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soskrood/r/MarriedRedPill10/09/15 12:18 PM
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My brother committed suicide. The only thing he never tried was psychedelics. I decided to explore them just to see if they might have helped. They would have. It is like dying, but you get to come back. Help him learn to grow some mushrooms, then enjoy the fruits of your labors. You can get all you need for under $100 in raw goods all legally purchased.
/r/askTRP30/04/20 05:48 PM
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def sociopath.
/r/PussyPassDenied30/01/19 01:16 AM
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Spend your off week starting a business specifically designed to bring more women out there. Strip club, coffee shop (female baristas), massage studio - start thinking about all the places young men with more money than sense will go on their week off - and bring it TO them. Pay those women more than what they would get in their hometown doing equivalent work. It was never the gold prospectors that made the real good money. It was the ones back in town selling shovels, and cheap entertainment to…
/r/askTRP12/07/18 12:56 PM
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How many girls are lying about what they look like? All of them. Why do you think the makeup / fashion industries exist? The whole point is to sell you a lie.
/r/askTRP06/07/18 06:49 PM
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Learn to paragraph.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/05/18 02:07 PM
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As far as I can tell, you have 3 options. Continue on, keep it secret, likely to result in an affair and a huge blow up / destruction of life as you know it, or at the least some hurt feelings and lots of drama when (not if) your wife finds out. Cut off the snap chat and all social media this chick is on. Get a new hobby, stay away from anywhere she might be. Put your cards on the table, tell your wife, see if you can get her to tap into her bi-side for a nsa 3-way. Option 1 seems bad. Option 3 …
/r/MarriedRedPill16/10/17 12:49 PM
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It is called inbreeding. All fun and games until your kids come out retarded or with birth defects. There is a reason "Arab" is not associated with "prosperous well run society".
/r/askTRP01/09/17 01:26 PM
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Your welcome. I think it is the same thing as 'delaying gratification' - at least in common parlance they are synonymous. Time preference is the language of economics.
/r/askTRP28/08/17 07:25 PM
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Low time preference is a trait you can develop that highly correlates to success. It is the investor strategy to life instead of the spend all resources strategy. Statistically speaking, having a 2 parent household and graduating from high school puts you ahead of the curve. For Red Pilled guys looking to have kids, this is something to keep in the back of your mind if you are concerned about their success.
/r/askTRP28/08/17 05:51 PM
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The fact that male infant circumcision is culturally acceptable IS NOT a justification to make FGM legal. Rather, we should keep FGM illegal and push to change the culture such that infant male circumcision ALSO becomes illegal in the future. Culture is already shifting - I'm a circumcised (as an infant) male with intact male kids... and my parents agree that this is the more moral choice. Obviously medical issues should be a caveat, but to even ask the question presupposes the answer. We don't …
/r/TheRedPill17/08/17 01:54 PM
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OK Ace - you go get 'em.
/r/askTRP27/07/17 12:13 PM
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Dance CLASS norms are not the same as Dance CLUB norms. Stop making an ass of yourself.
/r/askTRP27/07/17 12:02 PM
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The death of our other child. Condolences. This should have been in the OP. That event often ends marriages. I think it is possible to stop this behavior in your wife without coming across as butt-hurt. Even after 23 years she is still the oldest child in the room. Let her know her behavior is unacceptable and here are the consequences if she doesn't stop. At this point, time is not on your side. It takes time to become high-value, time for the workout to show, time to develop outside interests,…
/r/MarriedRedPill31/01/17 05:33 PM
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You have learned nothing. One of the staples of RP is 'own your shit'. If stealing isn't against your morals, own your stealing. The fact that you didn't own your stealing and instead tried to lie about it shows you aren't RP. If you aren't RP, what are you then? A fucking thief. A fucking thief who most certainly hasn't 'learned their lesson'. Maybe fix your morals until some truly RP person (or a cop) who gives no fucks about you makes your life hell.
/r/askTRP19/12/16 04:56 PM
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You do you. If she sucks, you file. Why wait for her to find some balls?
