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Conversationsquatch1601/r/seduction05/05/22 11:57 PM
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Fundamentalssquatch1601/r/seduction11/05/20 05:27 PM
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Conversationsquatch1601/r/seduction26/08/20 03:27 PM
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Ok thats the crux of the problem lol, idk how to come up with convo topics. It's not a game/confidence thing just a personal thing. Even with my family I'm usually not the one to come up with topics, even though I have no issues speaking my mind. This is a good tip, any ideas on how I could do that?
/r/seduction06/05/22 01:59 AM
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I get that but the problem is how to do that without being a tryhard who is desperate for attention. Because like I said I'm a quiet person who makes comments, thankfully I have a good sense of humor and can crack everyone up without talking the whole time. But since I'm not super talkative, trying to do so will seem tryhard and being desperate for attention because it will be 🤷🏽‍♂️
/r/seduction06/05/22 01:38 AM
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Ok before we get into another internet beef, what the first guy said is exactly what I've been doing. Problem is I don't see how that works in a 3+ people convo. I'd it's just me and the girl I can make it work very well. If there are a lot of people it's easy to break her off and get into a one on one. But this is a weird situation where it's one other guy talking. Sometimes I just wait for the other guy to run out of steam and continue with the girl (which works well, but isn't always guarante…
/r/seduction06/05/22 01:28 AM
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Not gonna work... Girls be like that sometimes, probably just needed ego stroked...
/r/seduction02/04/22 03:15 PM
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So if she is also attracted to another person she is low value?? Good luck finding someone who isn't 🤣🤣
/r/seduction29/01/22 06:52 PM
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Just go with whatever feels natural/comfortable for you guys at the time. Go with what you feel like, if the girl really wants to do it differently, she will let you know, respect it.
/r/seduction04/01/22 02:14 AM
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You did, and it's good advice. I did the same thing and it's a game changer. Being able to talk to strangers helps a lot. Not many people can hold a convo with a complete stranger and joke around and keep a good vibe, be it with a pretty girl or another dude, or anything in between. It's a rare skill worth practicing.
/r/seduction25/12/21 04:14 AM
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This is plain wrong, every has a different problem. conversing used to be (and still is sometimes) a problem for me and a lot of people I know. Now my main one is escalation. It's different for everyone.
/r/seduction25/12/21 04:01 AM
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I'm thinking of doing something similar. I made friends with a couple of dudes by working in and stuff. But also you could just introduce yourself and say, "I see you here all the time, thought I'd say hi!". If you see each other all the time, work the long game, yes show interest (rather don't hide it) but no need to go 0-100 in the first convo. Introduce yourself, create a good vibe, walk away. You'll see her again, talk a bit more have a normal convo, before asking her out or inviting to a pa…
/r/seduction03/12/21 02:06 AM
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The most, basically you need to be comfortable with being uncomfortable. It's a life skill in general, to not care about being nervous, and doing things that make you uncomfortable.
/r/seduction28/10/21 05:32 PM
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Part of him is clearly dtf. Just hang out and see where it goes. Escalate when things are going well / high energy. Also, given this sub is mostly filled with dudes trying to get girls to hook up, the reaction you are getting is ridiculous.
/r/seduction11/10/21 02:01 PM
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Thinking the same thing, it would've been silly and made her smile.
/r/seduction08/10/21 09:32 AM
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You don't have to be fake about it. You just want to bang so what it's s natural impulse everyone has. Nothing wrong with it. You don't have to pretend to be interested in more. That fakeness might be the reason you are lacking in results because they can sense it. Most of the girls I hooked up with have been ONS, with tourists, or them visiting friends/cousin's for a couple of days or when I was a tourist. They knew what they were getting into and without judgement.
/r/seduction07/10/21 04:42 PM
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Of course they do. There is a reason you want to approach some women, and want to spend time with some women and not others.
/r/seduction05/10/21 01:07 PM
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As a man you are expected to approach and escalate. On the flip side it is better because we have control the control, you can approach who you want, as opposed to waiting for the other person to approach (although it's obviously ok for the girl to approach too). Same with escalation, you can escalate when you want instead of waiting forever for the other person to do it. Also sometimes girls do escalate, like backing up on you while dancing at a party or in a club, or bringing up sexual topics …
/r/seduction05/10/21 01:06 PM
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There is good advice here but I feel it's too methodical. In my experience the best is to be completely instinctual. If you wanna grab something, grab, if you wanna bite somewhere, bite. Generally she will enjoy the variation too, and if one person enjoys it usually the other does too. Although the info about where the g spot is and a comment about putting a pillow under during missionary was very helpful. But yeah in general just be present and go with what feels right, discovering new things i…
/r/seduction03/10/21 08:33 PM
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Looks help but don't matter nearly as much as you think. I am 6'2", decent bulit, pretty handsome (I've been recommended for modelling out of the blue by people who know modelling agents). However due to some personal issues socializing has been a challenge for me and I've lost social skills. I recently started to pull well until the pandemic kicked in and I've been inactive since. And yes there are not so good looking guys who get laid plenty. I like to think of it as let the girl make her choi…
/r/seduction26/09/21 06:49 PM
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If you're hiding inexperience and worrying about it seeping out, that's not confidence. Nobody is perfect, confidence is accepting it and rolling with it.
