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Fuck THAT
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/20 06:40 PM
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This. I am SICK of being told “you need to work on yourself” when I’m like uh there’s nothing wrong with me though? Surely there’s a pattern within the men who are fucking abusive? Not me? I don’t WANT to be mistreated ffs it’s almost victim blaming
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/20 04:23 PM
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He must hate male body piercers who do this for a living 😆 CLOSE ALL TATTOO AND PIERCING PARLOURS IMMMMMMMEDIATELY
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/20 07:14 AM
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What the fuck did I just read
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/20 07:00 AM
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Fuuuuuuuuuck! When you put it like that 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/20 06:55 AM
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It’s me. I needed to hear this 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/20 10:14 PM
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I think it referred more to the concept of not needing to ask for needs being met, that they should be being met because he wants to meet your needs of his own accord
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/20 09:10 PM
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I had to switch it off, my vagina sealed shut 😆 I have second hand embarrassment
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/20 11:03 AM
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Phantasies
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/20 10:29 AM
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I fucking cackled 😆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/20 08:02 PM
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Thankyou!!! I notice the snubbing and branding women as “pickmeishas” really degrading in itself? Like, I find some people will simultaneously acknowledge how (for arguments sake) “pickmes” become this way as a result of internalised misogyny, but also in the same breath call then pathetic and embarrassing, which also sounds misogynistic to me! I feel alienated sometimes because I’m not as confident in myself as others are,and I can admit that, but bashing women for being unconfident “pickmes” d…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/20 01:58 PM
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Ahhhhhhh ok that makes sense. Thankyou!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/20 07:48 AM
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Lol I just found it a bit cryptic that’s all I kept reading it and I couldn’t for the life of me understand what was even talking about
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/20 03:02 PM
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I’m really confused I don’t understand what he’s even saying? Am I missing something?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/20 02:49 PM
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Also how does he know if they’re hot or ugly if he’s not looking at either of them 😆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/20 09:30 AM
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Omgg they didn’t even consider this as an option! They literally think even an “ugly” girl would be grateful for their attention or something? ✨delusion✨
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/20 09:27 AM
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If they can apparently wank to fucking Christmas photos (tragic) then the whole idea of “she was asking for it, look how she dresses” concept is out the fucking window! they can’t have it both ways. It’s already a bullshit statement, but this just entirely contradicts that whole logic in a second
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/20 09:22 AM
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Fuck this made me laugh more than I expected an emoji to 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/20 12:02 AM
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Protesting too much because he knows he’s not really a calm type, I can only assume?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/20 11:33 PM
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Sounds fake 😂 or at least sounds like it’s as a result of an argument where he needs to grovel
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/20 10:24 PM
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I don’t know what it is about the word “ladies”, but it always seems to grate on my nerves? Probably because it is always the final word after saying something hideously patronising?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/20 05:45 PM
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Omfg I wish I never asked 🤢 Thankyou I think! Lol 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/20 02:27 PM
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What’s smv? Also I think it was deliberate wtf is wrong with him 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/20 10:05 AM
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God sake I feel like life is a huge minefield 😐 I feel like I’m particularly vulnerable to asshole men too because my own father wasn’t interested so I have the whole “daddy issues” thing despite having an amazing stepdad take over when I was young
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/20 12:54 AM
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Aww!! Thank you!! 😀 xx
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/20 12:53 AM
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Aw I’m gutted that there’s a story like mine because it was devastating to me so probably for her too 😐 people are cruel aren’t they 😢 That’s a good idea thank you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/20 12:31 AM
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I’m 27 now and I actually feel panicky about my age lately tbh 😅 I’m not in a great relationship now actually and I’m legitimately confused and fried and headfuckex even more so so I have A LOT to learn but Thankyou xx
