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And I would say that the numbers right there indicate something. Assuming there is a 50/50 split of males and females in this area. so you have 67 males and then you have 5 females. Based on that number assuming the gender split. The women PROBABLY were REALLY nuts. It would seem that this murder is a very infrequent thing for women so the ones that do it are pretty messed up.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/16 02:02 PM
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in Scott's case he got a better woman so nicer car using your analogy. Ive met her. She is a pretty good match for him and she is someone I actually like. There were no kids involved with scott. In the other incidents. The husband got the kids in one case (The mother gave them up, she was another bipolar mess who was a crazy party girl) The other two cases there were no divorce rape. They settled amicably. Both sides got remarried. my guy friends are on marriage #2 and a lot happier.. (inexplica…
/r/MarriedRedPill19/08/16 01:28 PM
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funny Story, I will call my friend Scott. Scott was married to a woman that was about a 7/10. She was bipolar type 1 (hospitallized quite a few times. Tough day at work.. boom checks herself into a mental health facility where listening to it being described it sounds like a place where you sit around and they take care of you. Probably a Spa for people who dont want to be out in the world) Scott is total 100% blue pill. "yes dear ok dear". She spends tons of money they dont have on big name ite…
/r/MarriedRedPill19/08/16 12:50 PM
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it is really simple Why dont I get the same thrill out of that $80k SUV I bought a month ago? Why dont I like my 500k house better than my first one I bought for 150k? My Sister in law DEMANDED her husband put 30k into a new kitchen. 6 months later she doesnt like it. It is a human condition to get USED to ANYTHING no matter how good it is. I think the trick in life is to realize that and not go broke trying to fight that despite what your TV tells you. Exact same thing about Marriage and your s…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/16 04:56 PM
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Hell no
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/16 01:50 PM
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marriedredpill has been a pretty good place. I actually dont sub TRP. I find the young bucks tiring with their expertise and them being 20 years old and telling me my wife of 30 years is going to turn on me ANY moment and I am going to get marriage raped. I find that tiresome. I also think "AWALT" is just intellectual laziness Yawn :)
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/16 02:07 AM
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and I would like to say I have ZERO problem with you being who you are. ZERO. For me. I find feminized men disgusting. I think my problem is there is a LOT of 45 year old women out there who are being forced to lead by their men because the men are told the woman is in charge. A lot of people (they are ALL divorced now) in our circle of friends were like that. Bitchy women who nagged their men all the time and like my wife. TRULLY didnt want to lead but were forced to by their confused men. Devi…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/16 02:00 AM
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yeah totally not. Ive had a run in with Tempest (I think who the hell knows it was 2 years ago and I dont care THAT much) but she is a smart lady. Just a nomination tis all. I was being a cocky RP SOB with the Me > many people :D
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/16 01:49 AM
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And yet I just got done having a nice chat with Grid who is the highest voted person in that nomination thread (You cannot see that as a normal user) I just NOMINATED someone that I know. I personally dont care who gets it. I think you are misreading my jokes and you think I am serious. me > many people <-- That was 100% satirical not serious.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/16 07:52 PM
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oh I probably need to read more rather than scan. I didnt see anyone leaving of course I just came back from a 2 week cruise so... I havent seen what transpired.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/16 07:42 PM
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yes but I nominated Tempest me > many people :) on a serious note I know Tempest so that is why the endorsement. Ive known her for a few years actually. Im generally Pro ALL RPW to be honest. Except the ones that ban me for no reason. (Ill get over it) someday. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/16 07:40 PM
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My wife of 25 years just wrote me a Poem the other day for the anniversary of the day I proposed to her. A Poem. It was amazing. Not sure if I am high maintenance because she absolutely IS not. That really hit the spot. I am not really a gift person however. If I want something I usually just go out and buy it or I convince myself I dont NEED it. Great idea however. The funny thing is like 8 years ago when she got music a schoolgirl outfit and stripped for me. It was the most amazing thing. I en…
/r/RedPillWomen17/08/16 06:28 PM
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I think that PARTICULAR topic shouldnt be BluePill only. I actually put a reply in there and noticed.. it said BP only. so for me as a Mod that thread is a bit of a circlejerk. If you ask people who agree with you about something and not those that disagree you arent having a debate. So, flair needs to be changed to CMV or something else IMO.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/16 04:05 PM
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http://idioms.thefreedictionary.com/preach+to+the+choir Feminism as a debate topic. No, I dont like the term feminsm. Call it equality and Ill be fine with it. Giving people preferencial treatment over something they cannot control is nonsense. woman, black, Gay I dont care.. all stuff they just are. so.. no.. do I think women are my equal? yes, because I am an adult. Do i think they need special treatment because "The patriarchy" No. Treat people well. Not special unless they deserve it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/16 03:58 PM
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like feminism. It will pass. :) When they realize all they got was a job (Jobs mostly suck and damn near everyone hates theirs) Nothing you do at work matters 2 weeks from today but missing little susies 8th birthday because you were selling widgets to some other corporation does matter. By then it will be too late when you realize it. Congrats you are another working drone I saw a post today that was "Question for Blue Pill" and then asked why feminism isnt awesome. Preacher asking what the Cho…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/16 03:32 PM
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I nominate you. (as I did in a separate post)
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/16 10:05 AM
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no one.. we just need some more assistance.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/16 10:01 AM
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https://www.reddit.com/user/TempestTcup I have asked her and she said she wrote me back a fantastic PM. Her posting history speaks for itself. I like the way she thinks and how she writes. I STRONGLY believe that a red pill woman is PRECISELY what we need more than anything. It will probably alleviate my lack of moderating too because having her around probably will inspire me to become more active/vocal. As a moderator for years. I think we moderate from a blue pill perspective more heavily whi…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/16 10:00 AM
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Funny my wife puts on makeup to the point of I cannot see it. She says "It looks better that way" Honestly. I wish she would learn to glamor it up when we go out more. Ive seen it on her ONCE and it looked amazing. (Done when she was a bridesmaid) Of course I am 45 and this trend to make women look more like men I cannot stand. So I am the complete opposite of these guys that say I want an emaciated, flat chested (Because she is so thin) woman with no makeup wearing a polo shirt. Nope.. not this…
/r/RedPillWomen10/08/16 12:02 PM
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been married 25.. mine happed at the 2 year. Got within an INCH of opening pandoras box but stopped. It was in that moment I understood why a hunter could have an animal in it's crosshairs and NOT take the shot. It was a very interesting situation with a boss at work. Thing is.. my wife is a saint and there wasnt a damn thing wrong with her.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/16 12:11 PM
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I think they like it because they know he is safer and less of a flight risk. That is pure marriedredpill theory right there. (I am a contributor) Wife not paying attention to you.. Lift and lose weight. She gets threatened.. You get your attention back. Simple as that. so dad bod being attractive for LTRs.. sure. I could see that.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/16 11:54 PM
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with all the other blue pill brainwashing that's swirling around in our society, it would lead me down a blue path. I am responding to your actual comment. No one was going to convince me to be bluepill as a kid.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/07/16 04:56 PM
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Who cares.. move on, ignore them. Consider dating like a direct marketing campaign. Do you know that direct marketing considers a 1% reponse rate success? Dating will probably get you a 10% success rate no matter what. now get out there and do it. They friend zone you and you arent looking for new friends MOVE ON FAST.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/16 12:37 PM
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Keto kicks ass brother.. Lots of tough commentary in this thread but there is a lot of truth in the toughness. You sound like you get it.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/07/16 12:34 PM
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you really think someone could turn you bluepill? Ive never even been tempted to be a doormat. Cmon. no way.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/07/16 12:32 PM
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wow that is an awesome analogy.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/07/16 12:30 PM
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I found one 25 years ago and I found her completely on accident. If AWALT were true Im still waiting.
/r/RedPillWomen22/07/16 12:05 AM
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no, i can do that myself. (and did 25 years ago) It would be interesting to try computer dating and see who comes up because I know I could be very honest about who I am at this point in my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/16 01:17 PM
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telling a few people usually works. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/16 12:31 AM
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no worries.. yousr stuff just gets autoblocked by the automoderator. EVERY time that docks word is used. You guys are replying to each other and EACH one is getting blocked. Oh look 100 more moderator messages. F it.. Ill go outside instead :)
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/16 12:31 AM
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Im not hateful. not everyone is cut out for leadership. Some have to follow to make a great leader.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/16 11:01 PM
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take care of the kid.. If the woman wasnt poison. I'd probably marry her. (Because unlike many, I was (20 years ago) very selective with who I had sex with)
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/16 11:21 PM
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This post makes no sense... edit it.. or I am nuking it. What is "The Sexist backlash" and explain your litany of questions. Whatever you typed here doesnt make sense to the average (me) reader. Please fix. Kthxbi. (People are flagging it as "Shitposting" fyI) I think you might be posing an interesting question.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/16 10:53 PM
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In Africa it means you are rich. :) There.. your mind is changed. You are welcome. Continue to enjoy the rest of your day.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/16 02:37 AM
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It is funny. I was half expecting the same thing when I clicked and glad to see another one of us has it dialed in.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/07/16 08:41 PM
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neither is oppressed. Both want more cookies than the other. Human condition.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/16 08:37 PM
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Find a fat chick.. or find a woman that likes fat guys. Then do this. http://www.trimmedandtoned.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/04/3859192_d5e1fca0.jpg
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/16 12:20 PM
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Pick the right girl. (That is it) There are plenty out there that will not mind you being you. The tough part is finding them. What woudl I do differently? Stop dating Italian American princesses earlier and look for women that match me. Things worked out fine 25-30 years ago so I cannot complain.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/07/16 10:18 PM
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Here is why I hang around here to give you (all) my perspective on this stuff. Interesting.. I am married 25 years. I wanted all boys (which as a 45 year old man I know WANTING that is ridiculous. You cannot control it so what you wish is unimportant.) I had a son first. I remember being super excited and it was awesome. Then we went for #2.. Found out.. it was a girl.. I was crushed.. She saw it on my face too. I couldnt hide it. I KNEW too it was luck of the draw and I really couldnt say WHY i…
/r/RedPillWomen01/07/16 02:29 PM
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no, I find myself being drawn to them. I have heard you are the average of your top 5 friends. Are you ok with that? I am. A lot of what people in this thread are calling alpha males are abusive ignorant jocks. Whereas I consider a Alpha male as someone who is Decisive Forceful Purposeful Guys who get shit done. We can sit around bitching about something but it serves the purpose of formulating a plan. Then we go out and destroy the problem. No. I always surround myself with type A alpha males. …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/16 11:41 AM
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I was TRP before TRP was a thing. I remember being young and angry. JUST like them. Thing is, I knew part of me wanting to be successful was marriage to a good woman, kids, me being able to provide and me having a good team. TRP was the foundation for that. I dont think anything is different today then it was back then. Finding a redpillwoman was really hard. I did and things are dreamy. TRP is a stepping stone. You get burned by ladies, you elevate your game, you start succeeding by not taking …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/16 11:35 AM
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I would imagine past a certain point there would be a time where you wouldnt care anymore. Isnt it a human condition to get used to anything? At 45 i am wondering if that is really the key to happiness. Not not care about certain things and really not let anything silly get to you. disclaimer i just subbed MGTOW today for science. Some interesting perspectives in there. It is like TRP but with a softer message.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/16 07:37 PM
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1.Motivation for weight loss: Like it or not everyone judges you. It will affect every facet of your life. Work Home Public life, recreation life.. etc What didnt work? : Lifting so hard I break myself. Regular dieting (High Carb). Extreme workout regimes. What worked? Elimination of Sugar. The shit makes me nuts and I binge eated. the KETO subreddit is where it is at people. Lower impact lifting until I build up a good tolerance and tons of cycling. Ive always loved cycling.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/06/16 08:51 PM
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I make 6 figures and my wife has taken care of our kids for 17 years. If we divorced (been 25 years so I doubt it) she would need to live and be able to get back on her feet, also my kids would need the same type of support they have today. complex question really with no simple answer. Thing is.. we could not afford two houses like we have now with the same house type expenses. So that would be an interesting thought. Cars we could take the car that "belongs" to each of us. My wife was a CPA wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/16 03:00 PM
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you sound a lot like me when I was younger. I think a turning point came for me early on. I stopped playing games and giving any attention to peiople who didnt have any interest in me. I in essence started to realize I am totally wasting my time with this friend zone bullshit. I had a girl and it was the 80s.. so infatuated with her and did something that she I am sure threw away but something that is still out there. I made her a mix tape with (ugh) voiceovers. The funny thing is she just kind …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/16 03:42 PM
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If she doesnt want to be with me.. Move on.. I will too.. So far going strong 25 years.. Yes that is red pill flair..ignore the kids Be a better consumer.. simple as that. Dont marry her just because she is hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/16 10:48 PM
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Dont rape kids.. you can find a TON of 18 year old guys that will do all kinds of freaky shit to you if you want. That is predator beavior plain and simple. 35 year old women screwing 13 year olds.. what the hell is wrong with you? 22 with a 17 year old.. that isnt that big of a deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/16 04:29 PM
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Ive always thought that it was because I wasnt breast fed. I know plenty of guys that do not prefer big DD's like I do. Im probably an outlyer.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/16 05:53 PM
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olny difference I see in your story is my wife has never (I cannot remember EVER) shit tested me. OR I guess it is possible that I am so assured she just knows not to. It wasnt something I actively did. yeah there is a whole subreddit of them. You cannot directly ask them but you can observe them and figure out their characteristics. /r/RedPillWomen <-- give it a go. Sounds like you might have one already Captain. Your whole story certainly sounds very familiar.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/06/16 04:05 AM
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I like saying this phrase a lot. in my 45 years the race of a person has been one of the most worthless indicators of someones value. I think you can adapt that answer to your question.
/r/RedPillWomen10/06/16 03:11 AM
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wouldnt be an issue for me. You said "I will never push my choices on someone else" so you and I would be 100% cool If you dont like meat, you dont like meat. Who cares? If someone does care.. move on. There will be plenty like me that really dont care.
/r/RedPillWomen10/06/16 02:29 AM
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only ugly people say looks arent important. No wait.. Im not trolling. Im being serious Personality is great but we form our opinions on people within a few seconds. You do that by what you observe about them. So the first thing they are going to see in that few seconds is your looks. Personality can help after a while and I am amazed at how appearances of some people you forget after knowing them a while but intially.. looks are everything. You can hack your looks however. better clothes take t…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/16 02:24 AM
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It is funny. I tell RP "Never get married" guys all the time. Go to this sub.. read and figure out where to find these women in the wild. I found one on accident 25-30 years ago. (RP didnt exist then) So thanks for unbanning me and I look forward to contributing where I can.
/r/RedPillWomen08/06/16 01:19 PM
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you get many warnings when you are dating someone. You have gotten yours. NEXT.
/r/RedPillWomen06/06/16 10:50 PM
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I dont care. They pulled themselves out of the gene pool. I win all of them 0 vs Me 3.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/16 02:55 PM
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Why is this thread not deleted?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/16 03:04 PM
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Past the 10 year mark of marriage I have had no interest in anyone but my wife. So for the last 15 years Id say yes. as the current top poster said. The honeymoon for us lasted about 6 months after marriage. Somehow we figured out this The psychoanalyst Erich Fromm said that we expend too much energy on "falling in love" and need to learn more how to "stand in love." Pragma is precisely about standing in love—making an effort to give love rather than just receive it. With about a third of first …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/16 11:09 AM
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and best post in this thread. Funny my approach as a redpillman looking for a wife was just as silently cutthroat.. REDFLAG? NEXT.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/16 03:30 AM
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I love you.. Keep being you. There are guys that absolutely appreciate what you and my wife do. We've got GREAT young adults now. It really was worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/16 03:10 AM
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Grass is always greener. She sounds like a hot mess. "tattoo's, tongue piercing" Fuck that.. There is probably nothing wrong with his wife. 5 and 6 year old. yea.. that isnt easy at all. I totally understand why married guys have mistresses. THey have kids, the amount of time they get to spend with that girlfriend they married and had kids with dries up (naturally) and they want that back so they go find it somewhere else. Impossible to fix your marriage when you are banging someone else too. Th…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/05/16 02:54 AM
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Yup.. you know how married red pill works my friend.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/05/16 10:38 PM
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100% agree..
/r/MarriedRedPill27/05/16 10:37 PM
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yeah so it is a LTR? I dont think you say a word. Write it down in your memory bank. Someone like this would have got tossed when I was dating 25 years ago. I dont care HOW hot she is. Big red flag for me. dont believe me.. go post it in redpillwomen and see how many think this is ok? You will get a loud 25% that says it is ok.. the rest will day it isnt.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/05/16 10:34 PM
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check my post history. although I unsubbed there two days ago because it it is a bunch of 20 year olds that are "experts" on marriage and their lastest 10 post in a row that were a trip down confirmation bias lane really got on my goddamn nerves. CIRCLEJERK CIRCLEJERK AWALT AWALT I resub there in a few days and rinse repeat.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/16 11:41 PM
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Id actually suggest it is because women are less sexually capricious. Where as guys old and young dont really care who they are having sex with.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/16 04:05 PM
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lol it is the internet.. it is ALL TRUE!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/16 04:04 PM
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While I am sure there are situations where people legitimately fall in love that are of a different ages (Thus negating the moniker of Bigot) The majority here are doing it because they are going after "a hot piece of ass" with "a tight pussy and non saggy tits" so.. no.. I would not agree I am a bigot.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/16 04:03 PM
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I trust my wife 100%. ive spot checked her enough in the past 30 years to figure her out. 10 years ago. She shouldnt have trusted me one bit. Now.. no problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/16 03:59 PM
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well to be fair I have a really good friend that is 50 and banging the doors off girls late 20s and early 30s. When we "recreate" together it is quite awkward listening to them talk. This hobby we share is a higher end one too. The funny thing is I know he has been married twice already. (to women I am friends with but not as tightly as him) Both of them are women redpill would warn against for sure. He always tells me how "Id like to find the right one but Ive really set my standards high this …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/16 05:49 PM
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https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Socioeconomic_status Nope.. it has more to do with than money. Your username is ironic as hell.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/16 04:36 PM
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seems the exact same to me as when I started about a year ago. We just cleaned out a lot of garbage however.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/16 04:29 PM
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didnt feel a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/16 04:28 PM
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That was my first thought too. No difference. (and I am a mod so I saw the removals)
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/16 04:27 PM
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I do.. I find it equally pathetic. That is my own bias and as i said in another post Id never say that but I WOULD be thinking it. I dont think i am unique in that perspective either. I am just willing to say it here.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/16 04:25 PM
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Not jealousy at all, it is mostly pity from me. If I knew you in real life I wouldnt ever say anything bad about you but I would formulate an opinon of you through casual observation. Mentally at 45 I am not compatible with 20 year old girls. I know plenty of them in my recreational life. I have zero interest in them sexually. I also know wowing them with my wallet or possessions is super easy. so bedding them isnt even complicated. It isnt for me but I cannot say that that does not bias me agai…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/16 04:22 PM
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A well fed man isnt hungry. (It applies to cheating as well as how interested in sex they are) Your line here "Strangely, as I initiate more, he seems to be less interested," I dont think that is strange at all. If he has had enough and you offer him more quite naturally he would not want any more AND would become more resistant to having more. dont you think? He has a certain capacity for sex and well I speak from experience they dont need or WANT any more than that. In a relationship your sex …
/r/RedPillWomen24/05/16 04:12 PM
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Im mid 40s.. Ive seen many people try this for a multitude of reasons. EVERY last one of them has imploded as a result. do I want this? (Even before knowing it is a surefire way of cratering myself) Nope.. doesnt interest me in the least.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/16 03:05 PM
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Great summary.. Old dogs guiding the young pups..
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/16 05:24 PM
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It is a kid. I remember thinking this as a kid.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/16 05:23 PM
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Ive done fine with #1. So.. #1 above 35 no one gives a shit what you look like.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/16 05:11 PM
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Honest to god Id like you to substantiate your claim because Id like to see it. (and report it to the mods of the redpill) Ive been around 3 years and I have NOT seen what you are saying. so... we will just leave it as you are making false claims? You want to delete your posts or would you prefer I do it then?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/16 05:02 PM
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so your claim that "plenty of guys advocate and call for murder on the red pill." and you follow up with "Not hard to find if you look for it." you refuse to substantiate that very incindiary claim.. So.. You are in fact making false statements and trying to shift the focus on my comment which does not mention banning at all. It in fact alludes to moderating posts which are against the rules of this debate subreddit. yes, I am the bad guy here.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/16 02:40 PM
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The comments are still there.. unedited.. and it wasnt MODS. it was me in that one comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/16 02:33 PM
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There was no threat of a ban. There will be a cleaning up of comments that defy the rules. I could have just cleaned it up but me giving 24 hours maybe was a mistake on my part.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/16 02:33 PM
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Substantiate your claim that redpill advocates murder. With links. Ive never seen it. Yes that is PPD mod flair. You have 24 hours. You say it wont be hard. So Ive given you a day.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/16 11:55 AM
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sounds like two douchebags to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/16 11:50 AM
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yeah 30 years and counting.. sure it will happen ANY day now Eye roll.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/05/16 06:01 PM
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In otherwords.. get a hobby that doesnt involve her. I agree oh and BTW if you come home and take a shower that dread wont work. (If she does your laundry) She will know you are bullshittin.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/05/16 05:51 PM
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funny my wife gives me them all the time. I sometimes wonder if there is a bit of subterfuge going on but i REALLY dont care. I feel like i am being worshiped when she does it. It feels amazing. She will just lock the door.. come up to me.. grab for my zipper and get down on her knees. Totally random. coudl be 3x a week or it could be 2 weeks (like right now) since the last one. (that means i am about due) It feels magnificent that a woman Ive been with for 30 years and has given me 3 kids can m…
/r/MarriedRedPill18/05/16 07:11 PM
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The success rate of direct mail campaigns is even lower than 1% but as we all know they still do it because it works.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/05/16 07:01 PM
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wow like reliving 10 years ago. ok you sound good then. Im on the other side of the hill, my kids are older. It is nice and it WAS worth it. I sometimes wonder why I did so well when everyone else around me has literally cratered their lives. honestly Ive got to credit ignoring mainstream advice and using redpill techniques and theories (Which arent in vogue at all at the moment.)
