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Yes, you’re beyond help and bound to leave this world a cold and untouched soul. If you made peace with this possibility, what would you now have to lose? Man, for starters I’d own my affinity with literature. No shame whatsoever to talk a girl’s ears off with snobby literature references. Compare her with fictional characters or relate her issues with ones you’ve read about. That will set you apart from 95% of guys who hit her up with the same nonsense. Yeah, they may have bigger biceps than yo…
/r/seduction12/08/20 12:33 PM
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You see yourself as lower status than her, which will most likely prevent you from displaying your attractive traits. You feel like a fan does when he meets his idol in person. Shatter that pedestal by engaging with her in normal conversation and realize that she's just a human too. You feel like this because you (think you) have little to no other options with women and have not had enough experience with girls so you still believe the pink color glassed Disney story of cute girls being divinit…
/r/seduction02/05/19 09:39 AM
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Try meeting people who are in the 'inner circle' and see if you can find ones you genuinely enjoy spending time with and vice versa. Meet other 'type' of girls through activities you enjoy. Be the positive guy who just talks to everyone. Then when you find some hotties, the threshold to approach them will be much lower. Besides, it won't really feel like an approach, since you're also willing to vibe with everyone. From this position you won't feel lower status (like in general cold approach, wh…
/r/seduction02/05/19 09:27 AM
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Just be social with your co-workers and keep doing your job. Then when you're in a good vibe chat up customers
/r/seduction25/03/19 01:40 AM
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NEXT! Go meet other girls until you don't care about her anymore. Then you'll have a chance with her but probably won't be interested anymore cause you got better options.
/r/seduction25/03/19 01:31 AM
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Arrive 15 mins early at every lecture and start talking to other people.
/r/seduction25/03/19 01:28 AM
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The only question you should be asking yourself is how you can make the whole experience as fun as possible. Imagine you're a bunch of primary school kids going to a theme park. Forget everything else.
/r/seduction25/03/19 01:24 AM
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See your condition as a blessing rather than a curse: it can be a great way to weed out the girls who aren't genuinely attracted to you 'as a person'. Those girls would leave you if you weren't 'disabled' and suddenly got an accident. That's not love in my book. No need to force wheelchair jokes. Be so cool and normal about your situation that they admire your strength of character to not let yourself be limited by any obstacle that life throws your way.
/r/seduction13/03/19 10:38 PM
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Go for it!
/r/seduction07/03/19 10:55 PM
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Man, your posts are amazing.
/r/seduction01/11/18 02:23 PM
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I neg as a kind of shit test to find out if the girl doesn’t take herself too serious, which is one of the main characteristics I’m judging a girl on. Of course, if I make a neg that I don’t find to be genuinely funny/in line with the vibe or feel like I have crossed the line too much and too early, I’m willing to apologize. If she walks away, that’s fine too. Feeling the excessive need to knock her down her imagined pedestal so to speak , only shows your low perceived sense of value in relation…
/r/seduction10/10/18 08:39 AM
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1) no, not every girl; only the ones I’m trying to sleep with 2) Don’t worry, just promise me he won’t get jealous. So, anyway blablabla 3) alright, but call me now so I can save you in my contacts as ‘artsy ghetto girl’ (or whatever you called her while cold reading/qualifying her before). It’s hard to remember names when so many girls are calling you all the time. 4) I don’t have any friends. Do you want to be my friend? Her: - “sure” Wait, did you just friendzone me? 5) The wall isn’t talking…
/r/seduction02/10/18 09:34 PM
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The thing is I get bored to death after 2 minutes of shallow conversation. I don’t give a damn about ‘mainstream’ music, hedonistic lifestyle, sports news, party/drunk stories and other shit 95% of people my age like. I feel like the girls who I can actually have interesting conversations with, generally look unattractive and I end up friendzoning them. Good point though. I think I also should start focusing more on emotions rather than ‘logic’ during my interactions with hot girls. I’m just gon…
/r/seduction17/09/18 11:36 PM
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crash during the wedding ceremony and run around naked while screaming that you love her. I honestly think that will be your last chance.
