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| 51 | Post of woman who went through a devastating break up, because her husband left her for a younger woman. Proof that hypergamy is stupid, and toxic people exist in both genders. | steelyphil1234 | /r/ExRedPill | 07/12/20 05:07 PM | |
| 11 | Toxic relationship exposed me to the redpill. Hard to detox. | steelyphil1234 | /r/ExRedPill | 27/11/20 05:18 PM | |
| 1 | Is hypergamy equivalent to how we view the workplace? | steelyphil1234 | /r/MGTOW2 | 20/05/20 04:18 PM |
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| 13 | Do redpill men have mother issues?I have amazing parents. They’ve been married 31 years now. I fell to the red pill due to a toxic relationship. That being said I was never a misogynistic asshole, even when red pilled. I couldn’t agree with all of the hate, but I did fall for hypergamy, alpha male, monkey branching, and all of that other stuff. I think the majority of men on there are bitter and heartbroken, and haven’t healed from their toxic relationship. | /r/ExRedPill | 31/03/21 07:29 PM |
| 2 | I can’t control my anger and hate towards young girls anymoreI see. I think we need to take things one step at a time here. First thing you need to work on is the negative view you have on women. I understand where you’re coming from, because I’ve been there. What helped me release me from this mentality is viewing other loving couples. My parents, cousins, aunts, etc, have all been in great long term relationships. If they’ve been successful, then that clearly means that not all women are sluts. | /r/ExRedPill | 15/12/20 07:12 PM |
| 2 | I can’t control my anger and hate towards young girls anymoreI think you’re giving off the wrong energy around to these women. Have a fun, playful, leave it or take attitude. The more their behavior affects you, the more bitter you become. I’ve had female friends that have been flirty at times, and I flirt back, and we laugh about. The more cool and non chalant you act, the more confident you appear. | /r/ExRedPill | 15/12/20 07:01 PM |
| 1 | I can’t control my anger and hate towards young girls anymoreStart being friends with more girls, and I mean genuinely be friends with them. Don’t have an ulterior motive to get in their pants. I noticed that once I became friends with them, some started to develop crushes on me over time. As cliche as it sounds, be yourself. | /r/ExRedPill | 15/12/20 06:54 PM |
| 1 | Post of woman who went through a devastating break up, because her husband left her for a younger woman. Proof that hypergamy is stupid, and toxic people exist in both genders.Gotcha. Thanks! | /r/ExRedPill | 08/12/20 02:31 AM |
| 1 | Post of woman who went through a devastating break up, because her husband left her for a younger woman. Proof that hypergamy is stupid, and toxic people exist in both genders.Ohh, so hypergamy is the continuous climbing of the social ladder to get the best mate. Yeah, my understanding was wrong. I kept thinking that it meant a person would 100%, without a doubt, leave their partner if they fell under temptation of seduction. Thanks for the info! | /r/ExRedPill | 08/12/20 02:26 AM |
| 1 | Post of woman who went through a devastating break up, because her husband left her for a younger woman. Proof that hypergamy is stupid, and toxic people exist in both genders.Ah okay, I see your point. I never heard of hypergamy until I became involved with the red pill, so that was the only definition that I had of it. I guess I unconsciously associated hypergamy with shitty behavior. Just curious, how would you explain a gold digging person? | /r/ExRedPill | 08/12/20 02:15 AM |
| 0 | Post of woman who went through a devastating break up, because her husband left her for a younger woman. Proof that hypergamy is stupid, and toxic people exist in both genders.Who do you mean by people? An entire gender? Red pill’s definition of hypergamy says ALL women fall under this. That is what I mean when I say that I don’t believe it. What exactly are to trying to fight here? | /r/ExRedPill | 08/12/20 01:29 AM |
| 1 | Post of woman who went through a devastating break up, because her husband left her for a younger woman. Proof that hypergamy is stupid, and toxic people exist in both genders.Explain the difference for me please. Hypergamy can be umbrella’d under toxic in my opinion. | /r/ExRedPill | 08/12/20 01:19 AM |
| 1 | Post of woman who went through a devastating break up, because her husband left her for a younger woman. Proof that hypergamy is stupid, and toxic people exist in both genders.I don’t believe it to be a gender wide issue. It’s not that black and white. SOME (not all) men and SOME (not all) women are toxic. | /r/ExRedPill | 08/12/20 01:10 AM |
