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imo, that's not what this article about but, like the title says, about why women lose the dating game, and that's much more interesting... this pareto principle of alpha male is quite obvious, but to ponder on girls that play it tough and end up losing that game is much more interesting in helping one who hasn't yet reached the level of not caring about rejection.
/r/seduction23/01/13 05:55 AM
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I like your story, especially that I'm a very different guy than you, am good looking and had more then 50 girls before 18, and I think your tips are awesome, to tell it simply, I agree with more of what you're saying then what most guys in seddit say, imo, you got it right... May I be clear on one point: being a friend with a girl in no way is a problem... Let's debate, whoever, if you wish, but I disagree with the no friend zone... That is a comment mainly about your last point which I think i…
/r/seduction02/01/13 02:04 AM
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having done no fapping for other reasons then seduction, I think I understand how it can help someone: you get to a point where you don't care about sex... and that's a huge strength, as I hope most people on this subreddit knows, and I, of course, became incredibly attractive to females at that point of extreme not caring (I was turning girls down, systematically)... but it's "at that point", i.e. not when you miss jerking off, but after a while without any sex, when you start not caring about …
/r/seduction26/11/12 09:50 AM
1

I hadn't seen this article about taking cold-showers, but a thing I've done ever since I've understood pheromones is to take a hot shower and to wait for sweat to come off of my body... since I'm all cleaned up at this point, I just let it drip as long as possible after I close the water, so that some sweat stay on me... it creates a natural perfume of sweat that is actually a natural pheromonal perfume that, dude, I tell you, works! They told me so! :D
/r/seduction26/11/12 09:33 AM
1

Well put, I dodged a bullet, I guess, indeed, some guys lack so much confidence, or are crack addicts, that they just need pussies by the numbers: I, dear sir, am a Sir, and I only need and want those pussies of the highest quality.
/r/seduction22/11/12 10:53 PM
1

to be honest, I knew it the moment she started texting me much, but from experience I knew I had to see her, otherwise it'd be too intense, by seeing her I gave her an image of an ordinary guy, got it out of her head that maybe I was this magic prince sent from heaven to save her... avoiding her wasn't the answer, seeing her for a very brief moment was...
/r/seduction22/11/12 02:13 AM
2

well, let's see... I did go to the coffee with her but made it so that it wouldn't last more then 15 minutes, afterwards she texted me "I'm sorry we couldn't meet longer, are you angry at me I had to leave?", well, no I'm not, I made it that way... a guy said a stupid joke while on the sidewalk, she said he's jealous of me (for me being with her): in a nutshell, she has a big ego problem, I'm giving myself a gift not to fuck her, less problems!
/r/seduction22/11/12 12:06 AM
5

Good angle, reminds me of last week a girl wanting coffee with me, texting me like crazy "now? Is it good now for coffee?", and her being needy just annnoyed me, so, yeah, seeing it from the other side makes the principles even more obvious, like in my case, why I should never be needy, for it annoys me when a girl is needy towards me...
/r/seduction21/11/12 09:29 AM
1

Oh, they hated me alright, and lots still do, doesn't mean I couldn't still pull it off. The thing is that among themselves they behave like sex is a bad thing and they don't want it and only us wants it, but once you're alone with a girl, she cuts the crap and fucks like there's no tomorrow.
/r/seduction12/11/12 09:46 PM
1

