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Basic Questionstarky000001/r/askMRP27/12/18 06:08 AM
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It’s not. It’s about what turns me on and what turns me off. And that shit turns me off
/r/askMRP26/05/19 06:07 AM
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Dude when I read this it makes so much sense. When I look at it deeper I think it’s a thing of respect. I want my woman to respect herself so if she’s doing things I find inappropriate it looks bad on not only her but on me being with her. But when you frame it as. Be a man of value and focus on that it makes so much sense. In fact everything on here always makes sense but in the moment. I lose sense of it all for some reason. I think I am naturally an emotional dude. And I love to talk things o…
/r/askMRP26/05/19 01:36 AM
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Lol numbers
/r/askMRP13/02/19 06:04 PM
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And this is why you guys tell me to focus on me. Be the top 10. Got it
/r/askMRP13/02/19 03:04 PM
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90%. Youre a moron
/r/askMRP13/02/19 02:52 PM
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I have abundance. But I don’t like getting played for a fool. I see soenthing that crosses my boundary I address it. Then you guys call me insecure. But had I let it go. I’d be called a cuck if something happened. My mind can’t comprehend on any level letting shit like this just slide
/r/askMRP13/02/19 01:55 PM
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I don’t understand. I found something that cross my boundary. I confront it. You call me insecure. I let it go and it might Happen. Then I’ll be called a cuck. You guys are ridiculous sometimes
/r/askMRP13/02/19 01:44 PM
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This is the best advice so far. Thanks
/r/askMRP13/02/19 01:43 PM
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She did it. I have no idea. A chick who wants to cheat ain’t doing that shit
/r/askMRP13/02/19 01:38 PM
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LMAO I’ll double down on that.
/r/askMRP13/02/19 01:22 PM
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Lmao id pay money to watch you try that. Honestly
/r/askMRP13/02/19 12:03 PM
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I don’t know how to stop worrying about her cheating. You’re right I am fearful of not knowing. So I always think somethings is up. I’m reading about codendancy. Hopefully I can get a grip
/r/askMRP13/02/19 02:32 AM
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It doesn’t matter. I know her. It’s up to me to decide what I want to do. Right now I want to think. Could I be overreacting? Maybe Is this a boundary for me. Yes. Has this been the first fuck up. Yes. Am I afraid to leave. Absolutely not I need time to decide what I want. Not everyone knows how to handle everything on the fly
/r/askMRP13/02/19 02:27 AM
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Na I’m enjoying my night I’m cool I found soenthing. It crossed my boundary. I confronted it. She said her peace. And I took time to think. It’s okay to take time to think. Mr alpha
/r/askMRP13/02/19 02:22 AM
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I been around women my whole life. I know how they work. When they are thinking of cheating and not. She’s not. But I don’t want these types of behaviors to be overlooked
/r/askMRP13/02/19 02:04 AM
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I did stfu. I said I’m not sure how I want to handle this and continued what I was doing and she went upstairs
/r/askMRP13/02/19 02:02 AM
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she said a bunch of them all talk about lunch and she didn’t think it was going to happen. But I do agree
/r/askMRP13/02/19 02:02 AM
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I’m shredded and have my shit together. She has a necklace made with my name on it and wears it lmao. She’s obsessed to say the least. This guy isn’t even in my league but again I just didn’t know that reading the text
/r/askMRP13/02/19 01:52 AM
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Why? What else could I have done in that moment better
/r/askMRP13/02/19 01:47 AM
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Are you being sarcastic ?
/r/askMRP13/02/19 01:42 AM
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He’s an old dude. I’m her alpha and she’s totally not attracted to this guy. I saw a picture. But I didn’t know this reading the text Anyway still think it was inappropriate
/r/askMRP13/02/19 01:41 AM
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So I brought it up. We’re pretty deep into the relationship. She said it was an older guy who did her a favor and that’s just what she said. I asked her if she would be cool with me saying that to older women. She said she sees my point and she’s so sorry. She didn’t mean anything by it and she doesn’t know what to say. I said I don’t eithet right now and she went upstairs. I’m not sure how to handle it from here
/r/askMRP13/02/19 01:25 AM
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So I brought it up. We’re pretty deep into the relationship. She said it was an older guy who did her a favor and that’s just what she said. I asked her if she would be cool with me saying that to older women. She said she sees my point and she’s so sorry. She didn’t mean anything by it and she doesn’t know what to say. I said I don’t eithet right now and she went upstairs. I’m not sure how to handle it from here
/r/askMRP13/02/19 01:24 AM
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Just ordered the book. Thank you
/r/askMRP09/02/19 03:20 PM
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It has definitely been an issue in the past and I continue to work on it. How have you dealt with it
/r/askMRP09/02/19 01:36 AM
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Just painting a picture. You’re probably right about my MPO. I just have a fear of it going on and me not knowing
/r/askMRP09/02/19 01:36 AM
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Great quote. I guess I have this fear of it Happening and me not knowing.
