steezmonster99 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
20	How to consistently be Confident/Alpha/Positive		steezmonster99	/r/seduction	31/03/16 11:33 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
5	How to ask out a waitress? Now this is good advice.	/r/seduction	12/11/21 05:49 AM
2	For casual dating, should men suggest to go back to either person's house at the end of the date, or should we wait for the woman to suggest it? Men suggest it. You are definitely expected to lead to that point. If she wants to come home with you it’s your job to make it happen. Make it easy for her to come home with you. It should just be an extension of the fun you guys are already having out. The best way is to suggest an innocent way for this to occur. For example, if you hit it off about drinking you might share that you’re amazing at making drinks. Or that you have a great view or literally anything. If this is something you guys c…	/r/seduction	26/07/21 04:36 AM
2	So uuhhh, I got a date this weekend Congrats man! Have fun!	/r/seduction	01/06/21 03:31 AM
1	Is 22. hours too long for me to respond? Couldn’t she just be in the same boat you’re in? Maybe she’s busy today? She’ll either get back to you or not man. If she doesn’t then she’s not really interested and you get to find that out now instead of later after putting more effort into it.	/r/seduction	16/04/21 08:24 PM
5	Would you date someone who trips on lsd but doesn’t drink alcohol? Hah, that’s a personal choice. I think how often they use that drug is a big factor. Keep in mind many successful people have used LSD before. It’s definitely not something most people use just to get high though. For me personally, if someone chooses to have an acid trip every year or so it’s not a huge deal breaker. Overall if this person isn’t in line with your life and values then just have fun and keep it moving!	/r/seduction	04/04/21 05:28 PM
2	"Pick up artist" David Bond is a fraud I always felt like the natural lifestyles wasn’t bad. Probably because of how tame and realistic the infield reactions were haha. But I do agree with you. At some point it’s just about getting out of your own way and taking action.	/r/seduction	26/03/21 07:00 PM
-1	Do you think 27 is too late of an age to start becoming good at this seduction stuff? Yup	/r/seduction	21/03/21 12:05 AM
3	Literature for seduction? Read Corey Wayne’s 3% man book	/r/seduction	30/01/21 02:50 AM
1	Got ghosted by the most beautiful woman I've ever been with... How'd you hit your stride?	/r/seduction	23/02/18 02:52 AM
9	I feel like girls are my main motivation for self-improvement. Is that bad? except dudes.	/r/seduction	04/01/18 05:47 AM
2	What the F happened to my humof At the very least take control of what you can to improve your external reality. Get back to the gym, get rid of the ex, and self-amuse. Be proud you're focused on life and school. Life sometimes feels super easy and fun all the damn time. Other times, not that much. Being congruent is great. But also, don't attach so much meaning to how you feel. Hang out with your good friends and enjoy life.	/r/seduction	24/12/17 05:52 AM
1	[21M] Never asked a girl out. I've always written myself off as unattractive. People told me that I'm just being too hard on myself and that I'm above average.... Stop being harsh on yourself man. Have you heard the phrase "focus on the soil, not the seed." If you're growin a plant from the seed, you can't change the seed. You can, however, make sure that the soil and conditions are ideal to get the best possible product. You can't control your genetics/height. You can control your fitness, your style and your confidence. Take action to improve what you can and don't think about what you can't.	/r/seduction	01/06/17 01:44 AM
2	[21M] Never asked a girl out. I've always written myself off as unattractive. People told me that I'm just being too hard on myself and that I'm above average.... Dude it's all in your head. Yes, especially random women on the street.	/r/seduction	01/06/17 01:38 AM
1	[21M] Never asked a girl out. I've always written myself off as unattractive. People told me that I'm just being too hard on myself and that I'm above average.... Even though they won't admit it, 9/10 women have a short fetish. Also, * if the girl is being hit on by literally 35 other men "hey, what's up?"	/r/seduction	01/06/17 01:32 AM
1	Girls online won't even talk to me. Do I have hope approaching in person? Hey, I want you to give yourself a break. It sounds like you're being really hard on yourself. Sadly, I think most guys these days have trouble with dating and especially approaching women in person. It's going to be tough because you're going to have to go through a lot of discomfort and growing pains to become as successful with women as you want to be. But you can do it. So now, some thoughts about your online dating experience. It's more than likely that your dating profile could use an over…	/r/seduction	01/06/17 01:25 AM
4	[21M] Never asked a girl out. I've always written myself off as unattractive. People told me that I'm just being too hard on myself and that I'm above average.... Here's what I do for height: if the girl is shorter than you "hey, what's up?" if the girl is your height "hey, what's up?" if the girl is taller than you "hey, what's up?" if the girl is wearing heels "hey, what's up?" if the girl is _______ "hey, what's up?" Stop making excuses for yourself.	/r/seduction	01/06/17 01:00 AM
1	[21M] Never asked a girl out. I've always written myself off as unattractive. People told me that I'm just being too hard on myself and that I'm above average.... If you lose weight, there's a 100% chance that you'll look better than you do now. So fucking do it. Interact with women you don't know in whatever way you can. Look into their eyes as you walk past them. If that's for half a millisecond to start with then that's fine. Get better at it until making eye contact isn't that bad. Then say "Hi." Literally that's your prepared interaction. Let it be awkward, fuck it. When you get comfortable with that you'll be able to have conversations. When you get…	/r/seduction	01/06/17 12:55 AM
