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Just once when she basically told me I wasn't a good partner and why I wasn't willing to talk to her rather than respond so starkly. That's been it.
/r/askTRP27/08/15 08:22 AM
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Thanks, I think about the chemical cocktails too. But I also did have a great relationship with her and I think things really could have worked out, that's what is making me very upset. Not to say things couldn't work out with someone else too I guess.
/r/askTRP26/08/15 03:55 PM
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I ended it because I want kids within two years, and she couldn't guarantee it, so I freaked out and ended things. Told her that I couldn't wait anymore, if I was younger, I could wait, but I can't. So she left. But I think we were actually both on the same page, and I just needed to have more faith in her.
/r/askTRP26/08/15 03:54 PM
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I'm of the mind it's a little bit of everything, but taking in what you are all saying. She really was an amazing girlfriend...like wake up in the morning can't believe she's real. If the conversation on Sunday did not go the way it did, would have wifed her, she was very red pill. I don't know, my end game might be a little different from some guys here, I do want to get married and have kids. So it's still a little raw because I feel like that vision just got smashed. And it's raw that a momen…
/r/askTRP29/07/15 06:35 AM
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Makes sense, thanks for the reminder.
/r/askTRP29/07/15 06:31 AM
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Thanks man, appreciate!
/r/askTRP29/07/15 06:31 AM
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Whoa, good analysis. God I love this forum. I didn't even think of that. She's been all over the place about kids. She's not one of those women who wants babies period, she wants some kind of stability to have kids. I would believe she wants to be a younger mom that's true - she sought out an older man who was vocal about wanting kids soon. But it was a weirdly pointed conversation. Why would she want to do it as a "survival instinct"? Just to solely make herself feel better? She didn't want to …
/r/askTRP29/07/15 02:14 AM
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Her leaving with no resistance was what freaked me out so much. I expected a fit, a fight, the whole nine yards. She packed up all her eye creams and razor and was out within five minutes. She always had guys around her, but she had good boundaries with them and I don't think she was actually interested in any of them. She had one beta orbiter who was really persistent - would text her up to 40 times a day with no response from her. I would tell her how hilarious that was. The thing is, she'd be…
/r/askTRP28/07/15 04:54 AM
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Thanks man, it is good to know that I can land women who are far younger and more attractive. I need to work on getting some bulk too. I've been slacking. It is totally weird to me how quickly it imploded, but that means it was probably the right thing.
/r/askTRP27/07/15 05:48 PM
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Thanks. It is true in business and I handle that easily. In a relationship it's harder to do 100%. All of my friends are married with kids. Sometimes that makes it harder for me to be the only single one. I've never considered therapy. Don't think I could do it, hitting the gym seems like a good alterative. I went for a run yesterday after the break up.
/r/askTRP27/07/15 05:09 PM
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Yeah it's pretty fucked up. One of the things I like about her is her tenacity, she fights for what she believes in. But she not great about standing up for herself per se. My own fault for testing it, I expected her to say no when I asked if we were at an impasse and suggested to separate. But I guess I got my answer. She seriously just packed up right then, and told me she still had some of my stuff she'd return. I told her that I was sure we'd still see each other and she shook her head and s…
/r/askTRP27/07/15 04:26 PM
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I don't want to be raising kids when I'm in my 60s. So I want to be done having kids in the next five years. I'm only about 55% sure I want kids, but I want to have that option. I resent that I have to keep frame 100% of the time or else it's my fault. If women really need that, what does a guy get out of it? I can't have one moment and have her stand by me?
/r/askTRP27/07/15 04:22 PM
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I started reading TRP about two years ago, put it in play about a year, and with that frame, got the woman I was recently seeing. As the relationship progressed, I think I got too complacent and didn't keep up the alpha traits and took for granted the effort she made and I didn't make a likewise effort to keep her attracted and into it. The kids things is important to me, and I want to be with someone on the same page with that. Since she wasn't really committing to that it just made sense to pa…
/r/askTRP27/07/15 03:05 PM
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Fuck thanks. You are right. She was the first girl I met who I saw long-term potential with, and that threw me off. I let the things that attracted her to me go by the wayside.
/r/askTRP27/07/15 03:01 PM
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Thanks for responding. You guys really haven't been together very long. There is no rush on getting married. I really recommend getting a prenup - I recommend everyone to do that actually. Part of that is because the conversation about the prenuptial itself is going to be hard, it's going to be emotional, and it's going to require the maturity and communication skills that are necessary to be a solid partner. The prenuptial agreement doesn't have to be all "bad." It can just lay out your expecta…
/r/TheRedPill02/10/13 11:00 PM
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This is my take on the scenario: She lied repeatedly about her sexual history. This is concerning for a few reasons, one because of the lying itself; two, because the number of partners a woman has had does impact the ability to have a stable relationship ongoing; three, because she knew that this would have reflected badly upon her when you first started dating, so waited until you were invested, had introduced her to your children, etc. to tell you more, knowing that it would be much more diff…
/r/TheRedPill02/10/13 05:41 PM
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Haha this response to that post is golden: "but it's MUCH MUCH MUCH stranger to concoct an elaborate scheme involving a fake best man because of some madonna wh*re complex i actually understand (if not approve of) why she would have tried to paint a rosy picture of her sexual past if he's a conservative guy, but i absolutely cannot understand why someone would do some crazy crap like that to try and trick or force the "truth" from her."
/r/TheRedPill09/08/13 12:40 AM
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Ugh, I didn't even get to that reply. I couldn't stomach all of them. Good catch.
/r/TheRedPill08/08/13 08:42 PM
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My sister was horribly obese most of her life, when she hit around 28 or so, she wanted to get fit for herself and now at 32 does triathlons and is in the greatest shape of her life. I feel for her in that she's over the hill and will never get her prime years back that were wasted on being overweight, but physically she is probably at the best that she's been now. Also up until now, she has never dated and just hid herself from the world. On the other hand, she's probably not the woman a RP man…
/r/TheRedPill08/08/13 08:40 PM
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That is an interesting perspective. Yeah, rather than face the consequence of her history she just acted in the way that would best serve her in that moment.
/r/TheRedPill08/08/13 08:33 PM
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It's still in progress. The last update was just that things were blown open and they were arguing about it. A part of me wishes I could contact the fiance and tell him to move on.
/r/TheRedPill08/08/13 08:21 PM
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I thought she was a troll as my first instinct, but reading some of her responses it doesn't look like it. It's a bitter pill.
/r/TheRedPill01/07/13 10:38 PM
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Also according to her a month ago "I think I'm going to be alone my whole life too, but that's just because of my crazy commitment issues that I got after breaking up with my abusive as fuck ex boyfriend. We should make a club." That's a whole lot of no.
/r/TheRedPill01/07/13 07:27 PM
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