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This is how the world dies.
/r/MensRights29/03/18 02:08 PM
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I disagree with your gun control statements but that will be useful. Pm me your discord username including the four numbers on the end and I'll send an invite. My server members will likely join in. I'll be around tonight. Other people are welcome to join in this conversation if they want. Just do the same and I'll invite you.
/r/MensRights23/03/18 08:27 PM
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Want to have a voice chat about this?
/r/MensRights23/03/18 02:45 PM
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I understand what you mean though. I don't want to watch that much footage, but it would be interesting if someone edited it down to the parts that actually had something to note. I plan to do something similar this summer with a gopro. There are things I can't come back and capture later so I figure I'll just slap a camera on myself while I'm out and about and if something happens I'll grab the footage out and if not I'll delete it and try again next time. Although it may be amusing to do this …
/r/MensRights17/03/18 01:01 AM
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VR
/r/MensRights17/03/18 12:55 AM
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Throw a gopro on some folks and you have it.
/r/MensRights17/03/18 12:48 AM
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So you want me to complain about the things basically a whole other segment of men also deal with? Suffering exists. I'm not entirely sure why talking about it is of use other than to figure out solutions to make those things easier. Comforting words however I'm not sure matter to me. They are sounds that literally change nothing other than my knowledge of what the other person may think of situations in my life. That may actually make my life more difficult.
/r/MensRights17/03/18 12:44 AM
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I'm glad these nutters are trying to pull this stunt publicly so that it clearly illustrates just how nonfactual they are. Just one more giant nail in their coffin.
/r/MensRights24/07/17 02:26 PM
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Everything is done for a reason of value or people wouldn't do the things.
/r/MensRights13/07/17 01:14 AM
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Words are important or the concept of words definitions being messed with wouldn't be a huge portion of the 1984 story.
/r/MensRights12/07/17 02:55 PM
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Language use is an issue and always has been. It carries real impact because humanity is stupid that way. Regardless of how stupid, humanity still gives words value and to ignore that is foolish and only shows the pointless ego fluffing of those saying it doesn't matter to others because it doesn't matter to yourself.
/r/MensRights12/07/17 02:53 PM
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Yup. Except white people don't give a crap about being called cracker because it's of hollow and false application. I find the n word to be pointlessly connotated much like the ridiculous connotation difference between feces, crap, and shit. Literally just a classist language scenario. Humanity needs to mature faster because these stupid language problems are annoying.
/r/MensRights12/07/17 02:50 PM
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I spoke to my sister about it who is a college professor. Socially inept men trying to prove their value will explain retard shit to women. Women do the same thing to men for the same reason. Condensation comes from many intentions, no need to make a sexist version.
/r/MensRights08/07/17 02:02 PM
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Excellent nuance. I think after this thread I'll make a video encapsulating all of it and a main post in this sub-reddit as well in text form.
/r/MensRights08/07/17 02:01 PM
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using the term insinuates the person is being condescending because the person is sexist. Nail meet sledgehammer.
/r/MensRights08/07/17 02:00 PM
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Not making any other point, you just apparently are stubborn and don't like being wrong. Leave and forfeit if you wish.
/r/MensRights08/07/17 01:43 AM
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So if your intent is to influence people to your position on potentially all of reddit, and others are doing the same, and your influence actually does influence others and so there is more of your influence effectively now on reddit, and this trend and behavior continues, what happens?
/r/MensRights08/07/17 01:36 AM
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Who comes to this thread?
/r/MensRights08/07/17 12:03 AM
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Think for a moment what just YOUR words here on reddit accomplish other than entertain you. Think on it for more than a minute. Give it a good think and then come back and ask again if you still aren't sure what I meant.
/r/MensRights07/07/17 11:11 PM
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No worries, just wanted to lay it all bare.
/r/MensRights07/07/17 09:56 PM
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lol Awesome
/r/MensRights07/07/17 09:54 PM
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Condescension is condescension regardless of what gender, race, age, or financial class it comes from. Assigning it to a specific gender is pointless and only makes you look like the detrimental party.
/r/MensRights07/07/17 07:56 PM
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Please refer to the edited version of the comment you are replying to. Sidenote: If you think only going after the political system is going to work, you are dead wrong. Politics change because of social movements which is exactly what I am talking about. All civil rights movements start as a social movement. Even the MRM is a social movement.
/r/MensRights07/07/17 06:36 PM
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Who taught these people what to believe? Other ones. It seems you are unaware of how social dynamics works. This kind of social influence even happens with divorce scenarios. Studies have shown that when one woman divorces her husband, her friends have a high likelihood of following suite shortly afterwards compared to female friendship groups that don't have a divorce happening within their group. Did you parents never utter the words "I don't want them their bad behavior to rub off on you." or…
/r/MensRights07/07/17 06:31 PM
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Look what Tumbler folks did as a unified annoying voice and say that it doesn't have impact and try to be serious while doing it.
/r/MensRights07/07/17 05:52 PM
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While most things have reasonable (what I assume you mean by legitimate) roots, others do not. Hence racial slurs.
/r/MensRights07/07/17 04:20 PM
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Men's Rights Movement isn't just for political purposes, it is of a social and political purpose. If you don't like that, leave.
/r/MensRights07/07/17 04:00 PM
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So in effect, mansplaining just means an explanation that actually makes valid sense.
/r/MensRights07/07/17 03:58 PM
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Double standards are a clear indication that humanity is just as dumb as apes in the jungle raping frogs.
/r/MensRights28/06/17 10:05 PM
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No.
/r/MensRights23/06/17 09:05 PM
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Educated assumptions =/= jumping to conclusions. Acting on assumptions before finding out more is jumping to conclusions. I was commenting in order to talk about the position you took, not the one I took. If you want to now hide your position after saying you were up for a debate, then you've effectively canceled the debate and in conclusion the conversation.
/r/MensRights23/06/17 08:51 PM
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Why don't you just go ahead and say what part of the article, or my statement, you disagreed with? I don't know what you actually think and assuming from the little I've seen you say about it just isn't reasonable. I disagree with many of the talking points of the article.
/r/MensRights23/06/17 08:44 PM
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Don't want to taint things, and want to gather the full set of premises to work with before replying to them. Don't like the multiple conversations going all at once thing when at all possible to reduce it. I have read the full article.
/r/MensRights23/06/17 08:27 PM
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There were all kinds of studies referenced by the article in question, showing how the emotions of males are not acknowledged or engaged with by their parents, peers, or women. I understand that bit, but still don't have any example points you agreed with and why you agree with them or what about showing or not showing of emotions with males matters or not and why.
/r/MensRights23/06/17 08:07 PM
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If nothing else, it's calling out a double standard. Whether or not you believe mothers and fathers should be typecast into their typical household roles, many feminists would probably object to mothers being typecast in that way. Do you believe it is a double standard to feel differently between an economy car and muscle car? I also thought they made some interesting points about how we limit the emotional expression of boys. Please elaborate on this statement.
/r/MensRights23/06/17 08:00 PM
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If you are interested in a small debate we can do that, otherwise I'm going to just stop here. You choose.
/r/MensRights23/06/17 07:55 PM
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Are you male?
/r/MensRights23/06/17 07:37 PM
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I never said the original tweet was too long to be a tweet. Only the followup to it is clearly too long to be an actual tweet even though someone took the time to make it look like one. What? Edit: and this image with this followup and a Twitter handle is the one posted on three different subreddits making it to /r/all not the one you posted. What?
/r/MensRights23/06/17 06:30 PM
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The existence of bots and shills does not at all prove that they are a bot or shills. Until something is proven otherwise, you use the proof you have. The proof we have on this specific tweet poster is that they really did post it and that they are interacting with the people and post content of this man hating theme on their account.
/r/MensRights23/06/17 06:27 PM
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I was not saying /r/mensrights is a major publication... Also that tweet, was not at all a joke. She was very serious about it and so were the various people that liked it and retweeted it. It's an easy tweet to Google search for to find out if it is real or not. That's how I know it is very real and how serious she and her followers are about it.
/r/MensRights23/06/17 05:34 PM
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Why do people care about winning any debates in person? There are various factors that play into WHY people care to. Even wrote a giant article about it years ago. The short of it is potential to change someone's mind in a way that we feel will be beneficial to them. Other people feel it is to just benefit themselves. People fight in the marketplace of ideas to get the best ideas to win and the invalid or bad ideas to be decreased in value or just go away. That's the short of it.
/r/MensRights23/06/17 05:27 PM
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Have you viewed the content posted to /r/mensrights more than 2 times?
/r/MensRights23/06/17 05:22 PM
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About what?
/r/MensRights23/06/17 05:20 PM
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It's a debate but talking about wining or losing it seems dumb. What else would you call the statuses of each debate party at the end? What do you think a debate is about? Someone's points will lose/fail and someone's points may win/survive. Win and lose are the most simple and rational terms to use for the conclusion of a debate.
/r/MensRights23/06/17 05:14 PM
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Which is a stance in response to my stance in which I then responded to with a refutation. That's a debate regardless if you like it or not.
/r/MensRights23/06/17 05:04 PM
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What was the intent of this? You aren't going to win this debate you are having with people here. That's a very open minded viewpoint.
/r/MensRights23/06/17 05:00 PM
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Are you asking with a genuine serious intent?
/r/MensRights23/06/17 04:59 PM
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It's a realistic viewpoint. The same kind of viewpoint of "You aren't going to grow wings just because you really want to."
/r/MensRights23/06/17 04:49 PM
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I vehemently disagree. Lyrics about what a father is to them as children being limiting? No. Not in the slightest. It's just highlighting the most prevalent qualities they perceive in a father. Is a mother just someone that cares for you and can't fix things with a hammer? No, but it is just the tendencies of gender roles as a biological and historic average.
/r/MensRights23/06/17 01:40 PM
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This is one of MANY of the feminist group that have used that voice to create actual social detrimental change. To write it off as just a crazy person isn't taking into account that there are MILLIONS of them doing this. Anita Sarkeesian started off bitching about misogony in video games and now runs the world's largest feminist website in the world AND was included in UN debates about censoring people on Twitter and other social platforms. Guess who listened? Twitter and Facebook. It gives them…
/r/MensRights23/06/17 01:34 PM
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You're not paying attention to the feminism and SJW stuff in the last few years it seems. That post is common and tame compared to the other ones they post and make videos about and such. Screenshot of the tweet: http://i.imgur.com/1B6HeVz.png Are you not familiar with Anita Sarkeesian or the other feminists actually getting legal nonsense passed?
/r/MensRights23/06/17 01:14 PM
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What are you claiming to be fake?
/r/MensRights23/06/17 01:01 PM
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Definitely a real person with people that have liked and retweeted her statement tweet: http://i.imgur.com/1B6HeVz.png
/r/MensRights23/06/17 12:52 PM
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What are you alluding to?
/r/MensRights23/06/17 12:51 PM
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Everything can be bad but things being bad as their general thing exist too. Like capitalism. It's great, till it's pushed to the boundaries where corruption happens.
/r/MensRights23/06/17 12:51 PM
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Why would you assume the response is a tweet and not just a response to a tweet? Here is the original tweet if you think it's a fake: http://i.imgur.com/1B6HeVz.png
/r/MensRights23/06/17 12:49 PM
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Don't think anyone is claiming the response is a tweet, only that what they are responding to is a tweet. If you don't think it's a real tweet, just Google for it. It's not hard. Just type in the first sentence of what was said in the tweet then tweet and then search for it. Boom, top result. I found it and took another screenshot to include the retweets and such. I'd link to the actual tweet but don't want to get into trouble. http://i.imgur.com/1B6HeVz.png
/r/MensRights23/06/17 12:48 PM
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They were created for celebration, not to sell things. I say happy father's day to my father because he is a good father. I'd say happy mother's day if my mother was an actual good mother, but she isn't.
/r/MensRights23/06/17 12:39 PM
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When it ends up in wide reaching publications, it is not totally inconsequential.
/r/MensRights23/06/17 12:38 PM
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Feminism content is REALLY out there.
/r/MensRights23/06/17 12:37 PM
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Complaining about feminism gives topics to talk about that are exactly the point of MRM. You aren't going to win this debate you are having with people here.
/r/MensRights23/06/17 12:35 PM
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Thank you.
/r/MensRights23/06/17 12:33 PM
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What?
/r/MensRights14/06/17 05:56 PM
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Yea, the good ol' days. lol
/r/MensRights14/06/17 04:05 PM
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lol. It's amazing. It reminds me of that time when the DVD encryption key was spread like locusts across DIGG and reddit and the rest of the internet. An unstoppable plague. Love it. I wonder if they will issue a retraction under the knowledge that if they don't they will be hassled for months and months about it on every platform they are on.
/r/MensRights14/06/17 02:10 PM
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You are bad at reading comprehension.
/r/MensRights14/06/17 04:57 AM
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Maybe read both sentences.
/r/MensRights14/06/17 01:13 AM
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Correlation doesn't mean causation. You have to have something more substantiating than just correlation.
/r/MensRights13/06/17 07:11 AM
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Have you seen what the ACLU puts out? They are some of the most SJW acting folks out there. I don't trust them to be unbiased at all. Even if they do have the correct stats, I wouldn't cite them as a source just like I wouldn't cite a homeless person as a source even if the homeless person was correct.
/r/MensRights13/06/17 07:07 AM
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The movie, yes. You see the upvotes and general conversation around you?
/r/MensRights10/06/17 11:00 PM
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You can drown it though...
/r/MensRights10/06/17 10:56 PM
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I want to see it happen. I want to see a man and woman friendship test this theory and make a version of both images and see what happens when they start putting them onto Facebook.
/r/MensRights09/06/17 04:40 PM
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It would be a fast way to find out what people you don't want to associate yourself with anymore.
/r/MensRights09/06/17 04:39 PM
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Why? Because you have to fight their logic with logic they actually use and can understand. That is the only way.
/r/MensRights07/06/17 01:41 AM
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It's messed up that false accusations are enough of a thing to post here that there is a tag specially created for it.
/r/MensRights04/06/17 03:00 AM
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She needs to go to prison for the same amount of time she has wrongfully gotten men to go to prison/jail for and pay the legal fees to them that they had to pay and all lost wages and on and on. Basically, she is gonna perish under the load of hell she has put on them if they were reasonable about this.
/r/MensRights04/06/17 02:58 AM
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That's the problem. Inconsistent logic breeds hypocritical statements and actions.
/r/MensRights01/06/17 04:51 AM
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Yea, I'm not interested in any type of ideologue. Conclusions without evidence tends to be dangerous in general.
/r/MensRights28/05/17 07:52 PM
41

Apparently feminists are in this thread downvoting things. It seems they have been doing that a lot lately.
/r/MensRights28/05/17 04:10 PM
10

Maybe they should make that FALSE part bigger...
/r/MensRights28/05/17 04:09 PM
1

Uh... no.
/r/MensRights27/05/17 05:16 PM
2

Someone needs to start this and get it trending on twitter. Might want to add a /s to it though so Poe's Law don't bite you in the ass.
/r/MensRights26/05/17 01:11 PM
3

Boys will be boys #PizzaAtMidnight
/r/MensRights26/05/17 01:10 PM
2

Is this a bot of some sort?
/r/MensRights26/05/17 01:09 PM
1

That is the point of the statement is to inform them so that they do grow up/mature. The first part states an action, aka, don't hit other people, and the second part states what that action is attributed to, aka, being an adult.
/r/MensRights26/05/17 01:08 PM
3

Boys will be boys is definitely used to describe males of all ages. It just is saying that boys (a masculine gender) will be boys (act through masculine gender traits). It's like saying a car will be a car. Duh... Never heard someone say girls will be girls but I believe that it works just as well to say that girls will do girly things. Like wear makeup, act whimsically, etc. If you are adult male dating women you might say something like "Women... am I right?" and it would be understood that it…
/r/MensRights26/05/17 01:06 PM
1

Oh look, my previous comment works here too.
/r/MensRights24/05/17 12:50 PM
1

Good job on describing your and others own actions.
/r/MensRights24/05/17 12:49 PM
1

Correct. Insults are not arguments.
/r/MensRights23/05/17 12:22 AM
1

You've proved you are going to ignore solid facts and logic so I'm going to just lol at you and go. lol bye
/r/MensRights23/05/17 12:15 AM
1

Hahaha! Pretty sure treating people not as means of production is a valid argument. Saying it is does not make it so. The premise of "treating people ... as means of production" is false which destroys the actual argument's following conclusions. I dunno what "objective realism" you're referring to other than your belief that capitalism is great and companies shouldn't have to pay for anything other than production. If you don't earn a thing you don't get to claim you get that thing you did not …
/r/MensRights22/05/17 10:44 PM
1

where people are seen as people and not just methods of production. Is that an actual argument? Please explain it if it is, because it seems like a bunch of subjective ideals over objective realism. assloads of cases where the only issue isn't "Abortion is murder" Such as? Did the baby have a gun and so the doctors killed it in self defense? Did the baby try to suck them into the womb where it could feast on their flesh in the coming weeks? Did the baby decide to roam about the mother's body out…
/r/MensRights22/05/17 09:41 PM
1

Yup, because that's a rational argument. /s
/r/MensRights22/05/17 02:59 AM
1

Oh, never heard of a metaphor? Yea, you are someone that is capable of a rational conversation... I'm not retarded Are you sure?
/r/MensRights21/05/17 10:20 PM
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Abortion is murder. So, no, I'm not cool with women having that ability. You having a baby should not require you to get paid for it. If I have to stay on bed rest for months, the company isn't going to pay me. Especially if I did it on purpose. Paid maternity leave is such a bogus concept. It is a sexist concept and an unjustified forced benefit. EDIT: Damn SJWs, get the hell out of here. Nobody needs your moral relativity and entitled to free stuff mentality around here. Like damn mosquito alw…
/r/MensRights21/05/17 10:08 PM
-1

I never denied anything. So... Jump off a cliff, eh?
/r/MensRights21/05/17 10:03 PM
0

Looks like the feminists got into this part of the thread. Downvoting reasonable comments and upvoting irrational ones.
/r/MensRights21/05/17 04:00 PM
2

So you are a male feminist?
/r/MensRights21/05/17 03:57 PM
8

What women's issues are there in the USA at this point in history that requires someone to be a feminist?
/r/MensRights21/05/17 03:54 PM
64

The Red Pill is an old concept that goes back to Matrix movie days and just means to take objective truth without blinders on anymore. It can be and is applied in many various subject fields. It goes back before Matrix days in concept to a drink that is red or blue. Douglas Hofstadter's 1979 book Gödel, Escher, Bach features a pair of characters who "push-into" and "pop-out of" the two-dimensional world of Escher prints. The way they do this is to drink from a blue or a red phial.[11] A further …
/r/MensRights21/05/17 03:52 PM
5

I think you are straight up lying. I only go with evidence.
/r/RedPillWomen18/05/17 09:30 PM
1

These are not emotional reactions, they are standard logical processes but instead of being quiet about it and freezing you out I give you an opportunity to know just why that is happening to you instead of letting you wonder the world without another person giving you their genuine thoughts. Nobody has time for living life with people seeing toilet paper on your foot but not saying anything about it. BONUS explanation... It is not for you to be thankful about, to care about, but only that it is…
/r/RedPillWomen18/05/17 09:14 PM
1

This is an anonymous forum, why on Earth would it matter to me at all what you think your view of me as a person is? Because then I'll react in a way that is pleasing or displeasing to you. How people treat you greatly up to you and you just made yourself out to be not someone I'd talk to.
/r/RedPillWomen18/05/17 08:59 PM
1

That is an entirely unfair comment. I've made a number of comments explaining various points and when it comes time that something is too absurd or an impasse is reached then it is pointless to keep talking about it. Your baseless shaming tactics only prove to make you look foolish and reduce my view of you as a person.
/r/RedPillWomen18/05/17 08:43 PM
8

You are old enough not to fall for the nonsense you are agreeing with and sharing here.
/r/RedPillWomen18/05/17 08:17 PM
9

You take her seriously when she makes obvious jokes to poke at people that can't understand nuance or logic well. She makes jokes in her videos about things that are not about herself in the exact same manner. It's formulaic even.
/r/RedPillWomen18/05/17 08:16 PM
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I think there are a number of problems with your post. That article uses such horrific logic and basically does what any SJW would do with their logic. You use the same logic in your post. I could go on but whatever.
/r/RedPillWomen18/05/17 08:14 PM
1

Misread Why as What. The entire thing is too absurd for me to want to even reply to the talking points or conclusions and what not. Nope, just nope.
/r/RedPillWomen18/05/17 07:42 PM
1

It is in the quote...
/r/RedPillWomen18/05/17 06:04 PM

I am curious, do you see this as a negative thing? ... LOL. Oh, you're serious. I'm not going to answer such an absurd question.
/r/RedPillWomen18/05/17 06:00 PM
1

GO AWAY PLEASE
/r/RedPillWomen18/05/17 05:59 PM
1

Please reference this comment for my response: LINK
/r/RedPillWomen18/05/17 05:44 PM
2

Oh, that's a good call. It only shows up on the posts I post. I tried looking at a different RPW post and it didn't show the views data to me.
/r/RedPillWomen18/05/17 05:42 PM
1

You are making no sense. You are insulting me over the fact that I paraphrased your comment. I have no idea how stalking is relevant in any way? I am deleting this post because you've derailed it. I told you I didn't want to argue about it but you kept pushing it. that is after multiple scenarios. Only continued out of accident and partial necessity. It's not an insult to tell someone how they feel you are being or are. It is an insult to say what someone is as a person as an absolute. Just don'…
/r/RedPillWomen18/05/17 05:41 PM
1

Right. I know that people can DOX you if you use skype using some kind of IP tool so I'm not sure if you can do that with all chat methods or not but I guess it's about as safe as you're going to get without using VPNs and stuff that I don't even know how to do and I like computers.
/r/RedPillWomen18/05/17 05:38 PM

I have a feeling you stalk people when they dump you.
/r/RedPillWomen18/05/17 05:32 PM
1

This has been posted for the reason that people can see the truth and not the lies you have perpetrated in your main post, not to argue with you to convince you of anything. Please actually read.
/r/RedPillWomen18/05/17 05:28 PM
1

That's some fancy mental gymnastics you are doing there to twist my words to mean something they clearly do not. This has been posted for the reason that people can see the truth and not the lies you have perpetrated in your main post, not to argue with you to convince you of anything.
/r/RedPillWomen18/05/17 05:22 PM
1

https://www.reddit.com/r/RedPillWomen/comments/6bsdew/what_do_you_as_women_feel_you_offer_a_relationship/dhpurba/
/r/RedPillWomen18/05/17 05:13 PM
1

You both heavily misinterpret the point of my post AND straight up lie about what I've said. My issue with this is that I do not feel those utilities are the main thing a man brings to a relationship at all. Most women are able to manage these things themselves. I personally have not met anyone who fell head over heels for her husband solely because of his ability to fix a leaky tap or put together an IKEA dresser. These are nice perks that a man can offer, but they aren't even things that come …
/r/RedPillWomen18/05/17 05:11 PM
2

Excellent comment. Thank you for sharing your views on this.
/r/RedPillWomen18/05/17 04:55 PM
1

Already responded to a similar comment to yours. Find that reply.
/r/RedPillWomen18/05/17 04:50 PM
1

You accurately understood which 2 would not be considered utility while the rest of what you listed is considered utility. It seems that men and women think about utility very differently. I plan to make another post after this one blows over. Apparently men think of their utility as what they can do where as women consider their utility as just existing as who they are for the most part. This is a gross oversimplification but it sums it up fairly well from what I am seeing so far. I think in a …
/r/RedPillWomen18/05/17 04:41 PM
1

When you know the other parties perspective already, there tends to be little value in doing much more. I have my reasons for when I do, but they are NOT to convince the other party. It also serves as a solid point in time you can point to and show that you knew what they were going to do and why you showed that you shouldn't go further.
/r/RedPillWomen18/05/17 04:20 PM
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budgeting I've never seen anyone outsource their families budget unless they were rich and reasonably should outsource it. This is an actual utility. Budgeting takes a good understanding of how to do it well and actually enforce it. Cooking and housekeeping are utiltiies but the ultra basics that would have been super repetative and already known so therefore pointless to list. HOWEVER it could be expanded to say "Research new recipes to cook", "Actively learn more regular to advanced cooking sk…
/r/RedPillWomen18/05/17 04:16 PM
1

These new things are in the same group of traits as the IRC classic.
/r/RedPillWomen18/05/17 02:29 PM
2

No offense but you are literally the first person who has said kids are "not that difficult". How many people do you talk to? Most of my guy friends feel this way. Most are upset at how the mothers are screwing up their kids. (child custody sharing scenarios) And pregnancy and childbirth... don't get me started. You need to be very very fit to handle that! Men work labor jobs like roofing, fixing roads, mining, garbage men, etc. You need to be very fit to handle that!
/r/RedPillWomen18/05/17 02:28 PM
1

Is that how you describe Slack and Yahoo Chat and chat rooms in general?
/r/RedPillWomen18/05/17 02:00 PM
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All of these are utility. Upvote.
/r/RedPillWomen18/05/17 01:50 PM
1

