM |
| 4 | How many shittests can you fail in general?They’re a learned concept and a self fulfilling prophecy. Bro I’ve done literally everything “wrong” and still ending up sleeping with the girl. There are no arbitrary rules. Concepts like “Shit tests” are just holding you back. Create your own style and use it even if it would fail a traditional PUA “shit test”. The fact that you’re consciously thinking about “shit tests” while interacting with women is why none of them are sleeping with you | /r/seduction | 30/10/20 11:23 PM |
| 1 | How many shittests can you fail in general?You can fail all of them and still sleep with her. Shit tests and rules don’t really exist. We make them up | /r/seduction | 30/10/20 11:08 PM |
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