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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
2	What are some objects/items you have in your bedroom that girls love?		somenightsgone	/r/seduction	28/04/19 11:49 PM

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2	About to go possibly lose my virginity need advice! Absolutely true. Plus, there’s nothing bad about being nervous!	/r/seduction	07/04/21 01:23 PM
2	About to go possibly lose my virginity need advice! Either way your still alive and probably feel a little proud that u manned up. Next time I recommend you work out logistics better and have something a little more “substantial” worked out. How were u high and still feeling awkward tho? That part doesn’t make sense...	/r/seduction	07/04/21 05:15 AM
10	About to go possibly lose my virginity need advice! Good save your semen. Hoes don’t deserve it	/r/seduction	07/04/21 05:13 AM
12	About to go possibly lose my virginity need advice! I was mostly joking in my previous comment, but I realize how insensitive that actually was. Do you think it would help if you realized and were able to convince yourself that most people only really ever focus on themselves and don’t really give a shit about others? Think of a time when someone really embarrassed themselves in front of you, and then think of a time when you embarrassed yourself in front of someone else. The first is hard, but the 2nd is easy. Ppl get too focused on their little…	/r/seduction	07/04/21 04:59 AM
16	About to go possibly lose my virginity need advice! Actually that’s very sweet and thoughtful of u 🥰	/r/seduction	07/04/21 03:57 AM
3	About to go possibly lose my virginity need advice! One inch below the butthole. Who knew your 1 incher would come in handy	/r/seduction	07/04/21 03:56 AM
15	About to go possibly lose my virginity need advice! Jesus what happened to the new virgin crowd lol. I honestly can’t remember being that anxious. Jackin off before is a good idea but much more is overkill and not good for a young dude	/r/seduction	07/04/21 03:54 AM
5	About to go possibly lose my virginity need advice! Dude don’t bail. This is how boys become men lol. But anyways, if you gotta smoke at 930 am, then do what u gotta do. Once u get high id recommend asking her if she wants to go get some food or coffee and this will make it more fun and adventurous for both of you. I’d then ask her if she wants to chill at your house for a little bit and watch some tv, play video games, smoke a little more, idk whatever interesting thing u got.	/r/seduction	07/04/21 03:51 AM
16	Lost virginity from listening to seddit Yup, sensed that as well. Oh well, we’re all here to keep learning after all	/r/seduction	04/04/21 04:32 AM
5	I slid in the dm's and got rejected I’m honestly proud of you! Guy or girl, NOBODY enjoys rejection, and it takes some courage to put yourself out there. Don’t feel embarrassed, feel proud! In my entire life, I’ve only ever had 1 girl “slide in my DM” and even tho I wasn’t into her, it made me feel pretty fuckin awesome for a whole month lol. It also made me realize how awesome it was of her to break social norms and go after something she was interested in.	/r/seduction	22/03/21 12:28 AM
221	Becoming more physically attractive has made me realize I’m def gonna be single forever Bro, you lack some serious confidence. I’m assuming years of being ignored, neglected, rejected, and not being accepted for who you are has broken you down and made you feel like total shit. Now you look better than ever before, and now youve become aware of how superficial and disgusting people are. It’s made you bitter, and you still haven’t learned to accept yourself. You’ve told yourself repeatedly that life would be so much better and easier as a more attractive person. How can attractive p…	/r/seduction	21/03/21 05:42 AM
1	I wonder how many guys in the seduction community are actually high value vs how many of them are trying to create the illusion of high value. The greatest way to feel and become high value is to literally bring forth SOME kind of value. If you refocus your time and energy on building a business, progressing your career, etc., I promise you’ll notice an ENORMOUS difference in how YOU feel and how others perceive you. It’s when you start to focus on yourself and less so on how others see you that you inadvertently become high status: in short, stop focusing on what’s going on around you, and build yourself up	/r/seduction	16/02/21 09:30 PM
