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NAH, SISsozwrongrobi/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/21 03:44 PM
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PICKMEISHA HALL OF SHAMEsozwrongrobi/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 08:04 AM
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STRATEGYsozwrongrobi/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 12:00 AM
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MALE DEPRAVITYsozwrongrobi/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 06:41 PM
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STRATEGYsozwrongrobi/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 02:09 PM
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LEVEL UPsozwrongrobi/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 02:32 PM
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THE AUDACITY OF SCROTESsozwrongrobi/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/21 08:18 AM
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PICKME CULTUREsozwrongrobi/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/21 07:09 PM
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LIES MEN TELLsozwrongrobi/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/20 01:42 PM
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#JustLVMThingssozwrongrobi/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/20 07:15 PM
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RED FLAG 🚨sozwrongrobi/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/20 12:50 AM
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#KickHimOut2020sozwrongrobi/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/20 10:15 PM
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MINDSET SHIFTsozwrongrobi/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/20 11:30 PM
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CULTURAL MISOGYNYsozwrongrobi/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/21 03:43 PM
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RANTsozwrongrobi/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 04:08 PM
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SEEKING ADVICEsozwrongrobi/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/20 06:22 PM
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STRATEGYsozwrongrobi/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 09:08 PM
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Ladies, I just saw this post, checked the poster’s history and she was trying to post this in FDS too. There’s hope!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 06:57 AM
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Such a great book, and your analysis of it is on point too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 06:05 AM
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The guy writing this is probably 12 tbf
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/21 06:29 AM
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One of the comments underneath was about how the toilets get clogged at least once a week…. That’s definitely reason enough to leave someone
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/21 06:53 PM
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Wth how is that an “ick.” Like is an ick not something like finding out someone has out of control toenails or is a diehard nickelback fan and sends him fan mail regularly? Also so obviously tailored his retelling of the event, he definitely asked her about going 50/50 on chores when a woman’s a SAHM - WHICH IS A JOB HOW MANY TIMES??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/21 08:30 PM
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I just saw the post and apparently the OP text him asking what he would do if he lived with her and he replied saying that he’d get her to take birth control so she wouldn’t bleed everywhere
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/21 06:44 PM
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So funny oh my god
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/21 09:01 PM
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This is why FDS works so well. If you’re dating with the mindset of having fun while receiving the maximum benefit for it, no way you’re going to fall for lines like “I only buy drinks for a woman I’ve made out heavily with.” Although to be fair, it’s so pathetic I think the pick me version of me would’ve walked away. I don’t care that much about a damn drink!! I’ll buy my own!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/21 03:32 PM
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That’s why I posted here, I saw the comments majorly in his favour and I wanted to make sure I wasn’t crazy in thinking that he sounded like a fool
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/21 05:03 PM
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“Literally rather die alone next to my collection of cleaning products than ever settle for a man with bad hygiene.” I relate
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/21 04:51 PM
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Oh god, you’re right 😂😂 in other news I can never use that phrase again…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/21 09:14 AM
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Lad is talking about the “most traumatic” experience of his life while having 0 sympathy for watching women in porn actually going through a traumatic experience. Get a grip.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/21 08:00 AM
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What is it with scrotes and their high school obsession? I look back on my time and I’m like “oh my god cringe” but scrotes take it so seriously?! Get a grip seriously, your gf got raped and you’re crying because you got “cheated on” when you were 17?? Everyone got cheated on when they were in high school and no one here is crying
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/21 07:38 PM
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Your last sentence is exactly my problem with this post!! Like whatever waste your time trying to change and cope with a loser, but it’s the treating women as a commodity like he does that made me SEETHING
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 12:27 PM
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Great post, I would love to see a follow up about the ways you’ve found to embrace your anger!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/21 08:18 PM
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Like if I’m remembering right I was reading the attached book and the writers were trying to explain the foundations for attachment theory as being from childhood (makes sense) and then discussed how it all comes from Freud’s “discovery” that boys want to have sx with their mother and girls fancy their dad, I just put my kindle away I was like btch I never fancied my dad fk off with your stupidity
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/21 05:33 PM
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All that attachment theory is bs if you ask me… this is why
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/21 04:59 PM