/r/askMRP09/02/19 01:34 AM
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I want to say I am! I’m the best I’ve ever been. But if this shit keeps happening maybe I’m lying to myself. I’m not sure I’m having a hard time getting to the root where it goes away completely. I have periods where I’m good then these thoughts come back
/r/askMRP09/02/19 12:33 AM
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What behaviors do you mean
/r/askMRP07/02/19 09:17 PM
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This is the only other thing she does that I would say is new to me dealing with. She manages a pub and I love her but she needs guidance. She knows she does. She’s very submissive to me. I can give her advice but at the end of the day this is her career not mine. She comes home every night pissed off. Every. Single. Night. Complaining about something. And to me the solutions are easy or if not easy. They are possible. Anyway in my past I would try to solve the problem. Now I just listen. Suppor…
/r/askMRP07/02/19 09:16 PM
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Can you expand a bit more on your relationship? She is very submissive to me and loves my dominance I’d like to incorporate more of what you’re talking about. Bc I’m not familiar with all the dynamics
/r/askMRP07/02/19 09:11 PM
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This is exactly what I have been doing. Since the first day I kept an eye out for even little things like her raising her voice to me. Of course it didn’t happen at first. She was on her best behavior. But it happened one night. And honestly I’m so good to her. I handle all my shit. I bust my ass. But the second she raised her voice. I calmly said. If you have an issue with something you can talk to me about it but you’re not going to speak to me like that. And I went cold and went to the gym Th…
/r/askMRP07/02/19 09:09 PM
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I get those messages too. I just add more beta traits in there. She’s always sore. I can take it anywhere I want it. I hold the frame. If I want to talk about sex. We’re talking about sex. But I am affectionate. She is too. Hense were this comes from
/r/askMRP07/02/19 08:10 PM
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I don’t agree with the get out part. Right now. It’s new and if you’re high value you can mold a woman to be whatever you want. If she’s valuable to you with a couple red flags. Address the boundary immediately. If you are high value and have your shit together you can turn a new LTR into anything. And if not then you leave.
/r/askMRP08/01/19 12:43 AM
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Just wanted to let you know I just finished the book and it really was gold. Thank you
/r/askMRP02/01/19 06:52 PM
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Lmao tren makes me worst bro
/r/askMRP27/12/18 08:25 PM
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Ordering it now
/r/askMRP27/12/18 04:26 PM
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Ah but you’re so far off. I have tons of hobbies just took up jujitsu also. I’m jacked not skinny been running gear for 2 years. I’m just human dude and learning myself through this journey
/r/askMRP27/12/18 04:25 PM
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I don’t live with her. Good call
/r/askMRP27/12/18 04:24 PM
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I just dropped to a cruise. I’m almost sure it’s Hormone related. But as I stated above. I was literally feeling crazy and my otherwise strong, non needy, always have shit under control, and fun frame turn into The completely opposite and I was a beta bitch today. I kept my distance to my woman but by the end of the night I started talking too much. About my emotions. Yadda yadda. Unattractive bullshit. I honestly ended with her saying she needed to get some sleep that she wants to understand wh…
/r/askMRP27/12/18 05:34 AM
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Okay so I must add. I was feeling all those things. Needy, weak. Etc. I chose to take sometime to myself and my girl took it as something was wrong. I told her the hormones are making me feel weird I just needed time to be alone. And then began to fucking talk about my feelings. Unattractive, weak and out of frame for me. She views me as strong and not the needy type. All the good traits the red pill talks about. But I came across as a beta bitch today. How do I recover from this moving forward
/r/askMRP27/12/18 05:30 AM
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What about the whole to do list thing
/r/askMRP30/09/17 04:49 AM
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Ok thanks
/r/askMRP20/08/17 05:09 PM
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Def wanted to get this one. Thanks
/r/askMRP20/08/17 05:09 PM
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Thank you
/r/askMRP20/08/17 07:20 AM
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He's not saying it to mean it literally. Not my style tho anyway
/r/askTRP20/08/17 04:18 AM
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It's just flirting I'm not shitting where I eat. More like farting
/r/askTRP18/08/17 10:55 PM
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And it's fun
/r/askTRP18/08/17 10:55 PM
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Lol okay say it's in the workplace
/r/askTRP18/08/17 10:21 PM
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Me too they should throw this in the sidebar
/r/TheRedPill12/08/17 07:28 PM
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Yep it does
/r/askMRP09/08/17 02:00 AM
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7-8 right now
/r/askMRP08/08/17 09:04 PM
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Well she does. So Theres a flaw in your theory. Like I said she's very jealous and probably afraid I'm going to leave or cheat on her.
