| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| – | Driving away good women because of my experienceNot looking to rush into marriage or cohabitation at all. But it raises the question of what exactly the end goal of dating is. | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/11/25 08:27 PM |
| – | Driving away good women because of my experienceLmao I can see you’ve never been married. Scurry back to your yaoi now | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/11/25 08:11 PM |
| – | Driving away good women because of my experienceWatched most of his stuff and it’s good. He’s hardline about staying single forever though. | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/11/25 07:51 PM |
| 3 | Gentelment, how long does it take to a divorced woman to realize that her life has changed and now she has to be accountable for herself?Yep, if we do it the behavior is a pattern. If they do it, it’s a reaction to us. | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/11/25 09:29 PM |
| 3 | “If he wanted to he would”, “bare minimum”, “girl’s girl”, etc. Red flags or simply internet memes?You’re pretty spot on with your interpretations. Now I’m curious about the state of Dutch women these days. | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/11/25 01:07 PM |
| 5 | “If he wanted to he would”, “bare minimum”, “girl’s girl”, etc. Red flags or simply internet memes?Yeah I got labeled a narcissist for setting very reasonable boundaries like “don’t scream at me in public” and “don’t make out with your friends at parties.” The term is so watered down by dumbass western women that it means nothing at all now. | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/11/25 09:54 PM |
| 4 | “If he wanted to he would”, “bare minimum”, “girl’s girl”, etc. Red flags or simply internet memes?For me it’s any of the Bravo Real Housewives series. Glorifies women being parasitic, materialistic leeches. | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/11/25 05:04 PM |
| 1 | Just a heads up men!How did they find it? Did you tie the account to your primary email or something? | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/11/25 01:31 PM |
| 5 | Stigma after divorceDon’t advertise it until a few dates where a woman can get a sense of your character and intent. Then it gets easier to frame your story to her. | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/11/25 01:22 PM |
| 8 | Fight or Flight?Didn’t learn your lesson the first time huh? | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/11/25 01:58 AM |
| 5 | Affection on first dates“My steak is too juicy and my lobster is too buttery” | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/11/25 02:53 PM |
| 4 | Don’t know if divorce is the right choice. Feeling stuckA child will only make this scenario worse. Do NOT respond to ultimatums. I did and it they chip away at your boundaries and autonomy and they’ll just end up leaving anyways. Let her put her money where her mouth is if she wants to throw that shit around. Good luck to her in finding someone to impregnate her in two years . | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/10/25 08:01 PM |
| 13 | Tik Tok and ChatGPT making women’s brain melt?Absolutely cucked behavior from those men content creators | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/10/25 02:11 PM |
| 8 | Tik Tok and ChatGPT making women’s brain melt?Wow, GOAT sister in law there. | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/10/25 01:57 PM |
| 1 | Divorce has been one of the best things to ever happen to me.Hang in there bro. Your kids are lucky to have you | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/10/25 09:23 PM |
| 1 | Divorce has been one of the best things to ever happen to me.Yeah, I think I’ll choose peace and autonomy from now on | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/10/25 01:57 PM |
| 5 | Divorce has been one of the best things to ever happen to me.Mine too and I didn’t see it. It was like being a frog in the pot | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/10/25 12:56 PM |
| 5 | Divorce has been one of the best things to ever happen to me.Yeah I gave my wife too much leeway because I just thought it’s what you do. But they’ll seize it and get you twisted up. They will sit and wait and lick their chops for the opportunity for years. Absolutely diabolical creatures!! | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/10/25 12:51 PM |
| 5 | Divorce has been one of the best things to ever happen to me.I’d gamble your wife was telling you to make more money too while also complaining about hours. Cant win with them. | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/10/25 12:49 PM |
| 13 | Divorce has been one of the best things to ever happen to me.No kids, so clean sever. Definitely sympathize with guys who can’t go no contact | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/10/25 08:06 PM |
| 12 | Divorce has been one of the best things to ever happen to me.Pretty cliche, but: John Griffin Life 2.0 YouTube channel No More Mr Nice Guy The Rational Male Essays on Self Reliance | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/10/25 05:38 PM |
