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Need Supportrb5775/r/Divorce_Men31/07/24 07:27 PM
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Gold is at nearly $4000 and ounce. Think of something that would make you feel good, sell the ring, do something positive for yourself.
/r/Divorce_Men13/07/26 10:47 AM
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This is just speculation but...Her new 'friend' is backing away from her and the reality is life is setting in.
/r/Divorce_Men17/06/26 01:36 PM
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Massive rationalization. (Hers)
/r/Divorce_Men26/04/26 05:04 AM
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Of course she is.
/r/Divorce_Men14/04/26 06:39 PM
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To justify their selfish actions.
/r/Divorce_Men07/04/26 06:59 PM
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Her time will come. I could never put too fine a point on womens' attitudes. It always boiled down to Me, Me, Me....
/r/Divorce_Men07/04/26 05:15 PM
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I'd bet a bit of folding money that she is wearing tinted contacts.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/04/26 02:13 PM
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They start getting more attention when they drop weight. Frankly I think we have yet to see the worst of the effects of this stuff.
/r/Divorce_Men30/03/26 10:08 PM
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I just shrug and say things change.
/r/Divorce_Men19/03/26 10:59 PM
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Strange as it may sound, the big red flag that I noticed was if she doesn't like dogs she isn't worth your time.
/r/Divorce_Men19/03/26 06:05 PM
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Who said the man knew the truth about her self destructive habits before the marriage?
/r/Divorce_Men25/02/26 01:15 PM
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Pretty good advice.
/r/Divorce_Men07/02/26 01:43 PM
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The fact that she would do this at a social event AND inform others beforehand does not paint a flattering portrait. I could use harsher words but what's the point. But, you know just what and whom you're dealing with now.
/r/Divorce_Men15/01/26 11:54 PM
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The Law is the Law. Go for it.
/r/Divorce_Men04/01/26 04:27 PM
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Her therapist is (In my opinion) unworthy of the name.
/r/Divorce_Men02/01/26 08:18 PM
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She will equate your unhappiness with her being the winner. Don't give her the satisfaction. Grey Rock.
/r/Divorce_Men01/01/26 04:18 PM
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My experience is that no one, and I mean NO ONE, wants to hear about it. Particularly people that know her. A guy just learns to not say anything about it. It is a rough learning experience. Grey rock.
/r/Divorce_Men28/12/25 10:33 PM
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That is just vile behavior. Surprised she didn't sell the dog.
/r/Divorce_Men28/12/25 07:08 PM
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Don't react in any way. That is what she is after.
/r/Divorce_Men21/12/25 06:57 PM
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This is the best advice.
/r/Divorce_Men21/12/25 06:56 PM
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It may be prudent to focus on yourself now. Most of what you will find online may not be helpful now.
/r/Divorce_Men18/12/25 04:03 PM
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My Prostitute experience comes from when I was younger and I never enjoyed it. I moved to a small town years ago so that avenue closed down. Any other option just becomes a source of frustration. I have zero desire to pair up and have no interest in anything beyond physicality. So I just quit trying. It's like Woody Allen says...'Don't knock masturbation. It's sex with someone I love".
/r/Divorce_Men15/12/25 12:18 PM
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No matter which route you choose, it is always a business transaction in one form or another. After a while I just got fed up with it.
/r/Divorce_Men15/12/25 12:07 PM
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29. Just keep your mouth shut about it. I went through a "I'm pregnant" situation. Yeah. Right. People. Freezing semen may be the wisest way to go. Then the choice is yours.
/r/Divorce_Men13/12/25 11:34 AM
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If she didn't blame you, she would have to blame herself. Addicted people don't do that.
/r/Divorce_Men09/12/25 08:15 PM
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Telling the APs spouse will gain you nothing. The high road will give you more peace.
/r/Divorce_Men09/12/25 05:35 PM
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I feel she may discover that the people in her life were not the problem...she is.
/r/Divorce_Men01/12/25 04:36 PM
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As a child of this type of situation...No matter what you do, short of totally keeping your mouth shut and hoping the child never learns of it. He is going to harbor very hard feelings toward all that deceived him.
/r/Divorce_Men28/11/25 11:33 PM
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Rationalization is a powerful thing. As pointed out here in the comments, some women have made children a cottage industry. I've seen women collecting money from as many as 3 different men. I just stay away from them now.
/r/Divorce_Men21/11/25 11:52 AM
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Had 1 child. Was lied to about contraceptive use by ex. She went on to use children as a cottage industry with 2 other men. Love my son. Got a vasectomy at 29. Great idea. Never shared that information. Was 'pregnancy scared' after that. It is amazing what people will do.
/r/Divorce_Men20/11/25 02:17 PM
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What do you like to do? What thought makes you smile when it comes into your mind?
/r/Divorce_Men18/11/25 08:09 PM
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Glad things are moving on. Have you been working out at all? Real confidence builder. Therapy is another positive. By the way, if the ex and her new guy drink a lot...well, that doesn't usually bring good things for people. 🙂
/r/Divorce_Men03/11/25 08:16 PM
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Positive steps👍
/r/Divorce_Men02/11/25 07:43 PM
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Wants to get on good terms in case she needs money.
/r/Divorce_Men31/10/25 03:51 PM
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My powers of red flag recognition have been highly enhanced. Ready to walk on a moments notice.
/r/Divorce_Men21/10/25 11:26 AM
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Now you truly know her.
/r/Divorce_Men19/10/25 05:20 PM
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I feel that learning to cook (if it isn't a skill you possess) really passes the time. Decorating my new place was fun. Browsing Art.com is a real learning experience. I tried jujitsu. But being in my 60s, the girls were kicking (politely) the crap out of me.🙂
/r/Divorce_Men17/10/25 08:02 PM
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Being able to blame someone else for EVERYTHING removes one from all responsibility. Greyrock. Live YOUR best life despite her best efforts.
/r/Divorce_Men16/10/25 11:37 PM
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Hard No. No explanation. You are not longer responsible for her after the divorce. This is a recipe for financial disaster.
/r/Divorce_Men14/10/25 10:20 PM
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She'll be getting some child support real soon. Poor guy.
/r/Divorce_Men09/10/25 05:36 PM
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Too bad he wasn't filming.
/r/Divorce_Men08/10/25 06:26 PM
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Just an instant thought...is she trying to baby trap this guy?
/r/Divorce_Men29/09/25 07:26 PM
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I think that you did. I hope your attorney is a mean one.
/r/Divorce_Men25/09/25 08:13 PM
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Her new boyfriend dumped her and she needs to refill her wallet.
/r/Divorce_Men22/09/25 08:06 PM
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Letting it go and motivation supplied by righteous anger are 2 different things. What's going on in your head is none of her business. GREY ROCK.
/r/Divorce_Men18/09/25 06:48 PM
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It's a bargaining tactic.
/r/Divorce_Men15/09/25 08:17 PM
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This is just a convenience for her. Start making plans. You need to ask an attorney about the civil union position.
/r/Divorce_Men13/09/25 11:35 AM
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Your house. Your rules.
/r/Divorce_Men31/08/25 07:38 PM
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Yes. I was a child of chaos also. (Waiting for the next thing to blow up in your face.) I speak with my adult son about that mindset all the time.
/r/Divorce_Men27/08/25 07:13 PM
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The truth is that she cheated on you and she'll screw him over too. Bide your time. His turn is coming.
/r/Divorce_Men26/08/25 09:35 PM
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I'll bet money at some point she will regret that.
/r/Divorce_Men25/08/25 07:06 PM
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That's pretty strange but the STBX that was demanding that the husband get a vasectomy was a real weird one.
/r/Divorce_Men23/08/25 04:22 PM
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And generally the sex is mundane.
/r/Divorce_Men19/08/25 04:28 PM
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Whenever I have made myself emotionally 'available', it has been used against me. I'm in my 60s and am surprised at the feminine man bashing that is constant. Every single thing in the world is the fault of men. OK I had better stay away and not burden these poor women with my presence. (Observing the results is interesting) In the meantime I am really happy. There is no constant eye of disapproval. No debt. (Imagine that) New House. (That is clean and organized) The dog is great company. Gentle…
/r/Divorce_Men19/08/25 03:10 PM
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She got to shop. My ex was mad that I 'got to' go buy all new stuff when I moved out of the house.
/r/Divorce_Men15/08/25 11:41 AM
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Hypergamy.... a phrase I learned here.
/r/Divorce_Men13/08/25 07:09 PM
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That's as close to an explanation as I can get.
/r/Divorce_Men25/07/25 10:28 AM
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She is already 'seeing other people'. The sudden changes in her position shows that. Lawyer. Grey Rock. This is critical. You can't save this. Time to protect yourself.
/r/Divorce_Men20/07/25 11:22 AM
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After 5 years, my ex girlfriend came back around apologizing and saying that she was wrong about many things. Even her kids were apologizing. It was quite cathartic. Others sometimes get into people's ear and subtly bash you for their own purposes. Then time shows what they really are.
/r/Divorce_Men18/07/25 12:13 PM
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Her 'boyfriend' is an on and off situation that she isn't in control of.
/r/Divorce_Men18/07/25 11:26 AM
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Going backwards almost never ends well. Stay strong and consistent. Watch her implode.
/r/Divorce_Men17/07/25 11:03 AM
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Vasectomy...am I missing something? That's just looney.
/r/Divorce_Men15/07/25 04:26 PM
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Careful. There are many out there looking for a 'partner'. The sex will vanish quickly. I have found that masturbation is far preferable to putting up with the total nonsense that comes with a 'partner'. But you may find a unicorn.
/r/Divorce_Men14/07/25 06:24 PM
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To dull the anxiety. Well...I tried alcohol. Didn't work. I tried weed. Didn't work except to help me sleep. I tried dating. Didn't work. I tried throwing myself into work. Positive but can only help a little. The 2 things that actually helped (I know, you've heard this before.) are exercise and therapy. Those 2 things actually made me feel physically better.
/r/Divorce_Men11/07/25 11:56 PM
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Yeah...fear.
/r/Divorce_Men03/07/25 06:54 PM
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Great idea.
/r/Divorce_Men26/06/25 10:41 AM
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My Malinois girl cold snouts me up every day. She's the best. Nature's alarm clock.
/r/Divorce_Men26/06/25 10:39 AM
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I would say she gets realistic. Split claiming the kids every other year. Cut down child support to local standards. She is liable for half the credit card debt. It would be in her best interests to keep this civil. We wouldn't want the government to take too close a look at her "income sources" would we.
/r/Divorce_Men23/06/25 06:00 PM
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I see many of these comments being downvoted. I just don't get it.
/r/Divorce_Men20/06/25 07:58 PM
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She's having trouble with her boyfriend. He probably is 'distancing' himself.
/r/Divorce_Men19/06/25 09:04 PM
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Run.
/r/Divorce_Men13/06/25 01:20 PM
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I don't blame you. Not one bit.
/r/Divorce_Men12/06/25 09:06 PM
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Indifference is an awesome tool.
/r/Divorce_Men05/06/25 06:42 PM
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The answer to your last question is...'everything is HIS fault'... The one issue that stood out to me is her use of a confidence to try to hurt you. I see this time and again. Men won't open up. This is why. I have never shared an important personal issue with a woman that I did not come to regret. It speaks to her character that she would use a cheap shot like that. Perhaps you upset her timetable. Just a guess.
/r/Divorce_Men05/06/25 04:47 PM
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Good Man!!!
/r/Divorce_Men02/06/25 08:31 PM
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In the immortal words of Jimmy Dugan... "That's good advice"!!!
/r/Divorce_Men30/05/25 12:29 PM
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Same with height.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/05/25 09:50 AM
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No.
/r/Divorce_Men15/05/25 07:30 PM
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I don't agree with a lot of the things I have read in the comments. BUT, I know from experience that being '100% ready to walk at any time' is rock solid advice. Rule #1. Always....always have resources set aside thst no one else knows about.
/r/Divorce_Men14/05/25 06:47 PM
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"ever present eye of disapproval" . Very well stated.
/r/Divorce_Men04/05/25 11:09 AM
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"You don't understand women," Code for ...you are not giving me what I want.
/r/Divorce_Men28/04/25 07:15 PM
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I am sooo happy reading this. My ex was an avid shopper at 'The Express' stores. I really wanted to mail her a sympathy card when I read that Express went out if business. But I chickened out.