/r/seduction16/09/18 08:43 PM
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Why the fuck would you want to disqualify her on her height? In game the purpose of disqualification generally is to question any potential future RELATIONSHIP with each other; not to disqualify the person itself. So, if you wanna disqualify her based on her height, ask yourself how her height would be an impediment to you guys’ relationship. If you just wanna disqualify her for the sake of running some game technique on her, let it go. No need to force game on her when she feels really attracte…
/r/seduction16/09/18 08:33 PM
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BOEHOEEEE I suck mimimi. Can anyone tell me how not to be boring? And change my diapers please?
/r/seduction09/08/18 07:02 PM
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Move the fuck on doormat nice guy!
/r/seduction09/08/18 07:00 PM
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Don’t fall into the frame of putting her on a pedestal just because she is a fit girl and has plenty of jacked guys around her who wanna fuck her. Own the place you’re at now. If you’re a fat nerd, own that and make her feel like those personal trainers are being try-hard superficial meatheads. Once you knocked her off the pedestal in your mind, throw in cocky-funny, light physicality, teasing etc.
/r/seduction09/08/18 06:55 PM
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Not at all! Quite the contrary. As long as YOU don’t feel it’s ‘emasculating’ you and your intentions are to genuinely help your friend out. And if they don’t like it, fuck them! You know you’re doing the right thing, so why should you have to change for some snotty girls who think it’s lame. Why do you care about them? Plenty of girls who like it anyway. In general, forget about this ‘what will they like?’ type of thinking and ask yourself what you like, do it and then the right people will sho…
/r/seduction09/08/18 06:47 PM
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Maybe they don’t like it because you’re just doing it to milk a response out of them. Like a clown basically. Works generally well, but not when you want to get girls attracted to you. Or you just gotta find further to find the girls who like your type of shit. As long as you find it funny and it flows out of you naturally it can work. Plus at the end of the day if you’re not enjoying it, why would you change gears?
/r/seduction09/08/18 06:36 PM
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Class? My ass!
/r/seduction09/08/18 06:32 PM
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Who was talking about clubs? Ever heard of daygame?
/r/seduction09/08/18 01:56 PM
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IKEA
/r/seduction09/08/18 01:29 PM
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Why the fuck would you open on fb? Are you too scared to approach them irl? Afraid their daddies go murder you?
/r/seduction09/08/18 01:26 PM
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Let her see it in person if she wants to. No need to ruin the biggest yet smallest surprise for her.
/r/seduction09/08/18 01:17 PM
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Your lacking opening ability is not your issue; it’s merely the side-effect of some deeper issues. If I gave you the magic fail-proof perfect opener, would you know how to proceed further?
/r/seduction09/08/18 01:11 PM
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Nothing wrong with picking up men. I guess you won’t feel the difference in the dark anyway.
/r/seduction09/08/18 01:08 PM
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The only thing you should do is asking yourself if you’re interested enough in her. Seems more like you’re feeling devalidated since she suddenly seems to have lost interest in you and now you’re worrying about where you might have gone wrong. I think you care more about not feeling rejected than you actually care about this girl.
/r/seduction09/08/18 01:00 PM
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Read the sidebar first
/r/seduction09/08/18 12:48 PM
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‘Ive tried the whole opening up bs’ > seems to me that you see opening up/being vulnerable etc. as just another technique, which basically defeats its purpose and makes it a form of manipulation i.e. ‘since I’ve opened up to you, you have to open up to me too’. That conditionality and general neediness probably radiates from you in the sub-communications, hence that they feel repelled by it. You sound like the guy who gets all paranoid once you’re in a relationship and who starts to accuse his g…
/r/seduction09/08/18 12:30 PM
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Depends on the context. What’s your relation to her? Did she say this out of the blue?
/r/seduction09/08/18 11:51 AM
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What are you: 32/33? Nah, come on. You should fully own it and use it to your advantage.
/r/seduction08/08/18 01:02 AM
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‘Cause they often times think and feel the same as we do, but they don’t dare to approach us either. The point is that if a girl thinks you’re hot/cute, she wishes you think the same about her and that you came up to her without making her feel like a slut.
