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spinsilo/r/seduction08/01/17 04:53 PM
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spinsilo/r/seduction28/06/19 04:52 AM
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Why are you explaining to me what she was trying to do? My post was precisely in relation to the fact that we're supposed to be celebrating this chick for her heroism, when she tacitly reinforced that this guy should be written off based on how much money he has, but that she simply thinks the assessment criteria was wrong.
/r/PussyPassDenied30/03/20 07:43 PM
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"He could own several Applebee's", "he could be a broker", "he could be a doctor"! And what if he doesn't? What about that? Is there a single bitch out there who can just judge this motherfucker on his character and not the potential money he has in his his bank account?
/r/PussyPassDenied30/03/20 07:09 AM
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Or a death lesson, depending on your luck.
/r/PussyPass16/01/20 01:40 PM
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You don't need a Twitter app you can open inspector in basically any browser and replace the html for the tweet content with whatever you want. But why?
/r/MGTOW14/11/19 12:50 PM
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If you self identify as a loser then you're already creating an insurmountable hurdle for yourself. It's difficult to advise on someone who is autistic because I'm not sure what level of charisma/communication you're capable of. But I think the most important thing would be to work on yourself, build up your self esteem, and crucially, identify who you are and what you're about. Drop the "loser" label and start owning your character, even your weird aspects, but try to carry them with confidence…
/r/seduction28/06/19 06:57 AM
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I hear what you're saying. However your example here is not really an example of an "elephant in the room" type insecurity. That's something which you don't really need to draw any attention to because no one is thinking or talking about it. In fact if you have a small dick I would fully suggest not talking about it at all, just try to own it once you get to the bedroom and do your best work regardless. But my advice is more for obvious things. Sometimes no exaggeration or joking is fine. But tr…
/r/seduction28/06/19 06:18 AM
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Right, shit testing is in my opinion a good opportunity to exaggerate. Answering a shit test, even if it's the "right" answer is normally the wrong thing to do. But if you can take a shit test and give back something funny with good energy, then you've passed by default.
/r/seduction28/06/19 06:03 AM
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You don't have to answer. Think of it the other way round. How would most girls respond to that question? Most of them would refuse to answer. You can also refuse. Just don't do it in a embarrassed or sensitive way. Do it in a way that signals that you just value your privacy. Or say something jokingly. Personally when girls ask me I don't answer the question properly. Not because I haven't slept with a lot of women, but because it's funny. Most of the time I say I'm a virgin in a joking way. In…
/r/seduction28/06/19 03:44 AM
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Who blessed you with such wisdom?
/r/seduction28/06/19 03:31 AM
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Yeah I'm not gonna let another girlfriend make me feel guilty for flirting. I'm not a guy that's gonna cheat, but fuck having to learn how to communicate with women again if/when the relationship ends.
/r/seduction24/06/19 01:38 PM
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If you're not the "cool, laid back" type then don't be that. In my opinion it's much easier if you're normally high energy, talkative etc to make that work for you then a low energy laid back vibe. So play to that strength. Just know when to reel it in. Be playful but get ready to switch it to confident/romantic when the time is right. The risk with your personality type is slipping into dancing monkey mode. Just make sure you're not being entertaining at the expense of showing your romantic int…
/r/seduction24/06/19 12:55 PM
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Well the reason you're unable to break it down is because you have an overarching mindset that is affecting all the areas of your life. You mention that you thought changing your job would help but it didn't. The thing is we often have a baseline level of happiness/confidence etc which comes from a a deeply held philosophical belief about ourselves and our lives, and even when you change your circumstances, that belief still manifests, it just moves to the area of our life we're most insecure ab…
/r/seduction24/06/19 01:22 AM
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This is quite a long post bro, I'd suggest doing a TLDR or being more succinct if you want to get a better response rate. I didn't read your full post but given that I've struggled with depression (and still do, it is something I'm always battling but there are tried and tested techniques for keeping it at bay) here's what I'd say. Do stuff outside Work out Cut out junk food and sugar Speak regularly to friends and family Follow your passions and work on something bigger then yourself Don't enga…
/r/seduction23/06/19 03:51 PM
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Monday. You pick the time. You pick the place. Don't ask. Tell. Continue texting between Monday and Wednesday, but don't ask her if she's still on for the date. Always assume that she is. Good luck.