/r/askMRP08/08/17 08:14 PM
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There's no way she's not sexually attracted to me. She tries to fuck and blow me all the time. I think my level of dread is too high and I need to bring more comfort into it. She knows I've slept with a shit load of women. She sees the way they stare at me. Flirt with me. She gets extremely jealous with anything having to do with me and another woman. A girl can hit on me and I can say. Fuck off I have a girlfriend and she will still be pisses off for the simple fact it happened. She used to dat…
/r/askMRP08/08/17 07:16 PM
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Why's salsm.
/r/askMRP08/08/17 06:38 PM
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I agree with you on everything. I guess my question is how do I know I'm staying true north with all of this? If I'm getting sex? I have a hard time knowing if I'm handling it right/wrong. Or could handle it better
/r/askMRP08/08/17 06:17 PM
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Ah ha moment. Thank you. That's been an issue idk when to aa. When to stfu. When to ignore. When to Am. And when to have a serious convo
/r/askMRP08/08/17 05:25 PM
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You're right. 100%. I guess what I should be asking is how do I know I'm on the right track with the way I'm acting. Is there a way to make sure I'm staying north. Is it as long as I'm getting sex?
/r/askMRP08/08/17 05:23 PM
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How am I supposed to learn if I'm not sure what I'm doing right/wrong. And what a better way to handle it is
/r/askMRP08/08/17 12:51 PM
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You're right
/r/askMRP08/08/17 12:48 PM
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Yep you're right. But I was trying to show her my buddy's new car. And she saw the name as I was showing her
/r/askMRP08/08/17 12:00 PM
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Well when I said the date I was sarcastic. And when I said that's true but I'm with you now. That was fogging
/r/askMRP08/08/17 11:20 AM
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She knows I fucked her already. She's friends with some of her friends
/r/askMRP08/08/17 10:08 AM
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She knows I fucked her already. She's friends with some of her friends
/r/askMRP08/08/17 10:08 AM
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Okay I get what you're saying. But given the circumstance how could I have handled it better and what can I do from here on out
/r/askMRP08/08/17 10:04 AM
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You know I'm not trolling You know damn well me trying to change the subject when she's pissed and wants to know answers. Isn't going to work. She's going to stay focused on the point till she gets an answer. Unless I tell her stfu I'm not talking about it anymore. Or walk away I literally don't know how you could have AA any better to those questions
/r/askMRP08/08/17 09:25 AM
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It's probably best for my improvement not to have it
/r/askMRP08/08/17 09:23 AM
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I've been side baring but I'm still missing something. What post should I be reading. I must be missing the important shit bc the stuff I read I already know. I'm told to stfu and when I do and make a post about it. EC tell me I shouldn't "sit there like an autistic." I should AA and be laughing. So I try that and now I'm told to Stfu. Like idk what to do this shit is making my relationship worst than before i started
/r/askMRP08/08/17 05:35 AM
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I just deleted it. But now don't I look like a bitch to her bc I did it?
/r/askMRP08/08/17 05:33 AM
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This shit is starting to piss me off. I'm am told to stfu and when I do I get told I shouldn't have "sat there like an autistic and say nothing. That I should be laughing and having fun. Then I do that and am told I should STFU. This shit gives me a headache. I've been reading the side bar and still am fucking up what post am I missing I mean seriously? It seems I've been at this for over a month now and still getting told I'm supposed to stfu when I AA. And AA when I stfu.