/r/Divorce_Men25/04/25 04:23 PM
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I've never been lonelier than when in a relationship. My dog is better company.
/r/Divorce_Men22/04/25 06:57 PM
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Waaayyy better.
/r/Divorce_Men21/04/25 07:30 PM
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She doesn't care about you or what you want or need. I am sorry to be blunt. Her demands make that very obvious. She gets the easy way you get the difficult way. She will never come back. Get this clear in your head. She is all about HER and whatever she's doing now. Even when she acts like she is trying to be nice. It's just to make herself feel better. GREYROCK.
/r/Divorce_Men30/09/24 08:20 PM
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Wants to be emotional when it suits her. If a man is emotional she judges him.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/09/24 11:34 AM
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If someone keeps threatening divorce, you had better start listening. Are you HAPPY?
/r/Divorce_Men21/09/24 03:01 PM
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Amen!
/r/Divorce_Men19/09/24 06:56 PM
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I sold mine to a precious metals recovery company in Michigan. Got a fair price.
/r/Divorce_Men18/09/24 02:53 PM
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You have to do things better now. I get a BIG thrill out of it when strangers come into my place and the women kind of surreptitiously take a look around. Looking for something to cement their 'typical male' judgement. I'm proud of what I have done on my own. The plants. The art. The 'less is more' vibe. It doesn't happen overnight. It's an expression of yourself. It's a lot of work. Especially the cleaning. Being a male you need to keep your place spotless or you'll be judged. Anyway. Good luck…
/r/Divorce_Men15/09/24 06:16 PM
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Great story!
/r/Divorce_Men15/09/24 02:07 PM
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You are not going to change her mind at this stage. Get past what she is doing. There is only unneeded pain there. Get your focus onto the children and you. Start consolidating your assets.
/r/Divorce_Men14/09/24 12:19 PM
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The most important rule in dating is "People want what they can't have". That doesn't mean play games. That means establish your life and activities before dating. Divorce usually mean you have to make new friends and be a part of new groups. Do this before dating.
/r/Divorce_Men14/09/24 10:32 AM
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Truth...👍
/r/Divorce_Men13/09/24 11:33 AM
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Even worse than I initially thought. 'She' has an agenda. You're better off. Get a therapist that is concerned about your situation and not her agenda.
/r/Divorce_Men12/09/24 01:40 PM
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"Pissed off your therapist". Wow. Get a different therapist. If they could not maintain an even keel, then you had a very bad therapist. Do not take any responsibility for an unprofessional therapist. Your ex viewed you as an ATM. You're better off.
/r/Divorce_Men12/09/24 01:28 PM
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The truth will come out. It always does. People may already know or suspect the real story. I don't see many positives for you in spreading this story. Conversely, keeping your own counsel will, in the long run, show that you were the better person.
/r/Divorce_Men09/09/24 11:24 AM
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It is not fair. The only way to have a good life is not to get legally involved. It should have been a huge wake up call to men (years ago) when actor Lee Marvin got hit with the 'Palimony' suit. The message was clear. "Men, you are just a resource to be used'. Don't play in a fixed game.
/r/Divorce_Men07/09/24 12:10 PM
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This is good advice.
/r/Divorce_Men06/09/24 08:10 PM
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'Dead than weak'... True.
/r/Divorce_Men04/09/24 07:40 PM
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Yeah. They were perfect and accepted their share of the responsibility. Just reading your comment makes me happy being single, financially comfortable and unhenpecked. And staying that way. A joyous existence. My big question is "What are you doing lurking this site?" Just here spreading joy and support? By the way, I can cook, clean, decorate and dress myself as well or better than you. Thank you for stopping by.
/r/Divorce_Men31/08/24 05:46 PM
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Only one thing worse than not getting what you want. That's getting what you want.
/r/Divorce_Men27/08/24 03:56 PM
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Totally agree.
/r/Divorce_Men26/08/24 04:48 PM
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It looks as though the best medicine is to work your ass off and earn as much as you can. It sounds as though she is burning through every dime she pilfered from you. So, soon enough she'll be on the prowl to find some other poor bastard to steal from. After you have had time to recover from the damage she did, you can look at her and all you'll feel is pity. Imagine what she will feel like having to look back at her life and realizing all she has accomplished is taking from others.
/r/Divorce_Men23/08/24 07:40 PM
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That makes me chuckle. Menopause will come calling soon...
/r/Divorce_Men22/08/24 10:42 PM
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10 years younger huh? She is going to find out that that was a foolish move.
/r/Divorce_Men22/08/24 09:25 PM
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I agree. Some people have to have someone to hate every day.
/r/Divorce_Men21/08/24 08:25 PM
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I cannot figure out whom might down vote this.
/r/Divorce_Men20/08/24 09:22 PM
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You are missing an unspoken point...OP made the assertion that items were missing and that the ex checked herself into a program. One must make the assumption that she had brought a medical/addiction issue into HIS life. I despise addicts and their selfishness. I hope he doesn't have to bear the brunt of her decisions.
/r/Divorce_Men20/08/24 07:58 PM
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There is zero to be gained in interacting with this guy. She will cheat on him just like she cheated on you. Focus on your life. Make things in your life better.
/r/Divorce_Men17/08/24 07:12 PM
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The more you submit, the more you will be subjugated. Then, when you finally have had enough and stand up for yourself and end the marriage, you're abusive.
/r/Divorce_Men10/08/24 10:51 AM
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"People on the Right". Let the hate flow...
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/08/24 05:46 PM
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And yet...FDS lives on.
/r/Divorce_Men31/07/24 08:22 PM
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Reading the experiences of other guys is SO cathartic. My ex would call me everytime she had screwed something in her life up and needed something paid for. Shrieking about how she was going to take me back to court since I was making more money. I put up with that nonsense for 15 years. FIFTEEN. I was always polite to her. Always tried to keep things calm. My son turned 18. 😃 She called and I could tell immediately that she was on one of her tirades. I hung up. She called back. I hung up. She k…
/r/Divorce_Men31/07/24 07:15 PM
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Only if you both are on the same financial page. That is VERY rare.
/r/Divorce_Men27/07/24 09:28 PM
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Rationalization is a powerful tool.
/r/Divorce_Men27/07/24 11:48 AM
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Holy Cow. Where do you live? This is just an infuriating story.
/r/Divorce_Men25/07/24 12:02 PM
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Failure to accept responsibility. EVERYTHING is someone else's fault. I wish I had that option.
/r/Divorce_Men24/07/24 07:41 PM
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Checking out....indeed.
/r/Divorce_Men24/07/24 07:39 PM
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Atrocious.👍
/r/Divorce_Men23/07/24 07:45 PM
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This is true. Being a better individual than your ex, in every way, is good medicine. There is such a thing as Karma. It may not seem so but let time pass. Focus on you.
/r/Divorce_Men23/07/24 02:07 PM
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Watch closely for the ability to accept responsibility. Lots of people are incapable of accepting responsibility of any type. Everyone and everything is to blame for them not getting what they want or for anything negative that happens.
/r/Divorce_Men21/07/24 11:21 AM
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It will 'all come crashing down'. 3 weeks ago my ex pulled up in front of my house as I was working in the yard. We've been apart for 5 hrs. We have not spoken for over 4 years. She apologized for several things. She also told me I was right about several things we disagreed on. I was stunned. But I do feel better.😀
/r/Divorce_Men20/07/24 08:48 PM
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Spend your at home time planning your future. Your wife is playing up to your daughter because it suits her purpose now. Wait until the first fight they have.
/r/Divorce_Men20/07/24 01:31 PM
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I used to tend bar years back. More often than not if a man was roughing up his woman and a man intervened, both the abuser AND the girlfriend would gang up on the man trying to help. Taught me a lesson.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/07/24 06:53 PM
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Yes. No matter what...it's your fault. Kinda makes you wish you could go through life like that.
/r/Divorce_Men07/07/24 04:11 PM
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Saving money.
/r/Divorce_Men07/07/24 04:08 PM
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Agree.
/r/Divorce_Men05/07/24 07:42 PM
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I would like to see an honest weight requirement on all dating sites. The thought of the uproar makes me laugh.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/07/24 11:47 AM
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2 months? She waited until you used your inheritance to buy a home and then tried to use the legal system to screw you out of it???? WOW I hope she's miserable.
/r/Divorce_Men29/06/24 07:05 PM
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I'd switch gyms for now. The kids may not like it but... I get this feeling that your stbx may regret her choices pretty soon. This isn't bodybuilders first ride on the merry go round and he may not be the loyal type.
/r/Divorce_Men28/06/24 07:19 PM
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Now that's funny...sadly.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/06/24 03:12 PM
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What does the divorce settlement say?
/r/Divorce_Men26/06/24 07:42 PM
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From what I am getting from her complaints is that she is bored and is blaming you for everything. This exonerates her of ANY guilt for her selfish actions. Everything is your fault and she is blameless. As far as the cheating goes.... if you say so. She has made her point plain...she wants out. Any actions by you are probably a waste of time. Anything you may do may be used against you. Don't give her a reason to get you out of your house. Grey rock and start planning your exit and new life.
/r/Divorce_Men26/06/24 05:37 PM
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Not really surprising. She has studied you carefully and has learned just which buttons to push and knows that society allows her to act as viciously as she likes. Get rid of her. This is why so many here advocate for Grey rock.
/r/Divorce_Men20/06/24 11:27 AM
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I enjoy the fact that I am not constantly under the microscope. Every little thing you do is studied and criticized. If you dare to make similar comparisons about her you are being 'abusive'. I am SO happy being single.
/r/Divorce_Men19/06/24 03:05 PM
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I've been unmarried for 20 years. My short answer to your question is 'No'. I've tried dating a few times. It seems that some of it feels like Charlie Browns teacher. Whhaa. Whhaa. Whhaa. With red flags waving in the background.
/r/Divorce_Men16/06/24 12:54 PM
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HaHaHa....isn't that the truth.
/r/Divorce_Men13/06/24 11:16 AM
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Agree...
/r/Divorce_Men28/05/24 01:36 PM
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Yeah...May Day in Moscow.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/05/24 11:06 AM
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Good advice.
/r/Divorce_Men15/05/24 08:38 PM
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Been there. Work on you. You'll be able to look back one day and mentally flip her off. I left my last wife in my 12 yr old truck. With some tools, some clothes and $5.00 in dimes. In the end, she was calling me many years later saying she had enjoyed our wild times and wanted to get together for a visit. Ugh.
/r/Divorce_Men11/05/24 07:23 PM
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I've been there. Knock it off. Keep your emotional turmoil to your self. You need to remove this person from your life. Just like she has removed you from her life. ( unless she needs something, right?) Grey rock. At this time you have a lot of life left to live. Plan it out.
/r/Divorce_Men08/05/24 09:16 PM
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THE WALL.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/05/24 02:07 PM
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Good Luck!!! 👍
/r/Divorce_Men24/04/24 06:26 PM
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Good explanation. Thanks.
/r/Divorce_Men22/04/24 05:16 PM
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I was kicked off a site once for saying that... Men love physically. Women love strategically.
/r/Divorce_Men21/04/24 07:01 PM
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All good advice.👍
/r/Divorce_Men20/04/24 10:24 PM
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She did the right thing....For Him.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/04/24 03:51 PM
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If that threat is constantly made...you better listen. Start making financial moves and get a lawyer.
/r/Divorce_Men19/04/24 06:49 PM
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Yes. Her BAGGAGE.
/r/Divorce_Men18/04/24 12:09 PM
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Wait it out. Leave the door open to communicate. He'll figure her out when her lies to manipulate him becomes obvious.
/r/Divorce_Men18/04/24 11:38 AM
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I've felt lonelier in a relationship than being on my own.
/r/Divorce_Men18/04/24 10:37 AM
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Yes.
/r/Divorce_Men18/04/24 10:19 AM
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This may seem silly but I sleep more soundly when I leave a windows slightly open to get more O2 into the room.
/r/Divorce_Men17/04/24 02:10 PM
2

