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thanks for the thorough response, this really helps!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/22 08:08 PM
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exactly what i was thinking! like he does something to upset me u best know i be chomping lmaooo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/20 04:44 PM
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I get horny when I’m drunk and my partner refused to have sex with me...even though I was butt ass naked and grinding on him lmao. He said if I still wanted to have sex when I was sober, he’d be down and ofc I was.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 04:49 AM
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He didn't want to lose me and girl it SHOWS. I told him I didn't want to be in a relationship w someone who doesn't reciprocate my love & he literally has the cutest puppy eyes, so when he started crying, not only did I start crying (LMAO), but I also knew he was serious & that it really reached him. Granted, he does do A LOT for me, but he's just not good at expressing his feelings and not good at planning. He's working on that after I talked w him & he's def getting a lot better. I'm happy to …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/20 02:53 PM
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Source?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/20 06:49 AM
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The handbook will now be your Bible
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/20 06:31 AM
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Exactly what I told her. My partner wasn’t the best at planning dates, so I told him to either step it up or I’m leaving, and he definitely stepped up. He planned our weekend getaway (before he goes back to work) to an amusement park we both really wanted to go to! He rented our car, found a really nice room (w a jacuzzi!), made reservations for activities outside of the park which are a surprise, etc. he’ll be doing all of the driving while I sit back & watch movies lol. For more context, I’m a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/20 01:29 AM
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My therapist said I need to tell my partner how to love me & that I shouldn’t expect him to plan dates 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/20 08:15 PM
6

I'm not a huge social media person, just use Reddit really. No IG, Twitter, Snapchat, Vine (when it existed), Tiktok, etc. I use Whatsapp for work. I mostly use Reddit for FDS, r/childfree, news, & vegan stuff.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/20 01:43 PM
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I didn’t even know this about him. How disgusting. I don’t use FB and haven’t in a LONG time, and now never will again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/20 07:00 PM
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even her inhales after every sentence are so annoying edit: now i finally understand that tiktok where the girl mimics the "pick me, choose me, love me"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/20 06:24 PM
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I like to look good and carry myself in a way that exudes power & dominance. I also seem kind of aggressive, so that prolly helps as well haha. It's only when I open my mouth coworkers realize i'm actually alive & social lol. only social w the ppl i like ofc. This guy tried flirting w me at work, but he was just being annoying af, so i just looked him right in the eye and held it for a few seconds, before walking away. then every encounter after that, if he tried talking to me, i just pretend i …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/20 06:22 PM
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wtf no. i call my bf "sugar tits" for fun lol. he never calls me any derogatory names tho.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/20 05:49 PM
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Or worse, shopping while hungry. I make so many bad decisions.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/20 05:38 PM
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Make an alarm an hour or so into the date and say it’s a phone call to make it more convincing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 04:18 AM
5

Yep, I fell for it too, but it magically worked out for me. But I’ve since grown a lot while still having the same partner. He treats me like a Queen & I was in such a dark place, so I’m very lucky to have this turn out so well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/20 04:42 AM
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Would’ve chucked that shit so far.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/20 04:08 AM
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Has anything ever gone wrong? I’m sorry, but this just sounds like my worst nightmare. I would be so scared. I’m also a domestic violence survivor, so it’s not unfounded lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/20 03:18 AM
6

Yup exactly. I’m also 21 with no kids so I’m expecting resistance, but this is what I want and I will get it no matter what.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/20 02:19 AM
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If you go to r/childfree in their wiki, you’ll find more info there. But basically it’s a binder where you explain your reason to be sterilized, that you understand all the risks, the procedure, the fact that it’s permanent, give your consent, and just show your research. Highlighting the fact that you do not want any (or more) children and are willingly ending your fertility.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/20 12:25 AM
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LMAO okay
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 04:31 PM
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Nah sis, if my partner did that to me, I would bite. Hard.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 04:26 PM
5

