| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 8 | [FR] Very first steps | sockmuppet | /r/seduction | 24/07/10 03:37 PM | |
| 3 | Am I supposed to go out on my own? | sockmuppet | /r/seduction | 18/07/10 07:42 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 1 | Sedditor LocatorSouth West | /r/seduction | 23/08/10 01:01 PM |
| 1 | Girl here: What things can/does a girl do to move up or down in rating?The things I really like are flirty looks and good conversation. Good hair is surprisingly important to me and to a slightly lesser extent clothes. But it's really that look of "You interest me; I want you". You know when you are attracted to someone and they make you smile but you hide it so you don't end up grinning. That is the look. I'm not that into girls throwing themselves at me. Where is the fun in that. What would be perfect is a flirty looks in the introduction; be happy fun and flirty… | /r/seduction | 23/08/10 12:48 PM |
| 1 | Lying when demonstrating higher valueFair point. I was just trying to say it doesn't take that much to become an interesting person. | /r/seduction | 01/08/10 02:08 AM |
| 1 | Lying when demonstrating higher valueTry to do something every night just for one week, there has to be: climbing, salsa, spinning, a nearby hill or canal to walk, a cheesy tourist tour, lazer tag, a pool hall, a volunteering centre, free talks at the local collage, a photography club. If you do all of them then you will have something interesting to say; even if it isn't about girlfriends there will be girls there and you will be an interesting person. No need to lie if you are doing this stuff. | /r/seduction | 31/07/10 09:09 AM |
| 1 | Friend zoned. What do I do?What's with the downvotes? I'm learning too and would find it helpful if you said why I was wrong. | /r/seduction | 28/07/10 01:25 PM |
| -4 | Friend zoned. What do I do?You have to see her point. Is it worth possibly splitting your group of friends or even losing them to give this a go? She doesn't want a LTR but she wants to act like she is in one. Make her realise this is worth it. Understand her point of view and even agree. Also make her realise that she will lose you if nothing happens. | /r/seduction | 27/07/10 09:40 PM |
| 5 | [FR] Lessons in airport pickupGreat FR, particularly liked how you opened everyone around the HB first. | /r/seduction | 27/07/10 07:35 PM |
| 3 | For the past 4-5 years, I've been immersed in PUA and self actualization material. My life has improved in several ways as a result, but I have yet to have a wholesome sexual experience.Sorry I can't help (I'm new to this stuff) but I have to say I'm impressed with the change that can be made through PUA stuff. It's half the reason I am interested in it. | /r/seduction | 27/07/10 05:26 PM |
| 3 | Using techniques picked up from Seddit I am now feeling guiltyHa. "With great power comes great responsibility", or something like that. But seriously, you could be in a worse situation. | /r/seduction | 26/07/10 07:11 PM |
| 2 | [FR] Confidence Building day 2: Making conversationYou seem to have a similar plan to me. Keep up with the FR. Last weekend I noticed that you could move around a busy room by putting your hand on peoples back or side then when they look gesturing with your eyes that you want to pass. It feels so much better than trying to squash past. | /r/seduction | 26/07/10 06:42 PM |
| 3 | [FR] A nine day rollercoaster ride with an HB9, some mistakes and lessons learnedGood FR. sounds like a bit of a roller-coaster. Here is the thoughts of someone who thinks far too much; take with a pinch of salt, or ignore it. If she wasn't interested then she might just be a naturally flirty person and enjoys spending time with you. But for whatever reason she doesn't want to do more hence she is cold with you sometimes. Just ignore it. Have fun with her when she is playing nice ignore her when she isn't. If guys usually keep falling over her then she probably can't tell wh… | /r/seduction | 26/07/10 06:36 PM |
| 3 | 18yo guy going out to play the game for the first time tomorrow night, anybody got any suggestions?Then just do it! ha, as for the clothes stuff it's probably more important to be comfortable in what you are wearing and not fret over it too much. Enjoy, I expect a FR soon. | /r/seduction | 26/07/10 11:26 AM |
| 3 | 18yo guy going out to play the game for the first time tomorrow night, anybody got any suggestions?see if you can acquire a copy of magic bullets ebook. It's first chapter is a quick start guide for people new to the game. | /r/seduction | 26/07/10 11:16 AM |
| 2 | Uh... So I can't even get through Mission 1.I'm trying the basics, I haven't got over the first hurdle but I'm starting. Here is what I'm doing: Get outside where there are lots of people. I have marks on a calendar on my wall for each time I go out. Plan to go to as many things as possible. Call up all your old friends and plan to get together with each of them. Talk to as many people as you can, if someone smiles at you say hello, if someone is doing something unusual ask them about it, if there is a group dressed up find out why, chat … | /r/seduction | 26/07/10 08:14 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Confidence Building: Failure with a ray of hopeNot a failure at all. You went out and talked to people! Was it fun? At the very least it had to be an interesting night. As long as you don't stop I would say that is great. | /r/seduction | 26/07/10 08:05 AM |
| 3 | It's so good to see that many FR here on weekends!I feel like there has been a new life to this sub-reddit. It's great. | /r/seduction | 26/07/10 08:04 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Very first stepsah yes, torchwood and Dr. Who. excellent. | /r/seduction | 26/07/10 07:59 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Mission 3: build attractionFantastic, you seem to have the determination to just keep at it and it's working. | /r/seduction | 25/07/10 10:50 AM |