/r/MarriedRedPill18/05/16 03:04 PM
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I put on my favorite dress watch, Khakis and a sportcoat because i wanted to look kick ass today. I didnt do it to get attention from anyone. However I did from the newly single 30 year old hottie in Marketing. Good morning "Squirrelcuisine" (giving me that "Smile") as she ran to the door from the parking garage to catch me on the way in the door. She looked hot too in her suit (with a skirt and high heels) Sometimes I wish I wasnt happily married.. but I am.. she doesnt seem to care much. I rea…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/16 02:42 PM
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That is a good post right there.. Solid gold. The painting thing.. pure goddamn genius.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/05/16 01:56 PM
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Get a hobby. Do some stuff that is different. LEAD dont just sit idle. There is some serious GOLD in this thread. im dead serious. i am not being snarky either. A plate doesnt solve the problem btw. (Take it from a guy who made that mistake 15 years ago) And once you open that box you cant put the genie back in it. Here is the thing man. You guys chose to have kids. That is another role that she has to play. i had this SAME problem back 15 years ago. Hated one of my kids for it too. Took a while…
/r/MarriedRedPill18/05/16 01:54 PM
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Ive been happily married for 25 years. I got in at age 19 when my wife wasnt scarred by douchebags. Things went better than expected. If you wait until 30 you are going to get everyone's "Discards" Same arguement as getting a well bred purebreed puppy or a mutt from the pound. (unpopular opinion here on reddit because everyone here loves saving poorly behaved dogs. Not this guy. Im looking for quality) do what you like but I am sitting here at 45 enjoying what i have QUITE a bit. I wouldnt wait.…
/r/MarriedRedPill18/05/16 01:44 PM
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Do you like your kids being raised by random teeagers why you go add to a corporations bottom line? You have been told you are free. Are you? That is my wife's response.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/16 12:58 PM
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"Thanks for removing yourself from the genepool" (Her response)
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/16 12:57 PM
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30 years and counting.. but.. I DO see your point.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/16 12:54 PM
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Not one rule in the Catholic church has changed no matter how much the Pope talks, the rules are still the same. Church attendance is dying then again so are so many other things too that involve leaving the house. Church is running out of people. I wonder how many came back because of what the Pope said not realizing that truly nothing has changed.
/r/TheRedPill15/05/16 11:47 PM
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There WAS one. but there is no more. I wasnt done editing my post. So they can fix the timer on that bot or they can begone.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/16 11:41 PM
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I think you are making a huge leap with the "fucking" of random stuff you support. Cmon.. you cannot be serious. I can support refugees because I am a humanist. I can support animals because I am a natural caretaker and like to keep things out of harms way. I can assure you I have no desire to fuck my dog.. or refugees.. well unless she is super hot and my wife says it is cool. Which I doubt would happen ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/16 11:37 PM
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I know plenty of women (My wife included) who hate feminists. My wife likes being a mom and a stay at home mom. They HATE her for it and likewise she hates them. Funniest thing when we were dating. This came out of her mouth. "All feminists did was give ME another job" Now guys that are "feminists" those make me laugh. I seriously think that is a dating strategy from beta males. Guys that dont have the balls to MGTOW but are lost about how to date. Male feminists make me laugh. You can be for eq…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/16 11:36 PM
1

I think you answered your own question. Do what works for YOU. Sounds like you are on the correct track.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/16 11:23 PM
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She admits when I push her out of her comfort zone she enjoys it. Guess you figure that out after 30 years of being together.
/r/RedPillWomen15/05/16 10:48 PM
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Or we are going to have to explore Guaranteed minimum income. Which I am perfectly fine with. Id like to see what the world would be like if the creative people in this world didnt have to scamble for peanuts. AND the people that really DONT want to be at work WERENT there. I think that would make it much better for people like me that like it.
/r/TheRedPill15/05/16 04:04 PM
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I think you should do whatever you think is right for you. seriously.. want to dress as a woman.. I dont care. Im 45.. this has YET to impact me in ANY way. Honestly this whole issue seems like a goddamn liberal distraction to keep them from focusing on something I could give a shit about. I wish we had more kickass liberals with their head screwed on straight and would champion something I give a damn about.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/16 03:15 PM
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I think she is missing the mark. She probably wants what her european counterparts have. Actual vacation time. Which we should probably consider. Funny quote from the article. When I graduated from college in the early 2000s, I enjoyed the same unspoken expectation shared among my fellow Gen-Xers: If you poured your heart and soul into your career, you would eventually get to a director level and have the flexibility, paycheck and assistants beneath you to begin to create a work-life balance. I …
/r/TheRedPill15/05/16 02:52 PM
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On point 1: You are not his ex. Sounds like you are the opposite of what she was (I am guessing jealous and clingy) Sounds like he picked well. MY wife resists going places too because she is an introvert I have to pull teeth to get her to go places and when she does she enjoys it and our relationship seems to do better. On Point 2: Sounds like a Jealous predator to me. The fact that he told you is good. Sounds like he is going to advance his career not his N count. Manager sounds toxic. She is …
/r/RedPillWomen15/05/16 11:25 AM
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No, I would sum it up as "Dont let women behave badly around you and just take it" Dont have them as partners. If they want to behave like petulant children ignore them. Young (or some) RP guys seem to add to that "If they are hot you can sleep with them" and never have a LTR because they "all" are that way. A major fallacy I see with RP. AWALT is nonsense in respect to stating women are the precise same. Ive met PLENTY that give me hope for the future because they see radical "I am awesome just…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/16 06:35 AM
2

oh.. well since I actually own the boat I guess I could just set sail and watch the world burn from afar.
/r/TheRedPill11/05/16 05:35 PM
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It is insured. Who cares.. it sinks I get another.
/r/TheRedPill11/05/16 03:04 PM
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It will get downvoted here (but fuck it I got shitloads of fake internet points to burn from dropping science all over these subreddits. ) My advice: go browse redpillwomen. (dont post. observe.. then go find one of them) You are probably dating trash. It really is that simple. There is a METRIC SHIT ton of trash out there (seems to be a lot more these days then when I was dating age 25 years ago.) Source : Im 45 and have all that you said you desired. (add on top of that no debt (own everything…
/r/TheRedPill11/05/16 02:50 PM
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I wouldnt.. They would be jettisoned. If you are playing games you have failed my relationship tests. I'm not your typical RP person at 45 years old I had a goal to get exactly where I am in life right now. Not acquire notches on bedposts from the type of women I cannot have an adult conversation with.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/16 02:40 PM
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This post has been reported 3 times. It is a circlejerk rant not a CMV as the flair suggests. Id remove it but I am a RP mod. Ill let the other mods decide.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/16 02:38 PM
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actually my wife says it because she hates them. out of her mouth in 1995 "All feminism did was give me another job" That was so good i thought she copied that off someone else.
/r/TheRedPill10/05/16 07:15 PM
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No, i think some men ARE naturally beta and SOME women are naturally Alpha. Nothing wrong with that AT all. If it is in your nature do it. If it isnt you probably CANT pull it off anyhow and you wont be happy trying to fake it. I dont think you can fake alpha traits. i have PLENTY of friends married to alpha women. They are good dudes.. I glance at their wives (because we are ALL friends) and give them that "are you being serious right now" look when they are being overbearing. If you put two al…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/16 07:59 PM
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I never stopped brother. Im guessing you didnt either.
/r/TheRedPill09/05/16 07:45 PM
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my wife back in 1995 (dating for like 4-5 years by then) "What do you think about feminists?" Her reply "All feminism did was give ME another job" To this day I have never heard another woman say it but she meant it too. I probed deeper too and asked her "What do you mean?" "I am still the one the baby comes out of right?" Yea "and do you lactate?" No "well.. case closed" I remember at that moment thinking That really confirmed my thoughts that I picked a good one.
/r/TheRedPill09/05/16 05:31 PM
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My wife took care of that and a present. I was thinking about that on the drive in on friday. The funny part is I was going to txt her and ask her if she sent something (as she normally does) but then I thought.. oh Jesus.. dont ask her that.. mothers day is a touchy subject because her mom died like 5 years ago. Are you really going to ask her if she sent MY mom a card and a gift.. Well turns out I didnt ask but later that night she told me that she had sent card and gift on schedule. funny my …
/r/TheRedPill09/05/16 02:24 PM
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Everything is a sign. I think you have to set your radar for these things up REALLY high and filter for damn near everything. I found my wife @ 19 and I knew within 6 weeks I had never experienced anything like this before.
/r/TheRedPill09/05/16 01:06 PM
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oh dont get me wrong. I am here for the EXACT same reason. There are a few guys Ive snatched from the clutches of self destruction. You can tell which ones are going to listen to it and are open to the suggestion. That really is the ONLY reason I frequent this pillsphere (and mod PPD). If to tell guys like me. (you CAN be successful just try harder)
/r/TheRedPill09/05/16 12:58 PM
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When we moved I was getting paid more. I moved first.. she came 6 months later after I set down roots. I had a free place to stay in the new city (Parents were in their winter home down south) little bit of a red flag. She doesnt seem motivated to find work or anything in general. Mine was not like that. When I told her to stop working after the first kid she did NOT like that idea "I should work" Yeah, take care of our kids. I make 3x what you do now. for us things developed fine. Yea yours has…
/r/MarriedRedPill09/05/16 10:50 AM
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I didn't need a prenup 25 years ago. I don't need one today. Wouldn't affect me one bit. Not sure who you are marrying? THEN DONT MARRY. There are many different ways that a BAD woman can screw with you. If you think a piece of paper is going to protect you from a bad decision. You deserve what you get Id gather. Keep downvoting. I am using this particular post to illustrate the difference in the posters at MRP and TRP. lol
/r/TheRedPill09/05/16 10:46 AM
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yeah as a married guy of 25 years I can agree with this post. Id add another one that you can figure out on the first date so you dont waste time. Is she nice? How does she treat a waiter, Hostess etc. Many people cannot hide this. There is a difference between ignoring the wait staff and actually saying "Thank you" Source: found one 25 years ago.
/r/TheRedPill09/05/16 10:43 AM
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Because they have to hide in plain sight. because they get attacked if they are open about their POV. check out redpillwomen. (not redpillwives) scan the posts. I tell redpill angry guys all the time, go scan that sub. learn who they are and go find one out in the wild.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/16 10:40 AM
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or do we? or is it better to just hang back and laugh.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/05/16 10:38 AM
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yup.. got to agree.. it is about 15% of them too. My wife stopped participating in the PTA because of these people. She comes home "OMG these women are horrible. I wanted to volunteer my time and these women are bossy and nasty as hell" It was kind of funny. She cannot stand hanging with these people for a minute.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/05/16 10:37 AM
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Top comment got right to the heart of the matter for me. The guy never will even register what that person said. Why do we even care about these people like the person in the linked post? They arent us. They arent going to learn from us saying anything to them. Most of the guys here are going to be impervious to that unless they have a moment of weakness because of some HPOA. That is their lot in life to be exactly that. I have really given up at 45 in trying to tell these guys anything. Consequ…
/r/TheRedPill09/05/16 10:32 AM
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My wife of 25 years (We have 3 kids) didnt want a gift or a card. Results may vary. The funnier thing is at about 10pm last night she said to me "I bought you a fathers day gift this year" "Why?" I asked. "I found something you needed this year so I bought it. Last year I couldn't think of anything (Last year we bought a boat with cash so that was enough)" so now I have to wait until June to figure out what it is or wait. redpillwomen.. I never will understand them fully.
/r/TheRedPill09/05/16 10:30 AM
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I wish more people would consider intelligence in their assignment of the word "attractive". The constant looking up is a dead giveaway.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/16 10:22 AM
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I can assure you that nothing I have read here has changed my perspective on my 25 year marriage. Im still a big fan. The Anti-marriage shit to me sounds like a bunch of blue pill babies whining. It REALLY does to me. OWN your shit make smart decisions. You got a WHOLE subreddit of real women who want you. /r/RedPillWomen (notice I didnt say the new wives variant.) study them.. learn where to find them. No harder than anything else in life worth a damn. looking back on 45 years ANYONE can do wha…
/r/MarriedRedPill05/05/16 03:25 PM
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Dont hang around with losers either because you want to "save" them or "show them the way" Id add THAT to this post as well. Throughout my life I HAVE tried to show people "The Way" but that way is my way. They will take their own path (no matter HOW painful i would consider their path)
/r/TheRedPill04/05/16 07:22 PM
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Looks matter but like that brand new car.. you get used to everything over time. Find someone you are attracted to. (That is all that matters) Looks are the first thing that fades. Make sure they can engage in an intelligent conversation too. Stupid (unlike looks) is forever.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/16 07:15 PM
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Gone, I never kept plates. I dont see the point of them. I had "prospects" but if they even dated someone else then they were gone. so sleeping with someone else is a easy answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/16 01:58 PM
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yes, I am married 25 years and love it. I have never had ANY interest in gathering notches on my bedpost. In fact I have to actually LIKE and admire people I sleep with. If they werent LTR Material they were dumped at about week 6 almost religiously. why? (because I silently wanted to make sure their period came) I also think 40 year olds like me dating 25 years olds is pathetic. I wouldnt hire these people or have them ANYWHERE near me. If you are 40 and cant hold a relationship you are a joke.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/16 01:52 PM
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It isnt horrible if you stay away from the extremes. It is a strategy & a strategy that has served me for 25 years quite well. I never spun plates however. I was looking for a bigger win in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/16 07:37 PM
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and it gets on my goddamn nerves.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/16 12:52 AM
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No, I love nutty girls but I realize they arent good for me so I married a non nutty one 25 years ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/16 12:42 AM
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I am one of the redpill PPD Mods and I dont find the question bad at all. so i stand with Dakru as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/16 07:33 PM
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Because we arent all completely nutty. It is all really that simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/16 07:31 PM
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Well they failed on me. Wife of 25 years.. 3 kids.. Still running shit. Who gives a shit what "THEY" are trying to do.. own your shit and do it.
/r/TheRedPill30/04/16 07:00 PM
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I have had conversations with 20 year olds. I have ZERO interest inrelations with a 20 year old as a result. That isnt a cut against 20 year olds. They just arent in the same life space as I am. Legacy? dunno.. something that means something to me. That i am echoing into the future and my kids will remember me. That is cool to me. Im making the world a better place I think.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/16 08:51 PM
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funny I skipped this story. Good to know it had a happy (predictable) end. :D
/r/TheRedPill14/04/16 11:24 AM
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yes, I thought it was an original thought. Perhaps I heard it somewhere before. I have been using that for years however. it is exactly what you said. Is the sum of my interactions with this person a NET positive experience? Yes.. ok they can stay. NO? Ok they are gone. Why waste a second. People dont change much.
/r/TheRedPill13/04/16 11:21 PM
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holy hell someone else using the "Net-Negative" calculation. I thought I made that up myself.
/r/TheRedPill13/04/16 08:00 PM
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I would have told her.. "No means no" time to thin the herd of friends.
/r/TheRedPill13/04/16 07:40 PM
3

she is actually worse than a total stranger. She couldnt be bothered to have dinner so she obviously doesnt even like you as a friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/16 01:34 AM
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for me it isnt even about that. Granted I am a lot older. Couldnt even be bothered to have dinner or drinks with me? Why would I help you get to a job interview? Im at a loss for figuring that out. I dont feel any obligation to help this person that obviously doesnt like me at all. But they want me to drive them to an interview? Seems like a strange entitlement to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/16 01:33 AM
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She cant be bothered to spend an hour with me for dinner yet I am supposed to drive her to a job interview because she doesnt maintain her car? Call Uber Not me. In my case you would be quick to call me an asshole. I would call it ambivalence. Just like her declining to have dinner. I decline to spend an hour with her fixing a tire. Why the double standard?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/16 01:28 AM
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I got banned and they couldnt even tell me why. The funny thing is I had a lot of interesting conversations going on at the time in here. Oh well.. good change a long time coming.
/r/RedPillWomen09/04/16 12:29 AM
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This is so funny someone other that me noticed this before. The feminist stuff coming from this sub seemed so obvious to me. I wondered if I was just overly sensitive to it. Funny back in 1990 I remember my wife saying to me and being dead serious. "All feminism did for me was give me another job" Yea.. well she is over there still 10 foot away. Hopefully you can feel safe now and speak your mind.
/r/RedPillWomen09/04/16 12:27 AM
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Funny, I got banned a long while ago. I saw the mean girl stuff first hand. "What did I do wrong? (When i got banned) "Oh we dont know I dont see any notes" Anyhow. glad to be a subscriber yet again. It is nice to see women out there being told it is ok to be who you are despite there being a huge movement against it. Thank you again. Ill go back to lurking. Greetings from Purple Pill Debate.
/r/RedPillWomen09/04/16 12:23 AM
2

Thank you.. for cleaning up the place. I have changed my flair accordingly.
/r/RedPillWomen09/04/16 12:19 AM
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Men with high N counts dont need to rape. if you think about it that way. Supply side economy.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/16 06:08 PM
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I dont think they idolize them. If you read the crap (and it is crap by in large) it is all about lifting and game and surface crap.. I think an OLDER redpill guy is the kind of guy I see across the board room table. So when we grow up.. we are usually holding it down QUITE well. Im 45.. I remember being mad at age 20.. It passes when your realize anger is letting someone else have control over you. Im a regular over at Stoicism too btw. :) I find it follows quite well. I'm rocking redpill 2.0 a…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/16 01:20 AM
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That is completely NOT what Redpill idolizes. Redpill Idolizes making the best YOU you can be. Be that through lifting and (in many like me) advancing your intelligence and becoming more versatile in the dating world. It is about becoming MORE alpha. Owning your self, your actions and taking charge of your life. You can sit back and let the woman decide OR you can decide what you like for yourself and go get it in the fastest, smartest most efficient way possible. I learned about redpill about 5…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/16 01:15 AM
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I try. Ive actually found that the older RP guys are pretty all right and hence why I stayed. Some of the threads over there are laughable. If you scan my history look about 5-6 posts back for a 27 upvote comment and look at that cluster. I expected to burn some serious fake internet points on that comment but I didnt care. Turns out I did fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/16 07:49 PM
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yup if you filter extremism.. you have a conversation. Which is what PPD is for me. (Why I applied to be a mod too actually)
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/16 04:31 PM
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check my highly upvoted post history there
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/16 12:20 AM
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I dont see them as a hate group at all.. About 10% are straight up sociopaths BUT 90% of them is a bunch of guys having a conversation and i have ZERO problem with that 90% the 10% I TRY to ignore.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/16 12:18 AM
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Ive been married 25 years too. So i probably differ there as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/16 12:08 AM
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read the comments for the 5 questions (I didnt downvote you however as i am red as well some other jackass did that. ) :)
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/16 05:33 PM
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Good Poll actually. Good post. Male - Red Above Average Extrovert 50% 5 is a tough one to answer. kneejerk is zero percent (Im "well married" - 25 years and "Well Fed" - sexually very happy.) I am sitting here thinking.. would I bang X Y and Z? No.. but if I was single and I was really drunk and good music was playing... and she was dressed all sexy.. Maybe? I just cant get my head there.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/16 05:30 PM
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I dont make that claim. I try to round my teams out with women and people who think differently (yet similar) to me. Id rather have someone near me telling me i am fucking up then 40 yes men. Yes, I absolutely think women have a different life experience than I do and hence are actually VERY valuable to my teams. I think you might be talking about children who like to put people in convenient little boxes by saying they have nothing to bring to the table.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/16 04:00 PM
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How bout we as a group of men just me more selective of who we fuck? how about that? It is REALLY obvious if a girl is a piece of hot garbage when you are talking to her. How about we as RP Alphas and intelligent human beings ask certain questions and if they are stupid we dont fuck them? Problem solved. How about we find women that Are responsible good people? Have the SAME viewpoints on abortion, child rearing etc. BEFORE WE FUCK THEM? Maybe if we spend a little time looking for quality.. inst…
/r/TheRedPill04/02/16 04:29 PM
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Ill respond later tonight.. you are definitely #4. This is why I come here as a 45 year old
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/16 04:07 PM
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Fantastic. Feels like my partner. Been married 25 years. Three great kids. /r/TheRedPill is dominated by angry young men and so that echo chamber is going to downvote anything contrary to their groupthink. They are playing the redpill 1.0 game. That is why i am more likely to be here or /r/marriedredpill since about age 17 Ive been playing the redpill 2.0 game. Which involves having kids. Having a successful marriage, Having a successful career where my wife can be a mom and not be another rat r…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/16 07:53 PM
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You got a whole hot mess going on. That shit aint for me. The mom you can flat out ignore. You get a lot of warnings when you date someone. Continuing a relationship that has ANY strong negatives is dangerous. Why is this guy in YOUR house. not your problem, He would not be coming back in my house ever. He threatened your life? Yea. there isnt anyone worth that. I for the life of me dont understand when people get warnings they ignore them. She has panic attacks? She wants all the benefits of a …
/r/MarriedRedPill27/01/16 12:28 PM
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You are right, it is one of those things when you are 10 years in getting divorced that you will have a flashback about and go.. Oh yeah. That was obvious. It doesnt MEAN that but it is an indicator. Id actually take it further and someone that acts like that I wouldnt want to be with anyhow. So even if they werent cheating their negative reaction to me would be red flag during dating.
/r/TheRedPill27/01/16 12:13 PM
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You sound like you are doing your reading so that is good. Just be aware I guess. it is possible. I am the only one I know that had problems out of about 10 guys.
/r/TheRedPill27/01/16 04:50 AM
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You are playing a game with the Ring. Either be in the marriage or dont be. Your call. You are kind of being a dick and you are getting what being a dick would yield. I looked through your post about her being shitty. Hanging out with friends and ignoring you. Sticking you with the kids. Being a pig. I didnt see ANY complaints about her so I am going to assume there really isnt anything wrong. You got it pretty good like I do and you are fucking with her because you are bored maybe? Doesnt sound…
/r/MarriedRedPill27/01/16 04:48 AM
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Irrelevant. without doxing myself I am very well taken care of in this regard. It happens in about 30 percent of cases. I read it. I thought "Wont happen to me" It did. I remember thinking. "Those guys had shitty medical or are whiners or etc" Yea.. whatever. Im sitting here right now and I can feel something it isnt a pain.. but then again it isnt nothing either. so.. yea.. read up if you are going to do it. It didnt affect my testosterone.. make me more docile.. anything like that. sometimes m…
/r/TheRedPill27/01/16 04:29 AM
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Bail dude. We didnt go back to the moon for a reason. There is nothing there. You cant fix her.. Be the best dad you can. You already know you are going to have a problem eventually why go back?
