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Absolute betrayal unlocked something in me. I was so sick of wasting my time, getting ghosted, going on shitty dates, and feeling like I was getting nowhere. One day I realized nobody gives a shit about my excuses. The only person that’s going to build me is me. I could spend the next ten years complaining, or I could put in the work. There will always be another man who’s hungrier than you and willing to sacrifice more than you are. If I wanted the life I envisioned for myself, I had to earn it…
/r/seduction24/07/26 08:31 PM
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a majority of this was in the midwest believe it or not. live in socal now.
/r/seduction24/07/26 08:28 PM
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10000%. It is the absolute most underrated thing that people don't talk about i don't care who you are. So many times has it gotten me from the uninterested zone to something much more. And if not that, you build a reputation for yourself and the others who see you as the 'funny' and 'hilarious' guy.
/r/seduction24/07/26 08:26 PM
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This was not about dating woman. Most of the girls I’m talking about if not all my relationships specifically mentioned our friends with benefits or one stands.
/r/seduction24/07/26 08:18 PM
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I wasn’t dating multiple women simultaneously. I’ve never once done that in my life. I have talked to multiple girls at the same time, but they were aware of that. If I’m in a relationship, I am serial monogamous unless the girl I’m with is bisexual then I’m OK with adding another girlfriend to the relationship And in my defense, if you’re on a date with a girl who says her and her boyfriend are taking a break, I’m gonna take her at face value for it. But if they end up cheating and that’s not t…
/r/seduction24/07/26 08:17 PM
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I’d read some of my other responses in here to answer the first part of your question. My opinions on relationships are that it’s a partnership and that whoever you choose to be in a relationship with should be your partner in crime.
/r/seduction24/07/26 08:16 PM
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I agree. I think the biggest issue is so many guys are focusing on how to get a girl when they lack basic social skills. If you can’t talk to a stranger, there’s no way you’re going to be able to talk to a baddie. Go out and observe when you see a guy talking to a girl and how awkward they are. It’s really bad. I talked to the girls the same way as if I was talking to some 65-year-old lady taking my order. I don’t act like she’s a goddess. I just treat her like a human being and go from there.
/r/seduction24/07/26 08:15 PM
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Gonna be honest here … it’s only creepy if she she’s not into you. You need to be the one leading the interaction and escalation. Read her body language and see how she responds. No man should ever be ashamed of his sexuality or expressing it.
/r/seduction24/07/26 08:13 PM
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You don’t need to think of something to say you just need to interact. That’s your first hiccup you’re stuck on. Get out of the mindset of having some planned door-to-door salesman script. You’re telling me you’ve never bought something at the gas station or the grocery store and there’s a middle-age lady there at the counter? Talk to her. You have a brain, but you need to apply yourself.
/r/seduction24/07/26 08:07 PM
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Well, there’s two things: attraction and personality. I worked on my personality and humor for a long time and although I could have great conversations and make girls laugh. It was hard harder to close. Now when I lost 40 pounds got back into the gym and got some tattoos. I got treated better even when I didn’t give the same level of personality effort. Long-term dating personality absolutely matters for short-term hookups…. It’s purely physical at the end of the day. Girls want hot guys and gu…
/r/seduction24/07/26 08:06 PM
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Then you need to reevaluate and see why everyone else is getting action and you aren’t. It’s not rocket science. Do you have guy friends? If they’re all getting laid, what are they doing differently? Are they in shape? More outgoing? Getting up in the dumps about how it feels like shit is totally valid, but it’s going to nuke any progress you make if you’re getting stuck on the ‘WHY’ instead of the ‘how’
/r/seduction24/07/26 08:04 PM
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All stages of life. I’ve gotten to know some of the moms in our neighborhood and they’ve pointed me to a few of the cougar bars that are popular around the area. Lots of women in their 40s and 50s who are recently single or looking for fun.
/r/seduction24/07/26 08:01 PM
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Like sexually? Or do you mean never dated a girl? Elaborate
/r/seduction24/07/26 08:00 PM
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I avoid picking up women at bars generally. I’ll take dates to bars that always works great, but not approaching random girls there. Now this is higher risk higher reward, but I have approached a group of girls at a bar and then sat down with them in their friend group and was able to kick it off. High risk high reward, but pays off nicely.
/r/seduction24/07/26 08:00 PM
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Dating apps in the past from around 2022 to 2024 Ish. Was out of the game for a while. The dating apps are really bad now so I’ve been sticking to public places where I can find and meet woman and a natural setting. It really depends on where you live as well. That’s going to be a major factor in where you’re going to meet woman.