/r/askMRP08/08/17 05:33 AM
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I get what you're saying. But in the mean time how can I learn from my mistakes if I don't post about shitt like this that happens. And I don't know how to handle it For what it's worth did I handle it properly?
/r/askMRP08/08/17 05:15 AM
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So you're saying if I want to be with her I have to delete all ex plates off my social media
/r/askMRP08/08/17 05:01 AM
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Lmao shit had me cracking up. I think the recycling bin would be a little extreme and cause more drama than it has to. And she would literally get in the car anyway. There's something you can't prevent women from doing without physically throwing them And we have a cat bowl. She forget to put the lid down and they go in it. Drink it and play in it. And water gets everywhere and it's gross. I literally told her this 1000 times. She still doesn't put it down. And laughs now and says she forgot. Wh…
/r/askMRP07/08/17 11:58 PM
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I do but idk why bc idc if she leaves.
/r/askMRP07/08/17 11:44 PM
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Because fuck you. That's why
/r/askTRP07/08/17 10:29 PM
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I don't fucking know man. I wish I did. But I post this. And read this shit and it's all so clear to me. It makes so much sense. And I know I'm set for next time. Then a different situation pops up. And I'm back in this spot again.
/r/askMRP07/08/17 08:53 PM
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I should say that to the nutritionist?
/r/askTRP07/08/17 06:15 PM
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Updated to better clarify
/r/askTRP07/08/17 06:04 PM
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Yep. I'm working on it. Thank you
/r/askMRP07/08/17 05:55 PM
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I always just have a hard time when something like this happens with AA her questions, or knowing when to AA. When to stfu or show comfort. There's a lot of dread with her. She's dreaded the fuck out when it comes to me. I'm jacked. Attractive. Have slept with tons of women. They stare at me in public when we go out. Hit on me. She get jealous extremely easy. I get stumped under pressure when she hits me with all these questions. I tend to get pissed bc they never stop coming
/r/askMRP07/08/17 05:31 PM
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But how would I used this in this situation
/r/askMRP07/08/17 04:57 PM
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If I said I wouldn't use the word sleep to describe what we did. She would probably response fuck you. Or cry
/r/askMRP07/08/17 04:54 PM
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There's no reason why not. She's just testing me
/r/askMRP07/08/17 04:52 PM
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These answers are gold especially the first one. Thanks
/r/askMRP07/08/17 03:51 PM
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I don't get why I'm told to STFU now I'm told when I do it's breaking frame. And how do I AA: "When did you sleep with her?" "Where we together when you did?" "She's a slut do you know how many people have slept with her" "You're disgusting!" "You slept with sooo many more people than me." Etc.
/r/askMRP07/08/17 03:07 PM
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I wouldn't say don't know how to handle as much as why handle something if it can be avoided it. And we'll this is why I'm here. So next time straight up. Own it "How do you know her?" "We used to hook up." "When?...How long?...You're disgusting! Etc. etc." ...?
/r/askMRP07/08/17 02:45 PM
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Oh no no no I've been with her for 4 years. There's no "I hope he will be cocky and playful" when it comes to that. It's anger. Name calling. "Delete her" "you're disgusting" followed by a million questions to how I met her. When it happened. Shit I don't want to answer or even remember She knows I've slept with a lot of ppl and it "disgusts" her. If I tell her I slept with her. It will be a week worth of drama. And for what? She doesn't need to know. She knows women want me. She sees it
/r/askMRP07/08/17 01:48 PM
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I'm jacked as hell. I juice. And they Always do. And stare at me. She notices it. Trust me. I am the prize
/r/askMRP07/08/17 01:02 PM
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She leaves the top lid of the toilet up and the cats go into the bowl I did that. I put the bottle on her car. She asked why I did it. I ignored her. And she went and threw it out lol
/r/askMRP07/08/17 12:59 PM
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Nothing. I just was wondering her reason for saying it. Does she really believe that or is she trying to fuck with me
/r/askMRP07/08/17 12:57 PM
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Maybe there was some misinterpretation. I do clean and take care of the place because it is mine. I don't say shit about it to her. Nor do I ever tell her to do anything but clean up after herself. I do only address this when it happens. But she doesn't do it next time. And i tell her my expectations like I did the car. And she said. "Relax stop being so emotional"
/r/askMRP06/08/17 12:01 AM
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Lmao aite cool
/r/askMRP05/08/17 10:57 PM
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I know you said in your YouTube channel you have Trouble controlling your emotions and anger. How are you getting over that?