/r/MarriedRedPill27/01/16 04:03 AM
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You are 100% right. I've been rocking redpill 2.0 my whole life. I was never about gathering extra notches in my bedposts. I got plenty but that wasnt what I was looking for. I was looking for a compatible woman to share life with. I found one 30 years ago. I found this redpill stuff 5 years ago. Im here trying to guide the young men into redpill 2.0 before they become the leathery necked old lizard in a Hawaian shirt and a straw panama getting blow jobs from street walkers in Bangkok. In realit…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/16 03:56 AM
1

I have 3 kids with a woman I have been married to for 25 years. I got it done a year ago. I got that epididimitis. (more common than you think) My balls hurt every once in a while. Vigorous sex.. makes it hurt RIGHT at the top of my testicles. Im done having kids. Ive had 3.. Ive done my job. My genetic material is out there. I am done too. I thought it would be a breeze.. it isnt.. Ill probably at this point always periodically have the pain. Would I go back and not have it done.. Probably. bal…
/r/TheRedPill27/01/16 03:46 AM
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So Ive really been thinking on my response since I typed "Ill write more when I get home" Im sitting here with a scotch and thinking about it. I dont even think it necessitates a long ass post. It is really pretty simple. I am an exec so I am accustomed to looking through resumes. I could look through 100 and I am going to interview 3. I go right through the resumes and scan them and I am REALLY selective. The paper can get you thrown out. Font choice. a dated layout. So. I guess what I did quit…
/r/TheRedPill27/01/16 03:35 AM
2

oh no there is a lot more. The funny thing about who my wife is, is she is very submissive sexually as well. She is totally the type that wants to be told to do dirty things so it isnt her idea "The bad man made me do it" Nothing boring here. Guess that is why in year 25 things are still good.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/16 02:15 AM
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yeah I dont know. I think it is kinda cool to be one with one's sexuality. Not a problem for us. So I guess we agree then.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/16 08:55 PM
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Heh... been married for 25 years.. She has NEVER needed a sex toy afterwards. Now I HAVE absolutely have come home sat in a chair in the bedroom wearing my suit sipping a scotch while she worked herself over with a rabbit vibe at my insistance. All this while lying back on the bed in my favorite lingerie and me watching her masturbate. if you have it like this.. try it.. Maybe I got oneitis (as they say).. but damn.. That is one of the hottest things I ever saw.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/16 07:37 PM
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I am enjoying seeing that this IS the case. I had wondered.
/r/TheRedPill26/01/16 07:09 PM
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I think this is really how i was successful 25-30 years ago. If I saw a shitty behavior it was over. I guess I had that realization early on that people DONT change and you cant FIX anyone.
/r/TheRedPill26/01/16 04:12 PM
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Heh same here.. Turns out my wife knows my password to my iphone and ipad too. Zero fucks given really.. she checks me every once in a while. A well fed man isnt hungry and she knows it.
/r/TheRedPill26/01/16 04:11 PM
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I will do this reply due justice this evening. I am at work right now but this is why AS a 45 year old red pill guy i stay around to reach guys like you. I accidentally was successful but through reading here I think I got a repeatable plan that guys can benefit from here. It is absolutely in my best interest for red pill people (men AND women) to reproduce and be long term successful.
/r/TheRedPill26/01/16 04:10 PM
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I don't think it isn't alpha in your instance. You got some bonafide problems. You are in process of handling your business and protecting yourself. To be fair.. you had warning signs. That wasnt the first time she did this behavior even before you married her. Looking back with a REALLY critical eye.. did you overlook dishonesty? Think about why you overlooked it at the time. I was BRUTAL in my look for a significant other. I called it the 6th week slump. Girls were FLOORED when i had the conve…
/r/TheRedPill26/01/16 04:08 PM
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Ive dealt with plenty in my 45 years so you are correct. So strange.. I havent met ANY woman in the past decade that is better or a better fit for me than my wife. It just clicks. what you are saying is actual profound for me. The woman i married doesnt fuck with me. You know shit tests, nagging, negging none of that however she DOES now I am very binary with people. You cross a line and boom I change my mind in a second. I dont know Ive always been about A game from a young man. So it is possib…
/r/TheRedPill26/01/16 04:49 AM
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mostly but not all.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/16 04:45 AM
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~30 worked like a charm been married 25 years
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/16 04:42 AM
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already did.. and do periodically my wife of 25 years is extremely boring. her ATM and phone password have been the same for 25 years. You know how you can tell if you are with someone good. simple.. just pick up their phone. do they lose their fucking mind? Just from seeing you pick it up. RED FLAG RUN simple as that. Too many people arent too discriminating with who they stick their dick into. If your only metric is hotness dont be surprised to find out she is a shitbird down the line. yes I c…
/r/TheRedPill26/01/16 04:38 AM
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Self-respecting women should reject such relationships and stay clear of men wanting to lure them into these situations where her voice will be muted or cursory heard only, disempowering the woman and making her an emotional slave to the man. I really cant stand people who say this crap. The judgmental nonsense where everyone needs to fit into YOUR box doesn't exist. BECAUSE:Feminism or WHATEVER. (remember that word means "equality") This is the nature with complementary relationships. I have a …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/16 03:46 PM
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There was already a word for it. It was called equality.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/16 03:12 PM
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Coffeedynamics has nailed it. My wife and I didnt know about redpill and I went through a couple years of frustration and not having focus in my early 30s. Do not tell him you think he is taking you for granted <-- That is SO good. (This will just make you part of his list of stuff getting on his nerves. My wife NEVER nags because then she becomes part of the problem I am trying to solve) Express appreciation often <-- Yes, Ive NEVER had any doubts what team she was on. That was REALLY important…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/16 11:19 AM
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Im not angry. Im in a 25 year marriage with 3 kids that are fantastic. I am better off financially than 90% of my peers and doing fine. I am also in charge of my house. Leadership isnt abuse either. If you let your woman lead AND that is what she WANTS to do good for you. You found the secret. Ive had nice guy beta tendencies too WAY back in the past. Making Mix tapes for a girl with voiceovers. Did that TWICE... that was 30 years ago and I STILL cringe that someone could find that. that part of…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/16 08:06 PM
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Ive got 3 kids so I am done. (Yes been married 25 years things are fine) I had it about 15 months ago. Zero difference other than sometimes my balls hurt. Mine hurt for about 3 -4 weeks and every once in a while usually if we have some marathon sex day where the wife and I screw 3-4 times in a day. It happens about every 6 weeks. That is all i can come up with. took a few minutes.. No big deal. Theoretically i could fuck anyone and not worry about it now. Hasnt been an issue as my wife always is…
/r/TheRedPill18/01/16 07:05 PM
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"stoicism to tolerate others" "requires a dedication" " Weakness must constantly be evaluated and stamped out" "TRP is a shortcut to the mentality that it takes to succeed." Been around TRP for a few years now. Bets goddamn post I've seen in here that even a 45 year old man can agree with. Keep kicking ass. When they say TRP is abusive and juvenile (over in PPD that I moderate) I will point them to this fucking post. Absolutely Rock Solid.
/r/TheRedPill15/01/16 03:09 PM
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I'm 45 so I can only take rawdog TRP so much but I can say with absolute certainty i have never EVER seen a RP guy say i am going to hit women. Even the nastier more immature ones are just using mental manipulation which is a far cry from this. 2x drives me nuts. This chick is ABSOLUTELY going to get in a relationship with someone else JUST like this person because they dont ask themselves is there a fundamental problem with who I think i am attracted to. 2x is a huge circlejerk. Analyze your th…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/16 07:47 PM
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Im 44. If I was looking and not in a 25 year marriage. I think the high end of my range is yeah.. probably 35.. That being said. There are 2 low 30s women I know at work that.. well.... yeah.. suffice it to say I enjoy talking to them. In general you are never going to see me with a 25 year old. We have nothing in common and they are going to talk and that will ruin it for me. Personally I think it is pathetic when someone older is with a young girl. If you got to screw a younger one.. Take the …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/16 08:07 PM
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Or she is just a shitbird that is staging this shit so she can get internet famous. The "Activist" thing immediately tips me off. Really.. takes a picture of her crying eyes for instagram. Get the fuck out of here. Wow.. I am seriously glad I am out of the game and don't have to wade through landmines like her.
/r/TheRedPill10/01/16 12:33 PM
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dont know. ive been married 25 years. I think there is a switch that happens around 30. If it doesnt you just become pathetic. I was conventional redpill after getting burned a few times up until 20.. Then I found someone worthy of having kids and starting my future. It worked out fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/16 12:22 PM
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My flair has been constant. But you probably ARE talking about me. 25 years happily married. Im a unicorn of sorts.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/16 06:19 PM
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This moderator job is totally not glamorous like i read in the brochure.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/16 07:03 PM
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dunno.. father of 3 here. That is my kid.. Im going to do what I can to make sure that kid has a chance. Fuck her.. but that kid.. it aint that kid's fault. that is where I have always differed from regular RP people. I didnt stick my dick in everything because it was hot. I didnt fuck people I didnt like or couldnt stand. They had to pass a test of if they were nuts. I always used condoms regardless of whatever but those arent failsafe either. Broke plenty of them. Hell lost one inside of a gir…
/r/TheRedPill05/01/16 01:37 AM
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RP is about self respect for me. Taking charge of yourself and being the best you you can be. At the same time I also see it as fighting back against people who dont like who me and my wife of 25 years are naturally. is that anti-feminist.. yes.. Back in 1994 I think it was she said "all feminism did was give me another job" keeper
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/16 06:02 PM
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Figured it out on my own. I got burned enough as a youth before 17 that I became redpill before redpill was a thing (I am 45) Figured out what kind of woman was worth my time long term and understood that me being on 10 all the time was perfectly fine. The strategy worked fine looking back. It isnt for everyone but it definitely is for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/16 03:05 PM
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because I am a mod and I am making sure it isnt a circlejerk post. :D
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/16 03:37 AM
1

I disagree. My favorite is Ironman. Redpill as hell. Bad ass... https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_hT4Jt1qx54 notable scene at 1:23
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/15 06:03 PM
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Didnt spoil anything for me. Actually made me think it is some Leftist capitulating movie that I suspected. (Black main character and some strong woman nonsense) I have like ZERO interest in seeing some King of Queens type bullshit that I see so much these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/15 05:53 PM
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funny I value my wife's opinion on finances. She is the CFO Im the CEO. She also is a CPA so it makes sense. I spend money like a madman sometimes.. when it gets too crazy she gives me the look "You are spending too much this month" All the joys of being 45, no debt, owning your house and having a nice wage. humblebrag.. YUP.. My wife complains about money? Yea.. when i start spending a shitton of it. Every other woman i EVER dated was materialistic. My wife of 25 years isnt at all and it is AWE…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/15 07:28 PM
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draft is irrelevant at this point. I remember back in 1990 when I was prime age to be drafted for Iraq.. Nope.. next war will be nukes.. the one after that.. sticks and stones.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/15 01:29 AM
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If you want a slut.. perhaps you need to think long and hard about what you are attracted to. Making a slut out of a virgin is a very dangerous game. Careful what you wish for... I am amazed at how well I did 26 odd years ago. I knew nothing of this place but made some good decisions without realizing it at the time.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/12/15 01:27 AM
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She does look like Ms Piggy.. that being said Ms Piggy has given me the weirdest boner ever since I could remember. Sorry.. cant help it.. but I bet she is a LOT of fun. That adds points for me. O bet you could think up some crazy stuff and pitch it to her and she would say.. "That sounds like fun!" Id give it to her..
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/15 03:45 AM
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I dont care personally. Ive got three.. if you remove yourself from the gene pool I win. My genes continue on.. yours will be in the dirt somewhere. LOL That being said.. animal owners that think their animals are kids and have the same rights as human children. If I saw them trip and fall into a woodchipper (running) Id probably chuckle to myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/15 03:41 AM
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yes but the order is important.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/15 01:33 AM
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yeah Id probably pick you out and try to figure what makes you tick. girl over there on the periphery.. interesting.. (but petting a cat - potential red flag proceed with caution)
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/15 01:32 AM
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Im guessing if you did Porn and were able to keep track this would be how you get to 400. Not impossible.. but.. damn.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/15 03:44 PM
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I wouldnt be attracted to them. divide by 10 and I wouldn't be attracted to them. Too much for me. Even at age 45. It would be weird If I had to start dating at this age. Im sure there is all manners of crazy out there. I never was the notch in a bedpost guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/15 03:43 PM
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Some RP guys over 25 have the same viewpoint of RPW. If they are smart they figure this out at a young age and find someone LTR compatible for themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/15 03:42 PM
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Many people pair up and dont have complementary personalities. People look for the wrong thing (attractiveness being one of them) That is what I have seen in my 45 years. If you are an asshole.. chances are you shouldnt be with an asshole. Two nice people arent going to get the dirty work done and so forth. complementary personalities combined with similar code of morals will work every time. (imo)
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/15 03:31 PM
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My sister in law made some green beans for thanksgiving from a Paula Deen recipe.. That was delicious. The woman is a cook.. What do I care about what she has to say on any topic other than cooking? Seriously.. we live in amazing times. Literally put in paula deen green bean first entry http://www.foodnetwork.com/recipes/paula-deen/green-bean-casserole-recipe.html
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/15 06:04 PM
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I'm not going to "Let" anything they are going to do whatever they want at 18. At 17 no that I will stop. I have daughters that are 16 and 14. I see absolutely no form of that behavior or even the slightest interest so far. I dont see it coming up to be honest. You have ZERO (and should have Zero) control over an 18 year old. You have already instilled values in them way before that. at about age 15 they start becoming their own people.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/15 03:50 PM
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Strong ENTJ here married to a strong ISFJ for 25 years. How about that? General married to a nurse.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/15 10:54 AM
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Was a thing 25 years ago when I met my wife. Absolutely was a strategic question I waited for the right time to ask.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/15 03:34 PM
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if you want to get rich you cannot work for anyone else. i FIRMLY believe that one.. and am about to make that move now that I financially can do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/15 07:46 PM
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Neither, the United States is all about exponential profits (not just simply money but an ever increasing source of money) Men or women ARE irrelevant at the Macro level. So funny one of the Red Pill Stalwarts said this and I think it is spot on.. If men and women were really having a pay gap you would see corporate America hire ALL women. That isn't happening and.. probably will never happen. conversations like this distract us from having the real conversations. MONEY has the most power in ame…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/15 03:14 PM
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wow you are mentally in super shape. GREAT post as a counter to the "All women are garbage" post I saw and responded with my general distaste to this morning. GREAT post.. That is common sense. I used to harbor a lot of resentment a decade ago. That is all gone and replaced with a solid sense of who I am now.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/11/15 10:58 PM
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funny.. i see Bloopers (That is a funny name) answering your questions in a way that means they are serious and they are getting downvoted. i think they are actually answering your questions. In a way.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/15 06:56 PM
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It shouldnt.. you obviously dont know my posting history.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/15 06:31 PM
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For the record if I could get that in addition to what I have.. that would be fabulous. Id never skip a lunch hour again.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/15 06:14 PM
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I think you and I agree on a lot of things. I keep seeing your posts and I like what you are saying in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/15 06:13 PM
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Im not sure.. I would think you would want to do SOMETHING not just sit around and browse the web. You know I sit and think about what I romantcize about the 1950s and I hear conversations like Alternative minimum incomes and things of that nature and I think.. You know what. I find that compelling. Here in the US where everyone is dog eat dog and everyone has to fight EVERY DAY for their SURVIVAL.. I think that is silly ass. Look Im still going to work and kick ass because I want more from my j…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/15 06:12 PM
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I got 3 kids.. Im done.. I think it is funny that people want to evangelize about this like it is some secret woman control thing.. good god.. Vasectomy was 10 minutes.. and my wife offered to get a hysterectomy (Seriously which blew my mind).. because if I DIDNT want to get a vasectomy or she could stay on the pill. There is times I wish my wife would be a bitch and be more confrontatative . She NEVER is. Im not sure if that is because Ive always been solid for 25 years or what. Jesus woman you…
/r/MarriedRedPill24/11/15 03:05 AM
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My wife knows about RP. She knows Ive been involved in it for 3-4 years. She also knows I am a moderator here. We talk about RP viewpoints all the time. She browses /r/RedPillWomen and laughs.. NEVER posts. Guess you have to be choosey who you marry. Perhaps people in general should find out if in addition to being physically attracted to someone they actually hold complementary belief systems. I think it is funny that people have sex with each other without knowing their stance on Abortion. Tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/15 02:45 PM
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You know it was funny.. I posted that HIGHLY sarcastic comment. I think you might be the first person to figure out it was sarcastic. maybe my RP flair threw them off? I meant the comment too I havent cared about N count in 20 years Ive cared about winning the larger game of life. (you can see my comment history)
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/15 02:35 PM
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Walking into a bank with a gun is a good way to get money.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/15 04:50 PM
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Didnt mention your kids. (only barely) Id bet that is the drain on the sex life. It always is.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/11/15 04:33 PM
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yup. and you think you are going to be happy going down the path of constantly having a new woman. wait until you realize that all pussy is precisely the same and that the one got away. (Goddamn it I know so many guys JUST like this.. that in a drunken moment pine over wishing they didnt leave one) I sense the reason for this post is you are at a crossroads. sounds like you have the opportunity to put the crap back in the goose before anyone notices.. With any luck you will see a story on the in…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/11/15 04:27 PM
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I didnt censor you did i? It is a good thread.. The title is a bit over the top.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/15 12:32 AM
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You sounds like a great partner. He is lucky. Obviously not too much of a careerist where your job is more important that your personal relationships. That is what i am poking at is selfish people which you obviously are not. As nothing works in absolutes around here (Like AWALT)
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/15 12:31 AM
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Because an ugly man with money offsets.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/15 08:27 PM
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no so far.. pretty good convo in here despite the silly ass title of the original post.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/15 08:24 PM
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Well shit man.. if they are gonna be lazy.. then.. what do you guys expect out of me? :)
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/15 08:22 PM
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if you dont know this going into a marriage.. you are screwed. Check my post history. i almost died once.. I suspected she had my back.. boy was I right.. take that you bloopers that married feminists.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/15 07:51 PM
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because there is only one report thus far. I looked at the title and it is shitty but (AS USUAL) around here the conversation inside the thread is of good quality. That is why I havent touched it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/15 07:31 PM
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ok.. I see your side.. and I am right OH! I see what you did there! :)
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/15 07:29 PM
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If they actually were loud and said "I am a feminist" absolutely not. fails the basic premise of "dont stick your dick in crazy" no seriously.. I call it crazy but lets call it extremist.. I have no interest in that. there is no one THAT good looking.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/15 01:30 PM
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no, I find it hilarious as well.. truth be told.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/15 12:46 PM
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I was never promiscuous. I think that is a waste of time. I never had sex with a woman I didnt like on something other than a physical level. If you were a pain the ass i moved on. I had ZERO need for that drama. My 10's have always been different than most because I was focused on winning a bigger battle other than who had the wettest dick. Lots of my friends were that way, lots of them were serial monogamists too. I would agree with your bolded statement as a RP guy. I think your a little offb…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/15 12:44 PM
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I had a fever.. 104.. I told my wife.. Ill be right back, it was 7am on a sunday morning.. took her van that was in the driveway with the kids seat in it and we had an infant at the time. No biggie because.. like I said.. I will be RIGHT BACK.. Well turns out I had pneumonia and the doctor said "I have to admit you right now.. your systems are shutting down and you need an IV immediately" what? "Your actually dying right now" SHIT.. well was in the hospital for 2 days and out of work for 3 weeks…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/15 01:00 AM
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My wife offered to get a hysterectomy. (screw that.. that is surgery and I care about her) the snip was a 10 minute awkward conversation with a guy who had my nuts in his hand and outpatient. She loves it and it did work to increase her frequency due to a less stress about getting pregnant with our 4th. She was religious with the pill and it worked for 30 years but I wanted her off hormones. Natural is better. I have 3 kids got it done 6 (No wait.. that was a YEAR AGO as i sit back proofing this…
/r/MarriedRedPill19/11/15 04:17 PM
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picking the right therapist is an art. Here is the tip for you as a redpill person. Look for a "Sex Positive" therapist. Thank me later.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/15 06:49 PM
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Lets be real.. outside of a university.. How many of these people are you around in the real world? These people are the fringe and the majority of people 98% ignore them. These people are a magnet for police response too.. problem solves itself. unless you are in a university it might last longer. The real world.. we dont stand for that crap.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/15 08:53 PM
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Wow that made me laugh.. My grandfather had a can of paint in his garage that said dutch boy on it.. i think it was the yellow paint he painted his house with in 1954. He died like 10 years ago too.. Damn Can of Dutchboy.. I remember that well.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/15 08:16 PM
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I dunno I dont get it.. the guy peggs my gaydar so he doesnt offend me at all. Dude is prolly gay.. so what?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/15 08:13 PM
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yeah I know.. Ive got 3 myself so a total of 4 people relying on me.. I guess subliminally the pressure is there but it is really all I know and been at it 20+ years. Hard time happen.. you figure out what to do and do it.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/11/15 04:23 PM
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you pay attention.. and if she wants out.. you let her out. Hell you help her pack if she doesnt want to be around anymore. Why waste a minute with someone who doesnt want to be with you. you can find better? Good luck..
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/15 03:40 PM
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I'm not afraid of cuckholding. I am intolerant of it. There is a HUGE difference. it wont happen to me because I will end a relationship based on disrespect. If my wife of 25 years wanted to start this line of talk she knows what my reply will be. You want my respect.. you give me respect.. you dont.. you can pack your shit. It is really that simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/15 03:37 PM
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MRP is TRP 2.0 that is all. (where TRP 1.0 hates us . But, who cares they are in the rear view mirror losing) I dont find this to be that hard. This is who I am and who I have been since age 17 (28 years)
/r/MarriedRedPill17/11/15 03:36 PM
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clickbait is about getting people talking.. good or bad.. Doesnt matter. Well looks like it is working. Wear Pajamas.. Ive tried.. constricts the man parts too much. Hot chocolate? Maybe if it is mixed with a ton of Coffee. Heathcare.. never been an issue with the exception of our second child where i got laid off and was anticipating a 20-30k bill for natural child birth. Fuck American Medicine.. do anything you want to it. They deserve it. I know a guy that writes software for an insurance com…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/15 03:07 PM
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happened to a buddy of mine.. Good guy but beta as hell. Their divorce should be final in a few weeks. they are 32. I dont think they have hit the wall yet.. but they are RIGHT there. I keep telling him stuff is going to get good for you if you smarten up. He probably wont but.. I can hope he doesnt enter the same relationship with another Type 1 Bipolar mess.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/15 01:44 AM
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sounds like whatever it cost him to get rid of her it was worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/15 02:20 AM
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Confirmation bias from lazy people I agree..
