To me it seems that cocky funny / shit test breaking is never done with insults as that only feeds negativity into the situation. To get a girl interested you need to fill her with happy emotions and try to negate negative emotions such as she is feeding into the situation.

To properly lead one must know how to get around bad situations (in this case negativity from her as well as yourself) and feed in good things (positive emotions).

I had a revelation the other day actually. It goes like this...

  1. Women are composed of mostly feminine energy. This would mean they operate mostly on emotion. Emotion is soft and fluid and must be dealt with when it comes up to an extreme.

  2. Men are composed of mostly masculine energy. This would mean they operate mostly on logic. Logic is hard and cold and must be dealt with when it comes to an extreme.

  3. Women tend to vent, and do things that seem irrational. Generally when they vent or freak out the content of their message is not what the words are saying but what the emotion of the message is. They have to deal with shit and this is their way of doing it.

  4. Men tend to solve problems and get to the root of a problem to kill it. Generally this is done with cold hard logic and the content of our messages are concise and match the definition of the words we use. This is the way we men deal with shit.

  5. So women will view male logic as terrible to use to fix problems because they use emotion to make themselves comforted and fixed and to center.

  6. Men will view female emotions as terrible to fix problems because it doesn't solve things from our point of view.

Both genders operate differently yet we must get along in order to love each other.

A main point So in order to be good leaders for our women we must learn about them, know how to comfort them, know when what they say is bullshit or real, etc. We should stop taking these things as insults or insanity and do our best to comfort the situation as they have problems in life as we do. The difference is we were born into the role of leaders, protectors, etc. There are times when the women will use the logic they do have and there are times when us men will use the emotions we do have. However we must do our best to kick ass and not be offended. If we are offended we will react harshly and create a much more negative situation.

As children say they hate their parents and don't... we must learn that emotional responses women give are a lot of times whims, meaningless and completely formed out of irrational content which is emotion.

EDIT: Content addition, formatting, spelling.

I think when we feel that a woman is insane it is actually emotional response. She isn't insane she is just based on emotion while we men are based on logic. This of course is not absolute but can be considered true if your going with majority percentage. For instance...

  • Men - 80% logic / 20% emotion

  • Women - 20% logic / 80% emotion

So in reality I will be from now on taking a more objective look at a womans "insanity" as I will be looking it like this...

  • Womans insanity = womans emotional reactions

While when women look at mens insanity they most likely look at it like this...

  • Mens insanity = mens logical response