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If someone who isn't your friend insults you and isn't just trying to joke around with you, they are insecure and low status. They don't deserve your respect and revealed themselves as not worthy of your time. I would immediately end eye contact and just say "oh yeah, ok". Then walk away. The key is not to show anger but lack of interest. You should no longer be interested in associating with them
/r/askTRP06/12/19 12:56 AM
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Her achievements mean nothing in the sexual marketplace because she is not male. It would be like you getting a boob job and then expecting to get hotter girls. Once you understand this high achieving girls are easy to work with
/r/askTRP04/12/19 01:16 AM
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They both want to bang you, you have to choose one
/r/askTRP27/11/19 04:38 AM
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That's red pill. It's looking at everything from evolutionary psychology perspective
/r/askTRP27/11/19 03:21 AM
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Accountant or something generic in business. It's ridiculously easy and a great quality of life for little work. Have to go to a good business school though, like top 50
/r/askTRP22/11/19 08:11 PM
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You will feel alpha after you accomplish your goals. Like fereally said
/r/askTRP10/11/19 01:33 AM
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Remove your attention. Talk to everyone but him. Ignore his attempts at eye contact. After about thirty minutes extend an olive branch
/r/askTRP06/11/19 06:24 PM
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Give them a look like they are beneath you, place hand on her back to comfort her. Continue walking. Do not escalate. Always de-escalate a fight. Fights are for people with such low value they have nothing else to lose
/r/askTRP06/11/19 03:23 AM
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Actual marketing jobs are rare and don't pay much. Most marketing jobs are actually sales. Sales jobs lucrativeness are highly dependent on the economy. Coding is probably a more secure profession as you have a real skill. But you will probably be better at one than the other, do that one
/r/askTRP06/11/19 01:11 AM
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People 20-25 will think it's cool. Everyone above 25 will think you're an idiot
/r/askTRP06/11/19 01:06 AM
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If staring ignore, if bothering do what you did and deal with it planning your body between her and the other guy
/r/askTRP06/11/19 01:04 AM
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This is the correct answer. Be very polite and to the point. Don't make small talk.
/r/askTRP31/10/19 04:03 PM
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I would just not laugh when they made a joke. Afterwards just be like "alright alright easy there big guy". That way you let them know you don't think it's funny but you also aren't butt hurt. If they're a good friend they'll slowly stop making height jokes. If someone keeps making height jokes with this approach then they're not a good friend and you slowly stop hanging out with them as much
/r/askTRP31/10/19 04:01 PM
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Thanks for the feedback
/r/askTRP31/10/19 03:53 PM
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I like that, thank you sir
/r/askTRP27/10/19 10:46 PM
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Def an option but I quickly get bored of gaming women if I am unable to escalate verbally or physically :/
/r/askTRP27/10/19 09:58 PM
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Lol so true
/r/askTRP10/10/19 01:08 AM
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Sounds like you might be a little cluster b. You might want to see a psychiatrist and look into dialectical behavioral therapy. You can buy workbooks on Amazon.
/r/RedPillWomen05/10/19 04:09 PM
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You can't believe yourself into confidence, it comes from hard work
/r/askTRP04/10/19 02:15 AM
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Confidence comes from having a strong sense of control over ones fate and environment
/r/askTRP04/10/19 02:15 AM
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Possibly give random fake compliments?
/r/askTRP03/10/19 02:27 AM
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It is easy to see that someone is doing something wrong but much more difficult to identify what specifically, name what's wrong, and give a solution
/r/askTRP03/10/19 02:17 AM
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Scientist and University professor jobs are not in general high status. If you are a famous scientist or University professor, or work for a well know company/University, then it is high status. But by itself it's not high status because it's fairly easy to obtain for shitty universities
/r/askTRP27/09/19 08:58 PM
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There's a reason beer starts with a b, because it's for beta males. Real alphas go straight for the cream
/r/askTRP26/09/19 08:24 AM
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Get ice cream and walk around a park, bring a football. Pay for her ice cream. Meet there, picking up on first date is creepy because she can't leave if you're weird Mostly focus on logistics of date. Examples: hmm what kind of ice cream are you getting. Alright let's take our cream to the park. Oooh there's a good bench let's go to there. Ok well I'm not a big talker, let's throw a football. As the man you should be driving the action not conversation. However, if you do need to be conversation…
/r/askTRP26/09/19 02:57 AM
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You only act redpill with women youre having sex with. With random people and your coworkers just be polite and chill. No one wants to work with some guy who is constantly trying to amog them.