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/15 02:17 AM
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The more I read about you.. the more I like your setup.. you seem similar to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/15 11:57 PM
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nah, I cant do that shit.. I have a wife that does all that stuff. I did it ONCE for 2 days when she was away and had 3 kids to myself (Her mom was on her death bed) I NEVER said shit about my wife being lazy and sitting around all day. My wife is a great mom too much better than my piece of shit parents who should have never had kids. Funny my wife knows prices of household items like a stockbroker knows market conditions. "Diet Pepsi will be on sale next wednesday" That comment made my mind ex…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/15 11:55 PM
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Because TRP (more specifically /r/marriedredpill and I really think that sub is more relevant to this conversation as It is my BELIEF that MRP is the counterpoint to RPW NOT TRP ) is about venting so it does infect your relationship. RPW I think does something that puts those ladies ahead of the curve and in general is smarter. If you want to have a battle get two people energized. If you want them to be peaceful it only takes one to cool it down. I don't know, for me it helps to yell about shit…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/15 12:02 PM
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yup truth is always in the middle between two sides of the argument. Feminists and hard core TeRPs annoy me precisely the same way. Perhaps we could put them in a cage match for the entertainment of 90% of the remainder of us.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/15 04:24 PM
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Strange.. Part of me thinks this guy is hardcore trolling. Ive been married 25 years my wife doesnt require me to think for her. I guess you have to spend as much time picking a mate as you do lifting and your success rate will be higher. yes this post is steeped in sarcasm.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/15 04:14 PM
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I like the new influx of RPW (or RPW esque) here. Welcome.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/15 03:54 PM
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Nice job man.. way to unfuck this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/15 08:27 PM
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My wife put it in a way that I understood. Did sex change after we had a kid.. Yup sure did.. the way my wife explained it. Before baby I was girlfriend and lover. Then wife, girlfriend and lover. Then the kid came and she became Mom, wife, girlfriend and lover. Think about the division of time there.. how much attention can you pay each of those thing.. think of it like a pie.. bingo.. Thing is.. the first 5-6 years of having a kid were tough. Kids require a shitton of effort. So did it wane.. …
/r/MarriedRedPill10/11/15 03:22 AM
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yeah I am not that way at all. I believe in "Net Positive" That is why my parents are on the outs. (dont like that I dont raise our kids to believe in your religious nonsense? Too bad, good riddance. ) Ive jettisoned blue pill friends (2 of them that were friends for decades. They finally had to go because they were boat anchors) "My wife wont have sex with me even if I beg" (God how many HOURS did I listen to this stuff.. only for them to cheat on them, divorce them or otherwise damage them) Iv…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/15 11:45 PM
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Strange.. (not really) your attitude is the exact same as my wife's. It works too. Ive dated controlling possessive women and I am 1000x more likely to mess around behind their back than my wife of 25 years. It is funny she says the stuff you do.. AND means it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/15 01:42 PM
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strange because that is where we met 25 years ago. Ive told my wife she isnt my type.. but when I met her I realized I was looking in the wrong places for the WRONG kind of women. .
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/15 10:16 PM
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Irrelevant.. guys, dont stick your dick in crazy.. Problem solved No, you didnt vet her enough.. You could have figured out she was crazy if you spent more than 10 minutes talking to her.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/15 08:10 PM
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I secretly slut shame. If we use this definition (Slut shaming is the act of criticizing a woman for her real or presumed sexual activity, or for behaving in ways that someone thinks are associated with her real or presumed sexual activity.) If you throw it around like skittles that offends me always has. To me.. it is a red flag for mental instabiity or HUGE daddy issues. Doesnt have to be true but I would say a preponderance of it is. Using sex for something else. funny I have had guys that go…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/15 08:02 PM
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sounds perfect.. sign me up.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/15 11:36 PM
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ask my wife if Alpha's marry. (25 years going strong) Ask my wife if alphas take care of business. Dont listen to the 19 year old gym rats
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/15 10:20 PM
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Id like to give socialism a try. (If that is what taxing millionaires/Billionaires equitably is.. Id like to do this.) My dad is a golden executive parachute recipient from a defunct fortune 100 that he and the other execs purposely tanked over the period of 2 years while "Restructuring the company" (Selling off all the assets before bankrupting the place) . They put 10s of thousands of people (maybe more) into the poor house by lying tanking the company and with it the retirement funds of a who…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/15 06:29 PM
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Bingo. I dont have to type anything because you said it here. I dont have to worry about kids or domestic crap because my wife has it on lockdown. Which has enabled me to be more effective globally. It is funny you raise a point I didnt even think of about bad wives. Ive never had that problem and I have known plenty who do. My boss has that problem. You are leaving work to pickup your kids while your unemployed wife has stuff to do? Wait.. WHAT?
/r/MarriedRedPill03/11/15 04:32 PM
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My trigger finger tells me to delete this thread. Lets see how the users vote this up or down.. (I know they arent supposed to downvote.. but...)
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/15 12:33 AM
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This just in.. many of the hard core TRP guys bother the shit out of me. AWALT is laziness pure and simple notches on the bed posts is a nice short term game but doesnt serve you past age 25. Getting MAD is pointless. I frequent these places to try and get some of these RP alpha guys to grab a good woman before they are all gone so they can have a good life rather than be that pathetic guy in the club at age 30 or divorce raped. At times I feel like I am being drowned out by the young guys YELLI…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/15 12:30 AM
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Watched a movie the other day "Extract" Jason Bateman Mila Kunis It is on NetFlix. Basically this guy owns a company and one of the subplots is he and his wife arent having sex. She puts on sweatpants at 8pm and he knows there is no sex happening. There are some scenes where he is driving his 7 series BWM home and racing to beat 8pm. Kinda pathetic. He gets the idea from his brother Ben Affleck to hire a gigilo to game his wife so he can bang Mila Kunis without any guilt. (Kristin Wiig - Yummy) …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/15 02:22 PM
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because that is all they see quite frankly. Id bet that some of them are overlooking the quite ones right in front of their face. I know I used to 30+ years ago. I can remember the complete waste of space ones that gave me the "Lets be friends" thing back when I was awkward and young. I completely get the hate. "why is that girl not into me? She isnt that good looking. She is kinda slutty" Took a psych degree and a whole lot of growing up to realize it wasnt me. It was her and I should have not …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/15 02:10 PM
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I have never cared and will never care if women get abortions. One less kid with a shitty mom.. Id say we should support that with federal money to be quite frank. FREE ABORTIONS for Women. Think about it... It is genius.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/15 02:06 PM
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The ones that stay away from women don't deserve to breed. Their genes die. checkmate for being lazy. Im mid 40s.. the world isnt in a state of decline. Never has been never will be. That is all fanatical news stories designed to keep someone behind a computer screen to keep reading their crap. Everything is and continues to be fine. Ive been fooled MANY times in my life with all these "End of the world" scenarios. None of them came true in the past 40 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/15 04:52 AM
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Nice Job.. awesome list. Best reply Ive seen here. It is rare for me to agree on people's 8-10s.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/15 01:55 PM
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No, Id jettison the friendzone girl instantly. Always have Average is relative. There is more than just looks that are important. My formula for "Hot" (good dating material) has always been an interesting equation.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/15 07:05 PM
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Im surprised how many conservative anti-gay people are really like freaky hedonistically gay (like super gay) That seems statistically relevant.. REALLY hate "The Gays"? Why is my gaydar going off??
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/15 06:26 PM
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go for it.. that is fine. People are really wondering what the hell you are talking about and that will help.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/15 06:33 PM
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Im amazed at how much moderation goes on to keep it this clean looking. It changed my way of thinking on moderation of subs. I tend to undermoderate but some of the stuff here that gets posted... Sheesh.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/15 12:09 PM
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Id fall into the second category FAST if there was a chance I was getting divorced. To the untrained eye I would look like the speed dater but my end goal would be Wife #2. (after some introspection as to what went wrong)
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/15 07:21 PM
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I am finding AMA day entirely entertaining. I would have preferred you do a better title.. but.. you did in the text. "TRP Mod, RP man, AMA" Carry on.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/15 07:08 PM
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I found that my next trigger worked perfectly fine. Even the slightest and I nexted. I didnt spin plates but then again we are talking 25 years ago. I had NO idea what I was doing at the time but it was like a direct mail marketing campaign. I was extremely selective and it wound up working before all the good ones were taken. (or became Jaded)
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/15 07:06 PM
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I would NOT be surprised. The extremes of RP get emphasized too much and I find people tend to react to them more than the more moderate RP folks.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/15 07:04 PM
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Good to see you posting outside of RPW. Ive missed your posts.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/15 06:37 PM
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I think today is the AMA day.. Im entertained. I feel like doing a I am a Moderator of PPD AMA. lolz
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/15 06:35 PM
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Yup.. same here. looking back on 25 years Ive made a good choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/15 06:35 PM
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I think he is thinking you are a submissive leading from the bottom. but Ive read your stuff and I know you are the leader in your relationship too.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/15 06:34 PM
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GOOD FOR YOU! (This isnt sarcasm this is real) Im dating a submissive female and things are working fantastically. Thing is I am attracted to loud mouth drama chicks with expensive tastes.. However when I was dating them every single one of them liked to fight. So I found her (she is the opposite) and latched on to her like an Eagle. Where do you want to go? "I dont know.. you decide" (She really REALLY means it) Ive spent 25 years.. well 15 really going "Cmon surely you have a preference" The l…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/15 06:32 PM
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Sure but why? Ive never really found dating lower than say 5-7 years my junior to be a promising prospect. I simply do not have that much in common with someone 10+ years younger. I know.. Im the WEIRD RP guy that is 45 and doesnt want to sleep with 19 year olds.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/15 06:25 PM
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No your post is fine.. It is just the usual suspects making their "trolly comments" Which Honestly SOME of them are funny but in the spirit of this subreddit and decorum we delete some of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/15 05:23 PM
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I would agree, I think it also will not work on certain types of women which might be the type that the man is attracted to. I think it is funny how people want to work in absolutes all the time in these pill sections. AWALT! (No.. not really)
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/15 04:19 PM
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and my marriage of 25 years is PERFECTLY fine. We both assure you of that. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/15 04:17 PM
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Or we can let it serve as a reminder that things are still good and the rules of conduct are very much still in play. :) We appreciate the feedback too.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/15 04:13 PM
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Oh don't worry us mods are doing our work here moderating this topic. My personal view (and it is a bit Naive) is just like the racial argument. Ive got a big problem with grading people on things they cannot control. I cannot control that I am a white male. I can control what I output into this world and I think I and everyone should be gauged on there contributions to the world. Not merely if their skin is black or they have a vagina. I think artificially descriminating based on sex, race and …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/15 03:59 PM
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I think what we are talking about is the recent very public conduct and the eventual banning of someone yesterday morning. The problem is we didnt have a full powered admin to make the necessarily actions. You are correct however. That behavior (of two people) was WAY over the line and we are working through ways of ensuring we can be more responsive next time.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/15 02:40 PM
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Nevermind problem solved
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/15 02:09 PM
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I agree with the exception of the name calling Women literally cannot win this game that the extreme ends or TRP believe wholeheartedly.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/15 02:05 PM
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The funny thing is I agree with you until you delve into personal attacks yet again. AWALT is the ultimate in confirmation bias. Women literally cannot win.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/15 02:01 PM
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Yup.. happened to me WAY back in the day.. fell in love with the wrong girls and they treated me like disposable garbage. I remember making mix tapes for women.. women that werent even 6's or 7s.. Then I stopped. I figured out those women arent worth 15 seconds of my time. Wow... funny to hear all this stuff I had to figure out the hard way on my own. at 15:30 he describes what I did 25 years ago. Yup.. Totally get it. Did it being honest and 100% ice cold. WAY before these guys were around. wad…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/15 12:17 PM
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OH it is for you.. Ahhhh. I thought of the most CRAZY thing I could think of. yea. That was nuts. There was a part of me that was like. Man, I hope this works out, because I wanted to study this like a rare dodo bird or something. I was enthralled because it looked like I was about to see something strange that flew in the face of all the conventional beliefs I thought. As far as you.. yea.. go for it. So you havent found anyone worth committing to.. Go for it. In a way that was what I did way b…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/15 07:58 PM
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yea this actually comes from a specific example I witnessed second hand. I have a blue pill friend that's wife wanted to start swinging. It started off perfectly fine (hearing him tell it) Well turns out she just wanted to go buck wild after they have been married 5 years and together 10. They are now getting a divorce and I am trying to help him put the pieces back together. He willingly went with her to the swinger clubs and they met people privately in hotels before he actually lost it and sa…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/15 07:48 PM
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INcels dont make sense to me. Look dood you arent going to bank princess peach.. you dont have the game for that.. You should try banging the turtle. Incels.. lol.. there is literally someone for EVERYONE. Christ.. if TRP is right.. go find some dusty 40 year old and well.. knock the dust off.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/15 07:20 PM
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Im merely stating.. go for it.. she can and should do whatever she wants. You asked redpill. That is what I think about the issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/15 07:16 PM
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Ive only heard about her here and I work (loosely) for a news organization.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/15 07:14 PM
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Then go have no strings attached sex. Different strokes for different folks. Join a swingers club and be the one lone woman.. go for it. Doesnt affect me in any way. Never did. That wouldnt be who I am looking for.. but that is fine if that is the life they want to lead. Really? How does that affect me? I frown upon her as a choice of a partner. If that is what you are getting at. If you want to call me a "Slut-shamer" because I dont want her. That is also fine. I accept the moniker wholehearted…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/15 05:43 PM
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Thx, I might not be typical. I'm definitely in a redpill-esque relationship (And that works for my wife and I.) but I don't hold a lot of their views. I don't work in absolutes either (aka AWALT) Glad the comment resonated with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/15 05:41 PM
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I'm actually starting to think I am not RedPill. Ive never given a shit about my "Body Count" it was always about finding a nice non alpha mean girl to make a family with. I never stuck my dick in crazy. I never stuck my dick in anything that was risky either no matter HOW good it looked. Ive always been this way probably since 17. I actually think guys that are my peers at 45 dating women that are 25 are pathetic. PEople at 25 are completely different than people at 35-50. Im sorry. In High Sch…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/15 03:29 PM
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If I pick you out a lingerie outfit Im going to fuck you in it tonight. "Sounds good!" Covert Contracts arent all bad.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/10/15 02:47 PM
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He is about to be permanently banned. So.. this will solve itself. When I became a mod I was amazed at how "Clean" this sub was. Then I became a mod and saw the thought and the work that went it to making it that way. Well.. expect a cleansing fire shortly.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/15 01:30 PM
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Im beginning to think I might not be redpill. I think I might be confusing redpill with being alpha and handling my own shit and being true to myself. Not sticking my dick in anything and then writing the score down in my notebook. I might be too old for this shit.
/r/TheRedPill23/10/15 01:08 PM
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Ive asked her what her take is on it. She says "I dont hear it that way at all. You are hard on yourself. I think you are funny." so.. I dont know.. perhaps I read into it too much...
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/15 09:39 PM
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The wrong women like cars. TRP could learn a lesson from calling materialistic women who "Look good" what they are. Rich people dont buy luxury items. Poor people do and become poorer.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/15 12:03 PM
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I absolutely do. (This would apply to my peers in the 40 year old demo.) All negatives for me instantly. Dating someone 15 years or more younger than you. Wife is an intellectual midget and sounds like she is a teenager still. 40 something and single (And not recently divorced or recovering from divorce) Wife is a bitch and hen pecks you publicly and you just take it Whining about sex with wife but wont do anything about it Your kids are out of control and dont respect you or other adults. Still…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/15 12:01 PM
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Comedy.. orbiters going to orbit I guess. Perhaps they never were RP. (Which is fine if that is your path)
/r/MarriedRedPill21/10/15 07:23 PM
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I would agree I am not interested in dating a woman like her. And you are not going to grab a top tier earner like me either. Sorry it just doesn't work that way. She seems like she is more into herself than a significant other or the world? Why would anyone want that for a "Partner" ? What is the reason I would want to be with you? For a good lay? To listen about your latest acquisition or merger? I dont give a shit about that in a partner. If you are into your career.. FINE.. go be into your c…
/r/TheRedPill21/10/15 07:20 PM
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Why do they need to? Why cant people mind their own goddamn business and just see how THEY can have the best life they can. I have ZERO interest in changing blue pill men's mind. Some of them lap it up. I just wont advise them because my advice will be a friendship ender. I cant relate to them but I DO understand that people are different.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/15 10:02 PM
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because we are talking about it. I think that is it really.
/r/TheRedPill20/10/15 07:40 PM
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Now this is a masterful debate comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/15 11:50 PM
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Id say I am hated much less than feminists. I hide in plain sight and dont offend anyone on a daily basis. I have nothing to sell. This is who I am. I dont care who you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/15 11:50 PM
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of course it does if you are the right kind of guy. Direct mail campaigns work too. (at about a < 1% success rate but they DO work.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/15 07:51 PM
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Visible arm tattoo. instant 20% score reduction and my red flag is raised. He is doughy looking but.. looks fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/15 07:49 PM
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and I wonder how many of that 40% live in poverty?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/15 07:48 PM
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Every generation thinks they are unique. There is a point where the majority of people want to have children. Enter Marriage. It really is that simple. Be very selective and pick someone complementary to your pill type.. You might get lucky.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/15 05:55 PM
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I disagree.. 50 - 100 bucks is EASILY worth it to eliminate if the woman sucks. Seeing how women treat wait staff was perfect for me. Treat them like shit.. We can end the date before main course. (Drop a 20 and leave) Is ambivalent torwards staff and self absorbed. Dessert is skipped and I can safely next her. She is nice and courteous? Cool.. tell me more.
/r/TheRedPill18/10/15 12:36 AM
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Im not sure why the mods would take this down. It wasnt a personal attack. It violated none of our rules. It was quite factual, informative but used some colorful adjectives. Which who gives a shit about that. It is the internet wear a helmet.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/15 01:32 PM
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Thing is.. I medically had a problem for 9 damn months. Zero.. Noodle time. Torwards the end when the prostetits was healed and it was jsut starting to work. the pill got me back to 110% (Like seriously I never remember it being that hard) and then it just started working again perfectly.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/15 12:07 AM
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Screw them call this place home. They banned me too. Pull up a chair you are among friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/15 12:05 AM
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Sometimes that is medical. My shit didnt work for 9 months. Cialis was AWESOME however. I would pop one of those things. BIZANG! I didnt try it but I bet I could have hammered a nail with that thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/15 12:03 AM
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Not really, I can see now there is nothing stopping me from being weathly even if my dad didnt give me my inheritance. You get to a certain level you intermingle with certain people and from there it isnt what you know. It literally is who.
/r/TheRedPill15/10/15 11:28 AM
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Quite simple. I heard it from a friend who helped change my view. Corporations ask what CAN I do. Government asks What SHOULD I do. Two vastly different questions. The people that call for less government already got what they want 20 years ago.
/r/TheRedPill15/10/15 11:25 AM
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right... but if we set it at above 250k what do you care? Seriously. They did it before, (early 1900s) Do it again. Find the date on the bridges around you.. look at them.. why are they ALL in the 20s and 30s?
/r/TheRedPill15/10/15 11:23 AM
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I'm a liberal. (Stick with me because we agree fundamentally) My parents are well off and well.. so am I (Patriarchy!.. lol) You are never going to convince me poor people are the problem. My father has destroyed the lives of 10s of thousands of people to get his golden parachute. Bladder cancer is going to get him in the next 2-5 years so all that loot will be mine. (Oh well) However. Hillary is garbage and it seriously irritates me that there are so many people voting for her without ANY idea …
/r/TheRedPill14/10/15 09:38 PM
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Hasnt hurt me ONE bit. (Check my flair) These people can easily be ignored. Those in real power arent those people. (And they never will be)
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/15 04:18 PM
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She can always lose weight. There is no fix for ugly or stupid. Let that sink in. I disagree fundamentally on TRP using attractiveness of a woman as their largest most important metric. Acquiring notches in my bedpost was never a goal. Working less hard than most people and making 4x more than them and having time and resources to recreate more was always more important to me. Have fun with your blonde that demands prada purses and BMW convertibles. I have ZERO need for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/15 01:53 PM
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I feel like I need to know the backstory to this. Id love to know how that large unathletic girl got on his neck first off. What did he do? How the hell did he get punked by that? What is the story of the guy narrating? AND where is that guys friends. I stayed at the Bellagio this spring and went right by this area. I know that exact walkway. I had my people with me.. So.. Id love to know what this guys deal is. Obviously there was something going on.. If i walked by I would have got involved. "…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/15 11:41 PM
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Sorry sweetheart.. You cant put the crap back in the goose.
/r/TheRedPill12/10/15 11:16 PM
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probably as much as married guys are worried about sex. If it isnt there it is a problem. Thing is.. if you are going to be in charge. Be in charge. that includes wearing the big boy pants and taking care of the money flow. Ive got ZERO problem with this. I earn she takes care of the kids and the house. Turns out we are both really good at doing what we do. If I wasnt earning (and I got laid off ONCE in 1999) It is a problem. I solved it.. I had a job the following Monday. Networking Gents. It w…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/15 11:14 PM
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Look harder and in places you wouldnt normally. (I dont buy awalt) Trust is easy with #1 20 years... no problems 3b: Ive got 2 Moved in with her 2 years before marriage She is a CPA. my credit rating is an 810. She doesnt waste money (see #1) Yea no problem with this. Huh? I dont see selfishness other than I have standards for myself my kids and my wife. Joking around with her I dont see as creating problems. I push her out of her comfort zone all the time. so yea. We are doing fine
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/15 12:00 PM
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Funny how many women actually want their men to take charge. Ive been surprised with some of the most loud "feminist" types (you know the hyphenators) how they when it all come down to it many of them want their men to be strong men. Completely amazing when it works. Great news for you.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/10/15 09:41 PM
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yes deeply I dont know what you mean? Means to an end.. of what? There is NOTHING broken about my wifes blowjobs. Sunday night, she walked in. Threw the covers off and went at it. Unprompted. Afterwards, I blacked out afterwards for a second or two. She got up.. giggled.. and walked out of the bedroom. . Oh and her accounting is pretty good too. my credit score is an 810. My wife gives me oral all the time to keep the peace. (Ive asked her and she said "because it makes you happy and I honestly …
/r/MarriedRedPill05/10/15 08:58 PM
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Bullshit.. my wife does (mother of our kids and CFO) something that is way more important that 97% of people doing a "job" Even more than me and I am a C level guy. What do I do? Push product to market for a pretty good chunk of change. 2 weeks from now no one gives a shit what 97% of us do. Ill endure the downvotes Ive got tons of fake internet points to spare. Granted she cant do what she does without me.. but.. I value what my wife does more than my self AND 97% of people.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/15 08:14 PM
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you understand what a warning is right?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/15 10:10 AM
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Why do we care about either of them? I have NO problem with the answer from the first commentor (Top one) ender_less
/r/TheRedPill02/10/15 06:46 PM
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So then it probably isnt for you. Strip clubs dont do it for me either. I find the whole setup beta. You aint banging the strippers and even if you could.. you shouldnt. This is different. Ive got a theatre room in my house that has couches and is a completely different room of my house. Ive gone with buddies years ago to strip clubs WAY back in the day, the girls dont do it for me. Interestingly enough I DO like the music and the lights. Now on the personal stripper pole thing, My wife just doe…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/15 04:22 PM
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Feminism: I want to be all the bad things that men are.. and you are going to respect me, not because i am worthy of respect or a good person but because I am a woman. if you are going to come at me like that. I am going to silently figure out a way of getting you away from me as fast as I can. you will NEVER see it coming. Hell you wont even see my face act negatively. I react the same way to religious extremists, political extremists, bigots, racists, sexists etc. I also dont understand what t…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/15 12:13 AM
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as a RP guy.. I firmly agree with you. Betas arent going to schools to shoot them up. They are used to taking it all the time and inexplicably (to me) seem to just LOVE taking the abuse. I think those people are just sociopaths and you really cant assign them a pill per se.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/15 12:00 AM
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yawn.. RP is these current batch of insane republicans and spineless democrats? WHATEVER..
