We as humans stereotype. It is an imparative that we do so lest we fail ourselves and not protect ourselves.

  • We fill a persons personality in with our dream girl if she is gorgeous.

  • We fill a womans personality in with a crappy personality if she isn't attractive to us.

We do this because we lack the information so we fill it in. STOP DOING THIS. That is what makes us feel outcome dependant. We fill in information without living in the moment.

We are motivated by a personality we hope for, expectations of an outcome and become axious in doing so because our perceptions are biased by our own personification of the persons personality based on their looks and setting.

Stop doing that.

Live in the fucking moment.