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stick7_/r/seduction29/10/22 11:40 AM
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Eh, overall no. Option 1 you're losing attraction towards him + height fraud-er (the other things don't seem like an issue though). Option 2 isn't and shouldn't be option.
/r/RedPillWomen11/11/25 01:49 PM
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Nope. I'm probably a bum in their eyes. I tend to attract the "typical" college chick or the "girl next door" college chick. I doubt a elegant, dressed to the nines, high class woman would be interested in me. I look young, I'm lean rather than big, I dress in baggy streetwear clothes and I look like I'd be a tiktok fuccboi. Whilst I do view myself as intellectual, mature and not ACTUALLY a bum, I don't think I'd be very compatible with the typical "elegant, high class" woman. I don't attract th…
/r/seduction07/08/24 02:33 PM
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Figure out her past and move from there. zero/minimal experience? Could be nerves, hesitancy or a comfortability issue. If she has been hoeing around before? Yeah move on, no questions asked. That's how I approach things. If it's an inexperienced women I don't apply the "regular rules". If it's an experienced woman, yeah forget it, I'm out of there. Sex isn't going to be held hostage with me when you've let the whole college dorm hit.
/r/seduction16/07/24 12:21 PM
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You can always score don't worry. It's just going to be.. well.. harder.
/r/seduction08/06/24 11:58 AM
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Attention and better options. Guarantee she wouldn't give a fuck about talking to the absolute chad in her DMs for a month.
/r/seduction24/05/24 03:45 PM
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A) You do what the other guys do but better. B) You don't do what the other guys do. C) You move on. I never bother with the ones who are the center of attention. Up-hill struggle if they're not showing signs of interest towards you.
/r/seduction25/03/24 01:55 PM
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If it ain't there, it ain't there. You can't create that shit, you can only solidify it. Can you get a girl that's not interested in you to be in awe of you? Unlikely - not impossible, but unlikely - you can get her to like you can't make her have that deep desire. You find one who already has that and solidify it. In other words, find one who really likes you straight from the jump.
/r/seduction25/03/24 01:41 PM
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Yeah exactly.. "If they like you, they'll fuck you". C'mon bro... First one, she slid into your DMs, easy. Second one, she asked to hang out, easy. These are broads that are really, really into you because they made the move... a big one at that. You can't mess up, nor does it really require you to do anything. And like you said, they might also be a few points below you in the looks department so they're trying to cover ground fast and win you over with easy sex. I know this because this shit h…
/r/seduction18/03/24 02:23 PM
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Facts. This is a win win for me since i'm picky asf (in every aspect). To them it seems like decisiveness and confidence, to me it's just what I want lol.
/r/seduction14/03/24 03:00 PM
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Yes but no. This is the curse of a 6 or 7/10. Lots of IoIs from average girls, limited IoI from hot chicks. Chicks try to always punch up. Now, this isn't always in terms of looks. However, when it's random people, looks are the only thing to go off on and you're not meeting that standard. Having said all that, you can definitely attract out of your league. The good thing about being a 6 or 7/10, you're attractive enough to get them interested when you have some edge to you. Lots of mildly attra…
/r/seduction12/03/24 10:59 AM
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Unlike everyone here, even though I've moved away from the red-pill, I didn't become anti-red pill. So, yes I could become "red pill" again but not what it is now. It's too extreme for me. There are fundamental principles that I believe in and nuances that need to be explored, but that's something that isn't present in the red-pill community today.
/r/ExRedPill23/02/23 12:07 PM
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Biggest red pill lie is that “average” people have no chance. Ugly people have pretty much no chance (even then, debatable), average people do just fine. It comes down to three things: Not enough exposure, not enough confidence and a lack of non genetics attractiveness improvement (style, physique, hygiene, presentation). Fix those and you’ll be fine.