/r/seduction23/06/19 03:40 PM
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You're not selling her to me mate to be honest..
/r/seduction23/06/19 02:01 PM
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Girls love guys with girlfriends. Let her believe it and she will be attempting to homewreck that shit in no time. Enjoy it bro haha
/r/seduction23/06/19 01:56 PM
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When you've been out of the game for a while you're bound to get rusty. My ex hated that I used to flirt with girls all the time because it was so ingrained in me, then after we broke up I literally had to learn to hit on girls again. So I think what you probably need is to get some momentum going again. To be honest a month is not that long to be out of a relationship so if you're not feeling it right now then maybe give it some time and work on some non dating related goals for a bit. But if y…
/r/seduction23/06/19 01:53 PM
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Agreed. Probably your own insecurity about how young you look is making it more difficult for you. Try learning to laugh about it. Tell people you've found the elixir of life or something, and joke about how you'll never share your secret. If you joke confidently about it and demonstrate you're at peace, other people will sense that and it will diffuse the negativity around it.
/r/seduction23/06/19 03:44 AM
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At first. & Be playful!
/r/seduction23/06/19 03:39 AM
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Sidebar
/r/seduction23/06/19 03:37 AM
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Don't do routines. Work on raising your energy so that you radiate positivity and confidence to the people around you. Get used to touching people when you talk to them (guys, girls, anyone) in a confident and not creepy way. Learn to hold strong eye contact. Smile, joke, be playful. Don't take game too seriously. Have fun. But also have other hobbies and interests and a strong purpose outside of picking up women.
/r/seduction23/06/19 03:36 AM
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if you dumped the girl she would think that you could do the same to her. Right. But this is 100% a good thing and will build attraction. Girls should always feel that you are an independent man and willing to walk away from them if needs be.
/r/seduction22/06/19 05:04 PM
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You're definitely being too hard on yourself. You went out alone after being stood up and didn't just get defeated and go home. This is already a massive win. But the lesson here is you had too much investment in her turning up. You should try to cultivate an attitude that it doesn't even matter if she turns up. Try to learn to joke about the situations and see the light in it. You could have played on that and joked about how your heart had been broken. Exaggerate the situation and play on it t…
/r/seduction22/06/19 04:17 PM
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Have to disagree with you here. I think when girls ask this it's almost always because they want to know if you are someone who has enough conviction to end a relationship. Being willing to end a relationship which isn't serving your higher purpose as a man is alpha behaviour. This question is a way for them to screen out guys who get dumped as opposed to guys who do the dumping. Because generally speaking guys that do the dumping have the kind of qualities which will lead to them being attracte…
/r/seduction22/06/19 04:07 PM
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He didn't buy her a drink, he bought a drink for himself and got it delivered to her so he could go talk to her. Risky move, OP. I'm not sure I'd want to risk her being pissed about the drink being revoked. This has the potential to come across a bit sneaky or sleazy.. but to be fair if you play it nice and light hearted/playfully and the girl is receptive then nice work.
/r/seduction22/06/19 01:50 PM
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Clubs are hard because you can't hear people talk. Normally I just try to have a really open energy, laughing with friends, doing exaggerated dances or something and having fun. Then if I see a nice girl maybe I'll smile and high five her, then depending on her response maybe I'll pull her in, playful hug, and release. If she releases easily then I'll just carry on with my own thing and let it be a short punctuated interaction, but if she is more reluctant to release, maybe she keeps an arm out …
/r/seduction22/06/19 10:40 AM
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I also broke up with my last girlfriend because her shit tests just got too much and were interfering with me living a normal life. It started to affect my friendships, work life and family relationships. There's absolutely no shame in ending a relationship when the shit tests go too far. Women have different degrees of shit testing, but shit test they will!