Vague like: How do you be a good parent? "Love them and make sure they don't die."
/r/RedPillWomen18/05/17 01:39 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/RedPillWomen/comments/6beoyu/is_it_really_that_bad_that_i_want_a_man_to_take/dhnl1q3/
/r/RedPillWomen18/05/17 01:38 PM
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I disagree. EDIT: For those watching at home... You can properly do something without being effective with it. For instance I can properly do all the steps to cooking but the oven fails to do it's job so in that case the cooking was not effective. You can properly inoculate someone with a vaccine but the vaccine not be effective.
/r/RedPillWomen18/05/17 12:53 PM
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My detailed main post had many words and people missed the point there too so...
/r/RedPillWomen18/05/17 12:25 PM
1

Completely missed the point.
/r/RedPillWomen18/05/17 12:17 PM
2

I use both res and beta test. For me it's directly under the vote score for the post.
/r/RedPillWomen18/05/17 12:10 PM
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Yes. That is all that was necessary relevant. My response: "Nice Guys"
/r/RedPillWomen18/05/17 03:01 AM
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Do you believe that being nice is a utility?
/r/RedPillWomen18/05/17 02:38 AM
1

There are some sub-reddits dedicated to helping people budget, buy things low cost, become financially independent so you can just stop working all together, and cooking reasonable and good meals. Maybe look into those.
/r/RedPillWomen18/05/17 02:02 AM
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I'd suggest something more like Discord that way nobody has to be using an account that can show their name and such. It's a lot like skype but allows you to make "servers" which are basically just chat rooms that stick with the author of that server. I like it because it is powerful, you can boot people and ban them easy, you can have moderators, inline content posting, multiple channels per server so you can have a channel be for sex while another is about cooking or parenting or whatever. The…
/r/RedPillWomen18/05/17 12:00 AM
1

do you find yourself comparing them to that one woman you were with? People are a collection of traits. People compare what was to what is and what will be. That's just humanity. I think you are more trying to ask something about the negative side effects of it. Much like how people complain about stereotyping yet it is a critical part of how ALL people operate AND is beneficial in many scenarios. Did you think of that woman as the one who got away? That would require me to actually have done no…
/r/RedPillWomen17/05/17 10:54 PM
1

Definitely. It's just an annoying side effect of how very powerful human processes work. I tried to describe some of that in the big comment. Love and feelings are an effect of brain physical processes and chemicals. Although it is as boring and technical as that it still is a very real thing. So when the very real thing is making my day great I'll enjoy the process and when the very real thing is making my day suck I'll just ignore it and recognize it for the boring and clinical abstraction of …
/r/RedPillWomen17/05/17 09:18 PM
1

It is what it is.
/r/RedPillWomen17/05/17 08:45 PM
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It sounds like in your case she was the love of your life but you were the one who left her. Why? Definitely was, but there isn't just one person out there for everyone, there are multiple people that do well for you, some just better than others. We were spectacular in the beginning and then our child died. She got PTSD. PTSD does amazingly baffling and troubling things to a person and a relationship. In addition to this, I didn't know certain psychology information back then that would be usef…
/r/RedPillWomen17/05/17 07:48 PM
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I always talk about ex partners in annecdotes. They were a part of my life and the events in that life. To remove that portion of my life is ridiculous. Usually it was ex partners that I did not like to talk to or deal with. The ex that I left last year I did care about the most I had cared about and loved anyone in my entire life other than my kids. I still think about stories when I talk with my friends as those things were adventures and events that happened with her and to separate her out i…
/r/RedPillWomen17/05/17 01:42 AM
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I have multiple kids that I took care of by myself and it hasn't ever been as frustrating as what you just made it out to be. Kids are simple compared to a corporate job and corporate office coworkers. I had thought that comment you just made was what you were saying/going to expound upon after I asked you to. It's one I've heard many times. Kids are not that difficult to take care of. Sidenote, 2 small boys and 2 girls. I found that dealing with your partner is a lot more work than dealing with…
/r/RedPillWomen17/05/17 12:56 AM
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What's being prevented here is establishing a group dedicated to spreading an idea that is both extremely influential and, more importantly, factually wrong on an objectively scientific level. This is the same excuse feminists and SJWs give. I'm ok with these groups being shut down ONLY because it shows that censorship of free speech is bogus and annoying. People tend to act like wankers until they get treated equally as bad.
/r/MensRights16/05/17 09:42 PM
1

You said stay at home mom is exhausting and not like 50s tv.
/r/RedPillWomen16/05/17 05:39 PM
1

That doesn't matter. It's any perceived enemy of any group a person would be in. If I said buildings are places you go into I'd not expect someone to ask how we are to know what building. That's pointless and illogical.
/r/MensRights16/05/17 04:51 PM
1

Yes rules. Everybody plays by the rules the environment has. Social, economic, political, physics, logic, etc. Not everyone is born healthy or in the same family scenario or country or time period or financial situation etc. etc. Not equal opportunity because that is inherently not equal in reality.
/r/MensRights16/05/17 03:12 PM
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Yes it is immediately understandable. Are you all not English?
/r/MensRights16/05/17 03:07 PM
2

That's a great quote.
/r/RedPillWomen16/05/17 03:02 PM
2

What do you think is a 9 to 5 job in a relationship?
/r/RedPillWomen16/05/17 03:01 PM
6

You took on debt and want to find a man right away which will leave him paying your debt?
/r/RedPillWomen16/05/17 02:56 PM
1

Yes for the same reasons
/r/MensRights16/05/17 02:52 PM
1

A super hot evil dictator would feel very strange. Fun idea for a story though.
/r/MensRights16/05/17 02:52 PM
1

Equality of rules not equality of outcome or equality of chance.
/r/MensRights16/05/17 02:51 PM
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I can't think of a single one whereas I can think of many women do have that men don't.
/r/MensRights16/05/17 02:48 PM
1

That was obvious...
/r/MensRights16/05/17 02:41 PM
1

It's about ideology and bias in general...
/r/MensRights16/05/17 02:40 PM
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I'm open minded and will talk to anyone that doesn't agree with me about something. Stereotyping behavior gives you a heads up, not a fact.
/r/MensRights16/05/17 02:32 PM
2

Are you confusing the prosecutors who pushed her narrative that created this man's hell? They don't give a rats ass if an innocent man rots in jail. It's their jam. o_o
/r/MensRights15/05/17 05:48 PM
1

If I came to your home and killed you and then hid for a week and then turned myself in, they are not going to give me a reduced sentence for doing so.
/r/MensRights15/05/17 05:47 PM
1

Never mind what you think of her, if she was given an extremely harsh sentence it would discourage others who were facing a similar situation. That's the damn point. To discourage people from crying rape when there was none. If someone is crying rape they are highly unlikely to turn themselves in just like it is highly unlikely that anyone doing any crime will turn themselves in. Just because they turn themselves in doesn't mean they should get a crazy reduced sentence. If I came to your home an…
/r/MensRights15/05/17 05:46 PM
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There are a few reviews of her red pill video. The consensus seems to be open minded and fight the ideas vs the people. Skeptics have always been open to talking to feminists and SJWs and people they disagree with. Feminist Frequency Everyday Feminism recently announced they are having money problems and are trying a last ditch effort to crowd fund 50k as well. Then we have the backlash against SJW commercials, The Red Pill documentary, etc. happening. I think it shows a good change in direction…
/r/RedPillWomen15/05/17 05:42 AM
1

You misread quite a bit if that was your interpretation of that comment or are not commenting in good faith.
/r/RedPillWomen14/05/17 11:38 PM
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They use trend terms and then you use absolute terms. That is a detriment to you.
/r/RedPillWomen14/05/17 05:30 PM
0

YOU are deeming the wall misogynistic. It is by definition not. Only through emotional reaction is it such. Just because something is unpleasant does not make it wrong or false. I don't like dealing with comcast customer service but sometimes it's just nessesary.
/r/RedPillWomen14/05/17 05:28 PM
2

I don't trust this user based on their comments...
/r/RedPillWomen14/05/17 05:24 PM
0

The wall isn't a specific age...
/r/RedPillWomen14/05/17 05:23 PM
1

Yup. The older generations were more frisky but we're more classy about it.
/r/RedPillWomen14/05/17 05:22 PM
1

Traditional basically means the nuclear family.
/r/RedPillWomen14/05/17 05:20 PM
2

Sounds like he is still getting comfy with the in person you.
/r/RedPillWomen13/05/17 08:50 PM
1

Please also go to myptsd.com and check the forums out. They have a specific one for supporter relationships. You are seeing a common PTSD scenario. Essentially you can't force a change. If it's best to not be with him then that's the situation. It sucks but it is what it is. Just have to decide what the situation realistically is and can be. Ideals should be replaced with realism for this situation.
/r/RedPillWomen12/05/17 12:35 AM
2

Yup. Shows and TV are intending to sell you unique or exaggerated or behaviorally filtered characters. It does not intend to mirror real life. That's the sad thing. TV is definitely the opioid of the masses as is any entertainment used to kill time in a pleasant way. It is annoying sometimes. Especially when cha racers are cheating or have other horrific behaviors exhibited.
/r/RedPillWomen11/05/17 04:19 PM
2

Closed captioning should work for now
/r/RedPillWomen11/05/17 04:15 PM
3

Even the bible let's you out of marriage because of infidelity.
/r/RedPillWomen11/05/17 04:14 PM
1

What?...
/r/RedPillWomen11/05/17 04:13 PM
5

A sad dance
/r/RedPillWomen11/05/17 04:11 PM
0

You asked the question.
/r/RedPillWomen11/05/17 03:56 PM
2

No way. That starts to lead to blind following.
/r/RedPillWomen11/05/17 12:31 AM
4

No on all three counts.
/r/RedPillWomen09/05/17 01:56 PM
1

... I think you were trying to respond to a flat earther somewhere.
/r/RedPillWomen09/05/17 04:53 AM

They could of gotten away with it too if it wasn't for the meddling bot!
/r/RedPillWomen09/05/17 03:49 AM
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I know this is a bit off-topic but I wanted to say that there wouldn't be many single mothers if men decided to stick around for their kids. Men actually like their kids. This myth that men leave so much and it wasn't the woman is just not at all realistic or red pill mentality.
/r/RedPillWomen09/05/17 03:48 AM
1

That's usually not the case when they hail from large families. This whole phenomenon is a recent problem that exists mainly in families of 2.2 kids, where the kids did not get to observe how children are raised. The end is near! is the feeling I get sometimes when thinking about that sort of thing. Society seems to be taking a flying leap off a short pier.
/r/RedPillWomen09/05/17 03:47 AM
2

It's not the resources nessesarily. It is that women more often than not are going to coddle a child a lot more. Every single mother I have dated was like that. They actually said they were really hoping to find a guy that could be a father figure in their childs life and that they have trouble disiplining and "being mean". They equate the emotional state to the goodness or badness of the situation. The other common trend I saw but less of was that the moms would be really mean to the kids and y…
/r/RedPillWomen09/05/17 03:42 AM
2

Indoctrination is hard to break. :/
/r/MensRights08/05/17 06:04 AM
3

"I'm sorry but I don't want the statistically dumber sex running everything. Straight up. You can quote me on that." - 54:45 Lauren Southern LOL. I just had to make a note of that. Was too funny.
/r/RedPillWomen08/05/17 01:39 AM
1

Yup. Usually until you see it happen to someone you are close to or happens to you yourself. I have guy friends that even don't see it very well that have gone through quite a bit of crap. It's very interesting to see how much people don't want to acknowledge that.
/r/MensRights08/05/17 01:22 AM
1

Towards the end could be anywhere in that giant long video.
/r/RedPillWomen07/05/17 10:44 PM
2

It isn't a requirement. More like guidelines and suggestions.
/r/RedPillWomen06/05/17 04:33 PM
3

Everyone is attracted to people through standard biological means. It's not a choice. Freaking out only ensures that he knows you have self esteem problems and to men that's like cancer to a relationship.
/r/RedPillWomen06/05/17 12:07 AM
1

Oh ok. Thank you.
/r/RedPillWomen05/05/17 04:08 AM
1

Oh ok. So for him it was something he had to do and wasn't really any good alternative options. Much like being shot and then not going to the hopsital is an option but a fatal and bad one but still an option. You either leave a job or leave a long term relationship that you were in for over a year with someone you wanted to marry and make kids with. So it sounds like it is your move then.
/r/RedPillWomen04/05/17 09:54 PM
5

He is not you. Don't treat him like he is. Yes it's important to support your partner and encourage them in the right direction but it is influence and not force that should be used. If normal not nagging influence works then ok. If not then that's all you can do before you start hurting things. Don't do x is a command. Do x is a command. Influence by conversation to do things like get better food at the store or something is helpful. Can't force change. Only influence it. When pressure becomes …
/r/RedPillWomen04/05/17 07:00 PM
2

You dated for over a year and have had talks of marriage and family. Did he talk to you about the job move and how you two will get through it? It sounds like we are missing something or he just didn't talk to you about it and took the job and moved without an actual conversation. It isn't about permission. It is about working as a unit vs uncommitted individuals. EDIT: Fix typos.
/r/RedPillWomen04/05/17 06:51 PM
1

Why do you like working in the dairy industry so much?
/r/RedPillWomen04/05/17 06:48 PM
3

My grandparents were great to each other all the way till when grandpa died. Some of those oldies matriage were perfect examples of a good marriage .
/r/RedPillWomen03/05/17 03:55 AM
1

Hm.
/r/RedPillWomen02/05/17 02:33 PM
0

Less likely however.
/r/RedPillWomen02/05/17 08:35 AM
3

Her husband was military so not exactly beta.
/r/RedPillWomen02/05/17 08:27 AM
3

Happens all the time
/r/RedPillWomen30/04/17 09:53 PM
4

Sexual compatibility is very important. You can get lucky or waste an enormous amount of time and effort getting to the marriage stage. Too many girls I dated who were sexually not compatible. It would have sucked dating for a super long time then engagement then marriage the both people are sexually unhappy.
/r/RedPillWomen30/04/17 09:52 PM
2

From the comments so far, I keep thinking about this guy sitting at home quiety sitting and thinking. Then suddenly just blurts out "She broke up with me because I have depression? That sure doesn't help it." Poor fellow. I think the real question here is if he was in love with a previous partner when he was depressed or not. If he had then it's just a pointless worry.
/r/RedPillWomen30/04/17 10:43 AM
1

That's a terrible description.
/r/RedPillWomen29/04/17 10:20 PM
2

Finding work and decompressing from losing a job takes personal time and effort to do. If I were to tell a woman I needed space and was in that scenario I would be thinking that saying something was better than just going radio silent for a long period of time when trying to get things sorted. Although I am more honest and straight forward than most though so perhaps he is saying something other than what the words objectively mean normally.
/r/RedPillWomen29/04/17 05:36 PM
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lol. This was awesome and really illustrates the obvious cognitive dissonance many women have when it comes to dating.
/r/RedPillWomen29/04/17 04:50 PM
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https://therationalmale.com/2012/03/27/dread-games/ My guess is they have a much better outline of what society deems this as. My version may not be their version.
/r/RedPillWomen28/04/17 03:29 AM
1

Yes and I understand.
/r/RedPillWomen28/04/17 01:01 AM
1

No. If it were, RPW wouldn't suggest women getting fit and staying fit for their partner. Dread is what you do with who you are and if you are getting fit then ok and if you are getting fat that ok or if you are staying exactly the same then ok.
/r/RedPillWomen27/04/17 09:49 PM
3

I knew I should of so screwed with the bot so I did and it was funny. One more time for the road...
/r/MensRights27/04/17 09:18 PM
2

I could of told them that too. bwhahaha
/r/MensRights27/04/17 09:14 PM
1

My last boyfriend would spend all day at work in front of the computer and then come home and spend the rest of the night in front of the computer. He spent the weekends in front of the computer. I went to bed alone pretty much every night. As a guy, that is easy to do and it does take effort to change that bad behavior. Men in general are built as more solitary individuals. I had that issue for a while but worked on it and am just fine at it now. It does get hard though as I get focused on some…
/r/RedPillWomen27/04/17 08:44 PM
1

Well I'm not going for women in management or something like that. I do enjoy a woman that has had some college so she has some unique information to work with though. The intelligent and fearless (maybe not fearless but definitely open to adventure) are things however I do care about. Don't have to be a college graduate to be intelligent either but it does help. I made a clearly mirrored statement to illustrate that some of the traits and such are muddled together and perhaps not all that well …
/r/RedPillWomen27/04/17 08:35 PM
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I'm in the Bible belt and grew up in a religious setting. Just to be clear the notes of attractiveness and such were not all the time, just when it seemed unique to our own perspective or something like that. There are too many good looking people to make note of all of them.
/r/RedPillWomen27/04/17 08:29 PM
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I think behaviors like cheating, lying, smoking comes with the same personality traits that allow a woman to be intelligent and successful and fearless. So you saying I should go for a dumb and unsuccessful and fearful woman?
/r/RedPillWomen27/04/17 08:08 PM
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Yup. I've seen this from various age groups and religious belief systems. Strangely I tend to see women talk about women's looks more than the men tend to when it comes to the same kind of talk.
/r/RedPillWomen27/04/17 07:46 PM
1

Strange that a random sampling of each person's life shows the exact mirror opposite of another and still be realistically feasible. This apparently happens with various things in life. There has to be a term for this statistical contradiction. If not I guess I could write up a paper and give it a crappy name.
/r/RedPillWomen27/04/17 07:32 PM
1

I thought it a universal since I didn't run into the other.
/r/RedPillWomen27/04/17 06:48 PM
1

I didn't read a ton of lists but I think most of the behavioral items are something women can find reasonably. The looks stuff all seems a bit more subjective and flexible in reality to me at least. Your list looks similar to mine but shorter. There are two items of yours I want to note: won't work all the time, will spend time together (hiking, biking, road trips, won't go to bed alone, etc.) looks good with beard/has beard, looks good in flannel The work one is a difficult balance. My mother m…
/r/RedPillWomen27/04/17 06:46 PM
2

Linsday Lohan wears them. She's been to jail 6 times. How does that make the shoes trashy?
/r/RedPillWomen27/04/17 06:37 PM
1

Getting fit isn't dread game.
/r/RedPillWomen27/04/17 06:10 PM
1

Me and previous partners were comfortable saying we thought so and so looked good and sometimes we ask why we thought what we did. I've always seen married couples watch TV and the wife saying x is so good looking.
/r/RedPillWomen27/04/17 06:09 PM
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I get the pain and frustration bit. I continually am concerned with what nonsense my kids are being fed. The gender questions are like philosophy in that it's hard for socity as a whole all believe the same things. Same with morality. While frustrating there is not much use going off in the weeds. Sexual atraction however has been studied extensively. If philosophy of this is of interest you can pm to chat more. In this thread though isn't a good time or place.
/r/RedPillWomen27/04/17 06:00 PM
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just as straight people often have problems justifying being attracted exclusively to the opposite sex with anything other than 'Well it's just the norm' or 'I was born this way!' What?
/r/RedPillWomen27/04/17 05:54 PM
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Take the situation as it is. You married for financial aid and not because he wanted to marry you... yet. Yet being the key word. So operating day by day should be as if you were not engaged or married yet. You cannot force emotions. Let him become ready to marry you in his own timeframe and love each other as if you were not engaged or married yet. Tell him this is your plan even. To give him the much needed room to let him come to that point or not on his own. If you do get divorced try to do …
/r/RedPillWomen27/04/17 05:45 AM
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I disagree with both points but since we disagree I'll not move forward with the conversation about it with you.
/r/RedPillWomen27/04/17 01:53 AM
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Definitely a good step in the right direction. Just note that people will tell you to get over it way sooner than is rationally reasonable to get over it. Some people it is weeks, months, years, or never. Generally only years and never if you don't attempt to forge a new connection of the same type aka romantic relationship.
/r/RedPillWomen27/04/17 12:20 AM
1

People that have shitty tendencies you overlook because of their other qualities tend to be called people. Some people's shitty tendencies just happen to be addiction or self medicating.
/r/RedPillWomen27/04/17 12:18 AM
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Dodging a bullet would be not ever encountering your worthless comments that only serve to hurt and do nothing of constructive benefit.
/r/RedPillWomen27/04/17 12:16 AM
2

Everyone has baggage. Some relationships just end horrifically through death or other situations. You greeve and keep busy and definitely keep meeting new people and going out. Staying in is the enemy of recovery to a nasty scenario like death or horrible break up. I left my ex a year ago and it has been rough giving a shit about dating anyone new. She had PTSD from our child dying and it caused some problems and so when she left it was like she had died. The person I broke up with didn't resemb…
/r/RedPillWomen27/04/17 12:14 AM
2

TurdFlingingMonkey or TFM definitely is MGTOW as that is what the channel is about all together. Not really of any use to RPW or any guys who are interested in relationships that frequent this sub-reddit.
/r/RedPillWomen26/04/17 11:50 PM
2

Would you be willing to moderate a mens version of this sub-reddit? It seems warranted. I'd be willing to work with such a sub-reddit with you but in a secondary capacity as I have other projects that take time. I assume there are a few other quality men around that would be interested or at least qualified to taking part in such an effort.
/r/RedPillWomen26/04/17 11:41 PM
1

Sharp features are masculine. Smooth features are feminine.
/r/RedPillWomen26/04/17 08:25 PM
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I'll try Won't lie to me even if it is unpleasant to tell the truth Won't cheat and would rather break up first Willing to work, willing to stay home with the kids Likes to be creative and productive. Basically would rather cook, clean, carve a statue, write a book, paint, draw, write and record music. That vs excessive shopping for aesthetically things like shoes, clothes, purses, nails or watching too much TV or video games or Facebook or whatever. This I mean as a general tendency, not as som…
/r/RedPillWomen26/04/17 02:23 PM
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Lying, cheating. There was some background information I was unaware of that leads to that kind of behavior. Apparently Attachment Styles are really important to pay attention to. The lying mostly was around the cheating. She also lied about smoking cigarettes. She had stopped all on her own volition and then started again but didn't say anything. I think that was more because she was ashamed but lying about things I just can't tolerate. The PTSD sure didn't help.
/r/RedPillWomen26/04/17 01:07 PM
1

I see.
/r/RedPillWomen26/04/17 04:29 AM
8

Buy a wagon Drag the wagon ??? Profit!!!
/r/RedPillWomen26/04/17 03:06 AM
1

Your tag says you are a male that hit the wall. What does that look like? I'm in my early 30s so I am curious what you think hitting the wall is as a male.
/r/RedPillWomen26/04/17 03:04 AM
1

So an educated woman was an ideal that you were unaware of but you were accepting of a woman that wasn't well educated. So that means that your ideal woman is one that is well educated but it is optional because before you were ok without that trait.
/r/RedPillWomen26/04/17 03:03 AM
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Ideal includes extras or optional traits. I had an ideal in mind last time and ended up with a woman that was way way more awesome than I had dreamed up. Sadly she had a few traits that made the relationship unsustainable. Like a sports car with a really badly designed transmission support assembly so it falls out when you are driving on the highway. This discussion gets into the metaphysics of what a thing is though and largely will trod into No True Scotsman territory.
/r/RedPillWomen26/04/17 02:57 AM
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I'm not the person you thought I was. Also, the main post says characteristics. "What does x look like" doesn't mean literal visual looks. More of a metaphysics looks. The added text in the main post shows this by asking about characteristics and not the physical appearance traits. If this is not accurate, then the main poster needs to be more clear with the post content as post titles are summaries and not always created in quality form.
/r/RedPillWomen25/04/17 11:20 PM
4

What's your point?
/r/RedPillWomen25/04/17 10:45 PM
2

As a guy looking for a woman?
/r/RedPillWomen25/04/17 10:44 PM

This should prove entertaining.
/r/RedPillWomen25/04/17 10:24 PM
3

I don't miss the pink.
/r/RedPillWomen25/04/17 02:16 AM
4

But brah you need to know it better. /s
/r/RedPillWomen25/04/17 01:36 AM
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Mobile or turn off sub-reddit themes in your preferences. Themes bug me so I didn't know there was one for quite some time.
/r/RedPillWomen24/04/17 03:13 PM
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lol, I don't think you get it. Insults don't work on me. Only logic, so if you want to say something that has any actual impact, you are going to have to use reason, not insults, in order to do that. ;)
/r/TheRedPill24/04/17 02:10 PM
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lol. So strange for people to create complete echo chambers. I'm fine with a group doing their thing and trying to keep out trolls but banning over a disagreement in philosophy or something reasonable like that is just too much. Got to say though, I find most of humanity to be a bit more sensitive than I'd like them to be.
/r/RedPillWomen24/04/17 02:06 PM
1

What happens in a dangerous situation? He going to freeze up? I'm not sure how to interpret this behavior of his.
/r/RedPillWomen24/04/17 12:54 PM
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You are passed reasonable in this discussion. Trp tone polices way more than rpw do.
/r/RedPillWomen24/04/17 12:50 PM
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It definitely is a safe space. I got temp banned for disagreeing with a user's unrealistic and harsh comments. Don't post there much because I disagree with enough of them I'd end up harry caray in short order.
/r/RedPillWomen24/04/17 12:47 PM
1