/r/seduction24/07/26 07:57 PM
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Work on yourself. Make sure you’re presentable physically, don’t go straight for the dating game, but join friend groups or have a circle of friends where there’s going to be woman that you might be interested in where you can start to chat with them. Get hobbies if you don’t have hobbies already. Have multiple hobbies. Have friends who are girls but don’t pull any moves on them. Just keep them as good friends and practice, interacting and learning. Can you elaborate what you mean by you have ze…
/r/seduction24/07/26 07:56 PM
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Woman have the option of of course, doing that however just because someone’s taller and better looking, doesn’t mean that equates to anything in the bedroom. I’m 5 foot 10 not some jacked bro and have had a woman that would choose me any day over some pretty boy that doesn’t know what he’s doing. And a lot of these girls have bad interactions on Tinder. They have to deal with dudes blocking them, demanding sex, being a catfish, the list goes on. Go on some dates with girls and ask them about th…
/r/seduction24/07/26 07:53 PM
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This definitely goes by case. The woman who have been obsessed with me would essentially let me do whatever I want or would be things like my ‘object’ or ‘pet’. I can’t speak for a woman, but the ones that have been obsessed. You would be amazed how far you’d be willing able to push things. Consensually, of course.
/r/seduction24/07/26 07:51 PM
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Money is important, however. It doesn’t mean you need to make half 1 million a year but if you can advance your career or have a better life to offer, it’s going to be attractive. Money doesn’t buy happiness, but money buys experience experiences and experiences bring happiness.
/r/seduction24/07/26 07:49 PM
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Man, some of this I did while I was making 25 an hour. Hell during some of it I was still living at home saving up. Never did fancy dinner dates if I did invite a girl out to drink if she wanted multiple we would either pregame or I’d bring stuff to save $$$.
/r/seduction24/07/26 07:49 PM
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For me personally, it hasn’t made me feel empty necessarily. Now when I’ve been the side dude or gotten with girls who end up being cheaters that made me feel not as full. And being the side dude enough makes you see things differently. And most of these girls weren’t what you would imagine as cheaters they were on the outside decently wholesome girls who had a secret side of them. Just my 2 cents
/r/seduction24/07/26 01:39 PM
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5’10
/r/seduction24/07/26 01:35 PM
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I’ll never be dating multiple women (if it’s exclusive monogamy with one person ) I don’t cheat and that’s a rule I will always stand standby until I die. No dating in the early stages if exclusiveness hasn’t been defined I’m always going to be straightforward and just tell them yeah I’m seeing a few other girls If a girl asked me if I’m sleeping with other girls I’ll tell her yeah I’m sleeping with a few other or yeah I’m saying another few girls. BUT number 1 never lie or cheat because it’ll a…
/r/seduction24/07/26 06:11 AM
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What do you mean can’t maintain it? Like you get ghosted? Or you get attached? What do you mean by can’t maintain it? With her, we had been partners in crime for almost 3 years. She had recently gotten a new circle of friends, and I went out to meet them one night. She was pretty intoxicated, and when I parked my car I saw there was another guy with his hands on her more than they should’ve. I called her out on the spot and she basically told me that I was “ ruining her fucking night” by doing t…
/r/seduction24/07/26 06:06 AM
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Do you want an honest answer or a Christmas answer? You don’t leave somebody that you love or somebody that you’re obsessed with first of all. Secondly, if the parents don’t like you, it’s because either they see something or more than likely she said things about you to justify the breakup whether that’s the reality or not. It’s a soft way of her saying no thank you. Logically here if there’s somebody that you love and the relationship is good you wouldn’t be breaking up. She’s already made the…
/r/seduction24/07/26 06:01 AM
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Sure do. In the notes app Some dates I’ll make notes of how I felt it went in ways. I could improve on it. It’s easy for our minds to feel and see things in one perspective in the moment but when you reflect on it in a later, period you see things differently and can grow from it.