wow, I don't even go to clubs... I get woman everywhere, subway, grocery stores... as a kid, I was if not the most popular one of the most popular guy and I wasn't shy, was what is called in this community "a natural" (still am, just don't give a fuck as much), and so just went from one woman to the other without caring much, with a liberty philosophy... there's no arguments here, it's just the way it is, either ask how you can be so awesome or call me a liar, I don't care, but you're not going …
/r/seduction12/11/12 09:18 PM
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Come on, there's 52 saturday nights in a year, just that can suffice. edit: that was to answer your logicstically possibility, but I also started to fuck at 12, which gives me about 10 girls a year average... but there was this one girl I dated for a whole year when I was 13 and another when I was 16 and I don't know the exact number, I forgot it (I actually wrote them all down when I turned 18, but that was more than 18 years ago ;) I only rememember that it was more then 50, 54 would be my gue…
/r/seduction12/11/12 08:41 PM
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Well, the truth is that it was more then 50...
/r/seduction12/11/12 07:54 PM
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True, but that's where most should aim. I got in the community because of a friend who was in deep depression over a girl, I kinda of accompanied him and discovered it was great for sharpening the skills, keeping awareness, etc., and I think the more it evolve through time, the more it'll be people who aren't unsuccessful, but who simply find that's it's important to keep the seduction skills up, even if you already are with a girl, you still need to constantly seduce her.
/r/seduction11/11/12 07:55 PM
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No, you grow up, that was basically my point, seeing it so ridiculously in black and white with all this aggressiveness isn't helping the point you're trying to make. I was polite at first, but I adapt to a stupid crowd.
/r/seduction11/11/12 07:51 PM
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So I should just shut the fuck up when someone says the most ridiculous generalization because it goes without saying that they are ridiculous and false... I see, thanks!
/r/seduction11/11/12 10:42 AM
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First off, that's just rude. My post, blablabla, as if this is a private conversation, I'm expanding, no need to be a dick, unless you want to be one and so fuck you! Second, you start your post , except the title, by saying that there are two types of guys you meet. I'm simply pointing that your categorization lacks science and is probably unfair to most: either nerds or psychopaths. Come on man, stop seeing everything in black and white and you'll see the world the way most ladies do and will …
/r/seduction11/11/12 10:24 AM
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there's also guys who just like to sharpen their skills or are simply intellectually curious... I'm 36 and already had more then 50 girls when I was 18, I never needed this, but I find it interesting... I don't fuck much anymore, but I do appreciate analyzing it... it is one of the most aspect of human interaction, so although I see where you're coming, I think there's much more then 2 types of people interested in...
/r/seduction11/11/12 09:02 AM
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I think I understand your paradoxical position... sometimes I get shy, nervous, probably similar to what you're describing... the way I get out of that is usually by just saying it, but that can be dangerous, I'm pretty good with words, especially in front of ladies... My guess is that you're problem is related to the awkwardness of touching... you need to touch more earlier and keep escalating the touching phase, the physical game, and if you're afraid that you' re doing it wrong, well do it wr…
/r/seduction10/11/12 03:48 PM
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Good points mate!
/r/seduction08/11/12 08:44 AM
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Well, like you said, it's not a cult, to each his own, and I personally think more like you, this said, a lot of those guys do travel a lot for work, so they see it differently, make it sound really cool but actually they just can't really fuck the same girl since they move too much... Also, I don't know how old you are, but the older I get, the easier it is to fuck 4 different girls in a week, they don't all need to be new girls I've never fucked, and if I never fucked them, I might have known …
/r/seduction02/11/12 05:28 AM
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can you give us a bit of a background, like your age and why you hadn't kissed before? I don't mean to be rude, but I'm not used to hearing about guys that are happy to get their first kiss, I usually help guys that are just depressed, lost the touch, things like that, that seems hardcore!!!
/r/seduction21/10/12 10:30 AM
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Actually, sincerely, thanks, I think you put the finger on it, I'm not a mind game player and some of my friend even call me naive on that matter, in the sense that I may be too prone to think that the person isn't bad... For example, her brother killed himself 4 days after 911, in despair of humanity, and she kinda told him to do it "If I were brave, I'd kill myself" and I think, ever since then, she's always trying to blame someone because she can't blame herself or simply kill herself ('cause…
/r/seduction26/09/12 10:28 PM
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Yes, and her brother commited suicide a few years back, a baggage I knew nothing about when I met her, as many others, like the cat she had in her arms the day she came in to move with me. This girl is highly irrational yet hghly analytival at the same time, she lacks a profund maturity to bring that gap closer.
/r/seduction26/09/12 09:50 PM
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Ok, I'll give it a try, thanks.
/r/seduction26/09/12 07:39 PM
1

