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FDS MEMESsoftestbean/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 12:27 PM
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LIES MEN TELLsoftestbean/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/21 07:07 PM
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FDS MEMESsoftestbean/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/20 03:53 PM
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MALE DEPRAVITYsoftestbean/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 03:50 PM
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REMINDER 👑softestbean/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/21 12:33 AM
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softestbean/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/21 08:40 PM
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DISCUSSIONsoftestbean/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/20 07:50 AM
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MINDSET SHIFTsoftestbean/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 06:53 AM
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FDS ANTHEM 🎶softestbean/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/20 09:37 PM
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NAH, SISsoftestbean/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/20 10:46 PM
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DISCUSSIONsoftestbean/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/21 11:52 PM
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DISCUSSIONsoftestbean/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/20 07:47 AM
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softestbean/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/21 12:30 AM
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That really speaks volumes doesn’t it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/21 01:34 AM
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It’s sad that she thinks she is overthinking this. It shows a lack if effort that has been going on for the last couple of years. Even if the rest of the relationship is ‘fine’ it’s not a reason to stay in it. I doubt it will improve as wel as she has already brought it up with him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/21 08:54 PM
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She seems so sad and trapped in that situation. It’s sad that he is fine with being taken care of like that and using his gf while he doesn’t want actually help like he should. (I know that is easier said than done, but that is not an excuse for his behavior towards others) Important to remember: People (including depressed people) treat us only how we allow them to treat us. If she continues to facilitate him like this it is likely she is going to keep being used like this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/21 08:50 PM
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Ohh great, it got worse. He and his buddy’s stepchild. 🤢The dad really failed to protect her from his own friends.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/21 05:04 PM
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He actually looks like her dad.. Why does the age difference not creep him out?? Do their families not talk to them about it?? I’m genuine. Why do the people around them not speak up?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/21 04:56 PM
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If he doesn’t respect what you chose to do with your own life... he doesn’t respect you 🤷‍♀️ No but’s or if’s. If he thinks he knows better what you should do with your life than you yourself do... how can you think he trust and respects you?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/21 04:33 PM
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The ring is a gift. If you can’t afford a gift don’t give it??? Are we now expected to pay half for our own gifts?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/21 04:46 PM
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It’s scary. Most of these men know enough to not go around yelling these things from the rooftops but there definitely are enough men that believe stuff like this that you will come across them in your life. Enough men that it will impact your life walk around with beliefs like this. ‘Jokes’ like this (they will often claim it’s just a joke) have real life consequences so we simply can not let then slide.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/21 02:40 PM
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There was an update to the story; They broke up and she blocked him on everything 💀👑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/21 01:36 AM
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No it’s not a survey. It’s data from OkCupid. The dating site gives users an attractiveness rating. The algorithm behind it is not know exactly but messages received, time spend on the profile etc seem to be involved. The graph is from a book called Dataclysm by christian rudder who analyzed the data from OkCupid. It does not reflect the rate of messages these men send, btw. Hope this answers your question! Addition: I found a comment that claims that it was a survey and that the lowest age they…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/21 11:40 PM
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Men being thought that their emotions are logic and reason is a incredibly dangerous thing. It screws their worldview away from reality.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/21 11:18 PM
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It is based on data from OkCupid, and it shows attraction or sexiness as some call it. If it help (prob doesn’t) other data from that shows that while men still tend to definitely prefer younger, the age range they set is not as low. Example: If the men is 30 his age range will be 22 to 33. At 40 it is 27 to 45. This is the median of the min and max ages they set. edit: I want to add a lovly quote from the blog; “The median 30 y/o men spends as much time messaging teenage girls as he does women …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/21 11:14 PM
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As always, I entourage you to do further research on the topics mentioned in this video!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/21 08:16 PM
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As always, I entourage you to do further research on the topics mentioned in this video!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/21 08:16 PM
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As always, I entourage you to do further research on the topics mentioned in this video!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/21 08:16 PM
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Of course the guy is putting blame on women. Not like staying in a relationship while knowing you don’t want a future with them and just using then in meantime is manipulative or abusive or anything.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/21 01:39 AM
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If a guy can’t bring more to the relationship than a cat can... the cat is the better option
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/20 08:43 PM
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I believe part of it is that they don’t see themselves the way other people do. In their own eyes they are amazing and deserve a beautiful women that cooks and cleans and all the other things a 1950’s housewife would do, while having a job themself. That is their birthright and they are denied that so they will try and date women that don’t live up to their ideals and resentment and bitter shallowness grows. Women don’t live up to their expectations cause they put the bar to high so they can kee…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/20 05:36 PM
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But every guy does that! Okey, so every guy engages in behavior that hurts woman. No, thats sexist! 🤦‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/20 03:29 PM
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You’re other post are about the ‘other women’ and that he doesn’t want you anymore. If he doesn’t respect you don’t waste your time. You need mutual respect.