/r/MarriedRedPill04/10/16 07:38 PM
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You both sound like excellent LTR material.
/r/askTRP26/09/16 06:12 PM
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grool?
/r/MarriedRedPill15/09/16 07:38 PM
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It is a good ~$125 investment. I think they are sold under a different name now - battery is definitely the way to go (pre-programmed patterns). My wife was also apprehensive for a few days + all of about 3 minutes when it was suddenly elevated to status of 'favorite'.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/08/16 07:55 PM
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Ditch the hormone bc, have a look at copper iud. Also sidebar.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/01/16 07:25 PM
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Chestnuts roasting on an open fire, Thundercock nipping at her doooooor.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/12/15 05:02 PM
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I was going to go the male chastity cage route - give her the key... so romantic.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/12/15 03:04 PM
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Read SGM. I think something that would really help is the immersion aspect. Start talking during sex. While pounding her good start using 'ownership' language. Things like 'this x is mine', followed up with the question 'who ownes x?' The idea being to pull her into the head space where her body is yours to do with as you please. Make her say it. Once she is in that space, she won't be able to object to (or want to object to) a particular sex act. You want a taco? You already own it. Her O's are…
/r/MarriedRedPill14/09/15 01:12 PM
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Why what? Train my kids? Show my wife the different types of marriages? For my sake and for their sake. People with knowledge do the world good by sharing it. At the very least, some of the stuff I know might save them from bad choices. You can lead a horse to water, but can't make em drink. I agree that no marriage today has the societal laws and backdrop that they did ~50 years ago, so in that sense yes I agree that marriage 1.0 is dead. We do have a lot of non-red flags (what is the antonym o…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/09/15 04:50 PM
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I agree. I think the approach I'm going to take is to walk her through marriage 1.0 (which we have) and marriage 2.0 (which most everyone else has). If she is unhappy about something I've done or something in OUR marriage, we can address that. To be fair, I don't care what she reads. What I care about is if what she reads causes issues for me - like 'talks' that don't need to happen. If she is unhappy about my view of marriage in general (marriage 2.0) then that's just to bad. I can't make marri…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/09/15 04:54 PM
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Yeah - I made that mistake over a year ago when I first discovered it. Now I never bring it up (haven't for at least 6 months), but she has been lately. It seems like she is always trying to see if I'm using the red pill on her. I take that to mean I need to internalize it better so that interactions are less artificial (for lack of a better word). Plan of action - keep lifting heavy, find a group of friends for Wednesday nights (an ideal would be a band), up the SMV as high as my mid-30's self …
/r/MarriedRedPill10/09/15 02:15 PM
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til nice guys are liars. Women want alphas because they are manly - not because they are more honest. Machiavellian game works. Lying thugs never have a shortage of women. It is the confidence that is a turn on, not the honesty (or lack there of).
/r/MarriedRedPill05/09/15 01:55 PM
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I was mulling over this a bit more and I think another good tactic would have been to put on your best bad french accent and shoo your wife out of the kitchen "ze chef is crafting ze masterpiece and cannot be disturbed - now shoo!" (always refer to yourself in the 3rd person). Turn up your music (ze chef requres ze music!) and own that space for breakfast. In any case, just smiling is a huge first step. And lift.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/09/15 12:51 PM
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Your wife sounds like a real treat. For shit test 1 I would respond to her with what she should be saying to you... something like "thank you wonderful hubby for making this delectable breakfast". That would point out to her that she is being a bitch instead of showing gratitude... hopefully changing the tone for the rest of the morning. The more overblown your compliment to yourself the better. Water on my counter = wet fingertips and flick at her, or say something like "Gordon Ramsey says a we…
/r/MarriedRedPill03/09/15 12:26 PM
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I second the IUD. Wife has copper. No hormones to mess with, no scares, very minimal impact on sex life - can occasionally feel it if the stars align. Been in for 4 years. Cutting up bits of body for risk free sex seems so last century.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/08/15 01:54 PM
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Hat Tip (I think).