1	The reason that HUMOR is super attractive The problem is, everyone has a different sense of humor, and some people are simply not amusing whatsoever to others. I have a co-worker who’s sense of humor is just dumb—so dumb, that I sometimes wonder if he has a really low IQ or something. Either way, I do not find him funny. On the other hand, his wife, who’s surprisingly smart I might add, finds him absolutely hilarious. So, what Im trying to say is, there’s actually some merit to whoever said, “just be funny.” I think you can learn to bec…	/r/seduction	31/01/21 01:45 AM
3	"Assume they're into you until proven otherwise" Glad to hear that. Now I see what your getting at, when you say “I disagree with don’t say anything.” Actually I agree with you completely. At the very least, the females your showing interest in should be wondering, “is he interested in me? I think he likes me.” If not, then one is playing it too safe and not showing their true intentions. But yeah, I agree with you man.	/r/seduction	21/01/21 09:15 PM
2	"Assume they're into you until proven otherwise" Definitely OK. Truthfully there’s really no absolute dos and don’ts when it comes to dating, cuz every situation is different. My main point is, everyone has a different style of showing interest and that’s fine. The reason some guys succeed and others don’t is not so much what they say, but how they act and how they are perceived. How you are perceived is the trickiest part, and as cliche as it sounds, it really boils down to who you are and how you perceive yourself. That being said, I think t…	/r/seduction	21/01/21 08:59 PM
7	"Assume they're into you until proven otherwise" Ok if we’re taking about a job, that’s fine to say, because you don’t come off as overly desperate. The same logic applies to dating. If the girl perceives you in any way of being desperate, her instincts are to pull back and doubt your value. There is nothing wrong with getting straight to the point and showing your interest in her. But be tactful. Just be wary of phrases like, “I love you.” “I could see us being together.” “I’m really interested in you.” There’s an appropriate time to say all …	/r/seduction	21/01/21 08:13 PM
10	"Assume they're into you until proven otherwise" It’s akin to saying to a potential employer, “I need this job.”	/r/seduction	21/01/21 07:51 PM
3	What to talk about with someone you’re aiming to date long term? This is spot on. Slightly curious to know your age though, haha. If your under 25, I’d recommend you present yourself more as adventurous, fun, ambitious, and confident. As you get older I think become more well-versed and knowledgeable on a host of topics is slightly beneficial. I’m 22 myself, and most women my age (from my experience) seem to be much more receptive when they hear more about my vacations, my crazy night outs stories, my jobs and dreams, then when I have more meaningful and inte…	/r/seduction	21/01/21 03:14 AM
1	How To Text A Girl If You Don't Want To Use It Exclusively For Logistics Yes, my point exactly. I’m 22, so that’s why I agreed with OP, but yes, I agree with both of you as well.	/r/seduction	19/12/20 08:06 PM
10	How To Text A Girl If You Don't Want To Use It Exclusively For Logistics I must agree with OP, planning for Thursday and Sundays are the best way in maximizing results.	/r/seduction	19/12/20 05:47 AM
1	Instead Of Learning What To Say To Women, Learn How To Hold Good Eye Contact. Here's Why... Can eye contact be overdone? Assuming eye contact is broken briefly every 10-20 seconds	/r/seduction	16/11/20 01:23 AM
2	What self improvements you doing during quarantine? Mine are: 1) make money. Some might say it’s a crutch, but I always feel much much more confident when I have a fat stash of cash in my bank account. Plus it allows me to stay focused and have fun later down the road. 2) experiment with clothing, different facial and head hairstyles. Tryna maximize my looks before I get back out there. Not that I’m too unsatisfied with looks and shit 3) work on my future. Kind of relates to the first point. Having a good career ahead of me and having a purpose g…	/r/seduction	23/04/20 04:20 AM
1	I used to have guy friends who always disturbed girls that were with me. One day I made the hard decision to get rid of them, and put in the time to make new guy friends who didn't disturb girls. My results then went up. Changing friends is hard, but important to become good at this. Just curious, how did these guys “disturb” girls you were with? And by “with” do you mean hanging out with or were dating.	/r/seduction	16/04/20 12:41 AM
51	What you need are social skills Very solid list. I would say your two last points are arguable THE fastest and perhaps best way to increasing social value and gaining valuable social skills.	/r/seduction	30/03/20 12:20 AM