I got a question about S&M, that girl in the next room is crazy, ever since we've met she's asking me to dominate her through various ways, like putting my hand on he throat while we're fucking and she'll say things like "wow, I've never been fucked that hard", but will often turn the game upside down during non sex time, saying I'm violent, dominant, that I don't fuck her well, etc., she's crazy allright but she turns me on... Last week, she went beserk over me and I left for my computer room, …
/r/seduction26/09/12 07:53 AM
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lol, the OP is complaining that, as you said "[1] /r/seduction is turning into [2] /r/motivation" which to me isn't a problem for if he's searching for new tricks, well, the oldest tricks are the best: and that is that there are no tricks... the game, as many calls it, isn't a game, it's about learning to be a man again, it's about being your natural self, it's about becoming that magnetic center that makes you happy, and naturally attracts woman as a side effect, for it is natural to have healt…
/r/seduction19/09/12 06:49 PM
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I think there's also a novelty research at stake in the complaint he makes that kinda misses the point... it's actually an easy game, stop searching for all the other methods, once you get that, I guess a lot of what it falls down to the pep talk left... so maybe you're right, it is turning into a /r/Motivateyourself-comeonyoucandoit kinda thing, but it's ok with me...
/r/seduction19/09/12 02:42 AM
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Indeed!
/r/seduction15/09/12 05:53 AM
1

Thanks... I don't even go into bars, except once a season with theboys to dance and get drunk and have fun... I'm thinking of celibacy, monk style, be it a girl friend for years or a one night stand, I see any kind of relation as a semi-prison...
/r/seduction15/09/12 05:18 AM
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You don't get, it's my dick that controls me, not these girls!? Although we can say those girls may be controlling my dick ;)
/r/seduction15/09/12 05:15 AM
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I've had 2 girls of 4-5 years, even was married to one, but never faithful... Also 2 girls of about 1 year and several of 3-6 months... Not sure I've been unfaithful to all, sometime simply didn't had the time... I never needed to proove anything to myself, I'm naturally a chick magnet, for 2 main reasons, I gather: one, obvious, I'm a good looking guy, tall and strong, intelligent, everything a girl wants like they say and two, like my mother used to call me "the tornado", I'm unafraid and very…
/r/seduction15/09/12 03:36 AM
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Second time in two days someone recommends me this... I guess I need to read it..
/r/seduction14/09/12 11:52 PM
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Yeah, I have a strong group of old-friends... Time and energy aren't infinite and girls take too much energy, are too crazy and not independent enough.
/r/seduction14/09/12 11:46 PM
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I was free, happy, strong...
/r/seduction14/09/12 11:40 PM
1

It's actually quite religious what you wrote, I like it!
/r/seduction11/09/12 03:25 AM
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With some people like me, it's: you enjoy too much dancing and don't give a fuck about the girl looking at you. For poor guys like me, my generous and wise counsel is: go to bars to dance and have fun, approach girls anywhere else but there! ;)
/r/seduction05/09/12 11:59 PM
1

Yeah, I know, just sad for them... and where's the fun in faking? edit: oh yeah, right, they get pussies... that's pathetic, at best!
/r/seduction04/09/12 08:10 PM
1

As I once wrote here, with basically everyone disagreeing: don't fake being an alpha, instead, become one, and then you'll simply be natural.
/r/seduction04/09/12 07:54 PM
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Oh, the failure to communicate... Yeah, of course I got those, only, I forget about those, litteraly forget they exist...
/r/seduction02/09/12 01:27 PM
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What I don't get here is that I haven't been rejected any other way. What do they usually do to you for you to be so happy about something that seems so normal to me?
/r/seduction02/09/12 03:26 AM
1

It depends on the girl, that's delicate... I usually go with "maybe, not sure yet" or something like that... gotta go with the feeilng, as usual, but especially on that one, 'cause there are some stuckups bitches you might have a good time and a long time with, depends on what you're searching for, who you are, etc.
/r/seduction25/08/12 02:08 AM
1

I can't deny that there is some value to imitation, but it can only go so long... I aim at sharing that only through inner change can real outer change happen, and anyhow, I think you'll agree that there's plenty of techniques out there... Tips and little details are important and can't be ignored, but since I don't see it as bringing hapiness rather then a temporary satisfaction, I personally have been helping people that way... i.e., through linking meditation (I prefer that word but it's just…
/r/seduction03/08/12 02:42 AM
0

And much greater rewards ;)
/r/seduction02/08/12 06:30 PM
1

Yeah, and even simpler, I'd say to just talk and have fun, and if you catch one, you catch one, that's all.
/r/seduction02/08/12 06:14 PM
1

I'm only here as a researcher, I'm a natural, believe me, I don't need to learn anything from you guys, in the technical sense, really don't care about it at all, I'm trying to go deeper in the mindset of those who can't get woman to better articulate the book I'm writing about seduction. The only reason I'm writing a book is that everybody who sees me in action keeps begging me to write one. Don't mean to be arrogant, but there was no other way answering your comment, which, I'm sure, was well …
/r/seduction02/08/12 04:52 PM
1