/r/MarriedRedPill29/07/15 01:12 AM
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Yeah - you failed. First, if she turns you down for sex, leave the house (won't be around for upcoming shit test). Second, if she starts crying, leave the house (won't be able to give into said shit test). Third, if you do give in and she gives you lip "was that so hard" - take the food back and throw it out or eat it yourself. Any sacrifice you make MUST be met with appreciation. Bringing her food is not a 'bare minimum' - that's extra. Stop doing this immediately. She won't starve, though she …
/r/MarriedRedPill27/06/15 06:25 PM
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I love you more than any other person in this world, which is why I currently choose to share my life with you. If that changes, I'll let you know.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/05/15 02:39 PM
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First - its 'baptism', not babtism. Since you had good spelling the rest of the post, i thought I'd point it out. The biggest thing you can do here is set boundaries and organize stuff. Have a mental itinerary for the parents - these are the times / places we will see you over this 'vacation'. Since they are your parents, maybe allot more time for YOU to be with them (take em out for a beer or something) and let your wife have time at home away from them. Do not let them encroach on your family …
/r/MarriedRedPill20/03/15 11:16 PM
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Entering a man space and participating is not fucking up. She doesn't have a right to be mad, she just is mad. Stop pretending your posting here is a mistake. Own it and she'll get over it. I told my wife about the red pill. She has shit tested me a few times about it... just ignore. It stops when they become happier because you handle your shit. Women are both curious and terrified of the locker room. They want to look in, but get offended by all the cock. You don't need to apologize for the lo…
/r/MarriedRedPill20/03/15 11:52 AM
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Stop letting her have 'rules'. TELL HER that this is your fantasy night and here is YOUR rule: That she does what you say when you say it. No questions. This is important, in part because it gives her plausible deniability for her actions. She can act more like a slut for you because it's your night and she agreed. Then you proceed to own that - you pick out her cloths (panties or no) - you bring the camera, you pick the restaurant or club - do what turns you on. She is along for the ride, and y…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/02/15 07:35 PM
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Here is how I would approach. Ask her to give up this best friend for you. Zero contact. If she is, then maybe ltr material. She probably isn't though, so downgrade or next. If you already know the answer, act accordingly.
/r/askTRP05/02/15 01:56 PM
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I hate to say this, but your wife is toxic. I wouldn't accept such behavior out of my kids, let alone a woman who claims to be an adult. That's assault, and I'd be lawyering up. Whether or not you can red-pill the situation is almost irrelevant - the woman is crazy.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/01/15 11:53 PM
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Your wife has zero respect for you. If she can't handle your decision on one breakfast for your kid. The entire thing was a shit test. She wasn't actually concerned about your kids carb intake. That was an excuse to be an ass. I'm not sure exactly how to handle that particular situation. Suffice it to say you married an emotional 8 year old. Do not agree with her and take responsibility for her piss-poor behavior. This was all on her. Go lift, don't talk to her until you get a full apology from …
/r/TheRedPill28/09/14 01:09 PM
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Mini-golf. The entire sport is a sexual innuendo. Just tell her "we're going out, wear a skirt and tennis shoes". Write goofy shit on the scorecard so she can take it home to remember the event.