/r/seduction19/09/21 06:54 PM
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Go for it. That hesitation/confusion might be because of the age gap. Me and a girl had a thing, but she was 4 years older, so it never really took off. If she knows you for a while and is comfortable go for it. Even if it doesn't work out, it's not bad. Seeing her at work is only as awkward as you make it to be.
/r/seduction10/08/21 09:27 AM
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Absolutely! Lifting changes a lot. Not just your shape, but it improves your posture a lot and people look at you different. It also boosts confidence and gives you another thing to be proud of. And it also improves mind muscle connection so you start to enjoy your body and move different.
/r/seduction09/08/21 04:31 PM
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1) cold approach, it's cliche but gives you experience and helps you realize if you mess up you never see them so it doesn't matter. While also giving you practice. 2) get into the habit of doing things that push you out of your comfort zone. It gives you a confidence in general where you are comfortable with being uncomfortable.
/r/seduction04/12/20 07:49 AM
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Almost. Thing is you can approach girls anywhere, key is being able to approach people in general anywhere. You see this a lot less in cities and a lot more in smaller towns: people just talking to strangers. When you get good at talking to strangers in general you will be good at talking to girls in general. I can't say I'm very good at it, but I got a hell of a lot better when I got the hang of talking to people in general (guys and girls) in all sorts of places. Also that pre screening thing …
/r/seduction27/11/20 08:41 PM
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Do what feels natural. I personally I like to build up tension, though I would also make out right out the gates but then slow down later before going for it, but that's my style. You do what comes natural to you, just follow your instinct (unless it's to rape then don't). Both options are hot in their own way, go with your personality, and the chemistry you have with her. Good luck mate!
/r/askTRP19/11/20 06:24 PM
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Do what feels natural. I personally I like to build up tension, though I would also make out right out the gates but then slow down later before going for it, but that's my style. You do what comes natural to you, just follow your instinct (unless it's to rape then don't). Both options are hot in their own way, go with your personality, and the chemistry you have with her. Good luck mate!
/r/askTRP19/11/20 05:52 PM
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Do what feels natural. I personally I like to build up tension, though I would also make out right out the gates but then slow down later before going for it, but that's my style. You do what comes natural to you, just follow your instinct (unless it's to rape then don't). Both options are hot in their own way, go with your personality, and the chemistry you have with her. Good luck mate!
/r/askTRP19/11/20 05:52 PM
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Yes confidence is key, question is what is your confidence based on? If you try to base confidence on your ability to get girls/looks obviously you'll be low on confidence without past success. People say lift/play sports/ whatever. And it helps only if you enjoy it. When you get good at something your confidence grows. You like to dance? Get better at that, your confidence will improve. You like socializing in general? Make friends, having a good social circle will boost your confidence. You li…
/r/seduction19/11/20 10:39 AM
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Repeated eye contact, they freeze and hold their breath for a moment when you make eye contact, they blush and immediately look away, they go out of their way to avoid it and get attention while still lingering around you, they look at you when you are not looking. There is no saying, each girl has a different personality and acts differently. I would say just approach and find out. After a few approaches you will develop a good instinct. Once you have that experience that instinct will help pic…
/r/seduction11/11/20 01:46 PM
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Would definitely recommend. Most don't haze, the news shows the most messed up cases and doesn't actually give an idea of what its actually like. Also every house has a different culture so I wouldn't recommend joining line just to get laid, because if it's not a good match you'll have a terrible time. Also look into co-ops. Very similar. Socializing with that many people will also improve your social skills and confidence. You'll also likely end up being very good friends with someone who is go…
/r/seduction09/11/20 09:17 AM
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Don't. You like talking to both so you are talking to both. Nothing wrong with that. Just be careful because one may get jealous and try to cockblock you with the other. Until you are in a relationship, nothing wrong with talking to/hanging out with/hooking up with multiple girls. And if you are in an open relationship, nothing wrong after either.