That is what I was saying.
/r/RedPillWomen24/04/17 12:22 PM
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Your personal confidence should not be tied so tightly to how much sexual attraction has for you. If you can't stabilize your own self confidence in your sexual areas and others you will end up crashing a ltr.
/r/RedPillWomen24/04/17 12:18 PM
2

It looks like facts upset you. You poor baby. Lol
/r/TheRedPill24/04/17 12:10 PM
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Sidenote: Always found "Why pay for the cow if you can get the milk for free?" to be an interesting question. My answer to it is simple. Because I want to still get that specific milk for the rest of my life.
/r/RedPillWomen23/04/17 09:17 PM
0

Short version: You time Me time Us time
/r/RedPillWomen23/04/17 07:50 PM
1

Not too fond of saying first mate and captain.
/r/RedPillWomen23/04/17 07:21 PM
1

If you live in the real world, it is pretty obvious that counter examples exist. Examples aren't useful for this kind of debate considering exceptions tend to exist to most things. Rule 34 comes to mind. For example. If I wanted to say that there are tons of Furries and that most people are them, I'd just go to a few websites, forums, and videos that talk about furries being awesome and them all talking and use those as evidence. That would be stupid evidence. Examples easily bring exceptions. O…
/r/TheRedPill23/04/17 02:52 PM
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Examples =/= Statistical data Nobody has objective stats on what we are talking about. Not even divorce stats are accurate enough to work with solidly. Who the hell would actually keep stats on why relationships break up? Even divorce cases aren't able to accurately nail it down and why no fault divorces started happening. Women were getting stuck in marriages that they were being beat and abused but couldn't get out of the marriages because they didn't have sufficient proof very often. Everyone…
/r/TheRedPill23/04/17 01:36 PM
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It's a common issue with humans. Confirmation bias makes it even worse. EDIT: Forgot the bias of confirmation bias
/r/TheRedPill23/04/17 11:51 AM
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So a rom com that is a tragedy at the same time. Ok.
/r/RedPillWomen23/04/17 02:08 AM
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Large quantity =/= large percentage or accurate representation
/r/TheRedPill23/04/17 12:49 AM
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What are people supposed to glean from this or the other story?
/r/RedPillWomen23/04/17 12:38 AM
2

What the types are: LINK Test to find out your type: LINK
/r/RedPillWomen22/04/17 09:08 PM
1

It warrants you getting a thicker skin. Anyone saying those things to you should not give you that emotional reaction.
/r/RedPillWomen22/04/17 02:32 PM
1

While I'm 100 % capable of having female friends in addition to a partner, I'm fully aware most people of both genders are not skilled at it. If I'm with a partner I only wants friends. I've stopped being friends with women that try to get me to cheat. I've seen guy girl friends that are like brother sister and gag at the thought of getting with each other. While exceptions exist the trend is more prevalent and must be protected against.
/r/RedPillWomen21/04/17 11:31 PM
1

So many things.
/r/RedPillWomen21/04/17 09:40 PM
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I could but won't because I don't want to because I don't care enough about it happening.
/r/MensRights21/04/17 06:04 PM
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Which isn't as widely used as twitter
/r/MensRights21/04/17 05:13 PM
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It's the same thing.
/r/RedPillWomen21/04/17 02:01 AM
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Lol kitty foreman was instantly the example I had in mind. Been watching that show again and boy oh boy is the lady that plays kitty foreman is adorable in her character and looks. Her character is basically spot on of a good partner.
/r/RedPillWomen20/04/17 09:15 PM
1

The Racked article was mostly good but they misinterpret a couple things but then again so do most anyone that is trying to grasp a nuanced concept.
/r/RedPillWomen20/04/17 08:46 PM
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You can always start or just use twitter.
/r/MensRights20/04/17 08:24 PM
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Nope. Frame of mind has been a concept for a very very long time. e.g. "I'm sorry that I reacted that way. I was just in a bad frame of mind at the time." It just means state of mind. Some people have more self control than others and self control gives you a consistent frame of mind that you can keep or change as needed. The opposite of this is being emotionally reactive. Quick to respond, quick to act, without any reasonable level of thought or restraint.
/r/RedPillWomen20/04/17 07:22 PM
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They haven't figured out how to get girls themselves. It isn't only that. Many just see the truth of how things work much like RPW. TRP is more about contemplating relationships as they are, not what to actually do to make a relationship work well or how to vet or anything like RPW do. Much like how some churches talk about fire and brimstone all the time and others that talk about forgiveness all the time.
/r/RedPillWomen20/04/17 07:16 PM
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You can think of RPW and TRP as two different religious denominations. Like Baptist vs Catholic. They use similar terms but are varied enough to make a label distinction.
/r/RedPillWomen20/04/17 07:14 PM
1

Good idea. :)
/r/RedPillWomen20/04/17 07:11 PM
1

Then hopefully you can agree that with some editing, maybe she could have actually had an answer of some substance. No, because if she was capable or wanting to include anything of more substance she would have which means she ignores reality willingly or actually just believes the things she is saying. Someone could have, but definitely not the current version of herself. Just like a beginner writer is not the same writer that is at the extreme level even if they are the same person, it isn't t…
/r/RedPillWomen20/04/17 07:08 PM
3

That however did not come through as the intent. The intent seemed to be you wanted to give an English lesson.
/r/RedPillWomen20/04/17 07:05 PM
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I'm agreeing that she said what she thought the truth about feminism is. I was not agreeing that her answer was of substance.
/r/RedPillWomen20/04/17 06:31 PM
2

Personally, I don't want a man who needs to identify with a larger ideology like this, just as I would never call myself a Red Pill Woman. It's just a place for like minds. If it walks like a duck and talks like a duck it is likely a duck. You are what you think, say, and do. A label is just short hand. No Christian for instance believes the same exact things as the next Christian even with uber religious married folks. It's OK to identify with a philosophy, group, or whatever if you actually do…
/r/RedPillWomen20/04/17 06:15 PM
4

Short version: Be the change you wish to see.
/r/RedPillWomen20/04/17 06:07 PM
1

Just start an Instagram account for it.
/r/MensRights20/04/17 04:59 PM
4

Why did you choose to write all this? What value did you find it would bring anyone in this sub-reddit?
/r/RedPillWomen20/04/17 04:53 PM
2

she literally tells you in the next sentence what the purported RP "truth about feminism" is. Agreed. "Namely that it shouldn't exist." seems very clear.
/r/RedPillWomen20/04/17 04:52 PM
4

if a woman is allowed to change her mind on sex and back out, why does this feminist think that woman is not allowed to change her mind to be in? This.
/r/RedPillWomen20/04/17 04:45 PM
4

Sounds like where you are looking for is Sweden in it's current state.
/r/RedPillWomen20/04/17 04:44 PM
1

We were not talking about 60+ year old men.
/r/RedPillWomen20/04/17 03:13 PM
1

The movements no doubt will help in pushing back the insanity.
/r/RedPillWomen20/04/17 03:08 PM
1

The nice thing about having liberty is you now have the option. The shit thing about having liberty is you now have the responsibility. Much like going from childhood to adulthood. Parents take care of you and then you have to take care of you.
/r/RedPillWomen20/04/17 03:06 PM
1

Experience with women. Majority of them all liked older men regardless of financial status knowledge.
/r/RedPillWomen20/04/17 06:49 AM
2

Post two comments instead.
/r/RedPillWomen20/04/17 05:05 AM
1

I've got hundreds of pages of content is the issue. It's why I'm writing a book with 2000 plus pages.
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/17 09:43 PM
1

There is a lot so if you have something specific you'd like insights about, please ask and I'll see what I can do.
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/17 09:23 PM
3

...What?
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/17 08:33 PM
1

I will say that I think women are kinder when determining a man's attractiveness - because attractiveness seems to be about more than just looks for women, and women like men around their own age. This objectively isn't true and OkCupid has the stats to prove it. A lot of women like men with boyish good looks and a boyish charm so saying women like faces with character (besides a strong jaw-line and facial hair) with scars and wrinkles is just a matter of opinion. Exceptions are not the rule of …
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/17 08:32 PM
2

I'm not a unicorn, I just like not having to talk much as I do with people in public and with friends. I've even had a guy ask if something was wrong because I hadn't said anything in five minutes in the truck coming back from fishing. Just didn't have stuff to say.
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/17 08:06 PM
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I like women who talk more than I do. It allows me to listen and relax instead of find something to talk about. I already know me, I want to know someone else as much as I can.
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/17 08:05 PM
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Please for the love of all that is good in the world, don't take medication to curb your talking. STFU is about knowing what you shouldn't say. It's ok if you like to talk, but you have to know your audience. When you around family you feel comfortable being yourself which as with everyone includes things that may bug people that you don't know well. I feel like there needs to be various conversation examples in a video and then have someone break it down. There is a video series like that. Char…
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/17 08:04 PM
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Woman I reached out was careful and reluctant to talk with me. "In general, the only interest we see from writers is in gathering material for a hit piece," one said. The article says this early on which is hilarious because that is exactly what the author of the article did. Perhaps there is some comfort in convincing oneself that you aren't an oppressed person. That, in order to avoid sexual assault, for example, you can just be more responsible. Not sure why people say you are blaming a victi…
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/17 07:45 PM
1

It's interesting to poke around in someone's mind to learn how that kind of mentality works. Also is useful to have practice having conversations with difficult people. It is the entire reason that my username is testmypatience as I wanted to improve my patience to a high degree. Do you have a link to the blog post? I'm not familiar with that post.
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/17 07:21 PM
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Aging better tends to be referring to the attractiveness of the face of a person. Because both genders age in the face in the same skin sagging and fat moving around type of ways you get two different outcomes. The attractiveness of a woman in her face is about smoothness and roundness and so sagging skin and wrinkles tends to make a woman age badly. The attractiveness of a man in his face is about "character" which can be things like scars, a more filled out looking head, even wrinkles. There i…
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/17 07:03 PM
1

I did not and do not thank you. Your pretentiousness is detrimental to your cause. The wall is applied to women because the looks of a woman and her child bearing years do hit a wall. When and how hard are the changing variables but all are in a fairly understood and defined gradient of degrees. This does not happen as a rule for men. The exception for women is they stay good looking and the exception for men is that they get worse looking. There even is an addage about it. Men age like wine, wo…
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/17 06:33 PM
2

Do you have a point?
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/17 06:02 PM
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Considering this portion of comment thread, it is you that is being weird and barky when being disagreed with. This one... Someone in response to your main post: Are you sure that it's not just that your current or past relationships have not been working out, and you're seeking something to blame? You Whoa! Thanks Freud! Them I think I've struck a nerve. You Yeah, that Mickey Mouse degree you got hasn't gone all to waste. Congrats! Someone else That how to STFU post definitely didn't help you. …
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/17 05:33 PM
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I think you just came to troll considering you aren't using any logic in your statements and are only being emotionally reactive in an insulting way to very tame and rational comments. That doesn't make you seem reasonable at all. It makes you the kind of person that people attempt to avoid. If you want people to avoid you, keep on doing what you are doing and you will do great at it.
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/17 05:28 PM
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If that is your impression of this sub-reddit, you are definitely missinterpretting what is said. You aren't worthless or less as a person, you however are less attractive because of physical aging as well as baggage in your life as well as the family rearing stuff that is all based on biology/science/medical information. How to STFU is all about being more calm and level headed instead of emotionally reactive and in general having detrimental communication behaviors. What dreams exactly are you…
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/17 05:26 PM
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Life situations, preferences, and habits might change, but personal values tend to stay the same once you're past 25. According to my personal observations of people I know, anyway. This is what I was trying to get at. Thank you for wording it more clearly.
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/17 01:10 AM
7

Sounds like Disney
/r/RedPillWomen18/04/17 02:30 PM
2

Look at the recent election results to see what states are conservative and how conservative.
/r/RedPillWomen18/04/17 02:18 AM
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The phenomenon OP is saying their partner have happens a lot in more areas than this. It is a calibration error. An over-correction. An overreach. Some people are able to calibrate after an over-correction while some people just get stuck there. I've lost friends to this. She was shy and a pushover and then became irrationally aggressive where she would lie and such.
/r/RedPillWomen14/04/17 09:22 PM
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No relationship should have someone telling the other what to wear. Of course some things you just should understand are not to be worn. Cutting you off from your friends is not at all reasonable. He can tell you that he doesn't condone or like that you hang out with certain people and for certain reasons and that it would make him feel more comfortable if you didn't, but to tell you that you can't see someone anymore is just not ok. YOU must be the one to pull the trigger on what you do with fr…
/r/RedPillWomen14/04/17 09:20 PM
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This feels like a series of things to address. Your decisions your outcome. It isn't someone else's life. Your parents are people. People have problems. Adults don't know everything or even enough things to parent well. You deal with your life for you. That's as good as Im going to get on my mobile.
/r/RedPillWomen13/04/17 03:46 PM
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Being supportive and caring doesn't mean you have to enable or be a pushover. Also doesn't mean to be emotionally reactive or overly emotional.
/r/RedPillWomen13/04/17 01:07 AM
1

I can't seem to find that method online anywhere as a pro con method. I am pretty sure someone told me it was called that before, but I can't seem to find it online anywhere.
/r/RedPillWomen12/04/17 03:07 PM
2

Yes.
/r/RedPillWomen12/04/17 03:00 AM
2

Low expectations...
/r/RedPillWomen11/04/17 05:06 AM
2

Is what is feminine a difficult question to answer? I wonder how many men questions what masculine is.
/r/RedPillWomen11/04/17 05:05 AM
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That would be silly. Home is where a person retreats to in order to relax and feel safe being themselves. Rpw and rp in general sometimes makes me question how militant and how intense actually are vs the tame version I hope for. Life is for living, not some odd relationship game.
/r/RedPillWomen11/04/17 05:03 AM
1

Rule vs exception. Hopefully everyone sees which is which.
/r/RedPillWomen11/04/17 05:00 AM
1

.
/r/RedPillWomen11/04/17 03:59 AM
1

Thank you
/r/RedPillWomen11/04/17 03:59 AM
1

I always appreciated input. Being annoying or mean with your input however not so appreciated.
/r/RedPillWomen10/04/17 07:27 PM
3

/r/budgetfood /r/frugal
/r/RedPillWomen10/04/17 05:21 PM
0

No aphorisms for you! /s
/r/RedPillWomen10/04/17 03:36 PM
1

Without it the journey is going to be extremely unpleasant.
/r/RedPillWomen10/04/17 03:17 PM
5

This is EXACTLY how it works for someone that knows the game of life well. In business it is called Weighted Scorecards and is a form of a Weighted Sum Model. Some people do a simple version with the Pro's Con's columns evaluation method.
/r/RedPillWomen10/04/17 03:15 PM
7

Unrelated... By TankVet, do you mean you drove tanks?
/r/RedPillWomen10/04/17 03:11 PM
4

Only after living through this experience, these otherwise pretty alpha guys learn to value a woman who loves them to bits, is not as hot or entitled, maybe smarter but definitely not as socially-savy, who they eventually marry. Also known as reordering your priorities to fit reality.
/r/RedPillWomen10/04/17 03:07 PM
1

...
/r/RedPillWomen10/04/17 08:44 AM
9

MRAs (Men's Rights Advocate/Activist) make up the MRM (Men's Rights Movement).
/r/MensRights10/04/17 02:01 AM
19

Exactly. No consistency other than never accepting blame.
/r/MensRights10/04/17 01:50 AM
5

Wouldn't that make it that all people that say that statement are sith?
/r/MensRights10/04/17 01:48 AM
8

I met a male feminist that was exactly as crazy as I was led to believe them to be. Almost worse. It was a total trip having conversations with them.
/r/MensRights10/04/17 01:46 AM
17

The interesting thing is that MRA's are about equality in getting equal and fair rights compared to women. That is the exact same thing except for the gender part that feminism CLAIMS to be about. I'm both an egalitarian and MRA.
/r/MensRights10/04/17 01:43 AM
1

MMV What is this?
/r/RedPillWomen09/04/17 03:18 PM
8

You don't seem to understand the purpose of the men's rights movement.
/r/MensRights08/04/17 08:07 PM
10

The way the laws and legal proceedings work when it comes to rape cases alleged against men.
/r/MensRights08/04/17 07:59 PM
7

A pretty screwed up scene to visualize.
/r/MensRights08/04/17 07:59 PM
0

I don't think you read the story at all.
/r/MensRights08/04/17 07:58 PM
4

The death penalty should require extraordinary amounts of proof. Life sentence is less worse but still crazy amounts of not great either.
/r/MensRights08/04/17 07:49 PM
2

You sure wouldn't pass my vetting process. haha That's unsettling. EDIT: Unnecessarily harsh.
/r/RedPillWomen08/04/17 03:33 PM
1

That's awesome.
/r/RedPillWomen08/04/17 12:05 AM
0

So, with that, it does not matter to own one or go somewhere to do the laundry.
/r/RedPillWomen07/04/17 09:47 PM
3

Am I to gather from this that you think a man must have his own washing machine and dryer or they aren't quality enough?
/r/RedPillWomen07/04/17 05:47 PM
1

So breaking his own stuff is "screwed up big"?
/r/RedPillWomen07/04/17 05:17 PM
1

Also the blatant domestic violence doesn't escape me now. Where in the movie does that happen?
/r/RedPillWomen07/04/17 05:03 PM
1

Only today do I realize the sort of stuff that went on in that movie. I was asking about this part.
/r/RedPillWomen07/04/17 04:37 PM
1

Like what?
/r/RedPillWomen07/04/17 02:29 PM
1

People like characters they see traits that resonate with their own values or traits.
/r/RedPillWomen07/04/17 02:27 PM
1

I was going to extend this into a conversation but on reddit that is just going to create a massive thread that isn't good on here. If you want to talk about education in the USA, I'd be open to that and you could pm to do that. Otherwise... Education of the young and adult is a very big interest and passion of mine. It's super important that it be upgraded to have society survive.
/r/RedPillWomen06/04/17 09:20 PM
1

I've thought about being a college professor at some point. I think those will be my later years. I definitely want to do something until I die.
/r/RedPillWomen06/04/17 08:55 PM
6

Teachers are Uber important. Corp jobs rarely let you directly see any world value you created.
/r/RedPillWomen06/04/17 05:24 PM
6

Which subconsciously gives you an edge in getting things done in your favor more often.
/r/RedPillWomen06/04/17 05:23 PM
5

Ding ding ding
/r/RedPillWomen05/04/17 01:22 PM
3

... holy shit
/r/RedPillWomen04/04/17 09:59 PM
1

Yup. Time is money. Sanity is expensive. Those two principals in life are really important.
/r/RedPillWomen04/04/17 09:19 PM
4

If she treats the management of our household like a real job it's perfect If wives did this, families would be way way better off both socially and financially. Some women are really good at buying groceries at awesome low costs and having good plans with cooking and food storage. Some just are great with that stuff. Being a homemaker definitely can be a real job and one that really benefits the family unit with or without kids.
/r/RedPillWomen04/04/17 09:18 PM
2

Be supportive, not controlling or nagging and you will be fine. Many behaviors exhibit extremes and support is one of them. It is a spectrum of don't do anything to do some things to do everything. Relationship problems tend to come from imbalances of things. No communication (too distant), enough communication (assertive, confident, patient, etc.), too much communication (smothering). Guys have the same problem with women. Our support method is to fix things. Women tell guys a problem and the g…
/r/RedPillWomen04/04/17 09:15 PM
1

I write so much I think I'll soon start feeling like I'm turning into a female. Some people are wordy. I'm one of those people.
/r/RedPillWomen04/04/17 09:10 PM
2

Just don't end up making it patronizing. "You put your clothes in the hamper so well today.", everyday might be a bit much. I always thanked my partner for things that were done that I appreciated like laundry or dishes or whatever. Compliment on looks and accomplishments that were notable. Things like a nice new dress or how she did her hair or filled out a bunch of job applications or did an interview well or what not.
/r/RedPillWomen04/04/17 09:08 PM
2

Because to him, his worth doesn't come from other people's opinions, it comes from what he actually accomplishes. Yup. Women have a similar thing about "How do I look?" then the guy says "You look great" then she says "Oh you are just saying that because I'm your wife." The compliments and such are seen as more valuable when not received from a biased party that cares about feelings.
/r/RedPillWomen04/04/17 09:04 PM
2

Sounds like he has impostor syndrome or is just in general always at the fringe of his capabilities like he likes to be. Is he a person that is capable of admitting error to you? Is he a person that is generally caring and open minded? If so, it's likely. Someone that is more on the "I don't give a shit" mentality won't really have these moments of being unsure when they should be. They will just be sure about everything which is not at all a safe mentality to have. Imposter Syndrome - Impostor …
/r/RedPillWomen04/04/17 09:02 PM
6

Bill Gates is rich and I buy his software. I don't want him to buy me stuff
/r/RedPillWomen04/04/17 06:41 PM
3

By jittering I mean that thing old time wind up bells alarm clocks did when they go off. Just vibrating and shaking and moving about the table surface. I was tired still earlier.
/r/RedPillWomen04/04/17 06:38 PM
8

For some reason I get this image of you sitting in a chair with a cup of coffee in hand and your entire body is jittering about in the chair while you have a grin on your face as if you were pumped full of happy pills. It's very entertaining. Thanks.
/r/RedPillWomen04/04/17 11:54 AM
1

Ok. Oh well. The mystery will remain.
/r/RedPillWomen04/04/17 04:29 AM
1

Maybe try that thing where you balance a stack of books on your head.
/r/RedPillWomen03/04/17 11:10 PM
5

Because discipline and the act of doing a purposeful task both then are stronger.
/r/RedPillWomen03/04/17 11:08 PM
3

MMV isn't RMV though.
/r/RedPillWomen03/04/17 01:01 PM

Let's skype. You're an interesting case. Like to see what the real situation and problems are.
/r/RedPillWomen03/04/17 12:30 PM
1

What are these acronyms?
/r/RedPillWomen03/04/17 11:55 AM
2

Some coats are safe and reversible.
/r/MensRights02/04/17 02:49 PM
2

It's difficult to believe you're having trouble finding red pill men if these men are that agressive. Not really a blue pill move.
/r/RedPillWomen02/04/17 06:00 AM
7

My take on LA is everything is an illusion or temporary or shallow. Exceptions exist but I'm thinking this is the general rule there. Maybe I'm wrong. Also it seems dating stuff is a lot like germ vector studies.
/r/RedPillWomen01/04/17 11:58 PM
2

It sounds like men will approach you everywhere but female specific spaces like a bathroom.
/r/RedPillWomen01/04/17 11:55 PM
2

Nagging is just a problem of over reaching in the context of you helping your partner, communicating frustrations, and helping the relationship. I rarely find naggers. I'm stubborn so sometimes it's nessesary for multiple reminders to exist.
/r/RedPillWomen01/04/17 03:19 PM
3

Definitely
/r/RedPillWomen01/04/17 01:56 PM
2

If you're not into that sexual lifestyle then either try it or next the guy. You can't force yourself to like threessomes just so you can keep the relationship. This subreddit is packed to the brim with pushover's and overly elitit behaviours. Though that is humanity.
/r/RedPillWomen01/04/17 01:52 PM
3

Don't worry. Everyone has their own reasons for how they talk to family. My family never hears about women in my life unless I'm engaged to the woman or took her to a family event because I would marry her. No need to hamster this topic.
/r/RedPillWomen01/04/17 01:46 PM
1

I knew exactly what you meant.
/r/RedPillWomen31/03/17 05:35 AM
7

you're trying to hide something that's unattractive rather than not being unattractive. What are you trying to say with that?
/r/RedPillWomen31/03/17 04:48 AM
5

Your comment made me smile. It sounds like you are very happy with your situation right now. Not a lot of people get to say that when in situation like you are.
/r/RedPillWomen31/03/17 04:47 AM
9

I don't think I can ever be super crazy about anyone though. Then you have not found your partner. You found someone you like to hang out with and perhaps have sex with. A long term partner will be someone you like hanging out with so much that you both end up sleeping at the same places because of how long you were hanging out and both had to sleep at some point. That point where you realize that you stay with each other more than you are apart. When you want them around all the time instead of…
/r/RedPillWomen31/03/17 04:43 AM
1

Usually guys with confidence or high self-esteem will be the ones checking up on you, in my experience. lol. This seems strange. Why check in when there is nothing to worry about. Communication only when wanted to is how I feel about it. Sometimes checking in on someone is warranted, but often and without valid reason is not one of those times.
/r/RedPillWomen31/03/17 04:35 AM
3

Guys don't want clingy, they want someone that they feel is actually their partner though. Not just some woman that sometimes the guy hangs out with and sometimes talks to like a sort of friend you only are sort of friends with because of busy schedules and such. Guys want a woman to want them, not need them. Needing the guy is too far and means you are not independant. A relationship is about adding two self sufficient people together to make an even better scenario together. Not two broken peo…
/r/RedPillWomen31/03/17 04:34 AM
2