1	What you need are social skills I would disagree with the statement that attractive women have good social skills. I do agree with last paragraph tho	/r/seduction	30/03/20 12:17 AM
6	How often should you text a girl? Like with everything else in life it depends. But short answer is, yes, id initiate again. Girls don’t typically have to initiate, and believe me, if they’re decently attractive there’s a good chance your not the only one she’s texting. More importantly tho, texting back and forth will ALWAYS fizzle out unless you start making plans to meet. It’s just how it is, from my personal experience. Quarantine isn’t the ideal situation rn tho. I might be of a different opinion than most here, but I expec…	/r/seduction	29/03/20 04:18 AM
2	This is one of the things that worries me the most. Focus on wealth and status. Not really, but really tho.	/r/seduction	14/03/20 05:20 AM
5	100 approaches in a month - making progress and having fun Agree with this. Immediately telling a women she’s pretty, beautiful, etc., is not the best tactic—in fact, in my experience it makes them pull back and even feel uncomfortable. Talk to everyone. One thing that’s fairly easy to do as a beginner, which also works in most situations, is to ask for directions (whether you know them or not), and then transition smoothly into another tooic	/r/seduction	27/01/20 08:47 PM
5	I need to stop being so insecure I’ve found the thing that worked best for me is being surrounded by a group of guys that are very social and “alpha” for lack of a better word. Did wonders for me in my mid to late teens	/r/seduction	21/01/20 05:16 PM
1	Focus On Progress, Not Perfection Love this post. Spot on	/r/seduction	20/01/20 07:29 PM
2	Is there a better feeling than women making the first move? Yeah i actually don’t like it when women hit on me anywhere near as much as when i hit on them and am successful. Idk women generally hitting on me makes me feel anxious and uncertain, haven’t figured out exactly why. But I agree with what you said above.	/r/seduction	17/01/20 08:30 AM
1	Is there a better feeling than women making the first move? Ehh your method isn’t bad tbh, but it can honestly be perceived as “boring.” I do agree with you though, when talking to a girl you can say anything, even dumb shit, and in fact, I’ve actually found more success saying dumb shit. Even if your convo goes nowhere at the end of the night, you should be thinking to yourself, “was the conversation I just had with this cute chick interesting/meaningful/fun or just generally a memorable experience for either one of us?” If the answer is yes, then great…	/r/seduction	17/01/20 08:25 AM
4	I’ve 95% of the people I’ve slept with I wasn’t attracted to. Yeah but he had to have done something prior to fucking to get her somewhat attracted to him. Again, I think the main point is that someone’s attractiveness is subjective/in the eye of the beholder. He I suppose was more or less simply attractive to her 🤷‍♂️	/r/seduction	15/01/20 08:49 PM
2	I’m going to get good with women! Bro it’s not that deep. And honestly everything he’s said is more or less true. Get over your sad ways of thinking. For one, the vast vast majority of girls are decent human beings who will either be flattered by your approach or will just not be interested. Nevertheless almost none of them will be rude to you—I guarantee this. But of course it’s gonna happen once in a while. Hence why he said “if they are blah blah blah they’re not worth it.” Also I read some of your comments below and I laughe…	/r/seduction	14/01/20 11:14 AM
1	We all know girls are attracted to guys who don’t give a fuck Gotta make sure you keep putting yourself out there. “Don’t give a fuck,” but still pursue woman and show your intentions	/r/seduction	12/01/20 02:45 AM
2	Cold approach at gym? The implication is that those who say DONT approach at the gym call those who do “assholes.” He then says those SAME people complain that assholes get all the bitches. That makes sense now?	/r/seduction	28/11/19 07:05 AM
20	The Power Of Abundance--How You Get More Women By Being Okay With Losing Women It really depends on what you define as attractive. Logically, 5s should be considered dead average, and 6+ above average to drop dead gorgeous. If you consider 6 and above to be hot than 1/10-1/20 seems like an accurate percentage to me. 1/100 is ridiculously low tho. I live on a college campus as well, and if it was that low I’d be moving out ASAP	/r/seduction	21/09/19 06:16 PM
7	Am I a super stud or is there a reason I always make girls blush a lot .. Yeah, wake up.	/r/seduction	09/09/19 06:13 AM