/r/seduction05/11/20 10:58 AM
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1) because like you said they are 4-6 s. Smack dab in the middle. Any lower and nobody is interested, any higher and most dudes are too intimidated to approach. The fact that they are not a default "hell fucking no" but somewhat approachable for most guys means this range gets approached the most. And since they get approached the most their ego is flying around with a jetpack. 2) ratings are subjective. I remember once when a couple of my friends were talking about how hot a girl they know is, …
/r/askTRP31/10/20 09:45 PM
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Confidence and approaching thing here works just as well for women, but they have a bit more leeway. As always ask the hunter (women who are good at game) but here is some interesting stuff from my experience that might help: 1) just go for it, you don't know what he is attracted to (applies to everyone): I remember when I went up to a couple of my friends about how hot they thought a girl in their class was, they showed me her IG I thought meh. There was also a time when I was returning from a …
/r/seduction28/10/20 07:49 AM
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In general, good job, but careful about the water fountain thing. There is nothing wrong with giving someone the way in such cases (unless you are super thirsty or smth). Don't over compensate by being a dick. It's about being honest, there is a difference between being polite/nice/kind because it makes you feel better (because you are a good person), and doing it so that you can trick people into looking you. It's about sincerety.
/r/seduction27/10/20 11:58 PM
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The fact that you instinctively started a convo with a stranger means you're going the right way. Keep it going you'll be more comfortable and can't start thinking about getting numbers and escalating and what not... Good job getting the momentum going 👍
/r/seduction22/10/20 03:40 PM
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I've tried both, but there seems to always be one ugly annoying girl that gets in the way. Like other girls in the group, even guys are friendly and good to talk. But than the annoying girl answers questions I ask them, interrupts everyone, is generally terrible. Any advice on dealing with that? I've tried being friendly and ignoring them but no success either way.
/r/seduction21/10/20 10:52 AM
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Exactly. I was in a "politically correct" humanities class in college, where our professor asked how many people "ask for verbal consent every step of the way", and everyone raised their hand. First of all what do you define as a "step"? Talking? Shaking hands? Making eye contact? And when the moment is right, talking instead of acting straight up kills the vibe. So either everyone was a hardcore virgin or full of shit. I think the best approach to this is to pull them in gently when trying to m…
/r/seduction20/10/20 11:19 AM
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Yeah it was painful, but the trick is to not mind it and learn to live with it. You approached them, that's the first step and you did it, you got the solid foundation to build on. So just go ahead and keep the momentum going!
/r/seduction18/10/20 09:34 PM
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Gradual escalation. Good eye contact is key. It helps to have a touchy vibe in general (nothing too aggressive, but high fives, pat on the back, hug when you see them, tap their shoulder when you talk to them if in a group), stuff you would probably be ok to do with friends in general. Slowly get sexual with touches, or even just be close to her. If she doesn't try to get away and is comfortable being close to you that's good. When going for the kiss, if things are going well, and you know feel …
/r/seduction05/10/20 11:00 AM
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I mean we were already making out and that was last minute resistance, but that's what sealed the deal. And yeah bad boy appeal is a thing but bad boy and asshole is different. Bad boy is about doing what you want because you don't care about how others perceive you. Asshole is about trying to make others feel bad. Think original James Bond movies. He isn't unnecessarily an asshole to everyone, but he also isn't afraid to speak his mind.
/r/seduction17/06/20 11:22 AM
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Why not? Again don't be a pushover, or put them on a pedestal. Just show them basic respect you would show most friends. If you are being an asshole you're overcompensating and being generally unpleasant. Think from her perspective, everyone either bends over backwards for the girl or acts like an asshole to overcompensate. A genuine respectful/good guy would be refreshing.
/r/seduction17/06/20 11:11 AM
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7.5, 8 on a good day... The scale is pretty subjective, but most guys found her pretty hot.
/r/seduction17/06/20 11:02 AM
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Example is terrible bc that is a rare scenario, but advice is good. I remember I lost out on this girl bc I pressured her. And got another bc I respected her (her literal words were "wait, you respect me as a person?!" And she took her clothes off). Not being a pushover doesn't mean being an asshole. In technical terms showing respect "builds comfort" and showing everyone basic decency and respect helps build a good social circle "status". So yeah don't be a pushover, but show everyone basic dec…
/r/seduction17/06/20 10:52 AM
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I had a similar problem but I struggled with talking to people in general. The only thing to do, is to go through with it anyway. Eventually you get ok with rejection, and learn to bury your nervousness. Doesn't just have to be talking to people you like, do things that aren't necessarily unhealthy or bad, but make you uncomfortable. You will get used to not caring about being uncomfortable.