| 11 | Divorce has been one of the best things to ever happen to me.Good for you man. Mine said a bunch of horrible shit at the end to hurt me and I still am working through it | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/10/25 04:21 PM |
| 0 | Am I a Narcissist, according to Divorce Coaches I am ?Tf are you even talking about man | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/10/25 12:08 PM |
| 1 | Am I a Narcissist, according to Divorce Coaches I am ?Nope. Wife walked out on her vows. She can deal with the consequences and legal process. | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/10/25 12:06 PM |
| 12 | Am I a Narcissist, according to Divorce Coaches I am ?Every single divorced woman says this bullshit. Recently, I asked three of them the definition of a narcissist and they gave me three wildly different answers. She is just trying to poison the well and hurt you. Also, a clinical narcissist would not be capable of doing the introspection you’re doing right now. Classic projection from these broads that if you interfere with giving them the material goods they’re scheming after, then you’re a “narcissist.” | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/10/25 11:29 AM |
| 3 | Men who got walked out on, is it offensive when your STBX says they mourned your marriage during it?Curious as to what the women in your support group said? I also attended a group like that and was surprised that a lot of women were supportive of me. Luck of the draw probably, | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/10/25 07:17 PM |
| 3 | How are you meeting new women now?Moved back to NYC and paid for a Hinge subscription got 200 likes in a weekend. In contrast, in my small Midwest town I’d get like two a week. Gotta go where the abundance is. | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/09/25 02:39 AM |
| 1 | Why the fuck would anyone get married again?If you stand up for yourself they will just call you controlling and abusive | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/09/25 04:41 PM |
| 8 | You know what’s worse than divorce?Women love to label men that as a silver bullet to make them seem like victims or justify their leaving. But they can absolutely have it. My ex 100% was a narcissist | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/09/25 12:23 PM |
| 1 | How to let go of a desire for justice?How long did it take for the loop to end | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/09/25 01:49 PM |
| 18 | Question for divorced men who don’t want a relationship and visit prostitutes.Condoms don’t fully protect you from a fwb either. For the most part, sex workers are safer, cheaper, and way less drama. A lot of guys in this sub have been arrested when their wives put out a bullshit TRO on them, so maybe they’re fine with the risk. | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/09/25 11:55 PM |
| 2 | How to let go of a desire for justice?Thankfully not | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/09/25 05:58 PM |
| 2 | How to let go of a desire for justice?Nah I got it all back, minus realtor fees. Only had it for a month and she would’ve had a hard time making a legal case for it. | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/09/25 05:57 PM |
| 11 | Club I thought I’d never be inYour wife isn’t your friend anymore. Learn from my mistake and don’t try to get any type of reassurance or soothing from her. Keep all communications brief and in writing. Don’t say emotional things | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/09/25 04:34 PM |
| 6 | MotivationShe doesn’t care bro. Stop giving her mental power over you. | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/09/25 04:22 PM |
| 8 | MotivationBlock her ass bro. That bitch should be irrelevant to you. | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/09/25 04:16 PM |
| 8 | Getting a GAL was the wrong call.A GAL got my dad 100% custody in a time when that was absolutely unheard of | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/09/25 08:40 PM |
| 10 | 33 yo divorced manDidn’t learn your lesson the first time? | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/09/25 03:14 AM |
| 1 | How to not internalize things she said to me towards the end?Her family is always going to take her side during a divorce. It’s just the nature of the game. I loved my wife’s family to a degree, but cut them off completely when this process began. I would have been delusional to think they would have taken my side .Have your friends come to support you throughout this process at all? Then they’re either on your side or not truly friends. You’ve got to stop placing so much value on external validation man. It’s one of the hardest lessons I had to learn thr… | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/09/25 12:35 PM |
| 1 | How to not internalize things she said to me towards the end?Yeah, hopefully you don’t have kids and can go no contact. Even my LGBT friends think people who go to pride are losers. If they didn’t like you, you should probably take that as a compliment. It also just sounds like your ex was trying to manipulate that guy into coming out (no pun intended.) It doesn’t sound like there’s any evidence they didn’t like you. Also if they didn’t? Who cares what a bunch of catty limp wrists thinks, they don’t govern your life. | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/09/25 12:20 PM |
