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The good men who weren’t scared to approach, I met organically offline, who were interested in me for me and not me as a commodity. What types of settings were there good guys approaching you offline? I've gone to meetups but the guys were LV.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/22 01:23 PM
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Yeah I generally have a good time on OLD as well because I only invest energy in guys who I can tell are going to be enjoyable company on a date. I think it's because i have extremely good vetting instincts so I skip over a lot of negative experiences other women go thru. Pick up artists and other toxic types get filtered out fast because I can just smell it all over them. It's not exhausting or difficult for me because I can read most guys within the first couple of messages. Sure, the true HVM…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/21 10:23 PM
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Lol you've clearly leveled up in every way and put this quarantine time to good use, unlike your gross slob of a partner. Any one of these red flags would have my lips curling in disgust. Get out now, you have your whole life ahead of you. The world is for your taking.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/21 06:23 PM
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Haha I bet some of them will be intrigued by these awesome new profile pics and come over to see what we're chatting about here
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/21 05:35 PM
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How do i use one of these as profile pic?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/21 02:26 PM
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That's a good idea, i'll give them the general area. Do guys ever suggest 2 spots to you and have you choose? Sometimes that happens to me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/21 02:05 PM
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No it doesn't. The mods have been over this many times.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/21 09:29 PM
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Great point!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/21 01:24 PM
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When my girlfriends and I visit each other's hometowns for the first few times, it's assumed that the one who lives in that town chooses where to eat. It just makes sense since we have high standards and trust the local to know what's best. I don't think using strategic language has to be nudging. Part of why I love fds is the sharp minds that come up with good phrases or languages to be used in common dating situations. Surprise me is a good idea, but one could see that as nudging too, since yo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/21 01:20 PM
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If they're anything like me, they've learned not to trust a lot of the google reviews for which restaurants are good. I've been to terrible places that get 4.5 stars. That's why a lot of people I know will ask a local where they like best.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/21 03:36 AM
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That's a good idea! I might say that all the restaurants here are pretty good so I can see what they pick with all options on the table. If they pick something too cheap I'll know it's a red flag lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/21 03:22 AM
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Right, then that would be me planning the date. Thank you for your suggestion, but it's not "silly" for me to respond that it likely won't play out the way I would like it to. I responded to your suggestion to increase the likelihood that other users will see this thread and offer other ideas as well. I've had good experiences in the past with fds'ers coming up with good ways to phrase things to encourage their preferred dynamic in dating.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/21 03:19 AM
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Yeah I'm trying my best to be careful with language here, but I'm assuming most people will know what I mean. There's always certain approaches and strategies that work better than others when it comes to interacting with men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/21 03:14 AM
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Good thing you didn't even kiss him! I think my one saving grace pre-FDS was writing longer texts on a google doc prior to sending. I would wait an hour to 2 before sending. By the time I had re-read my draft, I was cringing so hard I never sent it. I still keep it in my drive to remind myself not to text while emotionally worked up or angry.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/21 03:05 AM
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If I put that my fave food is Indian in my bio, I feel like guys would assume I have a go-to indian spot in my town. Which I do lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/21 03:03 AM
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I'm a bad liar so the fact that I try different restaurants allll the time will slip out real fast in our convo's haha. Plus I want to seem accustomed to dining in nice places.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/21 03:01 AM
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She's right about it being weird to get into a relationship with a manbaby who plays video games all day. The problem can be avoided by not dating these men altogether.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/21 03:59 PM
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Are there meetup groups and Facebook groups for women in your age bracket? I saw a Facebook group where women in my cities would post about looking for friends from 30-38 for example.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/21 09:17 PM
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Lol if I were to fake a wedding, I could get it done for wayyy cheaper than this. Why book venues and get expensive dress and photographers when you can just get a photographer friend to snap photos of you and rando male friend in a pretty location. The dress can be rented or borrowed from a friend who still has her dress. I feel like she just wanted to have a wedding really badly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/21 09:03 PM
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Where are you meeting most of these men out of curiosity? I would like to start a roster soon
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/21 04:48 AM
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True, we are the average of the 5 people we spend the most time with. Only date men with good boundaries and HV friends.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/21 01:45 AM
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I generally wouldn't directly tell men I'm seeing other guys, I find it's much better to be unavailable sometimes and let their imaginations do the talking
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/21 01:41 AM