You’re so right. Didn’t even realize.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 04:23 PM
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Exactly. Teach them from a young age.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 03:33 PM
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Wow. That’s crazy. I’m so sorry. My father was very abusive to all of us including my mother, so I def recognize the signs and avoid men who resemble my father. I don’t take shit anymore after running away so i’m a lot happier, esp considering the stats that women who were in abusive situations tend to attract the same kind of men bc its familiar.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 03:32 PM
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She usually wears very loose boxy clothing, but i think she uploaded a pic of her wearing a bikini or something & she was shamed for her body sooo much.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 03:20 PM
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Added it to my list :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 03:12 PM
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This 100x times over.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 03:11 PM
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That guy in the article is so manipulative. He’s been with her since she was 13. No wonder why he was able to guilt her into it. She literally admits that he finds some pleasure in telling her things like he wants to leave & go to Europe one day, but he doesn’t mention her. He smiles while doing so. Also, how do you talk about another woman to your girlfriend? & describe how sexy she is??? What the fuck. It sounded as if she’s not with him anymore, but she would be down to do it again. I feel ba…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 03:09 PM
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I’m literally preparing a sterilization binder for my consultation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 03:02 PM
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And he included the receipt and everything? The lack of effort shows.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 03:01 PM
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Not even. I wouldn’t do that for anything.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 02:52 PM
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Honest qs: why does anyone wanna live there? It’s so expensive!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 09:39 AM
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Starter wives/gfs
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/20 04:23 PM
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She’s beautiful and he looks like a thumb.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 09:25 PM
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The second I see “your” instead of “you’re” or other very simple grammar mistakes, I move on. These are grade school grammar errors. Pathetic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 09:21 PM
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Ooh and put a side of grilled dog and wow, I am literally drooling.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 04:04 PM
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“Meat is life” can’t say that to those brutally murdered cows https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LQRAfJyEsko
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 03:14 PM
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Unrelated but her thighs look like mine and it makes me feel better about it. I have a shit ton of body image issues, but i’m working on it. Thanks for posting
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 06:02 AM
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I was sobbing the other night for about an hour bc of the pain
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/20 01:43 PM
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??? Um no. Lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 05:38 PM
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Aw
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 05:28 PM
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LMAO WTF. Who does this shrimp dick skin looking like cheese on cold pizza think he is?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 05:11 PM
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Thanks y’all lmao. I get it now
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 04:55 PM
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No, you’re right. My bad 🥺
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 04:54 PM
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I’m confused, what’s wrong with her tweet?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 02:26 PM
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I wouldn't even ask him what his type is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 05:26 PM
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OMG if this happened to me, I would go fucking ballistic. Like my child could've died bc my partner wanted to get his dick wet???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 05:20 PM
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Oh my god. That's horrible. I would've knocked the shit out of him, how dare he, pathetic POS.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 04:03 PM
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lmao cactus but same
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 01:57 PM
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Lmao I said chill bc you were really going in on me, a stranger you don't know shit about besides what was said in ONE comment. Yes, you can be a terrible person due to trauma. My mother is a horrible person, for example, she heated up a fork on the stove and stabbed me with it when I was in elementary school for making my sister cry, but she was not like this before my dad. And that's just one person right off the top of my head. "I know people that have went through worse than you that aren't …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 05:01 AM
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I haven't been diagnosed bc I haven't seen my psychiatrist for long enough. I've been abused sexually, physically, and emotionally by my father for 19.5 years, tried to kill myself a few times, ended up in the psych ward, and am now connected to a therapist & psychiatrist after running away bc my father was trying to marry me off to a much older man. I literally said "not everyone with bpd is the same", so chill. I get what you're trying to say, I really do, but you can be a "terrible" person bc…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 04:41 AM
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Honestly, I'm a pretty horrible person lol. I haven't been diagnosed with bpd, but it runs in my family and I'm pretty sure I have it since I exhibit literally all of the symptoms. Obviously not everyone with bpd is the same, but I can see why it has the reputation it has to some extent. Working on myself though and have very loving & caring relationships, so it's definitely something everyone with bpd can work on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 04:15 AM
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I keep talking about cptsd & bpd to my psychiatrist, therapist, etc. and i'm on lamictal for stabilizing my mood and they never diagnose me. they say it could be bipolar, but that's it. i'm frustrated bc i just feel like i'm left in the dark. edit: domestic violence survivor, was there since birth-19.5 years old (21 now)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 04:08 AM
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Yep, exactly what I thought. Being proud of your body, like girl you do you. But her message & seeing her profile pic, it really sounds like she's the 'cool girl' or the modern feminist at least.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/20 03:26 PM
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I know what she’s trying to say, but it sounds a little degrading.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/20 08:46 PM
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SAME. My partner took it slowly and did not expect anything from me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/20 02:13 PM
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So cute
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/20 01:59 PM
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Lmaooo if this ain’t the truest shit
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/20 01:58 PM
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I told my coach (college program) about me cutting my abusive mom off and she STILL implies, after she knows what my mom did to me, that I’m a bad daughter if I did it. When I told her that I wanted to be sterilized, she repeatedly told me it would never happen. I cut my mom out of my life & currently working on a “sterilization binder” for any consultation bc women have a much harder time being sterilized, but that won’t stop me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/20 03:26 PM
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Are we playing a game of “who had it worse”?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/20 03:21 PM
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Lmaooo “I hope you step on a lego”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/20 02:57 PM
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What the fuck. If my partner did his, I would yeet him out the door.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/20 02:56 PM
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he wants a therapist
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/20 04:49 PM
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Awww, how adorable. This is exactly the kind of "wooing" we all need.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/20 04:45 PM
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My partner endearingly calls me "babe" or "baby" or other cute names that we make up along the way like I one day called him Mr. Foo Foo (thanks ATLA) and now he calls me Mrs. Foo Foo. Someone called him a potato on this game once so now I call him potato lmao. He calls me his strawberry shortcake, cutiepie, munchkin, love, etc etc etc. I think they're all very sweet pet names and I return them too. I see nothing wrong with it if it's, like how everyone says below, at least after a couple months…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/20 04:40 PM
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I hate when I see females instead of women. Like it's taboo to say women now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/20 04:30 PM
2