To answer your title... Correct. Some guys will think you are doing it out of control or think you are a prude or what not. Waiting a few dates is one thing, holding out indefinitely is another.
/r/RedPillWomen31/03/17 04:28 AM
1

You both got into it new. How was he supposed to know how he would be with it later on? There is plenty I thought I'd like and found I didn't so much after a while.
/r/RedPillWomen30/03/17 04:11 PM
1

I continually see communication issues and objective perception of scenarios. You will only fix your situation by fixing those two issues. Bdsm isn't exactly something everyone is into or to the same degree. It's not a fault of his to feel and think differently than you do about a niche sex interest you have. You seem to bottle up thoughts and feelings instead of talking it through objectively with your partner. Objective and communication being the two important elements to focus on. Don't tank…
/r/RedPillWomen30/03/17 03:40 PM
9

Can they put the show episodes online even if it is like a week later than the TV air show date? Being able to spread the video content would be useful to humanity.
/r/RedPillWomen30/03/17 09:49 AM
1

Dem calves tho ;p
/r/RedPillWomen29/03/17 03:58 PM
3

Think they are using cant as wont... example... I can wear a dress but I won't. EDIT: To clarify for others... I gave the example because I'm a dude and am repulsed at the thought of putting on a dress as a dude. So while I can do a thing, I won't do that thing, and make it at such a level of won't that it becomes a can't. If a bank manager says he can't give you a loan, perhaps he could but would likely negatively impact his life such as being fired. Semantics are fun...
/r/RedPillWomen29/03/17 03:44 PM
1

Family and friends of my long term partners have always said me and the partner acted weird and I was mean because we were using traditional genderived roles. Very annoying.
/r/RedPillWomen28/03/17 01:49 AM
3

People looking for that know how difficult can be so are happy to find someone that proclaim's the traits wanted.
/r/RedPillWomen27/03/17 06:33 PM
9

You will do plenty fine as long as you have the personality that drives your outcomes. Personality drives your health, activities, etc. Those things are what are actually important to a partner vs what a partner may think is actually important to a relationship. I've known a few women that met guys they very much care for even in their later years. Just takes some work. As long as a woman tries (in a realistic way), she will be plenty fine in the romance area of life.
/r/RedPillWomen27/03/17 07:44 AM
2

You can show how you feel through actions but words are pretty clear which is nice.
/r/RedPillWomen26/03/17 04:54 PM
1

Uh huh. Uh huh. And how do I learn to talk like you just did? It's for science.
/r/RedPillWomen26/03/17 04:35 PM
1

There are few situations that aren't odd feeling to flirt it up or ask someone out.
/r/RedPillWomen26/03/17 04:30 PM
2

The communication does have a purpose just like small talk has a purpose. It informs you of their daily work and life and the changes in it that are impacting your partner. Of course it's going to largely be the same things. There is more but I'm still tired.
/r/RedPillWomen26/03/17 04:21 PM
2

Strange how being reasonable is considered radical.
/r/RedPillWomen23/03/17 04:04 PM
3

Earn money (work a job that pays enough to pay for point 2) Make sure you don't die with the money (bills, food, etc.) Find partner This is the same for both partners. The only difference is that what happens on point 4 and forward is different for both partners. Not everyone is able to find a career they like so they pick jobs or just work the career they don't like but can do well and pays them well enough to do it. You are just experiencing normal life that most people experience. Work is cal…
/r/RedPillWomen23/03/17 11:14 AM
3

And why do men get with a woman with a cheating past??!! Most of the women that cheat say they haven't. There sadly isn't a background check for cheating.
/r/RedPillWomen23/03/17 11:02 AM
1

Every single person should operate as if they have no certain situation as someone not single. The staying at home vs going to work is about ability and reasonability not gender. Gender drives the factors most of the time though.
/r/RedPillWomen21/03/17 01:04 AM
1

marrying In your life doesn't equal married.
/r/RedPillWomen20/03/17 03:57 PM
1

I think a lot of people haven't been taught to do much of anything useful as adults.
/r/RedPillWomen20/03/17 03:54 PM
1

There is much more than those few factors that matter.
/r/RedPillWomen20/03/17 03:49 PM
1

gets out soap box places soap box gets on top of soap box clears throat "Ggaahhh... Ggaahhh..." "LOL"
/r/RedPillWomen20/03/17 04:17 AM
1

I do think that the volunteering thing is quite useful for society. If done to a maximum, SAHMs would be able to impact society quite positively. I personally believe both husbands and wives should as well as single folks do more in society as an organized and cultural effort.
/r/RedPillWomen15/03/17 08:06 PM
0

... BUT I DON'T WANT TO!!! They are my goal posts and I'll move them if I want to.
/r/MensRights15/03/17 07:52 PM
2

Sahms used to have a lot more tasks and they were more time intensive. Home automation and affordable store stuff is great but removes most of the domestic task difficulties. The modern woman needs a new way forward. Similar will happen to jobs and economics will have to shift. Who then will people marry to build families when jobs are optional? What do you do with perpetual paid days off? Watch more tv? Build a card house? This topic is of great intrigue to me. The topic of work vs free time an…
/r/RedPillWomen15/03/17 01:07 PM
5

This is just pointless. There are only so many clothes and grooming tools you need or even should have. Anything more is excessive. Don't need to see a partner in new clothes all the time. Hair and makeup and extras should be minimal.
/r/RedPillWomen15/03/17 03:36 AM
2

Both men and women play this game of making stuff up to rationalize a break up.
/r/RedPillWomen14/03/17 11:18 PM
0

Where?
/r/RedPillWomen14/03/17 11:25 AM
1

This is a wisdom begrudgingly learned.
/r/RedPillWomen14/03/17 11:20 AM
4

That would be interesting to know.
/r/RedPillWomen14/03/17 11:13 AM
1

The puritan movement...
/r/RedPillWomen13/03/17 10:36 PM
1

With kids it would be difficult but if you built it with kids in mind, you'd do just fine I think. Of course it would be a bit bigger.
/r/RedPillWomen13/03/17 08:31 PM
1

What would you think the thoughts of the users of this subreddit would think about tiny house living with a partner?
/r/RedPillWomen13/03/17 07:43 PM
2

Are alcohol drinkers and cigarette smokers seen the same way?
/r/RedPillWomen12/03/17 04:08 AM
5

You telling me you don't like basements and "actors"?
/r/RedPillWomen12/03/17 04:05 AM
7

You must have found a niche.
/r/RedPillWomen10/03/17 10:44 PM
5

Nobody got time for that. A good jingle.
/r/RedPillWomen09/03/17 08:06 PM
2

It's also a numbers game. Much like marketing. Maybe because it is marketing yourself by being the best version of yourself you care to be. Loneliness inc... would I be correct in assuming you're interested in philosophy and psychology?
/r/RedPillWomen09/03/17 03:34 PM
2

Hypergamy... like gambling but in relationships.
/r/RedPillWomen09/03/17 03:18 PM
2

Trp and pua are significantly different in mindset and action.
/r/RedPillWomen06/03/17 01:09 AM
2

Yup. Any addiction is going to be a detriment. If it's not an addiction then I don't care so much.
/r/RedPillWomen06/03/17 01:06 AM
-2

Hopefully food.
/r/RedPillWomen03/03/17 08:58 PM
3

It's not equating a wife to a prisoner. I'm saying even a person in a way worse situation keep themselves entertained.
/r/RedPillWomen03/03/17 04:58 PM
1

You time. Us time. Me time. All three are important.
/r/RedPillWomen03/03/17 03:43 PM
2

That sucks. NEXT
/r/RedPillWomen03/03/17 03:41 PM
5

In the bible it talks about wives making and selling wares at the market if they already have their other responsibilities taken care of.
/r/RedPillWomen03/03/17 03:23 PM
3

I'm not saying it is a prison. I'm saying even prisoners must entertain themselves and do.
/r/RedPillWomen03/03/17 03:15 PM
44

If your name is on the mortgage or other bills, then he has no say in your responsibility. He can pay it when he is able, but otherwise, you need to pay. This means you don't go behind his back to work, you tell him to his face and go to work. This is life, not a fairly tale where ideals trump reality. No need to lie or deceive, be honest and do what is necessary. If he is willing to dump you over this, then good riddance. This is real life. Your boredom at home is not his responsibility to fix …
/r/RedPillWomen03/03/17 06:58 AM
2

Stay at home wife
/r/RedPillWomen03/03/17 06:52 AM
1

Lot of ones in this list I think fit what I was talking about: http://www.imdb.com/list/ls002804395/
/r/RedPillWomen02/03/17 02:51 PM
4

Disparity is not inherently bias. Merit is what matters.
/r/MensRights02/03/17 02:47 AM
4

Find someone else. I've nexted women before thathe were too nice. I want a partner not a pet. Some people know they need a more assertive partner that won't just agree all the time.
/r/RedPillWomen02/03/17 02:20 AM
2

While pretty, still a lot of sharp edges and flats. There are models that fit the cute I am talking about, but many models tend to have the sharp edges and flats.
/r/RedPillWomen01/03/17 02:39 AM
1

You're welcome.
/r/RedPillWomen01/03/17 12:49 AM
7

Meh. Don't worry so much. Keep healthy fit, don't be insane, and the other things that are talked about in this sub-reddit and you will be just fine. I also think that the talk in this sub-reddit can make both men and women think that women are only supposed to go after superman type guys. Life is hard but many guy friends I know are not push overs and will make some woman happy. We men aren't looking for a lot. Just a partner to go through life with that "we" think are awesome. I say we like th…
/r/RedPillWomen01/03/17 12:28 AM

The males in trp are not normal or even well adjusted. You won't find many that are captain material there.
/r/RedPillWomen28/02/17 10:15 PM
3

Is there no way to automatically catch certain phrases and hide or delete them or something?
/r/RedPillWomen28/02/17 10:11 PM
8

I'd want to know if you are persistently working on keeping your condition under control. If you can't keep it under control then it is a guaranteed bad outcome for anyone you date. By under control I mean working with a therapist, have read as many useful books as you could find, on medication and intend to stay on it, etc. Source: Was engaged to a woman with PTSD that decided to stop taking meds, not go back to therapy to get things under control, and didn't read any of the books we bought to …
/r/RedPillWomen28/02/17 03:57 AM
2

There are some medicines used for night terrors for PTSD folks... perhaps that would help.
/r/RedPillWomen28/02/17 12:05 AM
1

I've been told you get more vitamin do from orange juice. As well as the vitamin d doesn't absorb well if accompanied by meat.
/r/RedPillWomen27/02/17 06:14 PM
1

There was a test that was done about this sort of thing. Couple had stopped having sex because of this not feeling sexy thing as well as arguments and such. The therapist or whatever had them make it a kind of chore to have sex at least once a day for the next month. They did and they stopped fighting so much and worked things out and we're happy. It's that thing about you'll enjoy it when you're doing it even if you weren't into it before you started. If people only run on feelings instead of w…
/r/RedPillWomen27/02/17 06:12 PM
1

Could wear a head guard like for boxing... lol
/r/RedPillWomen27/02/17 06:07 PM
1

Adults can get night terrors? Huh. Didn't know that.
/r/RedPillWomen27/02/17 06:04 PM
1

That doesn't actually help.
/r/MensRights26/02/17 05:52 PM
30

If DNA tests were required, women would stop doing it so much because they would stop thinking they could get away with it.
/r/MensRights26/02/17 05:50 PM
5

Strife is the way of life. Just keep at it and you'll be fine. The resume is super important. Keep tweaking it tIill it's perfect. Do research on how to make it perfect. You'll get varied advice so it's a lot of searching till you get the hang of what is wanted overall.
/r/RedPillWomen26/02/17 01:39 PM
3

Sadly that method doesn't work well for PTSD folks or other specific types of mental issues. Really like the book as well as the movie. ... it would be nice if bitching actually helped instead of annoy people. Lol
/r/RedPillWomen25/02/17 07:19 AM
3

Not being honest is an unhelpful thing to do. At some point you will just not go and have to be honest at that point. Best do that sooner than later. He won't like doing everything you do and you don't like everything he does. Just human nature. If he can't wrap his head around that you will have very bad situations in the future.
/r/RedPillWomen25/02/17 07:15 AM
3

This behavior needs resolved in practice not in theory before you marry or get too much further.
/r/RedPillWomen25/02/17 02:23 AM
5

I'm not purchasing an expensive pet or renting time. Until in a relationship a guy paying for women's things is a bad idea.
/r/RedPillWomen23/02/17 11:50 PM
1

I sense you enjoy confrontation. It's interesting.
/r/RedPillWomen23/02/17 03:16 AM
2

Effects on society as a whole. Look at what commoditizing human interaction has done to the graying nation.
/r/RedPillWomen23/02/17 12:06 AM
1

Some people don't want to be married but still find value in red pill ways that aren't restricted to just marriage.
/r/RedPillWomen22/02/17 11:56 PM
3

Exactly. It's the only good way to validate an open relationship scenario.
/r/RedPillWomen22/02/17 11:56 PM
8

Best case? He divorces her and marries you? And what? Now you are married to a man that clearly doesn't give a shit about marriage. Exactly
/r/RedPillWomen22/02/17 11:55 PM
5

In the most obvious of ways from the start.
/r/RedPillWomen22/02/17 11:55 PM
3

Can you please explain how you thought it was a good idea before "lesson learned"? I'm curious what that thought process looks like.
/r/RedPillWomen22/02/17 11:54 PM
3

It's not a very good list if you are looking for podcasts or YouTube series. :/
/r/RedPillWomen22/02/17 11:45 PM
1

Definitely. To me dating is just hanging out with people and getting to know them. However dating has the context of being people that have aligning sexual orientations.
/r/RedPillWomen22/02/17 08:05 PM
2

Yes. Casual dating is the same as no commitment dating.
/r/RedPillWomen22/02/17 10:14 AM
3

looks at flair oh ok
/r/RedPillWomen22/02/17 10:12 AM
3

A friend should never be considered a plate for either gender.
/r/RedPillWomen22/02/17 10:10 AM
7

Definitely why I advise both genders casual dating until they find themselves focusing mostly on one person. When you find that partner that consumes your thoughts when they are away. You find yourself wanting to make big plans far in the future. When you both seem to spend more nights together than apart. That person you'd be perfectly happy if you got stranded with on a roadside for 3 hours on a hot day. Huh... I should write crappy love notes for hallmark cards...
/r/RedPillWomen22/02/17 10:06 AM
2

You are looking for the term Casual Dating.
/r/RedPillWomen21/02/17 04:44 PM
2

Look at this video on Missing Tile Syndrome and it may help further that concept you've got there. https://youtu.be/1qanDVZHliw
/r/RedPillWomen21/02/17 04:40 PM
5

The serenity prayer and golden rule. Two of the most life saving concepts.
/r/RedPillWomen21/02/17 02:30 AM
2

That's a lot of kids. You going for 8 ?
/r/RedPillWomen16/02/17 01:09 AM
4

That makes sense. Most conservatives that have feelings that seem callused about the environment just think that the earth can take a solid beating and keep on doing fine. Most are not aware of the subtle things that can and do happen. I'm a centrist myself because all the extremes are not realistic.
/r/RedPillWomen15/02/17 07:45 PM
3

Repeat performances are reasonable...
/r/RedPillWomen15/02/17 01:27 PM
1

Decline in Christianity steadfastness led to decline of traditional values being used.
/r/RedPillWomen15/02/17 01:21 PM
2

Such as?
/r/RedPillWomen15/02/17 01:13 PM
7

High N Count, Have Reformed, Now: No Sex Before Marriage No. It isn't very reasonable. lol.
/r/RedPillWomen12/02/17 10:25 AM
3

Is that a Star Trek reference? If so, I don't know it well enough to know what you were just trying to say.
/r/RedPillWomen10/02/17 08:59 PM
3

What is XO?
/r/RedPillWomen10/02/17 08:45 PM
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Swimming. Unless you don't have the agency of free will to not do other things or are a mind reader. It's not a euphemism like Netflix and Chill or being invited in for a coffee late at night.
/r/RedPillWomen10/02/17 08:03 PM
2

You went for a drink which is a date then got invited to go on a swimming date at wherever.
/r/RedPillWomen10/02/17 06:57 PM
2

Such as?
/r/RedPillWomen10/02/17 06:15 PM
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Atleast buy me dinner jeez. You are owed exactly nothing. Being bought something from anyone is because they want to, not because you have earned it or are deserved it by existing. To feel so entitled is repulsive behavior.
/r/RedPillWomen10/02/17 06:42 AM
1

Whoops. Wrong assumption made.
/r/RedPillWomen08/02/17 02:01 AM
1

I know you say you don't want kids or like them much but your actions seem to prove otherwise. A lot of grandparents like having the grandkids over because they get to do the fun things with the kids and not the boring or frustrating parts like bringing them to the doctor or bugging them to do homework.
/r/RedPillWomen07/02/17 07:41 PM
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Txting and Facebook have forever screwed up how dating and relationships in general work.
/r/RedPillWomen07/02/17 05:23 PM
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Some people get busy with life and respond when they are more sure of what is going on. Freaking out over this only will make him want to ignore you all together. Many of the comments in this thread except for loneliness-inc are showing neediness.
/r/RedPillWomen07/02/17 04:30 AM
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The mentality of this comment screams needy and something a guy would avoid if they could.
/r/RedPillWomen07/02/17 04:23 AM
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I also know too many women who don't try because God has it all worked out. This one is annoying to witness. It's fine and all to believe God will help you in life such as finding work but unless you actually try to find a job you won't be getting one. Same with everything else in life.
/r/RedPillWomen05/02/17 08:20 PM
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My ex proved the analogy well. Perfect match except for lying and cheating. Pretty critical failures that mitigate the rest of the match.
/r/RedPillWomen05/02/17 08:16 PM
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Agree. There is more than one good match that you could call soul mates. I say this because some partners do resonate far deeper than a person could ever think possible. It's good for both genders and all sexual orientation to be aware of this information. While you may never meet someone as compatible again doesn't mean they don't exist or give up looking for someone great if things don't work out with who you are or were with. Life is largely a numbers game. You improve your chances by forging…
/r/RedPillWomen05/02/17 06:27 PM
2

Grace is the word.
/r/RedPillWomen04/02/17 12:29 AM
1

Once in a while it's good to do. There were certain movies my ex wanted to watch together even at home so that we had a common understanding of the movie she really loved but I didn't know about. Sometimes you just do your own thing. I really stress that I'm talking about doing things together when you don't like the thing the other person wants to do WHEN it is very important to them and not just a regular experience kind of thing that doesn't have to be worried about.
/r/RedPillWomen04/02/17 12:22 AM
2

This is so very true.
/r/RedPillWomen03/02/17 10:56 PM
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He won't like everything you do. It's good to do some things with your partner if they'd like your company. I went to certain movies my ex wanted to go to and she went with me to the club once in a while. It was more about being around each other for quality time and letting them share their interests with you. Didn't always go together but when one of us knew the other really wanted to spend that time together we did. I learned a lot of new things about myself and her about herself. It's great …
/r/RedPillWomen03/02/17 06:06 PM
1

Having an unconfident partner is super annoying for both men and women. It breeds needyness, indecision, cheating, and other destructive behaviors.
/r/RedPillWomen03/02/17 05:58 PM
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That's a great father. Perfect behavior.
/r/RedPillWomen03/02/17 05:54 PM
1

It's good to care about things that are wrong in the world but when you are consumed by it all the time that isn't a good time at all. It's nice to search for the good things. It's what drove me to be realistically optimistic. Hope for the best and plan for the worst kind of thing.
/r/RedPillWomen03/02/17 05:51 PM
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Diminishing Returns
/r/RedPillWomen03/02/17 02:39 PM
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That's a pretty interesting find in life.
/r/RedPillWomen03/02/17 02:31 PM
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Fertile fields going infertile fast...
/r/TheRedPill02/02/17 02:48 PM
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Grandmas all over give this out when they can muster the will to be ignored.
/r/TheRedPill02/02/17 02:47 PM
2

This would be a very interesting book.
/r/TheRedPill02/02/17 02:45 PM
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Bachelor and bachlorette arent new things. The current ones are a bit more angry it seems.
/r/RedPillWomen02/02/17 02:28 PM
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I read it in the accent. Lol
/r/RedPillWomen02/02/17 02:26 PM
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So bitching isn't the hobby you are looking for?
/r/RedPillWomen01/02/17 10:46 PM
1

N count is interesting concept. To me a lower number indicates they prefer and know how to be in a relationship.
/r/RedPillWomen01/02/17 10:44 PM
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Same thing you do with a boss but a bit more direct because your dad can't fire you. Respect but assertive when nessesary and ignore when it doesn't seem to matter. Backpeddling is NOT what you do. Stand ground with confidence or gain ground with assertiveness. As an inventor from a young age and with an engineering father, I was always bieng told what I was doing wasn't going to work. I disagreed and just went about building things anyway. At one point was told to drive a certain way and I was …
/r/TheRedPill01/02/17 12:55 AM
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Stop saying woke. It is one of the dumbest things you could say.
/r/TheRedPill01/02/17 12:50 AM
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That's not a shit test. That is people disagreeing with you and asserting their perspective as they don't agree that what you are currently doing actually provides happiness and think you are making a big mistake.
/r/TheRedPill01/02/17 12:45 AM
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Please give some examples of male shit tests. Trying to figure out what you mean. I'll respond to what I think you may be talking about, but please go ahead and answer if you have some examples. I think what some people think are shit tests are just people pushing their luck to see how much ground they have or can have. This happens in business, this happens in stores, and practically any situation that is possible. How you react to a situation seems very universal. What you do as a reaction mat…
/r/TheRedPill31/01/17 11:42 PM
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I was more trying to give the guy some helpful guy advice. There is a book that I read a long time ago that was titled in a way that makes it seem more iffy than it should. However the content was written masterfully with way more information than I thought someone could pack into a book about being a very confident, influential, etc. kind of man. The audiobook is awful but the PDF I had read of it was great. "How to be an Alpha Male" by John Alexander. It can be found on Amazon or if you want t…
/r/RedPillWomen31/01/17 08:59 PM
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If you'd like more helpful information, let me know.
/r/RedPillWomen31/01/17 03:05 PM
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Men fix things. So we naturally feel that we should be able to fix emotional problems with logic. It is unnatural for us to know otherwise, but it definitely helps knowing that you can't. The funny thing is that neither gender really likes it when people try to fix their emotional problems with logic. Guy's wife leaves him and a guy friend says to not worry, that doesn't at all help, it just frustrates.
/r/RedPillWomen31/01/17 03:03 PM
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A partner that only is giving sex is only a sex friend, not a partner.
/r/RedPillWomen31/01/17 01:22 PM
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Uh... No. Just flat out no. Sex is great but it isn't the entire relationship.
/r/RedPillWomen31/01/17 01:20 PM
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Got trauma from past issues I'm working on. I'm pondering if I should get a therapist but for now I'll deal with it on my own. This is self-explanatory. Being stuck in past issues make it harder to deal with the present. Definitely do something proactive about this or it will subtly haunt your life. I've seen it a number of times where one completely destroyed my fiancee that is now my ex.
/r/RedPillWomen30/01/17 10:35 PM
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Puppy dog syndrome. A true mark of madly in love people.
/r/RedPillWomen30/01/17 10:28 PM
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Men are a part of society. Corporations fight for their rights and they have a crazy amount of rights and they know people think they are full of shit and they don't give a damn and keep fighting anyway.
/r/MensRights30/01/17 09:22 PM
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Definitely. My biggest WTF was finding out that it wasn't just my family that didn't teach me about adult life, it was most everyone else as well. School doesn't teach you what you need to live a personal life, it teaches you what you need in a professional life, and only just some of it. The thing that needs done is to teach kids about adult life BEFORE they get there. Definitely not the initialization like you were talking about. Can't know what you don't know BUT that means that someone shoul…
/r/RedPillWomen30/01/17 04:58 PM
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My point was adult women and men in 20s aren't very mature compared to their teen years. Edit... also that large detriment is done to their lives as young adults because they believe they are now mature but are not. An overconfidence that leads to huge debts, kids with people they won't stay with, and more divorce than should be had.
/r/RedPillWomen30/01/17 03:28 PM
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That has no relevance to the question asked.
/r/RedPillWomen30/01/17 01:35 PM
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The alpha beta concepts for both men and women really aren't talked about very realistically very often. I've seen it done for men only in one place. Everywhere else does it poorly that I've seen. One big issue is that alpha is often seen as very simplified things such as bad boy or boss. The better definition is one that more is about leading vs commanding. I wrote a post about this before because confidence often has the same issue with misunderstandings. Women can be be alpha women and should…
/r/RedPillWomen30/01/17 04:25 AM
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What is the point of being committed to a partner if you don't ever intend to marry them?
/r/RedPillWomen30/01/17 04:02 AM
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This entire sub-reddit exists because of the need to help women learn how to "protect their interests" and mostly before "the wall" which tends to be around 30. Legality doesn't really mean much for actual maturity. The maturity of most 20 yr olds is pretty crap. Even 30 yr old women tend to be pretty crap with maturity.
/r/RedPillWomen30/01/17 03:45 AM
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This isn't a place to pickup women.
/r/RedPillWomen29/01/17 08:03 PM
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Classy is a good look compared to under dressed/groomed or over dressed/groomed. Guys don't like excessive makeup on women as it leaves it all over our clothes, faces, and pillows. Clothing and hair tend to be things that are easy to mess up. Don't have to look like you are going for a magazine shoot, just not the look where you are staying inside your house for a year. The classy in between is what to shoot for. This goes for guys too. Can't look like a bum and don't need to look like a fancy t…
/r/RedPillWomen29/01/17 08:02 PM
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Posture is HUGE. If you are slightly hunched with your head hung low and shoulders low and such while walking, those display sadness and the opposite of confidence in yourself in life. Had a female friend like that. When she straightened up she was just fine looking. The smile can't be fake or it will look fake. You can do something similar to method acting. Instead of thinking about negative things, think about the good things in life and good experiences in life to get that slight smile going.…
/r/RedPillWomen29/01/17 07:58 PM
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You didn't read very well.
/r/RedPillWomen29/01/17 07:01 PM
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Why is everyone afraid of the wall like it is a boogeyman. It's about time being finite and health and body functions changing over time. 30 years old having a kid means your kid will be 18 when you are 48. Assume your child also has a kid when they are 30. That means you are 60 when you have your first grandchild. That means when that grandchild is 18 you will be 78. Not everyone gets to 78. Your body starts to get tired a lot more after 30. This means keeping up with the little ones is going t…
/r/RedPillWomen29/01/17 08:49 AM
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Reading the other comments in this thread piss me off how shitty my gender has become. My family does everything so seeing what other people are experiencing baffles me.
/r/RedPillWomen29/01/17 08:44 AM
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were tasked with installing the large window AC unit Just a window unit? !#$%@#$ This is what happens when males don't have dads around that teach them stuff.
/r/RedPillWomen29/01/17 08:41 AM
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When it comes to guys that work office jobs, they DO tend to be more beta/submissive. I believe their personal lives suffer because they are taking on the same role at home with their wives that they are used to in the office with their supervisors, a subordinate one. They have choices made for them and are micromanaged daily, and all they have to do is carry out the tasks out in a timely fashion for their boss to be happy. I think they believe the same is true in the household. This tends to be…
/r/RedPillWomen29/01/17 08:34 AM
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Until a woman has commitment, she is free to do whatever she wants which means finding a guy that does want to commit. Only a stupid man doesn't commit when he is dating someone he wants to see where it is going to go.
/r/RedPillWomen29/01/17 08:30 AM
1