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This is my favorite drawing of yours! 🤩 Out of curiosity, is it common for guys to straight up tell you they're not ready for a relationship? When I date, I keep men on their toes, and they aren't sure exactly how much I like them, so they never say they aren't looking for a relationship, since they aren't secure enough to even bring something like that up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/21 01:28 AM
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Exactly, sherry argov was the one who coined the phrase "men don't listen to words. They listen to no contact." That phrase was a game-changer for me. This is dating strategy sub, and this book aligns with the fact that developing your own independence and hobbies is the best strategy of all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/21 07:50 PM
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I try to do this too, and guys also think I'm hard to read. Do you act completely platonic with these guys or is there mild (non-sexual) flirtation going on? I run into a problem where the guys will very indirectly bring up sexual topics/humor to try to move things in a non-platonic direction and test the waters. I do have an issue where I talk to everyone like they are a female friend and not knowing how to have non-sexual flirtatious convo's.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/21 09:28 PM
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How attractive are the guys taking her on dates?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/21 05:39 PM
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No, he'll just learn to hide it better. The key is to act like you're just instinctively turned off by Redpill behavior. Or else he'll just assume it didn't work only bc you had read about it somewhere and found him out
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/21 04:01 PM
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In the beginning of this sub, there used to be a lot of threads on this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/21 03:58 PM
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If a guy is dating someone >5 years younger than him I just assume he's LV by default. If a man does not 100% hype you up and make you feel like a supermodel, he is LV. Even before fds, red pill guys never got anywhere with me because they are too defensive to give no-holds-barred compliments.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/21 03:35 PM
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This is really good advice, and something I wish I could explain better to my pickme friends who make the first move on men. They don't understand why it's so important to be a guy's #1 from the jump. Where do you meet younger guys btw? I want to meet more mid 20s guys. If a guy is 30+, women need to be extra vigilant in making sure they plan and pay for high quality dates as they court you, because chances are he's a waste of time. If i date an older guy, I'm gonna try extra hard to have a rost…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/21 09:12 PM
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Are there any examples you could give? (Doesn't have to be the ones you shared, but what you think would be an appropriate lesson to share). Also, how do you indirectly imply you were treated well without it being too obvious?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/21 01:31 PM
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What type of lessons from past relationships do you think are good to share in the beginning of dating? I did learn lessons from my past relationship but also don't want to be too open/vulnerable with guys.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/21 12:20 PM
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How old were you guys if you don't mind me asking?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/21 01:19 AM
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Your last paragraph would be an awesome post on its own! What would you say are major differences in dating conversations? I find that I keep talking to men like they're a female friend I just met. It's almost like I'm unable to flirt haha. The best friend question is genius, I'm gonna try that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/21 10:18 PM
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100% agree. It's like saying why study science if the best discoveries were made by luck/accident. You need to work in the right direction to create the context in which a stroke of luck can become success. Also, can you elaborate on how dating helped you become comfortable in your power?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/21 09:52 PM
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Thank you for this post! Most of the posts today seem to be ranting about guys. Your post is exactly what I needed! It definitely helps to see it as a part time job. I see dates as a way to improve social skills and become more confident in my boundaries. Where are your top places to meet guys irl? I'm planning on doing both online and real life soon. I usually have a decent time with dating because I just try my best to have a fun time without expectations. I also like dressing up and eating ou…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/21 08:21 PM
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2 months max, most guys ask me between 5-7 weeks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/21 02:39 PM
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How does he talk about his potential salary? If he shows zero red flags and you really want to keep dating, make sure he invests and foots the bill for almost everything.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/21 07:32 PM
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Yeah I'm trying to get away from meetup, but all the online searches for clubs in the city just bring me back to meetup.com 🙄. I think you may have found a good group because people likely joined organically irl. Any group that ppl find via internet search attracts the weirdest guys haha. I'm late 20s so the uni crowd would be too young for me unfortunately. Thank you for the suggestions tho!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/21 10:27 PM
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Is this a group you stumbled upon through a website like meetup? I've been looking for amateur hiking group
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/21 03:26 AM
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Where did you hear of this group for beach clean up out of curiosity? Are they part of a bigger organization?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/21 07:46 PM
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24 to 30, I usually have the best experiences with my age or few years younger
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/21 11:54 AM
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These are the profiles of red pillers who hit the gym to make up for being nerdy losers
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/21 06:55 PM