/r/TheRedPill01/10/15 05:51 PM
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My wife didnt even bat an eye at taking my name. I even asked her days after I proposed. "Are you going to take my last name?' "Huh? Yea of course" It is super easy to change your name in "Murica" as you put it
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/15 05:22 PM
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Those people dont spend money on the real one that is cut to size and they dont anchor it to the floor AND a ceiling Joist. That does save 2/3 the price but it isnt as cool.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/15 12:49 PM
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No, Im damn sure of it before then. IT was to emphasize how much I REALLY REALLY liked that. in a way that was primal.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/15 12:48 PM
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C level exec fortune 100 retired 10 years now with a MBA from Harvard undergrad from Umass Boston Mother - Finishing school (yes, finishing school lol the pics are hilarious)
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/15 12:45 PM
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I put a pole and some lights in my basement after my wife took a "pole dancing" "fitness" class. I will never forget my first "Show" She stopped mid stripping.. She had done this move where she is in high heels and she bent over in a g string.. and looked back at me while slapping her ass.. She stopped.. stood up and said "What? does this look bad. Your mouth is wide open and you havent stopped" I said "This is absolutely fucking amazing. This is BY far the sexiest thing I have ever seen. " So..…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/15 09:15 PM
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It is a guide.. puts up a red flag for me. Hypenator means something to me. I am immedately going to have a prejudice against her EVEN professionally. Same thing I think about die hard liberals on Facebook posting their "revelations". No one cares.. but that isnt true.. people notice it and it affects you without you knowing it. Social Justice activist women (They arent for me just like conservative extremists arent either). Ive got plenty of buddies who are married to women like that. I sit the…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/15 06:00 PM
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I dont know I think plenty of points are being made on all sides to be fair. You have the obvious All women are X All BP are X All RP are X low value posts but we recently slapped those down pretty hard. For me I think it is about an understanding of different people and different ideologies. I think PPD is doing that for a lot of folks. I am enjoying the hell out of it personally. The funniest thing is the mod comments about certain mods being Gestapos. That is seriously hilarious from what I c…
/r/MarriedRedPill30/09/15 05:55 PM
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I think it is a sign of an activist woman who is going to be a perennial pain the ass. That is cool if that is your bag or you are a guy and you are into that but for ME. That isnt what I am after. AT ALL.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/15 05:21 PM
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Was one of my hidden red flags. Wants to Hyphenate? Cool.. Do that with someone else. Funniest thing I think I read on TRP that summarized it. The debate is. "Either way you are taking the name of one man or another." I kinda like the idea of making a whole new name however. Take my name or dont.. Hyphenators offend me and it would be a VERY big silent red flag with me. bra burner ahead
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/15 05:19 PM
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sounds reasonable to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/15 05:17 PM
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I dont think that is abnormal at all. My wife and I are both redpill and that is how we go too. "I dont want to because x" "ok" That is literally how it goes. I dont think that is a bluepill thing. Rape-y things aside if she isnt into it.. do I want to do it? Isnt that "obligation sex" Ugh. no thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/15 05:15 PM
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Thanks bro.. I dont think Im trolly but please point out where if you see it and perhaps I can explain more.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/09/15 04:25 PM
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I reacted strongly to this language as well. As if sex is bad and you rae bad and you should feel bad for wanting certain things. To be fair this person has a different desire for sex she is probably not a good partner for someone who likes to explore. In a way I wonder why people cannot leave well enough alone. Ok, her and I are not compatible. NEXT.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/15 11:09 AM
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Study Roman History. We are no more kinky than we were in 20 AD.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/15 11:07 AM
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If it is not for you, then it is not for you. None of the stuff you mentioned was invented before TV or recordings. It is as old as humans are and there is nothing wrong with it if two people want to put things up the behind. I find your use of the phrase "Do most men feel entitled to non-vanilla sex with women" to be tiresome. Shaming people for having desires you dont. Ive met plenty of women out there that make me blush. I had a girlfriend one time that used to want the craziest stuff. She wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/15 11:00 AM
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do what us mods over at PPD do..delete the nonsense.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/09/15 01:56 AM
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I do NOT see her as remotely attractive with her ridiculous pixie haircut and her politics. Egads man. I couldnt even stand having a conversation with her much less sex.. ugh.
/r/TheRedPill30/09/15 01:51 AM
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25 years same one.. going superb.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/15 01:43 AM
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No more than politicians that say they are religious when they clearly arent.
/r/TheRedPill30/09/15 01:42 AM
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yeah, im sorry it didnt work out for you. I have a friend that's wife wanted to start swinging. He allowed it.. said it was cool and then it ate him alive. Now they are divorced and he doesnt care anymore. Im sitting here looking at ALL my divorced friends and wondering.. how the hell did I get this right? I dont know.. I tried something I never heard anyone do. I didnt settle. I kept cycling through women until I found my wife. I knew instantly her ass was a unicorn. (for me) I remember testing…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/15 01:27 AM
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funny my wife makes me sandwiches all the time. Damnnest thing too.. I swear it tastes better when she makes it for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/15 11:01 PM
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"This sounds like an OK deal to me. Who wouldn't want to be with someone who plans for the future and is willing to take on the majority of responsibility for the relationship" THat wouldnt work for me. I want to make the decisions. My wife DOESNT. I am that guy.. Im not fake. Neither is my wife. She ilterally says. "I dont care. you decide" she really means it. One big promotion that was a lot of money and some risk. I asked her "What should I do? What do you think?" she replied. "You have made…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/15 10:54 PM
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ahh ok, well I probably need to explain it more because I do not describe things eloquently. I myself didnt sleep with everyone I could. I only slept with women that were LTR potential. I guess what I am saying is I could have easily married the town whore too as long as I felt that she had a similar belief structure as I did. My marrying a virgin wasnt really on purpose. It was because she gelled with me. so I guess these things are a guide more than a hard and fast guideline. Generally I think…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/15 10:48 PM
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Not all of us. Being my teammate isnt being on a pedestal
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/15 06:05 PM
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Im not sure this is a question for only redpillers.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/15 06:04 PM
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Ive got a theory on this. My daughters are going to be alphas. It just is how that shook out. My Son probably will be a beta or a MGTOW. Ive done what I can to show them what I think and what I believe but ultimately it is going to be up to them. My daughters are going to be fine. I doubt they will end up with a red pill guy (the good 2.0 kind that want to be the head of the household). My son. He is the one I worry about. I think he is going to be the complete opposite of me and is going to win…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/15 06:02 PM
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What part was that? The whole I dont want to be with someone who is super experienced and crazy sexually? (great convo btw I am enjoying it.)
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/15 05:51 PM
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I think there is a lot of younger guys on there that might be natural RP leaders that need to look for women that are something more than hot That seems to be what 99% of them are looking at only. I think they need to look for compatible people. Looks is the FIRST thing that disappears so you should be looking for other qualities. Like can they hold a conversation? I think there is an equally confused group of women out there too so that gives you the need to "interview" these people and when yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/15 03:47 PM
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because I wanted to have a family from minute one. I am well educated and from money and making money I knew wasnt going to be a problem for me. I didnt need a woman that was the same as me, a ruthless businessperson that was concerned about money and climbing the corporate ladder. I wanted someone that had qualities that were different than me. In a sense I had the money side locked down in the beginning. (ok I really didnt hit my stride until about 25-26 ) I wanted someone who was going to be …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/15 01:13 PM
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Most of them are young. A lot of them aren't looking hard enough for a woman to match them. (It is admittedly hard because those characteristics ARE found in women today but they arent popular so that have to hide in plain site from the same rabid feminists as we do. That is my take on it. I dated plenty of "me first" women. I found my wife 25 years ago quite on accident because I had a set of red flags I dont think most guys know about. Id put myself in the 1/3 of well adjusted folks in RP. I d…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/15 06:31 PM
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Im 45. I wouldnt date a women under about 39. We just arent that similar. I might not fit the RP crowd in that regard but that might be because I am over the age of 30.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/15 06:28 PM
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No, my wife was an Honor student her whole life and Valedictorian of her High School of 450 people. So, no.. it wasnt a red flag for me. As you well know my wife was a virgin when I met her. Now if you are asking a different question, such as, Do I think career focused (over everything else) women are a red flag. I answer an enthusiastic yes. For me that would be a deal breaker and no matter how attractive they might as well be a 1/10 for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/15 06:25 PM
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Doesnt change anything for me. One woman for the past 25 years is enough. Seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/15 06:11 PM
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Funny that is what my education entails - Psychology. I actually credit that degree for why I am doing so well in life. I can tell no one posting thus far has done any clinical psychology research. (It is plainly obvious they have just read the last few years worth of internet click-bait.) It is clear when something is statistically relevant. Lol.. this place cracks me up sometimes (Pill areas of reddit)
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/15 07:02 PM
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Yes I am not sure I need to expand upon that.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/15 04:50 PM
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id like to see your list to be honest. I had this feeling years back.. and had an epiphany about 3 years ago..(a good one) I wonder if you are on that same track.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/09/15 03:38 PM
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Wait until you see two humans come out of the same place Whoa. (Actually it looks about the same just older.. but it is a funny myth.)
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/15 02:05 AM
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http://d.justpo.st/media/images/2015/06/01/this-is-where-the-internet-hurt-me-butt-hurt-1433191658.jpg
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/15 07:01 PM
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broken? Im in the 20th year of a great relationship with someone who matches me in a complementary way. Insecure? That is the first time Ive been called that. If anything Ive been told I am overconfident. Dont know sex is something intimate it is another way to REALLY get to know someone after you have been dating them. That is what it was for me. I cant fault the results. Im one of the few that have great kids and never have been divorced.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/15 02:38 PM
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I think it has been said we lie to a factor of 2. I actually dont know how many women Ive slept with. I found my wife at 19. I only slept with women I really liked after dating them. (I wasnt running the risk of getting anyone pregnant that I could NOT stand.) so I dont remember and I wasnt running a count. Id say 12-20 myself. I also am NOT Koreogamous (just learned that word - Thx) I STRONGLY prefer women my own age.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/15 11:35 AM
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We talked about this a few weeks ago. She had just started college and I came around. She was 19 and was starting not to care. I was literally in the right place at the right time. She said she loved me more than she ever thought possible and could tell I was perfect for her. So at 6 weeks it happened. Back then I REALLY cared about that. now I see the foolishness of my complete infatuation with marrying a virgin. Luckily things worked out. (so far, lol, as a RP people would say)
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/15 11:22 AM
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bad advice.. my wife of 20 years was a virgin when I met her.. it took 6 weeks for me. 25 years later.. Id say I made the right call.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/15 10:42 PM
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If you are not happy you are entitled to end the marriage. It really is that simple to me. There is no one putting a gun to your head. I mean she could cut her hair short and the guy could say. "Im outta here" He could start drinking She could say "I am outta here." Either partner can say "I dont like what you are doing" and leave for whatever reason. so is that abuse? No, could it be a bad decision, perhaps. I for one wouldnt want to be in a non sexual relationship so I would leave. I dont see …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/15 02:49 PM
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It is part of the contract of marriage. (now wait.. read all of what i said) So.. abuse? No... It probably is one of the largest reasons for divorce from what I see. I think you are trying to cloud the issue with the whole "She doesnt owe him sex" feminist refrain and Id counter it with "He doesnt owe her anything and if she isnt into him, He should bail" Why be with someone that doesnt want to be with you? Should a man stay with a wife that is never in the mood? Nope.. good riddance.. probably …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/15 11:31 AM
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twice last week.. I was busy with Extracurricular sports activities. I got prostetitis 2 years ago and was down for the count for about 8 months. Yea.. Noodle time. 8 months..
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/15 11:24 AM
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not everyone is in their 20s or 30s around here.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/15 11:21 AM
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The grass is greener where you water it. (That will summarize a LOT of the reading you have done)
/r/MarriedRedPill20/09/15 10:24 PM
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She is lying (sorta).. My wife said this back in the day. "I dont like big ripply muscles" (She is talking like Arnold style) I am not taking the time to do that anyhow. Definition is fine. Competition muscles I dont have the genetics for that (99% dont) I read on here something that I think transcends opinion and makes some biological sense. Women want men who are rough and strong to have babies with and they want a nice beta provider to take care of the baby with them after they get impregnate…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/15 10:49 AM
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First off.. there is SOMEONE for everyone out there. No matter how ugly YOU are there is someone that will think you are superb. I saw your post in MRP first not here where I am a Mod. So i have read your story. Your husband sounds like a horrible person. " If I ask him why he is with me he says lack of choice and this is not just when we are arguing." "He said that if a more attractive woman wants to have sex with him he doesn't owe it not to cheat on me" Sounds to me like your marriage is over…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/15 09:33 PM
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Let me tell you 10 years from now. your friend will stop talking to you because you cant stop bringing red pill truth to the situation. I lost two friends JUST like this one about 5 years ago and one 2 months ago. They just vanished really. The thing is.. I am better off for it now too. They both were whiners. They just liked talking about problems not actually trying anything and they DAMN sure werent going to try some of my ideas. Their women arent leaders either. They BOTH were confused women…
/r/TheRedPill19/09/15 03:21 PM
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You would actually be surprised how well modded this sub is. I was looking at some stuff and the reason this place looks so clean is personal attacks get nuked instantly. People report em and the mod team does the rest. Ive modded some other communities and the nonsense here is dealt with quite well. (I just looked over the logs and spent some time with what has been deleted.. VERY impressive. ) I guess you wouldnt see that as a regular user so you will have to take my word on it. Quite interest…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/15 12:29 PM
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Funny I figured this out BEFORE I got married to them. If your number one priority is your Career and you arent a nice person, you arent that much into marriage I nexted them. BEFORE I got married to them. I dont know but the biggest thing is these women that shout that they are independent and want to be their own person and all this stuff. Id quietly back away from them. Sounds like you dont want to be in a LTR.. so I could see that there are guys that "tried to make it work" because they are …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/15 12:24 PM
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Or get guys on the fence that are confused to stand up for themselves. (That is my goal anyhow) they can only do to you what you let them.. now stand up.. and say I am not going to take it anymore. filter way the Anger phase guys and that is what you see. Granted you really do need to filter QUITE a bit of that stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/15 02:30 PM
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Wow you nailed that one RIGHT on the head.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/15 02:28 PM
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There is no push to ban TRP any more than there is a push to get 2Xchromosomes off a default subreddit. IMO
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/15 02:26 PM
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Ive got an uncle and a friend like this.. My uncle RP as hell. His wife is a doctor.. He does gigs all the time and leads his relationship and absolutely is in charge. The other.. (and i am TOTALLY not making this up.) is another ex friend who supported his wife all through med school making sacrifices doing all kinds of stuff her her. He is a product of 3rd wave feminism and did all the stuff they say you shoudl do. I noticed it one time when we were in a parking lot and his wife picked a fight…
/r/MarriedRedPill18/09/15 02:23 PM
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I ask myself all the time.. I sit here as a happily married RP man YELLING into the computer screen. STOP DATING/Marrying THE WRONG WOMEN!!! Sure you can lift.. raise your SMV all that.. but why wont you put JUST AS MUCH work into finding a mate IF you are going to do a LTR! On the Single mother tip I differ with the RP folks that say Single women are evil or bad or whatever. Sure.. some might be but I think single mothers might be a place to find a hidden gem for a 100 different reasons. Ive to…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/15 02:15 PM
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Let's keep it clean out there. When the bell rings come out fighting debating! <ding ding> I appreciate this appointment to the Moderation team here in a sub I enjoy quite a bit after being banned from another subreddit you people took me in and showed me the pill conversation is still interesting and not one sided. Sure I (and my wife - OMG I used a possessive pronoun to describe a woman! Oh the horror!) am redpill married 20 years with kids and loving it but I am interested to hear the perspec…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/15 02:06 PM
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My advice.. get out of anger phase before all the good ones get snatched up. I found the right one at 19 and married at 24.. Life is good Although I REALLY dont know if that works any more. It does seem like there has been a huge culture shift in the past 20 years.
/r/TheRedPill18/09/15 07:41 AM
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I think you are dealing with red guys in anger phase is all. My wife of 20+ years had way more empathy and love that I do. Im pretty cold and calculating. I think that is the essence of our redpill relationship. She is the soft side I am the rougher side. I was never going to end up someone who wasn't nice. I used to date them but BOY did those relationships end poorly.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/15 07:35 AM
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I am amazed at what my wife looks like with a little mascara and eye shadow on. You wouldnt think it would make that much of a difference but then all of a sudden. vavoom. Too me this question seems like a loaded question that White knights answer too quickly. Oh you are perfectly sexy with your grey sweatpants on, no make up hair all a mess and you havent taken a shower. I kinda smirk when people say that because I personally think it is nonsense, but then again we have a whole thread of people…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/15 07:25 AM
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yeah the chase is exciting.. doing the chase right up to the point of being able to take the kill shot. For me that is what yesterday was. The most attractive woman to me in my company of 200 people was giving me some crazy signs yesterday. Ill be honest. That made me feel pretty good. My wardrobe has undergone a huge upgrade, Ive got a tan Ive firmed up quite a bit. Im sure I am one of the best dressed guys at work that ISNT obviously gay or feminine. why am I not doing anything about it? Becau…
/r/MarriedRedPill16/09/15 11:04 AM
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"The grass is always greener where you water it. " Ive got a psych degree and read a metric shit ton of relationship books.. THAT phrase that I heard for the first time a few weeks ago boils it all that shit I read down to one sentence. weird story. I was in a diversity meeting today (yes Anti-RP shit feminst NONSENSE) and this woman who is VERY VERY well married that works in my office was across the table from me. We have talked casually.. For some reason I am SUPER attracted to her to. Today.…
/r/MarriedRedPill16/09/15 12:28 AM
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Cool Im a wolf I guess. (Im older too mid 40s)Married 20 years and Id probably kill anyone and anything that harmed her or my kids without blinking. (and I am not even a violent guy.) Ive got no problem with AF and BB relationships i actually know a few to be fair. Ive got a lot of respect for those women (because they are similar to me. Their husbands I usually cant stand however.) Benevolent dictators I like to call them. Their partner doesnt want to be in charge.. THEY do. I really dont see t…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/15 08:40 PM
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Not really.. some of us have been married for 20 years and just like lifting and putting work. Putting in work in your marriage also yields results.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/15 09:58 AM
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funny I know two guys going through a divorce that are PERFECT nice guys and the problem. Their wives were BORED of them and their begging and niceness. "She owes me sex" not really but I HAVE heard them say "Ive done so many things for her.. why cant she just have sex with me. Slightly different but same meaning. funny one of the guys is now dating.. his new girlfriend is totally DTF all the time (They have been together 2 weeks) He told me he was lonely, depressed etc. (He had had some great d…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/15 11:37 AM
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I think you are making generalizations of all of redpill men. I am absolutely with you on the younger crowd in their anger stage rambling on about their conquests (Why sleep with a woman you dont like? I dont get it? Because she is "hot"?) I'm pretty sure I havent spoken bad about my wife in any of my posts. As to being equals. I defer to her for all issues about the house, She has held all the finances since 1995. She is my intellectual equal and definitely more a partner than a child or a room…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/15 11:30 AM
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please.. you sound just like my wife but you put a lot of time and effort into a pothead and it didnt work out. Do you like the idea of redpill womanhood? I mean if you could find a good captain (Im not saying that would be EASY at all. I couldnt tell you how to find one of us.) Hell if your happy that is good tho..
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/15 02:28 AM
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yeah there was a post yesterday in hampsterdam (aka 2xchomoshit) "I am getting an abortion friday how do I calm my nerves" You could tell the mods were cleaning that thread agressively because there was only 6 posts and all the normal. "You go girl" The girl straight up admitted her and her shitty beta buck "have a promising future" and "no time for a kid" made me wretch a little bit. (Im 45 and got 3 kids and a SUPERB wife Ive been married to for more than 2 decades now) Fuck her.. that sub AND…
/r/TheRedPill11/09/15 06:29 PM
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Wow, sorry for that guy! Looks like you are an awesome woman (perfect for a red pill guy like myself) I read every letter of what you wrote too, I find myself nodding at all the points you make, well except for the last part where you say dont get married and immerse yourself in a job. You are 30 right now if my math is correct. There are PLENTY of guys out there that would realize the gold mine you are. You may have to change up who you are dating. I know I did (if you check my post history and…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/15 01:57 PM
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Helped me to see where we will be in 7 years. :) Thanks. We just became financially rock solid in the past 2 years and kids are close to College age.. IT has been a wild ride but I can see now that the kids are getting more independent, I can see what is to come and I like it. Your post confirms a lot of my suspicions about our future.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/15 01:43 PM
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yeah that is REALLY GOOD. ""the grass is greener where you water it"" Heh.. DAMN.. that is everything wrapped into one!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/15 01:40 PM
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(Protopill and I have almost the same story.. LOL) Married 20 years in a month. Been with her for 25 years. Here is what I did. I dated women for maximum 6 weeks. One woman at a time. I started at age 16. Pretty much had a girlfriend that whole time. I knew what I wanted at 17... A wife, kids, house, regular nuclear family crap and I wanted a team player for a wife. I had a bad habit too. I was and dated Italian American Princesses. You know the type. Most of the time their daddy was rich and th…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/15 01:37 PM
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For all that progress you made that one slip up wasnt that bad but here is how I would have reploed. "I'l put the wedding ring back on if this is good enough, we will see. Are you going to earn it? GET BACK TO WORK" Look, Ill be honest. I dont read long posts but I read yours I think a tear came down my face too. that was an awesome read. What are your acronyms? of figured them both out.. I need to actually read NMMNG again. your story is the same as mine but multiply my years married by 10 (and…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/09/15 11:10 AM
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"The problem is that the product can no longer be controlled. Women have fled the production line. Most are no longer available to be purchased. They make their own money." Nonsense.. there is a woman right next to me that loves being where she is. Has three great kids and gets to be the mom of them not have to slave away for a corporation dime only to get tossed when the numbers arent right. She wants to be here. She isnt a slave. She could willingly leave at ANY time and take way more than hal…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/15 10:50 AM
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Totally normal TRP lore. She sees you getting fit.. she wants to too. (It really is that simple captain.) I see it as a HUGE positive. Happens all the time in red pill relationships.. telling them to lose some weight.. pointless losing weight and they follow suit. Dunno? want her to lose some lbs? Then find a way I would say. Think she will only do it 1-2 times.. doesnt sound like it will impact you that much all in all. Id go for it.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/09/15 01:24 PM
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I am guessing this kind of low value post wont make it past the mods when they do the change.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/15 12:02 PM
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yup. I didnt see this post before I posted in this thread. MR Nice guy loses again when "typical woman" gets bored. Best post in here. I think this is a potential for the OPs sister too. you just have to add 10 years.