/r/askTRP15/08/14 03:03 PM
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I've got a quick question about this. One of the things I've heard is that when your wife is having a fit and want you to do X, make sure that you do not do X. For example, if your wife is yelling at you for not taking out the trash, under no circumstances should you take the trash out. It reinforces that yelling at you gets results. I understand in this situation its difficult because the issue was putting your child to bed - but I would have been tempted to leave the house myself at that point…
/r/askTRP13/08/14 03:16 PM
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I'm going to go against the grain on this one. My recommendation is as follows: 1. Double and tripple check that this man is someone you fully trust and are confident with his leadership. Talk to friends, family, trusted advisers, religious influences to find any negative warning signs. Does he go out drinking regularly? Does he plan for his future (even if poor now)? What are his 5 year goals? 2. If you are satisfied with your chosen mate, then weigh his opinion on it very heavily. 3. Push for …
/r/RedPillWomen22/07/14 03:48 PM
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Here is an excellent 45 minute talk about this subject by Walter Block (an economist at loyola university). Check it out - you will probably learn more about economics in this 45 minutes than you would in any college lvl course. The root cause is not 'feminism', but rather choices people make. Strip away the BS, and women are much more expensive employees. Their medical needs are higher, as is the risk for extended leave for pregnancy. This alone accounts for the gap. If you control for 'never m…
/r/TheRedPill12/07/14 06:51 PM
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I think the OP did a great job in handling a delicate situation. Think about this from a captain / first mate dynamic with the rolls reversed. I'm sure you have all heard the phrase 'no man left behind'. That is basically what happened here. Yes, the root cause was his own physical fitness, but it was supposed to be a casual fun social ride, not a race. If the rolls were reversed, I'd wager my last dollar that he never would have gone more than 15 yard ahead the entire ride. My wife and I play r…
/r/RedPillWomen03/07/14 05:28 PM
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"Dude" wrote on a RPW forum asking for advice. He didn't mention his sex, so it is assumed he is a woman. The tone and demeanor he took in the question was also feminine. The 'destructive behaviors' he listed are traditional manly behaviors. He mentioned 3 things - smoking, going to bars, disciplining children. I gave answers to those 3 things, and then pointed to his womanish tendencies as a source of those problems. His gender doesn't matter - his behavior to other people does. Nagging is not …
/r/RedPillWomen25/06/14 05:07 PM
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Say for example, your husband took up smoking after you have been together, or started going to bars instead of coming home, became insanely strict with your children. How would you handle these behaviors? I took up smoking at my old job. Root cause - stress at old job / peer group also smoked. The wife never complained about it, and I quit on my own (no nagging) when I started my new job. I don't go to bars after work, but if I did it would be because home life is too stressful (not a soft plac…
/r/RedPillWomen25/06/14 02:18 PM
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I think your idea on the whole is not so good, but the position of dominance that it came from is a good start. The good: you see a problem and want to act on it and use a tactic to get what you want (more sex). The bad... keeping charts is petty and likely to backfire. Its also a lot more difficult that working on frame. What you should do instead is work out and build frame. Say you want sex in the evening, in the morning when you are prepping lunches for work interrupt her by grabbing her hip…
/r/TheRedPill20/06/14 02:28 PM
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The discipline issue is huge in a relationship, and if you are aiming to be red pill, then you can't confront him in the moment about his methods. If you object to a particular action, save it for the next day. Never do it in front of the kid. If he did go overboard, trying to scold him about it in the moment won't have an effect - where as a calm discussion later will give him time to reflect on his actions (good or bad). I still think about specific disciplinary decisions years after the fact.…
/r/RedPillWomen13/06/14 06:57 PM
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Tell your husband (show him the texts). Make sure he knows that he has your full support and backing whatever happens. It sounds like he (not you) needs to draw the line in the sand with his mom. The MIL is trying to put a wedge in your marriage (intentionally or not) - and that isn't helpful in the slightest. Comparisons to dead people never works out in favor of the living. Too much idealism - you can't live up to that, so don't try. Your husband should tell his mom to cut that crap out, or be…
/r/RedPillWomen30/05/14 02:52 PM
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Do you agree with slut shaming? Is that not the same thing - using shame to change the behavior of sluts? I believe that society would be a bit better off if we used more slut shaming to shape promiscuous young women. Beta Orbiters likewise need something to knock them out of their strategy. Probably not shame - but straight forward truth and good RP advice will go a long way. That said, I agree it isn't a moral imperative. I think society would be better off if these strategies and their outcom…
/r/RedPillWomen29/04/14 04:12 PM
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women dont owe "men" sparing their feelings any more than men owe "women" sparing their feelings by not pumping and dumping them. men who try the beta orbiter strategy are grown ups who are responsible for the consequences of their own freely taken actions. if a mans lavishing attention on an nonreciprocating women hes the male equivalent of a sexually promiscuous women and its up to him how to behave. With knowledge comes responsibility. Most of these men don't understand the relationship dynam…
/r/RedPillWomen29/04/14 03:43 PM
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Men and women cannot be just friends. Please spare us men our emotions and do not try to be friends with us unless you have romantic interest in us. Men often suffer from oneitis. We won't pick up on the hints. While it may work for you women to have a caring puppy dog man on the side, that poor guy is ultimately wasting his time chasing something he will never have. Do him a favor and cut him off early. It hurts, but it is better than leading him on in involuntary celibacy. http://www.ladderthe…
/r/RedPillWomen29/04/14 02:12 PM
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I'd like to give a male opinion (successfully married 11 year, always learning to be a better person) and hopefully some ideas for change. First of all, rape sucks. Sin begets sin, and I think you are correct in your assessment that your controlling behavior is caused (in part) by having lost control in that experience. This doesn't excuse your own current behavior, but naming it can help you identify what needs fixing. What is your N? (I don't really care, just ask yourself). My guess is it is …
/r/RedPillWomen23/04/14 04:59 PM
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Most likely people women and their white knights will get together and form a institution that resembles a government bureaucracy. Thus ending anarchy. Fixed.