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More 'PC' type guys will ask "Do you speak a second language" on the first/second date, despite my all-american mannerisms and unaccented English. I purposely avoid bringing up anything related to my ethnicity, so the fact that 60% of guys ask this question shows that most ppl don't view me as truly American. If a guy says ANYTHING to me that he wouldn't ask to a white woman on the first few dates, it's over. Most Asian-Am women I know who date interracially don't want to abide by this because t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/21 01:53 PM
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"He's somebody else's problem now"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/21 05:53 PM
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A lot of them believe that the female version of incels can't get relationships/commitment, only used for casual sex. I disagree with this because there's lots of guys that would be your boyfriend, but most of them aren't quality because they don't appreciate you enough. They'll grab onto a relationship but are secretly looking for the next best thing. Also, only loser men who read too much male-dominated internet material know enough about fds to complain about it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/21 02:05 PM
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Yeah I think my problem is that I respond in the most platonic way to things the guy says. If they say anything slightly sweet, I'll purposely respond in a way that brushes it off instead of playing into it. Most girls naturally foster a certain vibe with dates, but it's unusually difficult for me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/21 01:59 PM
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So when you are dating a guy, you both just act friendly to each other without any flirting? I assumed the conversation on dates is supposed to be more flirtatious than a convo with a new female friend
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/21 06:59 PM
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I usually treat guys like a friend and they end up trying stuff like snakily bringing up a sexual innuendo to make our interactions less platonic. How have you escalated conversations into more romantic/flirty territory? What things do you often say or joke about?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/21 06:28 PM
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What do you guys feel about men bringing in sexual innuendo topics into the convo? For example, if they tell a funny story about a foreign friend that mispronounced an innocent word as a sexual word and caused confusion at restaurant? To me, it feels like the wrong way to flirt. I like dirty humor with ppl I'm close to, but I get upset immediately when someone uses it as a flirting technique. It feels too calculated and I assume they read pick up artist advice. I tried to talk to other girls abo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/21 02:37 PM
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I've noticed that younger men who seriously pursue me on OLD are higher quality than the older men
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/21 06:42 PM
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How old is your fiance out of curiousity?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/21 06:21 PM
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Who usually starts the conversation that leads to the exchange of numbers?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/21 06:57 PM
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He said "maybe you'll prove it to me"? That's pick-up artist lingo.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/21 07:08 PM
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Can I ask how you met this guy?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 03:04 AM
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> Ask and ye shall receive. Do not be afraid to state your standards/ values in the talking phase if they are deal breakers for you. Can you elaborate and give examples of how you asked or stated your standards? This is my biggest issue when dating because I often feel like I shouldn't have to cOmMuniCate that I want to be spoiled. They should just want to do it, and that my job is only to sit back and observe their behavior.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 01:27 PM
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It's important to me that a man is open to giving the children his wife's surname. She's the one who carried them for 9 months and gave birth to them. It's only natural for them to take her surname by default.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 05:06 PM
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She better take those new clothes with her when she walks out
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 06:42 PM
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Yes I call it my "no more than 4 rule"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 10:49 PM
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I'm guessing most guys in their 20s don't use matchmaking services. It's seen as a more traditional route.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 01:15 AM
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Very happy for you 💕! Can I ask how you guys met? What are your age ranges?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 11:26 PM
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I usually mention something in my profile about how I enjoy trying different cuisines (or you can mention your favorites). If you want to give off more HV vibes, you can mention "fine dining"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 06:23 PM
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The last time I had a convo like this, I mentioned that he wouldn't be okay with his girlfriend uploading porn of herself, or at least wouldn't see her as "long term/wife material" due to it. Therefore, he can't be upset that I don't see him as boyfriend material. Some will insist they would be okay with it, but most do cringe at the idea of a long term partner participating in porn.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 11:39 AM
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The best thing to do in these situations is to ignore entirely (if you aren't blocking). I've gotten apologizes from guys after going silent, since they reread their last message and start feeling self conscious about it. When you respond, it gives them an excuse to reassert their frame. Replying to their message in any way, shape, or form is validating it, since it implies you are willing to keep negotiating.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 07:58 PM
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My mom is late 50s and healthy bmi, she gets asked out by guys in their 40s-50s regularly. I believe a healthy bmi is key.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 02:38 PM
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It's weird to me because splitting the check was the one thing I couldn't do even in my worst pick me days. I thought having sex early on was okay, but at the very least pick up the bill...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 07:42 PM