So you want a commitment to someone that isn't sure about you yet?
/r/RedPillWomen29/01/17 08:24 AM
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Both men and women of all values casually date until they find someone they want a commitment with. Not all men and women do this, but many do. Some people date in series and some date in parallel until commitment. Both are just fine but one is super slow.
/r/RedPillWomen29/01/17 08:19 AM
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Then this is a casual relationship in which cucking isn't a thing...
/r/RedPillWomen29/01/17 08:16 AM
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You can't really plate or cuck someone if you aren't in a sexual relationship with them. Cheating, sure, but plating or cucking involves sexual cheating.
/r/RedPillWomen29/01/17 08:15 AM
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Squats and certain physical activities will add to your booty. It will be muscle so be aware of the tightness it will have when smacked. Sidenote... There is no perfect so don't lose your mind over things that are getting into crazy territory. Implants and plastic surgery for very optional things is crazy territory.
/r/RedPillWomen29/01/17 03:35 AM
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Only if you are looking for a shallow partner, not one that has a quality character value. So it would be you and pew that is missing the point. EDIT: To clarify... A person being overweight is an issue of health and why humans are driven to find it not attractive. A person with bad teeth is an issue of health and why humans are driven to not find it attractive. If you do nothing to improve your health, then that is a character trait and is also not an attractive trait. All in all, it is about c…
/r/RedPillWomen28/01/17 07:20 PM
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Way more real than "get plastic surgery for something that isn't super important". Reality is harsh, you can't just plastic surgery your way out of it.
/r/RedPillWomen28/01/17 03:46 PM
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DO NOT get with a person with the intent to fix them. You only get with a person if you want to be with them as they are.
/r/RedPillWomen28/01/17 03:52 AM
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Nun mode. LOL
/r/RedPillWomen28/01/17 03:27 AM

... You should just leave.
/r/RedPillWomen28/01/17 03:25 AM
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That is exactly the one I was talking about. ROFL
/r/RedPillWomen28/01/17 01:22 AM
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City slicker guys are influenced by magazine looking guys who put more value on looks than behavior. Try churches, looking for farmer guys, hunters, fishermen, foundry men, a lot of mech engineers are guys who work on cars and other mechanical vehicles, ditch diggers, welders, etc. Think about jobs that require working with tough or nature situations and you should find what you are looking for. They are all around cities. Many of them go to car shows, go to bars to play in pool leagues, go to m…
/r/RedPillWomen28/01/17 01:21 AM
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One was proud of his daily attire of workout clothes and not knowing how to tie a tie. Another talked about how he used to help his ex-gf style her hair. You sure you aren't talking about masculine looking women?
/r/RedPillWomen28/01/17 01:15 AM
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Dey gunna cash dou sooner or later. /joke relating to the video about that girl with the crazy accent on facebook lately
/r/RedPillWomen28/01/17 01:05 AM
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I agree with your statements, but I also believe that given the choice between his once size 6 wife now being a size 10 who still dresses stylishly and is enjoyable to be around and his size 6 wife being a relentless shrew, most men would choose the former hands down. Those are the guys that will be terrible partners because they value shallow traits over substance traits. In those situations the man will be selfish and trade her in for a "better" model whenever their current one becomes frustra…
/r/RedPillWomen27/01/17 02:23 PM
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I would avoid a man who hates his job like the plague!!! This is a very irrational way to go. Not all people have the opportunity to have the job they actually like. Many people are only able to have the job that is available. This can be because of a supply and demand situation or a different factor. I know many people that work at jobs they hate but they pay their bills and live life. It isn't the job that makes a person, it is the person that makes a person and that generally is outside of wo…
/r/RedPillWomen27/01/17 06:45 AM
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Actions/Character vs Outcome
/r/RedPillWomen27/01/17 06:42 AM
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While I believe in keeping yourself attractive, I do find the Red Pill overemphasizes it. Read this book for an example of what not to do. The character of a person in most any body can do extremely valuable works politically, economically, and socially. The body is just the vehicle that must be capable of carrying the character of a person. It is in the best interest of a person to keep their body in healthy shape for health reasons. Health reasons that influence the mind, influence social inte…
/r/RedPillWomen27/01/17 05:54 AM
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Someone please build out a guide on this topic. In the old days being a housewife was a full time job as was the husband that hunted or farmed. Now house tools and retail simplify the home based tasks to where it is boring. Even with a job and kids life can be quite boring. No job and no kids would be ultra boring. The same kind of boring I get when laid off and looking for work.
/r/RedPillWomen26/01/17 10:28 PM
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Can someone explain this answer to me? It is interesting because it is the top rated comment in this thread.
/r/RedPillWomen26/01/17 07:39 AM
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Most men men won't tolerate it in their friend circles. It's just repulsive. Merit and accountability is king.
/r/RedPillWomen26/01/17 06:54 AM
1

You learned your lesson after metaphorically burning your hand on the stove it sounds like.
/r/RedPillWomen26/01/17 06:52 AM
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Most guys aren't used to women letting them make decisions so it feels like a trap. Like the "fine" response many women give that actually means "you do that I'll cut your dick off".
/r/RedPillWomen26/01/17 12:28 AM
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Definitely this. People change a lot in college. A person hasn't developed their work ethic and how they behave as an independent adult living on their own. The rule is that long distance relationship's end badly. The rule is that relationships don't last through a college career. You could be an exception but the safe bet is the rule not the exception.
/r/RedPillWomen23/01/17 04:11 AM
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Yup. I know I want kids and marriage but I'm only going to bring it up when I know I want kids and marriage WITH that woman or if there is a conversation that somehow requires that otherwise organically.
/r/RedPillWomen22/01/17 08:35 PM
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"Traded her in for a newer model." So...
/r/RedPillWomen22/01/17 09:19 AM
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be so good, the man won't leave you Wow. He really doesn't understand psychology or people if that is the guy's perspective. It just doesn't work that way.
/r/RedPillWomen22/01/17 09:19 AM
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If a woman or man is willing to cheat on their partner with you, he is willing to cheat on you as well. Also it shows that you are likely to cheat as well because if you condone cheating with you, you likely condone cheating on someone as well. This is much like if your friend lies to another friend and you know that they did, they are willing to also lie to you. All in call, it's just bad behavior regardless of ring or not. Some people date casually and that is fine but if you know someone has …
/r/RedPillWomen22/01/17 09:18 AM
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I thought that if she were this manipulative in courtship, what would she be like in marriage. Exactly.
/r/RedPillWomen22/01/17 09:12 AM
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As a man that knows what they want, a vague answer to important questions will only be off putting. It's important for a man to know if he wants kids or marriage at some point or everyone is just wasting their time.
/r/RedPillWomen22/01/17 09:11 AM
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Yup. Just like not all women being nice to men means that the woman is interested, not all men being nice to women means that the man is interested in the woman. Maybe I'm different than many men, but I'm perfectly happy being a woman's friend because it takes a special type of woman to fit what I'm looking for in a partner. I'm pretty sure if most men were given the chance to get to know enough women, they would feel the same way about the situation. It seems though that many men feel they coul…
/r/RedPillWomen22/01/17 06:18 AM
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With all the shit he is doing, 10 bucks to talk to a woman that isn't at his work, is entertainment and stress reliever, just like any other friend you pay in gas and time to go hang out with and talk to.
/r/RedPillWomen22/01/17 04:56 AM
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Function is more important than aesthetics. Without an engine the supercar is worthless.
/r/RedPillWomen22/01/17 04:51 AM
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A man interested in a woman will make time for that woman other than already available time. Hints aren't always needed but they do back up claims. Men are becoming more skeptical of women these days and the behavior changes follow that. I tend to friend zone women until I'm certain of how I feel about them. Even though the activities are date like. It helps keep crazies from pulling shitty plays.
/r/RedPillWomen22/01/17 04:42 AM
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When you don't smile, don't look at who is talking to you, and have short sentences, those are all "I'm not interested to have you continue talking to me" signals. No smile at all means you are not happy that the new person is talking to you which could be because of looks or what they are saying or various other things. Avoiding eye contact means you don't want to hear what the person is saying. When someone looks you in the eye when you are talking to them, that shows that they are paying atte…
/r/RedPillWomen22/01/17 04:36 AM
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They aren't scared, just not attracted to a face that telegraphs "I'm a bitch even when nobody is talking to me, so you can just guess how bitchy I am when you do talk to me or when I'm upset." It's like why would you want to drive a sports car that looks like it is going to die on you because it has a front end smashed in. The bitch face is the front end smashed in look. You say idiot, I say reasonable.
/r/RedPillWomen22/01/17 04:31 AM
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When invited to do something, you should not have your effectiveness in mind, only if you want to go or not go. Someone that invites you to do something doesn't have expectations on if you are good or not good at it, only that they want you to come with them and that you will decline if you don't actually want to go and propose a counter activity that you think you would both enjoy instead.
/r/RedPillWomen22/01/17 04:21 AM
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Not every relationship has to be going towards a romantic or what it sounds like a lot in this sub, a utility based relationship. Friends are friends no matter the gender, attractiveness, what they drive, what their goals in life are, etc. Neither party even needed or needs to say their intentions until a move is made to do something other than be friends. At that point the man or woman can go with the flow or stop the flow and keep going with the current status of the relationship. I find it ex…
/r/RedPillWomen22/01/17 04:16 AM
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Yup...
/r/MensRights22/01/17 03:25 AM
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Malfunctioning IS broken.
/r/MensRights21/01/17 10:02 PM
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Without activities that are somewhat masculine or just gender neutral, a man and woman wouldn't really have a lot they could do together without torturing the other. After this comment string I went ahead and created a giant list of activities and found that most activities are costly in both time and money if they are of any significant fun. Paintball and motorbiking for instance both require a fairly substantial investment in time and money to get into. Those things aren't really things you ca…
/r/RedPillWomen21/01/17 07:00 PM
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It isn't two realities. Masculine and feminine only vary in a few key ways. My partners always had to have ambition, intelligence, and humor or I wouldn't like them as a partner. Mainly because I'm absurdly ambitious and stubborn and require a partner that I won't steamroll on accident. Weak people I crush on accident. :/ A partner is someone that is doing things as a partner. The feminine and masculine parts come from how you behave in general. Some feminine traits: Aesthetics: Self, home, etc.…
/r/RedPillWomen21/01/17 10:20 AM
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As long as someone is healthy they are in no way needing to be extra fit by necessity. Being under weight is usually because of a high metabolism and the doctor will actually say that other than eating regular amounts of food, there isn't much you can do about it. Excessively weight gaining food will only be a health detriment. The metabolism will slow in the early 30s most often. The job thing is interesting because you don't say if the finances are actually in a treacherous situation but only …
/r/RedPillWomen21/01/17 09:57 AM
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I really don't understand why anyone of either gender or any sexual orientation would be friends with a homewrecker. That behavior is such society destroying behavior.
/r/RedPillWomen21/01/17 09:37 AM
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Let's do an experiment. What "hobbies" do you think these women are pursuing that is in a public setting? See how many you can list. PS... couples dancing implies they are already in a relationship and not where they get into a relationship.
/r/RedPillWomen19/01/17 09:24 AM
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Depends on your definition of hypergamy.
/r/RedPillWomen19/01/17 09:19 AM
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I don't actually believe ADHD exists. It definitely exists. :/
/r/RedPillWomen19/01/17 08:45 AM
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I really want to know where these type of women are found. I've always been of the redpill/traditionalist mindset but not sure where the women that are of that mindset are. Most churches I have gone to tend to be filled with mostly old people so there aren't many women of the age range I'm looking for there. Would be great to see a thread in this sub-reddit where they and their friends are likely to be found at.
/r/RedPillWomen19/01/17 06:42 AM
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Hey I found the old timey books I was talking about. Sargon of Akkad did a video on it: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ih-7F6czeds
/r/RedPillWomen16/01/17 09:27 PM
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Relationships tend to be difficult in the department of "how much pushing should I do". There is a difference between douchey, aggressive, assertive, confident, and pushover, in that order respectively. It's impossible for me to know if what you consider to be rude and mean is actually rude and mean. It could be that you interpret those things accurately but you could also be that you aren't. So I won't say that you are correct or not correct. Depression is something people have and it isn't som…
/r/RedPillWomen15/01/17 09:14 PM
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It's important to be attracted to the person as a whole over time, not just to the person at the individual moment. My ex had PTSD and so a lot of times it was very difficult to deal with her but my love and attraction to her was the her that she was when she wasn't being difficult to deal with. (We were engaged but PTSD destroyed her and she did awful things that couldn't be excused so I had to leave her. Sucks but it is what it is.) Same thing with friends, family, and children. You love them …
/r/RedPillWomen15/01/17 08:20 PM
4

1) Some questions to clarify to yourself a bit more about the depression/attractive dynamic. Do you believe that it is rational to believe that a man be not sad all the time? Do you believe that it is rational for a person to want to be attractive while they are sad? Do you believe it would be at all useful that your partner find you, a woman, attractive while you are sad? It's not evolutionarilly beneficial to be attracted to sadness, injury, illness. However it is important to still care for t…
/r/RedPillWomen15/01/17 02:53 AM
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So... she looking for giants that are built of muscle that are really laid back and funny just sometimes. Also that has a car and doesn't ride the bus. It sounds like she really doesn't know what she wants other than a superficial concept of a guy. Looks and money but not so much personality. I've seen a lot of people like that. It doesn't end well quite often. Oof. Can't change a person though. They must want change and that tends to only happen at a traumatic event in life or when there really…
/r/RedPillWomen14/01/17 09:01 AM
4

Definitely odd. Got to start somewhere though and time is a wasting if she is already 30.
/r/RedPillWomen14/01/17 08:50 AM
3

Some people basically have no hope. Friend told me of a few women and how they operate and I have my fair share of examples to work with and they aren't any better. Some people just do really odd things because of fear or way too much self importance or various other silly reasons. :/ Sadly people in general just don't make much logical sense in life.
/r/RedPillWomen14/01/17 08:13 AM
1

I did mention how an exes exotic tastes burned me out at one point and that did make her consider her own tastes and whatnot What does this mean?
/r/RedPillWomen14/01/17 08:10 AM
3

Just curious but what standards would she be lowering? Looks? How much the guy makes? Something else?
/r/RedPillWomen14/01/17 08:01 AM
2

Everyone has a different idea of what is important. Many people consider how socieity communicates as a pretty important issue. There are many issues that are important and you may find some to be more important than others. That is just how that works out. There is social, political, economic problems. There are a very massive amount of problems to solve in the world and not everyone has the same interest or same abilities. This means that you tackle what you find to be important. That does not…
/r/MensRights13/01/17 10:00 PM
2

Apparently you can cuck the Google. Just not the Tuck. :p
/r/MensRights13/01/17 08:57 PM
2

No.
/r/MensRights13/01/17 08:54 PM
2

Every journey starts with one step. Acknowledging the issues and then doing something about it is the only way to go. Otherwise the slippery slope ends at the bottom of hell.
/r/MensRights13/01/17 08:54 PM
6

Well Oxford has been being overrun with SJWs so...
/r/MensRights13/01/17 08:49 PM
1

No. It would be you that misunderstand what identity politics is. Apparently you are just not someone that understands objective facts and reason. Oh well. It's been interesting.
/r/MensRights11/01/17 10:14 PM
1

The identity is of their career profession... Teachers union ... their identity is being teachers. Labor union ... their identity is being laborers.
/r/MensRights11/01/17 07:52 PM
1

Unions aren't victim classes and they exist and they work.
/r/MensRights11/01/17 04:21 PM
2

Society as organizations and individuals as organized effort much like how Christians do with their thoughts Education systems
/r/MensRights11/01/17 04:58 AM
1

Unfortunately, the trends show that this will not happen. Fatherlessness is a vicious circle. There are only one solution to this. Hint... If a family structure won't do it, who else can? There are two answers that both should be done in order to make sure it works.
/r/MensRights11/01/17 03:16 AM
1

Was ready to say you were wrong but apparently identity politics is EXACTLY what any group uses if they are a group. I doubled checked the definition of identity politics and was a bit surprised. Happens all the time though. Many people have an idea of what a term means but their idea of what that term is wrong. Good times... Identity politics can be dangerous as well however. Many things come with a crappy side. Mainly when you say that some other group is wrong just because they are a part of …
/r/MensRights11/01/17 12:29 AM
1

Identity politics, also called identitarian politics,[1] refers to political positions based on the interests and perspectives of social groups with which people identify. - Wikipedia While some of what people do with identity politics is garbage and logically invalid, identity politics is what any group is using.
/r/MensRights11/01/17 12:21 AM
1

We could assume that the person saying things about transphobia is a guy just being frustrating with the same kind of frustration OR they are someone that really does believe that stuff and we are just witnessing two types of cancer fighting each other.
/r/MensRights10/01/17 09:53 PM
2

I could agree with that.
/r/MensRights10/01/17 08:07 PM
1

Maybe have a sense of humor so they don't have to.
/r/MensRights10/01/17 08:06 PM
3

Asking the important questions. /nosarcasm
/r/MensRights10/01/17 08:05 PM
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/r/conflation
/r/MensRights10/01/17 08:04 PM
2

Three realms to fight for: Social Political Economic So as long as things are factually valid, then it is valid to fight for.
/r/MensRights10/01/17 07:54 PM
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If I rob a bank can I be spared because I have a family to support? Don't worry, I'll support them with the money I stole from the bank.
/r/MensRights09/01/17 12:29 AM
1

Pool = Toilet | Kids = Shits which are little compared to kids
/r/MensRights04/01/17 05:57 AM
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Won't it be glorious to see her freak out when she doesn't have child support to work with?
/r/MensRights03/01/17 09:22 PM
2

"Dropping kids off at the pool."
/r/MensRights03/01/17 09:20 PM
1

lol That's awesome.
/r/MensRights01/01/17 12:34 AM
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they didn't feel safe, because of a scary looking guy, walking down their street That implies scared of assault. Robbery sucks, but people don't like being robbed on the street more because of the treat of assault and injury. I don't know why people who don't understand this subject are so insistent on chiming in. I do understand and am challenging you on this because YOU don't understand this subject but are still making commentary on it. Taking creepy photos is also totally unrelated to assaul…
/r/MensRights28/12/16 12:45 AM
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You are definitely not looking at pewpwelasors statement in any way reasonably if you don't see how he is talking about how the person assumed threat of assault when there was none. This nonsense happens a lot more than it should. I was reading some of my texts while at a bar and I was harassed by a group of women and the staff because they said I was taking pictures of them. They wanted to take my phone and search it. That is just unreasonable to do.
/r/MensRights27/12/16 11:25 PM
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It is in no way a strawman argument and construing it as such is intellectually disingenuous. It is a scenario that does exist and does get such a reaction. This video about Hugh Mungus illustrates this very well: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RzA4dCT4X0I
/r/MensRights27/12/16 11:23 PM
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Almost all subreddits strive to become echo chambers Sadly. This seems to go for all places that have an ideology. Anything that threatens their message is expelled.
/r/MensRights27/12/16 11:14 PM
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This seems to happen with both men and women picking at each other because "we care about them". When the actual outcome is resentment like you have said. The big thing to note is that most adults are able to stay alive and take care of themselves quite well. The sad thing however is that a flip side to this is that most adults also have giant blind spots of error. My previous fiancee almost burned our home down because she didn't turn off the crock pot when she was done with it and all the wate…
/r/RedPillWomen23/12/16 02:10 AM
1

This is the most useful and insightful response so far. Thank you.
/r/MensRights13/12/16 07:28 AM
1

There is no bait. Only a firm and unwavering stance that will not be debated on. If this is how well you use logic, I don't think you'd be a very useful lawyer.
/r/TheRedPill11/12/16 10:39 AM
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Seriously, you are doing a disservice to people lying like you are. Call to Authority is NOT a substitute for fact.
/r/TheRedPill10/12/16 11:43 PM
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If you are a lawyer, you should know better than to say prenups. Prenups get thrown out all the time. Divorce Corp documentary shows the nightmare of divorce well.
/r/TheRedPill10/12/16 02:10 AM
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Not a solution. They still can get your assets if you are with a woman for very long. Happens all the time.
/r/TheRedPill10/12/16 02:09 AM
1

This was a very fun read. lol
/r/TheRedPill10/12/16 02:06 AM
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ALL Groups think they are the truth, the way, the light. Red Pill fight to just do things within the system that exists. MRAs fight to fix the system while fighting within the system that exists. This is both Red Pill and activism and is doing far more than just ignoring the system issues. MGTOWs are just being bachelors because they feel that fighting within the system is dangerous they also feel that fighting to fix the system is pointless and would rather put their energies into more self foc…
/r/TheRedPill10/12/16 02:00 AM
2

Sounds plausible. Would be nice if it was easier to decrypt.
/r/RedPillWives06/12/16 03:48 PM
1

and in some cultural contexts other psychological adaptations appear to overwhelm the expression of women’s evolved sexual desires. What exactly does this part mean?
/r/RedPillWives03/12/16 02:37 AM
1

Then that is pure and utter sexual discrimination and it should be perused as such. Although I know that money is the reason you likely don't.
/r/MensRights30/10/16 05:02 AM
2

I know a guy where the woman wanted more than half custody because she would lose child support if she did the 50/50 thing.
/r/MensRights30/10/16 05:00 AM
1

Please watch Divorce Corp to see just how wrong that statement and likely your other views on divorce are. It will blow your mind.
/r/MensRights30/10/16 03:42 AM
1

If they have a 50% custody agreement, she legally isn't supposed to receive any child support...
/r/MensRights30/10/16 03:41 AM
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If they have a 50% custody agreement, she legally isn't supposed to receive any child support...
/r/MensRights30/10/16 03:40 AM
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The responses were relevant and warranted for someone with a view that seems to hinge on that 60k is not very feasible for raising a family. If you do a budget breakdown you'd have roughly 1000 or more a month to work with after paying the bills. Thinking it costs more than that to raise children is a very poor guess OR indicates that children are NOT the ACTUAL reason for saying that 60k a year is too low for her. People often have misconceptions about things they have not gotten into before or…
/r/RedPillWives16/10/16 02:50 AM
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perhaps you'd fit in better over at /r/redpillwomen. they're more inclined to listen to random men All the women here are random women. My gender is not important apparently considering the rules say not to mention that male users are to announce they are male users in their comments which seems to indicate that referencing gender in comments to make a point seems somewhat against the spirit of the sub-reddit rules. You have inferred my gender from my user flair it seems already, so it seems tha…
/r/RedPillWives16/10/16 02:33 AM
1