/r/askTRP24/09/19 10:39 PM
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First comment guy is right. You were kind of being lame. More chill is required
/r/askTRP23/09/19 02:21 PM
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Personality type
/r/askTRP23/09/19 02:15 PM
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Do not respond to or make eye contact with people who are treating you disrespectfully, I think this advice will go a long way with you. Give eye contact and respond as soon as they treat you respectfully, this will subconsciously train people to treat you respectfully. Start reading personal finance subreddits. Be sure to buy Honda or Toyota so your car doesn't break down. Download mint mobile phone application and use it to track spending. Finally, I read your whole post and that sucks man. No…
/r/askTRP22/09/19 03:23 AM
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It will be awkward at first. Social skills are like any other skill they take practice. The easiest way to start is to accept that you will be awkward at first, but you're working on it
/r/askTRP03/09/19 01:17 AM
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A category within personality disorders. It is comprised of anti social PD, narcissist PD, and histrionic PD. Cluster B women often come on very strong, quickly offering praise and sex. This is love bombing. Once you are enjoying the sex and admiration they quickly push for commitment. After you are committed they begin to devalue you, aka make negative comments. Positive comments and sex only come back when you do what they tell you to do. Be careful
/r/askTRP28/08/19 10:48 PM
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Way too much intensity for the first date, no one can actually like someone that much after spending an hour with them. This girl is most likely cluster b and currently love bombing you
/r/askTRP28/08/19 10:35 PM
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Strong work! But now you have to reinforce the good behavior! Look up a post called "bitch management" or something like that. You can't just punish bad behavior you have to be able to reward good behavior
/r/askTRP21/06/19 01:59 AM
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Yeah, I think common courtesy is to give like five minutes of good eye contact then start doing other stuff in the living room while "listening" to her. I only do this if her story is boring, if interesting I engage her. Yeah, I mean it's ok to care about things but at some point they are taking advantage of you and it's not rude to stop listening. That time for me is five minutes. Strong work. Keep practicing, you will get better. Use it one random co-workers for practice. If she is openly dism…
/r/askTRP20/06/19 01:46 PM
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I think one of the best ways is pretending to wingman for him like the above person said. Example, "she just got this dress man, you should ask her about it!" You can also pretend you think he's talking to both of you and dominate the conversation. "Man this club is packed right now", "I know bro it's crazy, I've never seen it like this on a Saturday. You come here a lot?" Don't allow him to start a conversation or build rapport with your girl. Immediately make the conversation include yourself …
/r/askTRP20/06/19 02:54 AM
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I don't really think anyone will ever actually be interested in how your day went. Attempting to get someone to do so is a futile attempt and will only frustrate you. Also listening to her day with the hopes she asks about your day is a covert contract. Your other complaints are valid but you're kind of shooting yourself in the foot on this one. The best way to get to talk about your day is to say, "omg this hilarious thing happened today" now she wants to listen because she wants to laugh. Make…
/r/askTRP19/06/19 10:14 PM
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If you want to approach: stare till it's obvious you are looking, three things will happen 1. She'll make eye contact and maintain eye contact (she's interested you may approach) 2. She makes eye contact but quickly averts (not interested you're ugly) 3. No eye contact ever (she doesn't see you or you're ugly) If you don't want to approach: ignore
/r/askTRP17/06/19 08:43 PM
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Hanging out with another man one on one that isn't an old friend is emotional cheating, doesn't matter if she has sex with him she already cheated. You need to break up with her and move on.