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Have you looked into keeping quails? They are really cool birds and don't need as much space as chickens. There's a demand for quail eggs too at local farmers markets.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 05:12 PM
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Can you explain the testing skills process in more detail? What do you think the physical escalation process should be?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 07:07 PM
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I'm limiting my caffeine/alcohol intake these days so I'm just honest about that. I don't have great experiences with men who suggest informal dates tho, esp since my profile specifically mentions trying certain types of cuisine + other activities, so that means they are deliberately ignoring that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 01:18 PM
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When I know I'm no longer interested in a guy, I avoid asking questions in my last text because it implies you still want to hear from him or that his opinion still matters in some way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 11:30 PM
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Tbh I do lose interest in men (and women) who announce that they don't cook. It's one of those basic adult skills that I think everyone should have. It's so wasteful to frequently buy and order premade food, many of which can easily be made at home for a fraction of the price. I'm a financially savvy type of person and I cringe at how much money I used to waste before learning basic cooking. I recommend Natasha's Kitchen on youtube if you want to give it a try. Easy 20min recipes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/20 12:45 PM
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The problem is, when I try to let the guy plan the date, he often ends up being like "Oh I know this great place, it has the type of food you mentioned you like, blah blah blah" and half the time it ends up being counterserve inside a decent restaurant.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 12:11 PM
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Did the men they married have kids from previous relationships?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 12:00 PM
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DAE hate ordering food at a counter? The guy always holds open the door and waits for me to order first, which often causes me to end up paying for myself. I know I can wait for him to order after me, but it's still a situation where I have to first make the move to encourage a guy to pay. I like when the waiter brings the check so that I can see what the guy does without me having to look at him expectantly
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 02:54 PM
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How would you have answered that question? Even though I do want a relationship, I don't want guys to think their commitment is the prize, so I struggle with how to word my answer. I don't want guys to think I want casual hook-ups either.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/20 02:50 AM
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The problem is, men have no idea that our "natural" look costs that much time, money, and effort. They always argue that they would rather have you not spend much time on makeup. They don't even realize that how much maintenance having long hair is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/20 05:55 PM
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The only guys who put base all their value on sex are guys who can't get sex easily, at least from HVW. They only pull girls who they don't respect and who don't challenge them in any way, so they are convinced that all any girl is good for is sex. They hate investing because they know deep inside they don't bring any value, but it makes them feel better to say they don't care what women think. If they are convinced they want a women's deference, then they do care about what women think. They ar…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/19 09:02 PM
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It's funny because when I'm looking for something more casual, I also avoid guys who seem like fuckboys. Why increase my chances of STDs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/19 12:17 AM
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You don't even have kids. You are in a great position right now to lose weight (I recommend r/loseit), get a marketable degree/certification, and meet quality men. I've heard good things about dental hygienist programs, respiratory therapy, and other medical careers that only need a certification. If you like math consider getting an accounting concentration. Your ex will never truly be happy because only women with toxic behavioral patterns will like him. His value will only go down from now on…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/19 06:45 AM
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I wouldn't have minded the suggestive comment as much if you hadn't already told him that you needed to be home by a certain time. I don't mind guys trying their luck by inviting me to their place after a couple of dates, but making sexualized jokes when there is no indication that I'm open to sexual activity or okay with the convo going that direction annoys me a lot. If they want to ask me to continue hanging out with them after dinner then at least do it like a man instead of slimily doing it…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/19 08:52 PM
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You're right, he knows you would probably say yes if he asked you on another date. The biggest red flag is the unnecessary sexual joke about keeping him up all night. I cut guys off who purposely sexualize the convo early on. I've never had a good experience with any guy who did that. Tbh I'm disappointed in a lot of responses on this thread.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/19 05:58 PM
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Older female celebs have no problems dating wealthy successful men, see Jennifer Garner. Even if they don't look super youthful or attractive, men tend to be starstruck by them after seeing them in popular shows and movies throughout the years. I don't understand how so many men on reddit think A list stars operate by the same rules as normal people, especially when so many guys grew up with a crush on Emma watson. Once you hit it big in Hollywood, your capital among 'civilians' is virtually lim…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/19 08:39 PM
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Exactly, no one else here even read the study at all. They jumped to the conclusion that women want alpha guys who don't cater to her, while the women in this study overwhelmingly liked being placed on a pedestal and rated those type of men as more attractive. They like patronizing behavior that includes the guy paying for dates, not necessarily the strict TPR definition of it. This really shows how poorly people are receiving and interpreting new information and data.
/r/TheRedPill13/07/18 03:50 AM
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Where are you meeting these guys?