| 2 | How to not internalize things she said to me towards the end?Twinks don’t even like themselves or each other, so I wouldn’t read too much into it. That’s super shitty of her though, hope you ended it shortly after. | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/09/25 11:22 AM |
| 1 | How to not internalize things she said to me towards the end?Shit, I am the child of an alcoholic and had to parent my mom growing up. But I do love physical affection and had the opposite experience with my wife. | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/09/25 10:17 AM |
| 1 | How to not internalize things she said to me towards the end?He personally gave me a gift. I had given so much to her over the past few months. Blowing up my life in NYC to move to her midwestern hometown, spending my life savings on a house she asked for, scraping together money for a new TV she demanded even though our liquidity was stretched. I thought it was fair that I do one thing for myself. But she tried to claim that everything was shared between us, while keeping all her assets separate. The arrangement she had agreed to (I didn’t force this) wa… | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/09/25 10:16 AM |
| 4 | How to not internalize things she said to me towards the end?Yep, Tik Tok has rotted a lot of women’s brains | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/09/25 02:19 AM |
| 5 | Narcissist STBXW engaging in Non Verbal Hostility, Slamming Doors, cleaning incessantlyBuy some noise cancelling headphones and let that bitch throw her temper tantrum. That’s the only power she has. | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/09/25 10:14 PM |
| 25 | Lol - why is every man a “narcissist”Because women often project their own qualities onto people in their life | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/09/25 05:31 PM |
| 2 | Why the fuck would anyone get married again?I think it’s pretty common after reviewing a lot of the stories on here. More common than I realized before getting married | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/09/25 10:00 PM |
| 1 | Why the fuck would anyone get married again?*enlightened and worldly men | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/09/25 12:50 PM |
| 4 | Why the fuck would anyone get married again?Thanks, I don’t have hard proof but suspect it. Doesn’t matter to me now though. I’m traveling internationally and living it up while she gets slutted out in a studio apartment. I feel somewhat fortunate it happened now and not 10-15 years from now with kids. | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/09/25 12:23 PM |
| 5 | Why the fuck would anyone get married again?Dated seven years. She blew up the marriage after nine months. | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/09/25 12:04 PM |
| 1 | Did you have sex with your wife after separating?Nah, I cast that bitch back out to the streets | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/09/25 01:43 PM |
| 16 | Why the fuck would anyone get married again?Or I could have peace by myself and not have to entertain their bullshit games | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/09/25 01:00 AM |
| 17 | Why the fuck would anyone get married again?Sounds like I need to walk around Whole Foods on a weekend looking confused | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/09/25 06:19 PM |
| 4 | Why the fuck would anyone get married again?😂 exactly. Don’t forget parroting some disinformation or asking to go on a vacation she saw on Tik Tok | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/09/25 04:50 PM |
| 11 | Why the fuck would anyone get married again?Agreed. It’s not loneliness. It’s solitude and autonomy. | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/09/25 04:32 PM |
| 5 | Why the fuck would anyone get married again?Idk if I’m necessarily “over it emotionally.” But I’m a little over four months in. Watching John Griffin Life 2.0 videos and journaling regularly helped immensely. | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/09/25 04:28 PM |
| 4 | Why the fuck would anyone get married again?That’s fair, but I’m not going around busting in strange women so it’s less of a concern for me, personally. | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/09/25 04:17 PM |
| 6 | Why the fuck would anyone get married again?The women I’m dating aren’t even close to menopause, but I know it’s like playing with a loaded gun to lock one down for that reason | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/09/25 04:13 PM |
| 8 | Why the fuck would anyone get married again?A prenup doesn’t protect you from child support and custody judgements and can be thrown out if a judge is a bleeding heart | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/09/25 04:10 PM |
| 1 | I think my stbxw is in AI Psychosis, and I don’t know what to doI genuinely believe that AI played a significant part in my divorce and think these cases will only become more common | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/09/25 06:08 PM |