/r/TheRedPill09/09/15 11:59 AM
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They both are young. Ive seen plenty of these relationships end 10 years in because one of the people became bored. You haven't really described your sister enough to give us a good idea. Your description of him hits all the pointers of guys that get dropped. I myself have seen plenty of these. To young people these seem like perfectly normal relationships. Time tells a different story.
/r/TheRedPill09/09/15 11:55 AM
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Ive got three kids. here is the thing.. Ive got a 17 year old and 15 year old and a 9 year old they are perfect respectful people. The second the kid acts up.. you dont say a thing.. you grab him.. and take him to the car. . "Junior that behavior is unacceptable and I am not going to tolerate it." Period end of sentence. Here is the thing.. that behavior is 100% unacceptable (you know what it looks like) and cant be tolerated for an INSTANT. you have to nail that kid EVERY time. So ACTION REACTI…
/r/MarriedRedPill09/09/15 12:03 AM
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find a benevolent dictator that you can stand. There is nothing wrong with being bluepill. I get it. You are who you are. Just find someone that is a good leader, someone that will prod you out of your comfort area and make you a better person and someone that does it without being an asshole. It is the inverse of Redpill but I think it is 100% doable.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/15 12:08 PM
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I dont think it affected me or my prospects in any way. If anything it helps me weed out the good women from the bad. Not every woman wants a Chad and the ones that do are ones that I am not going to want to be with. So I can quietly sit on the sideline and realize while she might be attractive on the outside she probably isnt that intelligent and doesnt value herself so.. "Why should I?" Thanks to Chad for doing my heavy lifting for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/15 12:06 PM
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Here is the thing you will learn over time. (and probably WAY too late) your job (and mine) arent important. No one has ever gone to the grave wishing they worked more. A woman can make people. I cant. That is WAY more important than working a job pumping out trinkets for corporation X that will fire you when the numbers arent in their favor. It is bullshit and cutthroat. You ladies have been lied to. Im in the upper tier of my professional life and I am amazed at how many people throw their lif…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/15 12:03 PM
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Best piece of advice here. I remember wasting time on GIRLs like this when I was younger. The best thing I ever learned was to next them fast and not even look back (because there is a good chance right after you next them they might start to become interested)
/r/TheRedPill07/09/15 11:51 AM
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go over to marriedredpill where we discuss that particular post. It is pointeless to get mad at that type of stuff. Look at it.. recognize it and next them. It really is that simple. I think it is the guys that engage stuff like that 'Because they are hot" that get angry about it. They are hot, ok. But did you take the time to hear what makes them tick? No.. you didnt take the time? AND you had sex with them? REALLY? That seems INSANE to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/15 11:46 AM
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It is bullshit.. that is young kids in anger state. Period and end of sentence. We all know it. No one wants to be the 35 year old banging the 18 year olds in the bar. I remember that distinctly when I was 18.. That pathetic guy who is out of place. I wanted a marriage that works, kids, financial security, house (paid off), cars, (Paid) and other shit. I got that at about age 30 and finished the other stuff off at about 42. railing random pussy I havent wanted that since 1994. Ill continue runni…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/09/15 11:42 AM
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I respect the ones that are type A that dont give me shit for being type A and a Man. I can tell them a mile away. I actually chuckle at some of the strong women that have blue pill spouses. I am surprised at how similar the two of us are. If they ask me "Don't you support Equality for women" That right there gets me to clam right up. THey are trying to bait me and they are probably a shitbird right from the jump. funny You can see that a mile away if you are watching for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/15 06:53 PM
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As an IT executive I like hiring women. I think they round the team out with their energy. I also like them being on my sports teams too. I have had a hard time finding women for Tech careers but it hasnt been impossible. my #2 is a woman I have known for 12 years too. In general the women I know dont have the curiosity for things technical and tearing things apart. I dont see the sexism stuff. Id hire them if they applied. Id even prefer them too because I am a big proponent of a good team dyna…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/15 06:49 PM
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yeah Ive got 20 years in myself.. nothing is pulling me away. Ive got it golden. Couldnt agree more. "ugly woman" hitting on me? It happens. Generally it is flattering. If she is a good conversationalist it passes time. Not going to overturn my applecart however. EVEN for a hot one. (No matter how hot she is SOMEONE is tired of her shit)
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/15 06:46 PM
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I find I have plenty of peers (older well married RP guys too. They come out from time to time) :)
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/15 06:44 PM
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speaking as an IT executive who does hiring all the time.. (You absolutely do NOT need a degree in IT to get a job in IT. All I look for is aptitude and a curiosity for things. (That alone in an interview will get you a job with me or with many of my peers) I didnt take the programming route. I took the systems/networking side. Networking was great if you wanted to sit in a server room and make 150k a year and be alone. Systems was good if you were a people person and were happy wiht 60k a year.…
/r/TheRedPill06/09/15 06:43 PM
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It will be the only valuable book out of the series. (The rest are very religious and not to my taste) It is a FAST read. like literally one afternoon in the fall near a fire you will have it done. It was a profound crossroads for us. The gist was.. People have certain things they like to get from a relationship. (in this case they call it a love language) They tend to GIVE whatever language they prefer.. AND they tend to get frustrated because it doesnt work on the other partner because they "s…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/15 06:40 PM
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yes the laws are written that sex with a minor is illegal but even higher level philosophy would dictate that someone in a position of power leveraging that over someone of no power for their own (in this case sexual) gratification is wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/15 06:36 PM
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yeah Im here to tell you.. I make mad bank working in Executive IT Leadership.. I started off as a PC technician back in 1996, did some heavy engineering stuff then went into Management. You dont need (another) degree for that.. (Mine is a BA in Psychology) Find PC tech jobs. (probably will pay 40-60 for entry level) then get certs in stuff you like.. that gets you to 60-80 in 2 years. From there.. the rest is up to you. Keep going man.. I like the tone of your post. You got your ass kicked.. bu…
/r/TheRedPill06/09/15 02:38 AM
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sounds like someone read the 5 love languages. Finding out my wife was "acts of service" and I was "touch" was interesting for our relationship a decade ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/15 02:35 AM
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"All feminism did was give me another job." The year was 1994. I asked her to marry me in 1995... She is in the other room making dinner for our kids. Yea... floored me.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/15 02:32 AM
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Leagues are nonsense. Plenty of hot women just waiting to be talked to. Think of it like a direct marketing campaign.. Eventually one of them is going to like what you got to offer.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/15 02:31 AM
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When you are going through hell.. KEEP going. Not sure that getting a second bachelors is a good idea. (Seems like more debt to me)
/r/TheRedPill06/09/15 02:29 AM
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It is called the anger phase.. They allow it.. and I am fine with it.. as long as they get back on the horse and learn from mistakes. what does it matter?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/15 02:27 AM
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The guys on TRP are young.. TRP 2.0 includes LTRS, Kids, money and success.. They figure it out past age 30. It is too noisy in there. I watch tho. The late teenager that found someone that is a LTR material but reads TRP and is told to make her a plate. I post to those guys and endure the downvotes. To date Ive helped 2 guys and that was good enough for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/15 02:26 AM
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"Men will have casual sex with fucking any girl that doesn't look like a car crash." I never did.. I only had sex with women that were of the long term relation type. as to your original quote. "If you dont value yourself. (casual sex) Why should I?" Who want to go to the car dealership and pick up the most used car with the most problems? Not me..
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/15 02:24 AM
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It is a violation of the social contract they have as a teacher. Pretty damn pathetic too. Like they cant go get on tinder and take care of business that way. They use their position of power over these kids. This has to be a troll post. (When I closely read the end of it) Seriously? "Why not put female teachers to work, giving male students first-hand instruction in the art of copulation? You really wouldn't be hurting anyone. Even the girls will be grateful, when on Defloration Day, the young …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/15 02:21 AM
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I found this sub after I got banned from /r/RedPillWomen. it has become my favorite Pill related sub as I do enjoy a good counterpoint to challenge my perspective. These changes look like it will enhance the content in here greatly. I like the transparency of bans too. when you get banned from a place hearing "we dont know why" is bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/15 02:11 AM
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"Are you mad at me?" funny.. sounds so familiar when I flipped. Mine picks up on changes almost instantly. my pro answer now is "Should I be?" All that means is she knows something changed. They arent as dumb as TRP makes them out to be. My wife knows me REALLY well. The past 5 years has been pretty interesting sex wise. (We are in year 25 together.) Funny my reaction to things like your hairbrush example always winds up being something like, laughing it off and saying something like. "That is m…
/r/MarriedRedPill04/09/15 02:29 PM
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I married the Chaste one who was the valedictorian of her high school of 350 people. She was also a State Swimming champ/lifeguard. I met her in College found her at age 18 (Where she also got straight A's) Been married 20 years. Guess I answered that question. I always was impressed with her priorities and from talking to her in the car (LAST NIGHT). I ALMOST was too late. She almost gave it up to the guy just before me but he broke up with her. Interestingly enough after she "gave it up to me"…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/15 11:15 AM
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team work. I seriously feel like it is her I and the kids against the world. (and we are winning) My wife and I of 20 years do that which we are good at and that which we like doing. It works for us. There are PLENTY of people out there that dont want to be in charge. Dunno.. I'm on my first marriage and the two of us are super happy with each other. all I see in TRP for me is I get to be who i am and I found a woman who wants to be who she is naturally. Worls is full of people who think THEIR w…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/15 01:52 AM
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Quite possibly the best comment in this thread buried right here.
/r/TheRedPill30/08/15 07:48 PM
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in my demographic more than you think. Im in the top 7% of earners so my peers have more children. Making food on their own? Mine does, quality is higher and a good cooks prefers doing that. When we were younger we would eat quick stuff but that no longer is the case. 4 hours? Shit.. it was CONSTANT. You honestly sound JUST like me before I had to handle my kids that one weekend. I was saying the SAME thing. oh you just sit around doing nothing. It was constant.. throw in there a dog too. Wow. I…
/r/TheRedPill28/08/15 06:22 PM
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26-35 Thing is he hasnt even responded to some of them. (so there could be more than 5 now) I didnt think it was like this at all. Id heard it flips from women I know in their 30s. That the things they look for now is. "Do they have a job" or "Do they have hair" I never imagined it was this insane. It is kind of neat being able to observe this non-pill leaning blue guy going nuts.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/15 06:17 PM
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hahahah I took over for my wife about 10 years ago when her mom was dying. I had 3 kids from friday until sunday. 2 hours.. You obviously have never had that role. It WAS EXCRUCIATING. Just feeding and wiping asses took a ton of time. Nevermind feeding. Cleaning up for them. Making food was a huge chore. Cleaning up from that. On top of that things I DIDNT do The laundry The bills and finances Food Shopping any other kind of shopping The list went on and on and on. but feel free to continue beli…
/r/TheRedPill28/08/15 06:10 PM
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I have a buddy who got divorced last friday. (age 36) He is currently spinning 5 plates. (that is one week of NOT EVEN trying hard.) He is average attractiveness and the women he are plating are younger than him and a little more attractive. so.. no.. I think the game flips around 35 and he is having a BLAST> The texts he gets from these women are AMAZING.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/15 06:05 PM
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Well Welcome anyhow. I have a best friend who isnt red pill either him and his wife have had problems for years. He stuck with her. Which.. gets my respect. She is bipolar (TYPE 1) and has been hospitalized a few times. He treated him like shit. He was more noble than I think I would be. Anyhow. She expressed a desire to start swinging at first he was like. This is great, she is happy I am happy. Well that lasted like a month. Found out a few weekends ago she doesnt want to stop even if it means…
/r/TheRedPill28/08/15 12:19 PM
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Hilarious.. virtually no real women on there. Even if there were they would have been shitty women.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/15 06:28 PM
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I dont hate you.. I understand you more than you understand me.
/r/TheRedPill27/08/15 06:27 PM
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To be fair ive never seen someone who acted as methodically as I did to find a LTR and set upon my goals that early. To listen to myself tell the story I find it quite comical how goal focused I really was.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/15 06:12 PM
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My wife also doesnt want to lead. JUST LIKE some blue pill guys dont want to lead either. When she says "Where do you want to go to dinner?" 25 years of being her husband tells me she literally wants me to pick.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/15 06:10 PM
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precisely.. as a much of an idiot as the guy is. I heard Dr Phil say it.. You have to figure out what is your child's currency. (Same thing with a dog too funny enough.)
/r/MarriedRedPill27/08/15 06:09 PM
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six figure salary. The ability to work or not work (Volunteer) at something you love. You get to raise your own kids. Being with a man that is worthy of your respect. Getting respect/support from that guy Being part of a team rather than an individual. A team is easier than going it alone. If that is your path.. that is what I have to offer. If not, cool go your own way.. Ill do life my way you do it yours. Ill respect you for wanting different things out of life.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/15 03:57 PM
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I wanted one at 17. We found each other at 19. We are mid 40s now. So yea.. that is true
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/15 03:57 PM
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AWALT is a guide.. people that use it to say every woman is the exact same havent looked hard enough. Recoginzing patterns of behavior is valuable however because im sorry in general there IS a difference in the way the sexes think. So if you arent that sex you would have no frame of reference.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/15 01:57 PM
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glad to see stuff like this in MRP.. NICE
/r/MarriedRedPill27/08/15 01:55 PM
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you and I are about the exact same. However with one difference. (and it is quite substantial.) I probably know about 50 couples over the past 25 years who have gotten married. My wife and I will be celebrating 20 years in a few months. We have been together 25. Of those 50 couples 3 of them including myself are still married 15+ years. All of the other ones.. Literally 47 of them have been divorced. NOW.. that is skewed from the national average for sure. However here is the other thing that is…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/15 05:34 PM
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My wife is a swimming star and was valedictorian of her High School. She also was national honor society through college. (Straight As) We have been married 20 years our kids are all smart and conversations are still interesting. so.. marrying a dummy? I wouldnt do it. Of course my sample size is 1 and I dont have friends or peers that married uneducated women. They are all bright too. You realize you are asking this in Purple pill not TRP right?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/15 11:33 AM
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he just sounds like typical anger phase maybe he had younger kids and mom is busy as hell right now. I THINK that is why I was a mess 7 or more years ago.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/08/15 07:19 AM
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sounds like me 10 years ago.. Im enjoying myself perfectly with her now. Kids are about to leave and I am looking forward to it. That all happened in the past 7 years, I am not sure what happened but it did.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/08/15 07:17 AM
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once again you are probably dealing with the younger TRPers when you formulate this opinion.. Not the 40 year old ones that have been married 20 years. If find that group and the man hating feminists to be almost indistinguishable. Maybe we should put the two of them in a cage match.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/15 07:14 AM
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Just means he is in for a rude awakening. i dont know how much I love my wife. I cant even describe it. Neither can she. So.. maybe one of us loves the other more. WHO KNOWS?!?! I think we would be both hard pressed to figure out who is more.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/15 06:32 PM
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I take Mom down to the theatre room. The basement door locks as does the door to the theatre room. Turn the music up.. (and turn the disco light on) and have a blast. Did that 10 years ago.. my kids are late teens now. (why is mom walking down the hallway with a closed robe on and high heels? Why are they going downstairs? )
/r/MarriedRedPill25/08/15 04:22 PM
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absolutely works I have three kids that are teenagers now with NONE of the behavioral problems I see in other kids. The whining, the loudness. take away something that matters to them and make sure EVERY time they do it you nail em for it. Consistency.. Worked for us.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/08/15 04:21 PM
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as the son of someone that used to hit me and knocked me out a few times. I thank you. Funny.. still Im 45 and I am waiting for him to swing on me just once.. hasnt happened. :)
/r/MarriedRedPill25/08/15 04:20 PM
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IT doesn't matter what you take away as long as it is valuable to them. I am thinking this is just general advice.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/08/15 04:18 PM
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going outside is a cure for most of this shit.. That is true.
/r/TheRedPill25/08/15 02:40 PM
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the only advice I can give you is keep trying and dont ignore red flags. Sounds like you are going to do fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/15 12:50 PM
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Not every single red pill guy is anti-marriage. I think you are encountering a lot of the young RP guys to be fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/15 10:28 AM
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You are undoubtedly dating the wrong American women. You just described to me "white trash". Why do I want a white american woman? because they are more similar to me and my viewpoints. I think it is funny how redpill says "Work hard" for everything except finding a mate. "No american women are any good. " NONSENSE. Work hard at everything. PERIOD. Work hard at acquiring income, physique, AND your partner. Christ sake I wish I could grab people and say.. STOP FUCKING GIRLS who arent worthy of yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/15 10:26 AM
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Red Pill Rap Anthem. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=f-GDzhYFZak and my flair This song is from 1990
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/15 02:17 AM
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I dont know.. Im 45 I am wired SLIGHTLY different than most RP dudes. I slept with probably 30 women before finding my wife. (of 20+ years) Never more than one at a time.. and each one was an interview.. I was looking for a LTR.. nothing else. I had goals at 17. dunno.. that is how I rolled. I got called a "ho" which is hilarious by the way. Ive never met anyone who did what I did but then again I dont know many people except for 2 that have been married 20 years either. Never had any interest i…
/r/MGTOW24/08/15 09:11 PM
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I kinda like you (I'm noticing your posts quite bit) good perspective.. seems more even keeled than my post on this subject.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/15 09:03 PM
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Because you specified it (I am a red pill man hater of people called feminists (not all mind you just the kind) that think they can be an asshole and everyone in the world is oppressing them for calling them on their asshole behavior) so Ive got some bluepill people I know (used to be friends) that remarried and got kids and have the kids call them "Daddy" and they are 14 and 12 (and boys which DOES matter to me) i got a BIG problem with that. You ARENT their dad.. back down. also.. conversely i…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/15 08:58 PM
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hahahah nice assessment.. Im 45 married 20 years with two kids.. sometimes you guys make me feel like Im not redpill because.. you know Im married and fucking rocking it. but yea.. this was my first thought. Man up bitch.. times when shit gets rough is when you need to make a plan and fucking destroy stuff like your life depends on it. BECAUSE it does.. and in my case 4 people depend on me.. so get moving. lol.. guess im redpill as hell.
/r/TheRedPill24/08/15 08:51 PM
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These are the standards I had when I was 17 (Some of them I figured out along the way) I absolutely did have a goal (Marriage, kids and stable life) and a preference. (illuminated below) Id probably look for what I was looking for at 17 and found at 19. Virgin someone intelligent (I want those genes) C or larger breasts. Big ass that looks fantastic in a sundress Brunette longer than shoulder length hair mentally very stable good with money (because i am NOT) Non-feminist someone who was nice to…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/15 10:54 AM
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Nope, we are and will continue to do fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/15 11:50 AM
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Rp believes in reproducing with a woman who will be a good partner and a good mother I think you mean to say.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/15 11:49 AM
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No, I am married 20 years with 3 kids. Shit is fine. The world has no absolute need of religion. Ethics is a universal truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/15 11:48 AM
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I'm 45 no I dont. However, Ive taken the free online boater course anyhow and it was informative and Im glad people (born after 1985) need to know this basic stuff. knowing right of way is vital to my safety and that is an important part of the course. You and I probably differ on what I consider freedom. Having a license for driving a boat or operating a motorvehicle is fine by me. Demonstrating basic proficiency is FINE. Re-certifying that proficiency should be done at shorter intervals too. (…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/15 11:45 AM
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My life really hasnt been affected by walking down the street with a beer. My house, a bar or my boat.. all of them i have no problem doing that. I guess I am not the kind of guy that just roams down the street with a bottle in my hand.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/15 09:16 AM
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"If you sleep with younger girls, you are still immature and can't get with women your age." I dont accept either group. I'm 45 I personally feel this way about guys my age with 25 year olds. Ive got nothing in common with women 25 years old and conversations with them are going to be short and uninvolved. I am absolutely going to think something about that person off the bat just like I am going to think the same thing about some woman dressing "like a slut" would. That will affect me going int…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/15 09:11 AM
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yeah that doesnt sound right to me. That sounds like some crazy conservative/muslim nonsense like this "Women shouldnt be allowed to vote" My response to those people is "Quiet down Corky.. the adults are speaking"
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/15 09:00 AM
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put it in a red cup and everything is fine around here. (Which I find hilarious) There is actually a bill to allow that in public here in the next election.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/15 08:53 AM
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Wow, i cant believe you took up all the time to write that. Thanks. Wow.. we've got kids Ive never heard of all that fees and stuff around here. i have literally never had those experiences you have. Occupancy stuff? Non issue around here. My neighbor got one of those mail order brides from the Philippines and they bought the house next to them. There is literally 10 people living between those two houses. That is a crazy list of stuff. Never been a landlord either. I knew it would be a pain the…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/15 08:52 AM
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I figured this out when I was about 17 through trial and error. Im 45. Well done sir.. Well done.