/r/askTRP17/06/19 08:35 PM
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High level skill + humility. Lesson from him is that it's actually better to show subtle signs of power, wealth, pre-selection than overt and in your face.
/r/askTRP15/06/19 11:28 AM
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Remove recognition of his presence, verbal and eye contact, to only absolute necessity. If it's just you and him in the hallway don't make eye contact, say hello, or anything. If he tries to talk to you one on one glance at him like you would look at a piece of shit on the sidewalk (disdain), give a one word answer, and look away. If walking, don't stop if he tries to initiate conversation just give one word answer and keep walking. Don't hold doors for him. Etc. Obviously if other people are ar…
/r/askTRP14/06/19 06:13 PM
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Worthless. This does not give you any job specific training. "How to use high tech medical devices", a hospital could train you in this in like a week and would pay you to be trained. This is universities trying to steal your money don't fall for it
/r/askTRP12/06/19 07:59 PM
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Yes, they just pass easily and quickly so you don't always notice it Soft next: yes she must like you enough to chase you Hard next: doesn't matter, you're essentially ghosting her If you're actually naturally very serious and not just inexperienced/nervous you should do dry sarcastic teasing. Also learning game will always be uncomfortable at first, only you will know whether it's because what you're doing isn't your style, or if it's just because you're inexperienced
/r/askTRP12/06/19 07:53 PM
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It's an alternative strategy, not saying it's better but it usually works. I got the idea from someone else's post here
/r/askTRP11/06/19 09:57 AM
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I always wait for the second date to go for sex. Make sure the first date is only like one hour. It significantly reduces lmr and asd. I honestly think if you look at hours to f-close instead of dates it actually ends up being faster. And the girls are usually much more eager.
/r/askTRP11/06/19 01:42 AM
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This is a great detailed explanation of how to open women
/r/askTRP10/06/19 07:13 PM
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You need to schedule hang out times so when she asks for more you can point to a specific time and say, "I can't hang out tonight I'm busy but I'm excited to do xyz activity with you on ABC date at 123 time"
/r/askTRP09/06/19 06:51 PM
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Let the other person talk and don't bring your story up again. Everyone accidentally interrupts someone from time to time. If it happens recurrently that's the sign of a bad friend and you should stop inviting them to hang out. Never try to dominate a group as it comes off as weak.
/r/askTRP09/06/19 02:55 PM
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This advice is so that if you do end up fighting him you get in less trouble, not to actually ask the school to solve the problem. You should take his advice. It's called creating a paper trail.
/r/askTRP05/06/19 02:13 AM
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She was attempting to indirectly compliment you by putting him down. She was implying you are mature and he is not. She was trying to stroke your ego and thereby get laid
/r/askTRP04/06/19 03:46 AM
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You should have went into the living room and gotten ready to go to the gym without her. When she comes out, "hey I have to go to to the gym, I'll drop you off". She then asks if this is because she didn't want to have sex. "Nope, I need to go to the gym" look at her like she's a weirdo for even suggesting such a proposterous notion If she pushes it you can elaborate to the point, "i mean obviously I'd rather have sex but if we're not going to have sex then I want to go to the gym". She asks if …
/r/askTRP02/06/19 05:04 PM
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Yes. Girls you are having sex with: only get attention if they are having sex with you, if they withdrawal sex don't give them attention. It's not being mean, it's enforcing your boundaries. They are attempting to manipulate you to get free attention. People you don't have sex with: be as nice as you want. Enforce boundaries. Give without the idea of receiving something in return. And that's pretty much it. Honestly trp ideology when fully understood and implimented can lead to some of the most …
/r/askTRP01/06/19 01:34 AM
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There you go! It's all about developing yourself and your game. Girls and sex are just a nice bonus.
/r/askTRP29/05/19 03:35 PM
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You shouldn't plan on getting married till like 35, should be seriously looking at 30, from 20-30 work on your career and learn game. None of these girls should matter to you. Don't let their opinion of you get in your head. They're just good practice.
