I hadn't talked to my girl (I call her that and she never corrects me so I'm cool with that) in a week because of some issues I felt we had. So I asked seddit about it. She finally called me. (she thought I was mad at her which is only partially correct)

I couldn't get her to open up very much. So I found a way. I became super super fucking open about myself and not one bit negative. This opened her up a little bit more in a way that she would actually be comfortable with herself to kiss more. (she is a super super shy girl)

FR time...

So I take her out tonight and I had a buddy that was going to meet up with me to play pool and holla at some honeys. (just trying to make a few friends this night)

A couple nights before I posted something funny in response to a friends wall posting on FB and this girl responded well and so I told her she should buy me a drink sometime. She laughed and added me. I then asked her number so we could meet up tonight. Number recieved instantly.

So I am out and meet up with my buddy and play a round of pool. At this point this girl hunts me down and hugs me. She got super nervous cause I had brought out one of my primary interests. Still get her to dance with us. First time is because I asked her and second time because she finds me and the girl and brings us to the dance floor.

We have our fun and bounce to the next place. Guys and girls constantly talking to me about my hat and trying to buddy up with me to get to my girl. I'm loving and counter their blow out and blow them out and make them all nervous so they bounce.

NOTE: If they try to become really friendly so they can get to your girl all you have to do is be super interested in them and become stronger in frame and lead the conversation away from anything that has to do with you and your girl. If they ask about your girl you just give them a quick answer that it is your girl and then quickly move onto a new subject or you can even ignore the question and still move the conversation. In no way become defensive or your girl may blow you out. Super fun.

So me and my girl get some cheetos and a drink and what not at the new place and play a game of pool. I make her super comfy by not addressing any mistakes she made and only saying something when she made a good shot. This improved her confidence which improved her enjoyment levels. High fives abounded. Good shit and happy makeouts. Finally getting her to open.

  • Positives - compliment

  • Negatives - Ignore the fuck out of

So during the pool game I see this super fine black girl dancing with her bigger black girl friend. A guy hanging on the boundary. Shes got one of the super tight fit dresses that barely cover her ass going on.

Loving her smile I walk up confidently and grab her around the waist and say, "Hey do you know how to do the Dougie?" She does it for me and then I tell her I have no idea how to do it and she should teach me sometime. I go back to my pool game and the next round out I go back to her and grab her again. This time the guy says he is hubby so I smile and smirk and the girl says no way hes not. I go in close to her and say, "but he wishes". She high fives me and laughs. I hug her and have her near me and say, "Hey I wanna be friends and go for a shake sometime. Let me get your number." I open a new contact in my phone and hand her the phone. She reminds me of her name so i don't forget and I remind her how to remember me. She is happy about this and I then tell her shes got to teach me how to dougie too. She laughs again and then I go dance.

Me and my girl I brought go outside to wait for a cab. Cabs are dicks sometimes and don't come so we called a second one haha. A guy compliments me on my hat and sits down and trys to buddy up to me so he can get to my girl. I change the convo direction and talk about my hat and his shoes and my shoes and about life and shit. His name was greg so I talked about good guy greg meme haha.

Then he excuses himself when he finds he can't get anywhere with this. Another guy comes up that isn't trying to get to my girl but still he intros himself as I guess we look interesting. I ask him about his tatoos and shit and then the taxi arrives.

All around a pimpin night. Lovin my girl and seeing her open up and meeting new friends and old friends.

Forgot to mention I got another number from a buddy I had lost contact with and he came up and introed himself again at a new bar I went to. Basically everywhere I went I had people I got to talk to. This is a new thing for me as I have finally realized that I can do whatever the fuck I want and if people judge then that is because of their own issues. This means I can do things without social recourse.

Fantastic night. Thank you all for being awesome and I hope this inspires at least one lost soul. It only takes one person to matter.