/r/TheRedPill22/08/15 11:11 PM
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How so? I feel pretty damn free.. but I am in the top 7% of earners in this country. Oh and I DO think that Minimum Income (where people get basic money to live) and socialized medicine would be awesome. Give these people a living, take it from me. If they dont want to compete in the business world. FINE. The world I think woudl be better off if artists coudl just make art and other stuff like that. Ill still be kicking ass and taking names. That is just who I am.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/15 10:51 PM
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No I read it.. (I had to search the comments) who said we want to remove your right to pick "who you are marrying? to divorce, to work, to own property" Who the hell said that? My wife wanted to be married to me (I asked her. Frankly I dont want to be married to someone I forced) She doesnt want to be with me. (Fine divorce me, she is free to do that. Work - yea.. she takes care of the kids and the whole household. (by her choice and my enablement) I own my house, boat, cars and business. Her na…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/15 10:46 PM
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Ian knows shit so his stuff is gonna be great. His link is PURE gold. I didnt have that 25 years ago but my wife would have passed it then. Let me ask you this. what is the first thing that goes on a woman? Looks.. that's right. If that bitchiness bothers you now it probably going to be an issue in the future. Especially when the looks fade.. Id be curious for you to explain the bitchiness (and sounds like disrespect too) For ME that would be a deal breaker. i need intelligence. i need to be att…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/08/15 10:31 PM
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Framing it as "womens freedoms" puts the debate in a way that is false. Ill reframe it Teaching women (OR ANYONE) that their actions no matter HOW hedonistic they are should have NO consequences is BAD and dishonest. It is also juvenile imo You are free to do a LOT of shit. Hell truth is Americans can do damn near whatever the hell they want. However.. it WILL have repercussions. Funny an Alpha banker friend of mine's wife shit tested him right in front of all of us. "Women should be able to wea…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/15 10:17 PM
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Mine doesnt.. never did either. My wife builds me up. (ALWAYS) Married 20+ years in 2 months. (yeah I know Im not a woman who cares. )
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/15 08:36 PM
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The new Paperwhite is nice. Im reading the Old man and the sea personally.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/08/15 01:11 PM
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yea dont worry there are plenty of us out there. I look forward to your ruminations on the subject.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/08/15 01:07 PM
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Here is something red pill as hell from when I was a teenager. If you enjoyed Eminem you might love the comedy of this https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zmO2UPpb3YY And welcome.. Sounds like you are becoming a smart consumer. Ive tried to turn 2 of my recently divorced (or almost) friends redpill advice. They wont take it. In fact one of them stopped talking to me. Now he posts pictures of him doing all the feminine shit his wife likes. He just got quiet last week. (I already know what that means.…
/r/TheRedPill22/08/15 11:41 AM
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I found a GDI sophmore year and dropped out of the fraternity scene. Ive got a lot of friends who got divorced recently that many had been married 10+ years. from watching them. The dating scene sucks at 30 AND 40.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/15 11:10 PM
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nah we both closed them and used throwaway emails. That was like 8 years ago.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/08/15 10:20 PM
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interesting.. we have 3 kids.. my wife just bought a sheltie (we both did) and she is taking the dog by herself to obedience classes.. She wanted the dog because of a rash of crime in the neighborhood (2 idiots didnt lock their car and some kids (guess) came by in the middle of the night and took the money out of their cup holders and my neighborhood LOST THEIR COLLECTIVE FUCKING MINDS. ) so.. yea.. just making a counterpoint.
/r/TheRedPill21/08/15 10:08 PM
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I see it as extremism.. No one gives a shit for extremists long term. It becomes mockery soon.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/15 06:10 PM
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I got a buddy of mine that found out the answer is no. He got divorced last friday. "Im fine with swinging" he said. When the score was 4 Her 1 him he didnt like it. for me? Never going to happen. I am too possessive. so 0/2 that I know of well a buddy of mine did it with another couple friend of mine.. all four of them are divorced. so technically that is 0/4
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/15 06:07 PM
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My wife and I did some profiles for OKCupid and did a bunch of tests. Then we said "Show your matches" Closest match 98% <1 mile away. Guess who.. yea it was my wife. Second best was some woman (Scored 93%) 50 miles away that was insane looking (wiccan, looking for NSA relationships, tatted up and REALLY heavy) We loled like idiots. 98% match... That'll do.. that'll do She had tons of close matches however. "So want to trade up? See anything you like?" She replies "Nope, noones got time for that…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/08/15 05:59 PM
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I did the former at 19. Im perfectly happy with what I have looking back on 25+ years. Id change NOTHING. Never cared for flings. I was very goal oriented. If I dated you it was an interview. If you made it past 6 weeks. You won. Took me about 40-50 to find her. Done and done. God.. when I write this I feel like I am describing a robot. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/15 02:03 PM
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or you can sit back and observe and perhaps not repeat the mistakes of others. All data is good.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/15 02:02 PM
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45 Male Executive Married 20 years to a hard core redpillwoman unicorn. I am 90% Red / slightly Sigma
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/15 12:25 PM
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You cant do a thing. Ive been married for 20 years and Im fine but EVERY goddamn friend of mine sans one is divorced. I never liked ANY of their wives either. Selfish, nasty people who many of them were hot but their red flags on behavior were off the chart. I lost a few friends during that time period too only to have them come back after they got divorced. Here is the thing. you are who you are. Your brother is who he is. Being red pill is fun because you can be totally honest with his new wif…
/r/TheRedPill23/07/15 11:00 AM
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Inevitable - it will happen and it is a waste of time having them in the first place. that average of 5 friends thing.. I like that. I am going to use that for future reference. funny there is a lot of gold in this thread. Im 40+ and had 2 beta friends for the longest time. The last one just bailed on me. He is married to a man hating feminist and has 2 kids from another beta guy. He calls those kids "Sweetheart" fuck it made my cringe every time and he said he is their father too. Total henpeck…
/r/askTRP21/07/15 09:59 PM
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My wife and I just bought a sailboat. Im literally an figuratively her captain now. We were homebodies for the past decade too. Ok i make this suggestion because it was an obscure hobby I did years ago when I was a kid that I really enjoyed. You ladies pay attention to that sort of stuff. (Which makes you awesome) What obscure hobby does he have from back in the day? Show some interest in that. I took my wife into a West Marine store in the middle of winter. We met 3 other couples. My wife said …
/r/RedPillWomen18/07/15 10:37 AM
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You are on the right track. Dont doubt yourself or settle. THIS is why I come here. Every once in a while I make a connection with the future and it is worth it. I feel so lucky it worked because i am a rarity. I know that.
/r/askTRP18/07/15 01:03 AM
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She got a degree in accounting (im guessing you are going to find some redpillwomen in that field) She HATED it. Here is the thing about my wife and redpillwomen in general. This is why they are cool to find and as a red pill alpha they feel like a nice fuzzy sweater. I didnt have to tell her how things are going to be. I never did. It is funny.. Ive heard the language over in redpillwomen and they call us guys their "Captain" and it seriously works out like that. I don't have to be overbearing.…
/r/askTRP17/07/15 06:13 PM
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Glad it is helpful. (All this redpill stuff is helpful to me too, reminds me what I did was right for me and my family.) So biggest tip I can give you is how does she treat others. (Observe it quietly and make your decisions in silence. You arent going to change ANYONE. People are who they are.) That is the biggest indicator to me. You can tell this when you are out on a date. Id take it one further. I amazed how many girls I nexted based on how they treated the server in a restaurant. Even ones…
/r/askTRP17/07/15 03:47 PM
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Find a redpill woman. I thought about it at 16 and had a plan too. I was locked in at age 19 and married at 24. My plan was done by age 30 too. Wife, Kids, enough income she could take care of the kids. etc. Find a woman that is nice first off. Find one that isnt an alpha. (There are plenty out there) and sit back and date a ton. BE super careful about who you have sex with. I dated women for 6 weeks tops then dumped them when they didnt make the cut. Anything that tips you off, break up with th…
/r/askTRP16/07/15 02:40 PM
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Funny my wife JUST came to me about 2 hours ago and is like. "I want to have sex tonight" Im 10 pages in.. WTF..
/r/MarriedRedPill11/07/15 01:48 AM
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I think ive read that before. The tough part of this is I find RP stuff to not be tailored for married guys. Im not here to game random ass. Id like to fuck the one I got in a way that is a religious experience and Id like some goddamn enthusiasm. Otherwise.. fuck it.. Ill be on my boat. It is funny past 40 and post vasectomy the desire has gone way down (No more 2x a day need) and in fact if it isnt going to be good, I dont need it anymore. Never thought Id get here.. it appears I am. Anyhow, I…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/07/15 12:28 PM
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Wow.. that was pretty good. I found this place a few weeks ago and the tone in here was whiny as fuck. This whole post hit home for me too. Havent had sex in about 3 weeks and dont really give a shit (On the surface) I got some tightening up to do and Im sure a lot of people here have the same. Im 40.. been married 20+ years to a redpillwoman she just isnt that interested and because of that neither am I. Time to lead.. Ive been looking to read no more nice guy for a while.. finding it was super…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/07/15 11:57 AM
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One RP solider to another.. Thank you.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/07/15 09:30 PM
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so let them ban the RP subs. This place (reddit) is a sjw slum anyway. This place fucking HATES you (and me) fuck em. fuck joining pussies. They are mad? cool. I am laughing. I kinda hope they DO ban us. Everytime I don't log in I have to see that 2x horseshit. This just seems like more SJW bullshit whining and Im very irritated to see it spilling into Redpill territory. wish Voat would get their shit together. They have missed 2 opportunities.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/07/15 09:27 PM
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Funny, Im reading this issue.. and no one knows the full story. Just some employee got fired. That is about all we know. We do know this person has complained about leadership of reddit too. That is about it. From that.. everyone is PISSED off.. and NO one knows why. This is fucking signature reddit style SJW idiocy at its finest and I am personally shocked ANY redpillers would not see through this bullshit. Im going to imagine there are quite a few of us who are leaders in our respective career…
/r/MarriedRedPill03/07/15 05:43 PM
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Because.. this is the SAME as all the goddamn redditors that I read about. That dont get into marriages.. that dont have kids.. and they post pictures of their fucking cats. I watched a Lena Dunham video and that woman is fucking DISGUSTING. Physically and mentally. The problem with you young bucks from my perspective is that you are giving up. There ARE red pill women out there that are HIDING in plain sight because society says they need to get a job and have their own accomplishments and all …
/r/TheRedPill24/06/15 02:52 PM
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Why am I here? Because it irritates me that you people are removing yourself from the goddamn gene pool. Yes, read that slowly. It sounds like fucking whining.
/r/TheRedPill24/06/15 02:44 PM
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yeah I probably should quit my marriage of 20 years this October because of this post. I tire of these blue pill esque whiny ass posts from people who obviously cant figure out to have a relationship and maintain alpha status in a relationship. Perhaps it is generational any maybe millennials are different but I don't think so. Go ahead and downvote me and go cry in a corner telling yourself you are redpill, and post a picture of your cat. Fucking whiners. Don't marry shitty women. The solution …
/r/TheRedPill23/06/15 02:17 PM
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"Wife cheated after year 1, swept it under rug" Married a girl who was a virgin before me.. worked out fine.. 20 years this fall. Been together 25. Would have been signs of this before you got married. Im absolutely amazed at how many guys tolerate women who dont want to be a team member in a marriage and disrespect their spouse. I dont do it to her. she doesnt do it to me. Fuck.. seems so goddamn basic.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/06/15 03:24 AM
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Best thing I ever heard that made sense about keeping it is this. Use Facebook as a marketing tool. Put on there stuff that promotes YOU and your brand. People ARE going to look and well I dont think you could make a compelling argument against having one if you control the content and make it like marketing material. I don't know for me I have a facebook account and I wind up liking a bunch of things interesting to me that arent political and I hide things that are "asinine" like people I know …
/r/TheRedPill14/06/15 07:56 PM
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Ive been married to her 20 years this fall. Nothing I posted would suprise her. I'm more honest with her than anyone else on this planet. So I am sure nothing would surprise her.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/06/15 10:18 AM
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Funny nothing I posted on here would surprise my wife. Guess that is the sigma way however. (I recently learned about the Sigma thing)
/r/MarriedRedPill12/06/15 10:17 AM
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sounds like she will be fine on her own. Doesnt sound like she will be a good partner. Think about that.. 10 years from now when you are looking for a good divorce lawyer or an apartment for 300 a month because you cant afford it. Know that you were warned. She isnt even lying to you either.
/r/askTRP11/06/15 07:36 PM
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So what did you say? because First off I wouldnt have this problem. (Been married 20 years this October) We have 3 kids. Being a bartender isnt something she would do. Whatever, that is her. Now hypothetically if she did say she was going to do it. Id say, I dont like it and I dont want you to work as a bartender. That would be the last time I say it. Then Id observe. Mine wouldnt do it. So the problem would be over. It isnt even about me being domineering or RP is it just "It bothers me" and sh…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/06/15 05:57 PM
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Your reply needs a proper response. The "Sigma" thing got in my head. I didnt know what that was. I think you are right. Perhaps that is what older men turn into later on. I dont have a need to run the group I am however NOT subservient and will not follow bad leadership ever. (One of the reasons I think I need to become self employed here shortly) Ill edit this post with a longer reply (OF COURSE I WILL, and you knew that) So.. do WE have a subreddit?
/r/askTRP09/06/15 11:03 AM
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All it is going to take is him seeing his child neglected once and knowing that you can take better care of him or her. My advice. Have the balance sheet ready on "Your family name" dot com :) My guess you work a lot and arent paid that much. That should bother him as well. "Taking my wife on the weekends and not paying her. Nonsense" (That was the thought in my head, I dont think I ever verbalized it)
/r/RedPillWomen09/06/15 10:59 AM
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she wasnt.. virgin when I met her and Ill be married to her for 20 years in October.
/r/askTRP08/06/15 07:58 PM
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I had this once. "We can have sex no strings attached" Why even bother? I remember thinking I know there is nothing there and it will distract me from moving forward. So I moved on from it. It was a great offer. Some of the most interesting sex I ever had was with her. She had been with only one guy before. She went back to him and they had 2 kids. Kinda funny. I was the other guy in that situation. I wonder if she ever told him, he had to have known when she came back to him with some new trick…
/r/askTRP07/06/15 11:42 AM
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RP is most certainly valuable and continues to be to this day. My opinions have been down-voted here incessantly. I think as you progress past say 30 the game changes. For me I never wanted to be that old guy in the club banging everything. I wanted the wife, kids, house, sailboat etc all that shit. The hot shy ones are a lot of times the red pill women. They hide in plain sight. If you want kids, wife, support of you in your career that is where you look. RP helped me land her. I knew I had to …
/r/askTRP07/06/15 11:31 AM
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My wife and I put our son in daycare when he was born. She was an accountant at the time. (And hated her job, and the way that business was run I didnt care for it either) One Wednesday my wife comes home crying "They want me to start working saturday AND parttime Sunday because everyone else is too" Thursday for some reason I went to the day care and my 6 week old son was crying his eyes out. I went to him and started to change his diaper. His bottom was so red it was almost purple because his …
/r/RedPillWomen07/06/15 11:12 AM
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Funny I commented before I saw this post. Spot on. I found a gem like this and have been married quite well to her for 20 years. She absolutely LOVES when I take charge too. Nice having someone you know has your back 24/7 and wants your love and protection.
/r/askTRP07/06/15 10:53 AM
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Ive been married to one for 20 years this October. Ive always been attracted to the Italian American Princess. If you want to have 3 kids and a stable household you PROBABLY are looking in the right place. Mine didnt have self esteem problem. In fact people thought she was a "bitch" but the thing is she was intelligent and introverted. (No sense in talking just for the sake of talking)
/r/askTRP07/06/15 10:50 AM
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be named after your father then (another man).. fine by me. This would be the tip off to me this person is more worried about her individualism rather than being part of a family. Red Flag... She wouldnt have gotten to that point with me. Keep your name or take mine.. no hyphenating like a douchebag.
/r/RedPillWomen18/05/15 08:18 PM
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Double this post.. MY wife says the same thing.
/r/RedPillWomen04/03/15 03:22 PM
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Thank you.. said 1000 times better than I ever could have.
/r/TheRedPill21/02/15 11:41 AM
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Nothing feels better than when my wife tells me the latest shitbird that hit on her. (Shes 43) and her response to it. (Dirty look kinda looks like this http://cdn.blogs.sheknows.com/realitytvmagazine.sheknows.com/2013/02/The-Bachelor-Tierra-Dirty-Look.jpg and raises her ring finger and looks at it and keeps walking) Funny thing is my 7 year old daughter is always with her too but that doesnt stop people. sounds like you did fine.. and she also did fine.. Nice taste in women.
/r/askTRP20/02/15 03:47 AM
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simple.. and I am serious.. go to /r/RedPillWomen and read them for a couple weeks figure out what makes them tick.. and go find one. They (REAL redpill women) are HARD as fuck to find even some redpill capable women are convinced they should be modern day "feminists" so they hide in plain site silently sometimes, but find one. Dont date any woman for more than 6 weeks.. and when they fuck up.. NEXT them fast. Dont waste ANY time on "project" women. I did 20 year ago and I could be happier, I go…
/r/askTRP20/02/15 03:40 AM
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TL:DR Be yourself and dont worry if she winds up hating you. It MAY be inevitable. Just be nice, dont be nasty to the mom EVER. Don't talk bad about her don't make yourself look just like the mom if it does occur. Ive heard it SO many times by moms "No one is good enough for my son!" That's bullshit but it is what a lot of them thing. Long version: married 20 years. My mom never liked my wife (back in 1990 when we started dating) She (and to a larger extent me) always dated the Italian american …
/r/RedPillWomen09/02/15 02:45 AM
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Between the first and second paragraph is where you lost bro. When you sulked she saw it and you should have squelched it and made it NO big deal right now the pro move is.. keeping it funny and flipping it back on her Oh you are going to "Give" me sex? YOU are going to have to work for it now.. (keep it light and funny) see what happens. I learned something about 15 years ago from my army ranger buddy.. He had this WEIRD habit of when he got uncomfortable OR didnt want to answer any form of int…
/r/askTRP10/01/15 01:31 AM
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/r/RedPillWomen They exist. There is actually plenty of them but they hide in plain view. You just have to be over 35 to acknowledge they exist. They are the key to a LTR if you ever want to get into one.
/r/askTRP04/01/15 09:10 PM
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This woman is probably "My type" I learned 20 years ago they just need to be avoided. That's me.. good luck however.
/r/TheRedPill20/12/14 03:05 PM
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Cant agree more. The first problem men make is getting into relationships with the wrong kind of woman. She is independant? She is a feminist? Thats cool..move on.. let her continue to be that way. Ive had a lot of friends go down this path and watched in my 40 years of being around and it follows such a familiar pattern. Begging for sex, not getting sex.. doing extra for her.. Getting treated worse. She isnt happy. I dont know. I am going to do what I can to teach my sons what a bad woman looks…
/r/TheRedPill19/12/14 01:49 PM
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Dont take this the wrong way. You have found a possible red pill woman. The problem is you are too young right now and haven't played the field yet. There are many out there like that. Sounds like you arent ready for that yet. Nothing wrong with that. when (if) you are ever ready for that that is the kind you seek out. This is for later if you are looking for a LTR. http://judgybitch.com/2014/12/12/reposting-this-because-i-love-it-how-to-pick-a-wife/ Problem with this woman/girl is she places a …
/r/askTRP15/12/14 01:15 PM
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I need more friends on my facebook wall posting stuff like this. It is undoubtedly true. I can name the 4 spouses who I cant stand that absolutely would have an issue with this. lol Of course Id be the a-hole to point out we are the only couple amongst our friends that is still on their first marriage (and 21 years in)
/r/RedPillWomen15/12/14 12:54 PM
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Here is how I would handle it. This is a psych test for her. You really dont care about the outcome. It hinges on this question. Here is how I would throw it and this is about how blunt I would be with it. Dont back down.. I think this is a serious moment for you and time to test it. Here is what I would say when you two are alone. "Look whatever this secret is.. it is bothering me. It is bothering me that you are keeping it from me and drawing attention to it. So I would appreciate if you would…
/r/RedPillWomen14/12/14 07:39 PM
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straight ignore her. End and done.
/r/askTRP14/12/14 02:21 PM
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Dude, ive read your original AskTRP posts and the posts here where you admitted your beta behavior. (It is cool. I had a period of life where I was beta and loved a women and thought I would give her some slack on treating me wrongly) Those women are gone. Im in control in a nice RP relationship of 24 years (married 21) All my friends are divorced sans 1. There is a reason for that. I will say it one more time like I did in the ASKTRP thread. You get MANY warnings when dating someone on who they…
/r/RedPillWomen14/12/14 01:56 PM
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I forget to lock my car at night sometimes (There is nothing in our cars what so ever besides some coins).. I do it maybe 1 time a month. I really dont know why.. My wife hits the remotes on both cars before she goes to bed. Problem solved. When I wake up in the morning I get a "Hey your car was unlocked last night!" funny comment.. and it is delivered in a way like she found buried treasure. I think about it.. and in my head I aspire to be better.. some times I will go for months with no proble…
/r/RedPillWomen14/12/14 01:42 PM
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trust your gut.. not your heart OR your dick. My advice to you is REALLY simple.. as a guy married successfully for 21 years.. You get a LOT of warnings before marrying someone.. and divorce statistics are through the ROOF. Id make the suggestion you post your question to the ladies of /r/redpillwomen on matters of LTR they are spot on. For instance.. this post.. http://www.reddit.com/r/RedPillWomen/comments/2p6aa1/how_to_pick_a_wife_judgybitch/ This post nails it for me.
/r/askTRP13/12/14 10:10 PM
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If you are looking to get laid.. who cares... if you are in search of a LTR. Absolutely 100% Yes, just based on title alone. I wouldnt press for it. Just know that you arent #1 in here book and move on.
/r/askTRP13/12/14 09:57 PM
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I married a red pill woman 20 odd years ago. I have a 16 and a 12 year old. I havent noticed ONE bad behavior that I used to avoid when I was dating women. I absolutely HAVE noticed it in girls my girls knows. When I look at the mothers. I see the "Im not happy about anything" woman married to the "Whatever" guy. Maybe the system self sustains. I dont have this problem and I largely have done nothing other than be myself and be Dad.
/r/TheRedPill13/12/14 09:54 PM
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ah you are here.. you are probably fine.. my wife has a purse fetish.. It pales in comparison with my "hobby" budget but it is still rather significant.
/r/RedPillWomen13/12/14 09:46 PM
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I followed that advice 21 years ago.. Funny.. She is right in the next room still. All my other friends (except one) are on their second marriages. Ive been called a misogynist and old fashioned. Ive said.. enjoy your divorce and seeing your kids part time and someone else railing your spouse. Enjoy that.
/r/RedPillWomen13/12/14 09:42 PM
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So relevant history here brother. "She is almost entirely a RPW" Yes, I can tell you this. I too.. same thing.. same beta crap.. same pushing her away same insecurity etc. I went through ALL that..when I was young. they story is SLIGHTLY different except she dumped me in a cornfield after 3 years of me totally mind fucking her. gaming other women while we were dating etc. I was really bad while I was with her. I couldnt stop it either.. Her story of three girls (that is what they were) coming up…
/r/askTRP08/11/14 11:11 AM
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funny is when i came here tonight I wasnt logged in and of course Hampsterdam is losing their collective mind about this. funny thing is the ones posting in hampsterdam (2xidiots) probably are the ugly ones mad that other women get called beautiful and not them and they want everyone to stop saying anything even nice stuff like "Hello" idiots I feel sorry for you younger guys.
/r/TheRedPill30/10/14 11:14 PM
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So let me give you the counter point. Im 40+ been married 19 years this week to ONE woman who is 100% rp but said the same thing (also have 2 kids and NO one to help us with the kids) "i feel like I should work" <-- I remember her saying that early on My wife just started volunteering at the grade school. I love it. for the first 16 years she didnt. She stopped working as an accountant right after my son was born. Here is my take on it. Im supposed to be the guy that goes out and makes the money…
/r/RedPillWomen26/10/14 09:55 AM
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Id say looking clean is probably more important. if your hair looks thin and bald in spots that is a lot worse than a clean bald head.