Yep, also the risk of either being a forever girlfriend or a starter wife.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/20 01:17 PM
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That makes a lot of sense to me! Maybe reach out to a mod or keep commenting/posting?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/20 08:20 PM
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Why do you have a pickmeisha flair? Just curious
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/20 08:02 PM
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Why Belle Should Have Chosen Gaston Powerpoint presentation Lesson on why you should focus on yourself until the right man presents himself and delete every other man who does not meet your standards.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/20 07:48 PM
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EXACTLY. Like what the fuck, YOU proposed to ME. If you're not 100% into me, bye!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/20 05:42 PM
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Why he even told her that he found his spin teacher hot is another question I have.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/20 05:41 PM
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Definitely not wrong. My mom was/is like that, still staying with her abusive husband bc community & her thinks it's noble and God will love her for it. Big eyeroll there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/20 05:39 PM
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Manchildren create more stress than real children because at least for real kids, you don't have any expectations.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/20 05:38 PM
10

Nope. Not having kids at all for many reasons, but this is one of the top reasons.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 02:44 AM
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Facts
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 02:25 AM
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She’s so beautiful too. Glad she learned from her mistakes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 01:18 AM
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Nah sis he don’t deserve a woman like you. Glad you’re moving out
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 01:12 AM
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Bf’s on unemployment while I’m still working and he is the perfect househusband. Cooks, dishes, laundry, does basically anything I ask him to do (ofc nicely), takes me to and from work, any cleaning like vacuuming, mopping, etc etc etc. He is super okay with it and tells me he loves doing it for me & taking care of me. This is the only way I would be the breadwinner, if he stays home and is the perfect househusband. Otherwise, yeet him out the house & he better be working.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 01:11 AM
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Exactly. 🙄 This whole sub is about giving women a voice and empowering women. We know “not all men”, you don’t have to repeat it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 01:02 AM
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Lmao was looking thru that sub and lmaooo the men on there are SO pathetic 😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/20 07:27 PM
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OMG LMAO
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 11:50 PM
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I can definitely relate. I also had to be a second mom to my brother and thus, I don’t want any kids of my own. I hate kids now because I had to raise him. I still love him, but I wish he was never born. My family is very abusive and the culture is very toxic. I don’t think he’ll grow up to be a good man. When he was 2-3 years, it was the absolute worst. Shit on the walls, toys everywhere, crumbs everywhere, roaches bc I was the only one who really cleaned and they made messes ALL the time and I…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 11:50 PM
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Caramelized onions?? I hate uncooked onions 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/20 01:24 AM
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Wtf
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/20 08:34 PM
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I remember this one serial killer (don't rem who) said that he would go around and see whose door is unlocked, bc that was them basically agreeing to be killed. Keep your doors locked.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/20 10:33 PM
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i don't know and i never saw him again after last summer so i'll never know anyways
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/20 08:06 PM
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That's what I thought at first, but why would he openly carry two phones then? You can easily see it in his back pocket. But anyways, I hope he wasn't.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/20 07:41 PM
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professionally, i would definitely address it since these people i will be seeing on a long-term basis. but for someone who catcalls me or someone just not worth my effort or energy & just looks pathetic af, walk away. you're better than that. i love ignoring deluded, arrogant men. it makes them sooo angry hahaha.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/20 03:22 AM
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i didn't even know that was a thing
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/20 03:10 AM
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SAME. i knew this guy from work and i asked him why he had 2 phones & he said he kept his old iPhone (switched to android) bc his girlfriend preferred iMessage. that was cute to hear.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/20 03:09 AM
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the left ones are tolerable, but the right ones vomit