| 1 | Attractiveness scale?That must have been it. I've seen Mystery in a lot of things. I think the who negging thing get blown up into something it's not. I could be completely wrong, as I am a beginner but as I see it there are two types of neg. playful banter aka flirting, most girls seem to like this. I do it to old friends and new people, guys and girls. Showing that a HB9 is not on a pedestal. Something I haven't tried but I can see the idea. If everyone tells this girl that she is a goddess then do the opposite. I… | /r/seduction | 25/07/10 09:50 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Very first stepsThanks! | /r/seduction | 25/07/10 09:40 AM |
| 2 | [FR] Very first stepsNice one. I've had a great weekend so far, went out again last night heading out today and hopefully tonight. I fell like it's been ages since Friday because I have been doing so much. It's great fun to chat to random people but I still got annoyed with myself for not doing more. When I'm in the right mood I can chat to anyone for ages, attraction and comfort arn't that big a problem but I get too nervous to approach/open or to close. I'm getting better at kino, that works very well. Just little… | /r/seduction | 25/07/10 09:39 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Very first stepsHa, the name was just because it is a sockpuppet throwaway account. It ammused me at the time. I did see a show where mystery was teaching people the game and he made them tell stories to children. It's not a bad idea but I'm not going to try and specifically talk to any group of people. I currently want to talk to everyone so I can up my general social skills. | /r/seduction | 25/07/10 09:33 AM |
| 1 | Attractiveness scale?Other than boasting there isn't that much point to them. I have seen it said that if someone was a 9/10 you would probably need to treat them slightly differently as they will guys trying it on all the time (or something like that). Still, I don't mind the HB7, HB8 sort of thing. It doesn't really match with reality but who cares. | /r/seduction | 24/07/10 05:02 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Mission 2: Openers with kino.Seriously good night. I can't do anything if I am in a bad mood. Have to say I would love to come back with just the same story. Nice one. | /r/seduction | 24/07/10 03:10 PM |
| 1 | Am I supposed to go out on my own?I'm impressed with this subreddit (and Fitness); not only is there helpful advice but people actually seem to want to help. Thank you. I've written out a calendar with 3 months on it, I have 8 things planned in the next 2 weeks. i.e. 8 times I will leave the house and talk to people, either because I'm meeting friends (I phoned up a load of people so I could keep social with my friends) or because I have decided to go it alone. It's still such a strange feeling. But I have to get over it. I thin… | /r/seduction | 21/07/10 09:59 PM |
| 3 | Let's make a big list of date ideas (first dates and day 2s)That is a fun game! I have to try that | /r/seduction | 19/07/10 09:42 PM |
| 1 | Am I supposed to go out on my own?By the look of what everyone else is saying it's great practice to be without a safety net. Keep it up. | /r/seduction | 19/07/10 09:27 PM |
| 1 | Am I supposed to go out on my own?But I want a safety net! ;) You're right, you all are, I need to just do it. | /r/seduction | 19/07/10 09:26 PM |
| 1 | Am I supposed to go out on my own?I don't have much need to go out so I guess I have got bad at socialising because I haven't been doing it enough. I will make excuses to leave the house multiple times a week. | /r/seduction | 19/07/10 09:23 PM |
| 1 | Am I supposed to go out on my own?I hadn't thought of that before. I have one very good [f]riend she might be up for a bit of fun. I might play the game of "lets see if you can find out X from the person I point to". I'm going out with her end of next week. I'll see how it goes. | /r/seduction | 19/07/10 09:23 PM |
| 2 | Am I supposed to go out on my own?I try not to play games or watch TV I consider that wasted time. I do however spend to long learning pointless stuff on the internet because it is fun. I need to socialise more! And because I'm not that near many of my friends I need to do it on my own! | /r/seduction | 19/07/10 09:20 PM |
| 1 | Am I supposed to go out on my own?I have written a 12 week calendar and I will try and go out at least 3 times a week for some reason. I do need to get some things so I can use that as an excuse. | /r/seduction | 19/07/10 09:19 PM |
| 1 | Am I supposed to go out on my own?As for how bad my AA is. Sometimes I can get chatting to random people very easily. If I am out with friends and in a good mood I will often say something to someone I don't know (I will have a reason such as they are standing next to me, smiled or we almost bump into each other). I have never really tried to approach a group on my own. I have a friend who is a natural and he would cold approach groups including mixed groups because it was fun. I would go with him and try and talk to one person … | /r/seduction | 19/07/10 09:18 PM |
| 1 | Am I supposed to go out on my own?This is great! thanks for the advice. I have decided to do it. This weekend I will go out and ask people random stuff (time, places, etc.). I'm going to use the excuse to myself of looking for a new backpack (which I need) but I will make sure I say something to 30 people. Thanks again. | /r/seduction | 19/07/10 09:13 PM |
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