| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 1112 | Sums up my struggle with external validation and neediness | socrat94 | /r/seduction | 07/02/19 12:26 AM |
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| 2 | Sums up my struggle with external validation and needinessThanks! This is some great advice! I'm going to start working harder on this. | /r/seduction | 07/02/19 07:43 PM |
| 7 | Sums up my struggle with external validation and needinessYes I love this 😂I'm re downloading it now. | /r/seduction | 07/02/19 03:59 AM |
| 4 | Sums up my struggle with external validation and needinessAn abundance of not giving a fuck? An abundance of self generated positive emotions? I'm not sure on that one man. | /r/seduction | 07/02/19 03:58 AM |
| 2 | Sums up my struggle with external validation and needinessHaha damn, too bad. Well if you figure something out let me know 😂 | /r/seduction | 07/02/19 03:56 AM |
| – | Sums up my struggle with external validation and needinessHaha I need to give that another listen. | /r/seduction | 07/02/19 03:50 AM |
| – | Sums up my struggle with external validation and needinessWell i've got a couple dates lined up that should distract me in the short term. As far as the long term goes, I haven't got a clue. Any tips? | /r/seduction | 07/02/19 03:47 AM |
| – | Sums up my struggle with external validation and needinessSame here. I Thought things were good until no response. It happens. | /r/seduction | 07/02/19 03:42 AM |
| 10 | Sums up my struggle with external validation and needinessHaha thanks bro. | /r/seduction | 07/02/19 03:19 AM |
| 1 | Need advice on ''car date'' ASAP!I will give you a script to repeat verbatum. Pay attention to time stamps and do NOT deviate from them or you will fail completely. This is the only way you can succeed. Good Luck. 00:01 Hello, [Smile] how are you doing [Insert her first name or preferred nickname here] 00:07 Oh that's wonderful! [Smile] I'm doing just fine myself. 00:17 [Put on your favorite song] 00:19 I love this song do you listen to this band often? 00:39 That's so cool, I recently saw them in concert at [insert local mus… | /r/seduction | 07/02/19 02:40 AM |
| 13 | Sums up my struggle with external validation and needinessVery true. I know that intellectually, but i'm still working on having actual abundance in my life. | /r/seduction | 07/02/19 02:30 AM |
| 43 | Sums up my struggle with external validation and needinessHaha, I believe it. Too bad we're not tigers, they don't have to deal with shit like this 😂 | /r/seduction | 07/02/19 02:21 AM |
| – | Sums up my struggle with external validation and needinessOh haha my b. Sad humans, is that safe to assume? | /r/seduction | 07/02/19 02:20 AM |
| – | Sums up my struggle with external validation and needinessJust a couple of sad boys, doing our sad boy thing. | /r/seduction | 07/02/19 02:07 AM |
| 7 | Sums up my struggle with external validation and needinessHaha, working on it 👍 | /r/seduction | 07/02/19 01:55 AM |
| – | Sums up my struggle with external validation and needinessYes I agree with you. But, her butt is amazing. It's yuuuuuge 😉 | /r/seduction | 07/02/19 01:54 AM |
| 5 | Instagram - does seduction work?Yes it could quite possibly do this. If you posted a video of yourself on a jet ski in the Bahamas, with a hot girl on your back. I would be 100% more likely to accept an invitation to do something with you. I think there is an old saying that goes, radical savages attract radical savages. Not only this, but posting cool things gives girls that already like you an opportunity to interact with you. | /r/seduction | 07/02/19 01:41 AM |
| 2 | First date with a friendUm, don't get her any gifts. Why do you think you need to buy her a gift? Actually, you know what. Give her the gift of a having a kickass night with a cool guy with an awesome personality. Give her that gift man. | /r/seduction | 07/02/19 01:36 AM |
| – | Cant get this random girl outta my headGlad it helped man 👍 | /r/seduction | 07/02/19 01:26 AM |
| – | Sums up my struggle with external validation and needinessYou, Me and Dupree | /r/seduction | 07/02/19 01:20 AM |
| – | Looking to have female friends againI was in a similar situation a few months back. I broke up with a girl who consumed pretty much my whole life. I became worse in almost every way while we were together. Less social, worse fitness, worse nutrition etc. When we finally broke up I took full advantage of all the extra time I had and decided to better myself. I started feeling better about myself and that led to me being more friendly and social. I slowly built a social circle and started going out. You still have your old self insi… | /r/seduction | 07/02/19 01:12 AM |
| 3 | I really like this girl but...Plenty of older people love Disney. Maybe she has fond memories of her parents bringing her there or she just likes their design style or whatever. She could definitely have weirder interests and if this is the most worrying thing about her then I would say she is A O.K. Give her a chance my man. Unless you just don't like her and are using her obsession with Disney as an excuse to stop seeing her. Then by all means just move on. | /r/seduction | 07/02/19 01:03 AM |
| 1 | Decided to do an approachYou can't stop yourself from feeling disappointed. You're going to feel what you feel and that's that. But, you can convince yourself, using logic, that you did the right thing. You approached a girl you found attractive and now have one more reference experience for when you do it the next time. And by god I sure hope there is a next time. If you've ever had a sales job, then you know there are people who slam the door in your face, there are people who are friendly, but already have their ne… | /r/seduction | 07/02/19 12:57 AM |
| 3 | Approach fucker, A P P R O A C HGood job man. | /r/seduction | 07/02/19 12:50 AM |
| 6 | Met this girl at Starbucks. Got her number. What’s next?Just text her now. At this point it doesn't matter much how long you wait. If you said anything funny or interesting during the interaction you could make a call back to that. If not, then you're kinda screwed, just say it was nice meeting you and try to bring up some local event or activity that you could potentially invite her to. Good luck with this man. I think your time would be better spent going after someone who is more available, but you do you. | /r/seduction | 07/02/19 12:44 AM |
| 7 | Girl in my classesCome to terms with the reality that you will be dead soon and none of this will matter. Walk up. Assume good things will happen. Talk (Maybe about a recent assignment or upcoming test). Continue being friendly. See where things go. | /r/seduction | 07/02/19 12:08 AM |
| – | Cant get this random girl outta my headHmmm. I feel like just the fact that you are thinking about a random stranger you've never even spoken to so much is a bad sign. Don't get me wrong, i've definitely been there before, but it seems like you're already coming from a place of scarcity and neediness with this girl. She probably was very beautiful and cool (smoking her vape/not drinking), but she could just as easily be a boring/mean person that you would not even ENJOY hanging out with. Anyways, I would just keep going to these … | /r/seduction | 06/02/19 11:48 PM |
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