/r/RedPillWomen12/12/20 03:17 PM
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I don’t have word to describe how badly I want men to realize this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/20 12:20 AM
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men: Women don’t have humor. This is just a joke!!! The joke: just violence and male pleasure
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/20 12:36 PM
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whelp, this was a slap in the face
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/20 04:33 PM
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I’m sorry that happened to you and thank you for what you said. I have thought about what you and she have said and i think you are right. They see this as something to win. thank you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/20 07:46 PM
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thank you for taking the time to reply and thank you for what you said. I have thought about it and I think you are right. Thank you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/20 07:42 PM
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I don’t know how to handle this situation or how not to feel guilty and start shaking? I feel so weak when this happens and I feel not equipped to handle it at all. I just try to end the situation and leave the person (not dating, family) alone for a while but it keep happening and they keep accusing my shaking/voice breaking as manipulation and i can’t seem to stop. This is not meant as a ‘poor me’ comment but asking for advice. Anybody any suggestions? I only got what was essentially a ‘better…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/20 11:51 PM
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men are horrifying
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/20 07:26 PM
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some really find pleasure in breaking women because they didn’t magically fix their life for them /like a good mother figure should/ 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/20 07:20 PM
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Not even that. Women enter menopause with eggs still. They are just never used. Hormonal changes proceed the ‘running out of eggs’.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 08:15 AM
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at 30 that is 72000 follicles still. You are born with far more eggs than ever necessary. At 40 it still is 18000 (these are rough numbers). The reason women can’t have more children after a certain age is because of hormonal changes most of the time. Not because you ‘run out of eggs’ . they wanne scare you so you will settle it seems 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 08:05 AM
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I don’t wear makeup and ‘guys would appreciate a bit more effort’. Also, can we point out that most of the time we are not even interested in the guy that says that to begin with? He just assumes that you must like him and want to impress him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 07:38 AM
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well... this just hit me like a ton of bricks. brb going to look at my ceiling for an hour or two.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 07:10 AM
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If we don’t worry about their feeling a lot of them get physical and hurt us badly. They don’t have the same concern mostly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 06:35 PM
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I really hope so
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/20 09:48 PM
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Def a step in the right direction. But with the way he explains in his story (he’s self centered) and the stats about abuse changing, I wouldn’t count on succes on his part. Don’t get me wrong, I really hopes he finds it in himself to change, but i wouldn’t count on it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/20 09:10 AM
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It’s sounds a bit ‘my daughter made me respect women’ to me :/
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/20 08:15 AM
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“I’ll guess I just stop talking to you then” (doesn’t stop talking)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/20 07:24 AM
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he sounds like a 12 y/o
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 10:13 PM
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No house or the means to support a house wife. I know a guy that wants this. He keeps complaining that he can’t find a women that he can move in with, away from his roommates, and have her do all the house work + normal work, because house work is a women’s job.. I too have no idea why he is single /s edit: just to add. she should already have an house in his world, because she should have an high paying job that she should quit when she gets pregnant. But don’t worry, his now failing startup is…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/20 07:13 AM
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every women has had ‘a past issue or bad experience’ 🙄 wonder why
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/20 12:00 PM
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those damm chicken-wings..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/20 02:16 PM
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“why you insecure?. I would stick my dick in you” 🤢 “don’t worry. Our standards for fucking are low” Why is this a thing??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/20 06:25 PM
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I always thought it is because they see women and dumb and illogical and something (yes, thing) to be laughed at. Often the punchline is along the lines of ‘women be crazy’.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/20 06:59 AM
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The comments under the original post are roasting him so hard. It’s great
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/20 02:13 PM
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This is so disrespectful.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/20 09:39 PM
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