| 7 | Post of woman who went through a devastating break up, because her husband left her for a younger woman. Proof that hypergamy is stupid, and toxic people exist in both genders.Making it clear now “hoss”. | /r/ExRedPill | 07/12/20 08:12 PM |
| 10 | Post of woman who went through a devastating break up, because her husband left her for a younger woman. Proof that hypergamy is stupid, and toxic people exist in both genders.Ah okay, I think I worded that incorrectly. By “stupid” I meant “stupid to believe that it exists”. I don’t believe hypergamy is real. I do think that BOTH genders can be attracted to others while in a committed relationship, but doesn’t necessarily mean one will cheat. | /r/ExRedPill | 07/12/20 08:01 PM |
| 15 | Post of woman who went through a devastating break up, because her husband left her for a younger woman. Proof that hypergamy is stupid, and toxic people exist in both genders.I don’t understand what you’re trying to prove here. My point is that shitty people exist in both genders, it’s not exclusive to women. | /r/ExRedPill | 07/12/20 07:50 PM |
| 19 | Post of woman who went through a devastating break up, because her husband left her for a younger woman. Proof that hypergamy is stupid, and toxic people exist in both genders.I understand, but just because you’re unhappy, that doesn’t give a person the right to be unfaithful. If they both want to make the relationship work, they should work to fix it. If that fails, then you can separate/divorce in a mature way. There’s never an excuse for cheating. | /r/ExRedPill | 07/12/20 07:12 PM |
| 23 | Post of woman who went through a devastating break up, because her husband left her for a younger woman. Proof that hypergamy is stupid, and toxic people exist in both genders.Red pill seems to think that only women are looking for the bigger better deal. It goes both ways. Both men and women are capable of being assholes. | /r/ExRedPill | 07/12/20 07:01 PM |
| 4 | Some hope to any ex-TRP men still skepticalThank you for this. I really needed to hear this. | /r/ExRedPill | 29/11/20 01:57 AM |
| 1 | Toxic relationship exposed me to the redpill. Hard to detox.I agree. It’s not really that that I had an issue with though, it was more the lying and manipulation. If she would’ve told me: “hey, I feel like we’re drifting apart, and I don’t feel the same love as I used to, I think we should break up,” then I would be more accepting and think of her as a mature adult. But she went the route of “you’re not a Christian, I love you so much, but we can’t be together because it’s against the Bible.” And then she goes and sleeps with non-Christian men. It leaves… | /r/ExRedPill | 28/11/20 07:23 AM |
| 1 | Ex-red pillers, how were you brought up when growing up?Loving mother and father, they’re still together now. They did however have infidelity problems. My father cheated 2 times, I saw my mother break down crying. Then I’m my late teens my mother cheated on my father. I think they got it out of their system, and are doing okay now. | /r/ExRedPill | 27/11/20 10:30 PM |
| 0 | Toxic relationship exposed me to the redpill. Hard to detox.Yeah, reflecting back now, it’s scares me into thinking that the person I fell in love with doesn’t really exist. I’m also a bit worried about my mental state. What’s wrong with me that I tolerated this shit for years? | /r/ExRedPill | 27/11/20 08:02 PM |
| 2 | Toxic relationship exposed me to the redpill. Hard to detox.Interesting....I kinda did not want to hear that. The Red Pill seems to think that women with daddy issues are correlated with BPD. So are they right about that? | /r/ExRedPill | 27/11/20 06:50 PM |
| 4 | Toxic relationship exposed me to the redpill. Hard to detox.Thank you for your post. I’ve come a long way since the break up, and I’ve weaned off of Red Pill for a few months now. It’s really hard because it was my first and only relationship, so it’s my only experience in terms of dating. I’ll keep pushing through. | /r/ExRedPill | 27/11/20 06:48 PM |
| 2 | Is hypergamy equivalent to how we view the workplace?Valid point. Fair enough | /r/MGTOW2 | 21/05/20 03:12 PM |
| 4 | Is hypergamy equivalent to how we view the workplace?Exactly! To me the comparison almost eerily similar. In my situation, I’m very happy at my current company. It is honestly the best company that I’ve ever worked for, it’s very laid back, no stress at all, amazing salary, and I can’t believe that I’m willing to throw it all away for another company with more prestige, who would give me a better salary/benefits. I am risking joining a company that could have a horrible company culture, where I’d possibly be really stressed out. I’m a little scare… | /r/MGTOW2 | 21/05/20 12:15 PM |
| 1 | Porn is mental slaveryNothing wrong with porn as long as you don’t abuse it. Just like every vice in the world. | /r/MGTOW2 | 18/04/20 04:45 PM |
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