I was trying to find something like that yesterday, probably didn't look at the goos place, thanks.
/r/seduction02/08/12 04:14 PM
1

It really is! :)
/r/seduction02/08/12 03:15 PM
1

What is an AFC?
/r/seduction02/08/12 02:59 PM
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With pleasure, but AFC, am not familiar with... and I'm not good at guessing abbreviations the first time since english isn't my first language (but I do like using them once they've set in ;) I'm not sure what to say on the spot like that, you can ask anything, but I guess my main opinion on seduction is that you need to do it from within yourself... you may fool someone for one night, but that'll be it, and you won't fool great girls, but if you want girls to come to you, if you want to be so …
/r/seduction02/08/12 10:42 AM
1

lol
/r/seduction02/08/12 10:33 AM
0

Yeah, I'd probably laugh too, and for the same reason, but first off, you don't need to care what others thinks whether you look needy or what, you just shouldn't be needy... I guess I'm trying to say that it has to come from within, you can't fool "not being needy" for long... When I say that to throw the line many times shouldn't be criticized, to follow on the fisherman analogy, I'm not saying to go beserk and throw it all over the place, you still need to be patient, take your time, and to m…
/r/seduction02/08/12 10:32 AM
0

Merci :)
/r/seduction02/08/12 10:27 AM
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lol, it's just that you hadn't met me yet... I'm a writer, that's why... But thanks, but since english isn't my first language, I wouldn't talk about the poetry or simple "well written" aspect of it, it simply says what it must... Sadly, most guys focus on rejection and are amazed at the girls I fucked (that they've met) and think it's easier for me to get a girl... Maybe it is, I don't know, but i do know that I'm out there talking to them, even if I don't fuck them, while they're shy and hesit…
/r/seduction02/08/12 01:51 AM
2

Nice quote, he's my adolescence idol :) edit : and thanks, it's from me, you can quote me, S3 ;)
/r/seduction01/08/12 11:02 PM
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A fisherman is applauded on the many big fish he brought home, not criticised for throwing the lines in too many times.
/r/seduction01/08/12 09:45 PM
1

Well, I'm technically a PUA but not a gamer, I don't do anything consciously, my interest with this community is intellectual, i.e. that through certain events in my life I had to help guys and wasn't able to put it in words. All this to contextualise that I meditate, am happy, love life, no problems there, but people coming to this field may indeed be naturally lonelier which makes sense otherwise they wouldn't search for help, but, I think of a guy I hepled for example, and he says that withou…
/r/seduction18/07/12 07:55 PM
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:)
/r/seduction10/07/12 09:47 AM
2

Well, meditation makes one magnetic as mich as being needy repulses, but it's up to uou to see if it's a path for you :)
/r/seduction10/07/12 02:04 AM
2

Have you ever read things from the Buddha and such about detachment? I find it helpful to stay focus on not wanting rather then on simply following one's heart...
/r/seduction10/07/12 01:31 AM
2

Of course it is, imo, and I've been with many woman, not really here to get help but rather to give it since I've noticed, in my real life, how dudes usually need it, and it is a key to hapiness in humanity, so a just amount of my time can be given without me feeling wasting any, and so am not simply padding on your back, nor mocking you, but pointing that your strength is not where you think... Dudes can't get girls 'cause they try to get girls... Be true to yourself, your passions, your feelin…
/r/seduction09/07/12 06:59 PM
2

Of course you do ;)
/r/seduction09/07/12 09:29 AM
1

and that type of concentration usually attracts the ladies... that's a key to seduction too few get because it's too natural, cannot be faked...
/r/seduction08/07/12 11:33 PM
2

i'm actually one of the rare specimen who love so much dancing that it actually can be bad for me to hook up with someone 'cause I often am too much in it, not even interested in the other peoples... But it does attract girls, but that's not my fault ;)
/r/seduction07/07/12 07:40 AM
2

lol, now these are some moves! ;) not the greatest, but they are dance moves!
/r/seduction07/07/12 07:15 AM
2

lol, honestly, no I don't! ;)
/r/seduction07/07/12 06:25 AM
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it's hardly a dance move ;)
/r/seduction06/07/12 05:46 PM
5