People want what they can't have. If it were me, I'd say ' great, have fun' and move on. Spend the time on yourself.
/r/Divorce_Men15/04/24 06:49 PM
1

Indifference drives certain personalities bonkers.
/r/Divorce_Men14/04/24 03:23 PM
4

👍
/r/Divorce_Men14/04/24 12:08 PM
7

I don't feel like I have forgiven. I try to be indifferent. I kind of got off light compared to some of the stories I have read here. Wow.
/r/Divorce_Men13/04/24 10:11 PM
1

True.
/r/Divorce_Men11/04/24 07:42 PM
2

Some are reversible, some are not. If you are interested in procreation you can always freeze some semen first.
/r/Divorce_Men11/04/24 07:41 PM
1

No need for name calling.
/r/Divorce_Men11/04/24 07:39 PM
6

Yes. This absolves them of ALL guilt.
/r/Divorce_Men11/04/24 05:35 PM
2

Good post.
/r/Divorce_Men11/04/24 07:24 AM
7

Yup.
/r/Divorce_Men09/04/24 01:14 PM
6

You aren't far off. All truth...you can tell by the downvotes. IF WOMEN WISH TO EMBRACE THE WOKE 'Men are worthless' IDEALOGY, LET THEM. Go set your life up. Have a good one too. She has been destroying your self confidence to gain the emotional upper hand. She has it now. Dump her and move on. Rebuild your life. She is not worth any further time spent.
/r/Divorce_Men09/04/24 11:15 AM
1

You aren't far off. All truth...you can tell by the downvotes. IF WOMEN WISH TO EMBRACE THE WOKE 'Men are worthless' IDEALOGY, LET THEM. Go set your life up. Have a good one too. She has been destroying your self confidence to gain the emotional upper hand. She has it now. Dump her and move on. Rebuild your life. She is not worth any further time spent.
/r/Divorce_Men09/04/24 11:15 AM
1

Yes.
/r/Divorce_Men06/04/24 12:54 PM
3

BEEN THERE.😃
/r/Divorce_Men06/04/24 09:58 AM
13

Got a vasectomy at 29. Best decision. Keep the fact that you have one to yourself.
/r/Divorce_Men06/04/24 09:57 AM
1

Daughter wants to stay with you. Great sign.
/r/Divorce_Men05/04/24 11:40 AM
2

Yes. Be selfish for you. Demanding time for myself.
/r/Divorce_Men05/04/24 11:39 AM
2

So. She inherited some of that narcissism.
/r/Divorce_Men04/04/24 07:27 PM
3

That 'ignoring you' thing can be a 2 way street. Your old life seems to be over. Perhaps starting a new life is in your best interests.
/r/Divorce_Men02/04/24 09:36 PM
6

At 2am.
/r/Divorce_Men30/03/24 11:01 AM
5

I believe this to be the logical explanation. Move on.
/r/Divorce_Men30/03/24 11:00 AM
3

Great movie.
/r/Divorce_Men27/03/24 07:31 PM
5

You're not used to going it alone in society. That is your job now. Learn to have a good life. Set up a nice place to live. Learn to cook. (Cooking for one is a bit of a challenge but you'll get it.) Decorating. Clothing. Remembering the special days of others. Lots of things that fill up a life. Learn all this stuff and more. It'll be fun and in the end you'll look around and say.."I did OK".
/r/Divorce_Men24/03/24 07:08 PM
3