/r/seduction22/06/19 08:04 AM
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If I were you I'd not tiptoe around it. I think edging in and testing to see if she will kiss is a bad strategy. Maybe try very openly and directly taking her head with your hands, look directly in her eyes and jokingly say something like "we've been lying on the grass touching for a long time right now and I think it's about time you kissed me on my face!" Something silly. Something playful. Note that you're saying SHE should kiss YOU. This subtly makes it seem like this is her who is advancing…
/r/seduction22/06/19 07:16 AM
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Shit tests will never stop. Ever. Sorry to be the bearer of bad news. There's no such thing as getting "comfortable" with a girl and she stops shit testing you. It's in her DNA. Women have the evolutionarily imperative to be with an alpha male, and a guy is not necessarily alpha forever. Most men oscillate between being assertive, confident and self driven, and being a simp. And normally a relationship is the thing that will flick that switch as the man gets lazy or starts being a push over for …
/r/seduction22/06/19 07:00 AM
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It sounds like your environment has closed you off and made you become despondent. You need to start changing that so that you can get yourself out of this rut. Start with your looks. Are you going to the gym? Do you need some new clothes? Don't be so frugal that you're not willing to spend a little money to look good. Get outside. Go walking, running, climbing. Some activity that involves being out in the open air. Maybe join some groups to do these things with others to get you socialising. Wh…
/r/seduction22/06/19 03:04 AM
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It sounds like you're psyching yourself out a bit. Don't be embarrassed by a bit of fumbling, this is bound to happen when you're sleeping with someone you're not used to. But if you're really concerned, just ask her to put it in. I often do this anyway, even when we're totally in sync. It's kinda sexy when you tell her to put it in, and I find that most girls like it too.
/r/seduction15/06/19 08:29 AM
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Keto is generally unhealthy due to high cholesterol (especially if you already have elevated levels of LDL cholesterol, which, if you're obese, you almost certainly do). This leads to atherosclerosis and heart disease. Fasting for 1 month is also dangerous for health. Stick to water fasts only up to 72 hours. If you want to lose weight, the solution is boringly simple - eat a healthy, balanced, yet calorie restricted diet. Also exercise. Absolutely nothing has changed about health and nutrition …
/r/MGTOW06/06/19 04:14 PM
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My favourite thing about this is that being a biological woman only made the checklist AFTER going MGTOW. I mean, bro..!
/r/MGTOW19/05/19 05:08 PM
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Thanks brother!
/r/MGTOW30/04/19 05:32 PM
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Hero.
/r/MGTOW30/04/19 04:47 PM
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I appreciate your acknowledgement, but it is not only this extreme example that is true. Many, many fruits are higher in vitamin c. Do you still have the link to this list? I would be very interested to see on what grounds they are making this claim..
/r/MGTOW25/04/19 12:29 PM
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Can you please source this claim?
/r/MGTOW25/04/19 12:10 PM
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I'm not sure what you're talking about. I simply stated that the assertion that "beef liver is higher in vitamin C than any fruit" is categorically false. Which it is.
/r/MGTOW25/04/19 05:05 AM
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The Kakadu plum has 5300mg per 100g. The highest concentration of vitamin c of any food on earth. And in fact pretty much every top source of vitamin c is a fruit. I don't know where you're getting your information from, but I am afraid it is wrong.
/r/MGTOW25/04/19 05:02 AM
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Categorically false.
/r/MGTOW24/04/19 02:57 PM
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I don't the think u/Vraboxin is suggesting this exact conversation occurs, but rather that this is a shortly encapsulated representation of how the dynamics go when you make yourself vulnerable.
/r/MGTOW15/04/19 05:28 AM
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Why the point about studying STEM? I mean I'm not necessarily disagreeing, but every other point is actually relevent to MGTOW but this one seems totally tangential..
/r/MGTOW03/04/19 03:22 PM
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I normally don't like to generalise, but honestly anyone who thinks that they know what they want at 19 is sorely mistaken. Seems like you already know what you want. Sounds to me that you need to rip off the plaster, get a divorce, and get out of limbo. You can't possibly experience the fullness that life has to offer staying in this marriage that to clearly don't want.
/r/MGTOW22/03/19 04:20 PM
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Or how about only apologise when you're in the wrong? That works pretty well as it is really.
/r/MGTOW21/03/19 05:05 PM
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I mean it's not like anyone has a gun to their head...