What traits does a "good woman" say a man has that she wouldn't want to leave? Didn't see much description in that quoted statement.
/r/RedPillWives14/10/16 04:41 AM
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You must live in a very expensive area. Making around 50k before taxes leaves someone in the fairly big city area able to have many hundreds of dollars a month extra to play around with after paying the bills even after paying child support for 2 children at 30% of the paycheck. I'm talking about a city that is noted as "This city is 300+ miles away" kind of cities on the interstate. Not Chicago, LA, or NYC big, but still definitely big and happy lives to be lived. Co-worker had his sports car p…
/r/RedPillWives14/10/16 01:12 AM
1

She broke like many people with PTSD and went into a death spiral of self destruction that also impacted our relationship then bailed for irrational reasons. See it day after day on the MYPTSD forums. Both men and women going through it even after decades of being married. One lady had her husband up and leave when they were pretty old and sold the house and left her basically stranded in life. She loved him dearly but the emotional numbing and irrational stuff got in his way and bailed on her. …
/r/RedPillWives13/10/16 10:52 PM
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60k a year is too low for you? ... The testing part is passive not active like a shit test. It's about knowing things are new and caring enough to give you an out vs sticking around and possibly lying until you find someone else which is common female behavior. No pressure means he lets you feel at ease doing what you intend to do as the primary active action and he gets to see what you do as a secondary passive action. If you're feeling uneasy from it that gives the impression you are easily sc…
/r/RedPillWives13/10/16 08:37 PM
1

I found a great book on ptsd relationships that helped as well as a forum for ptsd sufferers and their supporters. Helped but can't control your partner so they have to do their part to keep things from imploding. Not a fan of the emotional numbing, false memories, and periods of pure emotion without the ability to regulate with the logical part of the brain. Or the stopping of meds without telling anyone. Oh well. On to the next...
/r/RedPillWives13/10/16 08:28 PM
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Ptsd destroyed my last relationship. She had the ptsd, I weathered it well, it destroyed her. Glad you have done well with that type of relationship so far. Takes special people to weather that nasty storm.
/r/RedPillWives13/10/16 04:05 PM
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Really like this comment.
/r/RedPillWives13/10/16 04:02 PM
1

Cost opportunity with time, effort, and energy as the limited resources. You cannot sit and stand at the same time and some paths eliminate other paths. The whole, can't have your cake and eat it too concept.
/r/RedPillWives13/10/16 04:36 AM
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What if this happened when we had a family and kids? Would I be comfortable with my husband doing non-permanent work? Statistically a massive majority of adults lose jobs for periods of time throughout life. Most unemployment benefits stints are 6 months because statistically the government finds that people can find placement within their field within that time period. Some fields take up to a year and half during rough patches in that specific industry or in an area that has a massive upset in…
/r/RedPillWives13/10/16 04:13 AM
1

Good.
/r/RedPillWives01/10/16 02:24 AM
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Not laughing but definitely cringing. When she dies of her weight related issues, she still won't understand.
/r/MGTOW11/09/16 04:42 AM
1

Lol plantation. Such dumbass terminology. I'm here because some of the stories are useful while the others are like reading feminist posts. Good for researching the polar extreme opposite of 3rd wave feminism. Stats show similar shit behavior from both genders. It doesn't stop at heterosexual relations either. Shit people are shit. Mgtow says it's about going their own way and not hating women but the actions show otherwise. Very similar how 3rd wave feminism behaviour hides behind the innocuous…
/r/MGTOW11/09/16 12:18 AM
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Lol. I'm very familiar with life's unfortunate situations. You think you've got understanding but you act in a way that proves you do not. Just an angry person with a very limited perspective.
/r/MGTOW11/09/16 12:11 AM
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Ok so you got with one of a massive array of women. Similar array of guys exist. Funny enough one of the types women run into are the kind that sponge off the woman's resources and don't work or have a home and the woman does. Humans are by mass majority not good people. Confirmation bias blinds most people. Women against men and men against men and rich against poor and poor against rich etc etc. Life is a lot more shades of gray vs black and white. Life is hard and requires failure to find suc…
/r/MGTOW10/09/16 11:38 PM
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Look it's someone that doesn't understand life and is acting like an angry child...
/r/MGTOW10/09/16 09:51 PM
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Lol weight class
/r/MGTOW10/09/16 09:43 PM
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Do you all just not send out resumes and go to job interviews because the chances are low of succeeding? It's the same difficult chance at finding a partner that is worth the time and effort. Life isn't easy.
/r/MGTOW10/09/16 09:03 PM
1

It's about reason and reality, not unreasonable logic and confirmation bias.
/r/MGTOW10/09/16 05:57 AM
1

Time to upend this woman's life. Get her phone number, email, name, email etc and your story out into the world and let the people make her life hell. Not on reddit though. Reddit isn't ok with that.
/r/MGTOW10/09/16 01:51 AM
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Just because someone disagrees doesn't mean you can reasonably pigeonhole them as sjws or any other group you don't like. Some things are reasonable and some are not.
/r/MGTOW08/09/16 04:15 PM
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She's been with new guy for 5 years at time of article publication. Don't think it will end well though. That behavior of hers isn't suddenly gone and isn't sustainable. The new partner likely is similar in that way as well if he hitched up with her.
/r/MGTOW08/09/16 04:05 AM
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This is the same mentality as women that believe all men are bad. Irrational.
/r/MGTOW08/09/16 03:35 AM
0

... that said in a subreddit that says all women are terrible? Lol
/r/MGTOW08/09/16 12:06 AM
1

As a human reading the posts on this sub-reddit and have read the threads and watched the videos of the PUA, MRA, RedPill, and MGTOW subject matters, it is very interesting. It's almost like watching men and women in their own kind of cold war. The end game is both genders lose, or mutually assured destruction of both genders force both genders to play nice. A friend of mine told me that there is a Navajo story/parable of where both men and women try going their own way and then come to the real…
/r/RedPillWives25/08/16 07:55 PM
1

lol That is just asking for a gold digger. Always be social and don't allow any of the parasites to attach but secure the fish that isn't a gold digger and proves it through action and personality.
/r/TheRedPill17/08/16 12:43 AM
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Just because your chances of finding one of the small percentage of good women that exist in your age range doesn't mean to not at least try. Always be social and dating even if you don't find a reasonable woman at the start. You must fail before you succeed. Some people win the lottery, some don't. Everyone that doesn't play cannot win however.
/r/TheRedPill17/08/16 12:42 AM
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The sad thing was, she wasn't the only girl doing this. That is some of the most despicable behavior I've ever heard of. That is drowning cats and dogs for fun level of despicable.
/r/TheRedPill17/08/16 12:39 AM
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Also, I think it's important to call your woman a bitch or a cunt whenever she behaves like one. Don't go overboard, just be truthful. Pretty much. We call each other names like this for fun when we aren't mad though so it's sorta funny when it's a serious situation and the meaning changes just based on tone and context. Save your emotions for your family and male friends. Uh... not so much. As long as she isn't throwing an emotional fit at you at the time, is perfectly acceptable to be emotiona…
/r/TheRedPill19/07/14 03:56 PM
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I took care of my kids and dated and still had time to do whatever the fuck I wanted. Kids and cleaning are super easy things. Cleaning is like 4 hours a week even for a perfectly clean home even with kids. If you train your kids well they clean the fucking house for you. I have lovely kids. I would rather be a stay at home dad than a breadwinner. Stay at home parents have a killer sweet deal.
/r/TheRedPill18/07/14 10:49 PM
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I find women respond to confident men and their actions. They absolutely are repulsed by pushover behaviour. They know they are emotional and need a solid rock to depend on. I read a book at one time that said men are the port that the women boats are tied to. If the boats are tied to other boats intead of the port, the ocean of emotion will sink both ships. If the ocean emotion acts up when the boat is tied to the port it will get through the storm. Why do drunk guys need sober friends to help …
/r/TheRedPill18/07/14 10:47 PM
2

... Just tell her to go get naked because you are going to have sex. Don't ask. If she says anything, just don't respond. Do not give value to bullshit. If she continues, say you will go find someone else to have sex with and then leave, get in your car, and do whatever the fuck you want. I'm not sure if OP still is with said wife or is talking about an ex wife. My fiancee was told early on that if she ever decides to play games I am going to find someone else to fuck and she will be instantly k…
/r/TheRedPill17/07/14 06:17 AM
2

This kind of respect I don't need. I understand women are hypergamous thanks too swallowing the red pill, but this commentators hamster is on full overdrive. In no way could ending a four year relationship to get fucked through gw be respect. Basically she did met the minimum standard, which is not lie and cheat and she's brave for that? Bravery would be making your man swallow the pill and take control of his attraction. Could you imagine swapping the genders and hearing someone call this guy b…
/r/TheRedPill15/07/14 10:06 PM
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My life = my ship. Damn straight. I have heard it other ways too. Some say that the guy is the driver of the car and the woman is the front passenger and if she don't like the ride she can just get the fuck out. Not going to get out and give her the keys. Your decision, your outcome. Simple as that. Sad but true. Life is not friendly but nobody, and I mean nobody, not even family, is completey trustworthy. Nope, nope, nope. Hell, can't even trust yourself sometimes. Trust is a thing that you wou…
/r/TheRedPill15/07/14 09:45 PM
1

Ad hominem attacks are not effective. They just make you look foolish.
/r/TheRedPill04/07/14 06:54 PM
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It seems you want confrontation. I am against being being an overbearing asshole as well as being a pushover. This is in that so called wall of text more than once. You seem focused on confrontation. This is not the goal. I will not reply to this specific concept again. So believe what you will about it. Not foolish and naive. The golden rule works because if you would wish someone to defend against a point, then you also defend against a point. Viewing things in this way works. However I don't …
/r/TheRedPill04/07/14 08:39 AM
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So to you, to your understanding of the concepts presented in this sub, Red-pillers are overbearring assholes ? I'm not saying they are any specific thing at all actually. Please read again if you feel this way because I specifically made it clear there are many shades of gray in any kind of objectively looked at concept. Perhaps you are trying to put a black or white view on my post when in fact there is not a black or white perspective here.
/r/TheRedPill04/07/14 08:16 AM
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Theory is theory and conversation is just that. Perhaps you view it as concern and perhaps I view it as asserting theory. There is no reason to have a masculine version of friends with benefits when friends with benefits doesn't assert any gender bias at all and works with people that have man on man or women on women situations. It is like the odd concept that french words have in terms of feminine and masculine words for almost everything. Is there such as thing as a masculine or feminine shit…
/r/TheRedPill04/07/14 06:50 AM
1

Stop being depressed Be happy Be confident Play better The point here is, you cannot simply state these things. Just like telling a woman to calm down, you cannot rationalize a different approach by simply saying calm down. You must take action to move the emotion and not the mind. Move her with emotions, not her mind.
/r/seduction10/08/12 04:08 AM
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Haha you're pretty mean at someone who's just trying to help. I was clarifying points. Please note the smiley face and statement about having a discussion. Still not being mean, just stating my thoughts. :P
/r/seduction10/08/12 04:02 AM
1

Looks at your username. "Haha only you can stop yourself from talking to me." - Smokey the bear (at least in the same voice haha)
/r/seduction10/08/12 04:00 AM
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I'm not talking about girls. I am talking about people. I am not talking about complex subjects. I am talking about being detailed with all topics. I am not comprimising intellegence. I am comprimising communication channels in order to be more effective unless the audience seems confused or asks for more information. If still confused, please quote portions you feel you don't quite understand and ask about them or say what you feel it means and we can have a discussion. :)
/r/seduction10/08/12 03:22 AM
1

Want a start to finish approach? Check out the seddit wiki and start reading and then practice it: http://seddit2.pbworks.com
/r/seduction07/08/12 05:04 AM
1

Cocky isn't a bag thing at all. Being a douche is bad if it really is something douchey. However if someone says you are being a douche and you are not, being confident in what you believe in is ok. You must weigh your decisions and see if you are a douche or not. Don't be a douche. I have wrote on confidence before. This time I will do it in a short way that should stick easily. I will describe assholes in a way to make it known easily how to easily identify a truely confident person. Assholes …
/r/seduction07/08/12 05:01 AM
5

No woman has ever asked me to use a condom. That fact scares me.
/r/seduction03/08/12 11:39 PM
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Nope.
/r/seduction03/08/12 03:01 AM
2

You sure? Check this link...
/r/seduction02/08/12 09:14 PM
1

She ain't no 9 lol
/r/seduction02/08/12 09:14 PM
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Just to clear things up, she isn't a 9 by looks at all. proof
/r/seduction02/08/12 09:13 PM
1

However, I don't expect to prove your wrong, I only seeking to make valid points worthy of consideration. I don't think that is how debate works however...
/r/seduction02/08/12 03:31 PM
1

For someone who says they are good at debate... you got crushed.
/r/seduction02/08/12 04:11 AM
3

Mr Pasta, You are definitely speaking legendary words of wisdom. Fucking killed it.
/r/seduction02/08/12 02:52 AM
1

Well shit...
/r/seduction02/08/12 12:16 AM
1

Interesting because when I used their service there wasn't a lot of hot women on there and the ones that were, I sent the same kinds of messages to. Who cares if a girl is hot, they are just people.
/r/seduction02/08/12 12:14 AM
2

Try rephrasing it because it doesn't fit or convey any information to me. It is about effective as saying, "cats love bologna" to your reply.
/r/seduction01/08/12 10:18 PM
1

You seem to have missplaced your comment. Please check the comment you are trying to reply to, and try again.
/r/seduction01/08/12 09:54 PM
1

hahahahahahha
/r/seduction01/08/12 09:52 PM
-2

based on the fact that I "read reddit" I see I made a typo. It was supposed to be seddit not reddit. As to the rest of your comment: lol.
/r/seduction01/08/12 09:41 PM
1

I just think your attitude regarding your critics is a bit arrogant. How so?
/r/seduction01/08/12 09:15 PM
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Considering you read seddit and you assert your views as you do, no amount of logic, no amount of definitive proof will change your mind. However I want you to think about something. The variables you see are not all the variables that exist in the equation and therefor your viewpoint is not complete. This is true of all of us. It will be true for some of us more than others. EDIT: Fixed a typo :P
/r/seduction01/08/12 09:10 PM
1

I take it you are a basher. haha
/r/seduction01/08/12 09:02 PM
0

Seriously you have to stop the racist comments. I don't understand why you are being so racist in here.
/r/seduction01/08/12 08:55 PM
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Oh, you sad sad man. I find it humorous how little you understand. The blinders on this one are strong.
/r/seduction01/08/12 08:39 PM
2

I just looked at that place. Holy jebus is it a scary place. It's like cute ponies that want to shit in your mouth. ewwww
/r/seduction01/08/12 08:34 PM
2

http://alltheragefaces.com/img/faces/large/misc-true-story-realistic-l.png
/r/seduction31/07/12 02:10 AM
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Best post here.
/r/seduction31/07/12 01:59 AM
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Dude, just make new friends. They don't give a fuck anymore and neither should you. Have a blast and forget the past.
/r/seduction31/07/12 01:59 AM
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This is incredibly true and I do this too haha
/r/seduction28/07/12 01:23 AM
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Reach for the stars bro. Just don't let the dreams kill you off first.
/r/seduction27/07/12 03:52 AM
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Hope you get added to the sidebar
/r/seduction27/07/12 12:00 AM
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REMEMBER NAMES, like when you first meet girls. I forget after a few seconds. I have terrible short term memory about everything so this definitely is something I am familiar with.
/r/seduction26/07/12 04:04 PM
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My advice: Start working out again even if it is just situps and little weights at your home. I have a feeling the decrease in working out is messing with your motivations elsewhere. Get a job, you can always get a different if you don't like the one you get. Seduction is great for getting girls but spread it out and meet new guy friends. It isn't all about the pussy. It is about the ride of life. You can do it brother. Take life by the horns and fuck it up good!!! Woooo!!!!
/r/seduction26/07/12 07:05 AM
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she said her phone broke, so that's why I gave her mine Used to think this was a cop out but turns out women tend to be terrible at not breaking or losing their phone. It is amazing how quick they go through phones.
/r/seduction26/07/12 07:01 AM
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Teaching myself Russian and Java/Javascript Damn dude. Impressive
/r/seduction26/07/12 06:59 AM
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Sounds like a lot of very positive moves and aspirations.
/r/seduction26/07/12 02:25 AM
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But a female friend cautioned against it, saying that most women are shallow and judge men by the car they drive Would you really want to date a girl that thinks that way? If so, you may need to recheck how confident you are in yourself.
/r/seduction25/07/12 09:51 PM
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Not trying to be a dick but... you are incredibly hard to understand.
/r/seduction25/07/12 04:56 AM
2

... what?
/r/seduction25/07/12 02:56 AM
1

Was in engineering and work with other mech engineers. Plenty of time to meet women.
/r/seduction25/07/12 02:03 AM
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I am currently a male going into my junior year of high school. Do you plan to be a woman going to college later on? Just fucking with ya but it made me crack up when I read that first line :P People keep views on people after they meet them. All you can do is rock your new self and have a blast doing it and understand that people are people and people are fucking silly in how they act. One tactic that may help is to do a pattern break. This means new type of clothes, new activities you get your…
/r/seduction25/07/12 01:49 AM
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word my brotha
/r/seduction25/07/12 01:45 AM
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Think about it this way. If you were a regular average looking joe and a good looking girl came up to you, would you have a certain expectation of how she is going to act based on that? I am guessing you might because that is just how humans work. We categorize things. Hobo dressed people are probably hobos and hobos are crazy and poor. Good looking guys must get tons of poon because they are good looking. Good looking girls must get lots of guys because they are good looking. A guy dressed in g…
/r/seduction25/07/12 01:44 AM
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I felt intellectually unstimulated This happens to me a lot. It seems like they are always grasping at straws with something to talk about because they aren't actually interesting. It seems like men and woman like are less interesting than they used to be. In the old days you had all kinds of people traversing the states doing all sorts of things and now it is college and work and kids. Then people don't wanna talk about intellectual things because they think they will get ostrisized and those t…
/r/seduction24/07/12 08:34 PM
1

Yup. I generally throw in a little joke of an insult to see her counter and then we go at that until we tickle each other or just hug and tell each other we love each other. It is a fun excersize to see the dynamics in action. PS my works air conditioner just took a dump and now it is super hot. Doh
/r/seduction24/07/12 02:12 AM
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A hot girlfriend will test your testicular fortitude on a frequent basis. For me, this usually comes in one of two ways. First, she will make some snarky or bitchy comment to undercut you in a small way. Not a mean comment, but something borderline funny/snarky/bitchy to see how you respond. You can do one of three things that seem to work to keep her respect and keep her knowing you are in charge and centered: a) ignore and don't respond - change the thread entirely, b) reward her in some fashi…
/r/seduction24/07/12 12:02 AM
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Is 7chan a version of 4chan?
/r/seduction23/07/12 11:52 PM
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lol never had a problem with it
/r/seduction20/07/12 07:00 AM
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Is it a shit test question? Don't respond seriously Is it a serious question that you don't mind answering? Answer it but not a long winded answer or she will get bored. Always try to be light and fun. Remember context of the moment and you should be fine. Also what ThrowawayPUA said haha
/r/seduction20/07/12 04:36 AM
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I support this idea. I hope people toss in their best ones. Here are a few that actually worked... Are you drunk enough to take me home with you yet? If she says no then ask her if she wants another drink. (don't actually buy her a drink but it will make her laugh) Hey do you and your friends want to have an orgy tonight? (they all wanted to talk to me after that... weird to me but fun) Ask a blonde girl what her natural hair color is. I asked around 10 in a night and all of them were bubbly whe…
/r/seduction20/07/12 04:27 AM
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Start your journey with the seddit wiki: http://seddit2.pbworks.com
/r/seduction20/07/12 02:03 AM
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Nice post but don't say yolo. You can say you only live once if you'd like but if you say yolo you are doing what people do when they say lol but actually say lol out loud to your face and not in a text or email.
/r/seduction20/07/12 02:01 AM
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How do I pick up a girl in a salsa club? Bring some chips
/r/seduction19/07/12 04:40 AM
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Read the seddit wiki: http://seddit2.pbworks.com
/r/seduction19/07/12 12:48 AM
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I wear a top hat for a good time. Strangely I get very positive results. I thought people would hate it and just think it was goofy. Oh well I love it haha. I do get the magic question sometimes so I velcrowed a stuffed rabbit under the top haha
/r/seduction19/07/12 12:46 AM
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Oh you silly mixed up guy, I hope you do well as well.
/r/seduction18/07/12 09:00 PM
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She bases her judgement on what she knows about you, which is the result of the experience she has with you. is based on judging you as a person which you are as a result of doing the following or not the best way to become more attractive is to become a better person. which as you said is The normal perception which invalidates the entire comment all together in which you were trying to I'm just trying to reframe the way you think about dating. because who you are makes you how you act in any c…
/r/seduction18/07/12 08:51 PM
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Being confident doesn't mean having an overly inflated ego. It just means you are sure of yourself when you have reason to be. If you know you are wrong and you still act right and like a prick... then that is too far.
/r/seduction18/07/12 01:06 AM
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Those groups are the type that have no idea how the mind works and need to work on reading comprehension. When a group is mentioned as a whole as a generalization it means in general that group acts like whatever they are talking about. Of course there are exceptions. Honestly I think the most reasonable people in the world are exceptional haha.
/r/seduction17/07/12 10:59 PM
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This is not where you parked your comment.
/r/seduction17/07/12 09:25 PM
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I have a feeling you answered the wrong comment. Hang up and please try again.
/r/seduction17/07/12 09:07 PM
1

So you are saying "the man" is just the boring qualities and "the experience" is the fun things the guy has?
/r/seduction17/07/12 09:00 PM
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Your username makes me think that we could use better seddit names. Sedditpro Seddit Sedditjr
/r/seduction17/07/12 08:31 PM
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Just curious but isn't "the man" the same thing as the "experience of the man" considering what you would always be experiencing is "the man" in question?
/r/seduction17/07/12 08:30 PM
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One woman polled. Now to poll the rest of them.
/r/seduction17/07/12 08:28 PM
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Confidence is pretty much self esteem. How much esteem do you give yourself is the main question. The next question most people don't ask is, "Do I deserve this self worth or am I just full of shit?"
/r/seduction17/07/12 08:27 PM
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When you are done with this list I will add it to the reading materials list on the wiki. It already has a bunch of free downloads :) Reading Resources - Seddits' Wiki Let me know when you think this thread is ready to upload the contents to the wiki :P
/r/seduction17/07/12 08:21 PM
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Haha I didn't say he was a fundie. I am saying his zealousy is comparable to fundamentalists. The people that are super entrenched and it is their entire life and they freak on people and tell them they are doing it wrong or not enough and that if they should leave or that bad things will happen to them if they don't change. It was a direct correlation. A strawman is where you don't refute the original concept and the concepts are unrelatable. However in this case the zealousy and judging are di…
/r/seduction17/07/12 03:53 AM
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He isn't doing a great job of it haha. I picked up that he was being overly zealous. One large indicating factor would be "Maybe you don't belong here..." as the title of the post. :P
/r/seduction16/07/12 11:54 PM
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You're confusing /r/seduction for something else. We're in /r/seduction where we meet women and attempt to seduce them. If you don't choose to employ the concepts, that's fine, it's not a good fit. I don't abide by the concepts of 2XC, that's fine, I don't go there. You aren't making any sense here. Especially that last sentence. Don't make bizarre straw man arguments. Religion? I don't think you have any idea what straw man means. Religion... yea the wording we definitely worded as a fundementa…
/r/seduction16/07/12 10:12 PM
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This isn't a subreddit for guys who never cold approach but want a tip to help escalate with Suzie in Geometry who might like them. No Pickup is a lifestyle choice where you regularly go out and do this. No. You chose to go out all the time or not. Not everyone wants to go bed a ton of women. Not every guy wants to find a relationship. Not every guy has the same life. It is not a lifestyle. It is a set of concepts that you either chose to employ or not. This is not a religion, do not treat it as…
/r/seduction16/07/12 09:58 PM
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"Nah, I won her in a poker game. Not sure what I wanna do with her yet."
/r/seduction13/07/12 04:48 AM
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! means yelling to me. Yelling isn't a happy good thing. No reason to ever say bye in text anyhow.
/r/seduction12/07/12 09:23 PM
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( •_•) ( •_•)>⌐■-■ (⌐■_■)
/r/seduction11/07/12 09:53 PM
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http://seddit2.pbworks.com/
/r/seduction11/07/12 09:03 PM
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You don't have to lie to yourself if you aren't a needy bastard. No woman is going to be ok with a guy being a dick then months later turning into a giant pussy. That lie is not going to help at all.
/r/seduction11/07/12 09:02 PM
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Letting VS. Saying they don't have confidence in your skill VS. Being curious and letting
/r/seduction11/07/12 08:24 PM
0

dancing monkey is if I remember, a high energy ugly guy It wasn't PUA lingo...
/r/seduction11/07/12 07:17 PM
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I ain't nobodys dancing monkey. You however seemed to be. Not cool man. Not good for the self esteem.
/r/seduction11/07/12 04:15 PM
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Day 2: "Because of the silence I will be banging your roommate."
/r/seduction11/07/12 04:13 PM
3