/r/seduction24/07/26 05:57 AM
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How much of an age gap are we talking? The oldest woman I’ve been with was 56 and that was when I was 22. Few years later it’s very easy to talk to women late 30s-50s. They are very forgiving and kind
/r/seduction24/07/26 05:56 AM
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You have to lead the conversation. No stupid questions. She’s been asked “What’s your favorite color?”, “What do you do for fun?”, and every cheesy pickup line a hundred times. It kills the mood instantly. Just be unapologetically yourself. If you’re goofy, be goofy. If you’re sarcastic, be sarcastic. If you’re a little dramatic, hell play into it. Pay attention to her instead of thinking about the next question. Let’s say she’s got nice eyebrows, Ask if she gets them threaded or waxed. So respo…
/r/seduction24/07/26 05:55 AM
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Context matters here. If you’re on the fence, I wouldn’t go straight for a date. Something like, ‘Hey, me and some friends are doing ___ this weekend. You and your friends should come join us .. takes a lot of the pressure off. If she’s interested, she’ll make it easy to say yes or find a way to spend more time with you. If she’s not interested she will usually drops hints and excuses with no attempts to try and re connect and then you cut your losses and be proud you tried regardless
/r/seduction24/07/26 05:41 AM
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I’d almost argue your haircut is the perfect opportunity to practice this. If you’re waiting until you have the perfect haircut, the perfect body, or the perfect amount of confidence before putting yourself out there, you’ll be waiting forever. The number one biggest thing for me was thinking I needed to keep getting better and then once I was *there* then I would be able to pursue women. Let’s be real realistic, even if you got more fit in your hair is fixed right now there would be another rea…
/r/seduction24/07/26 12:42 AM
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Confidence isn't something I've ever successfully faked. It's the receipt from the work you've put in. Women are much more in tune to genuine versus fake confidence than most men realize. Confidence isn't walking around thinking your shit doesn't stink or that you're the biggest, coolest guy in the room. That's usually insecurity in disguise. Real confidence is not caring what other people think. It's being unapologetically yourself without constantly filtering your actions through what you pred…
/r/seduction24/07/26 12:36 AM
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absolutely agree. As sad as it is I believe every man has to be in order to be successful with women
/r/seduction24/07/26 12:32 AM
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I don’t sit there trying to think of the perfect thing to say. I just look for something funny or absurd about the situation and play into it. I think people massively overestimate how much women care about what you say and underestimate how much they care about whether they’re enjoying themselves. If she’s laughing and we’re both having fun, that’s usually more than enough. How many other guys have approached her that week with, “Excuse me, I just saw you and thought you were beautiful…” or som…
/r/seduction24/07/26 12:30 AM
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I don’t sit there trying to think of the perfect thing to say. I just look for something funny or absurd about the situation and play into it. I think people massively overestimate how much women care about what you say and underestimate how much they care about whether they’re enjoying themselves. If she’s laughing and we’re both having fun, that’s usually more than enough. How many other guys have approached her that week with, “Excuse me, I just saw you and thought you were beautiful…” or som…
/r/seduction24/07/26 12:27 AM
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I don’t do clubs whatsoever. I’ll go to EDM concerts or live music occasionally, but some of my least successful experiences have actually come from clubs. If I see an attractive woman at Target or the grocery store, the first thing I do is observe the situation. Is she busy? In a rush? Does she look like she wants to be left alone? Context matters. Let’s say she’s looking at tri-tip in the meat section. I might say, “Those are really good on a Traeger, have you ever tried one?” If she hasn’t, I…
/r/seduction24/07/26 12:23 AM
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I’ve never used canned lines or worried much about direct vs indirect. The biggest thing that changed for me was I stopped treating women like women and started treating them like people. Most of my interactions are just humor and whatever random situation I’m in. Saying witty or absurd stupid things. Yesterday I was getting coffee and the barista complimented my glasses. I joked that all my friends call them my Dahmer glasses and that, last time I checked, I don’t drive a white VW. Later I aske…
/r/seduction24/07/26 12:08 AM
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Same here. Becoming confident in my own skin getting fit, and putting myself in the uncomfortable situations that boosted my confidence are essential. For me personally I prefer to have around 4 to 5 FWB. It’s not too much to maintain, but then not small enough that you end up coming off as desperate
/r/seduction23/07/26 11:49 PM
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Mostly dating apps, but honestly a little bit of everything. I’ve never been huge on cold approaches. A lot of it happens indirectly. I’ve gone on bad dates and ended up hitting it off with one of her friends months later. I’ve met women through Facebook Marketplace buying something, farmers markets, concerts, and just random everyday interactions. women are everywhere. Dating got a lot easier when I stopped treating every interaction like it had to lead somewhere and just became more social. Li…
/r/seduction23/07/26 11:48 PM
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With you on that. I’m in SoCal. Two or three years ago before Covid I was hooking up with dozens of girls a year… I don’t know what it is but there are so many games now recently and I can’t even get a girl that easily anymore. Been trying and trying but it seems like the girls in California admire being toxic and it’s something to be celebrated. Was out in Texas on vacation and was like the old way. California girls I think just like to act like that for some reason makes them feel ‘special’?
/r/seduction05/06/22 11:40 PM
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If she wants to talk to you dude she would respond. Girls are literally on their phone all day even if she was working 12 hour shifts she would have time to respond a few times a day. She’s not interested stop texting and move on. She’s using you for attention and validation respect yourself and find a new lady. If she really wanted to talk to you she would go out of your way to FaceTime or call you. Hell even meet up with you it’s not that hard
/r/seduction05/06/22 11:33 PM
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Burner acct
/r/seduction06/02/22 02:01 AM
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I lost 60 pounds over the course of about 3 years No matter how ‘confident’ I pretended to be losing the weight is what changed the women I could pull day and night. Especially in my face went from a double chin round face to a jawline and nice features. Just get to low enough body fat % where you can see your abs and then you’re lean enough.