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Sounds exactly like Ted Mosby I can’t watch HIMYM now because of that weasel.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/21 02:35 PM
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I think that would be a great post, you should definitely make it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/21 02:24 PM
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A woman in my town got a surrogate baby, and she described the process of picking the mother to the local paper as like “flicking through tinder for the right fit.” I’m still sick thinking about that but people think it’s inspirational???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/21 11:24 AM
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Oh god, I love Futurama. I know Fry is a LVM but I love that the show actually showed it as a big obstacle to Leela being with him, and didn’t make her seem crazy for having uncompromising standards. I watched that episode recently, and if I remember right Alcazar led her into making some of those decisions? Like he started getting upset about their endangered race and then Leela says “well there’s two of us!” Just such a good example of how men get their way, it’s not always forceful.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/21 03:37 PM
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Oh god, thanks for this!! I’ve always been confused about the male friends I used to have in my life, because they would say to me “we’re just friends!” but the dynamics always felt off and now I can see why, and retrospectively see the red flags I missed. Some of them were glaringly obvious, I’m very ashamed to admit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/21 03:33 PM
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Being late and cancelling plans last minute without good reason is just LV behavior whether it’s a man or a woman doing it idc so unnecessary
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/21 10:15 PM
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Oh god I hate This Morning
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/21 12:55 PM
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This is lovely, thanks for sharing it with all of us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/21 09:14 PM
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Oh thank god he’s an ex. I get random realizations like that too, the other day I remembered that I used to get loads of UTIs with this one ex, and haven’t got a single once since we broke up, and I realised oh god he just must not have washed down there… I was pretty angry after that realization. Women get gaslit so bad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/21 06:08 PM
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Omg it’s this guy https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=73Z6Wj6l0ac&t=644s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 06:12 PM
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Talking about exes in the first conversation? Should’ve ended there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/21 09:14 PM
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I’m just so sad that she died. An inspiration to us all
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 09:58 PM
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There’s a certain type of English fan that is the wOOOoorSSssTttt They give their players racist abuse, and boo when they take the knee!! Not all of them of course, but enough that’s it noticeable when it happens, and it’s not good enough. Marcus Rashford- absolute hero, doing so much for kids in poverty, great player and gets abuse all the time because he’s a POC. Disgusting. Now this. They make me sick. Go onnnn Ukraine выиграйте!!!!!!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 12:19 PM
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We newbies needed that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 08:28 AM
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I think an early warning sign to gaslighting would be when they lie about small things unnecessarily. You know when you’re talking to someone about a conversation you had previously, and they deny saying certain things even though there’s absolutely no benefit to lying about it? I find it’s usually a test to see if you’ll take it, and also a way of making you start to question your reality, to pave the way for bigger gaslighting
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/21 03:27 PM
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I’m really put off by those guys who look at you like you’re the best thing since sliced bread, like everything you say and do is amazing… You just know they don’t see you as a real person
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/21 01:46 PM
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I wanna know what they did!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/21 12:38 PM
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When I was a pickmeisha I went out with a guy and he kept overstepping my boundaries and not reaching my already low standards so I’d break up with him and he’d just be like “this is such a stupid reason to break up you can’t break up with my over this” and argue with me about it for hours until I agreed he was right. Then he’d moan to his friends about how I was always breaking up with him and then told me it was “a red flag.” It annoys me how stupid I was to not just block him and move on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/21 09:42 AM
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Yessssssss. I’m so over the man-bashing. Not the red flag posts, but the “all men are evil” narrative. I’ve been guilty of that many times, I think it’s a stage in the pick me recovery and the only way to make the recovery in any way tolerable, but I think it can become way too easy to become stagnant in that stage, and I like that FDS isn’t allowing that to happen. As much as I don’t think I deserved some of the things that happened to me, I can accept that a lot of my behaviors at the time mad…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/21 11:37 PM
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I love this!! I’ve seen some posts lately where people have said “I’ve read the handbook and I realise now that I’m a HVW who’s been mistreated by LVM.” No - unless you’re doing all this you’re not! When I was with LVM, I definitely wasn’t a HVW, but that doesn’t mean I had no self worth whatsoever, or deserved to be treated badly. Being a HVW seems to me like it’s about being the sort of woman who makes people’s lives better for you being in it, while only having people in your life who improve…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/21 10:52 PM
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International Women’s Day is a load of shite. I don’t see the point, the only reaction to it seems to be men saying “where’s my international men’s day??” And refusing to appreciate women at all. It’s quite a big deal in Russia, they have a public holiday for it. I was in Russia for it last year and all I saw were women were walking around with flowers, a little girl even handed me a rose on the street. It was done nicely but there was nothing feminist about it, so why is it claimed to be a femi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 03:12 PM