Well. Good luck.
/r/Divorce_Men18/03/24 12:20 PM
6

Nope. Bad idea.
/r/Divorce_Men18/03/24 12:19 PM
4

Unless it serves their purpose to do so!!!
/r/Divorce_Men16/03/24 01:10 PM
7

Well, my ex once threw a stereo speaker at me. (A big one.) Don't miss the anger.
/r/Divorce_Men16/03/24 11:44 AM
5

Run.
/r/Divorce_Men15/03/24 08:03 PM
5

"I don't work..." No shame. I wonder how she pays for the nails, tattoos and all the rest?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/03/24 01:38 PM
18

Openly admits to being a game player.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/03/24 08:27 PM
11

At 2 AM.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/03/24 08:26 PM
1

Truth.
/r/Divorce_Men02/03/24 12:06 PM
1

'Individual problems' deemed 'partner problems'. Absolutely hilarious. And true. Everything is the man's fault.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/02/24 12:15 PM
-1

Those are words to live by ...
/r/Divorce_Men16/02/24 11:02 PM
3

I am a bit better off financially. No money wasted on flowers or jewelry etc.
/r/Divorce_Men15/02/24 01:04 PM
1

Pretty much right on the money.
/r/Divorce_Men13/01/24 05:25 PM
2

Enjoyed you post. You're doing a good job under difficult circumstances. Almost all of the comments here are good hard earned advice. All situational of course. If I could offer one small piece of advice it would be , don't let one harsh statement undo things. My ex seemed to be waiting for a reason to be contentious. I, unfortunately, supplied it. Rooting for you. Good Luck
/r/Divorce_Men12/01/23 11:17 AM
6

The thing that stands out to me is that she probably knew you were bringing the children there and she had her new boyfriend there anyway. Brother, she makes me upset. Keep moving forward. Only interact about the kids and focus on making yourself better. I've been in your shoes. You'll do fine.
/r/Divorce_Men02/01/23 10:29 AM
2

I guess it is just a more direct way of saying, the best revenge is a life well lived.:)
/r/Divorce_Men30/12/22 04:25 PM
4

God's truth...
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/12/22 05:30 PM
14

I'm 65. I stay completely and totally away from all women. Nothing but bad news. All are looking for something. It isn't companionship. I've managed to keep enough of my resources after 2 divorces. Or should I say earned them back because the last divorce was 25 years ago.Thank God. I am still amazed at the way I am approached by women that are just a mess. At my age that is all there is out there so I just leave it all alone. To the point of not going to church and other activities anymore.. Th…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/12/22 05:28 PM
5

As Jimmy Dougan (Tom Hanks) said "That's good advice."
/r/Divorce_Men21/11/22 02:58 PM
1

Amen.
/r/Divorce_Men13/11/22 01:17 PM
8

I was hesitant to say the phrase MGTOW. Knowing the attitude about that acronym on reddit. I'm 4 years into that lifestyle and have never been happier. (Or wealthier) I would recommend to young men that they look at more unconventional lifestyles than society pushes.
/r/Divorce_Men12/11/22 11:26 PM
7

What the hell is happening to men in this world? Unbelievable. The scooter really accentuates the breakdown.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/09/22 04:51 PM
1

Get as much information about her web business. Is she paying taxes? This could affect you as far as taxes go.
/r/Divorce_Men22/09/22 04:42 PM
40

Bartender... Huge red flag. The problem starts there. You can't fix this. Circle your wagons and move on .
/r/Divorce_Men20/07/22 12:45 PM
1

Perhaps one issue that could be personally explored is the ramifications of ones voting preferences. Those that aggressively pander for the silencing of opinions they don't like vote for a certain party. That should register with anyone that thinks for themselves.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/05/22 10:11 AM
1

You have been through a contentious divorce?
/r/Divorce_Men01/05/22 05:07 PM
2

Drawn on eyebrows. Where does this stuff end?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/04/22 03:30 PM
2

I kinda feel bad for her. She could have at least taken time to comb her hair or put on a shirt with sleeves so her arm wattles weren't flapping.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/12/21 10:02 AM
3

Judging from the picture, cleaning her house is more than she ' can handle' too.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/12/21 12:01 PM
4

She's Spanxed up pretty good.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/11/21 03:43 AM
2

Me. Me. Me. Me. Me. That is how women think. View everything said from this perspective.
/r/Divorce_Men22/11/21 10:18 AM
1

It's over. You can't unfeel all the bad feelings. Take it from me. It's done.
/r/Divorce_Men22/11/21 10:16 AM
1

I find that a spectacularly condescending attitude. Men, yes I said Men, are entitled to any attitude that makes them happy. Whether you like it or not. I suggest you go hang out at the FDS sub to help you more fully understand some of the men's opinions.
/r/Divorce_Men18/11/21 01:22 PM
1

You fellas on this thread need to learn what a credit score really is. It's a measure of your credit worthiness. How you use credit and how much available credit you have. It's easy enough to have a high credit score if you learn the rules. You need several credit cards. Only use them once or twice a year and pay them off immediately. Having a mortgage raises your score also if it is current and paid on time.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/11/21 03:21 PM
1

'Demands'. Good heavens.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/11/21 03:14 PM
2

And yet the spectacularly toxic FDS page lives on.
/r/Divorce_Men12/11/21 11:21 AM
3

Watch most TV commercials or what passes for television shows these days. Men are depicted as buffoons. Useful idiots. Go mgtow. Make your best life.
/r/Divorce_Men12/11/21 10:02 AM
1

Considering that it is the media that usually leads the harrassment charge I find that to be about what one could expect of journalistic integrity today. One wouldn't want to be held accountable would one? There is no personal responsibility any longer.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/11/21 07:36 PM
1

Does she have any type of retirement plan? If so there should be some kind of mathematical trade off.
/r/Divorce_Men08/11/21 01:53 PM
1

For a self described journalist I would say that the choice of 'Peachy' speaks of an amazing lack of imagination and ability.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/11/21 01:43 PM
1

The authors name is 'Peachy'? First, I'd be kicking my parents asses.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/11/21 11:25 AM
5

They share 'Fuck him over' advice at work and on girls nights. I used to tend bar several years ago. It is kind of shocking to hear some of the stuff when women think you're not listening.
/r/Divorce_Men03/11/21 10:54 AM
2

Get over it???? They should take their Cavalier attitude and pound sand. Doing the right things in life and getting screwed for it stays with a person.
/r/Divorce_Men03/11/21 10:46 AM
1

As was stated previously, 'the divorce industry '...😀
/r/Divorce_Men01/11/21 02:02 PM
1

Most if the time guys are getting married because the woman insists on it or she threatens to leave the relationship.
/r/Divorce_Men01/11/21 02:00 PM
2

None.
/r/Divorce_Men01/11/21 01:56 PM
3

Did it in 1987. I have had 2 "I'm late" scares since then. The look on their faces when they found out was spectacular. Somehow I was an ass for " hiding" that fact. Stick to your own plan. They don't care for you. They just care about what they can get from you. Go to a bar and sit near a group of women and just eavesdrop. That's the gospel.
/r/Divorce_Men01/11/21 10:11 AM
5

There is a reason that both MGTOW sites have been banned on Reddit. There was nothing going on on those sites that was that bad. The thought of the truths being shared there just infuriates some people.
/r/Divorce_Men30/10/21 09:28 AM
2

Those boots fairly scream 'I'm Trouble '.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/10/21 05:39 AM
3

Rather unfair to dogs.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/10/21 05:38 AM
1

You're almost correct. I think they cut you loose after Valentines Day.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/10/21 06:57 PM
5

I know which choice I'd make.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/10/21 08:24 AM
2

Or don't marry at all. A better option given what I have seen of available partners today.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/09/21 05:09 PM
15

It means "I'm a professional Victim/Complainer."
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/09/21 04:45 PM
3

If you spend years living with someone that berates you and insults you it takes time to shake off all that negativity. It helps to realize this. Once it was explained to me and once I recognized it I felt much better.
/r/Divorce_Men24/09/21 11:18 AM
1

No reason.
/r/Divorce_Men19/09/21 02:38 AM
3

When they get another man in their life to terrorize.
/r/Divorce_Men18/09/21 03:20 AM
2

I'll commit to you when you can commit to a diet AND a budget. See what I did there:):):) Off the hook.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/09/21 06:09 PM
3

Having read the entire thread I don't feel this is the case at all. I did not place a gender on any of the comments but felt that yours was off base gender wise.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/09/21 07:39 PM
3

And take as much of his net worth as she possibly can.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/09/21 07:32 PM
6

No. Most American women have entitlement issues.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/09/21 03:54 PM
26

I've been through this with partners. I (M) will do what needs doing when I WANT TO. Not when YOU want it done. That is the Infuriating part of this whole argument. Go nag someone else. I don't work for you.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/09/21 06:39 AM
2

Is that picture doctored in some way?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/09/21 06:02 AM
1

I wish that I had stashed away more cash and valuables. Through the whole length of the relationship. Find a place that NO ONE knows about. At a relatives house or at work or some secure place. Keep adding to it. Don't tell anyone. I mean ANYONE.
/r/Divorce_Men05/09/21 04:51 PM
9

"Have been on these apps 'many times' over the years." Yeaaah.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/09/21 05:40 PM
2

About 'Positivity' , until it comes to men.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/09/21 05:32 PM
16

