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I've put this line to good use too with similar results. It takes the right demeanor to pull it off correctly.
/r/seduction19/12/10 08:35 PM
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It doesn't really matter what you say as long as you say it right - with confidence and assertiveness. If you do it right and get the conversation started, she'll have forgotten whatever opener you used (no matter how cheesy) after five minutes. Check out David Wygant for a better idea/explanation. He definitely knows what he's talking about when it comes to opening.
/r/seduction05/12/10 11:40 AM
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It looks like you're having trouble getting into a good frame. It's not always easy to force yourself into a mood and trying too hard to put yourself in a certain state of mind can keep you trapped in your head all night (happened to me plenty of times). The way I fixed it was to recognize when I was in the zone, when things were flowing smoothly and effortlessly, and identify the factors that put me in that state. For me, it always boiled down to loud music. Now, I rock the fuck on the way to w…
/r/seduction29/11/10 06:22 AM
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"This is me talking you into it. See you at 7."
/r/seduction29/11/10 05:51 AM
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This is basically me on the way to wherever I'm going where I might approach someone. I'm not quite as heavy metal about it as Dwight, but it definitely gets me out of my head and I step into the bar/party/whatever feeling like a fucking rock star.
/r/seduction18/11/10 08:55 AM
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This took me a loooong time to figure out. I've always had a very sarcastic sense of humor and before I learned how to let people know I was kidding by smiling or lifting an eyebrow, I pissed off a lot of people. Say "I'm kidding" with your face. Don't say it with your mouth.
/r/seduction18/11/10 08:18 AM
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For me, seeing a set and thinking of an opener and planning the whole thing out just gets me stuck in my head. I work better just approaching, opening my mouth, and seeing what comes out. It's like when you can't decide what to order at a restaurant because everything looks so good - just open your mouth when the waitress comes and see what happens.
/r/seduction18/11/10 08:13 AM
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Go out with the intention of having fun with your friends first and picking someone up second. If you're pressuring yourself to pick someone up, it's really easy to over think and get caught in your head. Go out, have a drink, enjoy the music, and when you're feeling good (GOOD NOT DRUNK), start talking to people. You'll be in a good state of mind and come off as a happier, more comfortable person. Also, I've got a playlist that I listen to in the car before going out sometimes. It's just good, …
/r/seduction07/11/10 01:48 AM
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Me: Too early! :( now im with my sis, my gramma, my mom and 20 old > ladies looking at old houses. Fun fun...haha. Her: Haha!! Sounds like fun...you should've brought a flask That's where you should have ended the texting for the day, at least in terms of small talk. I'm guilty of keeping this part going long sometimes, too. "Would you like to accompany me to a movie?" was the real hiccup and following it with so many questions has a good chance of coming off needy or desperate. Instead, tell he…
/r/seduction07/11/10 01:40 AM
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"Ppssshhhh, Facebook. Get outta here." Said with a laugh and a "yeah, it's been great talking but we're done here" tone then turning around and taking a couple steps away from her.
/r/seduction06/11/10 05:22 PM
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Haha, I had to force myself to bust out the lion bit because it seemed like it fit well in the situation. In my head I thought it was totally corny. I do think canned material can come off as forced or awkward but I think if you make it your own enough, it loses a lot of the canned feel. I like to think of it as a starting point to take in whatever direction feels most natural.
/r/seduction06/11/10 07:45 AM
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Like I said above, I punted the lay that night by not escalating the situation. As for the social proof bit, it was more of me just noticing and understanding it since the concept had become more clearly flushed out. In my mind, the initial texting was there to get a feel for the situation - if she was interested or if she had forgotten about everything. The fairly positive response was my signal to move forward. Her name turned out to actually be Katy - I even made her pull out her driver's lic…
/r/seduction06/11/10 07:36 AM
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Tried the "No more for you" on a girl this week - worked pretty well :)
/r/seduction06/11/10 07:29 AM
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Looking back after a couple days, I TOTALLY punted the lay that night. The signs were all there, I just didn't escalate. The switch to shit's-about-to-get-real mode seems like gold - I'll definitely have to use it. As for the end-game plan, another completely apparent point that I just didn't acknowledge. It makes perfect sense, but at the time I was just winging it. Another thing that I haven't figured out a go-to workaround in terms of the full close is the fact that I'm a student living at ho…
/r/seduction06/11/10 07:28 AM
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Yeah, it got long. I decided to include the dialogue because I'm still fairly new to pickup in general and in reading other FRs, wanted to see details just to get my brain churning on openers and techniques. Instead of saying "...and then I went over and opened the set," I wanted to give more details in the hopes of sharing ideas with those newer to scene. Plus it's more fun to write it that way... although probably not as fun as whoever you had over last night :)
/r/seduction04/11/10 03:43 PM
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Ah yes, thank you.
/r/seduction04/11/10 03:35 PM
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Flipping these switches was difficult, but netted me much more success. Listen to this man.
/r/seduction04/11/10 03:30 AM
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I've found that saying "We should catch a show" almost always results in a flake. After noticing the pattern and thinking about it some, I think it's because the "We should..." statement stands alone and doesn't really have any immediacy to it. "Let's catch a show on Friday" might have gotten you a response because it requires more of a response on her part versus the "We should..." Also this.