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/20 12:30 AM
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Ohh haha 😂 I don’t understand these things! I’m also in a relationship so I don’t use it anyway I just think what OP did is amazing
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/20 11:37 PM
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Ew 🤢 I was with someone from age 14-24 and I fully agonised why I wasn’t “good enough” for marriage and I felt (at the time) “i just need to be patient! He will eventually! Other girls my age are receiving proposals, my time will come!!” I really thought he loved me, because I loved him. Then 3 days after we returned from our first holiday together, and still regularly sleeping with me and telling me he loved me, he literally out of the blue said “I don’t want you anymore, I’m sorry” i thought h…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/20 11:35 PM
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Literally me lately I’m working on it though pray for me 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/20 11:19 PM
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OMG maybe someone (not me I have no idea how!) should create a new kind of dating app or website or whatever with this kind of thing built Into it? OP you’re awesome 😎
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/20 11:17 PM
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Yeah I have heard of that! I just struggle to recognise or apply the term to real life sometimes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/20 09:28 PM
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Woohoo! I’m getting it 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/20 05:14 PM
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I’ve just realised that’s gaslighting isn’t it!! We observe bad things happening irl but are told they are calm! Have I nailed it? Is this gaslighting? Lol 😂 I get confused by the definition lately because everything seems to be labelled gaslighting but I believe this counts?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/20 05:00 PM
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My favourite thing about this is, when these “tactics” fail him, and he wakes up one day and realises he done fucked up, and NO women go near him, he’s uploaded video evidence of himself being a prick so even if he DOES end up with a relationship one day, she can google him and find this 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 08:07 PM
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Omg! First time I watched Pulp Fiction (I liked the film though) was with a guy I briefly got to know a few years ago. Only in my life for 2 months. He was a fairly new university lecturer, and would CONSTANTLY talk politics AT me, try to school me on feminism, repeatedly drop into conversation about being a male feminist, go on about how his female friend was “in love with him” and he was never interested in anything about me...he criticised my choice of wine when he came to mine one day, and w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 07:19 PM
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Loads of comments are saying things like “couple goals” “beautifully said!” And “this caption speaks the truth” I just can’t stop thinking about his poor ex feeling targeted because he DID target her? Why is he being praised?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 06:13 PM
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I’m 27 and still struggle
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 04:25 PM
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My dad actually refused to call my mother by her name because he “didn’t like her name”...he would refer to her as “she”. My auntie would act dumb like she didn’t know who he was talking about to force him to use her name, and my mother started referring to him as “sperm donor” instead of HIS name then 😂 I don’t have anything to do with my dad he’s never been interested so it’s just a stupid story that seemed relevant here lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/20 11:00 AM
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Because they want to carry on having “control” over her, leaving her would mean giving up control in their eyes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/20 10:56 AM
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I saw this post earlier, and my first thought was “I wonder how long before it ends up on FDS! 🍿“
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/20 05:09 PM
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“B-but ...muh penis! it’s not gonna suck itself! Unlike the vacuum cleaner I used today, which I should now be praised for 😇🍆👅”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/20 05:00 PM
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That’s fucking weird as hell when you point it out on the flip side! 😮 they honestly don’t realise how odd they are behaving
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/20 04:55 PM
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What a patronising sexist wanker! 😘
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/20 04:52 PM
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LOL 😂 I’m using that phrase hahahahahaha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/20 04:40 PM
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Why would he? He’s clearly a decent guy why would her age matter to him?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/20 04:34 PM
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What do you mean? 🤔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/20 04:28 PM
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Jfl I hadn't even thought to make a single submission until this post. Haha probably cuz there’s not much to post until this came along! What a fucking good guy I’m so impressed 😊
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/20 04:27 PM