/r/RedPillWomen24/05/17 08:22 PM
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I never said women were the victims. I'm saying that they often have 2 full time jobs - one at work, the other at home, and they are only getting paid for one of them. At least when men do extra work, or more dangerous work, they get compensated for it.
/r/PussyPassDenied13/04/17 09:06 PM
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They profit because they exploit loopholes that other businesses do not have access to, since smaller businesses are not able to bribe politicians the same way.
/r/PussyPassDenied13/04/17 09:00 PM
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Women on average are working significantly more hours now than they did in the 70s. Yet they are still doing the lion's share of the child-rearing, cooking, cleaning, etc, even when working full time jobs. So who is really being exploited here? Maybe the actual employer isn't exploiting women, but society in general functions on the backs of mothers providing unpaid labor while also having to work to support their families. Most families in this economy cannot afford to have only 1 working spous…
/r/PussyPassDenied13/04/17 09:52 AM
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You obviously do not have enough experience with Wall Street corporations if you think that are that wise with their money
/r/PussyPassDenied13/04/17 09:40 AM
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https://hbr.org/2014/06/why-women-dont-negotiate-their-job-offers "In repeated studies, the social cost of negotiating for higher pay has been found to be greater for women than it is for men." Extensive research shows that women are seen as unfavorable when advocating for themselves or negotiating for raises, an issue that men don't face nearly on the same level.
/r/PussyPassDenied13/04/17 09:39 AM
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https://hbr.org/2014/06/why-women-dont-negotiate-their-job-offers "In repeated studies, the social cost of negotiating for higher pay has been found to be greater for women than it is for men." Extensive research shows that women are seen as unfavorable when advocating for themselves or negotiating for raises, an issue that men don't face nearly on the same level.
/r/PussyPassDenied13/04/17 09:34 AM
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https://hbr.org/2014/06/why-women-dont-negotiate-their-job-offers "In repeated studies, the social cost of negotiating for higher pay has been found to be greater for women than it is for men." Extensive research shows that women are seen as unfavorable when advocating for themselves or negotiating for raises, an issue that men don't face nearly on the same level.
/r/PussyPassDenied13/04/17 09:34 AM
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No one is saying women don't make choices. A poor woman in Africa can choose to marry an old man when she's 12, or become a homeless spinster. Just because someone is able to make a choice does not mean that sexism doesn't exist. The issue is that not everyone has the same options and opportunities to choose from.
/r/PussyPassDenied13/04/17 09:31 AM
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You're assuming that male dominated professions are inherently more profitable. That's not necessarily true. Studies show that professions with influx of females become devalued by society, causing salaries to drop over time.
/r/PussyPassDenied13/04/17 09:15 AM
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If you worked just as hard as the men, then studies show that you would not get paid quite as much. Research has shown that employers offer a lower salary to women with children, while offering more money to men with children. Also, women with children are less likely to be promoted even when working just as hard because people subconsciously assume that you don't want more time away from the kids. In addition, you have to remember that up until recent decades, most women did not have serious ca…
/r/PussyPassDenied13/04/17 09:10 AM
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I'm not saying you're wrong, but consumer interests are often affected by subconscious forms of discrimination, which can count as "patriarchy".
/r/PussyPassDenied13/04/17 09:04 AM
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You're underestimating the many industries in which salary negotiations make a huge difference. https://hbr.org/2014/06/why-women-dont-negotiate-their-job-offers "In repeated studies, the social cost of negotiating for higher pay has been found to be greater for women than it is for men." Extensive research shows that women are seen as unfavorable when advocating for themselves or negotiating for raises, an issue that men don't face nearly on the same level.
/r/PussyPassDenied13/04/17 09:00 AM
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https://hbr.org/2014/06/why-women-dont-negotiate-their-job-offers "In repeated studies, the social cost of negotiating for higher pay has been found to be greater for women than it is for men." Extensive research shows that women are seen as unfavorable when advocating for themselves or negotiating for raises, an issue that men don't face nearly on the same level.
/r/PussyPassDenied13/04/17 08:58 AM
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That's exactly right. People on this subreddit think of raising children, cleaning, cooking, etc as privileges that women get to have, instead of labor that they are not getting paid for. They ignore statistics that show that women are working much more hours today than in the 70s, yet men have barely picked up the slack at all in terms of domestic chores. Studies show that even when the man is unemployed, he STILL does not increase average hours spent on household chores. Masculine chores like …
/r/PussyPassDenied13/04/17 08:51 AM
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