That must make for good sex!? lol Anyway, your explanation makes sense, but if you want to be alpha on the dance floor and get the hard to get one, I hope you took notes of what she's saying. And yes, of course, I agree 100% with her, I've never initiated grinding and yet have done it oh so many times... On a more general note, pick up should always be done in 2 steps: you initiate the formal approach, she initiates the sex (you may be the first one touching, but it'll be because her eyes or bod…
/r/seduction06/07/12 05:04 PM
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No worries, it's just that I've received weird accusation of trolling in times that I don't understand these last few days... I don't like trolls but I even despise more the paranoia surrounding it... Basically, I either exchange with someone or tell them to fuck off, I don't answer to trolls, don't care.
/r/seduction06/07/12 12:12 AM
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it is getting easier getting laid... I'm 36, I remember in my young time that I had like an empty field, guys were too shy... honestly, I don't feel like there's any real competition out there, but there are definitively much more guys trying and much more girls wanting to fuck, so I guess it is easier to get laid which kind of makes this "science" less distinguishable from "free fucks on drugs"
/r/seduction06/07/12 12:05 AM
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Oh, I see, and so people are tired of guys simply being proud and such... I have the best fail attempt ever, but couldn't tell it, it's an ongoing 2 years tale... my guess is that it's not working because I'm fucking other girls all the time... so my apparent success may actually be my biggest failure...
/r/seduction05/07/12 11:57 PM
1

what's all the paranoia with trolls lately? thank you!
/r/seduction05/07/12 11:56 PM
2

What is an FR?
/r/seduction05/07/12 11:39 PM
1

yeah, I agree, and I want to add that while I was reading the OP I was also thinking "I guess I personally think closer to him then the ones who annoys him, and they probably would annoy me too, but he's not getting at it the right angle it's not about "what seddit is suppose to be" but about people not agreeing..." I for one think a sub on seduction isn't only a player's intimate journal and it's quite normal that people disagree, I think the problem is that people don't generally respect the u…
/r/seduction04/07/12 07:35 AM
1

It's not a game, I'm starting to despise that expression, it doesn't reflect the nature of assuming yourself and being fearless needed.
/r/seduction30/06/12 04:36 AM
1

You need to face your fears, go into a meditative retreat, go deep within, for you can't fake it when you're that deep without failing. You need first to gather yourself, then you may try and faking it, but I wouldn't even recommend it, I think you should be so aware that you'd become magnetic, this seems to me to be the path for guys like you. You'll only succeed if you first face your fears, otherwise, imo, you're sincerely doomed.
/r/seduction30/06/12 02:08 AM
0

They all wanna fuck NOW, but are you willing to get it out of their culturally imposed shyness?
/r/seduction29/06/12 08:44 PM
1

Even for simply fucking, I'd say bars got me less then 5% of the girls I've been with. My answer to you is the same to just fucking: anywhere! Subway, frocery store, street, restaurant and yes, friends of friends!
/r/seduction28/06/12 01:13 AM
1

Imo, you're not using the word "thinking" in the correct context. This have nothing to do with thought. Your advice aren't stupid, but the title is unrelated, this won't help you know what she thinks but help you build attraction, and attraction isn't thinking.
/r/seduction26/06/12 04:32 PM
1

I've been here numerous time, didn't cared much for the video, but I am curious, if someone could sum it up, it was painful to watch... edit: I'm french-canadian, could understand one word out of two...
/r/seduction23/06/12 10:05 PM
1

Well, being a total dick won't work. honestly, to be a total dick, you have to be playing a game, to "not be yourself", to aim at impressing, the asshole that go around claiming they don't care what other people think but yelling louder then everybody else are plain and simply hypocrits: wanting all that attention is precisely caring what other people thinks.
/r/seduction21/06/12 08:28 PM
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About your grain of salt, I don't think there's any sociopath behaviour in what you claim here, true egocentrism works, Lincoln put it beautifully in saying that you can't please everybody, so don't try. There's nothing logical or good about caring what other people think, and it's not what will make you go around doing criminal shit, it's just about assuming what you really value and not pretending to be right... again with Lincoln: I'm not bound to win, but I am bound to be true, I am not boun…
/r/seduction21/06/12 08:25 PM
1