/r/seduction30/11/21 05:01 AM
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dude go to your doctor and get prescribed something called propanarol. It's literally a blood pressure drug non addictive that is a beta blocker (yes, its really called a beta blocker) and it is cheap and helps greatly with anxiety. Like going from hard time breathing to calm and collected in public.
/r/seduction18/10/20 10:38 PM
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dude she didn't get in bed to enjoy the view you shoudve been railing her. gg
/r/seduction18/10/20 10:34 PM
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Well if you think that's your problem then go for it. Save 5-10 up on the side and do absolutely everything else before you do that. Not trying to be a dick but this story sounds overdramatic or you're lying for attention. Men go out there and fucking get it, if you can walk, have all your teeth and are decently in shape you are at least a 6/10+. Unless you blew your face off with a shotgun I highly doubt a 2/10. Get help with the body dysmorphia you have and do something about it besides sittin…
/r/seduction18/10/20 06:41 PM
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100% with you man. It's a mindset change and shift. Learning to stop chasing and thinking about 'them' was a huge thing for me. Telling myself that I'm a fucking man and that I call the shots at any given time. Losing weight was a huge thing man I went from a solid 6.5- to a 8.5 to a 9 in my eyes. I get checked out and stared at lots of places I go, dressing to impress is a huge huge thing also. (I wear all thrift fits and stuff I got on clearance)
/r/seduction18/10/20 06:27 PM
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appreciate it man. Had a few drinks last night and wrote this so hope it all makes sense and flowed well. Just trust the process and the rest will follow. Pain is growth and be motivated for the end result. Adopt a 'fuck em' attitude man. I got so sick of people disrespecting me and walking all over me. I would tell myself "What makes her/them think they are so much better than me that they can do/say something to me like that".. If someone can't give you the respect and treatment you give them …
/r/seduction18/10/20 06:17 PM
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Well first of all fuck those girls. You are letting their standards and ideas get into your head. If this was x amount years ago you'd be the caregiver and the hunter, have tons of kids, multiple mating partners, ect. Guess what I had a triple chin, zero hygiene, I'm 5'9 so not a 6'3 chad, loose clothes, yellow teeth, horiffic acne, a unibrow, tits, ect. I went from over 25% bf down to around 12% at the moment. I get my eyebrows threaded monthly, I eat zero sugar, less than 50 carbs per week. I …
/r/seduction18/10/20 06:09 PM
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FBI wants to know your location
/r/seduction03/09/20 10:13 PM
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It's not about being a d-bag or being rude/treating girls like 'crap'. Us guys can look at other mens behavior like 'crap' but what you're forgetting is these 'mean' guys have their own goals, they aren't putting a female at the center of their universe, they got things going on and priorities. They create desirability in themselves and stand out from other men who come off as needy and desperate. If a guy who treats a girl like 'crap' includes not responding right away, blowing plans off someti…
/r/seduction21/08/20 06:23 PM
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it's about sexual tension, horniess, ect. No word or magic 'phrase' is going to get you laid dude. If she wants to have sex with you, and it feels right in the moment to her, it will happen. This isn't rocket science. 100% like someone else said it's about kissing and her being turned on and attracted to you to begin with, focus on that and the rest works it's self out.
/r/seduction21/08/20 06:18 PM
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If there's not sexual attraction or feelings, end it. Not to be that guy but if you are watching porn/jacking off all the time knock it off and stop doing that. It's going to lower your sexual motivation and drive. If you can't even get hard having sex dude you need to find a girl you find attractive and focus on yourself king. And yes please use protection the amount of herpes and STD's out there is insane and the #'s every year are climbing. I know multiple people who have gotten bacterial std…
/r/seduction21/08/20 06:15 PM
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14 man, was in 8th grade with a 17 year old girl. not worth it dude just wait
/r/seduction29/07/20 07:33 PM
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Just giving my two cents here. Social status to me is a mixture of your social affluence and 'position' in a given place. It to me is a complex bundle of all kinds of things including wealth, looks, background, ect. Look at politicians, world leaders, A list celebrities, who they hang with and surround their selves with ect... For example think back to high school where there were the 'cool kids' 'pretty' girls, the chads and then there was everyone else or just the normal kids. Kinda hard for m…
/r/seduction15/05/20 10:34 PM
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hiking, take her out to a dog park and picnic (pack some snacks and maybe some drinks), maybe a botanical garden
/r/seduction15/03/20 11:40 PM
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jerk off
/r/seduction14/03/20 01:57 AM
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