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Yeah it hit home to me massively! I bend over backwards to justify his poor behaviour and excuse it away with my understanding yet he thinks I have lots of flaws (I think, that’s how he comes across anyway)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/20 08:55 PM
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Ohhhhhhh my god I thought it was two different people! Thanks 😊
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/20 08:52 PM
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I don’t understand this post 😅 can someone explain? 😇
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/20 08:34 PM
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He told me about his own traumas so I felt I could talk to him too. He’s got quite a few red flags that emerged since tbh and I feel confused but I’m currently away from him now
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/20 01:02 PM
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I didn’t know it was gonna happen though in my defence 😐 I’m taking some time for myself now too
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/20 12:48 PM
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That’s legitimately exactly what happens now with my partner 😅 he’s been verbally abusive due to drink problems, and brings up “yeah I’M the worst c*nt ever ARENT I. What about him?” When I call him out on his behaviour. He apologised profusely when sober
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/20 12:06 PM
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But isn’t that a good way to tell if he’s got those red flags? Like if his main concern is “why can’t I do that to you too” not “holy shit I’m sorry you had to put up with that”?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/20 10:01 AM
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So, I think I understand it- they think it’s NOT weak to be nice to friends, family, strangers or acquaintances because they actually WANT to be seen as a “good guy” to them, but it IS weak to be nice to your girlfriend? Isn’t it more weak to think this way? Seems like a control thing maybe? “Everyone else says how NICE I am, you just aren’t grateful” maybe that’s what they’re attempting?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/20 09:46 AM
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This kind of behaviour in certain men really baffles me!! Why wouldn’t you WANT to be kind to your girlfriend? If you’re nice to people, why don’t you wanna be nice to the person you’re meant to be closest to? Do they think it makes them more desirable? I mean obviously not, or they wouldn’t wanna go to effort to been seen as a good guy for other people who they don’t have to at least TRY to keep around - but the one they SHOULD try to treat well to keep them around they do the exact opposite? I…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/20 09:28 AM
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Christ I wish I saw this sooner 😢 my cats live with my mother so thankfully I can get them back, but I haven’t had mine in a full year now because my partner asked me to move in and give up my flat - on the condition I didn’t bring them with me. Me being really codependent I sadly agreed because I fully Thought he was a good man and I had my chance at happiness with him. I’ve been abandoned after ten years by a previous ex with NO warning (he made me leave in 3 days knowing he was gonna dump me …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/20 01:20 AM
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You’re welcome! Thankyou 😊 it’s making me see the imbalance in my own relationship now too, I gotta have a long hard think
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/20 01:14 AM
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I saw it as one person ignoring the red flags because of a specific good trait/ wanting to see them as a good person despite the bad outweighing the good, and the other is ignorant of the good because they’re focused on flaws/imperfections
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/20 01:08 AM
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Thank you! Weirdly i never thought much about it at the time I just felt SO ill for a few days like a zombie or something? Only recently it occurs to me “wow someone intended to attack me then and I was just lucky as fuck”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/20 12:58 AM
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I can only assume when I was spiked around 7 years ago, that it was the barman because I literally didn’t leave my drink out of my own HAND! I had two glasses of wine, and remember N O T H I N G to this day. my boyfriend at the time was alerted by a friend that I had passed out outside the toilets, and he had to carry me home over his shoulder and stick his fingers down my throat because he wanted to get the poison out of me. Not sure if that’s how it works but I think he panicked and I then puk…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/20 10:24 PM
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“Unlike those women who wear tons of makeup, I don’t care about fancy dates 😂” I can feel the smugness!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/20 10:16 PM
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Thank you so much!! I I am currently in a confused state myself (hence my horrible flair) lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/20 08:34 PM
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Nailed it 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/20 02:54 PM
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I do think it wakes up this need in certain people to want to “prove” themselves to that person unfortunately. Like it’s a self esteem thing? “If I can get this unavailable person to approve me I MUST be valuable” Not saying it’s right or healthy but it does work on some people 😐
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/20 01:00 PM
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YES!!! Hahahahaha 😂 that’s brilliant well done 👏🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/20 11:23 AM
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Also blaming women for being fatherless and having “daddy issues” does my head in
