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| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 1 | What was your "it's really over" moment?What made u take that final step | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/11/25 03:10 AM |
| 2 | What was your "it's really over" moment?You sound very innocent | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/11/25 03:09 AM |
| 1 | What was your "it's really over" moment?How has it been since? How did the kids take it? Are they happier now w/o all the bickering? | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/11/25 03:05 AM |
| 5 | Has your view of women in relationships changed?what are they thinking? i'm married and have no clue? | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/03/25 09:20 PM |
| 2 | I recently confronted her Narcissism. She has improved immensely. But I don't think she loves me. The only thing keeping me here is the kid. But also feeling stuck. I need some kind of Help to see things better?never, absolutely never saying the truth. always having a secondary agenda underneath every act. putting an agenda where she is the main character 24/7 and everything else is secondary. just yuck all around. | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/03/25 02:34 AM |
| 2 | I recently confronted her Narcissism. She has improved immensely. But I don't think she loves me. The only thing keeping me here is the kid. But also feeling stuck. I need some kind of Help to see things better?I don't. But the thought of leaving my daughter destroys me. I don't know how she would experience it. I would love to have 50/50 parenting but I don't know what kind of shit she will pull. Any thoughts on that ? | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/03/25 02:33 AM |
| 1 | Some women look for a 'bailout man' over and overcan they get better? what does it mean to get better for them? | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/02/25 08:56 PM |
| 3 | Some women look for a 'bailout man' over and overI'm currently married to a cluster B. I'm 95% out of this marriage. As a last resort, I asked her to go to therapy. I don't think its going to change a damn thing. Its really hard to convince them how fucked up they are cause they are super delusional, and any attack on their image/ego or whatever they get super defensive. I told her, You will always be alone if you continue this. No one will stick around with you. Forget me! NO one will. She still things I am putting ideas in her head when sayi… | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/02/25 05:31 AM |
| 2 | My wife is undiagnosed BPD + NPD, we have a kid. I really want to leave but I love my kid. What is the best thing I can do for my kid? Looking for a divorce playbookHows your daughter doing given she spends most of the time with the Mom? Have you seen any BPD behavior in your daughter or any issues that r/raisedbyborderlines report ? Also - why is it that most people I see on here only have their kid every other weekend or so? Isn't it possible to split the weeks in half or something? Like 50/50 ? | /r/Divorce_Men | 31/12/24 04:08 PM |
| 1 | My wife is undiagnosed BPD + NPD, we have a kid. I really want to leave but I love my kid. What is the best thing I can do for my kid? Looking for a divorce playbookim just worried about my daughter -- and if we get 50/50 custody -- at least i would do my best to be a good parent. i'm not perfect but i have been to therapy and i embrace self improvement -- while of course the wife thinks shes perfect --- sigh | /r/Divorce_Men | 31/12/24 05:24 AM |
| 1 | Abusive Wife? (Review this checklist to know)Damm bro, good luck. That hits hard | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/12/24 05:40 AM |
| 1 | Abusive Wife? (Review this checklist to know)In the same boat. Is she going counseling? How are you approaching it? It’s hurt me in so many ways. I’m still with her tho. Gonna try hardcore therapy this year and hold her accountable every time she fucks up. | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/12/24 05:37 AM |
| 1 | How do you get the courage to leave when it's bad, but not that bad?Dam Dude -were there kids? We have a baby and the only thing keeping us together. | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/12/24 06:01 AM |
| 1 | How does one get divorced and minimize impact to kids?So you're just gonna ask her for divorce? How old is your daughter and how are you going to assure she is loved? Are you ok leaving her with the BPD Mom? | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/12/24 05:46 AM |
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