/r/askTRP29/05/19 03:19 PM
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You're afraid to fail and you probably don't have game. It's easier to say I could do that than to do it. Start now, if you approach every interaction with the mindset of "I'm learning game" as opposed to "I have to win" you will be less scared and won't care if you fail. Every time you fail with game is just a lesson on how to not act next time, as long as you keep trying you're not a loser
/r/askTRP29/05/19 03:10 PM
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Sounds like you might need to work on your game, everything else sounds good though. Try to read everything on this subreddit about flirting and make a list of all the techniques. Then try to use one every day. Also flirt with any girl you can, even ugly ones. It's just all about numbers.
/r/askTRP28/05/19 01:02 PM
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You should implement red pill ideology in day to day life but give her a sweet romantic date night once a week and once a weekend. This is probably why she is angry, you stopped being romantic. When she complains about you being distant or not spending time with her say, "I am looking forward to our date on Saturday". You should schedule these dates so she knows they occur. If she acts up you are not as attentive on the date. If she behaves well that week you are very sweet and attentive on the …
/r/askTRP28/05/19 12:54 PM
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Tip 1: be looking for girls that are interested in you, as opposed to trying to convince girls they are interested in you Tip 2: it's sounds like you might be cherry picking the hottest girls to game, game every girl that's mildly attractive to you. For abundance mentality and IDGAF attitude you have to be ok with moving on and just hitting on the next girl even if she's not as hot. Tip 3: it sounds like you might be hiding your interest at first as the other comment mentions. You have to own th…
/r/askTRP28/05/19 12:41 PM
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Sounds like it's just because you're in high school. You'll be fine once you're in college. Girls have high asd in high school and guys White Knight harder. No one does this kind of stuff at a large college or in the real world
/r/askTRP27/05/19 03:11 PM
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You need to develop fake blue pill personality for work. Going trp at work Isa bad idea, you'll be annoying. At work just pretend everyone is your mom. You're really nice to your mom and you don't tell her about anything bad or shitty
/r/askTRP26/05/19 03:19 AM
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You could see a second pt. Physical therapy is a very subjective field
/r/askTRP11/05/19 03:17 AM
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Definitely yes. They will be more clandestine about it though. And your LMR game has to be better. Women with high quality careers, in my experience, often do not have matching high level skill in all other areas of their life. Yeah she's a lawyer/doctor but she has poor social skills and poor relationship skills. They are hyper-specialized. Just date one once and you will no longer put them on a pedestal. They also tend to have the personality of trying to look perfect and well rounded external…
/r/askTRP11/05/19 03:15 AM
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Just don't say anything when they talk about girls. If they insist you say something murmur a vague platitude, "girls will be girls". At a certain point it honestly becomes amusing pretending to be blue pill with them. Sometimes I'll say something stupid just to see who will agree with it. Amuse yourself. You can still talk about everything else with them.
/r/askTRP11/05/19 02:58 AM
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Read all the books in the side bar. Most basic questions are answered there. No more Mr nice guy, etc
/r/askTRP09/05/19 02:04 AM
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You cannot easily obtain sex, they cannot easily obtain a relationship. Balance.
/r/askTRP08/05/19 12:55 PM
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Better, more detailed answer than mine haha. Go with this one
/r/askTRP06/05/19 04:35 PM
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If you are in an urban area with high volume of women, then next. It's a numbers game, not an effort game. Also you need to learn to differentiate between prudish girl and male with poor game. If you have poor game but don't know it, it could appear to you as though the girl is a prude.
/r/askTRP06/05/19 03:27 PM
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She was never going to spend any money on you. This was an easy way to promote increased investment from you. It's a manipulation technique. Honestly for me this would be strike 1. Imagine in ten years, "well honey I was going to have sex with you but you didn't do the dishes, I guess you really don't care about me". This is essentially the equivalent of a married woman claiming she doesn't have sex with her husband because he doesn't do the dishes, laundry, etc.
