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Are you kidding me? As a woman, yes, I want to be with someone who can talk and laugh and joke and even flirt a little with others. If anything, normalising this behaviour helps me to feel more secure, and to spot when something's actually wrong, rather than worrying about every woman that my guy comes into contact with. That is not healthy and not conductive to a strong, lasting relationship.
/r/seduction10/11/16 02:54 PM
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You are... and all the shit-storm of emotional crap that comes with it. Be warned :/
/r/seduction31/05/16 06:35 PM
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My fist time was enough of a disappointment as it is without adding the indignity of paying for it into the mix... Most people's first time isn't anything spectacular dude. That's why we make sure it's with the right person.
/r/seduction30/05/16 10:12 AM
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Yeah I know. Grasping at straws dude...
/r/seduction30/05/16 10:11 AM
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To answer your original question, no, don't go to a prostitute. There is no intimacy involved, and you will not get good practice. She is paid to please you and pretend to be enjoying herself. With a real partner, you learn from each other as you go. No single technique or position works for everyone. The true intimacy is in learning how to please & pleasure each other, and how to read the body's signs. You will learn neither from a prostitute. At best, you will learn what skin feels like. That'…
/r/seduction30/05/16 01:45 AM
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Besides, all the methods I knew that normally work on men weren't working, so I figured I'd try a different perspective.
/r/seduction30/05/16 01:35 AM
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Where in the description does it specify that this is only for men? I'm into women too. I dunno... I guess I was just grasping at straws.
/r/seduction30/05/16 01:33 AM
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I went through things... still am going through things. I thought I'd lost my touch, and that I was somehow unattractive where I hadn't been before. I guess I was just looking for answers.
/r/seduction30/05/16 01:21 AM
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Doubt all you want, but don't fall into the trap of sealing your own fate. Always be yourself, express your interests, and continue the search, 'cos if you don't try, you'll never get anywhere with this, but if you do, then you're in with a chance, even if the chances are small, it's still a chance.
/r/seduction30/05/16 01:15 AM
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You know most women worth your time don't particularly care about your looks, right? As long as you're clean, and you know how to dress yourself, we're cool with it. You'll find someone. You know we exist, so don't stop trying :)
/r/seduction30/05/16 01:09 AM
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That's 'cos we're worth fighting for. You do us a disservice by not even trying.
/r/seduction30/05/16 01:02 AM
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ok, but do you honestly want intimacy and closeness with someone who doesn't value you or your hobbies/interests? Seek out the 1% who would actually value you. Don't hide who you are 'cos then instead of being "childish" or "interesting" you resign yourself to "boring."
/r/seduction30/05/16 12:52 AM
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Have you tried? Multiple times with lots of people? Have you stopped midway and turned the conversation around to ask about her interests?
/r/seduction30/05/16 12:44 AM
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Don't be so patronising! Sheesh... no wonder the women don't want you. I'm a girl dude. Did I or did I not just talk about and want to hear about your games and your PC upgrades? There are plenty of gamer girls too. Check out tekthing on youtube if you don't believe we exist.
/r/seduction30/05/16 12:39 AM
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You can follow up the talk about specific games by talking in general terms about specs and saying things about upgrading your GPU/RAM/CPU/whatever for a game to make it run smoother. That leads nicely into the building/modifying computers talk. Try it. You'll get the hang of it :) And yes, nerds do get laid...
/r/seduction30/05/16 12:23 AM
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Most 25 year old guys don't know shit about building computers dude... The fact that you like building and modifying computers is definitely something you need to bring to the table when you're talking to people. Also, whatever game(s) you're playing at the moment, or any that're due to be released soon that you're excited for - talk about those too. Talk about what you like about the games. Talk about the lore. Talk about what your hopes and fears are for a new release. Take this knowledge that…
/r/seduction30/05/16 12:20 AM
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And we find the interesting bits. Let's dig deeper... What games do you like? When you say "technology", what do you like about it? How deep are you into it all?
/r/seduction30/05/16 12:01 AM
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You enjoy your life. Great start! What do you enjoy about it? That's where the good stuff lies :)
/r/seduction29/05/16 11:59 PM
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Did you not just see the huuuuge reply I wrote you, telling you what makes me interesting?
/r/seduction29/05/16 11:56 PM
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He said a lot more than that...
/r/seduction29/05/16 11:51 PM
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People like me because I'm interesting and I show interest in them. Nobody is "amazing" or "average" or "shitty". These are false ways to look at people. People are either interesting or dull. Try talking to some homeless people dude. Ask about their lives, and realise that even a shitty life story can be an interesting and empowering tale of enduring strength through bitter tragedy.
/r/seduction29/05/16 11:50 PM
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I went to University, but never used my degree for its intended purpose. Unlike others, I just studied because I found it interesting. Sure, my degree helped me to get work, because I had a respectable qualification, not because of what it was that I studied. I've been homeless twice, for different reasons, and gotten myself through it just fine. The first time was entirely by my own choice, and it was one of the very best experiences of my life. I live my life doing what I need to do to continu…
/r/seduction29/05/16 11:47 PM
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ok, so what do you bring to the table? Why should they like you? What makes you interesting?
/r/seduction29/05/16 11:21 PM
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Dude, you're on here moaning about how no women are attracted to you... You're clearly not doing what he says. You're not displaying confidence at all. You're being pretty tiresome actually, and that's not attractive. The kind of guy who walks around like "look at how awesome I am" is always going to attract more women than the "nobody will have sex with me, boo hoo" type, because the former is confident (even if he's over-confident) and the latter is tiresome and annoying. Stop fishing for pity…
/r/seduction29/05/16 11:17 PM
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Why? Why can't you be that guy?