/r/askMRP04/08/17 03:55 PM
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I enjoy sleeping with her and have no problem getting it up but the fact that I enjoy sex with another girl prob has a lot to do with it. It's like I know cheating is fucked up but I love sex with the other would never date her. I like sex with mine and love dating her.
/r/askMRP04/08/17 03:53 PM
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Yes I'm never rejected
/r/askMRP04/08/17 03:03 PM
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That could be an underlying issue that I've given some thought to but not much
/r/askMRP04/08/17 02:14 PM
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I don't always want it. I feel like I should lol
/r/askMRP04/08/17 02:00 PM
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Lol no everyday. I mean we used to fuck everyday not I don't try for it everyday. Since all this forum talks about is sex. I wondered if something is wrong with me
/r/askMRP04/08/17 01:53 PM
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Sometimes
/r/askMRP04/08/17 01:52 PM
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I read it and I know I juts figured saying you're not mad is kind of falling into her frame bc it's almost like she's asking it to piss you off and won't believe you if you say no. If you get what I'm saying
/r/askMRP04/08/17 07:43 AM
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Possibly but I don't really experience any more angry then before to be honest. And I'm off now so it's not really effecting anything. Plus roid rage is a myth unless you have underlying anger issues.
/r/askMRP04/08/17 07:42 AM
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No she's legit hard of hearing lol
/r/askMRP04/08/17 07:41 AM
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I lift 6 days a week and take roids lol. I got that one covered.
/r/askMRP03/08/17 11:03 PM
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http://archive.is/rZ7DN I was just re posting the title to the post
/r/askMRP03/08/17 10:28 PM
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What do I do when she asks if I'm mad
/r/askMRP03/08/17 10:22 PM
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No I mean when she doesn't hear me. She's like fucking hard of hearing or something
/r/askMRP03/08/17 10:21 PM
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😂
/r/askMRP03/08/17 07:47 PM
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It's a post in the side bar
/r/askTRP03/08/17 07:31 PM
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Thank you. Where did you find this. I don't see this type of stuff in the side bar. Or am I missing it?
/r/askMRP03/08/17 07:20 PM
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I am in the process of it. I've been reading the books
/r/askMRP03/08/17 06:57 PM
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Greta read. Thank you
/r/askMRP03/08/17 06:56 PM
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And the lesson here is
/r/askMRP03/08/17 06:41 PM
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You're right. 100% I'm not sure why it makes me so mad. And for the most part I recognize it. I think it's more of a not wanting to deal with it sort of thing because it has become more frequent. than it is Handling it the proper way.
/r/askMRP03/08/17 06:09 PM
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😂
/r/askTRP03/08/17 06:08 PM
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Thank you. I just read WISNIFG and it has helped its just now recognizing when to use it. I read NMMNG a while ago maybe j should Read it again. And no I'd never use violence that was just some humor
/r/askMRP03/08/17 06:06 PM
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Oh wow this is a different look than I had originally thought. I thought it was change her feelings more than ignore them. But I guess that's sort of what you're doing when it comes down to it. Changing her feelings.
/r/askMRP03/08/17 05:31 PM
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Got it thank you. You're right every time I'd offer a solution. It's time to just listen
/r/askMRP03/08/17 05:30 PM
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Get analogy. Yes I'm reading the side bar. I've read WISNIFG. Rational male. A while ago I read NMMNG. Pook. Superior male. Maybe I should read them again. Anything other ones I'm missing?
/r/askMRP03/08/17 05:10 PM
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When I do this she will say "you don't want to listen to me bitch" and change the subject. Is this good? Or should I be saying no I'm listening
/r/askMRP03/08/17 05:05 PM
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No I was agreeing with you and adding my 2 cents
/r/TheRedPill03/08/17 04:48 PM
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Like I said I understand what it means. I'm looking for Examples
/r/askMRP03/08/17 04:44 PM
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I agree with everything in this comment. If OP thinks that him cumming fast and only focusin on himself is going to make her want to fuck him over someone who knows how to make her cum. He's wrong.
/r/TheRedPill03/08/17 04:42 PM
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Seriously if you guys think that if you fuck a girl and cum to fast that she doesn't care and is going to fuck you over a guy Who is going to make her cum multiple times and then himself cums. You're wrong. So wrong.