This was a great conversation to watch. Conclusion: Ideals are great but reality always wins.
/r/seduction11/07/12 04:11 PM
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subversion... I like that word. Nice.
/r/seduction11/07/12 04:08 PM
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I'm laughing at you is what I am doing. I laugh at children like you when they throw silly tantrums
/r/seduction11/07/12 04:54 AM
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fiancee doesn't equal wife haha. Want a dictionary?
/r/seduction11/07/12 04:53 AM
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IS THAT TESTING YOUR PATIENCE YET YOU FUCKING STUPID PUA BITCH!!!!!!!! haha no
/r/seduction11/07/12 04:52 AM
1

haha
/r/seduction11/07/12 04:51 AM
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Aw... someone doesn't understand the concept of the english language. Do you need help you angry troll? Don't have enough to eat? hahahhaa
/r/seduction11/07/12 04:13 AM
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haha no wonder you are on seddit can can't get laid for shit Should tell that to the girls that hit on me even though I have a gorgeous fiancee bwhahahhaa
/r/seduction11/07/12 04:12 AM
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pickup... you can go away now
/r/seduction11/07/12 03:26 AM
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No.
/r/seduction11/07/12 02:48 AM
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You must be very blind to yourself as others here sure got it.
/r/seduction11/07/12 02:42 AM
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i'll slap you with my cock That would mean you aren't a girl...
/r/seduction11/07/12 02:41 AM
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Nah, just a bit of a nutter
/r/seduction11/07/12 01:30 AM
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excuse me but i have many of those things. please dont belittle me and tell me i have no personality. i do plenty well with friends and things but its the men i seem to struggle with, at least romantically or even just sexually. men just don't seem to accept me for some reason, maybe i just have too much to offer for a man and should switch to women, as they get along with me a lot better Haha now I know why they lose interest. Got it.
/r/seduction11/07/12 12:55 AM
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I know a large DJ and other large men (large around the stomache... not fit) that do very well with women. Also know a few fit guys who absolutely suck with women even though women will talk to them. As soon as they do the guys fuck up. I know a skinny little black dude who dances and has a ridiculous amount of attention and told me he tries to act goofy to fend off women as he already has to beat them off. Conclusion: Looks don't matter as much as personality does. I would never date a woman ju…
/r/seduction11/07/12 12:03 AM
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Faux humility is a powerful delusion my friend.
/r/seduction10/07/12 11:59 PM
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Teasing is a huge factor. Kudos and also hilarious.
/r/seduction10/07/12 11:56 PM
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With a quick google search I can say that wow, KKG's are gorgeous No it wasn't.
/r/seduction10/07/12 11:55 PM
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Alpha isn't the same as confidence. Confidence only means that you are confident in what you are doing. I have seen a lot of confident foolish people. Those do not equal alpha behaviour. It is an outspoken behaviour. Read more here: http://redd.it/vetzo
/r/seduction10/07/12 11:53 PM
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Maybe he lost count...
/r/seduction10/07/12 11:50 PM
0

Interest
/r/seduction10/07/12 11:45 PM
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Solution: You have one quality so far. Looks. You need personality, depth, passion of life, interests that don't involve people, interests that involve people, etc. Many guys are nice. Some are even confident. Fun and personality is a huge factor for both men and women. Get some depth. It isn't meant to be mean. It is meant to be realistic. When you focus so much on meeting people you forget that you have to love yourself and be interested in yourself for what you have to offer in interests and …
/r/seduction10/07/12 11:42 PM
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Oh you, I was going to say that joke.
/r/seduction06/07/12 01:28 AM
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Considering how life weird life is... I doubt many are fake. One weird instance that I would see possible to be fake but isn't... The other night I went out, did nothing of note, and on my way out a girl stops me and tries talking to me. She was a good looking girl intent on getting to know me before I left. This sounds like something that would be bullshit but isn't. Life is stranger than fiction they say.
/r/seduction06/07/12 01:27 AM
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I had rebuilt it a while back. The sidebar is a mess. They keep saying they will update it but don't. Oh well.
/r/seduction05/07/12 07:31 AM
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Or take the nice organized approach to the same material -> here
/r/seduction05/07/12 07:25 AM
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you're most likely very fearful of losing her, thus your stance. lol nope Lets have a thought exercise: Which is it that bothers you more: you losing face to some unknown entity which violated the sanctity of your relationship, or some raging muscle-head plowing your future wife in the ass while she screams out his name in orgasm? I'm going to guess the latter made you squirm. It would suck but then again as soon as someone does that they void their value and I get a better woman haha. She knows…
/r/seduction04/07/12 03:53 PM
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Nothing happened to me. I am still the same person with the same views. Look, I have standards. Everyone should has standards. Allowing yourself to fuck a girl that has someone else (unless that SO is allowing the fucking) it is not reasonable. No, I didn't break up with someone in order to have these views. It is just not reasonable to allow yourself to feel validated or to allow yourself to be a part of someone cheating. That doesn't mean rat her out either. It just means not being a part of t…
/r/seduction04/07/12 07:46 AM
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... haha what does this have to do with anything
/r/seduction04/07/12 02:52 AM
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Look, I know you've got an axe to grind I don't. What kind of axe do you think I have to grind?
/r/seduction04/07/12 02:51 AM
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entirely based on opinion no
/r/seduction04/07/12 01:20 AM
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People that deserve favors(not a scumbag) Isn't that a moral judgement? Do you not think you are held to the same standards? I do like a few two faced people though, they give me the dirt on everybody that tries to look perfect. But you wouldn't count on them I am sure of that. If you do, you are in for one hell of a ride because at the end of that tunnel is you being fucked. Just sayin :/
/r/seduction04/07/12 01:18 AM
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Is it ok to you if you break into my house and steal my shit? I don't know, that's something you have to answer for yourself; it doesn't involve me at all, aside from the shift in property possession. You know the end to this. You also know you cannot possibly win it. This is the reason you decided to go with that deflection of an answer that isn't really the answer to the question. Also, you would be a horrible friend because of your inability to be reasonable and give a fuck about people which…
/r/seduction04/07/12 01:17 AM
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What the hell difference does it make now? It matters how you treat yourself. It matters what standard you hold yourself to. Is your standard that you accept anything that you can? If so it will make you a very two faced person. I know many people who wish to treat others one way but do not like being treated that way. Couple of examples: Flakes on all their friends. Doesn't like being flaked on. Doesn't like being called out on their bullshit. Calls all their friends out on shit. Asks to borrow…
/r/seduction04/07/12 12:19 AM
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A moral compass is based on opinion. Does that mean if I feel it is ok to break in your house and steal your shit it is ok because I feel it is ok? No. That is not how that works bro. You are trying to make yourself feel better about your concept yet you cannot because that isn't how life works. Just because you believe doesn't make it so. Sorry but life is life.
/r/seduction04/07/12 12:14 AM
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Read here
/r/seduction03/07/12 11:35 PM
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Read here
/r/seduction03/07/12 11:35 PM
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Seduction is the act of seducing/A tempting or attractive thing. This doesn't mean you have to accept the advances of the person who is seduced by you being awesome. Let's put it another way. I like money. You like money. We all like money. Recieving money as a gift is great. Recieving money for doing work is great. Recieving money that someone aquired in a bad way is not great. Accepting something that was aquired in an shitty way makes you someone that condones that behaviour. That would be a …
/r/seduction03/07/12 11:34 PM
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Is lying to yourself an alpha trait, or is it a beta trait? Beta as in weak. What exactly is the point of this question? It serves no purpose. Read here
/r/seduction03/07/12 11:31 PM
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You have that exactly backwards. Not being OK with a woman making her own sexual choices isn't awesome, it's being a douche. It isn't about what others do, it is how you react to them. In the case of a woman coming on to you when she has a SO and you accepting that means you are a twat.
/r/seduction03/07/12 11:30 PM
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It is a beta trait to be insecure enough to have to validate your skills by using manipulation, lies, and deciet. This includes getting a girl to fuck you that has someone already. This isn't a moral delima. This is a alpha vs beta debate.
/r/seduction03/07/12 09:21 PM
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Do you also think lying is ok to get laid? Is lying an alpha trait or is it a beta trait?
/r/seduction03/07/12 09:19 PM
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tl;dr if you have a problem with seduction, GTFO. Apparently you are having a problem with /r/seduction so...
/r/seduction03/07/12 09:18 PM
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Here's an example of what I'm talking about, from the current top post. Woman tells guy she has a boyfriend, and anyone who suggests he escalate anyway is downvoted into oblivion. That isn't a white knight. That is being a person that isn't going to be ok with a guy pushing a girl that has a bf to cheat. Be awesome, not a douche.
/r/seduction03/07/12 09:15 PM
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"Else" being the operative word.
/r/seduction03/07/12 08:27 PM
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I feel if you have to reduce your honor to being a deceitful fuck then you are not confident at all but an insecure person trying to validate their skills by destroying someone elses experience of love in life.
/r/seduction03/07/12 08:26 PM
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Test: You're so cute. Answer 1: Oh, you think so? Result: FAIL Answer 2: Thanks. Hey we should... Result: PASS
/r/seduction03/07/12 08:25 PM
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Girls don't repeatedly gush about your appearance unless they're at least sort of interested in you. I have met a bunch that are happy to compliment but don't want anything at all. This happens to me all the time. I even do this to people. I just genuinly want to tell them that what they are doing is awesome and to keep being awesome in whatever awesome way they are being awesome. It's a good thing to share the love even if you aren't going to bone.
/r/seduction03/07/12 08:22 PM
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I don't think using an insult in this sub is going to win you any points. In fact it is going to hurt your points.
/r/seduction03/07/12 08:19 PM
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You're speaking in terms of absolutes lol no Note these: true sense classical sense Then note that I said: will win out over a douche quite easily And didn't say, "every single time" or "always" or any variation thereof
/r/seduction03/07/12 05:17 PM
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Alpha Males in the true sense will win out over a douche quite easily. Mr. Nice Guy in the classical sense should always fail.
/r/seduction03/07/12 04:19 AM
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Glossary of items on the right as well is with other content important to your training.
/r/seduction02/07/12 11:15 PM
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Friendzone / Sexzone - a comprehensive guide
/r/seduction28/06/12 12:20 AM
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Did you even read what I wrote? Yes. Chill out yo
/r/seduction27/06/12 03:28 AM
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Best to go with your advice on a normal basis however. Just adding a little note :P
/r/seduction27/06/12 01:47 AM
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This would freak them the fuck out and be incredibly funny to pretty much anyone that sees it or knows about it. Huge confidence to pull off something like that too. Can you imagine the facial reaction you would get out of that?
/r/seduction27/06/12 01:23 AM
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Do I at least get brownies? Who cares about the points. The brownies are where its at.
/r/seduction27/06/12 01:22 AM
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This is true in most cases. In other cases, women like the idea of being "owned". I guess it would depend on the girl though haha. Best to go with your advice on a normal basis however. Just adding a little note :P
/r/seduction27/06/12 01:21 AM
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Haha I can just imagine him going, "Yea, I should grab that guys ass because he grabbed my girls ass, that will show him." lol
/r/seduction27/06/12 01:19 AM
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Please do explain more.
/r/seduction27/06/12 01:13 AM
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At least he would have a bro to chill with away from the wild vagina beasts. He may want to interview with them all to see if they are reasonable or not too.
/r/seduction27/06/12 01:12 AM
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The guide?
/r/seduction27/06/12 01:04 AM
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It would be best if they post to the new one.
/r/seduction25/06/12 09:14 PM
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Nah man. He was really annoying. When you don't have a filter you just say stupid shit. When you don't pay attention to what is being said, blurt things out while other people are trying to tell you what is going on, etc. that is just going to be a bad time. We were pretty thrilled when he left the company to annoy a different company. He even says that they don't like him. They didn't know he was annoying little fucker until a couple weeks after he worked there. It was only funny in the way if …
/r/seduction22/06/12 04:18 PM
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There are plenty There are plenty of many things. Ratio-wise however that just isn't a fair statement. There are plenty of awesome women. They surely however do not make up the majority of women. There are plenty of confident men who aren't assholes. They surely do not make up the majority of confident men however. Assholes reign in numbers when it come to confident men. Honestly though, assholes are not confident. They are very insecure but overcompensate in attempt to hide their sad weak self.…
/r/seduction22/06/12 12:52 AM
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Someone has to be the asshole. :P Can't please everybody. Life is definitely not a fair and nice place. You must adapt or fail. Just living life yo
/r/seduction22/06/12 12:49 AM
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Being really hyper connected with your filter errors may mean you are adhd and need some sort of downing medication to chop the top off your energy to make you a bit more normal in terms of energy and mental state. I knew a guy like that. He was fucking nutty as hell and drove us all crazy here at work. We all wanted to punch him in the face. It was like having a giant annoying gnat around. Not saying you are the same but it sounds like a similar situation. It would take work but hey, life is no…
/r/seduction21/06/12 08:49 PM
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Let's put it this way. Is it ok for you to start talking to barge in on your conversation at dinner in person and you engage in that conversation? No, no it is not. This makes your dinner friend not important enough to be around. Might as well not be at dinner with them if you are willing to engage conversation with others through phone or otherwise. It would be rude.
/r/seduction21/06/12 08:28 PM
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Are you also very hyper?
/r/seduction21/06/12 08:23 PM
5

No girl wants hurt. It hurts them when they lose their friends to other women.
/r/seduction20/06/12 09:06 PM
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Any woman interested in being your friend is most likely also likely to want to fuck you if you play the game as this guy did. Women like having options, not being an option.
/r/seduction20/06/12 08:59 PM
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Quick lesson on how the mind and body work. Conscious mind - does the action moving and decision making. It has last word on everything if strong enough. Body - does what the conscious mind tells it to but also listens to the subconscious mind Subconscious - behaviors, habits, feelings, and must match the body. So here is how this goes down. If you force yourself (your body to move and talk) then eventually your subconscious must match these new actions and create new habits out of them in order…
/r/seduction20/06/12 05:48 AM
2

Not a confident woman. Do not wife. Keep as casual. Enjoy the casual and pursue more qualified mates.
/r/seduction20/06/12 05:43 AM
3

Embarass a girl when she says she misses you. That sounds like a great idea. /sarcasm
/r/seduction20/06/12 05:38 AM
1

Simple answer is do the winky face. Just the winky face and no words. Works very very well.
/r/seduction20/06/12 05:38 AM
1

Here's a secret. You can't control anything but your own actions and reponses. So have a great time, take chances, have a good time. The outcome will make itself. If the outcome isn't great then fuck it. If the outcome is good then awesome. Don't worry too much and just have a good time and be confident in who you are. Don't try to prove you are worth it as that isn't secure behaviour. Just be secure and the rest will fall in place. Having a good time while being confident is a great time. So mu…
/r/seduction19/06/12 04:15 AM
18

Come over and I'll show you my nightstick Let's bang Let's wrestle. Come over Sex. Let's have some. Penis. Vagina. Let's do this
/r/seduction19/06/12 03:34 AM
1

We aren't talking about the same thing at all.
/r/seduction14/06/12 08:14 PM
1

facepalm seriously? Either you are a troll or you have really bad reading comprehension. Either way it's hilarious.
/r/seduction14/06/12 07:02 PM
0

Read it again please. Thanks.
/r/seduction14/06/12 05:16 PM
1

Yea, that isn't a shitty paint job. That is pretty damn good painting. People knew what I was talking about and decided to be a dick about it. Business as general haha
/r/seduction14/06/12 03:39 PM
0

I found the exception. She is insanely awesome. Her family is awesome too. It's like finding a unicorn. So fucking weird but so good at the same time. So glad too. Been in some long shitty relationships and now finally have what I was looking for. Communication, intelligence, confidence, knows how to be wrong when she is, sex is great and whenever I want and I don't have to be the one always initiating it. It is crazy. Of course she has flaws but they are minor. Everyone has flaws so it is expec…
/r/seduction14/06/12 03:38 PM
1

Ah, cynical behavior. Things are going to be weird until people stop thinking every single thing is spam. I got blamed for spamming on my other account when I was actually just posting some websites and companies that had helped me with something. It was ridiculous.
/r/seduction14/06/12 03:35 PM
1

Casual dating is pretty much you like each other but you see other people. It isn't a dedicated thing for each other. It's definitely like sleeping with a good friend that you hang out with anyhow.
/r/seduction14/06/12 02:34 AM
1

I completely agree with the abundance mentality he talked about but would like to add to it. Confidence is a huge thing to consider with the behaviour OP is talking about. You get weird because you feel like you are going to lose out and then smother someone. Instead get your fill and then go do something else. For instance, I work on side projects, hang with friends, etc. But when I want to see my woman, I spend time with her. We live together but that doesn't mean I have to be up her ass all t…
/r/seduction14/06/12 02:32 AM
2

Do what you want because you want to do it and be sure (confident) in doing it. Dance if you want. Don't dance if it isn't your thing. Play a game if you want to play. This however doesn't mean be a picky asshole who doesn't try new things and sometimes just do things to have fun with your buddies. Also, who is really downvoting this? It seems like reddit has some brand new assholes on it lately. Like a ton of the subs have been getting weird downvote patterns. Maybe it's just that time of year …
/r/seduction14/06/12 02:24 AM
2

It seems a bit long to be good. It doesn't take too many words to make someone nervous and emotional for the punchline to work.
/r/seduction14/06/12 02:10 AM
2

For a joke?
/r/seduction14/06/12 02:09 AM
0

What? Did you read this all the way through or just some of it, because it was meant to be a joke...
/r/seduction14/06/12 02:08 AM
1

Girl logic isn't about what's healthy or reasonable. Girl logic is fucked up. That's pretty much the first axiom of seduction. Correct. However, I don't know many guys who want to be with a fucked up girl.
/r/seduction14/06/12 01:15 AM
1

link?
/r/seduction14/06/12 12:32 AM
1

While this is true, that exception will generally suck ass. For instance the girls that enjoy dating douches vs alphas and betas. There is always someone for someone. Doesn't mean there should be. For instance, nobody should be 500 lbs and be ok with it. That just isn't healthy but some girl out there is completely ok with it and would love that person forever. Sure that is their thing but it doesn't mean it's healthy or even reasonable.
/r/seduction14/06/12 12:29 AM
1

What would I have to be insecure about? I'm a human. We all have flaws and I'm ok with mine :P Check the edit. I'm pretty sure people aren't getting the correct message I was trying to send. Sometimes that happens.
/r/seduction14/06/12 12:27 AM
2

This is what I was getting at.
/r/seduction13/06/12 11:52 PM
0

You may have had fun with it but it surely did not make you stand out in an attractive way. It isn't your perception that counts to others. It is their own perception. This is the down and dirty version of perception. You can be confident wearing a garbage bag but that definitely doesn't make it look good on you. Confidence doesn't change the way you look in something. It just doesn't.
/r/seduction13/06/12 04:46 PM
3

I wouldn't consider shit tests "talented"
/r/seduction13/06/12 03:15 AM
1

From every single guys experience; no. Try dating women. It will give you a brand new perspective.
/r/seduction13/06/12 02:30 AM
2

*threw
/r/seduction13/06/12 02:29 AM
0

Most actions are a habit. Even thinking processes. Females have a high probability of of using habit vs stop and think when chatting with people.
/r/seduction13/06/12 02:28 AM
15

Your physical rating has a high probability of dictating your experiences with men and women which as a result forms your personality and therefor your thinking process.
/r/seduction13/06/12 02:26 AM
2

You cannot close a door without first opening it.
/r/seduction13/06/12 02:22 AM
5

If you are man enough to hit, be prepared to be hit by a man.
/r/seduction13/06/12 02:19 AM
2

touche. The rest stands.
/r/seduction13/06/12 12:31 AM
1

You have to be the exception, not the rule. (positive exception)
/r/seduction13/06/12 12:23 AM
3

Even if the guy is available all week and isn't needy and can just move his shit around without a problem this is the best answer. The following should always be remembered: "It is not the intention it is the perception in which will win in reality." also "Ideals are great but reality always wins."
/r/seduction13/06/12 12:21 AM
0

... lol awesome
/r/seduction13/06/12 12:18 AM
1

I'm not good, I'm great (said like tony the tiger), question is, are you great. Sorry, I'm not a nice guy. I'm a huge bag of douches.
/r/seduction13/06/12 12:17 AM
3

Sounds defensive. Also pee on her to mark your territory and show dominance.
/r/seduction13/06/12 12:16 AM
2

Think of cockblocking as a womans shit test. They both consist of bullshit. Generally guys are easy to disarm as they are just saying stupid things like aids or herpes or tiny dick or something. You never try to prove your worth because honestly you don't have to. It's fun just to make a mockery out of what is being done. Everything can be turned into something not worth while. Ignoring does the trick quite often. One upping doesn't work because that is a form of proving yourself. If you want to…
/r/seduction12/06/12 11:36 PM
1

I feel like I'm being a douche here though You're not. Everything we do is processed by a habit. In order to progress we must enhance a habit or destroy a habit or replace a habit. Habits are how we exist and utilize the information we are given. I type and I don't think about it because it is a learned habit. I flush the toilet without thinking about it. I switch off the bathroom light without thinking about it. Those things are natural now as is walking and breathing. Walking isn't natural. We…
/r/seduction12/06/12 11:21 PM
4

How to get a girl to stop being immature: Don't date immature girls and if they cockblock then get rid of them.
/r/seduction12/06/12 11:14 PM
3

If I had a partner that told me after I was already in the thick of it I would not trust her anymore. People find out. It is better to know than not know. You did the right thing by telling.
/r/seduction12/06/12 11:12 PM
2

You said you guess. You have to know why you thought it would be better. You have to know you can honor your own words. If you can't honor yourself, you can not honor anyone else.
/r/seduction12/06/12 11:10 PM
2

I didn't have my father growing up. Mom booted him out because she wasn't smart enough to keep him. I know him now and he is a good guy. She just isn't right. I never cheated or did that shit because I didn't have dad. I just grew up being confused about life because all I had was a mom and sister to show me what was going on in the world. That and church. I had a bad time. I'm good now but yea. Don't blame other people. Sure things shape you but you can't blame them for cheating or being an alc…
/r/seduction12/06/12 11:08 PM
2

?
/r/seduction12/06/12 02:24 PM
1

plus you never burn bridges, maybe one day she gets pills and you need a place to put your dick for the night Not that bad you won't. Also I know this from experience :)
/r/seduction12/06/12 04:47 AM
1

Damn.
/r/seduction12/06/12 02:58 AM
1

Orders such as these don't stick unless you show up in court to make them stick. You are basically banned from communicating for something like 90 days or something and then if the person that put the order out on you doesn't show then it is dropped. Generally by that point the other person has gotten the hint.
/r/seduction12/06/12 02:52 AM
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I would personally go with, "We agreed to be fuck buddies. This means I never wanted an emotional relationship wit you and still don't and never will. We are only good as sex friends. That's it. You're crazyness has made me not want to be around you and no you don't get a second chance. Go away now. Thanks."
/r/seduction12/06/12 02:47 AM
3

Especially after we agreed on a friends with benefits arrangement. Not very many women or people stick with this. It's like buying a car from a hobo in an alley.
/r/seduction12/06/12 02:46 AM
1

Did it work yet?
/r/seduction12/06/12 02:44 AM
3

This takes too much investment to make her go away. Also way too much time.
/r/seduction12/06/12 02:44 AM
5

I'm pretty sure that only matters if the order is against you.
/r/seduction12/06/12 02:43 AM
7

I love your username.
/r/seduction12/06/12 02:41 AM
5

I don't find these things to be evident at all. People feel shitty after losing a job to the point of killing themselves. Groups are put out there for out of job men to build up their confidence. People feel violently ill after feeling that they didn't do well at a test in college. People tend to become flustered when they are talking to management, doing interviews, etc. The things listed in this post seems like a really bad arguement. Also people do not interact with "new" people very often th…
/r/seduction12/06/12 02:04 AM
1

They have the ability to have awesome personalities just like men. Personality is power.
/r/seduction08/06/12 11:30 PM
3

I'm going to take a guess and assume that is what he wants to know because knowing the questions to ask is part of the answer.
/r/seduction08/06/12 10:49 PM
3

Sample: Sample Time BridgeSomeone asked me about time bridges in a PM. It occurred to me that I would like to hear some more examples from other PUAs. Here is mine. Post yours too. Please, no BS. Only post hypothetical samples, based on your EXPERIENCE not your imagination. Here's a typical conversation: PUA "I've enjoyed getting to know you. What steps can we take to continue this?" HB "I don't know." PUA "Do you know the Coffee shop on the corner of Fifth and Market? I'll be there around 1 o'c…
/r/seduction08/06/12 10:49 PM
1