/r/TheRedPill22/04/14 01:05 AM
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Hiring Women comes with a very specific risk - pregnancy. Most countries have compulsory paid maternity leave. In Europe, the most countries have between 14-16 weeks 100% paid maternity leave. That means if a woman gets pregnant, she gets 1/3 of a year of paid vacation... no productivity at all required. Add in that very substantial risk to employers, and it makes sense that a woman's wages are less on average. Even if there are no intentions of child rearing, it is still a quantifiable risk tha…
/r/TheRedPill11/04/14 03:17 PM
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My opinion is that at 21-22 it is sometimes difficult to separate the wheat from the chaff. So far life has been nothing but school (for most people) and often that change into a real job can be difficult. Since you didn't complain about any drug or alcohol issues, and he isn't abusive and he maintains your interest, then I would consider him a 'catch'. When my wife and I got married right out of college (I was 22, she was 23) she was the main breadwinner with a teaching job. I worked odd jobs a…
/r/RedPillWomen03/04/14 03:15 PM
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Money says that blondie leaves beta for loud - 1 month.
/r/TheRedPill30/03/14 07:26 PM
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Male here (so if I'm not supposed to be, please tell me nicely :)). One piece of advice I heard early on in my 11 year marriage is that if you need to 'spice' things up, take a week or 2 and decide not to have sex in the bedroom. The bedroom is for sleeping. Kitchen table, couch, laundry room, car (in park somewhere)... anyplace but the bedroom. You don't even need to do anything else 'kinky' - the act of doing it someplace else does the work for you. Edging is a great idea. I don't know what yo…
/r/RedPillWomen25/03/14 12:05 AM
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I don't think you know what the words subjective and objective mean. >The subjective utility of cars, on an aggregate basis, results in an objective indicator of its usefulness. It is objective because it is not based on any singular assessment - its based on the extrapolation to a population as a whole. If the world was full of Amish people, or people who could teleport, then cars would have no utility. But the world isn't full of Amish people, so cars are highly useful for average people. I un…
/r/TheRedPill19/03/14 10:49 PM
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If cars were removed from the world right this moment, the entire world economy would likely grind to a halt (at least, in every first world country). Is it your contention that the same thing (or something equally as bad) would happen if guns similarly disappeared? hint: the economies where gun ownership is highly restricted still function similarly. Yes. I consider totalitarian governments an evil worse than a crippled economy. Guns in the hands of a populace are the first (and only) line of d…
/r/TheRedPill19/03/14 08:04 PM
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not gun owner. Yes, guns have the same utility as a car (if not more so) and are therefore worth the (relatively small) number of accidents. The utility might be undervalued by you - say the utility of 'freedom' vs the utility of 'transportation'... but guns do have utility >= cars. The issue is the power to kill in an instant without reflection or deliberation. In one moment, a person dies? Most of the time, this sort of killing is done by the very representatives of government that you want to…
/r/TheRedPill19/03/14 05:57 PM
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