/r/seduction16/06/20 10:35 AM
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Do you mean actually autistic? Guys who don't pull their weight might have other things, like a good sense of humor or a caring nature or smth. These are important characteristics, and some women do prefer these. As for actually autistic, they don't seem to like meeting new people do they, would struggle.
/r/seduction13/06/20 08:27 AM
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Only true if you are looking for a relationship. Plenty of us just want hookups or ons or fwb type deals. Sex is a physical need everyone has, including her. Think of girls on vacation, just over a break up, or even local girls when you are on vacation. Yes a local girl will have no problem hooking up with tourists. For that you just need to be attractive, and make her comfortable enough that she knows you won't tell everyone she knows you hooked up with her or smth (basically minimize negative …
/r/seduction12/06/20 05:02 AM
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True! My game improved most when I went to college and started up conversations with random people next to me in libraries. It helps to be able to talk to anyone.
/r/seduction07/06/20 01:30 PM
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His new stuff is so good! I started off watching his older stuff, which felt like too much outer game, unnatural and try hard. As I got more experience I moved away from it but this and another one, I recently saw on this sub seem way more legit.
/r/seduction02/06/20 10:47 PM
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Ideally I would recommend working on inner game, that way you don't have to actively attract, you just are attractive (in the way you carry yourself and all). But otherwise, just get experience, and look into IOIs (usually lip biting, hairflips, and all). You might also notice the look in their eyes change or them holding their breath. Most cases it's only a couple of mins after approach or even earlier...
/r/seduction02/06/20 01:30 PM
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If you mean about messing up, it's like guys said above. Oversharing, stretching/forcing a joke, etc. Soon these turn into looking for validation. If you mean about sexual tension, then just remember silence builds tension and speaking breaks it. Speaking is high energy, but when trying to pull I go for high intensity and low energy (although this might be a more personal thing because I only talk a lot when nervous, I'm a generally quiet person naturally). I remember a video with Todd and Julie…
/r/seduction02/06/20 06:44 AM
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Also being quiet increases the sexual tension. Talking too much is def an issue for me, and has fucked me up way too many times when I should have just stayed quiet.
/r/seduction01/06/20 10:08 PM
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It's a judgement call. If you think you can salvage it, try, but at some point you gotta stop wasting time.
/r/seduction01/06/20 10:06 PM
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Like just straight up "Hey, let's meet at x on y"? I feel like since I only met her once, I'd have to get some momentum first wouldn't I? Like text her a couple of other things before setting up the date, even if it's the same convo...
/r/seduction30/05/20 08:42 PM
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You don't have to enjoy every conversation with every girl that's fine! Just try to make it fun for you. I like to joke around, so I enjoy conversations with most girls. Ask her about things you're interested in, like music or movies or whatever.
/r/seduction28/05/20 08:30 PM
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Not really if you break it down. Basically it's being passionate about a mutual interest. Building comfort. Creating anticipation. And the double entendre and stuff giving it a sexual vibe. Sure the book thing is only for if you're a lit buff and the girl is a lit buff. But you can do something similar with movies, music, dance, even liquor (as I did).
/r/seduction13/05/20 07:37 PM
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Dude the whole point is looks help but it's not the end all be all. Clearly stated people with good looks (me) fail and people who don't look as good doing better. Its not an absolute, it doesn't guarantee anything. Heck the whole point I just made is looks aren't the only factoe!
/r/seduction12/05/20 07:36 AM
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I remember seeing an RSD video, I think Julien or Max, who mentioned attraction is only a step. Attraction part is easy, and ends pretty quick. Once a girl is attracted you just have to sprinkle it in from time to time. You gotta get, escalation, and get the girl comfortable, etc.
/r/seduction11/05/20 06:35 PM
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That's certainly a better mindset. But what really helps is you start to enjoy it, and it doesn't matter whether they like you or not. You just flirt because you enjoy it. I just express my playfulness, which makes it fun for me. Considering its playfulness, and everyone has it, it should be fun for most!
/r/seduction26/04/20 10:44 PM
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Nothing wrong with being high energy, I know a bunch of high energy guys who pull... Just get comfortable with it and own it. Not being comfortable with yourself and faking it is easy to catch and a huge turnoff.
/r/seduction24/04/20 10:07 PM
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Honestly that always happens... After I was ok with approaching the biggest hurdle was running out of things to say. Still happens sometimes. I watched a talk on YT once by Nick Sparks on this and found it really helpful. The best part is it's not about gimmicks, but rather carrying your actual personality into the convo. Linked it below! https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=XoJa5jUE8t0 Great work though! Keep approaching!
/r/seduction06/03/20 09:42 AM
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