| 4 | I can't be the only one who feels this way in retrospectSo glad for you my man. Love this attitude of positivity. I also feel like my life is easier and more peaceful now she is gone | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/09/25 03:54 PM |
| 9 | Another message from the exYou’re giving me hope my man. Hope my ex is miserable in whatever her next relationship is and texts me so I can tell her what for. Also, just keep blocking her. | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/09/25 12:01 PM |
| 1 | Need some gentle perspective on post-divorce datingDog out #2 then find some new plates | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/09/25 12:18 AM |
| 26 | When does it stop?Take your ex off a pedestal. She doesn’t love you if she cheated and ended your marriage and impacted your children to pursue an AP. I know that it stings but try to think reasonably here. Put that energy into your new girl who treats you better or don’t string her along if she really is a wonderful girl. | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/09/25 01:10 AM |
| 6 | She keeps watching videos about avoidant personalitiesI’m really hoping there is some cosmic justice for women who rewire their brains like this. Like, once they’re all alone supporting themselves and can’t blame anyone but themselves for their unhappiness. Or bringing that tik tok “men are trash” bullshit into a new relationship surely can’t work well. | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/09/25 09:31 AM |
| 2 | She keeps watching videos about avoidant personalitiesMy ex sent me a text after leaving about how living in her new studio apartment with an ill behaved dog was “empowering”. But I still had bank statements coming into our budgeting app and saw that her dad had helped her with two months of rent lmao | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/09/25 09:28 AM |
| 4 | She keeps watching videos about avoidant personalitiesThe week before my wife left me she accused me of “discarding her” which didn’t make sense to me at all. But looking back it was 100% projection. | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/09/25 09:27 AM |
| 2 | What music do you like now?Divorced dad rock, Gordon Lightfoot, & Elliott Smith | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/09/25 06:17 PM |
| 4 | How did you all cope during a divorce? Feel absolutely broken.Dating apps actually worked okay for me when looking for casual hookups. Just be prepared to enforce boundaries and cut these women off liberally. It is a lot of work, but not hopeless. I’m not sure you should be using them if your goal is long term though. | /r/Divorce_Men | 31/08/25 10:44 AM |
| 5 | How did you all cope during a divorce? Feel absolutely broken.I’m 31 and similar situation. You need to cut contact with her completely if you can. Then allow time to begin the healing process. Block her on every social media outlet, ideally also any of her friends who might post her. Delete her photos, emails, texts. Block her number if you can and perform all the legal task through email. She doesn’t deserve any access to your life anymore. Sounds extreme, but this woman doesn’t love you and is no longer your friend. Cutting the tumor out of your life is… | /r/Divorce_Men | 31/08/25 10:42 AM |
| 1 | Any good subs for legal adviceR/legaladvice | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/08/25 06:16 PM |
| 14 | How did you make sense of her walking away after years together?It’s a failure on her, an abandonment of her vows and a weak character | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/08/25 09:37 PM |
| 7 | What was the final straw that led you to divorce?I feel this so much man. I was an angry shell of myself towards the end and she really convinced me that everything was my fault. Now life is so chill and easy. | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/08/25 06:27 AM |
| 1 | What did you do with your wedding ring ?Yeah but I like Lou better. Was just watching this and Dog Day Afternoon as comfort movies recently. Helps to keep off things during a dark time. | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/08/25 12:52 AM |
| 2 | What did you do with your wedding ring ?I love it lol, gonna unironically start using this | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/08/25 12:13 AM |
| 3 | What did you do with your wedding ring ?Just chucked it recently, it wasn’t doing anything for me. I never got attention from women while wearing it like some people talk about. I actually had the opposite experience entirely. | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/08/25 12:12 AM |
| 6 | What did you do with your wedding ring ?This spelling of Luca Brasi has me in tears 😂 thank you my man, much needed. Lou Cabrazze sounds like a dude who owns a pork roll shop in Elizabeth, NJ. | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/08/25 12:10 AM |
| 7 | How soon did your wife get into a relationship with someone elseDon’t know anything about that bitch’s life | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/08/25 09:45 PM |
| 3 | Thought I was over my ex, but I was mistakenYeah I had a dream overnight where I was arguing with my ex and her bitch sister despite being no contact with them for months. It threw off my whole day | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/08/25 08:22 PM |
