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| 115 | Cautionary tale of hypergamy | DISCUSSION | sourbeerisbest | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/02/20 11:05 PM |
| 66 | When he’s ‘perfect’ but there’s no intimacy—can intimacy be built? | LTR/MARRIAGE | sourbeerisbest | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/05/20 01:56 AM |
| 17 | Women who have gotten divorced—do you regret it? How did you know that you should end it? | DISCUSSION | sourbeerisbest | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/06/20 05:32 PM |
| 1 | My husband (28F) and I (26F) seem to have completely opposite love languages and I’m struggling to fix my end of our relationship. | sourbeerisbest | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/05/20 06:05 AM |
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| 2 | Feeling Depressed and BurdensomeHope it makes you feel like a big man to bully a woman that you know very little about. | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/05/20 01:20 AM |
| 3 | When he’s ‘perfect’ but there’s no intimacy—can intimacy be built?This is a week late but thanks for your comment. I was actually gifted a couple of Gottman books before I got married, so I’ve been rereading them more closely. Our marriage counselor was actually semi-helpful (he was an older, married man himself), but today we decided to stop seeing him. It wasn’t worth the $; he’s coming from 20+ years of working with couples who hate each other or cheat on one another, and it just didn’t seem like he could grasp the idea of a perfectly good couple that still… | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/05/20 06:09 AM |
| 6 | Feeling Depressed and BurdensomeI struggle with similar stuff. I’m in grad school (but not graduating yet), and already worried about the job market. I’m so sorry you’re going through this. Anxiety/depression are so personal, but for me: 1.) Cutting down on coffee when I get like this. It worsens my anxiety. I try to brew iced green tea. 2.) Scheduling ‘workout’ time. I tell myself that all I have to do is go for two 30 minute walks a day. Free yoga videos done outside would also work—get your vitamin D, it helps so much with … | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/05/20 05:18 AM |
| 1 | How do I revive a dead bedroom?old feminist thinking I could be wrong about other feminists, but I don’t think that viewing sex is as a 50/50 thing is ‘feminist’ per se. It’s more of a general power thing, and a similar dynamic has manifested between couples I know who are traditional AND couples who are progressive. The difference is progressives frame it as ‘50/50 because my body, my choice’ versus a more traditional take of ‘I only give sex in exchange for [x], and I haven’t gotten my 50 yet.’ I find that it’s helpful to a… | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/05/20 03:31 AM |
| 1 | What's for dinner?https://www.health.harvard.edu/vitamins-and-supplements/getting-enough-vitamin-b12 It’s incredibly easy to supplement B12 in a vegan or vegetarian diet—not only through fortified milks, meat substitutes, vitamins in pill form, etc., but also through enriched breakfast cereals (which are higher in B12 than meat). Vegetarians can get more B12 by eating reasonable amounts of dairy than a omnivore can through reasonable amounts of meat products (dairy B12 is bioavailable). My husband supplemented B1… | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/05/20 03:03 AM |
| 1 | When he’s ‘perfect’ but there’s no intimacy—can intimacy be built?I’m words of affirmation/physical touch, he’s quality time/acts of service. We’ve discussed results. It’s kind of difficult to bridge the difference for both of us. Words of affirmation don’t come naturally to him at all (he didn’t tell me I looked beautiful or anything similar on our wedding day, for example), and his favorite thing is quality time together out in social settings which is difficult (lately due to COVID, before it was our schedules). | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/05/20 05:13 AM |
| 1 | When he’s ‘perfect’ but there’s no intimacy—can intimacy be built?He was equally pro-counseling. His big perceived shortcomings in the relationship have been ‘we should have more sex’ and ‘you should spend more time socializing with me/my friends/my coworkers (pre-COVID),’ which became issues in the past year. I entered a stressful grad program, had less time, and wasn’t mindful enough about meeting his needs; I’ve been working on it, and his needs are honestly pretty simple/easily met. My issue about not feeling like we’ve got emotional intimacy is more histo… | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/05/20 05:53 AM |
| 2 | When he’s ‘perfect’ but there’s no intimacy—can intimacy be built?Thank you for your comment and for suggesting Brene Brown. I’ll look into her. It’s very possible that I need to do (more) work on myself. Since I’ve only been serious/sexually involved with one man, I’m having a hard time figuring out what’s ‘me’ and what’s the relationship. I’ve been to solo therapy to discuss this, but didn’t find it very helpful. And I’m a confused because I’ve been telling myself for 8 years that feelings aren’t everything (and they aren’t), but when it comes to relationshi… | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/05/20 05:44 AM |
| 5 | When he’s ‘perfect’ but there’s no intimacy—can intimacy be built?From my end, I always wanted to experience being able to be in bed with someone and feel emotionally close. I do think there is a difference between ‘sex’ and ‘making love’; I know that the norm in relationships is maintenance sex (and I’m fine with that), but I’ve only been with my husband and we’ve never had that. I feel like I’ve tried to inspire it or make it happen in a lot of ways (trying to slow things down, going on a minimoon after we got married, talking openly about it...) and it’s ju… | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/05/20 05:29 AM |
| 63 | Female Role Models?Michelle Obama. I might get downvoted for political associations, but she’s a highly-educated, classy, stylish badass who has openly admitted that she adapted to be the wife/mother that her family needed when her husband became president. She has worked hard, achieved a lot, and held her family together. You can see the respect/love between her and her husband. Not to mention the positive impact she has made in kids’ fitness and nutrition. I respect the hell out of her. | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/05/20 05:19 AM |
| 1 | Red Pill approach to family members disapproving of dating choices...white genocide? https://pulitzercenter.org/reporting/myth-white-genocide | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/05/20 03:26 AM |
| 6 | Curious who’s read « Marry Him » and what you thinkI read Marry Him after I got engaged (at 24) to my long-term bf and ‘freaked out,’ as you say. We got married this year, when I was 26. The overall sentiment in Marry Him is good but imo Gottlieb doesn’t adequately address two issues—(1) what happens when a guy is ‘perfect on paper,’ but you still are incompatible in some seemingly small but important ways, and (2) what happens when you actually commit to that kind of guy. By ultimately staying single and not settling down into a LTR herself, Go… | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/05/20 03:35 PM |
| 5 | What book red pilled you?Oddly enough, for me it was ‘All the Single Ladies’ by Rebecca Traister. I’m politically progressive and in grad school, so I assumed I’d enjoy a book about the history of women in the US workforce + the politics/cultural factors involved in being a single woman. But it was super depressing, nonsensical (advocating for more single mothers in their forties, and arguing kids don’t need two parents), and even racist (arguing that single women in big cities should use cheap labor from people of colo… | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/02/20 06:39 AM |
| 1 | What's for dinner?Is your whole family vegan? Including kids? I’m trying to ease my husband and I into vegetarianism with a 5-vegetarian, 2-omnivore meal plan (with fish or chicken on meat days) and my husband isn’t a big fan of tofu, lentils or most meat substitutes. Bit of a struggle. I’m so impressed by meat free families, especially when there’s kids involved. | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/01/20 11:11 PM |
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