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solen-skiner/r/seduction20/01/12 11:23 PM
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Open a flirtatious conversation in three seconds of noticing that you are fuckin' interested. That way you won't have had the time to build up this whole mental image of what-could and get all anxious about it - and you won't be invested enough to be anxious about what-ifs afterwards.
/r/seduction31/10/15 03:43 PM
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everything good in those movies seem to have been by someone else.
/r/seduction05/05/15 06:12 PM
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We are also often very self reflective and able to understand and analyze our own emotions. In my experience this can also become one of our biggest problem. We can get so wrapped up analyzing and reflecting on our emotions that the moment has passed or the confidence has wither once we're ready to act on them.
/r/seduction19/10/12 06:19 PM
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Reading this thread I gotto ask, what the fuck happened to r/seduction?
/r/seduction26/06/12 11:10 AM
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Don't worry 'bout it, man. =) You know, start small. Just do it 5-10 minutes to start, don't wanna get bored or frustrated right Tell me how it goes! =) edit: Oh, yeah.. If you try it and find it too hard or don't "get it" or whatever, there are courses you can do online if that's your thing. I did one last year via audiodharma, it was great!
/r/seduction27/05/12 12:38 PM
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It's very simple, really. Just focus on your body and surroundings. The feeling of how your breath fills you with strength, like a blown up balloon vs an empty one, the sound of the leaves rustling in the wind, all the feelings in your feet and legs as you put one before the other while you walk, the smells around you, that feeling of absolute calmness between your breaths and heartbeats while you lie down, the experience of washing dishes, while waiting in line or for a meeting. Just a focus on…
/r/seduction27/05/12 01:46 AM
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Meditation and a fuck-it attitude did the trick. Watch out for the second realizing-you-suck-at-socializing blues
/r/seduction26/05/12 02:40 PM
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Congrats on the sex!
/r/seduction20/05/12 08:07 PM
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Totally, man! I might be a Mensa member, but something I have realized is how I am stupid in at least as many subjects of interest to the person who I am talking too, as I find him to be stupid in mine. Err, that sentence went wrong somewhere...
/r/seduction16/05/12 08:55 AM
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When stars die, they exploding and all matter heavier then hydrogen is formed and distributed, even the carbon in our bodies. We are star-stuff contemplating the stars. Take hands->Triangle gaze->Kiss, boya!
/r/seduction16/05/12 08:52 AM
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Yeah, lets make fashion a nerd interest! Reddit needs a subreddit for that, one that does not equate all of fashion with a single style.
/r/seduction16/05/12 08:47 AM
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www.imgur.com
/r/seduction08/05/12 08:15 PM
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Oh, several. What about you?
/r/seduction27/04/12 02:02 PM
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Yeah, if she doesn't react first time, no reason to force it
/r/seduction26/04/12 04:27 PM
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Regarding hugging material, i have a gold nugget! Dunno were i picked this up if anywhere, but it works, believe. So she hugs you hello or whatever. You causually say "thats no hug", not really expecting or waiting for a reply. She probably wont let it slide and ask what you ment and you go "That hug was like a 3 on a scale of 10. Don't worry, I'll give you another chance". "Meh, a strong 5, tops". She'll be getting annoyed. Now say something like "Ever get the feeling people hug like they're fo…
/r/seduction26/04/12 04:09 PM
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o/
/r/seduction13/04/12 04:46 PM
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Just read it. Good stuff, made me gain some insight into what I'm doing right when things just work out even if i don't feel social and interesting. He briefly touches on visualizations when he mentioned visualizing kissing her. I'd like to expand on that with a trick i picked up somewhere a few years ago. To build an atmosphere of privacy even in a group, visualize just you and your target with a black haze or satin veil or whatever surrounding you. Somehow you will unconsciously sub-communicat…
/r/seduction09/04/12 07:45 PM
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I believe I've red that red wins like 60% of the time in wrestling Wonder if the effect works for a deep burgundy shade of red. Hope so, red is too bright for me.