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/20 02:35 AM
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blocked
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/20 12:49 AM
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and even just the fact that women tend to live longer than men. there are so many wives who outlive their husbands. even though men benefit from marriage more than women, and they still die early lmao.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/20 04:23 PM
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same. my SO is extremely supportive and he only cares about my wellbeing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/20 04:21 PM
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lmao raggedy mountain of pubes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/20 04:15 PM
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well can we just talk about the women who are abused and killed every year by these violent men? not trying to downplay the men who could be innocent, but let's focus on the women as this whole subreddit is focused on women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/20 04:12 PM
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My SO said he was curious in the beginning of our relationship about trying anal and threesomes before I stated boundaries. I told him if it was a threesome with another man, I would be interested or if I could fuck him in the ass with a strap on. He now understands and we just joke about it now lmao.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/20 09:32 PM
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hahaha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/20 09:29 PM
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I know right? I was surprised by that too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/20 09:26 PM
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Got my surname from my mother's side. She was a pickmeisha, but she at least did one thing right.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/20 02:48 PM
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Same. You already see the flag.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/20 04:44 AM
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If my SO felt & behaved like this, I would just leave. Men are so rude.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/20 04:42 AM
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I don’t get it either, can someone explain? I thought the same thing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/20 04:27 AM
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What a dream 😍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/20 10:03 AM
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Is he still friends with your hubby cos 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/20 02:29 PM
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Same. My father was the abuser and I need to surround myself with positive & feminist influences bc the subliminal messages from my environment trigger those old thoughts & memories. I can’t risk my mental wellbeing in watching these kinds of shows. But I do occasionally see a short clip here and it is very entertaining.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/20 07:01 PM
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It seems like you have deeper issues if you need to have “maintenance sex” to keep the relationship going.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/20 06:19 PM
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LMAO the heart 😭😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/20 02:57 PM
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On my first date w SO, he planned for a walk in the park and then movies. We only really talked while we were at the park and so didn’t get to spend much time together. :( But after dropping me off & going home, we were still texting and he asked if he could come back and walk to another park which was closer to where I lived. We were talking & seeing the ponds & feeling the cool summer air & dipping our feet in the water until the sun rose. It was beautiful and everything just felt right. The i…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/20 02:19 AM
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I get where you’re coming from, but it really depends on the kind of anime he watches. I introduced my SO to anime, but I don’t really watch such vulgar anime w him and neither does he. We like a good plot. And while you can’t completely avoid it, I still love anime and whenever I find a good show, we enjoy it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/20 07:39 PM
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I feel you. My mom made me ashamed of my body since 4th grade. It made me feel so undesirable and I didn’t think any man would ever like me. She would comment on the size of my thighs in fucking 4th grade!!!! Like what the hell I am a child! But when I was naked & passed by a mirror today, I wasn’t at my goal weight, but I just loved what I saw. It also helps that he really boosts my self confidence and now I just believe it. He doesn’t need to tell bc I feel it in my bones now. :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/20 07:26 PM
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For real!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/20 02:26 PM
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Awww thanks. But this is exactly the mindset i need to have!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/20 06:04 PM
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Lmao why would you even post this on your main account? He really thought other men would agree with him & would be a popular opinion 😂. Dumbass.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/20 03:25 PM
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For realllll. It all starts w one boundary. And if you don’t feel like you deserve it, start working on your perceived flaws. I’ve been overweight my entire life even tho I don’t look like it and I’ve always felt ugly. But working out & eating right led me to lose 8.6 lbs!!! Playing with makeup, taking care of my skin, etc. made me feel like the shit and now I am the shit 💁🏻‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/20 03:16 PM