/r/MGTOW16/03/19 04:07 PM
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You will never see something like this addressing the reverse issue of male chicks being macerated within days of birth after being sexed because they do not produce eggs. Because then you would have to have a mention men's rights. And it's possibly the only thing PETA could do to make people hate them more than right now. Come to think of it... they might just do it.
/r/MGTOW02/03/19 05:31 PM
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Source & stats, please.
/r/MGTOW18/01/19 12:51 AM
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Are there statistics of children brought up by single men for comparison? I'm reluctant to share this without also having that data for a fair comparison.
/r/MGTOW17/01/19 03:52 PM
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Very well articulated. My ex girlfriend used to always go to "women's circles" and I thought it was a positive thing. Never actually thinking (at the time) how everyone would think I was either gay, or some kind of misogynistic patriarchal oppressor, if I went to a similar male only group. (And I certainly could have used something like that, in retrospect).
/r/MGTOW04/01/19 08:27 AM
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I have this book ready and waiting on my kindle for when I leave to GMOW in Asia in a couple of weeks. I certainly feel that I've been drawn to MGTOW, spiritualism, stoicism and self improvement at the same time so I agree completely.
/r/MGTOW17/12/18 01:16 AM
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Thanks!
/r/MGTOW05/12/18 09:57 AM
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As a newbie programmer and someone who has recently decided to GMOW with a one way ticket out of the country to learn and work on my online business - I appreciate your timely advice!
/r/MGTOW04/12/18 11:37 PM
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I recently broke myself out of my depression after hitting rock bottom. It was almost entirely related to a relationship I was having. After breaking off the relationship, I was was able to stop therapy and get my sense of self back again. I'm not sure what your individual situation is, but I would be very surprised if others in this sub hadn't experienced similar situations. Feel free to DM me also.
/r/MGTOW29/11/18 11:41 PM
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I took them from the pedestal they should've never been in in the first place. Love it!
/r/MGTOW29/11/18 11:36 PM
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Welcome brother. Sorry to hear about the abusive relationship. I hope you're recovering ok. I haven't been here too long myself. I actually joined after I heard some MGTOW advice on YouTube which kind of woke me up from what I thought was general depression and anxiety, but actually turned out to be a seriously unhealthy relationship causing chronic anxiety. And the community here has helped a lot for me to deal with the aftermath of my breakup, and kind of help me to get back my self worth and …
/r/MGTOW22/11/18 10:08 PM
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I imagine many of these downvotes are coming from Americans who have never visited the UK and know very little about the actual state of multiculturalism here. For some reason a misplaced fear of Muslims seems to be pretty prevalent in the MGTOW/red pill community. Hence why I try to just stay on topic and not convolute various ideologies unnecessarily.
/r/MGTOW21/11/18 11:19 PM
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The travel thing always gets me. Girls are always so quick to scream about how they "love travel". And yet, in my time traveling, I have often found girls to seem bored when traveling. Or like they aren't really fully engaged with it. Not all, but enough for me to really question whether their claim to love traveling is actually legit.
/r/MGTOW16/11/18 12:01 AM
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Perhaps you ought to think about getting out of working nights if that's keeping you in a negative state of mind.. I would hazard a guess that if you resolve the issue of your own mindset, that pressing desire for validation from others would disappear. The answer always lies within yourself though. External validation is totally useless and irrelevant. But ironically, when you get yourself into a place where you're more happy and fulfilled in your work/life and you have a sense of general direc…
/r/MGTOW14/11/18 03:25 PM
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No problem brother. I too am pretty new here, only really coming round to the MGTOW way of thinking after after attempting to recover from some particularly exploitative relationships. But this community has helped me through some of that, and to begin finding my own path without attempting to seek external validation - particularly that of women. I think MGTOW is what you make of it. Personally I don't hate women or even necessarily believe the ALALT philosophy. For me though it's about being a…
/r/MGTOW14/11/18 02:18 PM
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We all feel that from time to time because society tells us there's something wrong with singledom. But just look around. Who are these happiest and most fulfilled people you know? I bet a disproportionate number are single. Focus on yourself, your ambitions and your own personal or spiritual journey and stop looking outside yourself. You're a motherfucking wolf. Own it.
