sourappleflavorsaver Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
48	Ex keeps asking for help		sourappleflavorsaver	/r/Divorce_Men	24/03/25 09:30 PM
9	All fell to shit and it's 100% my fault.	Rant	sourappleflavorsaver	/r/Divorce_Men	25/10/24 08:53 PM
5	What do I do to better myself?		sourappleflavorsaver	/r/Divorce_Men	03/12/24 03:38 AM
0	How to get a girl or plan logistics if you're homeless?	Conversation	sourappleflavorsaver	/r/seduction	07/11/24 05:10 AM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	50 first dates, they all say no "spark" You need to work on your game. It's all charisma. Remember, women don't like to be chased. Go into the date with only 1 expectation: have fun! Just enjoy yourself and your company. Tease her, make fun of her or things she says with a smile on your face and kind eyes. To a certain degree, treat her like a bro, make innuendos, and just have a good time. When you focus on what you can control - your vibe, your body language, your tone - and make it less about bringing her home or creating that 'spa…	/r/seduction	26/06/25 05:45 PM
3	I’m 28M, going for movie with friend how to initiate a kiss ? It's not that deep bro. They are saying make a move.... not take advantage. Huge difference.	/r/seduction	23/06/25 02:25 AM
1	Ex keeps asking for help Ikr? Haha. Honestly though even though this is the situation I find myself in, I'm way happier. She wanted to be right more than she wanted to be married. I didn't realize how much control she had over me, my life, my personality, everything, until we split. I'd rather be patient and vent sometimes while keeping this up and working my ass off so I can keep the slice of freedom I now have.	/r/Divorce_Men	02/04/25 04:38 AM
1	Ex keeps asking for help Anything that requires physical effort on or in the house. I've replaced the garbage disposal, set up Christmas lights, redone the entire home network, fixed her car, soon I'll need to set up a new security system. And yes I pay for absolutely everything because she hasn't had a job in the last 6 years. Most of everything goes on credit cards because I just can't afford everything. She uses my credit card accounts because she can't pay for anything. Then when I tell her to get a job, she says sh…	/r/Divorce_Men	02/04/25 02:48 AM
1	Ex keeps asking for help I asked for the divorce. Both of us failed.	/r/Divorce_Men	01/04/25 12:01 AM
7	Very very few women actually lift a man up and make them better people I met this woman whom I told everything about how my marriage failed - how I failed, the wrongs I committed, the lessons I've learned, etc. She accepted me and all my faults. No judgement. For once in my life I feel safe being myself. No fear of being argued with or judged or anything. It's strange but it's a freeing feeling. Unfortunately this woman and I are not together, though I am playing the long game and trying. The only woman I've met in the last 30 years to be this way. They are unicorn…	/r/Divorce_Men	19/03/25 08:29 PM
3	How did you guys learn to dress better? It wasn't intentional by any means, but I lost my job and had to get something to pay the bills. Ended up working at Banana Republic of all places. So being around fashionable people helped a lot and being around quality clothes that I could play with to hone my style. Working at Banana I know that each person is supposed to try and build an outfit for you and are taught in depth about the clothing materials, patterns, fits, etc. So I would recommend going into a Banana or a Nordstrom, asking fo…	/r/seduction	20/02/25 05:29 AM
1	Nice guys, bad boys, and good men. Women are more attracted to how men carry themselves. Project confidence, security, compassion, and authenticity. A woman wants a man who is respected and respectful.	/r/seduction	04/01/25 03:41 AM
2	I had to tell my son we were separating Right there with you man. My son is 5 and surprisingly aware. He's so angry at me for "leaving the family," it really fucks me up sometimes. He's upset about my choice to leave - but he doesn't understand why and how unhappy his mom and I were. I asked for the divorce because I finally realized, 8 years after marriage, that this just didn't work and won't work no matter how hard we try. I deserve happiness, his mom deserves love, and my son deserves to see both of his parents happy - even if tha…	/r/Divorce_Men	31/12/24 11:32 PM
0	What do you have on your music playlist for inviting a girl back? I like to make playlists. This was made for 1 reason... https://open.spotify.com/playlist/6gzXHDTO7JFb3qKV3HaoXG?si=2OdeE-UfTdSF1rhRyRjTiw&pi=iyG9gFKqRgGV1	/r/seduction	30/12/24 10:49 PM
3	Being called Narcasstic throughout my marriage - this resonates. Stay strong fellas. Amen to that	/r/Divorce_Men	19/11/24 06:08 PM
14	Being called Narcasstic throughout my marriage - this resonates. Stay strong fellas. My how my wife speaks about me to her therapist, her therapist is now convinced I need to see a psychiatrist for "multiple personality narcissism disorder." Purely because I want to focus on ME which I have always been shamed for... Called selfish, self-centered, a narcissist... And since I wasn't able to work on myself without backlash, I didn't, and the marriage failed because of it. I had nothing to give. Once I had enough, I ended it. And now she "doesn't even know who I am anymore." Sometim…	/r/Divorce_Men	18/11/24 05:02 PM
1	What has your experience been with San Francisco? Where in Marina would you recommend picking up an attractive lady?	/r/seduction	11/11/24 06:21 PM
1	How to get a girl or plan logistics if you're homeless? It's complicated. It'll take a while before I can get my own place. In the mean time, I still need to take care of myself and have fun	/r/seduction	07/11/24 05:17 AM
1	How to get a girl or plan logistics if you're homeless? I can't exactly be like "want to get outta here?" and have no place to go ... so what do I do?	/r/seduction	07/11/24 05:12 AM