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Felt the same way. I was very depressed after trying to kill myself and ending up at the psych ward and staying for a week. Then going to group therapy at a partial hospitalization program. Therapy both group and one on one helped a lot, but ultimately it’s up to you to listen to them. For me, working on my flaws was the path that led me to today. I’m still not perfect at facing all my negative thoughts, but I think I’m doing a whole lot better. For example, learning how to do makeup. I would pl…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/20 01:07 PM
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Or when your abusive father guilts you “for everything [he] does for you”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/20 12:46 PM
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Yep. Luckily enough I was able to escape so even if me and Mexican don’t work out, I’m quitting dating and focusing on my career, hobbies, friends & rest of my family.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/20 12:41 PM
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Omg that is exactly desi men. I would never date a brown guy. With a Mexican now who treats me so much better.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/20 03:10 AM
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My SO told me he loved me within a month of dating (we’d known each other for a few months at that time) and he started talking about marriage by the second month. We’re 7 months in and we’re living together for the next four months (will be living with friends on campus when school begins bc already made a contract w them). It’s been so much fun and we’ve had disagreements, but we’ve always made up and been stronger as a result. 2 years in and he still can’t say he loves you? You don’t deserve …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/20 12:57 AM
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Saving this for when i need a reminder. We stan a queen.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/20 12:27 AM
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I tell dates I would only do a threesome if it’s another man. They shut that down real quick lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/20 05:18 PM
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“Mentally deranged feminist” so women having standards makes them mentally deranged? What a fucking idiot
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/20 04:35 PM
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OMG so gross 🤢🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/20 01:26 PM
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I could say the same to you dear. I hope you can recover from this and be even stronger than you were. ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/20 04:22 AM
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I was sexually assaulted at work by a “friend”. When I decided not to press charges because the legal process would be too detrimental to my mental health, many people judged my decision very ignorantly. Exactly, it’s not a “one glove fits all” solution so idk why people are downvoting you OP.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/20 01:03 AM
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Honestly it only takes one time. I would’ve just blocked him then. But good on her for posting that on his wall, shows what kind of person he is 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/20 01:53 PM
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I don't have any social media besides Reddit so I could believe it. He could be using fake names though or have accounts just not under his real name.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/20 11:40 PM
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This was suggested before, but it could be easily exploited. I would be careful esp since those dirty pigs love to target women here
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/20 02:25 PM
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I let my bf read this and he called it “disgusting”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/20 05:10 PM
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Same. I wasn’t even looking anymore and I found my SO. Honestly wouldn’t even bother actively looking and just focus on yourself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/20 10:43 PM
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I know right. 🙄 completely understand what you mean. Thank you ❤️. We’re talking about marriage and spending the rest of our lives together. Just waiting a few more months so our families aren’t like “it’s too soon to marry each other!”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/20 01:01 AM
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Bf says he loves feeding me and taking care of me bc he gets worried when i don’t eat :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/20 12:10 PM
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Of course. I’m going back to school in the fall and finishing up my bachelor’s, then going to get a master’s and becoming financially independent. I’m not giving up, I will definitely beat this illness.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/20 08:34 PM
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I told my current SO that I am mentally ill and he still pursued me. On my days that I’m feeling great, we both enjoy our time together. On the days that I’m feeling shitty, he takes good care of me. He reminds me to take my meds, my appointments, keeping up with hospital visits, etc. it really helps that he’s neurotypical and has the energy to take care of me. He is so supportive and it taught me to never accept anything less. Even while being mentally ill, a man has to add quality to your life…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/20 07:43 PM
31

