sosmartsocrazy Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
24	I feel like unattractive women objectively get treated a lot worse by men at large, despite self-esteem?! 100%. I lost 60 lbs a few years back and it's staggering how much better my male 'friends' and colleagues treated me. I'm the exact same, personality-wise, so I don't buy that bullshit about being a different person. I'm just not invisible anymore due to being less fat.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/04/20 05:15 AM
3	A 22yo woman was asking for advice because her boyfriend was emotionally blackmailing her about anal, despite her trying many times and not being into it because of the pain. A Pickmeisha sex worker came out of the woodwork to defend male depravity. Pornsickness is a dealbreaker! Yep. It was awful.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/04/20 07:20 AM
41	Watch your thoughts Someone once told me "don't live out the relationship in your head before it's begun." It's really helped me put a stop to those wandering thoughts.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	01/03/20 07:08 PM
5	Sociologist has similar opinions to FDS It's available on Hoopla as an audiobook if your local library participates!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	20/02/20 02:49 AM
3	I miss my toxic ex. Making a list is a great idea, and in the future, do it immediately, while you're hurting the most. Write down not only these awful things, but be very honest with yourself about how they make you feel and get that on paper as well. Sometimes we start to forget the bad parts and idolize the good parts, but we must not forget those feelings. Also, completely remove reminders of him from your life as much as possible. The only thing that will heal is time, and eliminating things that make you thin…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	31/01/20 05:57 AM
12	I like long walks on the beach, Pina colada, my cat and murdering my ex gf. Serious inquiries only plz. There used to be a show on TV called Prison Wives. Their incarcerated spouses (usually lifers or on death row) always managed to convince the women that they were innocent and their next (4th, 5th, 6th) appeal would be the one that freed them. One woman even bought her hubby a truck and thousands of dollars in tools for "when he gets out," while barely living paycheck to paycheck herself. It made me sick and sad, they've either got to be so emotionally stunted that it's safe to let down those wa…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	31/01/20 04:46 AM
78	so over these low effort low value men!! If I wanted to make the first move I would be on bumble 🙄 I spent the first few days on Hinge coming up with interesting responses to guys' answers on their profiles. What do I get? Likes on pictures. If I wanted likes I'd be on Instagram!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	19/01/20 02:14 AM
9	How to show and express my needs/standards? So I'll address the situation you had with guy 3. Choose for yourself an amount of time that you're willing to give as a grace period. Stuff happens from time to time, so for me, it's 5 minutes, unless he communicates the need to reschedule ahead of time. Then, after that grace period has elapsed, don't answer the call. You're a busy woman with an exciting life and don't have the time to wait around for him if he is perpetually late. You don't have to speak up about it or say anything, but if he…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	18/01/20 10:43 PM
2	Dudes always say “Text me when you get home” at the end of a date. I NEVER do it. If you’re worried about my safety, you can follow up later to see if I’m still alive. He’s not being “sweet & caring”, it’s just a lazy way for a “good guy” to score brownie points. Thoughts??? 🤔 Every once in awhile I'll get a response the next day "oops sorry got busy" or "sorry I fell asleep." What would happen if I didn't make it home safely and was asking for help? If we're dating for awhile and you really want me to get home safe? Pick me up.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	18/01/20 10:04 PM
3	Dudes always say “Text me when you get home” at the end of a date. I NEVER do it. If you’re worried about my safety, you can follow up later to see if I’m still alive. He’s not being “sweet & caring”, it’s just a lazy way for a “good guy” to score brownie points. Thoughts??? 🤔 I have mixed feelings about this. It can be sweet but it seems like some guys say it out of habit or obligation. When they ask me to let them know I'm home safe, half the time I get no response at all when I do so. Don't ask if you don't care!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	18/01/20 08:59 PM
4	What dating apps have you tried that you had success with? I swear my area must have nothing but fuckboys on all of the apps. Badoo, MeetMe, OkCupid, Hinge, and WooPlus. They're all the same.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	18/01/20 06:43 AM
20	Man realizing what the majority of women go through everyday I was fortunate enough to get a scholarship to study my passion (cybersecurity). I saved up a bit of money and pulled a bit from retirement to pay the big bills, and picked up an on-call type job that lets me work from home to pay for groceries and everyday expenses. I'm living very frugally for now but it is well worth it.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	13/01/20 08:00 PM
95	Man realizing what the majority of women go through everyday I didn't realize how much a full-time job took it out of me until I quit to go back to school. Now the house is clean, my fitness is on point, and everything gets taken care of in a timely manner. I'm either going to find a remote or part-time job to keep the momentum going.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	13/01/20 04:14 PM
7	17 year old girl upset people are shaming her relationship with a 61 year old man. I Severely hope this is a troll. I agree. The comments of support are so concerning.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/12/19 04:31 PM
9	17 year old girl upset people are shaming her relationship with a 61 year old man. I Severely hope this is a troll. Based on the OP's follow up comment, both parties are male.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/12/19 03:51 PM
13	ProPublica: Tinder let’s known sex offenders use the app I used to have a job involving working around sex offenders in the community, and the number of those individuals that found me on dating apps is overwhelming. I reported them each and every time and provided links to their information on the publicly available registries, and if the app did anything about it like deleting their profile, they would just make a new one. Always get a guy's last name and search before you meet them. I've only had a few refuse to provide it after explaining it was f…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/12/19 09:16 PM
2	Online dating men are not worth it. He got mad because I ignored his invitation to f*** and called me a little bitch Unfortunately this seems to be standard operating procedure for men on MeetMe. So many low effort boys who get offended when their acronym slang doesn't get you hot and needy. No thanks!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	01/12/19 10:56 PM