/r/askTRP26/10/14 09:37 AM
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So I have a 16 year old son that is (If I dont intervene) going to have a relationship just like this. Right now it is gaming and school (he is home schooled since 8th grade) He isnt interested in a Car and girls at the moment he is super nervous. The thing is.. I dont want this to be him. Or if it is.. I want him to know what this is and know this is wrong and what the behavior is. Ive posted here quite a bit and Im scared as hell of the Millennial "girl" for my son. I have heard you guys descr…
/r/TheRedPill15/10/14 11:04 AM
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No shit.. if 40 years on this planet has taught me one thing. The more you say dont do something the more kids are going to do it. LOL
/r/TheRedPill23/09/14 12:06 AM
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Nah, I should probably do a big post as to what I discovered about 6 weeks ago on RP and this place. I used to think I wanted my wife to be some huge outgoing loud mouth and someone who was sexually crazy. It was through this place I discovered that when my wife and I found each other back in 1990 there was a purpose to it. When I found her I chucked all "plates" away (I literally had 2 pretty involved long term ones at the time who i dropped in the period of a day and a half) and said.. Whoa.. …
/r/RedPillWomen23/09/14 12:00 AM
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My RPW doesnt at all. It partially bothers me too that she doesnt say anything, it USED to bother me a lot more (Does she even care?). It is seriously weird but because of this place I get why she doesnt at all. It is kind of comical now.
/r/RedPillWomen22/09/14 10:05 PM
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sounds like you need to start fresh.. completely with all new people. Lawyer up too.. Get out of that clean.. and NOW. She doesnt get to decide if she is staying.. you are done. thats me..
/r/askTRP17/09/14 09:31 PM
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in my group of 45 couples or so acquaintances I know enough to run numbers. I am in the 2/45 that are still married. I am on year 20 this year. most ended before year 8. none made it past 12. 'Id say RP techniques put you at a serious advantage and if you were to poll RP men (and RPwomen.) I thing you would find interesting statistics there.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/14 09:24 PM
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What was it he was asking? I feel like that might be important for the conversation and you are leaving that part out.
/r/RedPillWomen13/09/14 01:16 PM
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Im 40+.. not buying a 400-500k house. When all my friends have and they struggle to make ends meet. (However I was approved for it) Not buying two 60k SUVs. (Once again I have 3 cars and a motorcycle I own) Not sending my kids to catholic school (The public had better test scores. High School we homeschool. (Did that before redpill but now it seems like a great idea) Not having both my wife and I working. (I work she is Mom) Im not in any religion anymore. Im married 20+ years to the same woman …
/r/TheRedPill10/09/14 06:12 PM
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Thank you.. Ill cut the grass and fix the roof/Car the way I want.. Cool? yes I know It is cool. (yes I know you are not my wife bakerofpie) but isnt this conversation a lot easier. LOL
/r/RedPillWomen10/09/14 01:36 AM
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After or during? The answer is yes. Wrap your shit up and dont get em pregnant. BUT! just keep studying.. My Uncle told me back when I started high school. (He was a principal of a Florida High School and head football coach) "Work Hard now (studying) or work hard the rest of your life" That message stuck.. Im 40+ .. I make mad bank (Im well in the top 10%) and in the scheme of things dont work that hard.
/r/askTRP09/09/14 01:58 AM
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I laugh all the time and I cant be bothered to stop. If it is funny. I will laugh.. sounds pretty awesome to me.
/r/askTRP09/09/14 01:53 AM
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To be fair.. these guys need to try harder. Start looking in OTHER places you havent looked before. I happened on my RPW quite on accident 25 years ago. I dropped 2 plates IMMEDIATELY. Including one plate thats grandfather owned an aircraft and was a commercial flight instructor. (That alone would have saved me 25-50k in flight instruction as I wanted to be a pilot) Yup.. found her.. early on in dating she said this line. Im a virgin Feminism has only given me another job. I pressed further to s…
/r/RedPillWomen09/09/14 01:41 AM
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Been with my wife 25 years.. never hit me.. Ive never hit her. I farted on her once at the 6 month mark.. She lost her fucking mind..She was laying on the ground in a sleeping bag.. I hovered over her head. I thought it would be hilarious.. i was wrong. I never did that again. Ok thats not true.. Ive crop dusted the bathroom a bunch of times and said "Hey come in here.. do you hear that sound?" "Awww WTF.. it STINKS" she falls for that one all the time. Hitting.. nope... but we DO screw around a…
/r/askTRP09/09/14 12:59 AM
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Well said.. too many gents in the anger stage.. Keep digging brother.. RPW are HARD to find.. but when you do.. Whoa.. you are in for an unbelievable ride.
/r/askTRP09/09/14 12:57 AM
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SO after 39 years on this planet I went to go see a therapist. He was a licensed social worker. Let me give you 3 visits summed up into one sentence. "You dont pick your parents or relatives." you pick everyone else. Sometimes your parents are shitheads. If they arent a positive impact on your life it is ok to jettison them. I, like you tried to make my parents into something they arent. Fuck em. As an alpha.. tell your mom.. "That is not an acceptable way to treat my father" She tries to emascu…
/r/askTRP09/09/14 12:55 AM
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Mine isnt freak either.. but she does get off on making me happy.. which is an adjustment.
/r/TheRedPill08/09/14 11:28 PM
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meh found a unicorn in 1990.. married her in 1995.. Shes upstairs.. made me a sandwich with chips and brought me a beer while I was online gaming today. Got three great kids. She is a stay at home mom.. Dinner, Laundry, finances, school work diapers.. all that inside shit is on her.. my son cuts the grass. Had sex twice in friday. She told me stay off the porn sites today... "I want to dress up for you tonight and ride you." I just watched a new coolio pornhub advertistment video. It is game on …
/r/TheRedPill07/09/14 10:46 PM
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Very true.. My wife doesnt have any friends however. (a side effect of being a Introvert AND she doesnt like other women because they arent like her. I have tried to help her find friends but finding someone similar enough to her is difficult. So she doesnt have that support structure so I become it. It doesnt bother me. It doesnt bother me anymore because I realize now that I dont need to fix any of it. Just listen. I see of it as a pressure valve.. I sit there.. let the pressure valve release.…
/r/RedPillWomen07/09/14 11:06 AM
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yeah he is playing with fire. Your husbands friend might be alpha but he doesnt sound like he married a RPW and hence prognosis isnt good. Im 40 been married 20 years. He sounds like he married the garden variety woman in the US who is selfish, mean and not really a partner. Evidence. He does a lot.. she just recently got a job. What was she doing before hand? (I know way too many guys that are this way) She wants to be emotionally supported.. He is in control of that one. The wife is right.. So…
/r/RedPillWomen06/09/14 11:18 AM
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yeah sounds about the same to me. Been married 20 years.. Had sex twice last night. Once at 11pm another at 4am. I come home today "so you ready for round three" She looks at me in horror. "Cmon you can be serious.. Im sore!" "Hey where is your spirit!" "Ok, but I cant say I am going to be that enthusiastic" "Oh I am just kidding Im tired out too thanks to my vixen wife" Yea mine has never really shit tested me in 25 years. Not her style. I used to think she was something unique and crazy turns …
/r/TheRedPill06/09/14 02:52 AM
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I think is funny that I have never noticed this. I guess it is because I write books when I post many times.
/r/TheRedPill05/09/14 11:12 PM
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Go ahead.. start trying to kill men. I dont even have to do anything but sit back with my popcorn. I double dare you. Who you going to get to help you.. your white nights? I'll take Redpillers for the win. $1000
/r/TheRedPill05/09/14 10:40 PM
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Yes but she didnt have to make breakfast and I dont know when I get an unsolicited blow job (Got one from the wife Wed night for NO reason) that usually means something. If they are going to that kind of effort. I appreciate it. (My wife just asked me what I would like her to make for dinner too. Yea it works. )
/r/TheRedPill05/09/14 10:33 PM
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LOL funny story. Your story sounds like horseshit but I like it. I am kind of interested in where this story goes long term. Imma flag you as friend so I can see your subsequent posts. You might have broken this steed or she is going to go nuts on you one day. Im dying to find out how this goes.
/r/TheRedPill05/09/14 10:31 PM
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I am merely taking a gander because i wanted to see if my wifes type was a very common type. Sadly it isnt which is weird is a TON of INTJs which surprised me.. basically introvert me. That is very interesting. Ive got a psych degree and psychology is a thing that interested me greatly post graduate so I am always up on the latest journals and trends. To me it is facinating it helps me understand people and my reactions to them as well.
/r/RedPillWomen04/09/14 08:45 PM
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Im doing my part brother.. I love it.
/r/TheRedPill04/09/14 08:43 PM
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Elle, this isnt the wrong place to post this. Let me give you a snapshot of YOUR future versus your friends I get the feeling you are younger. I am a father who is 43 with 3 kids and a RPW who sound precisely like you. First off. I learned this about a month ago. because I thought despite the fact that my wife is just like you. That there is something wrong with her. That her way is somehow wrong. I tried to change her using my captain style. Well red pill stuff taught me that not only is the wa…
/r/askTRP04/09/14 10:55 AM
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oh I know I am merely attempting to be funny. Seeing the influx of people actually gives me hope. I turned around my frustrated blue pill buddy last night that is married to a rabid feminist too. It feels good it is like the world is trying to swing back a little.
/r/TheRedPill04/09/14 10:42 AM
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so he is off cheating on you? Really? 4:20 I sent my wife a text "Prepare thy booty" "lol k" <-- her reply.
/r/RedPillWomen03/09/14 09:10 PM
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Im married 20 years and have a son and two daughters. I (and my RPW) am doing our part.
/r/TheRedPill03/09/14 09:07 PM
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Welcome.. No this isnt all about Pickup Artistry stuff. This is how to live successfully and by your nature. Im 43 and been married 20 years to a wonderful woman. So welcome. I have been here a month and really challenged some of my belief systems for the better.
/r/TheRedPill03/09/14 09:06 PM
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GREAT news! but Hampsterdam is still a default subreddit. Men (and RPW) the time is not the time to rest on our laurels and partake of the wine and celebration. We still have work to do..
/r/TheRedPill03/09/14 09:05 PM
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It has never been my goal to add notches to my bedpost. more power to the guys that do. They are uncovering the "bad" women out there for the guys that are conservative and dont do the PUA. They are doing the Conservative RP guys a favor. I think it is risky to put your dick in something you cant get a feel for who she is. The rape accusations, the pregnancy scares (I had one girl lie to me about this years ago). Getting a BAD one pregnant and having to raise a kid with a psychopath or pay for i…
/r/askTRP02/09/14 10:21 PM
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I think you are good. My lovely RPW (red pill Wife) of 20 years just dealt with me for 10 years in a crappy job, got fat and turned sorta beta too. Yup.. it happened to me. Well Im back to running, got a new job that pays a ton more. We will be financially stable here at the end of October (no debt and house owned) I guess Id ask this.. is he still taking care of business? All throughout this 10 years period I was paying the bills quite well and taking care of her in the ways she was accustomed.…
/r/RedPillWomen02/09/14 11:06 AM
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It is kinda interesting. Im 43 married (Which is SUPER rare for 20 years this year.) to a great woman who is caring and nice. I make 6 figures she takes care of 3 kids. (no we arent religious either) I dont know. it isnt about notches on the bed post for me. It is about being a man in the relationship. I might do a "what i learned from RP" here in a week or two. I learned there is nothing wrong with my wife not being a corporate monster, being a virgin until she met me and staying home to raise …
/r/RedPillWomen02/09/14 02:12 AM
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I love it. my RPW of 20 odd years has 4 drawers full with nylons, garters etc.. costumes.. She has more high heels that have never been off carpet and have been airborne more than on the ground. So yea.. love lingerie for me I am super visual always been into it. I am 40 so. I think Madonna's like a virgin thing screwed me up when I was younger and gave me a life long fetish for it.
/r/askTRP02/09/14 02:00 AM
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yes, quite skewed.. I thought that was interesting. Lots of my guy friends are INTJs to my ENTJ.
/r/RedPillWomen02/09/14 01:56 AM
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Find one guy pick ONE that you can stand. There is someone out there for everyone.. for starters.. dont have kids with people you arent going to be with. I dont know.. Ive found the redpill stuff about 3 weeks ago.. and it really had firmed up my belief system about multiple partners, wife swapping, random sex all that crap. I used to be a lot more lasses-faire about that. Not anymore. She has two partners now one she has married, niether of which are satisfying her. How about make some better d…
/r/RedPillWomen02/09/14 01:54 AM
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you know. that could be brilliant..
/r/TheRedPill01/09/14 03:07 PM
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Or it can be used as a tool to thin the herd quickly.. oh you like Hampsterdam? Cool.. (crossed off list)
/r/TheRedPill01/09/14 03:06 PM
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Yeah.. I think we just made that a thing.. HamsterDam I love it
/r/TheRedPill01/09/14 03:04 PM
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I would like to thank 2XC for consistently reminding me that I haven't logged into Reddit.
/r/TheRedPill01/09/14 03:03 PM
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2 ears one mouth. Talk half as much as you listen. When you are listening you learn a lot about someone. I can usually pin down what kind of person someone is in 30 seconds. Having them talk makes the job easier for you and you can figure out who she is.
/r/askTRP01/09/14 12:52 PM
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strange.. I would have thought this place would be loaded. For me an ISFJ is pretty awesome. Sure i gotta kick her in the butt every once in a while but once she gets going. Look out. She is damn close to the perfect mate for me too. I've never met better sometimes I feel like i got the better deal. She thinks otherwise. Well good to meet you.
/r/RedPillWomen01/09/14 12:50 PM
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That is funny i thought it was because I am old or strange. Yea I saw the pictures last night.. and was like.. yea shes cute but who cares. Looks normal to me. (Even see some flaws) Just goes to show you.. you can pick up an 8.. dress them up and paint em and you got a dime.
/r/TheRedPill01/09/14 12:43 PM
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Funny I remember having a bitching session like this with my dad the summer of my 19th birthday. I was bemoaning not having a girlfriend I liked for long term. not having any direction in a career and it ate me up. He just told me "Look back in a year and this conversation will all seem pointless" I persisted.. "What makes you say that.. this is SERIOUS STUFF?" "because you are going to figure it out. I did.. and you will too. That stuff will all come to you. That is just who you are" Yea.. look…
/r/TheRedPill31/08/14 11:58 AM
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I am 5'6" My wife of 25 years is 5'2". Ive never had an issue prior to dating my wife. (dated about 30 before getting married) Thinking back I never dated anyone taller than me. I dated women my exact height. It never prevented me from dating anyone except this one woman in college who looked like olive oyl. (from popeye) Im not sure WHY I was ever into her. Looking at facebook. Shes got goofy looking kids and her whole family are crazy god people. So looks like a dodged a bullet there.
/r/TheRedPill31/08/14 11:47 AM
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I have low self esteem eh? That is literally the FIRST time ever I have heard that levied at myself. hahahahah
/r/TheRedPill31/08/14 11:29 AM
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Nice analogy. I have been eyeballing this thread for a while and thinking about it. That seagull will stay too if her baby seagulls like the place too it anchors her (something to think about) Oh yeah and pick the seagull that isnt materialistic and you will never run out of stuff for her. Man did I really learn this lesson the hard way back in the day when I was dating a never ending slew of who I thought I was attracted to. Italian American Princesses whose daddies catered to EVERY whim. I rea…
/r/TheRedPill31/08/14 11:27 AM
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yeah, I will echo was it said here. That one hits already. You know how many times my wife of 25 years has hit me. Zero.. you know how many times I have hit her.. Zero. Nah, too many abused guys out there from "Feminst wives" you already got the signal she thinks it is ok to hit someone. That wont get better.
/r/askTRP31/08/14 11:21 AM
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yup.. two declines time to cut bait bro. You are venturing into orbiter territory.
/r/askTRP31/08/14 11:19 AM
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3:33 is the best.. What what <clap> what what the fuck <Clap>
/r/TheRedPill30/08/14 10:48 PM
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"We were accepted into the right college, landed the dream job, and developed a network of amazing friends. Our apartments are beautifully decorated and we have closets full of stylish clothing. " Congrats.. you became men.. This just in.. Most people hate their jobs. You have been tricked. This just in. Real men dont want to date men (or women who filled a traditional male role). We dont need a Buddy to cohabitate with and share the electric bill with.
/r/RedPillWomen30/08/14 03:55 PM
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because you are supposed to be a good consumer (eye roll) .. so you can buy tons of stuff you dont need to impress people you dont really care about. (That is from a movie might be fight club but I am not sure) Funny.. they only one that suffers is the next generation. Glad my RPW and I contributed 3 kids to the next generation the world is going to need them.
/r/RedPillWomen30/08/14 03:53 PM
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No, it taught me I had to find the right one and fast before they all got taken and used up. I used my youth to "interview" women. None of them lasted more than 6 weeks. Id try them out.. figure out who they were and then when I hit my inevitable deal breaker cut them loose. I always had a goal in mind and I might be different in that regard. I found the perfect RPW at 19 after surfing through a LOT of nonsense. Locked her up and that was 20+ years ago. I had no idea what RP was back then. I jus…
/r/TheRedPill30/08/14 12:58 PM
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What is your goal? You thinking long term? or you just looking to fuck her? My answer is tailored to your response.
/r/askTRP30/08/14 11:21 AM
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dont know.. doesnt sound very RP to me. Ive had two times in my life where I have been challenged. The first time is when I got laid off 2 weeks before the birth of our second child. It was 1998 I found a better paying job in 2 weeks. (Those times were different. ) This last time it took me 2 years to find a job. I was employed at a job but the job really sucked. I did interviews was very selective not to make the same mistake again.. This time got a great job and a great raise. We are easily in…
/r/RedPillWomen30/08/14 11:14 AM
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Ill skip the carrie dick thanks.. I like the visual of my wife giving me head. Down there.. just working it.. telling me how much she loves it in her mouth. telling me she wants me to come. Yea, personally Ive got ZERO problems with blowjobs.
/r/askTRP30/08/14 10:59 AM
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Wow I did NOT expect to find so many INTJs here.. I am the same but flip it to extroverted. I guess this WAS an interesting experiment. I have only met in my life one INTJ Woman. What is interesting is my MALE friends tend to be INTJs and they ALL have been with women they let run them and they do it poorly. (They are all divorced once when they were 30 but now all have remarried within a year and all those relationships are 10 years old and they are all rock solid now. So while they fail the fi…
/r/RedPillWomen30/08/14 10:57 AM
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Id bet that 7/10 you had was a RPW. When I found mine I snagged her 25 years ago.. Still married.. Still happy as hell.
/r/TheRedPill29/08/14 04:25 PM
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yeah man I read most of this stuff and shake my head too. I guess it is good that it is so shocking to guys like us.. Where we see the problem instantly and others are like.. no this is ok.. kinda explains a lot of people and their jacked up relationships.
/r/TheRedPill29/08/14 02:37 PM
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I post in here all the time. It is truly the best place for older red pillers who are married to a RPW to congregate as well. It is a nice counter point to young bucks that want to put notches on their belts. I did that, it got old. No one wants to be the 35 year old guy in the club. Another point too about here. The world told me there was something wrong with my wife (I thought that secretly until about 2 weeks ago and passively tried to change her. I was playing with fire) . Here told me ther…
/r/RedPillWomen29/08/14 02:10 PM
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Weird.. I expected to see more ISFJs because my wife couldn't be a better match for me. WEIRDLY RPW too. (before I knew what that was) Im checking out the threads from 6 months ago. INTJs.. that is really interesting too. That I would not have expected.
/r/RedPillWomen29/08/14 02:40 AM
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Nothing.. the more you push the more she is going to rebel. Sorry developmental psych says it is impossible. As any college Sophmore about incoming freshmen women. that is where I snagged away my RPW back in 1990. Caught her in her 3rd month in college. Yup..
/r/askTRP29/08/14 12:12 AM
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She is going to be who she is going to be despite you. Also.. Women change big time from high school to college. Fact of life. You are probably wasting your time until she gets to College age.
/r/askTRP29/08/14 12:10 AM
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yeah I like big ass and titties myself. Always have always will. Yup..
/r/TheRedPill29/08/14 12:08 AM
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Sounds like we should join the freemasons.
/r/TheRedPill29/08/14 12:03 AM
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Funny because my wife has never been that way. Im serious she has always been the exact opposite and until I found RP theory I secretly enjoyed her but thought there might be something wrong with her. Which was horrible. "I have two partners, neither have wanted to sleep with me for months. I recently had a baby, and neither of them were attracted to me while I was pregnant. (My husband said I looked like a balloon) "Now that I've had the baby I'm really keen to have sex again, but the thought o…
/r/RedPillWomen28/08/14 11:55 PM
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(/satire) women and men are the exact same both of you get back to work buy a house you cannot afford and lease two 60k SUVS pronto.. Why arent you working? You need to be a strong woman.. (/satireoff) yea we have heard this all before. This area is sad for you. Ive lived it with a woman that is a red pill woman for 22 years. For my wife and I you are wrong. You are wrong in a way that you dont have any idea. I used to tell my wife "Be more assertive" What do you want to do? "I Don't care why do…
/r/RedPillWomen28/08/14 11:22 AM
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Id be more concerned if the woman slept with white trash. It sounds like she is about to.
/r/askTRP28/08/14 11:01 AM
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No Im red.. Im a RP mod at PPD however. :) So you are still cool.
/r/MarriedRedPill
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This is my comment from just reading the title. well good to find out before you got married. Now I am going to read it and see if my mind changes. It hasnt changed much. You are probably in for a big ride. (Unless she fixes herself) My wife has never looked at my stuff and much less had a reaction to it. Her issues with her dad obviously are not resolved. How many times have YOU raped her in 10 years? How many times did her Dad rape her? Im guessing the answers to BOTH are none. AT a bare minim…
/r/MarriedRedPill
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Dunno. I call it redpill 2.0 Im guessing the "never get married" crowd is the under 30 set. Thing is.. women get used up and hit the wall past 35. I wanted to procreate, have a great wife that shared the same beliefs and raised our kids and I also wanted someone that supported me on the homefront so I can go kick the shit out of the world and do well financially. Check check and CHECK. Sitting at 40+ Im doing fine and got it all. (That I wanted) That's Red Pill 2.0 at least it is to me. Im marri…
/r/askTRP
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yeah you and I are the same I think. I posted a larger post in this thread. Im not down for the PUA stuff. Im PUA ISO LTR.. always was.. found a unicorn at 19 and locked her up.. now im over 40 and happy as hell all my friends are divorced most with kids.. ugh.
/r/askTRP
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so interesting story for you.. Ive been married to a virgin for 25 years. She has absolutely come into her own and is very sexually active. I discovered red pill about a month ago. Before that i was turning a little beta thinking my wife should experience another guy. She told me she didnt want it.. said she would like to be with another woman somewhere where we dont live. I entertained it. I even entertained another guy going at it with her so she could experience it. Redpillwomen taught me my …
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