He seemed too outcome dependent on getting a good response instead of just sharing and letting the chips fall where they may. Yup. He might have fallen into the douche category. Who knows. I remember the other natural that came in and he quickly adapted and wasn't anything like this poster at all. He probably feels validated in his perspective now that he got shewn away yet I don't give a fuck because I don't really respect the oppinions of people who are not willing to even try to understand. T…
/r/seduction08/06/12 08:10 PM
3

You're right but it's better than red rocket out here.
/r/seduction08/06/12 02:38 PM
4

I'm not angry. You're not very good with this people thing are you.
/r/seduction08/06/12 06:46 AM
11

KENNEL!!!
/r/seduction08/06/12 03:59 AM
12

Bad tzeentch99, bad. Sit, roll over, play dead, and then go to your kennel.
/r/seduction08/06/12 03:49 AM
21

It would be incredible if a large group of female sedditors set out in a pack into female territory and made it their goal to explain how this sub isn't a threat but instead a gift to women
/r/seduction08/06/12 03:49 AM
1

It's easy to freak out about things you don't know much about.
/r/seduction08/06/12 03:47 AM
27

He is kidding about the shoo part I assume. We don't mind onlookers yet we rarely take womens advice.
/r/seduction08/06/12 03:47 AM
2

Fo shizzle
/r/seduction08/06/12 03:46 AM
2

If you are obviously trolling Seddit you will be removed with extreme prejudice and banned from the sub-reddit. Trolling doesn't mean being funny. Trolling in this circumstance can be defined as such: Trying to disrupt the harmony of the sub-reddit and persuade the users to stop utilizing it. Example post: "PUA are pigs" Do you feel you did that by posting your main post? I highly doubt it and that is why puaCurveBall is not so happy with you. I came in with the intention of stating that I think…
/r/seduction08/06/12 03:43 AM
2

The one that concerned me the most was 'negging' We rarely speak of that or any of the other shitty terms anymore. It is frusterating that people keep coming in here and somehow getting the impression that we suck ass. We have made it a huge point to not do that stupid shit but at the same time keep ourselves informed.
/r/seduction08/06/12 03:30 AM
0

so I think some people are definitely just born with better social skills than others. If you mean some people are born better because they aren't disadvantaged by having genetic faults then sure. By default all humans are ok and should develop the same types of ways except for the slight changes in genetic disposition. Just wanted to clear that up.
/r/seduction08/06/12 03:28 AM
7

I admit this would be a hilarious entry line. I think I am going to use the phrase entry line much more than pickup line from now on.
/r/seduction07/06/12 09:47 PM
0

"Cleaning up" after the guy pulls out. Basically suck all the juices off the dick. It's a good finishing touch.
/r/seduction07/06/12 04:12 AM
5

I didn't know we had so many females roaming seddit. Must be a lot of lurkers haha
/r/seduction07/06/12 04:10 AM
2

I now have a new word in text that is ghetto and makes fun of it. Thank you.
/r/seduction07/06/12 04:09 AM
6

This is hilarious yet true. Trying to rid yourself of these would probably give you some kind of issue which would in of itself be a flaw I assume.
/r/seduction07/06/12 03:08 AM
1

I have a question. If all defense mechanisms on this list are defeated does that make you god-like?
/r/seduction07/06/12 02:44 AM
3

This is by far the most interesting thing I have read this week. Thank you for posting it. Defense mechanisms are very much something I am interested in. Also coping systems. Not sure if the two are related.
/r/seduction07/06/12 02:16 AM
3

Agreed. Keep it up.
/r/seduction05/06/12 11:11 PM
2

I'm going to try and break these down into ways you can get away with them. Kill me with kindness- These guys go out of their way to compliment, supplicate, and be agreeable. They laugh and amplify when you give them shit, and it usually defuses me if it appears empathetic. These guys usually had big brothers growing up and know how to avoid confrontation without pussing out. This is a fight fire with fire situation. I had a guy try and bag the girl I was with that night and I got real deep with…
/r/seduction05/06/12 02:40 AM
1

I think the lesson here is that if you like her more than a friend you fuck then you should make her your gf. Can't treat a situation like something it isn't and get upset about it.
/r/seduction03/06/12 07:39 AM
5

You can drown it though...
/r/seduction01/06/12 10:32 PM
1

Very interesting.
/r/seduction01/06/12 02:25 AM
2

I'd definitely be doing high-value things. This
/r/seduction01/06/12 01:32 AM
5

In a way we do things to accomodate side effects we want to see. Life is retarded in that way. It's ok though because it is nice being a better version of ones' self.
/r/seduction30/05/12 09:57 PM
6

I hope people don't consider this to be a proper response...
/r/seduction30/05/12 09:56 PM
1

Wit is a formula that is fantastic because a variable is the persons experiences and personality. Because of that everyone will have their own unique flavor even though the rest of the formula is the same.
/r/seduction30/05/12 04:33 PM
2

This will only hinder the man. It will not give him a true sense of what humor is. It will however give him an experience that he needs in order to stop being so serious. Drink once in a while to enjoy life differently, not to be funny.
/r/seduction30/05/12 04:37 AM
3

You care too much about the responses you will get if you laugh at those things or you don't understand where they are coming from. You probably don't understand people because you don't do things that they have done. Experience is a huge part to understanding people. It gives common ground. Look into going past your comfort zone and doing other things in life that other people do even if you don't like those things. Just to try it. Wit is humor. Humor isn't about reciting jokes. It is about tyi…
/r/seduction30/05/12 04:36 AM
1

Reason? Easy. Women go for fun/excitement & confidence before they go for safety and nuturing. I have heard many woman say that they like a nice guy but can't be with them because they aren't confident and are not exciting enough for them and would bore them to death. Many women have told me that. Also, we have this information somewhere here in seddit anyhow haha.
/r/seduction30/05/12 04:31 AM
0

Your response is always this way so I will disregard it as usual. Me and you might as well just not respond to each other haha.
/r/seduction25/05/12 08:46 PM
0

no
/r/seduction25/05/12 05:25 PM
0

The end to that is going to be hilarious.
/r/seduction25/05/12 05:24 PM
0

The best will not sleep with other people's SOs so yes they are mutually exclusive concepts. It is similar to douches vs alphas. Which is better? The alpha of course. Doesn't change the fact that douches get girls too. Sleeping with other people's SOs drags down your level of expertise.
/r/seduction25/05/12 08:52 AM
1

Standards are important to seduction. It is relevant because of that. It isn't about ethical dilemmas except for honor and shit to yourself. If it has "moral" implecations that is something else. I made sure that I expressed that a number of times.
/r/seduction25/05/12 08:20 AM
4

As a person who aligns with the concept of polyamoury, I say fuck you. I have nothing against polyamoury. I have something against people who decieve their partner. You need to pay better attention before you freak the hell out.
/r/seduction25/05/12 07:44 AM
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Let's go with this: Do you really want to fuck a girl that is shitty enough a person to cheat on her boyfriend? Yes? Then you need to reavaluate yourself there buddy. If you would fuck a girl that has a man then that isn't saying much for your standards of who you fuck.
/r/seduction25/05/12 07:18 AM
1

This is the type of response that makes people hate /r/seduction and rightly so. Just no.
/r/seduction25/05/12 07:16 AM
3

No.
/r/seduction25/05/12 02:29 AM
2

I don't see any fault in my method. I always have gotten a positive experience out of it. I have tried fucked up things to see what happens because I find human nature to be very different from what we think it would be. Example: I asked a ridiculous amount of blond girls what their natural hair color was. Many were with their boyfriends. They were proud and said things like: "Me and my sister got our hair colored together. I used to be a red head and wanted a change. Do you like it?" "Oh haha i…
/r/seduction24/05/12 08:50 PM
1

I don't have any sources except for knowing that getting your windpipe crushed seems quite easy yet most people defend their neck like crazy. A quick punch to the throat seems very sure to kill someone if the punch is anything more than a tap to temporarily knock em out.
/r/seduction24/05/12 08:45 PM
6

There need be no tact in asking a girl if she is with someone or not. I don't see a problem with what I do. If I did I wouldn't do it so if you intend to change my mind you may want to change tactics and try to rationalize what you are saying into words and convey it. Otherwise I will not understand your thoughts. The communication is lacking.
/r/seduction24/05/12 12:48 AM
5

then the guy looks sad as shit I was describing the situation. I was describing how it is funny how people react. The question and situation is still extremely valid. It quickly gets through the bullshit and gets the situation setup for either hanging with a couple or chatting with two singles. I tend to try to get the girl to hang with the guy. I just find human nature hilarious. If I don't laugh it is just sad. I guess you feel as if I am purposely trying to hurt people. I didn't insult them. …
/r/seduction23/05/12 11:58 PM
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I figured someone may say this. Many times things are said that hurt peoples feelings. The issue then comes that I cannot protect everyones feelings when nothing I said was insulting to them. It is a simple question with funny side effects. My girl likes watching because I always am doing something silly. Like last time we went out, "Hey can you show me your best black girl impression" to a very blonde girl. It was hilarious. Suprisingly she was an excellent black girl impersonator. I said wow, …
/r/seduction23/05/12 10:47 PM
3

PSA - Don't do this. It is funny to say but this can kill people more easily than imagined. Don't want to end up in the pokey for a silly joke.
/r/seduction23/05/12 08:49 PM
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My favorite play even if I am not trying to get with the girl is to: Ask the girl, "Is this your bf?" Ask the guy, "This your girl?" Responses tend to be: "No no no, haha we are just friends" then the guy looks sad as shit "No (sudden realization he just booted himself), she's all your bro (more sad looks and then drinks their drink)" Either way is hilarious. Yea it is fucked up that I find this hilarious but it really is. I once told a girl, "Why not? You guys might have neat little asian ameri…
/r/seduction23/05/12 08:45 PM
1

There is good manipulation and then there is bad manipulation. She did bad manipulation. When you do things deceptively and dishonestly then that is definitely bad manipulation. When you manipulate a situation by being awesome therefore reaping the positive side effects, that is good manipulation. Not many people on this particular forum advocate manipulation using shitty tactics. If they do they should be easy to spot and should be shyed away from. Girls don't like the concept of seduction beca…
/r/seduction23/05/12 03:32 AM
1

married 3 years - she left for a convict she had known before he went to prison... she left when he did. Dated an older woman for ~1 year till we decided that we should just be friends with benifits and find people our own age. She knew I wanted kids and she couldn't provide them. Babies mother 3.5 years - she became a cheater because of having to live seperately because of being laid off for 2 years. She couldn't hold it together enough. Her family is a bit nuts as well so yea... I am going to …
/r/seduction22/05/12 10:22 PM
1

You are lying to yourself. If Scarlett Johansenn threw herself at you, with no chance of getting caught, you would cheat. haha no way. I would tell my woman and ask if she wants a threeway but if my woman said she didn't then I would just say no to Scarlett. I don't care if I could get caught or not. I'm not you obviously. When it does... when you are no longer part of that young love/lust phase, cheating will enter your thoughts. I always think about banging hot chicks. Doesn't mean I have to. …
/r/seduction22/05/12 03:52 PM
1

Got to laugh or it just seems sad.
/r/seduction21/05/12 11:56 PM
-1

I know the statement. I know for instance that I would never cheat. Cheating is a ridiculous thing to do. If I didn't like a girl much I'd leave her. If I wanted her then I wouldn't dishonor myself by cheating on someone. I do however rather enjoy sex but still wouldn't cheat. I enjoy staying within the rules of my relationships. I am sure there are women that are similar to this. I may have found one but I won't know for sure for a while. So my answer stands.
/r/seduction21/05/12 09:19 PM
-1

no
/r/seduction21/05/12 08:39 PM
2

Seems like a pretty good explanation. Explains my past relationships. Looks like I picked a good one this time though. Yay. Let's hope this all sticks. BTW finding people that fit the profile of non-cheating as described is incredibly few people.
/r/seduction21/05/12 08:37 PM
2

Many women don't have the heart to be that calm, cool and collected. The girl I am with told me that a guy cheated on her and she left that day. Also told me of a guy she had been with that hit her while angry. She left that day. Some guy freaked the fuck out on her for something incredibly dumb and called her a whore. She left that day. She never went back. Yes those are things that people should do but generally don't. Her telling me of those things makes it pretty clear she is a strong woman.…
/r/seduction21/05/12 08:34 PM
3

Tempted yes. Would do it, no. No reason to fuck someone over I care about because of wants and desires.
/r/seduction21/05/12 08:27 PM
1

Answer to your question: absolutely
/r/seduction21/05/12 08:14 PM
1

I do agree with the they will offer alternatives... to a point. If I am busy and a friend asks me to hang I just tell them I am busy and one of us tries again at a later date. I don't cancel plans unless something really important comes up. I respect my word. Anyone who doesn't automatically gets downgraded to a passive friendship and doesn't get the same respect anymore.
/r/seduction18/05/12 04:41 AM
5

"Hey, are you cancelling because you're not interested?" Do not do this. You sometimes cannot tell if someone is busy or not. However I will tell you that most people are incredibly flakey. You can most of the time tell by their general behaviour.
/r/seduction18/05/12 02:54 AM
2

no
/r/seduction17/05/12 01:47 AM
1

This right here. Good job on explaining it so elagantly.
/r/seduction17/05/12 01:46 AM
20

Be yourself confuses people. Be a better version of yourself is much better to understand.
/r/seduction17/05/12 01:44 AM
2

Do you know what "Fo shizzle my nizzle" means? Because wow I didn't until the other day and now it is hilarious to me.
/r/seduction17/05/12 12:57 AM
3

Rape... or suprise sex... eh? eh? haha jk
/r/seduction16/05/12 11:39 PM
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As always you kick ass. Keep doing that brother.
/r/seduction15/05/12 04:55 PM
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You need to read the recent relationship manefesto and be alpha in loving the woman you love. Shit happens. If it really is undeniable then stop denying it and get that shit.
/r/seduction15/05/12 05:55 AM
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This shall be added to the wiki. Any ideas where we should put it in the wiki?
/r/seduction15/05/12 05:49 AM
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I found this video somewhere here but figured it needed to be here too. WHY not WHAT
/r/seduction15/05/12 03:09 AM
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Some things in my life great while others are absolutely terrible. When I say terrible I mean deaths that should not happen. It's wierd how both good and bad can coincide so seamlessly. Seddit has a bad rap as does any group does that has effect on people and life. Atheists, Religious folks, doctors, shrinks, etc. Every group has nutters. The nutters make the most impact on ones mind so the rest gets blurred out. I am trying to resolve that by pointing people to the wiki because the first messag…
/r/seduction15/05/12 01:18 AM
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Nice / Good generally are synonomous with being a pushover / pussy. Nice and good must be properly combined with confidence in ones actions and being fun / entertaining to actually be any good. Being fun and entertaining always comes before giving a shit about if the person is nice or not.
/r/seduction15/05/12 12:10 AM
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There is a reason for it mainly being men in here... Women don't know how their own kind works very often unless they are lesbians or bi women who actively participate in picking up other women. Because generally men are the ones wanting to learn how to seduce. Most women know how to seduce and if they don't they still have an easier time getting mens attention. There are reasons for the balance as it is.
/r/seduction15/05/12 12:08 AM
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Just ignore any bitter idiots who try to flame you. (Or let me know and I'll ban them.) Do males get the same treatment?
/r/seduction15/05/12 12:06 AM
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I find that all forums have moderators that delete things on the basis of staying on topic a great deal of times. Honestly some of the subreddits need more of this harsh reality.
/r/seduction15/05/12 12:05 AM
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This was a nice post but in no way shape or form worth 500+ upvotes. I find it deeply disturbing that just because a female posted this that it got that many upvotes. There is no way that a regular male sedditor would get this many upvotes for this useful advice. Just no way. So I would like to say to those that are upvoting because a woman posted it: Down boy, Down
/r/seduction15/05/12 12:04 AM
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I know this feels. It feels bad man. People think I am a dick because I come off cold so I have tried to be more emotional. It's not easy when it isn't your default nature but that is what we are here to do, to change to a version of ourselves that have emotions enabled and in tune with reality. It's funny how perception works.
/r/seduction11/05/12 11:36 PM
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Be fun for yourself. Be interesting by doing things in your life and learning things. Be confident by being sure of your actions that they are good and true to who you are / what version of yourself you want to be.
/r/seduction10/05/12 12:42 AM
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I said that the practicing looks lame and as if it is failure. I was not saying it was lame or a failure. :P
/r/seduction08/05/12 10:16 PM
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Not sure if you read whole thing...
/r/seduction08/05/12 08:45 PM
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Because it is a pain in the ass. That is why I put it all in the wiki.
/r/seduction08/05/12 03:11 AM
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Cleaned up sidebar content here
/r/seduction08/05/12 03:09 AM
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Hey throwaway, the wiki I put up has this shit fixed. Please clean the sidebar up and point it at that. You can keep an archive of sidebar somewhere. Cleaned up sidebar content here
/r/seduction08/05/12 03:09 AM
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You know what looks lame? People who are failing misserably at skateboarding, an instrument, etc. when they are practicing at it. You know what doesn't look lame? The finished result of hours and hours of failure paying off with fantastic skills after the failure. Keep trying and you will have a good time. When you are drunk you tend not to give a fuck about failure yet you feel good about success. Do that when you are sober. Failure doesn't really matter so much in the club. Even awesome people…
/r/seduction08/05/12 03:06 AM
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After she breaks up with you At first it will suck Understand that begging doesn't help and if it does work it is just to get you to shut the fuck up. It won't last. Know that she may have issues that you cannot right now see Know that you have some issues you need to resolve and you cannot possibly fix the situation while still with her as she is a tainted experience of who you want to leave behind There are literally millions of women who want a guy who you are right now and would be glad to b…
/r/seduction08/05/12 02:57 AM
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Thank you. Find a better way of making money. Those ads were like cancer and made it unusable without adblock on. Adblock is about the only thing that saves me at home from that shit. I saw it on my work computer because they use explorer 7 without any ad blocking :/
/r/seduction03/05/12 08:25 PM
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NO! You sure have not. I just took this picture right after reading I removed the ads from the blog. Thank you for your feedback! I didn't know they are so intrusive.
/r/seduction03/05/12 02:49 PM
1

Probably haha
/r/seduction03/05/12 06:40 AM
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Please remind me if I don't post in the next few days.
/r/seduction03/05/12 02:30 AM
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How? Standards. Actively seek out more awesome women. tend to date shyer, nerdier girls Do you expect different results? Then you must do different things. I know that sounds dumb but you gotta actively get shit moving. Boring girls are boring. You can't change that. There are woman that are fucking awesome but you just have to actively look and be perceptive. The woman I am with now I had met because I wanted a random fuck. Ends up we played zombies on call of duty. Then it evolved into getting…
/r/seduction03/05/12 02:21 AM
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Date: You kino You make a move such as kissing and fucking her You be awesome You don't be a pussy bitch You be enjoyable Friendly outing: You don't make a move You treat her as if you are both the same gender and you have no sexual interest in her The main difference between friend dating and dating is that dating involves wanting to fuck the other person and not being affraid to act like it. This doesn't mean hump her leg like a dog. It means actually give her interest but tease enough that yo…
/r/seduction03/05/12 02:13 AM
1

I'm unsure of what your reply is supposed to convey to me. Please fill me in. Thanks :)
/r/seduction03/05/12 02:09 AM
1

Holy fucking shit is the ads on that page ever intrusive. REPORT this please. Thanks. EDIT: The ads have been removed and I have removed my downvote
/r/seduction03/05/12 02:08 AM
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Firm good middle of the road handshake - formal and still shows strength and confidence yet not overbearing or weak Arm around shoulder, black mans handshake, etc. - more intimate and shows control and comfort. A more casual welcome kino. There are a number of ways to great people and kino. You know someone should really put a video together of male / male, female / female, male / female kino and what that shit conveys. I would watch the shit out of it. Hell I might put it together. Input please…
/r/seduction03/05/12 02:07 AM
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What I see here is that you are not giving as much reciprical energy back to the group that they are giving to you. Pump up the energy to the old days plus a bit more. People get out of it and that shit happens. Life is fucked up. Go ahead and take the reigns once again and don't just be riding the wave. Being a part of a group means active participation NOT passive participation. You know what people want? They want to feel cared about. Stop thinking of yourself for a while (not being a dick he…
/r/seduction03/05/12 02:04 AM
2

So famous and boring?
/r/seduction03/05/12 01:58 AM
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Be centered on the frequency of the situation or be able to get people to the frequency you are on and don't be off the charts. Be zen and one with the situation.
/r/seduction03/05/12 01:58 AM
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I have a feeling you missunderstood that point. The point coincides with the rest of what he wrote. The actions you make should be reasonable. Basically not twitchy and hyper reactive. He doesn't mean a slow mo smile, he just means a regular smile. Similar to the movements and other things he talked about. Basically be congruent to the energy of the situation and sometimes lead the energy of the situation.
/r/seduction03/05/12 01:56 AM
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I have a feeling you missinterpreted what he was trying to say. That is ok though. It seems you do what he says anyhow. Communication is funny like that. :P
/r/seduction03/05/12 01:54 AM
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Life related IS seduction related.
/r/seduction02/05/12 08:00 PM
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Because I don't want to deal with the lay over ad that pops up... Tomorrow is my birthday — always an opportunity for reflection, but especially this time. For several weeks now, I've been thinking about what I've learned during the past six decades that really matters. Here's a first pass: The more we know about ourselves, the more power we have to behave better. Humility is underrated. We each have an infinite capacity for self-deception — countless unconscious ways we protect ourselves from p…
/r/seduction02/05/12 08:00 PM
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Hehe
/r/seduction01/05/12 04:04 PM
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These conversations do happen. I find them to be entertaining when they happen. Don't have to harsh on the guy for telling what happened just because it doesn't happen to you.
/r/seduction01/05/12 04:23 AM
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I prefer this from the wiki. Cleaner format :)
/r/seduction24/04/12 04:51 AM
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Once in a while is fine when I am feeling awnry. At a normal energy level, fuck that noise.
/r/seduction24/04/12 04:10 AM
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She liked it. It just sounds akward. Move on with the conversation and don't go back to address it. Example: Her:I used to live in Ohio Me: Are most people from Ohio cute? Her: haha not really. But thanks You: What is Ohio like?
/r/seduction20/04/12 10:11 PM
1

I would agree with that. It took far too long to get to that conclusion :/
/r/seduction18/04/12 04:32 AM
1

"I love the swag your wearing" leans over and kisses me (bitches love the stewie shirt haha) "I never liked cuddling till I met you" "You have a superpower that turns women bi. Superman must be jealous." (paraphrased... I don't have a perfect memory) "I didn't like being picked up before I met you." "I told myself I never wanted to get married, then I got to know you." "I love seeing you being a leader. They all follow your example." "You sure you have never had sex? That was just too good for a…
/r/seduction18/04/12 04:24 AM
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"Your shitty grammar turns me on baby. I love that whore grammar you got."
/r/seduction18/04/12 04:20 AM
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buys bag of hairpins to dump around the bed
/r/seduction18/04/12 04:19 AM
1

If it doesn't matter, don't argue it. You don't have to fight everything. That just gets tiresome. That is why sometimes I just don't even reply to stupid things people say on reddit. I don't have to convert the world. If it is a simple fix then great. If it is just a point of view great. This has been a post on my point of view for instance.
/r/seduction18/04/12 04:17 AM
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You will one day see that what I am saying is true.
/r/seduction18/04/12 02:48 AM
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It is a combination of looks as well as personality. For instance a very good looking woman could be a 2 because of her actions while a 4 could be a 9 because of her actions. Just curious but did you even read that stuff or did you just want to get into a fight because it is all there already. I'm just repeating what was already there.
/r/seduction18/04/12 01:13 AM
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You have no idea how much she thinks she's valued Body language and all the other indicators that women use in order to gauge a mans worth / confidence
/r/seduction18/04/12 12:10 AM
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Except you can't work this out for a while in many cases. That still doesn't mean the definition doesn't apply. I don't think so. Do explain why you feel this way.
/r/seduction16/04/12 11:39 PM
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1 cup of coffee or 1 drink is different. It is percieved as falling under the "I'm feeling generous today and would probably do this for a buddy" category. However buying a meal is different. You don't tend to buy buddies meals.
/r/seduction16/04/12 09:53 PM
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The end result is you being an ATM. Just sayin. A woman who is actually interested in a man will pay for her own things because she doesn't want to scare the guy off. Those are the women you want to date because they are reasonable. The ones that are scared off because you don't pay for their time are the kind that will fuck you over faster than the crazy ones. Also, you didn't answer my question. And as it happens just the other day a (male) friend of mine bought me coffee. What a pussy, eh? We…
/r/seduction16/04/12 09:23 PM
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Could you please rephrase that because I really have no idea what you are trying to say with that reply :P
/r/seduction16/04/12 09:01 PM
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If a woman judges you on if you are going to buy her things... then she isn't worth the time. And as it happens just the other day a (male) friend of mine bought me coffee. What a pussy, eh? Were you expecting him to buy you a coffee?
/r/seduction16/04/12 08:56 PM
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