/r/MGTOW13/11/18 11:39 PM
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You just opened my eyes to the fact you can snowboard in India. This is pivotal!
/r/MGTOW13/11/18 11:35 PM
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May I ask what you're both doing in India for that long? I went to India for a month 2 years ago and I'm dying to come back for longer!
/r/MGTOW12/11/18 11:25 PM
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This reminds me a lot of an experience I had on a night out. I was trying to be nice to this girl who seemed to be sitting on her own and I thought she was shy or something. So I invited her to come and chat with us as we were talking to her friend, and she just told me to "fuck off" without hesitation. Later on it was clear her friend wanted to chat with us and after I told my friends what had happened when I went over, we all just left her awkwardly sitting in the corner on her own. After a bi…
/r/MGTOW05/11/18 12:37 AM
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I couldn't agree more with everything you just said.
/r/MGTOW23/10/18 09:45 PM
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I didn't say you couldn't be a libertarian without being vegan, I was just pointing out that there is a strong relevancy and shared rationality between the two. What our ancestors fought for means nothing in terms of morality. Otherwise you have to accept all things humans have ever done or believed as being moral (at that point in time), because they got there because of their ancestors. That aside, there are actually a lot of vegans who want to bend people to their will, but it's fundamentally…
/r/MGTOW23/10/18 09:42 PM
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There are actually a surprising number of libertarian vegans, of which I count myself one. And there is absolutely no causation between veganism and feminism. They are totally different ideologies. I support the rights of all living beings to be free from being owned, enslaved and exploited. And vegan philosophy and ideology is consistent with libertarianism, the non aggression principle and individual rights - unlike feminism in its current form in almost every way.
/r/MGTOW22/10/18 11:41 PM
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I'm glad I could help. Stay strong, friend, you'll do just fine.
/r/MGTOW17/10/18 08:48 PM
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You're welcome brother!
/r/MGTOW17/10/18 01:15 PM
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Never underestimate a girls ability to compellingly make out as though she is madly in love with you and cares about you so much, but then completely contradict that with her actions. Simple rule with girls is this: judge actions, not words. It makes 99% of breakups a lot easier, and drastically reduces the element of contradictory/conflicting feelings which you describe.
/r/MGTOW16/10/18 10:32 PM
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I think false pregnancy claims and false paternity should be in there somewhere.
/r/MGTOW12/10/18 11:32 PM
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Thanks buddy. It certainly did. And you're right. The only way I'm going to progress is if I just take the plunge. It can't be worse than this regret I'm feeling anyhow!
/r/seduction10/01/17 09:53 AM
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Read below where I expand on that point. It was my first cold approach, and I did end up getting a bottle thrown at my head, but there was probably at least 20 minutes between these two events. The bottle throwing incident happened after she was behaving like a total freak, and I called her out for being a psycho (this apparently hit a nerve because it emerged she is a genuine nutjob, and this was far from the first incidence of this kind of thing.) I mean sure, either way, I got rejected, I don…
/r/seduction10/01/17 12:22 AM
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Thanks dude. You're totally right I have far too much inner self doubt and negative chatter in my mind. I'm gonna start encouraging myself more, and punishing myself less, for sure!
/r/seduction10/01/17 12:13 AM
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Hey man, thanks a lot for your comment. This really resonated with me. It's strange how things like "smile and say hey" can evade you at the time, but seem so obvious in retrospect. I think I need to get to grips with speaking to people openly as you said, without being obsessed with saying the perfect thing. I'll try loosening up and talking more in these situations, and being more open with my interactions. I guess any opportunities I can practice with the training wheels on can only help goin…
/r/seduction10/01/17 12:07 AM
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Right on man. I guess it is weird not saying anything after that initial connection, providing I sound confident when I open my mouth. It's literally just the first 1-30 seconds I'm worried about. After that I trust that I have enough charisma to carry it through, and also my nerves will settle. Just need to be willing to get through that first bit!