/r/seduction08/04/12 02:49 PM
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Yup. Was just around bantering a bit with a HB8 or so, not really interested and neither was she. Some big dude with a glorious beard was walking past so I just said to her "Have you met the General?" and left. Saw them leaving together later ;)
/r/seduction06/04/12 09:23 AM
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About hairpulling. You need to grab the hair close to the scalp. Don't wanna cause her pain, right
/r/seduction30/03/12 11:05 AM
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Once opened with "I want to rub your shave and feed you bananas all night" as I rubbed her hair, had the biggest shit-eating grin and eyefucked her! Girl had a Rhianna shave. It's all in the vibe you give her and your perceived value! That night I'd been grinded by a girl to a metal show (not really grinding music :D), hit on by a fag, sung to by a rapper, met 2 long lost friends and loudly shared hugs, laughs, drinks.. been bought drinks all night long from all kinds of people, got a random dud…
/r/seduction21/03/12 07:25 AM
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Or alcohol? Same shit, it's all killing thousands. Only the legality differs and that can be worked around with prescribed Valium.
/r/seduction17/03/12 03:15 PM
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Courage wolf, dude
/r/seduction25/02/12 02:47 AM
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Mystery Method IIRC. I should probably read up on it. I'll drop you links if I find anything. edit: oh! Kudos ColonelKurtzPhD!
/r/seduction22/02/12 05:43 PM
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I feel this belongs in here. A 30 day schedule to develop your manlyness
/r/seduction22/02/12 04:25 PM
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My grandmother on my fathers side passed away the night to yesterday, so I canceled. She acted really nice about it (actually scored some points in my book!) and unprompted gave a rain-check so I guess its still on. I've got another fikadate lined up soonish so might try it on her instead ;) If I'm fine by then.. When I've gotten away from this hick town I plan to just try out lots of different clubs and activities. Yoga, improv, toastmasting, cooking, painting, martial arts, LUG or LAN groups, …
/r/seduction16/02/12 11:05 AM
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My works at Systembolaget, Swedens only liquor store. We had a conversation about what to keep at home. She suggested: A Cocktail book Red wine White wine Whiskey Dark rum Vodka Gin Tequila Bacardi Razz Couintreau Apple Sour Vermouth Baileys Kaluha Calvados Oh, mixers! Cola Tonic Red bull Sprite Orange juice Cranberry juice Schwepps Bitter Lemon Milk
/r/seduction13/02/12 06:03 PM
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Thanks! The move segueing fika to dinner is fucking golden! I'm gonna try it out on Wednesday! I mainly meet people trough friends and in bars, and local bars are kinda out now, so sure I could use a tip or two haha
/r/seduction13/02/12 05:23 PM
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Awesome! I currently live near Karlstad, turning 26 in 11 days. University dropout, starting an internship doing iPhone development in a week or two and I might have a job doing hifi loudspeaker design lined up. I'll also be studying four Artificial Intelligence courses online soon. edit: More relevant I dont hang out much as I live in a greaser town. Think "Rallybrudar". I also can't go out much; made enemies with with a violent 120kg anabolic 'tard for being gay, although I'm not.
/r/seduction13/02/12 02:30 PM
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Did "Have you met Boring" with some random dude walking past who I've never met. Called him "The General". Saw them leaving the place together 1h later, felt like GGG xD
/r/seduction13/02/12 01:53 PM
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Once did this posing as a porn talant recruiter and only talked to woman 40+. Fun night!
/r/seduction13/02/12 01:51 PM
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Hey landsman, could you give a crash course in Swedish dating?