/r/seduction04/11/10 03:22 AM
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CONTINUED (sorry for the long post, but this is more fun than writing a paper) I used Sunday to wind down from the weekend. In the afternoon I decided to send a text to Katy Perry. I realized I had never learned her name. *Me: * “Would you believe I got Katy Perry’s number on Friday?” *KP: * “Haha lucky you” *Me: * “I think it was the purple tights that did it” *KP: * “Definitely. They were sooo hot on you lol” This went back and forth with a good hour or so between messages until I went to bed.…
/r/seduction04/11/10 03:12 AM
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Great info. I broke too damn many of these rules before I knew about game and PUA.
/r/seduction01/10/10 01:04 AM
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This can be tricky, as once you've crossed the line, it's hard to go back. You shift a ton of value to her and away from yourself and look needy trying to get things back to normal (learned the hard way on this one). The teasing is almost all in the tone you maintain during the delivery. I just started checking out Tyler Durden's RSD Blueprint Decoded at the recommendation of someone else on here and there's a part where he says "The real self always comes through." Basically he's saying that re…
/r/seduction01/10/10 12:55 AM
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Kino. Start small and normal and then work it bigger and bigger.
/r/seduction01/10/10 12:45 AM
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Cheers for going out first of all. Age negs and weight negs are very very tricky to keep from blowing up. After a long while of teasing friends of mine, I've figured out a way to say almost anything I want to a girl, whether I've known her for years or minutes, and (usually) not get slapped. In the middle of the comment, right as I get to the actual neg part, I let a wide grin come over my face. Following this with a quick eye roll and/or cock of the eyebrow, they seem to figure out that I'm tea…
/r/seduction01/10/10 12:42 AM
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Thanks, it's a lot of fun to write about the experiences especially considering that two months ago, I never would have dreamed about them. And that's exactly what I got out of it. I had been on all week and was definitely burnt out. Deciding to turn it off for the rest of the weekend was incredibly helpful and I've been cooling my jets some this week too.
/r/seduction29/09/10 06:18 PM
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Initially, I wasn't going to put this up but I remembered seeing a few comments here and there pointing out that a good majority of the FRs only recount successes and they wanted to see ones that ended otherwise. And as cliche as it sounds, I did learn quite a bit from my failures this weekend. With regards to the girls, you might be right. I was surrounded by fit 18-23 year olds wearing very little clothing all weekend in a city with some of the best weather on earth. I have the feeling I may h…
/r/seduction29/09/10 06:15 PM
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"Did we have reading to do for today?" "What did you think of that essay?" "Did you study for the quiz today?" These have yielded pretty good results for me in terms of conversation starters. They come off pretty innocent but can leave you plenty of room to expand the conversation, especially if you get creative with the last one and use it when you don't have a quiz. I just recently came to the realization of how awesome a resource classes are for meeting people. Once I did, I just started goin…
/r/seduction29/09/10 08:34 AM
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CONTINUED Later that afternoon, while my friend’s sister and I were sitting on the sand and talking, a three-set laid down their towels nearby. My initial assessment was easy – 8, 5, 4, probably sisters or cousins. The 4 pulled out her phone and began jabbering as the 5 produced a volleyball from her bag. She and the 8 started some pepper and I took that as my cue. Looks like you all could use a fourth. Let’s go check out the courts. “Looks like you wanna go check out the volleyball courts?” I s…
/r/seduction29/09/10 07:29 AM
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Yeah :/ that's the tricky part.
/r/seduction22/09/10 03:51 PM
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"Pff. Please." My vote goes to "So am I."
/r/seduction22/09/10 08:56 AM
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I remember a post somewhere where the guy found himself in a similar situation. He wanted to approach a woman on the subway but she had her headphones in. He sat down next to her, pulled out his phone, and typed "whatcha listenin' to?" or something on the notepad and handed it to her. IIRC, he got a number out of it.
/r/seduction22/09/10 08:53 AM
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When I tell stories, bits and pieces of them usually remind me of other stories. Instead of saying "Oh, that reminds of this one when I was in New York, but I'll tell you when I'm done," and closing the loop, you go with it and open another loop inside - "So then I took a bite and it reminded me of eating red caviar in Brighton Beach. I was staying with a friend...blah blah blah." Kind of like Inception, except instead of people sleeping, they're riveted.
/r/seduction21/09/10 09:52 PM
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Thanks! Both my parents were in the book business for years so I'd like to think some of it rubbed off. I got my hands on a copy of The Game about two weeks ago and am about 2/3 of the way through it. Besides general tips about appearance and body language (shoulders back, chest out, smiling, etc.) this was really only the second time I had directly applied pieces from the book/videos. Needless to say, I'm thoroughly impressed.
/r/seduction21/09/10 08:57 PM
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Thanks! The shoes line just popped into my head as it happened and it seemed like a good way to get her to start proving her value to me. Here and there throughout the night she was still dropping little things to try to DHV to me.
/r/seduction21/09/10 08:50 PM
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Sorry for the novel, I'm just feeling too damn good.
/r/seduction21/09/10 04:32 AM
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"Hey, watch the shoes! They're brand new!" "OHMIGOSH I'm so sorry!" the 7 apologized. "She can barely stand up in heels, let alone walk in them." Her friend had joined in - a solid 8. "Seriously, get this girl some training wheels." I was so grateful I had been raised in a family who only showed love in the form of teasing. The negs came quickly and did exactly what they were supposed to and I took turns throwing a few at both of them, each one getting a laugh out of the other. After a little fl…
/r/seduction21/09/10 04:32 AM
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