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/20 11:18 AM
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He seems to genuinely think it’s a “theory” and a “social/dating hack”? Do you think he innocently believes it’s just a way of keeping dates interested in him and HE’S the insecure one? Or he knows it’s abusive and doesn’t care?either way he’s a massive dick
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/20 10:37 AM
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Absolutely! I am loving this sub so much lately and I wish I found it sooner
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/20 09:47 AM
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I think it probably does work on certain people sadly
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/20 09:36 AM
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I wasn’t either really! I happened to come across it online because it’s considered to be a toxic relationship style (rightfully so) so I had to look it up!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/20 09:35 AM
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I was disgusted reading it, completely repulsive he’s sooooo far gone he sees it as being a HIGH value man
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/20 09:30 AM
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Jesus Christ 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/20 09:06 AM
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Like, you can live with the best intentions to be the best version of yourself, but life won't present you with an HVM regardless, only one manipulative and abusive LVM after another. It is so disheartening :( So at almost 30 I stopped waiting for that HVM unicorn. So when I have best intentions I will STILL only ever meet douchebags? That’s it now?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/20 06:42 PM
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Omg hahahahaha good on you!! Do you have anything you could link me to? No worries if not I’m being cheeky I know!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/20 06:11 PM
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No I know 😐 thanks for the support! I’m torn cuz I’m TERRIFIED of being alone and never finding anyone again. I know I’m being dramatic cuz I’m only 27 but I feel like I’m running out of time
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/20 12:48 PM
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Ahh okay. I get the pick me part but what’s isha?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/20 11:58 AM
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To both comments - thabkyou for replying! The reason I’m confused is because his addiction nurse and my own counsellor who specifically deals with partners of addicts literally told me it CAN make you do and say things they don’t really mean 😐
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/20 11:57 AM
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I actually feel sorry for her because women are constantly told “your biological clock is ticking you’re RUNNING OUT OF TIME BETTER ACT NOW PANIC NOWWWW!! Or you’ll die lonely and old with no family and no man will want you, and you will never be happy” I’m only 27 and I currently panic about starting all over again. I’m with a 40 year old who’s become emotionally and verbally (and lately psychologically) abusive who likes to remind me that I’m “basically 30” and drops hints about women needing …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/20 08:53 AM
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Yeah I can’t explain it properly. I just know what I want. I always wanted a secure relationship with a man and it just doesn’t seem to exist for me, other women have snatched them up or something
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/20 08:17 AM
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To me I actually want a man around that’s what I mean. I had a useless father, never around not interested etc and am only now realising it affected me even though I had a step dad from age 8. I would LOVE to have a man and a child at the same time I just feel so deflated. My current partner is emotionally abusive and I can’t seem to let go so I feel like my life is on hold and everything is crap and impossible and I also feel guilty leaving
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/20 08:15 AM
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They think they’re making an intelligent point, really they’re telling on themselves lolol freaks
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/20 08:13 AM
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Nah I couldn’t do it alone it wouldn’t feel “real” and I wold hate it 😐 I’ve always wanted that “proper family” set up I WANT a decent man why is it so much to ask for 😢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/20 07:09 AM
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I need a long shower after reading this lol 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/20 09:22 PM
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I hate everything about this ☹️ I want kids one day but this scares me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/20 04:06 PM
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I love Daniel Sloss he’s brilliant
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/20 12:02 PM
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Whores who don’t have sex huh!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/20 09:59 PM
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Holy fucking hell!! I’ve made sounds like this I never knew I could make until I had meltdowns as a result of being called every name under the sun. My partner currently has an active addiction to alcohol and repeatedly verbally abuses me and tells me to pack up and leave. When he sobers up, he’s mortified and says he doesn’t mean anything he calls me, and doesnt really want me to leave- it’s all the drink making him childish. He’s having counselling and so am as a result. The other night, when …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/20 10:11 AM
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