/r/seduction13/02/12 12:22 PM
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I'd just make a between the teeth quick whistle, i dont know how to explain it but point being, if you do it you make a disgusted face and sure as hell draw attention to it. Do that then turn away and dont give a fuck about her
/r/seduction09/02/12 09:29 AM
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Do things you normally would never in a thousand years! Remove your own impression of yourself as someone who does give a fuck! Go down to the corner store with fucking cumstains on your pants, diss a girl by saying i really need to go have a massive shit then just walk away, go out unshowered in 3 days old clothes. Fucking immersion therapy, man!
/r/seduction09/02/12 09:18 AM
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Well, i had to cut off somewhere when estimating the number=) I used (my age)/2+7, and its supricingly accurate! 18 or less would be too immature for me (19 kinda is too but that year spent in reality sure helps!), and whomever hasn't got her life together by 34 (ie. already got a man if she wants one), is probably not for me either. I've had ONS' up with women 40+ though, good times ;)
/r/seduction21/01/12 08:56 AM
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"But... but... I'm so nice! I'm a nice guy!" Guess what? That's like a fat chick saying, "But I'm so smart!" As if those things have anything in the world to do with sexual attraction!
/r/seduction12/01/12 10:25 AM
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This is awesome! I am impressed you figured out a way that works for you. Many normals don't.. Enjoy! =) Lots of good tips here, and some things i've done myself too! I'll give it a deeper read later, thanks!
/r/seduction07/01/12 07:58 PM
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I'm diagnosed as a non-aspie although i have always felt i have more in common with the plural of you then the rest of humanity. I hope/believe a reading/watching/thinking/doing recommendations list from your perspective could help get concepts click for me and others; Would you mind sharing?
/r/seduction07/01/12 08:27 AM
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I'd say im at 2.5 regarding seduction on the list. But phase 10 perfectly describes my mindset... Funny how different paths can lead to the same goal. For me it has been a path of drugs, introspection, meditation and trying to follow my professional dream which led me there; not seduction.
/r/seduction02/01/12 01:27 PM
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SC players are rock stars in Korea, Poker nerds are rock stars in Vegas, Comp Sci folks can actually be rock stars at universities, provided they are socially aware (ie. not talking about the subtleties of quick sort or big O notation, but how they hope to change the world or make it big or whatever). Engorge yourself in what you love and your enthusiasm will shine trough.
/r/seduction26/12/11 07:33 PM
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redditor for 39 minutes. 3rd brand new account trolling this thread. Same person?
/r/seduction21/11/11 01:16 AM
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cool
/r/seduction20/11/11 11:58 PM
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Haha stiff and useless? You're funny On another note, i find it proper interesting that this account was created just to bash me, after (possibly) embarresing koruto; only about 30 after his account account was created just to bash the fine, sexually empowered OP; and share the same immature and judgemental attitude. I'm out. Aint worth my time.
/r/seduction20/11/11 11:57 PM
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Hahahaha Yeah, i'm a nerd and i own up to that shit. And i've done a bunch of drugs. Enjoyed it. Enjoyed the perks of always holding, too
/r/seduction20/11/11 11:31 PM
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Sorry you feel that way, i edited my quote to include the entire sentance. IMO the point still stands.
/r/seduction20/11/11 11:23 PM
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The amount of trolling, rudeness and hypocrisy in this thread..
/r/seduction20/11/11 11:06 PM
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A slut is a girl that validates herself by having sex with lots of guys, due to low self-esteem. Hah, like guys don't count their notches?
/r/seduction20/11/11 11:02 PM
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Please go back to lurking
/r/seduction20/11/11 10:59 PM
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Not pregnancy either. If youre gonna fuck around you'll sooner or later fuck something up. Might be the herp or the derp ex she didnt tell you about. Deal with it or live in a fucking bubble, man.
/r/seduction20/11/11 10:51 PM
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aspie much?