Brown men in general are so gross and sexist. Very very few are decent. Most I’ve met either actively or passively hate women. As a brown woman born and raised in the US, I would never date or marry another brown man from here or from BD, India, or Pakistan. SO is Mexican and knows how to treat women right.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/20 07:14 PM
6

Lmao only wish
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/20 07:26 PM
25

I feel bad but had to laugh that’s crazy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/20 03:05 AM
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I don’t think all of that was for the cheater. I think it was for her to get a fresh start mentally. She’s been with this guy for five whole years.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/20 02:21 AM
48

Same
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/20 02:20 AM
7

SO and me stopped doing those porn positions during sex (I didn’t know any better) and wow, sex is not painful at all anymore. We’ve gone completely vanilla and I actually enjoy it now. Fuck porn.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/20 01:17 AM
17

I watched Room on Netflix with SO and he cried throughout the movie. Chose a good one.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/20 03:43 PM
10

I was lucky enough to find a strong tame man. He’s not perfect, but his flaws are something I can deal with. I’ve had pretty bad mental health issues and he’s been so loving and supportive. This is how I know he’ll be with me through the end since it’s been pretty bad recently. I might go back to the psych ward later, but knowing I have him with me makes me feel better. :) But yeah, if we ever do break up, which I doubt we will, or if something happens to us, I will definitely never date again u…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/20 02:44 AM
8

So true 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/20 02:06 PM
1

OMG i just saw that post the other day lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/20 02:51 AM
8

How do you orgasm during sex? We keep trying different things but it’s just not working 😭. I don’t feel comfortable with him eating me out either, it’ll take some time getting more comfortable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/20 02:50 AM
6

Hahaha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/20 03:02 AM
6

Oh just to clarify it was one of the women who commented under this post not the op
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 05:59 PM
13

“As a woman, I’m also tired of this shit. Men get shamed, sexiest remarks from women and yet, all the “feminists” run around screaming about how men do this and that. It’s disgusting and double standards that people don’t talk about, women sit laughing like pack animals with a vendetta. It’s honestly disgusting and when you try challenge these women about their views, their warped version of feminism and the fact men also have issues of sexism, you as the woman get attacked by these women!. It’s…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 05:52 PM
33

Men are so petty. They come to our sub downvoting or spamming our inboxes, hiding behind a screen and saying whatever they want. Just admit it. You hate women and don’t want to see women succeed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 04:12 PM
14

