stevenpsmith117 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
19	Divorce survivor guilt		stevenpsmith117	/r/Divorce_Men	15/08/25 02:38 AM
1	Moving out of the house I kept after the end		stevenpsmith117	/r/Divorce_Men	26/03/24 07:15 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Divorce survivor guilt Wow. You seem to know a lot about me and my situation. Carry on.	/r/Divorce_Men	15/08/25 04:25 AM
2	Divorce survivor guilt I kept the house and forfeited my stake in her pension. She had to live her best life and just left most of the house contents. So she had to replace it all to start in her new place. Stupid move on her part.	/r/Divorce_Men	15/08/25 04:21 AM
3	Divorce survivor guilt She did	/r/Divorce_Men	15/08/25 04:20 AM
6	Never Thought I Would Be Here, But Here I Am. Desperate For Advice. Change your direct deposit, too. Usually, you can’t do anything to a shared marital account. Take out cash that’s not ridiculous and pay your mutual bills out of the marital account. Going forward, your money is yours. Fuck her	/r/Divorce_Men	07/11/24 01:38 PM
6	Never Thought I Would Be Here, But Here I Am. Desperate For Advice. Go after her business. If she has equity, there is value to be had. You guys should walk away clean split. Or fight her and out-lawyer her, if you make that much more. If she wants your money, make her come and get it. No hand outs when she’s fucking a kid.	/r/Divorce_Men	07/11/24 01:34 PM
11	To the newcomers here, listen to this closely. I’d like to add a couple things. Forgive. You may have done some bad things but odds are good that you weren’t the only one. To help with number 1,find yourself a good counselor. Find your release. Mtn biking was that for me. There’s no time to think about bad shit when you’re in nature. That’s how my brain worked anyhow.	/r/Divorce_Men	06/08/24 02:02 PM
2	To the newcomers here, listen to this closely. Not gonna lie, I got out and had a lot of flings. It helped remind me that I’m not as undesirable as my ex made me feel. I had a lot of fun!	/r/Divorce_Men	06/08/24 01:59 PM
5	Is my wife cheating? Dude, this is going to continue. This pattern will not go away until she comes out and acknowledges the inappropriate nature of her actions. Take the money and run. Sorry to tell you but you know in your head that she’s not gonna change	/r/Divorce_Men	14/07/24 02:12 PM
1	I Can’t Stop Crying Today Hang in there. We’re here for you!	/r/Divorce_Men	05/06/24 01:39 PM
1	I need advice guys Yup. Two kids. I love them both. In the interest of getting it done I agreed to joint custody and a 60/40 split of time in her favor. I see them all the time. They’re older now and have cars so even when they’re there, they drop in. My ex weaponozed the shit out of them. Turned them against me. It took a solid 6 months to get through all of that after the divorce. Definitely a year before it was normal. My ex wants to be their friend, not a parent. Naturally they aligned with her until they real…	/r/Divorce_Men	30/04/24 12:21 AM
1	I need advice guys Get an attorney and set up your direct deposit to another account asap. Take half of the marital account and let her know. There’s no easy way. You have to rip off the bandaid. I’ve been through all of what you have gone through and I got caught with the emotional cheating too. But by then it was over after two rounds of counseling with her. she checked out a long time ago.	/r/Divorce_Men	29/04/24 12:08 PM
2	Sexually Frustrated I had more sex after divorce than I did before my exwife. After years of boring sex that I had to beg for, it was fun to go out and make up for lost time. I did t sleep around too casually but I had fun. It was a good confidence booster too. I’m happy now with my love of my life. But if you were ignored for a while, hit tinder and don’t apologize for doing it. It’s normal thing to do.	/r/Divorce_Men	27/03/24 01:20 AM
1	How do you cope with the anger and frustration that your spouse triggers in you? I found the best thing for me was to repeatedly say to myself, toward her, I forgive you	/r/Divorce_Men	26/03/24 07:17 PM