So, I 've been practicing the PUA arts and now am able to go on dates with girls I meet. What I've never had to deal with before was initiating the stop seeing someone or telling someone that I don't think we're a match. Usually, I was the one being shot down or dumped.

Now, I'm no longer looking for sex but rather a healthy and good long term relationship with someone that I can have fun with outside the bedroom. So, I go on dates and unless she explicitly wants to initiate sex, I won't unless I think there is true relationship material.

Of course, this means now I have to start to be able to stop seeing people and be able to tell her I'm no longer interested. The nice-guy in me finds that incredibly difficult to do and I feel quite terrible doing it.

So, how does seddit approach this? I'm not looking to be a douchebag... just want a way to let someone go without hurting their feelings and keeping them as a friend (if they so desire).