| 3 | Venting about your ex - has it helped?It sounds very gay, but writing an unfiltered letter to her or her family and thoroughly expressing all your grievances then burning it or shredding it helps. | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/08/25 02:52 AM |
| 1 | Cities to consider moving now that my divorce is finalized?Thanks brotha! I also lived in Warrensburg for a bit. I’ll be coming south of you to Guatemala for a while in December. I went to Playa Del Carmen for my honeymoon so I’m not sure I’m in a place to go back anytime soon. It’s a beautiful place though and you’re probably saving hand over fist if you went remote. | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/08/25 08:41 PM |
| 1 | She left. It's time to fileSorry buddy. This woman isn’t your friend anymore. Stop doing her any favors | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/08/25 02:05 PM |
| 5 | Divorce survivor guiltWith kids it makes sense. If you didn’t have kids, it would be a different story. | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/08/25 03:16 AM |
| 1 | It's OK to block out her people.I blocked everyone who was connected with us and it was one of the best things I did. Nobody deserves access to you unless they’re 100% in your corner | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/08/25 02:23 PM |
| 8 | Was served today, I am fumingIt’s imperative you keep your cool, start documenting every interaction with her, get a lawyer. She can try to get full custody all she wants but that might not mean dick in a court of law if you can remain composed and work with your legal team to construct a factual defense. | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/07/25 01:52 AM |
| 3 | Wife doesn't want child support. Any work arounds?You need to talk to a lawyer and get it into a written settlement thats approved by a judge | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/07/25 08:04 PM |
| 3 | Have you had any luck meeting big booty latinas in your post-divorce life? What helped you succeed?I am looking for a new life purpose these days. That’s a noble goal that might fill it. | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/07/25 02:58 PM |
| 1 | Have you had any luck meeting big booty latinas in your post-divorce life? What helped you succeed?Begone with these Yakubian devils! | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/07/25 02:01 PM |
| 5 | Have you had any luck meeting big booty latinas in your post-divorce life? What helped you succeed?Yessir. No more white women 2k25 | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/07/25 01:35 PM |
| 2 | Have you had any luck meeting big booty latinas in your post-divorce life? What helped you succeed?I was thinking more of CDMX. But I’ve heard Baja is awesome and has some of the last affordable surf towns in all of North America | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/07/25 11:20 AM |
| 4 | Have you had any luck meeting big booty latinas in your post-divorce life? What helped you succeed?Love those big ol’ women in San Antonio, Erneh! | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/07/25 11:19 AM |
| 4 | Have you had any luck meeting big booty latinas in your post-divorce life? What helped you succeed?Those Modelo Especials are a hard habit to break | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/07/25 02:26 AM |
| 5 | Have you had any luck meeting big booty latinas in your post-divorce life? What helped you succeed?Really not a terrible post-divorce move | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/07/25 12:15 AM |
| 4 | Have you had any luck meeting big booty latinas in your post-divorce life? What helped you succeed?My man! | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/07/25 12:14 AM |
| 1 | Another one in the club, I guess.Women would be slipping their husbands antifreeze a lot more without no fault divorce mane | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/06/25 11:49 PM |
| 5 | She’s Building a Case Against MeThis is a playbook that’s common amongst women because they have leverage and a legal system that rewards it. I had a similar situation played against me when my wife was plotting to leave. | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/06/25 12:02 AM |
| 1 | I believe my ex wife is days away from having a nuclear weapon@mossad | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/06/25 07:17 PM |
| 7 | Do women really love differently?This is sort of my point. Why would I risk being with people who can silently check out because of their own individual happiness while they allow me to work my ass off while they plot. | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/06/25 11:22 AM |
| 3 | Do women really love differently?Wow, are you me? Eerily similar, except I’m not attempting to get her back. | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/06/25 11:33 PM |
| 2 | Do women really love differently?I honestly had no idea. This is good to know. I think she was projecting about her leaving. | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/06/25 09:52 PM |
| 6 | RegressionJust cut her off man. No kids? No maintenance? It’s not petty to go NC, it’s for your healing | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/06/25 06:50 PM |
