I’m divorced a few years now and In thr time since, I found a great fiancé, and have had a lot of success at work (after getting canned from a job I hated while I was getting divorced).

I make more then double what I did when I got divorced 5 years ago. New house with a newly renovated kitchen.

Ex had a deadbeat bf that she finally had to kick to the curb. She’s a teacher and things aren’t as lucrative for her. She struggles financially and often relies on my generosity with extra monthly money from time to time.

Not gonna lie, I feel a degree of survivor guilt. I’ve thrived and she’s struggled since. But this is what she wanted. Not sure what to say. I feel bad. I don’t want my kids seeing their mom struggle so I help where I can. I don’t want to but I do it for my kids.

Anyone else like this or am I an idiot for helping?