If you're reading THIS , James....Good for you!!!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/09/21 07:37 PM
4

Maaan. I've never been that horny.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/09/21 03:36 PM
3

Well, one has to admire the confidence.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/09/21 09:05 AM
7

"Ruined me mentally and physically ". I have never really heard of a woman being ruined physically by a relationship. This sounds like a very firm admission of "Nothing is ever my fault". Disgusting.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/09/21 09:02 AM
2

Amen brother.
/r/Divorce_Men30/08/21 11:10 AM
2

The photo is 'dating app disguised'. Look at the arms.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/08/21 11:05 AM
8

"Ambitions tend to remain undisturbed by realities". Frank Herbert. Children of Dune.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/08/21 11:00 AM
5

I really don't get the purpose of that dress. Was it prom night?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/08/21 06:56 PM
29

Sorry. No can do. :)
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/08/21 10:10 AM
2

Are those eyebrows drawn on?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/08/21 12:14 PM
3

And wine.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/08/21 12:01 PM
7

I knew a woman that worked at the GM factory that used to be in my hometown. She was single and bought a house. She started dating one of the skilled trades Electricians. When all the electrical work that was needed to be done was finished she started dating one of the plumbers.... You see where this is going. Pretty soon her house was totally remodeled and she went back to dating bikers. True story.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/08/21 08:43 PM
1

She cant kick you out of your house. She may try to set you up on a domestic violence charge if you move back. Sounds like she has some ulterior motives.
/r/Divorce_Men01/08/21 07:56 PM
-1

Because they can.
/r/MGTOW231/07/21 08:56 PM
59

I would counter that any man that has been married in a western country is reading 'Emotional Support' and saying to himself......... BU!! S #!+.
/r/MGTOW231/07/21 08:19 PM
17

Learn to never complain. (Once you start looking around you at those that do you'll see why) Always have money no one else knows about and keep adding to it.
/r/MGTOW231/07/21 10:47 AM
3

They are coached by friends and coworkers. I have heard it. NEVER TRUST A FEMALE.
/r/Divorce_Men30/07/21 05:09 PM
6

Good advice.
/r/MGTOW230/07/21 03:33 PM
2

It does my heart good to read that.😀
/r/MGTOW230/07/21 03:32 PM
1

Now THAT'S funny.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/07/21 08:12 PM
1

I've seen this format before but don't know which dating site it comes from. I gave up online dating a long while back. Can anyone help me out.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/07/21 07:28 PM
2

.....and the bastard took all his money with him.... 😀
/r/MGTOW228/07/21 02:24 PM
2

The makeup is troweled on nice and heavy.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/07/21 02:21 PM
2

Is that a rooster crowing in the background???
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/07/21 02:19 PM
2

Let's see. To me this translates as.....I tried to trap this guy with a pregnancy and he bolted. ( child is 1 and a half and "we" haven't been together in over a year.) There is SO much about this person that unflatteringly comes out in this it's a bit embarrassing.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/07/21 02:15 PM
3

A bartender. I'd rather hit on a stripper. Lots of makeup there. That means the wall is zooming up FAST.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/07/21 02:01 PM
10

Wow. The 'obscure bank account' really caught my eye. I would be making a plan to figure out where all her cash has been going. She dumps all the bills on you and sails off with a pile of cash. That makes me angry just reading it. Your lawyer may have some ideas there. I would keep quiet until you have any other financial information and then push for a fast court date before she can hide anything else. She's using you. HARSHLY.
/r/Divorce_Men26/07/21 03:18 PM
38

What's in it for men? Trouble. Humiliation. Waste. It has taken many years and mistakes to come to the realization that the only thing a man can do is live his own life. Keep ALL assets away from women.
/r/MGTOW226/07/21 01:01 AM
2

Has an "irrational fear" of speaking on the phone and still lists phone as a must have. Internet Pacifier is what she means I guess. Makes me dizzy just reading that mess.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/07/21 09:00 AM
1

WOW. I feel so bad for this guy. He has no idea they are laughing their asses off at him. He deserves everything he's going to get.
/r/MGTOW223/07/21 04:56 PM
1

Your use of insulting terms makes me feel that I should counter that you creeping this group is just as sad. Living in this country for 60+ years has shown me little of the kind appreciative women you speak of. What I read here is almost exclusively about males talking about being victimized. Sorry if these stories won't jibe with your agenda.
/r/Divorce_Men22/07/21 08:42 PM
1

WOW. I have seen this picture many times. I had no idea. No shame at all. She proceeded to take the house and car also. WOW.
/r/Divorce_Men22/07/21 11:11 AM
1

As I said. Go witness a late term abortion.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/07/21 02:55 PM
-1

You should sit through and observe a late term abortion so that you can better understand and defend you position on abortion.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/07/21 02:06 PM
4

I feel confident when discussing most anything with men. But with women no opinion but theirs is allowed. If you disagree you are called names and insulted or physically assaulted. They know full well you can't defend yourself from physical assault. If a man insults you it can escalate to a physical altercation. OK.Some things are worth a beating. If a woman insults you for no other reason than you don't agree with her opinion, you have no recourse. You just have to fall back on ' sticks and sto…
/r/MGTOW220/07/21 01:38 PM
-2

No. The experience should be given to all. You are just a spoiled child.
/r/MGTOW217/07/21 04:08 PM
1

WOW. Unbelievable.
/r/MGTOW217/07/21 04:02 PM
10

There is the possibility that the husband knows.
/r/MGTOW217/07/21 08:08 AM
6

Because you cannot just assign ownership of a home over to someone else. Even if you could, her lawyer would have a field day with it and a judge would make his life miserable for trying to hide assets. You guys have not been through the gynocentric court system have you? The only thing a man can do is to start hiding small amounts of cash or valuables away from the woman.(at a relatives or at work etc) Sell stuff off quietly ( small stuff). Then keep the assets you have secured quiet. Don't tel…
/r/MGTOW215/07/21 11:32 AM
7

"Entitled idiots or adult brats"??? I feel I am entitled to keep ALL my money and not have to interact with a group that is spectacularly venomous and entitled. Not to mention unfairly advantaged legally. So, yeah.....entitled.
/r/MGTOW214/07/21 02:02 PM
3

Now THAT'S funny.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/07/21 12:46 PM
1

Not always.....
/r/Divorce_Men12/07/21 10:33 PM
5

Just a few meals from a substantial dunlop. She's all spanxed up.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/07/21 07:08 PM
3

Yeah. Getting bad advice from her 'expert' friends. Stay calm and focused and you should come out OK. Good Luck.
/r/Divorce_Men11/07/21 06:35 PM
3

Does she work? How long were you married? How different is your income if she does work. All these things plus varying state laws matter. I dont think she has a firm grasp of the situation yet. It is important to keep your mouth shut. Don't argue.
/r/Divorce_Men11/07/21 06:11 PM
11

I was a strong supporter of gay rights for decades. Now I am made to feel that I must kneel before gay people and offer some kind of apology for being straight. FU.
/r/MGTOW211/07/21 12:58 PM
1

There is nothing more vicious (and generally wrong) than a group of women around a breakroom table telling each other that they are blameless in life and everything is mens fault.
/r/Divorce_Men11/07/21 12:31 PM
3

Having explored the other options I am completely happy with a strong wrist. Enjoy the cats.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/07/21 11:00 AM
3

They are looking for as many reasons to be pissed as they can find. It focuses all their pathetic frustrations on you and makes you the cause of all her failures. Therefore she sails through life completely blameless. Have you ever had a woman take responsibility for anything she did???? Not me.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/07/21 10:47 PM
2

Well said.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/07/21 10:41 PM
5

Money. Self Esteem.
/r/MGTOW209/07/21 09:58 PM
25

EXACTLY. The guy needs to walk.
/r/MGTOW209/07/21 11:40 AM
68

I'm 64. Retired. No debt. Only a mortgage. Enough in my IRA to cover everything plus. I Have a good dog. And unlimited time to do as I wish. I burned the candle at both ends for a few decades. No more. It is strange though. The single women around my age are very obviously desperate but still refuse to get off their high horse. They make outlandish demands and don't seem to understand when I ask them to politely pound sand. It is mind boggling to them that I would happily live and die alone rath…
/r/MGTOW208/07/21 07:55 PM
22

From my 64 yrs of old age what I am getting from this is...... 'Tell us how you feel so that we can figure out how to use it to our advantage '. Most men have experienced that little ploy. You share something heartfelt and when it becomes advantageous to the woman she uses it to hurt you. Sorry. Never again.
/r/MGTOW208/07/21 03:21 PM
6

Al Bundy enters the home. Peg: Did you miss me Al? Al: With every bullet so far Peg.
/r/MGTOW206/07/21 08:45 PM
4

WOW. This is weird. The 2nd picture seems to be a "I've hit the wall" poster.
/r/MGTOW206/07/21 12:23 PM
2

"I'm having a bad wardrobe day"?????? Wow. Evidently an organized lifestyle is not a thing here. "My tooth..." that's kinda original.
/r/MGTOW203/07/21 04:40 PM
5

I am 64 and cannot disagree with anything you said. Learn how to handle your finances. Observe the ways other men are manipulated ( even in your own family) and used. You've got a good start.
/r/MGTOW230/06/21 11:37 PM
4