| 6 | Do women really love differently?I was checking in with her all the way up to the end and she didn’t ever give me much. It takes two people to maintain a relationship and things frankly feel a lot easier now that she’s gone. Maybe it’s for the best, but it does make me pretty hesitant to ever overextend myself or co-habitate again. I certainly won’t ever legally marry again - way too much financial and legal risk weighing on if one person dips or not. | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/06/25 06:21 PM |
| 3 | Do women really love differently?Yeah I think I just chose poorly and it may be too late for me. Being divorced is like a black stain upon you, no truly good woman would tolerate it. I’ll just have to reflect on this and become comfortable with myself and solitude. | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/06/25 05:47 PM |
| 4 | Do women really love differently?No, like she called me a left abruptly over the phone. | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/06/25 05:37 PM |
| 6 | Do women really love differently?That’s not opposed to what I’m saying though. Why would somebody willingly get back into a situation where their partner won’t communicate openly and silently plots to leave while they do the hard work? | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/06/25 04:57 PM |
| 13 | Do women really love differently?I’m not trying to generalize all women but there a ton that do this. Just look at their own admissions in the divorce sub. It makes picking one out like Russian Roulette | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/06/25 04:49 PM |
| 3 | Handling Abuse AccusationsNo more encounters to film for me and hopefully never will be | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/06/25 02:20 PM |
| 3 | Handling Abuse AccusationsThanks, that’s what I was thinking as well. I just didn’t want it fucking with my job or something by surprise or something crazy further down the road. | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/06/25 12:41 AM |
| 4 | Was my situation typical?Unfortunately I did and I’m set to lose about $35k but I’m prepared to eat it. It’s the cost of business for this newfound peace and a fresh start | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/06/25 01:28 AM |
| 3 | Was my situation typical?My STBXW’s mom got her hooks into her as well. I believe that you’re right, I got hustled and didn’t see it coming | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/06/25 12:29 AM |
| 3 | Was my situation typical?I definitely did. I’m not through it yet but I’ve faced the pain. I looked inwards, and learned what values are important to me moving forward. I learned to enjoy solitude. Could give a fuck if I let another one of these snakes into my life. | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/06/25 06:42 PM |
| 3 | Was my situation typical?She actually left first and I had to move my stuff out to sell it. It’s under contract rn. I don’t think she’s going to make a move for it, surprisingly. I think I’d have a good case legally if she did bc we only owned it for a two months and I paid the down payment. Worst case I lose $30k, it’s just the cost to never see her or her family again which is fine with me. | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/06/25 05:28 PM |
| 5 | Was my situation typical?I don’t have kids thankfully so I’m going to go no contact once this is done and go elsewhere for a new start. In a sense she did me a favor by pulling this before kids . | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/06/25 05:19 PM |
| 1 | Was my situation typical?Yup | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/06/25 04:24 PM |
| 1 | Was my situation typical?Damn! What country is this in? Never heard of that | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/06/25 03:40 PM |
| 4 | Was my situation typical?I filed on her. Not playing games with this broad | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/06/25 02:53 PM |
| 4 | Was my situation typical?Dude, your description is haunting. That is literally what I’ve just gone through. She viewed any type of boundary as a threat. I take solace in knowing she’s an unhappy person at her core and when I cut her off she will just find somebody else to blame it on. | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/06/25 02:45 PM |
| 6 | Was my situation typical?Good catch, they have the same vocabulary probably from Tik Tok | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/06/25 02:37 PM |
| 2 | Was my situation typical?Yep, hoping the finalize the legal stuff by the end of the month | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/06/25 02:26 PM |
| 3 | Was my situation typical?I see that now. I beat her to the punch filing after she told me she’s leaving over the phone | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/06/25 02:26 PM |
| 2 | Was my situation typical?I’m 31 and she was 27 | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/06/25 02:25 PM |
| 6 | Was my situation typical?These were towards the end when she was clearly scheming to leave. I took my marital vows very seriously and while they hurt bad, I just felt like I had to soldier on. | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/06/25 02:23 PM |