/r/TheRedPill03/08/17 04:39 PM
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Say what you want. I know her. She is alpha widowed for life. She wasn't fucking anyone but me as long as my presence in her life is accessible. She wouldn't fuck me for a month. And I knew my shit back then. Besides the fact I shouldn't have waited. But it all worked out anyway.
/r/askTRP03/08/17 04:17 PM
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Well then the only way to find out is to admit to you I actually did fuck this girl and 4 others. Right?
/r/askMRP27/07/17 04:49 PM
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So would it be smart to bring this up to her? And then provide comfort? Btw. You guys are fucking masters at this shit. I just want to get to that level
/r/askMRP27/07/17 04:46 PM
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I think it's more of being a hypocrite that I'm worried about bc then it makes it hard to not "defend" my case but keep my frame if I feel that way. I snooped. And so did she. So I can't get mad. But I almost cheated. She didn't
/r/askMRP27/07/17 04:21 PM
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Ok
/r/askMRP27/07/17 04:18 PM
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She not going to look through the sub to see if I post she will think I just stopped posting because she found it
/r/askMRP27/07/17 04:11 PM
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Got it. And it makes sense when you look at it from a less invested eye. But you say little shit. But to her this isn't little shit. I told some chick to come over. And as for the THOT thing. I don't see how she is that. Being she only slept with 2 others besides me. Never cheated on me and even outside of our break up she didn't have sex with anyone. In fact it took me a month to fuck her (back then I waited. Now I wouldn't) but that's just to prove my point. Unless you're trying to prove a dif…
/r/askMRP27/07/17 04:10 PM
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I'm not afraid she will leave. I just have trouble handling this now that she saw it and will want to talk about it.
/r/askMRP27/07/17 03:58 PM
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She claimed she just said yes to his question and didn't talked to him for months after that. She didn't have sex with this guy. She said she couldn't do it and after is when she got back in contact with em. Also when I did my snooping I saw she didn't talk to him since January on snap.
/r/askTRP27/07/17 03:57 PM
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So what? To what?
/r/askMRP27/07/17 03:05 PM
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She won't. just wants to know what I'm posting
/r/askMRP27/07/17 01:23 PM
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But she did catch me in a post where I clearly am inviting another girl over and saying I want to fuck her
/r/askTRP27/07/17 01:14 PM
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She'll see it. Defeats the purpose
/r/askMRP27/07/17 01:06 PM
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Let me ask you something. The fact she obviously read everything I have been posting about what is going on in our relationship. Does that hurt me in any way? Is there a slight power advantage she has for knowing this stuff ?
/r/askMRP27/07/17 12:53 PM
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I get confused because on one hand you tell me I need to give her time and attention bc I'm using too much dread and on the other you tell me not to care what she feels because it's being in her frame. Can you see my confusion here?
/r/askMRP27/07/17 12:51 PM
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How do you become a good role model of that So if it's brought up I should just be like "so what?" I said I wanted to fuck a girl. But I didn't. So Who cares
/r/askMRP27/07/17 12:43 PM
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Yes I want her. Do I want to fuck other women. Of course I do. Should I or will I. Probably not. I'm working on my frame and it's getting better. I will still make mistakes on the way.
/r/askMRP27/07/17 12:36 PM
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She was acting out of character. And my gut said look into it and here I was right because she was discussing her tits to a person she was talking to. Overreacting? Maybe. Inappropriate. Definitely. If your wife shows signs of cheating you're not going to investigate? You're going to sit there and let her fuck someone behind your back for months until you magically walk in on it happening? Even if your sure something is up?