My brother went through that. His son would find and take any financial documents (pay stubs, bank statements) back to my brothers ex. He was always in court fighting with her about her wanting more child support. Be careful. There is always the possibility of feeding the spy disinformation. If you want to get that machiavellian. It's probably best just to talk unicorns and rainbows.
/r/Divorce_Men28/06/21 03:07 PM
3

Men are always blamed because that rationalization explains away every problem that women have. It is ALWAYS the mans fault. Around every workroom lunch table or female gathering this subject is pounded on endlessly. Just listen to them surreptitiously some time. Women take responsibility for nothing. It is always a mans fault.
/r/MGTOW228/06/21 02:39 PM
2

I always felt a bit guilty buying something for myself. No more.
/r/MGTOW228/06/21 02:31 PM
2

Or make them angrier.
/r/MGTOW224/06/21 12:45 PM
9

Get your money right. Learn to keep your own counsel.( basically keep your mouth shut.:))
/r/MGTOW223/06/21 01:35 PM
20

Absolutely.
/r/MGTOW222/06/21 02:13 PM
3

I'm not paying for the pleasure of being lied to and being treated like garbage.
/r/MGTOW221/06/21 07:50 PM
2

Absolutely. Justifying their selfishness.
/r/Divorce_Men20/06/21 10:16 PM
4

To ALL men reading this. ALWAYS have financial resources that she does not know about. Kept in a place she can't find .
/r/Divorce_Men20/06/21 03:09 PM
1

It took me a bit to learn simple things like there is a difference between a 1 cup measuring cup and a 1 cup liquid measuring cup. Keep adjusting your meal attempts until you get it right. I made a key lime cheesecake last week. It was horrible:). But now I know what I did wrong and the next one will be better.
/r/MGTOW215/06/21 03:27 AM
1

Jurisimprudence.
/r/Divorce_Men13/06/21 11:01 AM
31

This may sound a bit odd but I have been spending time trying to grow trees from cuttings. My brother has 15 acres of land and I've been trying to plant different types of useful trees there. Sugar Maple, Black Walnut, Apple, Cherry etc. It's fairly interesting. People are usually quite nice about letting me take small cuttings from their trees.
/r/MGTOW211/06/21 09:43 AM
1

I kept squirreling away cash in my brothers home safe. Don't get obvious about it. Be consistent. If more than one person knows, it isn't a secret.
/r/Divorce_Men11/06/21 09:37 AM
1

In my state (WI) she would get zero money. Just an equitable division of assets. You have to be married for over 10 yrs and not working for spousal support to even be considered. Keep your mouth shut and get the divorce. Then practice the FU grin you'll give her in court.
/r/Divorce_Men11/06/21 09:19 AM
0

Politicians will give any group anything to get their vote. Right or wrong. Laws are not about justice. You see this at work in our society every day.
/r/MGTOW208/06/21 04:18 PM
1

Now THAT'S funny.
/r/MGTOW207/06/21 10:39 AM
9

The EX is the snake. The family are seriously knee jerk crazy. Leave em all in the dust and build a better life. Therapy will help with the right therapist.
/r/MGTOW207/06/21 10:34 AM
6

Gotta agree.
/r/Divorce_Men05/06/21 02:04 AM
2

I'm pretty old so I still cling desperately to the rules of writing and speaking I was taught in school. Having said that I have to assume this buffoon means HODL'D (holded) (Good Lord) What a complete Narcissist.
/r/MGTOW31/05/21 02:15 PM
5

She's laughing at you behind your back with her friends. Sorry to say that but you are being used. Like many decent are used.
/r/Divorce_Men31/05/21 01:52 PM
2

If you ask people about the most vicious lawyers in your area then get an interview with all of them. Pick the one you like. Then your STBX cannot use any of them because it is a conflict of interest.
/r/Divorce_Men31/05/21 11:52 AM
1

AMEN!
/r/Divorce_Men31/05/21 09:02 AM
1

I feel that the military also teaches you about people as well as yourself. You also learn that the world is not such a nice place. You don't get good life lessons like that in college. You get indoctrinated.
/r/MGTOW229/05/21 02:47 AM
3

I completely understand. When my son turned 18 my ex called me to complain about something. I don't even remember what but I just hung up the phone. I no longer had to put up with her threats to use the courts as a weapon to take more money from me if I didn't do what she wanted. She held me hostage for 16 years. No more.
/r/Divorce_Men28/05/21 11:58 AM
2

"Trickle Truth". Great phrase. I knew immediately what you meant. Been there. It is a vicious nasty habit of a 'person' trying to keep their narcissistic skirts clean. I'm happy to hear of your new life. Enjoy.
/r/Divorce_Men28/05/21 11:47 AM
11

ALWAYS have back up cash that no one knows about. Kept in a place that is very difficult for them to find. A relatives house or your office or locker at work. I once split from my wife with just $5 in dimes. It was a rough couple of weeks. :)
/r/MGTOW227/05/21 12:01 PM
1

Sweet.
/r/MGTOW221/05/21 10:44 PM
1

Anything that is disliked is portrayed as a threat and sinister by the professional victims/haters. You see this nonsense everyday anymore. I don't see a lot of hate on mgtow2 but the fanatics of the world will shriek to high heaven about any idea that is not theirs. Let em keep crying wolf.
/r/MGTOW219/05/21 10:42 AM
1

Doesn't matter.....Everything will be HIS fault. He did right.
/r/MGTOW215/05/21 10:07 PM
4

Get a lawyer.
/r/Divorce_Men10/05/21 12:11 AM
1

Dune Messiah.
/r/MGTOW210/05/21 12:00 AM
2

The Daily Beast.....GAG
/r/MGTOW209/05/21 11:59 PM
2

You are correct about Martial Arts.
/r/MGTOW209/05/21 11:55 PM
8

It is a question of taking care of yourself. If you own equipment you should be able to care for it. You put yourself in a bad position if you cannot understand and care for equipment you depend on to live your life. Cooking, cleaning, caring for your clothing, decorating your living space, caring for pets (if you take on that responsibility) caring for your home, fiscal responsibility etc etc. These (and more) are all things a man must learn to be proficient in life. Our education system lets u…
/r/MGTOW209/05/21 11:45 PM
1

'One Night Stands'......plural. 'That ways'.... Good God. False rape charges as a career path. This is the world we live in gentleman. Proceed with caution.
/r/MGTOW208/05/21 09:59 AM
1

Have you been divorced?
/r/Divorce_Men01/05/21 06:34 PM
2

My take on that would be.....She wants to be "friends" because it makes life easier for her. She instigated the divorce because she has a new significant other. This is not about her wanting to "get your attention". 1. See an attorney. Shut down all joint accounts. 2. Accept the fact that the marriage is over and protect yourself accordingly. 3. KEEP YOUR MOUTH SHUT. Anything you say or do will be used against you if possible. You did not start this. She did. The 'why' is not important now. You …
/r/Divorce_Men01/05/21 06:27 PM
1

The 70's were MUCH better, believe me.
/r/MGTOW201/05/21 09:21 AM
1

That's Thoreau...."What mans possessions put out in the light of day don't look like just so much junk." You are correct Sir. We are a slave to our possessions.
/r/MGTOW201/05/21 09:05 AM
3

Misandrist tactic. The pomposity and hate is palpable.
/r/MGTOW201/05/21 07:24 AM
1

There is nothing for me to justify to anyone. I don't engage in conversation with women outside of what is necessary. I am living my own life and after 3 years of doing so I am ecstatically happy. Plenty of money. Plenty of time for my activities. Plenty of peace and quiet. Fantastic. I wish I had done this years ago. Take a good look around at the single women over 35. It's nearly laughable. This mgtow movement terrifies women and it should. Don't engage in ANY argument with women EVER. It's a …
/r/MGTOW229/04/21 04:52 AM
10

Toxic Femininity = Gender Studies.
/r/MGTOW224/04/21 08:08 PM
5

Totally agree about her work boyfriend not working out....
/r/Divorce_Men20/04/21 04:56 AM
5

Add that "I am not required to be drafted for military service. "
/r/MensRights13/04/21 09:08 PM
2

Do you follow any of the freak show news??? The US Army just lowered the physical training requirements for being in Combat Arms. I spent 61/2 years active duty in a Combat Arms unit. I have an idea about what I'm talking about. Somehow you think its OK for this to happen???? If a man can't pass the PT test he is bounced out or sent fir remedial physical training to get him in shape. Why? Because if he can't keep up in combat he's going to get killed or worse, get someone else killed. But that's…
/r/MGTOW230/03/21 11:13 PM
2

Read up on lying with statistics. Try Bella DePaulo's "the cheater technique". Facts...Ha, that's laughable.
/r/MGTOW230/03/21 01:33 PM
2

Exercise. Hard. Regularly. You'll feel better.
/r/Divorce_Men30/03/21 01:23 AM
7

Absolutely true. They probably have been involved with the plan already.
/r/Divorce_Men30/03/21 01:18 AM
4

But the manbashing can continue. Right?
/r/MGTOW229/03/21 04:17 PM
2

Well....the woke police are still with us. Have you researched the misandrist verbiage that is present on other reddit groups? Have you pointed this out to the users of those groups?
/r/MGTOW229/03/21 04:14 PM
15

