| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| 212 | I’m totes fine being single | MINDSET SHIFT | star_stuff07 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/04/20 03:57 AM |
| 14 | After this, I have zero interest in dating | DISCUSSION | star_stuff07 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/19 01:10 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 2 | I’m totes fine being singleI hope I can truly form those relationships with other HVW one day! It is hard watching some of my girlfriends just wallow over their boyfriends when they’re so so unhappy. One girlfriend avoided me for two weeks straight cause she was embarrassed she got back with her man after me picking her up and letting her cry/vent to me for a few nights one week. It’s hard to tolerate when I’ve got this new mindset, you know? I totally agree with you tho! I keep the few I have super close to my heart. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/04/20 02:26 AM |
| 6 | I’m totes fine being singleI hope so! I have weird social anxiety and the whole having a guard up thing also pertains to friendships too. Been fucked over real hard with those as well | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/04/20 09:21 PM |
| 5 | I’m totes fine being singleSame girl, same! Love your best life! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/04/20 05:10 PM |
| 3 | I’m totes fine being singleWe got this tho, girl! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/04/20 03:36 PM |
| 5 | I’m totes fine being singleI get so weirded out just meeting someone I’ve only chatting with on the phone and stuff. I’m also not keen on FaceTime and all that. I definitely make it harder than I should but I’m also SUPER guarded now. I tried explaining to guys I’m single and happy being on my own and they can’t wrap their little heads around it. Wild I tell ya. You go, girl!! We sound super similar tbh and it’s nice to read. I feel like I felt the first legit connection with someone about this. Do I have feelings now?? 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/04/20 03:06 PM |
| 1 | I’m totes fine being singleI get so weirded out just meeting someone I’ve only chatting with on the phone and stuff. I’m also not keen on FaceTime and all that. I definitely make it harder than I should but I’m also SUPER guarded now. I tried explaining to guys I’m single and happy being on my own and they can’t wrap their little heads around it. Wild I tell ya. You go, girl!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/04/20 03:05 PM |
| 2 | I’m totes fine being singleMcGoats! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/04/20 02:21 PM |
| 5 | I’m totes fine being singleYes! Not answering to anyone and using your own time for what YOU WANT! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/04/20 01:59 PM |
| 6 | I’m totes fine being singleYes!! I hope we all do this! Get you know yourself, any hobbies or whatever YOU want to be into. Take this time for yourself! It’ll be rare we’ll all get this time to do it again as a whole damn world. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/04/20 01:44 PM |
| 5 | I’m totes fine being singleThank you!!! It’s amazing what being patient with yourself can do! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/04/20 01:03 PM |
| 11 | I’m totes fine being singleThis lockdown actually has been making me love not going out or feeling like I HAVE to talk to people or make time for people I might not really want to make time for. It’s me and my islanders on animal crossing, my students, my mom and dog and dassit! I might have a hard time getting back to normal after this whole thing cause I truly feel like I’m cool just being alone doing my own thang | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/04/20 12:27 PM |
| 7 | I’m totes fine being singleAtta girl!! 👏🏻👏🏻 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/04/20 12:26 PM |
| 9 | I’m totes fine being singleThank you! It’s amazing how much you can grow and so many ways when you’re with no one but yourself! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/04/20 12:25 PM |
| 6 | I’m totes fine being singleI listen to my friends or family constantly nag and complain about their marriages or relationships and I just sip my tea and tell them they can be single and be totally fine. I used to be afraid of being alone and now I HIGHLY encourage it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/04/20 12:22 PM |
| 20 | I’m totes fine being singleThank you! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/04/20 04:36 AM |
| 5 | Cuddling with strangers during a pandemic 🤔 I have soooooo many messages like this. I’m just on dating apps for giggles at this point. They are cesspools of LVM. Usually out of relationships, on the rebound looking to get revenge because of the ex.“I was in a relationship for 6 years and was cheated on I deserve better! >:(“ “Cool I hope you find that, but you’re awfully pushy and don’t understand that I’m not hanging out with someone I don’t know at all. Also there’s a curfew so I’m not leaving my home.” “But I’m the law haha it’s okay come over” Gross. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/20 11:58 PM |
| 15 | Cuddling with strangers during a pandemic 🤔 I have soooooo many messages like this. I’m just on dating apps for giggles at this point. They are cesspools of LVM. Usually out of relationships, on the rebound looking to get revenge because of the ex.I was on hinge and a cop wanted me to come over once the state was locked down to cuddle and hang. After I said stranger danger, I’ve spoken to you for 5 minutes I’m not hanging out and risking getting into trouble or sick, he said “it’s okay I’m the law...”. Still wouldn’t take no for an answer. I blocked him. He found me on Facebook and lectured me about how he’s such a nice guy and didn’t deserve that. Then called me mean for not being interested LOL | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/20 06:05 PM |
| 0 | If he doesn’t wanna pay, come to you, make time, get back to you or genuinely seem interested in YOU then cut him out of your life.What happens when he does ALL of that and still says he doesn’t deserve you and is a broken man? Lol asking for a friend | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/19 04:47 PM |
| 3 | After this, I have zero interest in datingWe don’t even hookup anymore. I ended that aspect. But he initiates all of our plans. He makes time for me. He’s constantly offering to hang out with me if I’m upset (we found out my dad is sick, I’m a teacher, life is cray). It’s like in some ways he seems like a typical ass but (this sounds so cliche and stupid) I do wanna believe I’m worth more than just sex, since we do all these things together without the sex. And I really appreciate him and do love him, both platonically and romantically. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/19 12:13 AM |
| 10 | After this, I have zero interest in datingIt’s so hard cause I fucking like him so much :( he initiates all our plans and stuff. I will say at the very least he is a good friend, which is also why I’m struggling | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/19 09:36 PM |
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