First of all, nice story, you tell it well, I could visualize most of what happened! :) I got to say that she wasn't a friend with you, that was just a bluff she was doing, but you did handle it very well, bringing a girl to be my wing always worked with me, for some reason, girl get turned on by watching another guy try it with other girls, but as I said, it technically wasn't a friendship, unless you mean it like I usually, i.e. that in a relationship, you also have to be friend with the girlf…
/r/seduction20/06/12 09:01 PM
1

non-universalizable recipe
/r/seduction19/06/12 07:53 AM
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Oh cute, reminds me of when I was 12.
/r/seduction13/06/12 05:37 AM
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Have you ever simply tried asking someone out? Have you ever been blunt and honest, like you're doing now, but to a woman? Have you ever said to a girl "I would love having sex with you"? And if so, how did it go?
/r/seduction09/06/12 06:37 AM
2

And no!
/r/seduction08/06/12 08:05 AM
2

Yes but no.
/r/seduction07/06/12 11:57 PM
1

I think we're saying the same thing. Cheers.
/r/seduction07/06/12 01:26 PM
1

Thanks :)
/r/seduction07/06/12 04:58 AM
1

Well, let's just put it that way: if you think you need to be the alpha male of the room, the number one in whatever ways, to get the girl you want, then you (I use "you" in the general sense) don't understand what turns a girl on. And since this sub is about seduction: I wanted to tell you guys NO!
/r/seduction07/06/12 04:51 AM
1

I'm sorry, my english isn't that good, I don't understand your usage of "semantical".
/r/seduction07/06/12 04:35 AM
1

Yeah, and my point is kinda there: don't pretend you're the top if you're not, there's no point in doing it, for example, you might piss off the real alpha when you could actually make him your ally and spend a beautiful evening... And you'll come out as faking it rather then being in the powerful truth of who you are...
/r/seduction07/06/12 04:09 AM
1

There's many definition, none that are scientific that imply "loser uninvolved in society" ;) Beta is sometimes "the follower", like Jung with Freud or Plato with Socrates... In primatology it can either be the second in command or anyone that isn't the ONE alpha male...
/r/seduction07/06/12 04:03 AM
1

Again, that seems to be based on a misunderstanding of what a beta is.
/r/seduction07/06/12 03:47 AM
1

I guess another way to put it is to say that if you have a blue soul, don't try and be red, just be the most beautiful blue you can be! Peace!
/r/seduction07/06/12 03:08 AM
1

Very good lesson.
/r/seduction07/06/12 02:42 AM
2

I wish you nothing less then improving. But do face your fears, faking you have none may get you fucking some idiots, but intense girls will see you faking...
/r/seduction07/06/12 02:02 AM
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1- no worry, I understand ho it can be seen, I just don't really care about that, it's the same with the way I approach ladies, I could tell you more ;) 2- thanks for trying to understand. I did it on prupose, attacking a big pillar, a dogma I would say. first things first, you gotta get rid of fears, not by denying they exist, altough "death by attrition" makes sense for many psychological problems, you still have to be able to face them. of course, I'm not presenting my book here, trying to sh…
/r/seduction07/06/12 02:00 AM
1

Well, that's a big debate. I propose reading Nietzsche or some Chinese philosophers to grasp the importance of this subject. My quick opinion: it has to do with a type of personality that is naturally more gifted with "will" and so will learn faster in any context and always impose it. Not so prone to being afraid or intellectualizing.
/r/seduction07/06/12 01:53 AM
0