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This is fair and reasonable and anyone who argues with this should get banned tbf.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/21 08:21 PM
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I agree. Looking at this sub sometimes lately hasn’t been great for mental health due to the fatalism and outrage posting, for me anyway. Looking today and seeing more “green flags” and HVM stories has been long needed. Fair play mods!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 06:08 PM
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This isn’t a good sign. I’d listen to today’s episode of the FDS podcast if I were you. It might not feel like “enough” of a reason to leave but it really is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 03:31 PM
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Love posts like this where people list really weird things like “cutting his nails(hands and feet)” alongside “never smash a homie or an enemy” makes me feel like every part of being these men is a chore
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 10:07 PM
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I think a huge majority of us are those women, but we have to put in boundaries such as not going halves on dates or adopting a colder, more calculating side to our personality and habits in order not to get completely destroyed by LVM.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 09:32 PM
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I agree that it would be great for the Handbook to have region specific posts! I had no idea about the importance of marriage for women in America, I feel so ignorant now. How can they try claim there’s equality between the sexes when the system is so oppressive?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 10:11 AM
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I love Dr. Ramani, she really seems to care about the victims of narcissistic abuse. And I’m really sorry you went through that, I’m glad you’re away from him and I hope you’re doing well now ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 01:21 PM
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Oh this hit me right in the feels. I’m from a small town, I had a situation that wasn’t even a fraction as bad. I was fwb with a guy I was mad about (god knows why he’s ugly af) and knew he wasn’t interested but thought if I hung around long enough he’d “get over his ex and be with me.” A month later we’re going out but only because I found out he kissed this girl we both worked with and I told him I wasn’t going to see him anymore but “he wanted to be with me now!” And the clown that I was went…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 10:43 PM
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My rule is that I’ll be friendly with guys if we’re in the same friendship group, but once they start messaging me or trying to spend one on one time with me, it’s not just being friendly. This happens to me a lot, I think because I’m still in college. I think guys do it so if you reject them (or even worse, want something serious!) they can cry about how they were just being friendly and you’re really desperate.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 11:02 PM
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Oh god I meant nice clothes 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 08:31 AM
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“Scientist in neuroscience” sounds like a fake job description on a 15 year old’s Facebook.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 02:37 PM
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I swear taking the time to be gross is amazing. One of my beliefs pre-FDS, was that I looked ugly if my hair was short, or if I wasn’t dressed up. So at the start of the first coronavirus lockdown, I gave myself the worst short haircut, and stopped wearing nice clothes. In found it very difficult! It was like having a complete detox on male validation and having no choice but to confront the insecurities I had. There was no escape. Now, my hair is growing longer and I’ve started to dress up agai…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 02:34 PM
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I get the “too emotional” thing from men all the time. It’s lessened since I’ve stopped giving them any attention but before FDS they had me convinced that I was mentally ill and the root of all my problems. Fuck sake.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 05:29 PM
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Thank you for this post, this is something I’ve been struggling with and not sure what to do about it, now I have a way of re-channeling my energy!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 05:21 PM
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I feel like it’s one of those things where it’s fine if they find it funny but if it’s their absolute favourite show or it’s something they talk about a lot it’s a red flag Like The Catcher in the Rye or Rick & Morty But all men who say they like seem to be obsessed with it so 🤷‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 03:07 PM
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I was talking to this guy from college not long ago and I was saying I enjoy my own company because I make myself laugh all the time and he told me that was sad. Dude wasn’t one bit funny either.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 01:25 PM
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I love this comment under the video I lied ☹️ I’m not out 👩🏻‍🦽 of this relationship 🔐 Im in 🚪 I’m so In 😜 it’s so humiliating 😟because here I am 😏 begging🙇🏻‍♀️ shut up! 😅 you say Meredith 😦 i yell 😝 remember 😪 okay here it is😬 your choice, it’s simple. Her or me 😙 and I’m sure she’s 😋 really great 👍🏼 but Derek 😩 I love you 💕 I’m a really big 😞 pretend to like your music 🎼 let you eat the last piece of 🧀 cheese cake 🍰 hold a 📻 radio over my head 😝 outside your window 🏢unfortunate way that makes m…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 10:39 PM
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I used to work as a server at weddings and they were horrible, I swore I’d never have a big wedding or anything so this trend never bothered me until now after reading this post. Of course it’s just another way of putting women down and putting them on uneven footing as they enter the marriage. Of course it’s way of “managing our expectations.” Everything fucking is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 10:21 PM
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I recently met someone who claimed to be a “nice guy” I was so shocked that they still do that aren’t they aware we all see through it now?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 10:17 PM
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I’m doing a year abroad in college next year and this guy who’s going has been causing me nothing but bother. I had enough and blocked him the other day and to be honest I couldn’t care less if it causes me hassle next year because the peace now is worth it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 10:44 PM