/r/seduction20/11/11 10:47 PM
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Well, chocolate is a strong one, as is chili. I cant recommend eating chili on a date though ;) "In fact, eating itself can cause a rise in Oxytocin. It is known that the vagus nerve is involved in feelings of satiety after eating. As the gut digests fat, it releases CKK, which travels up the vagus nerve to the brain, stimulating it to release Oxytocin, which travels back down to the stomach, causing its walls to contract and creating that full-belly feeling. In addition, fatty foods stimulate m…
/r/seduction18/11/11 04:07 PM
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Yupyup. I have a good routine for this. Say something about the meaningless hugs most people give each other as greetings and goodbyes, how people seem to have forgotten how to hug. Make her want to qualify yourself, prove that she is a good hugger. "Meh, about a four maybe." She will want to try again. "Strong 6! Girl you might just get this some day. Lemme show you how its done" Then you pour your soul into the hug and feel her melt in your arms.
/r/seduction18/11/11 02:44 PM
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Food.
/r/seduction18/11/11 02:41 PM
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Subtly raise eyebrow with a hint of a grin
/r/seduction26/10/11 05:59 PM
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"Do, or don't do, there is no try." Yoda has some motherfucking sisu!
/r/seduction26/10/11 01:01 PM
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Sunglasses: also great for hiding the signs of the night before, while looking like a baller =)
/r/seduction07/09/11 08:11 AM
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Man the fuck up. Half-lie down on the couch taking lots of space. When shes about to sit down just say "come spoon with me" with a half-grin or whatever. Wont be awkward unless you're awkward. She knows whats up; Movies alone? Jig's up. You fucking need to make a move before the attraction wears off. "Three movienights and he still havent kissed me? Must be gay/find me unattractive/a pussy".
/r/seduction06/09/11 07:09 PM
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you're
/r/seduction06/09/11 06:54 PM
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Oh, ware you the redheaded asian, DoubleD or the cute artist?
/r/seduction06/09/11 12:28 PM
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Hah. Got a mental image of a person being wellgroomed and dressed gaining value saying mcdonalds with a deadpan face, .
/r/seduction05/09/11 01:27 PM
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"theory" behind "Game" ("Game" theory perhaps...?) Game theory is something completely different
/r/seduction05/09/11 12:20 PM
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SOS. Stop what you are doing. Observe without judgement. Surrender and chill the fuck out.
/r/seduction28/08/11 08:19 PM
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If you're worried about it you can tweak facebooks privacy settings not to show your contact to anyone. No idea how that comes across but you can always claim that youre privacy aware
/r/seduction27/07/11 10:34 AM
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Dont wear pants, the rest will come of itself =)
/r/seduction21/07/11 03:16 PM
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Aw I'm sorry. This girl was a huge nerd, on our first hookup she borrowed my computer to ssh into some finnish server, resumed a screen session and read her mail with mutt lol
/r/seduction15/06/11 07:05 PM
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Hey, got me laid.
/r/seduction15/06/11 03:53 PM
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haha
/r/seduction18/05/11 10:07 PM
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I'd like to reccomend two books What Every Body is Saying by Joe Navarro' and How To Win Friends And Influence People by Dale Carnegie Both, IMO, the best in their subject. But in the end you cant study your way to social grace. Get out there! =) Maybe hosting a pokernight could help your learn to read faces, maybe studying at cafes instead of at home will give you opportunities to interact. idunno. Good luck =)
/r/seduction18/05/11 09:33 PM
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Lovely attitude, man =) Upstroked
/r/seduction24/03/11 08:21 PM
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I agree, he acted like a condescending douchebag. I'm not defending him. For a man with principles, you sure double up on them. I'm not sure you realize how subtly condescending it is to belittle her free will by by denying her of responsibility.
/r/seduction24/03/11 01:33 PM
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She made out with him, too. Noone forced her to act on the attraction. Not like she is some pretty princess who never had to make a hard decision in her life. She is an adult with responsibility for her actions - whether or not you choose to write off her actions because of her being a girl or for CatchAndRelease choosing to his better demeaner by practicing PUA.
/r/seduction24/03/11 12:50 PM
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