/r/askTRP06/05/19 03:05 PM
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You need to join a club and spend every Wednesday spending time with a group of people. Be chill and just keep showing up. Don't try to be too extroverted it'll be annoying. Guys bond by doing things together and spending time together not talking. You have to put in the time to become friends with a guy. Keep going, put in the time. Don't be annoying. The moment you know they might want to be friends is if they invite you to grab drinks for a game or something. Then you're friends.
/r/askTRP06/05/19 12:53 AM
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Therapist is a very vague term. A therapist could be a psychiatrist, psychologist, social worker, or just did some kind of community college therapy program. The only psychotherapy that is proven to work in medical studies is Cognitive Behavioral Therapy. And I'm pretty sure that's not used to for relationship therapy.
/r/askTRP05/05/19 04:07 PM
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Building social power: have a lot of cool guy acquaintances you are close enough to to be invited out for drinks. Anytime you run into a guy who seems mildly cool chat him up. If he's cool, continue to talk to him every time you see him. Ask him how his days been, etc. Slowly you will have a large network of cool guys you know. Invite the ones you really like to go to the bars with your friends, tell them to bring all of their friends. (I don't do this for people I work with, I just game them at…
/r/askTRP05/05/19 03:08 AM
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Evolutionary fitness = numbers of kids * ability to survive Your brain is wired to reward you for achieving these two objectives. Having kids and raising them well will bring you happiness because this grants you an evolutionary advantage over people who did not find happiness in children (they're dead along with their genetic line). This is the scientific/literal answer to your question. Do with it as you wish.
/r/askTRP04/05/19 02:37 AM
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Medical related, don't really want to say more for doxing reasons
/r/askTRP02/05/19 06:28 PM
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No, I cannot easily switch between the two unfortunately
/r/askTRP02/05/19 06:26 PM
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Haha just figured id throw that in since technically this is asktrp. I cannot easily change between option A and B...
/r/askTRP02/05/19 02:35 AM
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Thank you for the response. I will have to think about which one my heart is really in. In regards to your second statement, it is an extreme specialization industry so I will not command anywhere close to those numbers if I change jobs. Golden handcuffs...
/r/askTRP02/05/19 02:15 AM
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Ultimately if she isn't chasing you it won't work. Maybe pull back a little bit to see if she chases, if she doesn't then she's not going to make a good ltr. Sometimes professional women can take a while to get them to want to chase you. You should be seeing other women in the meantime. If she is not actively chasing you she doesn't deserve your exclusive time or attention. Also if a woman is consciously running dread game on you that automatically disqualifies her for an ltr. It means shes tryi…
/r/askTRP30/04/19 12:29 AM
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Being stoic in this situation would be scheduling one or two hours a week for you and your sister to get dinner or play board games together. Allow her to talk about her problems, and afterwards say "hey I'm sorry that happened. That really sucks". Then move on to the next aspect of the board game. Being stoic doesn't mean ignoring your family. It means spending time with them without allowing their spiralling emotions to drag you down with them. You can be a rock for your sister without her dra…
/r/askTRP28/04/19 03:29 AM
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If a girl you haven't had sex with but want to have sex with complains, you listen to her whole complaint and then make a lighthearted joke about it and kid her. She will try to complain again to you, continue your joke. You've just turned her complaining into you two flirting. If a girl you have sex with regularly complains and it's legitimate you should give a reasonable amount of comfort and then kid her about it and no longer allowed her to complain. Women are people too and they want to hav…
/r/askTRP25/04/19 02:41 AM
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Yes, a factor of your SMV is the genes you will give to her children. Never bring up any diseases or genetic issues you have with a woman. However, lying about it if asked would lower your SMV worse than the disease. That would mean she can't trust you. Per usual the answer is A&A to create an air of mystery. But eczema is such a minor disease you really shouldn't worry about it, it's basically seasonal allergies that occur on your skin
/r/askTRP25/04/19 02:10 AM
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