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Hi ladies, just started EFT and it is mind-blowing! Really focusing on my unmet needs and I’ve never had a romantic connection in my life. How do you fill this hole without men (bc fuck them)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/20 12:42 AM
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I’ve never wanted to message someone abuse more in my life. But I won’t stoop that low
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 07:08 PM
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Love how he describes the women he attracts as “boring” when he 100% didn’t make an effort with conversation while he did with the attractive ones. I know this guy who is unattractive, short, but very successful with women (I should know he was my childhood crush.) The thing was he actually treated women as people. Had actual conversations with people he was pursuing. Acknowledged that he wasn’t the best looks wise, but didn’t act like he had some major disadvantage because of it. Some people sm…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/20 11:46 PM
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I found the post and looked at the comments and someone recommends “aftercare” like getting her a nice fluffy blanket and some treats for after. Like what? “This will be traumatic for her so treat her like a dog afraid of fireworks at Halloween.” I’m so disturbed. Why would you do this to anyone you “love”?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/20 11:42 PM
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I used to be into BDSM, so I can understand why people are attracted to that scene, as much as I find it weird and disgusting now. But wanting to piss in someone’s mouth?? Bro! Why would that even cross your mind? I want to choke someone = I want to dominate them/I want to hurt them. I want to piss in their mouth = ???? I view you as equal to my toilet. Or a random bush. Will be thinking about this all night thank you men for ruining another day.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/20 11:38 PM
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This. Every passing day I consider this the best possible outcome of my life more and more.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/20 10:49 PM
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I started online classes in college. I’m in a new year group so don’t know the people too well. We were talking about some filmmaker and I said to the lecturer that it reminded me of a book written around the same time. This man cuts over me to show the class this video from his phone of this filmmaker’s earlier work. It’s a video of a bull about to be slaughtered. That was my moment. The “nah I’m done” moment. Why are men so weird?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/20 12:21 AM
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Can someone get this man some English lessons bc the constant short sentences killed me to read and I’m not even a grammar nazi.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 06:16 PM
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You can move on if you want to move on, sometimes it just takes a bit more effort. If you’re still obsessing about someone a year after the break-up and ignoring numerous people’s advice on Reddit, you don’t want to move on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 10:57 PM
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I too hate seeing men trying to give their wives the most perfectest day for their birthday.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 11:21 PM
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I am SPEECHLESS. I swear some people be thinking they live in a romcom. Nah bro. Tell him you’ll meet him in a random country and then ghost him. Maybe he’d get the message then, but probably not. Thank god he doesn’t live near you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 08:26 PM
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“Hugging coldly” to “long warm hug” oh some 22 year old boy decided to brush up on the creative writing in lockdown and FAILED
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 08:05 PM
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Aw I’m so sorry that happened to you, I honestly think it’s abusive for a way older man to go out with a teenager, because it can effect your life so badly. I feel like it’s our duty as women to call these men out and look out for one another. Unfortunately stupid pickmeishas ruin what could be a great system.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 09:52 PM
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No I get this so much, you put it perfectly. I’m 21 now, hence the dating a 13 year old thing, and I’m definitely a completely different person to who I was when I was 20 (when I was friends with this gobshite.) also when I was 20 I was harassed out of my job because this 34 year old wouldn’t stop asking me out. He told me I was “mature for my age” but would then give out to me for my immature sense of humour. I’d look him in the eye and say “I’m 20 what do you expect???” Unfortunately my manage…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 09:49 PM
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Look sometimes you fall in love with people younger than you, sometimes older, that’s fine. But it’s not love here, it’s easy emotional manipulation. I actually feel sick.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 06:59 PM
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That’s awful, are you alright?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/20 10:53 PM
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I’ve been there! The anger was the worst part because I couldn’t explain it to anybody without looking like I wasn’t over my ex yet. I’ve pretty much been single since, which has been great. While working on myself for me, I made out a big list of things that made me insecure that had foundations in that horrible relationship. For example he could drive and I couldn’t, so I’ve started driving lessons! And as backwards as it sounds when I’m mad at myself for wasting my time and energy on him I re…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/20 11:53 PM
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Probably the right call, because if you ever called him out on it he’d claim you were making it up!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/20 11:39 PM
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Oh my god that’s awful, I apologise on behalf of Ireland. There are so many factors involved in this, but I think it’s mainly that for a long time Ireland was such a heavily catholic country, and so we all went to all girls/all boys schools, so male/female friendships have a strange dynamic here. So if you’re friends with a woman... well then it’s only because you’re secretly in love with her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/20 11:34 PM
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Imagine living here! I think it’s because they will not approach women, at all, ever. Unless they’re drunk.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/20 09:04 PM
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