/r/askMRP27/07/17 12:33 PM
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I listened and started giving her both. Making a Schedule like you said to make time for both things. (Work and her). She wants to talk on the phone 4 times a day and I don't have time for it. Nor do I have anything left to say by then. I told her I'm busy. She says doing what. I don't explain. She says call me after. I don't she feels neglected (and you told me give her more attention). So I do. And I feel like I'm wasting my time because like I said. I don't got much to say by then. So I tell …
/r/askMRP27/07/17 12:31 PM
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I had a suspicion and and wanted to see if my gut was right. Wasn't going to wonder if I was being played and sit around and wait to see. Yes that's me. I have a good amount of money saved so it's going good. It doesn't stop my reading. Still am just finished WISNIFG like suggested. I will read that now. And I guess I see what you mean but this isn't about mate guarding now. This is about her finding out clear as day that I almost fucked another girl. And how to not make it into a bigger issue t…
/r/askMRP27/07/17 12:28 PM
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So just play it off like it's no big deal? This was my way of trying to find out The fact I looked was for my own suspicions if I was getting played, not to protect her. When she asked about it I wasn't in her frame. I was actually AM at first bc I didn't know what she was talking about. Brining up Instagram and I was telling her I was addicted to it and needed rehab. When in reality I don't even have it. When she finally showed me the message. I just said. Okay. Oh yea. And nope when she asked …
/r/askMRP27/07/17 12:22 PM
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What do you mean by brunt something out of it or you
/r/askTRP27/07/17 12:12 PM
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I pretty much did through the whole text message. But I'm talking about form here on out. Tomorrow when she wants to talk about it
/r/askTRP27/07/17 08:21 AM
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I don't know this fucking kid like that. That's like you fucking my gf. And coming clean to Me. Why would you
/r/askTRP26/07/17 10:10 PM
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I agree but I just wanted some better incite. Thanks
/r/askTRP26/07/17 10:09 PM
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Myself says. Fuck and then tell him.
/r/askTRP26/07/17 09:48 PM
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I never said they don't apply you're not only putting words in my mouth. You're going off topic. I'm her best choice. I believe that 100%. Whether divorce or whatever occurs that's not under my control besides my contribution to it. All I said was she would be a great mother. And she would be. And that she adds value to my life other than sex. And she does. And no I wouldn't be a dead beat dad by any means. I don't break up with women and we hate each other. Again the way I run things I'm up fro…
/r/TheRedPill26/07/17 09:45 PM
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Guess we will see. But I never said the relationship wont change. Because it will. I said she will be a great mother and I believe that. A lot of it depends on you as a man. And how you run shit. I see no reason why things would change for the worst bc I wouldn't allow it. She's very submissive to me my lead. If that does become the case where she Rebels and the woman I've known for years becomes a shit mother and person (she won't other wise I wouldn't be with her in the first place). I'll be g…
/r/TheRedPill26/07/17 08:42 PM
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I've seen her around children and how she handles her nephews. She will be a great mother. That's not to say she can do it along. I think you're referring more to single mothers. There needs to be a father figure and leader of not only the relationship but the family as a whole. If you leader her she will follow
/r/TheRedPill26/07/17 04:35 PM
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Both. I don't know why the thought of a woman being a great mother would make you dubious. It's literally what they are here for.
/r/TheRedPill26/07/17 03:06 PM
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What does that have to do with value. I understand what you're saying but everything else I provided you with was why I keep her in my life. She does add value besides being a wet hole. Most don't. Some do. I say she's loyal not just because she's loyal now. But she was loyal when I most definitely wasn't her best option. I was a dead beat drug addict. Broke. Junkie. Sick. Ugh the list goes. She stuck by me for whatever reason. Helped me when I needed it During that period, And now she gets to R…
/r/TheRedPill26/07/17 01:51 PM
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She does stuff that's supports my mission that I don't have time for. And sex. She's loyal to me. Not all are. She pushes/tests me when I get off track. She is going to give me Children one day and be a great mother. We have a good time together. If all you see is a woman is for just sex then yea. Don't date them. They're probably low quality. My girl is not. I'm not saying she is a unicorn. But she makes my life better. That's why she's in it
/r/TheRedPill26/07/17 03:27 AM
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That's sucks. My SO offers a lot of value to my life. And I get sex every day.
/r/TheRedPill26/07/17 12:52 AM
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After re reading it. I'm kind of confused on the difference between what he said and what you said. What you said seems to be focused on how they take you. Which in turn would be caring what they think and meaning you're falling into their frame.
/r/askTRP25/07/17 11:47 PM
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Wow this actually hits home to when I was single. I did this without even knowing it. I would walk into a place and think every girl was staring/whispering about me. And I'd treat it as such. And killed it constantly with chicks. That wasn't the problem. The problem is being in a LTR now for 4 years. And the constant test. And situations that comes with that makes things so much harder for me
/r/askTRP25/07/17 08:36 PM
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That's really good actually. I'll try to keep that in my mind. But I'm also trying to think of some trickier examples.