1	Advice on "rehearsing" dating strategies? Get a friend to rehearse with you. Literally, tell a good friend to pretend to be a girl (or have a friend whose a girl help you) and have a conversation. Tell him to challenge and shit test you. Tell him to point out anything weird you do. Also much like interview preparation, the real value you take away from rehearsing is not a prepared plan for every circumstance and response, but the preparation to handle things you won't have rehearsed. I think there's a fine balance between putting on a p…	/r/seduction	31/05/17 09:10 PM
2	How can I get better at telling stories? Feel really, really good. That's the key. You could tell a boring story like how you took out the trash, how you couldn't decide between two options on a restaurant menu, how it was a bit warm in the car on the drive home from work so you cracked the windows down and it felt nice and cool. Literally anything. As long as you share that fun, happy, emotional vibe then people will eat it up. In the past I was really shit at telling stories and always admired those who could do it. When I started le…	/r/seduction	29/05/17 06:07 PM
1	What Sexual Intent Really Is, Why It's So Powerful, and How To Use It Effectively Thanks! This is great advice!	/r/seduction	29/05/17 05:50 PM
2	What Sexual Intent Really Is, Why It's So Powerful, and How To Use It Effectively Thanks for sharing this, it reminded me of a lot that I've been forgetting. I think I need some help with subtlety and execution though. Telling a woman outright that you want to fuck her brains out may be displaying your full sexual intent but it's 80% of the time going to be too much for her to handle. What's the guiding compass to calibrate how much intent to show. I think when we first learn these concepts it's easy to overdo it.	/r/seduction	25/05/17 02:42 PM
3	Pretty much fell in love today dude. should've gotten her number/social media as a connection to have if you;re ever in her town/ vice versa. She's amazing but you'll be over her in like 4 days	/r/seduction	22/05/17 04:36 AM
1	Thinking about leaving game Sounds like you're having a lot of fun but not being yourself. Try doing day game and just chatting people up with no objective. One of my favorite things about learning game is being a more expressive version of myself that's the most "me" i've ever put out there.	/r/seduction	11/05/17 02:09 AM
1	Thinking about leaving game They're both true. Do both. Believe in both. Be water.	/r/seduction	11/05/17 02:01 AM
2	Thinking about leaving game I will just say a few things. When you're trying to transform who you are, there's going to be a period of time where you're weird and unnatural. It's up to you to decide whether game is adding or taking more from your life. If you feel robotic, it's because you're not being yourself and present to the moment. But probably the biggest piece of advice I can give you is to get off the damn computer. You sound like you're buried in theory. "Hey guys, I watched a 1000 videos from RSD and then I trie…	/r/seduction	09/05/17 10:24 PM
1	Thinking about leaving game I feel like 85% of RSD content is on personal growth and changing inner beliefs that lead to genuine confidence.	/r/seduction	09/05/17 10:13 PM
2	How can you check girls out without being creepy? The key is to not be a sneaky fuck. The creepy guy is watching her. The normal guy sees her, notices her, likes what he sees and is okay with that. He can go up and say hello or not, but he's okay with himself. The creepy guy knows he can't approach her and is watching her for as long as he can get away with. I will add, its creepy to spend too much time staring at her regardless of your mindset. You don't know each other and to be so personally invested in her that you would look at her for the…	/r/seduction	09/05/17 09:52 PM
13	I am 27 never had a girlfriend This is shit advice. He's had 27 years of time addressing all other aspects of his life. OP is unable to bring women into his life, at all. More neglect isn't going to resolve this issue. Things won't fall into place. OP, for now, learn how to pick up women and the inner beliefs that make that possible. YouTube has a lot of great resources on this. A few of my recommendations are Real Social Dynamics, James Marshall, The Fearless Man, The 21 Convention, and Corey Wayne. They'll all differ in wha…	/r/seduction	02/05/17 10:24 PM
1	How to build "real" inner value ? Hey dude, all I can say is STICK WITH IT. Your response to me sounds like it's coming from a lot better place than your original post. There are very naturally going to be ups and downs both with your inner confidence and the external circumstances. Learning inner game is more like an inward spiral than a straight line. You're going to re-learn the same lesson over and over again and each time it will become more and more a part of you. Everytime you're going through pain, you're going to have t…	/r/seduction	02/01/17 08:09 PM
1	How to build "real" inner value ? After getting 6 pack abs for the first time, looking great and getting tons of external validation my newfound happiness quickly disappeared. You can keep adding value, but at some point you have to realize that "you are enough." It's great to continue to work on self development, but you have to realize that you never needed to do any of it because all of the value is already there. Start by watching Julien from RSD's videos about happiness and Tyler's RSD videos about abundance. Stick with it …	/r/seduction	12/12/16 04:36 AM