Keep faking it then! ;)
/r/seduction07/06/12 01:41 AM
1

Yes.
/r/seduction07/06/12 01:36 AM
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1- I'm new to ipad and french. 2- I propose meditation to get rid of your fears, more interesting holistically and more durable, also allows for more "feeling the other". 3- I don't claim to be "a natural", but natural.
/r/seduction07/06/12 01:36 AM
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Nor is it all about picking up ladies, so what?
/r/seduction07/06/12 01:33 AM
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Well, that's true of the learned alpha maleness. That's like saying that their aren't natural leaders.
/r/seduction07/06/12 01:23 AM
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Every anthropologists knows it's both.
/r/seduction07/06/12 01:11 AM
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Why you attack me like that? Oh, probably because you pray at "the naturals", no, I didn't say that I was "a natural" as in the mythological figure in player's litterature, I really only meant that I don't have strategies, I'm natural, myself, and it works... Many have asked for my help and many I have helped, naturally, guys seeing me interact just naturally came to me, to the point where I was told too many times that I should write books which I started doing and so I started reading to see w…
/r/seduction07/06/12 01:09 AM
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Good point, but anyhow, this subreddit is about seduction, I don't consider myself a "gamer" or a "player", I consider myself to be natural.
/r/seduction07/06/12 12:57 AM
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Well, I agree that it's both, not that it's only something you learn, that's where I disagree, some people are only making themselves miserable by trying to be something else then what they are, and that's not magnetic.
/r/seduction07/06/12 12:55 AM
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Agreed, improving yourself isn't changing your nature. If you have a self-esteem problem, I get that, but that's not becoming the alpha, it's a confusion.
/r/seduction07/06/12 12:53 AM
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Well, I obviously think the opposite of you. To be an alpha is a a natural thing, in animal, even very young, you can see who will become alpha. It's a recipe for depression to think you need to be something you're not to fuck.
/r/seduction07/06/12 12:47 AM
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Agreed. The problem with positive thinking is that you may very well be drowning and think everything is ok. Just be yourself, don't act like you're 6'3" when you're 5'4" (just an easy to understand example but it applies to all "qualities"), the girls will love you more for it. Just be yourself. edit: reminds me of a discussion I just had here: http://fr.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/unmgh/a_guy_challenges_me_to_a_fight_i_will_lose_how_do/c4wxtgt
/r/seduction06/06/12 07:58 PM
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Of course, but dominance still is the key. First, I think betas are trynig "to look" like alpha. Look at the phrasing of his question, he doesn't even know how to shut up a dude who just wants to fight. Second, I think a good beta will get all the woman he wants if he behaves intelligently instead of trying to be something that he is not. I get your objection, I'm an anthropologist, our whole field is about separating one from the other, but don't try to be something you're not, that's the bigge…
/r/seduction06/06/12 07:11 PM
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I honestly don't think people get the concept of alpha and beta. Read some primatologists or something 'cause if you're avoiding a fight, then you're a beta. Well, I phrased it a bit hard, but still, an alpha male is by definition the monkey who gets all the women by beating the other beta monkeys. There's no alpha wihtout betas, so if you want to be above all that, stop using that language and behave like a pacifist. Otherwise, learn how to fight, or accept what you are: a beta.
/r/seduction06/06/12 08:34 AM
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It's simply contextualising, we do it all the time in anthropology, my field, and to give you an example, I never say this to people but people keep on telling me how imposing I am, and so it comes now naturally to point it out for it affects a lot social interactions.
/r/seduction05/06/12 05:49 AM
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I do understand your meaning, sincerely, it is baffling that we live in a world where so many do not. Yes, love, yes, beauty, yes, intelligence, but strength, will, power all exist as well.
/r/seduction04/06/12 10:01 PM
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My reply was an honest question, this said, here's about me: I'm 6'3", 260 pounds, trained in more then 10 martial arts and am the descendant of many high ranked soldiers. Still think you can punch anyone who writes on the web? edit: that said, I mostly agree, I too wish the best to the smaller dude and wish them to make ma an ally if that's how they need to feel confident enough to approach the girl they love.
/r/seduction04/06/12 09:19 PM
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You're talking about intra-male competition?
/r/seduction04/06/12 06:14 PM
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In my club, we don't even own cellphones... Got one at home... (edit: a telephone it's called) Btw, my most romantic move: grabbing her by the hair to put my dick in her throat, works everytime...
/r/seduction03/06/12 07:44 AM
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Thanks :)
/r/seduction29/05/12 02:30 AM
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The guy doesn't get that although my behaviours are of a one girl man, my mind doesn't agree that I belong to her. It's a very simple thing it seems, yet as so many people on reddit, he wants to debate my position. No fucks given, I live my position and I fuck one girl at a time, it's just nicer to get the same pussy over and over, until it's over. Everything ends.
/r/seduction25/05/12 03:47 PM