/r/seduction07/08/18 10:58 PM
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I don’t feel the need to be embarassed or having to apologise to anyone for being attracted to the girls I’m attracted to. When I approach a hot girl in the gym I’m clear in my intentions: I’m physically attracted to her and want to find out if we like each other on a personal level. I’m not there to pretend to be her gay best friend nor am I there to give her some ego boost while she couldn’t care less about me. The point I’m trying to make is that it doesn’t matter WHAT you do as long as you h…
/r/seduction07/08/18 10:54 PM
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Send her something along the lines of “that was the softest forehead I’ve ever kissed”. The longer you keep silence, the more it’s gonna seem like a big deal. And that’s what you don’t want, right?
/r/seduction07/08/18 07:40 PM
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Next time visit a goddamn prostitute and let the horse fuck you in the ass haha
/r/seduction07/08/18 06:40 PM
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You’re the only one who can answer this question plus the answer already lies in the mere act of you asking yourself that question
/r/seduction07/08/18 06:23 PM
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Oh, and obviously everything mr Peterson says is true, no matter the context...
/r/seduction07/08/18 06:21 PM
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Seduction is per definition manipulative. But manipulation in itself can be done in arguably more or less ethical ways. An advertisement is also trying to manipulate you to buy something, but does that mean all ads are ‘bad’ and not a win/win e.g. an anti-smoking campaign? It all just fucking depends. And yeah, it’s also a semantical and philosophical debate: define ‘manipulation’ and explain when it is ethical and when it isn’t.
/r/seduction07/08/18 06:19 PM
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From my perspective: You didnt set up a dynamic in which she felt like qualifying herself to you. She felt that you were putting her on a pedestal just because she’s hot, but you didnt have the balls to be transparent about it (hence the whole ‘hip thrust’ exercise and Scandinavian system blabla facade). Believe me, she knew damn well what you were up to from the moment you walked up to her. Most girls arent that blind (especially the hotter ones, who have to deal on a daily basis with men using…
/r/seduction07/08/18 06:02 PM
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I recall Holy Father Julien also saying that female-to-male attraction is like a volume knob. You learn game in order to make them attracted to you. Attraction can actually fluctuate i.e. a girl who's not that into you from the start can gradually start to like you more and vice versa.
/r/seduction21/07/18 11:01 AM
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Great quote, but I think you should focus on having a genuine opinion of other people. If it's good, then it's of immense value to them; if it's always 'good', it loses its power and makes you come off as ingenuine.
/r/seduction17/07/18 11:09 PM
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It's not simply a 'numbers game'! Otherwise what would be the point of trying to improve our game and bettering ourselves if all depended on luck and fate anyway. Then game would consist of nothing more than walking up to random women and asking if she likes you or not (what many of us in a way are covertly doing).
/r/seduction17/07/18 11:05 PM
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The thing is that we should be weary of using certain guidelines as just another excuse. E.g. 'I shouldn't care about the outcome. I just failed to approach, but don't worry, I don't care about the outcome anyway. Lots of other opportunities'. And then you never approach and you keep telling yourself how non-needy and abundant you are just to avoid approaching. Anyway, thanks for the great advice you wrote about being in the 'ultra-present'. It's a very popular concept, but I like the term 'ultr…
/r/seduction17/07/18 10:52 PM
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errr... not a tiny bit I guess
/r/seduction17/07/18 10:42 PM
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Yeah, we should see playing not to lose as a loss in and of itself. Thanks for your reply.
/r/seduction17/07/18 10:41 PM
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I sure as hell do!
/r/seduction17/07/18 10:37 PM
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As vulnerable, honest and straightforward as that opener seems, don't use it. It shows to her that you're not interested in her 'personality', that you fear carrying a conversation and hence directly ask her to go out with you and it shows that you don't have any standards and thus it doesn't leave her any space to chase or feel that she had to do any work for you (she'll think that you'd ask any girl out as long as she looks remotely attractive; now how is that supposed to make her feel special…
/r/seduction14/04/18 01:59 PM
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Many times the best way to stand up for yourself is by not wasting any mental energy on it (this applies to random people on the street calling you names for example). Funny thing is that once you develop your boundaries, most people will unconsciously not dare to violate them.
/r/seduction14/04/18 01:37 PM
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It gives the impression of you having more of a V-shape which is generally seen as more aesthetic. I feel stupid in them only if I expose any skin on my chest area. Women and gay men wear that since exposing that area symbilizes vulnerability and because the u-neck (like Julien and Tyler wear haha) accentuates your curves.
/r/seduction14/04/18 01:32 PM
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