/r/seduction08/01/17 11:26 PM
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Basically when I approached her she was totally unreceptive and just told me to fuck off etc, even though he friend was already talking to the group and she was on her own being left out. Then after she realised her friend was staying with us, she tried to join the group, but by this point we all thought she was a bitch, so we kind of just didn't pay her much attention. This seemed to really piss her off, so she started doing weird stuff like blowing candle wax at my friend, and staring at us in…
/r/seduction08/01/17 11:17 PM
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That's exactly what I'm doing now! Thanks for sharing your story, I'll try to remember that next time, rather than flashbacks to my last failure, which I seriously need to let go of.
/r/seduction08/01/17 08:50 PM
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Thanks you're bang on, it is my inner loser I'm in conflict with in these situations. And next time I'm not gonna let that win out!
/r/seduction08/01/17 08:20 PM
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Totally true. I guess with my last opener that went so terrible, the were no indicators of interest in that situation so it was uncertain how it would go down. But when there's already attraction there then opening should be very forgiving.
/r/seduction08/01/17 08:18 PM
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Thanks. I definitely need to keep it simple for sure. As soon as I'm ready to approach, I start overanalysing and playing out all these scenarios in my head. But I'm actually pretty fluid once I'm in conversation, so I just need to get to that point quicker rather than staying in limbo.
/r/seduction08/01/17 08:15 PM
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True. You're probably spot on with this. Especially since my heart starts racing pretty quickly when I start psyching myself up to approach, so I need to open before nerves start getting in the way.
/r/seduction08/01/17 08:14 PM
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Thanks for the positive words. You're absolutely right I can either take this experience and become more afraid to open, or use it as motivation to approach even more girls in the future. I will definitely try to channel this positively going forward.
/r/seduction08/01/17 08:11 PM
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Thanks for your reply. You're absolutely right, I shouldn't be worrying about how others will perceive me. I guess I tend to carry a centrist view of the world that everyone will remember what I do and how I act. But it's only me who is going to be punishing myself for being shot down, everyone else will forget about it pretty quickly.
/r/seduction08/01/17 08:09 PM
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Thanks, I guess maybe since I stopped opening after my initial bad experience, I have not yet gone through that process of failure. When I watch videos of people picking up girls on YouTube its often hard to imagine they ever went through a failure stage. But I guess once they start posting those videos they're already pretty consistent, either that or they just don't show the failures. So sometimes I forget that failure is universal, and not unique to me. I will definitely try to start being mo…
/r/seduction08/01/17 08:01 PM
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Your problem seems to be largely that you're putting up barriers in your own head. I don't mean to trivialise the obvious issues you're dealing with, but I don't think that seddit is necessarily where you need to start. Seems to me that you lack confidence and feel that you don't belong. You need to start opening yourself up to the world, because no matter how much you learn seduction, its not going to resolve your deeper psychological issues and limiting beliefs. You need to learn to become com…
/r/seduction17/10/16 10:59 PM
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Take it on the chin bro. My first random approach resulted in her attempting to throw a bottle at my head and subsequently getting dragged out of the club kicking and screaming by a bouncer. I sensed she was batshit crazy from the moment I spoke to her, and it turns out one of my friends knew her and she was a legit psycho. Point being, you're always gonna get girls that blow you off for whatever reason. Be it poor game or simply because they have their own issues. So don't let this discourage y…
/r/seduction11/10/16 08:07 PM
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First off I'd say make sure your environment is right. If you're struggling for conversation, don't go somewhere that is conversation dependent. Go to somewhere you can do something together (I recommend looking at lists of fun dates for wherever you live). Girls want guys who can offer them interesting and different experiences, so be that guy. And don't be worried about her enjoying it. If it sucks, laugh about it. Let's say you're at an art gallery and it's boring, play a stupid game like mak…
/r/seduction09/10/16 11:06 PM
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In my experience, the #1 reason for getting friendzoned is due to not escalating kino with a girl. Personally I'm not a fan of "subtle" kino (e.g brushing up against girls). I think girls see straight through this and they are just as likely to be non-receptive as if you're direct. But at least if you're direct, it doesn't run the risk of coming across creepy. Try using kino as an extension of what you're saying. Allow it to punctuate your verbal communication as an extension of your body langua…
/r/seduction09/10/16 10:37 PM
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