| 2 | Was my situation typical?Same here brother. Hopefully end of the month for me | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/06/25 02:13 PM |
| 5 | Was my situation typical?If you can show me a woman capable of taking accountability, I’ll chop my own dick and balls off right now. | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/06/25 02:07 PM |
| 3 | Was my situation typical?All of them are the same. Hard to not recognize patterns as I date casually now. | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/06/25 02:04 PM |
| 5 | Was my situation typical?Mine starting fucking an unemployed guy a week after we separated and probably sooner than that so I feel you. Send them back to the streets brother! | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/06/25 01:44 PM |
| 2 | Was my situation typical?That’s so sick man. Hoping to be there soon. Not having to hear complaining, materialistic desires, and criticisms all the time has already helped my mental state. | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/06/25 01:16 PM |
| 2 | Was my situation typical?It’s make you feel crazy when you’re in it. The divorce sucks but I’m so happy to be out. | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/06/25 01:04 PM |
| 6 | Was my situation typical?That’s some bullshit behavior on their part. Never going to cohabitate or marry one of these snakes again. A rescue dog is much more deserving of my time and effort. | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/06/25 12:44 PM |
| 3 | How did you rebuild a network of male friends?That too, but these hoes be triflin’ | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/06/25 11:32 AM |
| 3 | First postHang in there buddy. I’m early on in the process and it’s tough to hear that you’re still dealing with this years down the road. | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/06/25 12:11 AM |
| 2 | How was she able to move on so quickly and be so callous when I miss her everyday and can’t move forwardThe weird thing is she had a good relationship with her dad but the rest of the family dynamic was fucked. The dad was a provider and I respected him a lot, but he accepted open disrespect and belittling from the women of his household and that’s what my wife was accustomed to. The guy ended up being a shackled, dead-eyed puppet. | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/06/25 12:20 PM |
| 2 | How was she able to move on so quickly and be so callous when I miss her everyday and can’t move forwardFor sure bro. Finalizing the legal settlement now and cannot wait to block this bitch’s number forever. | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/06/25 12:10 PM |
| 1 | How was she able to move on so quickly and be so callous when I miss her everyday and can’t move forwardDamn, I should’ve cheated when I could have with this bad Puerto Rican chick two years ago. | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/06/25 03:11 AM |
| 1 | How was she able to move on so quickly and be so callous when I miss her everyday and can’t move forwardHow so | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/06/25 02:31 AM |
| 3 | How was she able to move on so quickly and be so callous when I miss her everyday and can’t move forward27, together seven years, six before me | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/06/25 02:31 AM |
| 3 | How was she able to move on so quickly and be so callous when I miss her everyday and can’t move forwardThanks, I’m already doing both and not making much headway. Cold showers and cold plunges are the only thing that cause temporary relief. | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/06/25 09:40 PM |
| 5 | I was abused. I didn’t realize it. Know that I know, sharing it sounds ridiculous & others seem to convey doubt.Chill with the negative self talk bro. You need to process the emotions, it doesn’t make you a pussy. Yes, this was a hell of a ride though. You need to go talk to a trauma therapist or get into EMDR. | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/06/25 03:33 AM |
| 10 | I was abused. I didn’t realize it. Know that I know, sharing it sounds ridiculous & others seem to convey doubt.Same here man. I believed I was bad because she told me it so many times. | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/06/25 02:19 AM |
| 10 | I don't know how to get out.My wife was on tik tok consuming stuff that rotted her brain and then told everyone I was a narcissist after I blew up my life and bought her a house. A lot of women truly have dog brains. | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/06/25 02:18 PM |
| 1 | Damn man!She shouldn’t mean anything to you anymore bro. Hopefully she gets dogged out and never called back | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/05/25 11:51 PM |
| 1 | Damn man!My wife is getting cracked by an ugly unemployed dude and got ghosted so that a W for me | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/05/25 11:24 PM |
| 4 | I didn't expect that divorced women would find hook ups so easy ....Why are you taking to your ex about this bro | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/05/25 02:59 PM |
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