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funny enough, right after we had this exchange, I was in the middle of the spontaneous and illegal manifestation in Montréal and I thought about what I said to you guys, I am there for the little ones... so when the policeman stopped us, I simply continued... and the little ones followed...
/r/seduction24/05/12 05:21 PM
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lol
/r/seduction24/05/12 05:51 AM
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Let's put it that way, if you want to succeed in charming top looking girls, YOU HAVE TO FIND A WAY TO SEDUCE MEN LIKE ME. Of course (well, not of course because some people might want that), I'm not talking about you getting me in bed, but you making me like you in order that I wouldn't mind you having a hot girl. Seduction goes a much longer way then simply getting a woman in bed, you gotta be able to make everyone like you so that she sees how awesome you truly and deeply are. So instead of s…
/r/seduction23/05/12 10:10 PM
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I know friend, all I'm saying is that even at this size I'm not there to insult and punch people in the face. It may be hard for you to see, but at least from my own experience, you don't have idea of all that I do to not scare people. And I'm thinking that if you can understand that, maybe you'll be less afraid of people like me.
/r/seduction23/05/12 09:23 PM
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Friend, I'm the exact opposite of you, can we come to a middle ground? ;) I can't understand exactly why I intimidate other guys, I even tend to try and include them if I'm with other girls so not afraid I am of competition. I honestly don't know why it's like that, but I've been called many times "alpha males" by girls I've been with because, because, in their own words, "it's just your nature"... maybe it's just not your nature to be alpha, but dig this, not all girls are alpha either, and the…
/r/seduction23/05/12 07:34 PM
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Do you live in the USA?
/r/seduction23/05/12 05:38 PM
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I don't need to explain my position, it is quite radical and easy to understand, sorry you're being too cartesian to get the simplest things. Fuck you too, I hate all people on reddit.
/r/seduction23/05/12 04:55 PM
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ANY BEHAVIOUR THAT IMPLIES THAT YOU OWN SOMEONE. Fidelity is a gift, not something you ask.
/r/seduction23/05/12 04:30 PM
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Anyone who thinks they own someone. Like "you're mine and I'm yours".
/r/seduction23/05/12 04:14 PM
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You're missing the point: possessive people are mentally insane.
/r/seduction23/05/12 03:13 PM
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I always get downvoted on reddit.
/r/seduction23/05/12 03:12 PM
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I love to fuck crazies, they give the best sex, and cheaters, well I don't care, that's bull, nobody belongs to anyone. Those that I turn are usually those that think they can own me, those that specifically believe that I'm a cheater by thinking that I am free. Fyi, this does not imply that I just fuck around without any precaution or consideration, it simply implies that I am not an object for someone to have. Possessive people are inferior.
/r/seduction23/05/12 03:37 AM
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I'm actually writing a book, in french, pretty much on this concept. Be your real self kinda sums it up indeed, but it implies meditation...
/r/seduction17/05/12 02:10 AM
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Good points, I think the answer is in subtelty, of course it's not worth it at all costs, but it depends how you use it, I don't use my skills to fuck any girl any time, and I don't use them to manipulate... Put it that way: most of what you understand about girls can make you successful even within an already joined union, so imo it's about being a better men for your woman, not about fucking and having sex, that's easy, as you pointed out.
/r/seduction16/05/12 04:30 PM
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Seriously, it depends on the type of intelligence and who they are, a guy with a high IQ isn't typically attractive to them, in my experience, but a guy with great adaptation, i.e. a guy who can quickly handle about any subject and isn't a nerd about it, of course they'll love it, woman are very receptive to the imagination in men, and an intelligent man has great imagination.
/r/seduction16/05/12 12:05 AM
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I have two opinions: I love clubs to go dancing. I hate clubs to pick up girls. If you don't like dancing, I can't see why you'd go there. If you need clubs to approach girls, you lack charisme and need to learn seduction.
/r/seduction13/05/12 12:04 AM
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discipline makes it easier my friend, it'll make you strong, and when one is strong, one become for self-sufficient... I've been suffering from something similar for years, without discipline, I would have killed myself... be serious about it, it'll get better, but only if you take a distance, otherwise, it'll get worst... and if it gets worst, you pm me before doing anything stupid, allright?
/r/seduction07/05/12 08:38 PM
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You need to discipline yourself into healthier patterns or you're going downhill. Meditation, yoga, qigong, whatever works for you... Also, as suggested in another answer, something like volutering, helping others, will remind you of what real love really is all about... If you just follow the path of "I want", you'll feel empty, while if you give, you'll feel full...
/r/seduction07/05/12 06:17 PM
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It's about being who you really are, it's about meditation and fearlessness, listening to your true feelings. Don't go to bars if you don't like it, don't fuck a girl if you don't feel like it, don't do it to impress others or to simply satisfy your sexuality, for if you do, that's only what you're going to get. If you want a princess, you got to start acting like the prince you truly are.
/r/seduction02/05/12 12:44 AM
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