18	Lost my virginity Unless your already brown, you might want to turn on the lights to see where exactly your inserting your dick....	/r/seduction	16/06/19 09:28 PM
2	My bestfriend(F) wanted to have sex and I rejected her. Best comment on here.	/r/seduction	12/06/19 02:36 AM
2	Went to a club for the FIRST time solo [FR] and A newbies guide on WHAT I WISH I KNEW This is accurate as fuck. Been clubbing for a year now and I’ve learned A LIT. My advices would be (to optimize results) 1) pregame with your friends to get into the high energy state of mind. Don’t get too fucked up, because if you can’t even remember anything than it’s pointless. Solo game is great...but to be honest, going out with a group of friends is 100x better. 2) Don’t get there too early or too late. Around 12 is great, and if you have 1-2 females in your group that you can dance with …	/r/seduction	26/05/19 02:03 AM
2	Pick up begins even before you leave your room for the night out Not really. Most "Models" you see on magazines and social media are like 8s, maybe 9s, but rarely 10s in my opinion. However, I've seen numerous girls around that are not models but are easily 8s, 9s and maybe 9.5s (I personally don't believe there is such a thing as 10s). Basically, what I'm saying is what one might find to be a 10 could be a 7 to another...its all subjective. So, maybe he is exaggerating a little bit by saying hb10...but its also likely she was extremely attractive.	/r/seduction	13/05/19 01:25 AM
1	have you ever just literally asked a girl "wanna fuck", she said "sure" and it was that simple? I actually took another look at your pic and want to change my initial recommendations. You have a slightly longer than average face, so maybe don’t cut the sides of your head shorter, but definitely cut it slightly to give it a more clean and even look. Also cut your sideburns shorter cuz they shouldn’t ever really go past your ears. Also you want the top of your head to look more round and it looks shorter on the right than on the left, so either pull some of the hair from the left over to the…	/r/seduction	29/04/19 02:13 AM
1	have you ever just literally asked a girl "wanna fuck", she said "sure" and it was that simple? Your not ugly if that’s what your concerned about. You are average though. But i feel like you could do a couple of easy things to make yourself seem more attractive. 1) Have the hair on the sides of your head slightly shorter and/or slicked back to give you a more clean and professional look. (Top looks good to me) 2) not sure if you can grow facial hair, but if you can then that would be a major game-changer. Even light stubbles would look great. 3) lift and wear nice clothes and smell nice an…	/r/seduction	29/04/19 02:07 AM
1	What are some objects/items you have in your bedroom that girls love? Good point. Definitely agree with keeping your room neat and tidy as probably the most important thing.	/r/seduction	29/04/19 12:27 AM
1	How I overcame approach anxiety How tall are you and how much do you weigh? I’m assuming your a guy (your choice of words but I could be wrong lol) I ask cuz if you’re a guy you shouldn’t really be concerned with how other men perceive your weight—if your a female I can understand however.	/r/seduction	20/03/19 04:10 AM
1	How to suppress or deal with nerves before going on a first date with a girl? His comment is spot on. I’ve went on many many dates, and as nervous as I’ve been, I can guarantee you the girls way more nervous. If she’s accepted to going on a date with you, chances are that she’s perhaps somewhat already attracted to you (May depend on how you met). Dates (especially first ones) will ALWAYS be kinda of awkward, with many awkward silent moments. That being said, always prepare yourself with some questions, comments, and stories to fill in the awkward moments.	/r/seduction	19/03/19 06:07 AM
2	What to do if she says yes to going home with you? Honestly, the risk is too risky. I’d say cut your loses and just go home. You could be missing out on an opportunity, but you also don’t want any charges. Plenty of fish in the sea. Keep it moving. Also, I’m all about risks, but I’ve heard too many stories and witnessed too many incidents that have made me very cautious—perhaps too cautious, but to each his own.	/r/seduction	19/03/19 05:57 AM
4	Had my first kiss (and so much more) Glad to hear you experience bro! Sounds like she may be down for more than just kissing and stuff, so definitely make a move before you head back to school. Keep pushing yourself out of your comfort zone and good stuff will happen! Best of luck!	/r/seduction	19/03/19 05:49 AM
2	How to Dance With Girls \| Dance Moves to Seduce Girls I’m 5’9” lol	/r/seduction	07/03/19 01:20 AM