Lowering the standards of job performance is NOT equality. Making the physical requirements for being in an Infantry unit easier to placate women is just FOOLHARDY. That's just one example.
/r/MGTOW229/03/21 12:50 AM
5

rude,rude,RUDE. I can't take being around people like that. They seem to be more and more common lately.
/r/MGTOW224/03/21 12:46 AM
2

Well, not to put too fine a point on it..... I had a massive midlife crisis. Got a divorce. Bought a new BMW Z4. Tried to drink Wisconsin dry and took a stab (pun not intended)at humping any woman I could. So I guess the vasectomy served me well. Not a penny in child support. :)
/r/MGTOW223/03/21 12:10 PM
5

I got mine at 30 yoa. Felt it was a smart move and was happy with the choice. I married a girl 9 years later that was 14 years younger than me. After 5 or 6 years of marriage she wanted to have a child. She knew about the vasectomy from the beginning. It was a bone if contention for a bit.
/r/MGTOW222/03/21 10:23 PM
2

I was lonelier when I was in a relationship than now. Stay busy.
/r/MGTOW221/03/21 06:54 PM
6

One of the most difficult things to come to grips with in life for me was understanding that the harder you work the more work you'll be given. It is infuriating. Being honest is what we are taught but a lot of people just hate it. Unfortunately you have set the bar for yourself already so to start working at the level that is accepted of others will bring you the wrath of the higher ups. It may be time to consider moving on and chalk this up as a learning experience. Prepare a good statement fo…
/r/MGTOW221/03/21 03:02 PM
6

Amen.
/r/MGTOW217/03/21 11:17 PM
7

Below the cat or dog. ABSOLUTELY.
/r/MGTOW215/03/21 08:08 PM
3

Earned income credit. Get a tax return without paying any taxes or earning any income. Stunning.
/r/MGTOW215/03/21 07:49 PM
1

Brilliant.
/r/MGTOW215/03/21 07:45 PM
3

I agree completely. Watch it happen. Back when the Democrats had ruled this country for several decades (30s, 40s and 50s) the tax rate for a single person that earned the highest rates was a tax of 90%. Imagine the ruthless selfishness of that.
/r/MGTOW215/03/21 07:45 PM
3

I feel that another man's experiences with women are very educational. Sometimes you learn what not to do or what to look out for. I've been CLEANED OUT in a divorce and wish I had been able to read the experiences of other guys so I knew what NOT to do.
/r/MGTOW211/03/21 12:53 AM
5

Good for you Dude. Every day is a learning experience. Pretty soon you'll look back with surprise at the strides you've made.
/r/MGTOW211/03/21 12:44 AM
1

I did skilled industrial maintenance for over 3 decades. Women weren't qualified. Didn't have the skills. At an auto plant I worked at women got the jobs anyway. They got the easiest work and were embarrassingly coddled.
/r/MGTOW211/03/21 12:40 AM
-1

Nonsense. Learn your history before you start tossing blame.
/r/MGTOW207/03/21 12:01 AM
2

Is the term 'skank' allowed?
/r/MGTOW206/03/21 01:18 PM
2

A good move. List your wants and stick to them. The market for housing is a bit high in my area so perhaps patience is called for. Just keep saving for a down payment.
/r/MGTOW206/03/21 01:11 PM
1

Absolutely. I am free from nagging. I am free from condescending remarks. I am free from her snooty friends and the vicious coworkers. I have so much more money that I am surprised at the end of every month. I enjoy doing things that make me happy and interested without constant pushback. It's been two of the best years of my life and it keeps getting better.
/r/MGTOW206/03/21 01:07 PM
3

Like she ignored his request to NOT be contacted at night? No. This man was disrespected and his wishes were disregarded. He did right by cutting this person out of his life.
/r/MGTOW204/03/21 12:42 PM
1

Unfortunately, no.
/r/MGTOW203/03/21 02:49 PM
14

My 63 yrs of life experience tells me that you are not far off the mark. The feminist yack about men showing theirs feelings seems to be just a way to get him out of the way a bit quicker. I live alone and don't interact with females much. I've never been happier.
/r/MGTOW203/03/21 02:17 PM
2

I can't muster any feeling for the guy. He doesn't rate it. The woman on the other hand is just vile. A 'why I am mgtow' poster child.
/r/MGTOW201/03/21 01:02 AM
1

Don't engage women at any time about your beliefs. Ignore them. No matter what. Ignore them. It is an argument that society will not let you win. So don't get involved.
/r/MGTOW226/02/21 04:06 PM
2

Perpetual victimhood. Will it ever end?
/r/MensRights26/02/21 09:26 AM
2

True.
/r/MGTOW223/02/21 11:17 PM
-1

In the end you would regret sending the photos to anyone.
/r/MGTOW223/02/21 10:04 AM
4

Any Rand was pretty much on the mark.
/r/MGTOW222/02/21 07:13 PM
7

Men are poorly depicted in almost all commercials. Not well shown in most movies. All I can do is not support the entertainment industry at all. Don't go to movie theaters. Don't knowingly support businesses owned by women. The wallet is the only weapon I have. It seems to be OK to be vilified by the world but at some point a guy has to draw a line. Right down to not having a drink in a certain bar because I know the bartender is a complete misandrist.
/r/MGTOW222/02/21 07:05 PM
1

"Walk away". That's the truth.
/r/MGTOW220/02/21 09:36 AM
1

The shaming language is very true. A person gets used to being called worthless or whatever. It takes time to regain some semblance of confidence. It's funny that it had to be pointed out to me for me to really get it. Once you realize that you're not the bad guy you start to recover quickly.
/r/MGTOW220/02/21 09:23 AM
1

The way it was explained to me was "There isn't a quarter inch difference in any of them".
/r/MGTOW219/02/21 08:44 PM
1

I have found that relationships with very attractive women to be VERY difficult. No matter what they're ready to monkey branch at a moments notice. To be frank the sex is never anything memorable either. You're working your ass off to please and she isn't. Never try to impress a woman. She'll expect it every time. :)
/r/MGTOW219/02/21 07:24 PM
3

I think this should be required reading for all males at 18. Great.
/r/MGTOW219/02/21 07:15 PM
1

You Sir, are way out of line. You tell someone that stands up to your demand of supplication that you will report him. That is not an attitude of acceptance or learning. I'm just a dumbass that spent 4 decades busting my ass in factories so I don't really use words like 'ad hominem' but I understood what he was saying. I am not sure you did.
/r/MGTOW217/02/21 10:06 PM
1

I agree. I was struggling to figure out what the gentleman's angle was.
/r/MGTOW217/02/21 09:53 PM
1

GOOD JOB!
/r/MGTOW217/02/21 09:36 PM
1

Absolutely correct.
/r/MGTOW215/02/21 09:11 PM
4

Have to disagree. Men are the enemy or feminists can't get the governmental and judicial upper hand. Have your read the Duluth Proxy?
/r/MGTOW215/02/21 08:35 PM
1

Everything I see today in the actions of women refutes this. Sorry. I can't go against what I see every day.
/r/MGTOW215/02/21 08:32 PM
1

I enjoyed the post. Good for you young man.
/r/MGTOW215/02/21 07:06 PM
1

I am glad that your experience is more positive than mine.
/r/MGTOW215/02/21 06:59 PM
5

A certain percentage of the people in the world HAVE to demean others to feel good about themselves. I'd say 1 in 3 do this in some form or other. Listen to how people talk to others. Left hand compliments etc. There seems to be little to recommend modern American society. Chose those that you let into your life carefully. I live alone and find that the company of my dog is better than most people.
/r/MGTOW212/02/21 10:51 AM
2

Absolutely. Silence is an effective weapon.
/r/MGTOW208/02/21 10:14 PM
1

There will be a civil war before a world war.
/r/MGTOW227/01/21 11:42 PM
3

I thought I was the only one that noticed that. :)
/r/MGTOW225/01/21 07:43 AM
0

Fantasy??? Watch 'The Red Pill'. Read about the 'Duluth Proxy '. This is no fantasy. It is Misandrist war.
/r/MGTOW225/01/21 07:40 AM
1

This behavior of hers will become more dramatic the longer you stay around her. False accusations are next. RUN.
/r/MGTOW225/01/21 07:36 AM
2

Nonsense. She started listening to her friends at work.
/r/MGTOW220/01/21 08:17 PM
4

She is a female. Therefore ALL males are wrong and not worthy is any real respect. This is a lesson that it has taken me half a century to figure out. Never legitimize their statements by arguing with them. Keep your mouth shut and keep taking care of yourself. No matter what you do you will be wrong to females.
/r/MGTOW220/01/21 08:14 PM
4

It seems from my observations that women seem to need to ostracize one member of the group. They pick one person to hate and keep at them. It is obvious in nature and seems to be common in humans too. MGTOW.
/r/MGTOW215/01/21 05:41 PM
1

After reading the comments I feel I should add something. It is important that you SHUT THE F#%$ UP. Don't talk to her about anything that is not necessary to protect and help the children. Don't speak to anyone about your situation. Not your friends and certainly not her friends or family. STFU. Anything you say to anyone will be used as a weapon against you. Stay off all social media sites. Be viscous about money. Don't argue about it. Do to her what women have done for half a century. Hide it…
/r/MGTOW215/01/21 03:52 PM
2