/r/askTRP25/07/17 04:40 PM
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Fair enough ty
/r/askTRP25/07/17 02:56 PM
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I know how she would respond. She would tell me she will stop hanging out with them. I have her in the palm of my hands. But I also know it's not the way to go. So yea I guess I see what you're saying
/r/askTRP24/07/17 10:51 PM
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Doesn't she deserve the right to know? I mean red pill doesn't say be a heartless piece of shit. Or is this just something I should lie about and say it's another reason
/r/askTRP24/07/17 10:01 PM
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So that's it's. she has guy friends. There's nothing to be said or done about it. The relationship is done. No communication. No explanation.
/r/askTRP24/07/17 09:30 PM
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Nope. She just doesn't see it as an issue because she is naive. I can either make her communicate with her and give her the option or just keep things how they are and never let her know why I won't date her
/r/askTRP24/07/17 09:24 PM
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Yes I have read it. What did I miss?
/r/askTRP24/07/17 09:23 PM
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Or Bc I work like I stated in the post... She wanted me to come. Kept saying she wishes I'd call off and go. There's no doubt in my mind she's not even attracted to this guy. He's not better than me. Nor am I worried about any cheating. It's more when do I take action. Say something to this kid when (and it will come) I meet him. Or just befriend him. If he crosses that boundary in front of me it will taken care of. But I never met the kid. The more I think about it. It's just my ego worrying ab…
/r/askMRP19/07/17 03:43 PM
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Honestly don't think it's that. I made it unclear. She came home but not because of that. She said she wanted to spend time with me and didn't want to go to another bar and drink more and feel like shit. He was one of those "hey where's my hug?" Kind of guys as she was leaving. Now if she really knew he was coming or not till the day before I don't know. If I bring that up I will come across as butt hurt and she will probably say that everything is okay
/r/askMRP19/07/17 01:26 PM
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Would you like proof of this?
/r/askMRP19/07/17 01:21 PM
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I also wipe front to back.
/r/askMRP19/07/17 01:20 PM
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Yes!
/r/askMRP19/07/17 01:13 PM
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I actually do sit down to piss. It's more relaxing
/r/askMRP19/07/17 07:20 AM
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probably
/r/askMRP19/07/17 07:19 AM
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I do trust her. She has been very very loyal to me and she has shown it even at times she didn't know I was looking. So yes youre right about my ego and hamster. The facts are I'm not the slightest bit worried when it comes to her and that guy. But a part of me feels disrespected. That he made her feel uncomfortable and she has a SO. He did it right in front of his gf. I never met this guy. I just didn't like the fact she came home Bc she was uncomfortable by whatever he was doing. And now he's …
/r/askMRP19/07/17 05:11 AM
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When did I say anywhere there I didn't care. I said I care about her and I formed an emotional connect. I just said I dont mind not ever talking to her again. id rather keep her around but I don't mind nexting her. She fits the type of person And role I want her to fit in my life and it was a good thing. The accusations were not true and I'd be honest with her about it like I always was. Nexting her ain't the problem but if I can salvage it I will like to do that. That's what I want to do. But a…
/r/askTRP23/08/16 08:28 PM
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Honestly man I thought about taking that route but that's the second time she's flaked and she's been playing hard to get. I'm way out of her league anyway so at this point I was annoyed as fuck. Idc how it looked she's cut off and I'll continue fucking hotter women.
/r/askTRP19/08/16 04:44 PM
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Didn't reply to first one. Second one planned to come over at 930. I was running a little late at the gym and she said she didn't feel like moving and she though she was just going to stay home. I told her stop being lazy. She said meh. That's the second time she said meh when I told her to come over but SHE text me about it first. I told her she plays too many games. She said whatever then. And I said 👌🏻And deleted her number. She's wasting my time and not hot enough for the hassle
/r/askTRP19/08/16 02:18 PM
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I'd say more of a comfort test
/r/askTRP18/08/16 10:42 PM
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Perfect that's what I did lol.
/r/askTRP18/08/16 10:27 PM
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Wouldn't it be best to treat it as a comfort test? I edited the one part. We haven't fucked yet this would be our second hangout although I had her shirt off and after she sent me nudes. She knows I get women she wants to probably feel like I'm not treating her like just another of my women.
/r/askTRP18/08/16 10:08 PM
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