/r/seduction29/05/16 11:05 PM
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Dude don't turn it off. It's what attracted her in the first place and it's why she still wants you. You take away that charm and she'll turn away from you. She's the one that needs to adjust... So what if other people find you attractive? You're with her, not anyone else, and she needs to remember that.
/r/seduction29/05/16 11:01 PM
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Right, 'cos men talking about women is somehow more reliable... You know I'm talking about other women too, not just myself... right?
/r/seduction01/05/16 11:30 PM
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I do not. I am of the female persuasion, and I'm telling you, if a girl wants to be left alone, she hides herself away and/or displays body language that clearly states "do not fucking come near me". Chilling out listening to music in the park is neither of those.
/r/seduction01/05/16 11:16 PM
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Still looking for reasons not to then...
/r/seduction01/05/16 10:59 PM
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Or she's just listening to music? Hell, it's probably a good bet. Immediately gives you something to talk about... "What are you listening to?" - perfectly good question.
/r/seduction01/05/16 10:53 PM
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Women release a very distinctive smell when they get horny. It's a good smell :3
/r/seduction29/11/15 05:45 PM
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Probably because they're hung over...
/r/seduction15/11/15 08:34 PM
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This. Also, gradually undress yourself to match her state of undress... Basically just keep playfully tugging until all the clothes are off. Then find your way to being between her legs, grab a condom, and go :)
/r/seduction12/11/15 04:38 PM
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Smart women figure out what they want from life early on, and don't bullshit about it.
/r/seduction21/10/15 07:27 PM
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I'd say 95% is a bit high. Maybe 95% of the women that are still available and haven't been smart enough to settle down by now...
/r/seduction21/10/15 09:07 AM
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You got this fucking spot on! Fucking hate this manipulative crap :/
/r/seduction21/10/15 09:06 AM
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It's unconventional, but the advice in this post overall seems to match what I'm about to suggest... I suggest that you read this book and incorporate its teachings into your everyday life, but especially into dating. This will help people around you to open up. Incidentally, that book is also helpful for anyone struggling with mental health issues, as it provides a structure and a process by which to address your thoughts and feelings.
/r/seduction18/10/15 07:51 PM
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Don't mention anything you don't want. Only mention things that you do want, but make it clear that it's absolutely fine if she doesn't want those things, and it's absolutely fine if she does. Be cool :)
/r/seduction18/10/15 07:28 PM
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Clearly you have some issues that you need to work out... I suggest that you masturbate, and then realise that, actually, it's ok to be sexual and enjoy it, even in your own company.
/r/seduction18/10/15 07:27 PM
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She's totally into you. Go back there and ask her if she'd like to go for a coffee some time, and get her number. It's not too late man!
/r/seduction13/10/15 06:40 PM
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Plural There is no single person in this world for anyone. There are people with whom you will share a significant portion of your life, until you grow apart. Then both of you will have to find someone else to share another significant portion of your life with. Some people manage to find someone that they can grow together with, rather than apart from, but those lucky people are few and far between, and this is not something anyone should ever expect from life.
/r/seduction11/10/15 09:06 PM
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Sounds to me like you have a realistic (and healthy) idea of what your needs are and how to get those needs met. I would suggest that entering into a closed relationship would probably not work for you, but an open relationship might one day. It depends whether or not you have any interest in developing a bond with someone in the future. Honestly, as long as you're happy and nobody's getting hurt, you're golden :)
/r/seduction08/10/15 11:09 AM
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Then start existing in that universe, is all I can say.
/r/seduction08/10/15 10:44 AM
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The part where you want to be involved with someone THAT shallow. You deserve better than that.
/r/seduction08/10/15 10:44 AM
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I'm sorry to hear you don't believe that you are enough. That's really sad, and I hope you can learn to value yourself more.
/r/seduction08/10/15 10:39 AM
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Cleanliness =/= winning the genetic lottery
/r/seduction08/10/15 10:38 AM
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Do you really want to date someone who would judge you based on your appearance?
/r/seduction08/10/15 10:10 AM
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I have dated physically attractive people, but for me, attraction is entirely down to personality.
/r/seduction08/10/15 10:09 AM
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Well done. You've equated a challenge to an impossibility. You physically are able to approach women and start talking to them. This is not a physical impossibility - it's just something you don't want to do because you fear the consequences, so let's all hide in little boxes and moan about attractive white men shall we? This mentality is unattractive. I have no idea what you look like, and honestly, I don't care.
/r/seduction08/10/15 09:37 AM
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I will happily talk to anyone who talks to me. I stop talking to people when the talking becomes a problem. The last person I ignored was giving me unwanted sexual attention. I even make sure to acknowledge homeless people on the street when they ask me for spare change. I don't ignore people unless I need to.
/r/seduction08/10/15 09:26 AM
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Grats. You just put yourself beneath him. Self-pity is not attractive dude.
/r/seduction07/10/15 10:28 AM
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fill the gaps where they used to be... amirite? :p
/r/seduction01/10/15 12:46 PM
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I'm a female human who is attracted to men. Granted, not only men, but definitely attracted to men. I'm telling you now, fucking on the first date is not always a good sign. Not kissing on the first date is not always a bad sign. It really depends on the people involved.
/r/seduction12/04/15 09:39 PM
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Some of us are rather more shy. I certainly don't fuck on the first date, because I haven't got to know them well enough yet for sex to be a thing. In my current relationship and the one before, we didn't kiss on the first date - we kissed when it felt right. That's just how it happened. I have had past relationships where kissing on the first date was just the way it went, and that was fine too. Not kissing on the first date =/= not interested. Not showing interest on the first date = not inter…
/r/seduction05/04/15 01:04 AM
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Then you gotta break out of the enclosure :p
/r/seduction18/02/15 06:02 PM
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