My son took advantage of military educational benefits and worked. He got his Doctorate with no student loans. If you have ANY Integrity you can do it. And in most of the world college is NOT cheap or free. What propaganda machine do you represent?
/r/MGTOW214/01/21 09:41 AM
1

The "huge prosperity" of the 50s and 60s was caused by the destruction of most of the rest the world in WW2. High taxes are modern slavery. Right bigtime?
/r/MGTOW210/01/21 09:54 AM
1

After a half century of feminists telling men that their problem was that they don't share their emotions now we can see why we don't share emotions with women. Because the feminine double standard exists and is liberally used.
/r/MGTOW206/12/20 04:50 PM
3

I am 63. I got a vasectomy at 30. Never spoke of it to any women I dated. It saved me from a pregnancy frame up once. Get your sperm frozen if you feel you may need to procreate at some point.
/r/MGTOW217/10/20 01:37 PM
7

I enjoy reading everyone's opinions here. I think that perhaps your statement is a bit too academic for a dumbass like me. More simply put, women are spectacularly self centered and self involved. If they feel that mgtow offers an opportunity to cut some poor slob from the herd so that she can fleece him this is where she will hunt.
/r/MGTOW217/10/20 01:26 PM
1

I learned something I feel is important as my last relationship was ending. I kept my mouth shut. We had to cohabitate for about a month while everything was hashed out. I kept my mouth SHUT. Particularly when she was try to conciliatory. She was NOT my friend. No matter what they say women want to remain on friendly terms for their benefit. Even in the face of direct questions KEEP YOUR MOUTH SHUT. First, once the decision to split is made, nothing of your life is their business. It can only be…
/r/MGTOW220/09/20 12:02 PM
1

I have never been more lonely and lost than when I was in relationships with women. You are fine. These feelings are normal.
/r/MGTOW215/09/20 09:55 PM
1

Yeah. I've never been lonelier than when I was in relationships.
/r/MGTOW229/08/20 02:29 PM
2

For me it was (and is) being patient with cooking. I was notorious for under cooking.:) Sticking with whatever you wish bvb to try cooking until you get it right. And yes I have eaten some really bad meals but It us all coming around. Good Luck.
/r/MGTOW229/08/20 12:10 PM
1

Did you miss the part about wild accusations and destroying expensive property? I am sorry. I disagree with everything you said. If this woman has issues and refuses to address them she is a spoiled petulant child and needs to be on her own.
/r/MGTOW227/08/20 06:19 PM
4

If the grapes had proven themselves to be sour everytime the fox had tried them his attitude may have been justified.
/r/MGTOW227/08/20 05:59 PM
1

She can't be worse than the daughter on Yellowstone.
/r/MGTOW224/08/20 06:01 PM
4

NEVER let anyone know anything about your financial situation. Always have money put back that no one knows about.
/r/MGTOW224/08/20 05:57 PM
1

Silence. Leave.
/r/MGTOW224/08/20 05:54 PM
2

2 bedrooms are cheaper and easier to maintain (clean). They are also a bit harder to sell. I've owned both and I liked the 2 bedroom better.
/r/MGTOW220/08/20 12:09 AM
1

I understand completely. Carry on. If you try to make a stand on the sloth of your coworkers you will be the bad guy. There is no need to rush or get angry. Set your goals and keep steadily pushing on. One of the best ways to learn to be a good boss is to once in awhile look at things from a bosses perspective and take a proactive approach your tasks. Cheerful silence pays dividends.
/r/MGTOW217/08/20 11:41 AM
2

I'll bet he gets dates.
/r/MGTOW215/08/20 11:29 PM
0

It may come as a shock to you but there are a certain number of people that find a guy with a decent job and go out of their way to get pregnant. I have seen this on many occasions. Even in my small hometown. These women want 18 to 22 years of child support. Strangely I find that my mother was correct when she told me to clean up my language. People would not take me seriously if I couldn't convey my opinion without being nasty and foul mouthed.
/r/MGTOW208/08/20 07:42 PM
1

That you can get out of child support even with DNA tests. Watch the documentary. Its amazing how some guys are getting screwed.
/r/MGTOW207/08/20 09:48 PM
1

No. It is not. Do a bit of research. Pregnancy resulting from casual sex is a nasty bit of business. Some women will say and do some really vile things to get money.
/r/MGTOW207/08/20 07:43 PM
-1

Watch the documentary called "The Red Pill ". It shows that your statement is not true.
/r/MGTOW207/08/20 07:37 PM
2

I suppose when the gentleman decides to have a child with a person that the test will not be that big a deal. But as a result of casual sex, yeah always make sure.
/r/MGTOW207/08/20 07:35 PM
3

What to do with ones assets at death is an intriguing question. My son is doing well and has drastically different political views than me. No grand children. I'd like to hear other opinions.
/r/MGTOW201/08/20 08:22 PM
3

Because marriage is not about love. It is about legality. Love comes and goes. Laws last til she gets what she wants or longer.
/r/MGTOW229/07/20 07:25 PM
4

First. KEEP YOUR MOUTH SHUT. Don't engage with people that want to insult or belittle you. Even if the come off as friendly. Anything that you say will be used against you in some way. Let whoever make stuff up. It drives some people frantic which is kind of interesting to watch.
/r/MGTOW229/07/20 07:21 PM
3

I have always felt that most of my issues with women started with Mother/female family members.
/r/MGTOW229/07/20 07:13 PM
9

At 63 I find mgtow to be a healthy fulfilling way of life. I need to protect myself. Society sees me in a way that is unfair. Any academic emotional blather (Maslow pfftt) is only one more argument to make someone a victim. If a person wants to get all touchy feely go ahead. Don't paint everyone else with that brush.
/r/MGTOW228/07/20 03:13 PM
5

My ex-wife started hitting me because I had the gall to want to leave a party at 3am. I ignored it and that sent her into a bigger rage so she threw a stereo speaker at me.(a big one) My point is that women are spectacularly selfish and despite what society would present to the world, are given a free hand to commit violence on men. Have fun trying to get the system to address it.
/r/MGTOW227/07/20 06:51 PM
1

I'm glad someone else had that feeling too.
/r/MGTOW227/07/20 06:39 PM
2

Better start figuring out how to isolate your own resources.
/r/MGTOW223/07/20 07:41 PM
1

I doubt there is any 'hard data'. The gentleman is speaking about life experience. If you constantly see a certain type of behavior you are going to be very careful getting near that gender. Like the old joke "You knew I was a snake when you picked me up." If you as an individual feel OK with a female friend.... go for it.
/r/MGTOW222/07/20 04:16 PM
1

Well, the pessimist in me would come to the conclusion that perhaps, just perhaps since he saw her cheating he would try his luck with her. I've seen it more than once. I've seen it done by family members.
/r/MGTOW221/07/20 10:50 PM
4

I meet a lot of people when I volunteer to do different things. I joined a kennel club. I am learning to train dogs. I go to yoga classes. Lots of people out there.Good Luck.
/r/MGTOW221/07/20 10:40 PM
1

I've never felt lonely unless I was in a relationship. Strange huh.
/r/MGTOW220/07/20 07:29 PM
2

Your life.....your decision. Good for you. If it is enough for you it's enough. Keep it up. :)
/r/MGTOW220/07/20 06:52 PM
1

Good job. I'm happy for you. There are tons of things to do with a house to keep a guy busy and happy.
/r/MGTOW220/07/20 06:43 PM
0

What I hear is "you must conform to my way of thinking". No. I am fine being on my own. I'm not ridiculed. I meet and exceed MY expectations for myself. I stick to my life and leave others alone. I ask nothing of anyone. I raise and train my dogs and it is perfectly fulfilling. By and large Paul Simon had it wrong.
/r/MGTOW220/07/20 06:39 PM
1

That would be so spectacularly out of the norm from what life has shown me that I would have a very difficult time believing it. What I would believe is someone preparing their arguments would study this site. Every single woman I have ever met has shown me nothing of themselves except hate, spite and angst. EVERY SINGLE ONE. I am done.
/r/MGTOW219/07/20 11:04 PM
2

75%
/r/MGTOW219/07/20 10:50 PM
1

I was advised once that if I wanted to keep money for myself that I should go to a bank in a town near my hometown and open an account. Paperless. No statement mailed to you. Transpose the last 2 numbers of your Social Security number. That is how accounts are searched for. Don't keep the account info on your phone. Just delete the activity.
/r/MGTOW215/07/20 12:30 AM
1

Wow.....
/r/MGTOW215/07/20 12:22 AM
2

I can think of no reason for you to be here other than to argue or insult. Not really a positive endeavor.
/r/MGTOW210/07/20 07:53 PM
1

There has been a war on males for half a century. Watch almost any commercial and see how men are depicted as incompetent. Not being the focus of snotty negative remarks by the ex and her friends. Not being to blame for EVERY issue in a womans life. ( This is SO cathartic) Having the time and resources to rebuild your self confidence after years of constant negativity. Feeling at home and at ease in your own home. This is the best. Watching your life blossom without the boat anchor you've been t…
/r/MGTOW201/07/20 07:22 PM
1

Taxes are one thing. Unfair payments to ex's mandated by unfair judges is a different story.
/r/MGTOW201/07/20 07:04 PM
3

There was a time that I would have considered your post to be harsh. That time has passed for me. I fully agree with you.
/r/MGTOW230/06/20 02:15 AM
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