15	How to Dance With Girls \| Dance Moves to Seduce Girls I just want to add: When your grinding with a girl don’t just stand there, bend your legs a little and move your hips with hers. Also, either put both hands on her waist (feel free to roam with your hands IF APPROPRIATE) and/or entertwine her fingers/hands in yours...builds massive sexual tension	/r/seduction	06/03/19 09:31 PM
2	No verbal communication - Powerful Some of my best nights out were when I didn’t say a single word.	/r/seduction	09/02/19 07:34 PM
3	Do girls ever make a move for guys, or do guys have to do ALL the work while woman sit back and do nothing? I’ve had numerous women hit on me, but I completely missed the signs until it was too late. BUT, I’ve also had a couple experiences, where women have approached me and made it very very clear that they were into me. It doesn’t happen often, but it does happen. I should also note that all the instances where I’ve been hit on like that, the women were more or less drunk. Really not sure what to make of that, other than they just must’ve been more brave atm	/r/seduction	06/02/19 09:36 PM
1	Has anyone read the art of seduction? You misunderstood his response. He’s saying that you should accept these men as they are (lower your standards) or you can choose the alternative (be selective and find quality men)	/r/seduction	16/01/19 05:41 AM
2	I don’t know what to do once I bring a girl to my room.. Seems like it would be difficult to get hard at 4, eh?	/r/seduction	14/01/19 12:44 AM
3	How to meet more girls Haha well, I’ll probably get downvoted for this, but i I’ll say it regardless. If you are looking for happiness, I think your going about it the wrong way. Something I’ve realized, and still struggle to actually live out, is that no matter how many women we can get, no matter how much sex we have, no matter how much money we earn, we will always want more—especially when we look at those around us whom we deem more successful. One of my friend’s gf was objectively one of the most beautiful women…	/r/seduction	13/01/19 11:37 PM
3	What should I do in my situation (Need some male advice). Why would you not invite him? Perhaps I don’t fully understand your question, but it seems like a no-brainer. If you don’t invite him, then it seems like an automatic no—plus he’s waited so long! If he says no, well, you know where he stands. Look, by not taking the chance, you’ve basically answered for him with a resounding “no!”	/r/seduction	13/01/19 11:10 PM
3	How to meet more girls Relax bro. You are not alone—in fact, I would say most people feel like that every so often. You are so young, and while you might feel emotionally empty and alone at the moment, it’s not a bad thing. Realize that you’ll feel this many times during your lifetime, even perhaps when your in a relationship, so what I would suggest is, learn how to overcome this feeling by focusing on what you DO have, your future, your friends and so on. Enjoy yourself and have fun!	/r/seduction	13/01/19 11:03 PM
1	What do you do when you still miss someone years after seperation? Why did you two separate? It’s hard for us to give meaningful advice without knowing enough about the relationship. Truth is, they say time heals all for a reason....however, no one really talks about the actual length tho	/r/seduction	04/01/19 06:38 PM
1	[FR] I just got a date with a yoga instructor I don’t think he’s coming off as too negative. From what I can infer, he’s basically saying, “don’t come in with high expectation.” It could potentially just be nothing, or, hopefully, it can be something that turns into a great thing. But I agree with OP, don’t be shocked if it means nothing to her.	/r/seduction	27/12/18 04:42 PM
5	[FR] Finally saw the girl I liked and asked her out I think putting all your energy and focus on one person? I’m probably wrong though...	/r/seduction	25/12/18 07:51 PM
1	How to act in this party situation. Is she grinding on you? I know a lot of times, when I’m grinding with a chick, she’ll often turn around to see my face, and make sure I’m not some hideous beast. Either way, whether she’s grinding on you or dancing on you, she’s probably just looking to dance and have fun instead of trying to give you looks of interest. But that doesn’t mean you can’t try talking to her, by all means go for it, but I’m just saying, you’ll probably be unsuccessful	/r/seduction	09/12/18 11:29 PM
4	College: How can I meet more people/girls (not at parties)? Clubs?	/r/seduction	09/12/18 11:25 PM
92	When Hooking up with a woman, is it better to go to her place or take her to yours? Good god 😂	/r/seduction	09/12/18 06:21 AM