At work, we were doing the same task and it was really slow so I decided to just start talking to him. One thing led to another and we would do all nighters just talking on the phone and falling asleep together. Now we’re gonna get married hopefully sometime next year 🥰
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/20 04:42 AM
22

My bf of 6 months just did dishes, wiped counters, dusted, vacuumed, mopped, did the laundry, made the bed, and he wrapped me like a burrito before he started. All he asked was to get him some cereal. Then he gave me a bunch of kisses and told me how grateful he was for me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/20 02:01 AM
2

It sure is! We made some pasta last night together and I did the dishes while he cleaned the rest of the house (which included vacuuming, mopping, taking out trash, etc), laundry, and gave his dog a bath bc I was too tired from the food coma lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/20 06:26 PM
13

Indian here! Bf is Mexican w two older sisters and he knows how to treat women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/20 06:03 AM
3

I mentioned that bc those are what people typically consider to be “female interests” so I have no idea what she was referring to.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/20 05:14 PM
1

I don’t she’s married or w kids. We’re all college students, but she’s an international student from Bulgaria.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/20 05:12 PM
23

If this were an actual position for a full time job, I would’ve been more careful but since this is just a part time job at a college dining hall, I wouldn’t get in trouble at all even if she reported me. But thanks, I’ll keep this in mind.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/20 12:53 AM
13

Ok Becky
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/20 08:54 PM
5

Oh okay lmao, that sounds a lot better. Which is why I was debating hormonal vs copper, but since copper also serves as emergency contraception (we had unprotected sex those past five days) ultimately I ended up with copper. My normal periods were not that bad so I didn’t think it would be as difficult and even though I was bleeding constantly for two months, it was not as worse as it could’ve been. Apparently it takes about 3-6 months for your body to adjust and mine only took 2 months so I’ve …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/20 09:56 PM
9

Holy shit, that is awful! I’m glad to hear it’s better now. I’ve been bleeding constantly for about two months now until it finally stopped two days ago. I can’t imagine nine. Your boyfriend is definitely a sweetie. I can only imagine how a LVM would react to that. When my cramps would get really bad, my bf would go on hot chocolate runs, get me some good soup, smother me in blankets, and cuddle with me. I’ve ruined several shirts, including his favorite and an expensive one, but he still has no…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/20 09:24 PM
8

+ My parents eloped despite my mother being warned about my father and seeing the signs of how he would be like after marriage. I grew up in an abusive environment, full of verbal, physical, and sexual abuse and I never thought I would be able to escape. I (20F) was about to be married off to a much older man, by my father’s choosing (so you and I both know he would be a gem /s) and most likely forced to forfeit my education & career, to become a submissive servant pumping out kids like a machin…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/20 08:19 PM
2

Do you mean red pill?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/20 07:47 PM
27

I know right 🙄. I just got on the copper IUD and my bf has a decent stock of tampons & pads in his bathroom for me bc the bleeding has been horrible. He was a little freaked out by the blood when we first started having sex while being on my period but now he goes “I don’t mind having a lil ketchup on my hot dog.” Lmao he’s so dumb 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/20 07:36 PM
4

I tried to refer a woman complaining about her husband crying and throwing tantrums like a child here (she said she was tired of it and didn’t know how to move forward) and I was downvoted into oblivion. The mods gave me a warning and OP of that post scolded me telling me she loves her husband. I just deleted my comment 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/20 09:24 PM
14

I asked him if i could put on a strap on and fuck him in the ass. He didn’t sulk
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/20 08:07 PM
3

Right, of course not. He says he’ll give me his phone when we meet up later tonight and I can personally delete them myself. I’ve never gotten any red flags about him, so hopefully it’ll be enough. Thanks for sharing your story.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/20 04:28 AM
4

Gross. I don’t want to learn that lesson, I won’t ever do it again. Thanks sis for looking out for me ❤️.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/20 10:26 PM
0

I understand, but I had his nudes before he had mine. I think it really depends on the relationship and obviously the man you’re with. I’m sure if I ask, he’ll delete them. He asked if I was fine with having them before I sent them/took them. Having said that, I’ll never do it again even w future relationships. I don’t want to have to learn that lesson. Thanks for looking out for me sis ❤️.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/20 10:26 PM
5

I understand, but I had his nudes before he had mine. I think it really depends on the relationship and obviously the man you’re with. I’m sure if I ask, he’ll delete them. He asked if I was fine with having them before I sent them/took them. But of course, you’re absolutely right in that regard (hacking, etc), so I’ll never do it again even w future relationships. I don’t want to have to learn that lesson. Thanks for looking out for me sis ❤️.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/20 10:25 PM
15

I trust my bf, but you never know what could happen. I’ll ask him to delete them. I also have his nudes and videos of him being silly while naked (which I keep bc they’re cute), but will tell him if he wants those to be deleted, I can do it too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/20 02:45 PM
112

Less than two months into my relationship, bf mentioned marriage and kids and how he wanted to spend the rest of his life with me. Trust me, they know.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/20 07:11 AM
20

Aww hope you’re okay now! I tripped over a thicc tree root on the sidewalk and my face skid against the concrete. I lost about half the skin on my face. Fun times.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/19 12:24 AM
7

Completely agree with you. Acknowledging abuse happened and that you’re not only a victim, but a survivor is empowering bc it’s validating. Especially since the man involved loves to blame it on the woman “I wouldn’t be like this if you weren’t so crazy” or “you deserve it anyways” or showering her w gifts so as to “make it up” to the woman. So no, it’s not about being a weak victim. I find it insulting that anyone would even associate the two. This also comes from a domestic violence victim AND…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/19 09:11 PM
6

SAME
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/19 05:43 PM
4

He has a micro but wants to make a snarky comment on the size of your areolas? Will your areolas affect the sex in any way? No, but his micro shrimp dick will. 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/19 05:36 PM
10

Ahem Bundy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/19 05:37 PM
8

Which is why I love this subreddit so much! I think it’s really helpful in weeding out the toxic LVM to get to the HVM. But you’ll find him OP (if you’re still looking). Just keep vetting. Found mine unintentionally through work.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/19 05:27 PM
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Girl me too! But none of us should be, boobs vary so much from woman to woman. No boob is identical. Also, my man loves my boobies and he makes sure I know it haha. If any guy makes any sort of criticism, drop him and his pornsick brain!! 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/19 05:06 PM
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Lmao “chocolate” boobies, mine have never been pink and my areolas are huge. I’ll start referring to them as chocolate boobies now!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/19 04:57 PM
9

You were so polite and nice, I would’ve said something the second he refused to get the hint and drop it 🙄. Glad you deleted his number.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/19 10:26 PM
4

I got the copper IUD like 2-3 weeks ago and I’ve been bleeding nonstop. I really hope it stabilizes soon bc it’s just annoying. The cramps are worse than what my cramps pre copper were. But protected for 12 years! My nurse told me to wait 3-6 months before I decide to take it out, if I choose to. I decided to wait a few months in case I do decide to take it out, but it’s bearable bc my periods weren’t as bad as other women’s period. Agree with you, if your periods are already very bad or painful…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/19 04:31 AM
6

I’ve only taken Plan B twice and it was absolutely horrible too. I felt so nauseous and had so much side/back pain and cramps, I force myself to sleep after taking it. I can’t imagine doing anything like work after taking it. And what the fuck? Does your nurse actually tell you that and expect you to believe her/him? When I went to my local Planned Parenthood, they told me to check once a month bc if I couldn’t feel the strings, then it could be out of place and I could get pregnant. I was glad …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/19 04:09 AM
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