/r/ExRedPill14/02/23 01:03 AM
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This shit is dumb as fuck. It's one thing to ask around your community once you start seriously dating a guy, but it's a whole other thing to do this type of shit when you barely know the guy lmao. Besides, no clue why people still fuck with dating apps. Unbelievably skewed and it reflects in the ecosystem. Sad thing is, I'd say I'm top 20% in terms of looks (around 130 matches in the first two days on tinder & 75 bumble matches in night - never had them longer than a couple of days so couldn't …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 06:34 AM
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Okay, here's what I have to say: It's not "RP" to feel some type of way about a woman with a sexual history. I believe it's ingrained in men and almost all guys to feel this type of way (to an extent). I'm no longer "red pill" but I still feel some type of way about a potential partner's sexual/relationship history (I had this before RP, during RP and after RP) - it's normal and fine. However, your reasoning behind this is entirely formulated around RP rhetoric. Serious advice: You're self-loath…
/r/ExRedPill20/12/22 09:51 AM
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Agree: Self improvement stuff (gym, meditation, reading, journaling etc.). Promiscuousness is a red flag, hoe gonna hoe (this is a personal belief I had way before being introduced to RP). Looks matter... a lot. Women say one thing, want the other (could be applied to men as-well tbh - but it's way more noticeable in women) The company she keeps will influence her 90% of the time (unless she's incredibly strong-minded and set in her values). Gender roles are a good thing and shouldn't be villain…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 11:03 AM
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They chase after hoes and then get surprised/upset when hoes do hoe shit. Which leads them to thinking all women have hoe tendencies. Have a few friends that could be classified as "red pill" (I'm somewhere in the middle - I do agree with decent amount of red pill notions though), they get so stunned when their club hookup fucks them over. You're not going to find good women in clubs lmao. Bookstores, libraries, volunteering, church are places to meet good women (not a guarantee but more likely)…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 06:36 AM
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Why do people on reddit insist that men don't care about n-count IRL? This is purely anecdotal but from my experience most men do care, whether they are aware of the pills or not. I feel like it's natural for a guy to feel some type of way about it. It's wishful thinking to push the narrative men don't care about n-count. It's usually women saying this shit too which is dumb because they don't see "guys" in their true form - quick tip, they're lying to you. A lot will frame themselves as support…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 01:21 AM
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Blame them for being lied to/manipulated? No. Blame them for falling for the same thing time and time again? Yes. Plus, I'm not talking solely about women... Manipulators will always exist, liars will always exist, thieves will always exist, scammers will always exist and so forth. At some point, there's a partial responsibility on the person to avoid being a victim as much as possible. Yes, you can't always avoid certain things but if you go for a serial cheater who's cheated on 4 of their prev…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 10:55 AM
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Yeah, I get that. Sometimes manipulation or "getting played" is hard to spot. However, from experience, some people are just... not switched on. The simplest, most basic form of getting manipulated/played goes unnoticed. Stupidity is stupidity, ignorance is ignorance - no other way around it. Even as someone who is very switched on, aware and capable of being very manipulative, I still got played by a girl. If someone is good at manipulation and has the will do to so, you will get played. It's w…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 10:38 AM
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Yeah... I don't disagree with you there - for a lot, there's history of getting used. But I don't think it's an attraction overpowering fear. It's a lack of intelligence, lack of self-control and lack of values (obviously attraction plays a role... in everything). There isn't any fear, they think "fuck it, i'm going to have fun" or "everything seems good" and then when they get fucked over, they still don't process it accordingly and carry on with their life. You ever see "fear" stop a played wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 08:20 AM
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I get where you're coming from, but here's my take. Some do it to every guy - safety, boundaries, values thing. Some had their "phase" and now want to do it the "right" way. Some got fucked over after being used for sex and don't want that to happen again. I would 100% respect the first one (and would wait for that one). You can miss with me with the second one - yes, it makes sense, but let's just say... it doesn't sit right with me. The third one, is also fair enough - you played with fire and…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 07:59 AM
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I don't think this is toxic tbh. I'm the same way. I guess it can come across as a bit... "impolite" or "brash", but it prevents a lot of potential headaches and bs. Why the fuck would I avoid all the important questions just so everything can go smoothly in the moment? Nope, I'm getting out all the hard questions out early. If they're compatible? Great, I can get to know them (well technically I already am). If they're not? Great, I saved my time and their time. If they get turned off by the qu…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 10:35 PM
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1 I feel like I can't find anyone that meets my standards..... It is pretty common for people to set their standards so high because they're afraid of getting hurt and making standards really high means that you don't let anyone get close enough to hurt you. 2 Here is my criteria: Introverted (had an extroverted ex - not doing that shit ever again). These terms themselves don't really mean too much because most people are on a continuum: they are a mix of the two. But out of curiosity, what do y…
/r/seduction30/10/22 08:54 PM
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Everything I listed is something that I actually align with myself. It’s not a case of me being hypocritical and expecting things that I myself don’t possess. Ive come to terms that my dating pool is limited but it’s just something that I need to deal with or at least navigate to the best of my ability.
/r/seduction29/10/22 10:43 PM
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No not really. I just have a different view towards sex than people who engage in casual sex/hookup culture. Good point, there's probably a disconnect between what i'm putting out there (and where I am) and what i'm attracting.
/r/seduction29/10/22 09:14 PM
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"No toxic shit" could mean anything. Does it mean coming from a divorced family? Does it mean that the person was sexually assaulted in their past? Oh no, I'm talking more along on the lines of cheating, relationship red flags etc. That sort of "toxic". Also, the baggage was more extreme than something like coming from a divorced family. No Crazy shit- does that mean no crying ever? No... not sure how you came to that conclusion. More-so throwing tantrums, screaming 24/7, abusive behaviour. " no…
/r/seduction29/10/22 09:12 PM
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Oh yeah I don't really give a fuck about religion or how much she reads. That isn't one of the fundamental "standards" that I view as extremely important.
/r/seduction29/10/22 08:58 PM
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Different views on sex. I view it as something that should be "scared" and shared between partners.
/r/seduction29/10/22 08:53 PM
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I left to a different area so I broke it off. Long distance wasn’t going to work out as we were both young asf.
/r/seduction29/10/22 02:34 PM
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That’s true, i am quite judgemental (i try to work on it, but ultimately, some shit i can’t stop judging when it relates to my own life). Youre right on the second bit though, good point.
/r/seduction29/10/22 02:29 PM
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That’s fair enough for her, if that’s her beliefs, i’m not going to change it. It’d suck but ultimately everyone has their own criteria (whether they express it or not). But i get your point on the whole want vs disqualifiers.
/r/seduction29/10/22 02:27 PM
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Good point. I understand what you're trying to say. The baggage shit was more-so framed wrong on my part. I don't expect people to have a spotless past (fuck, I know I don't), but I guess I was referring it more so to a state where that baggage was seriously impacting their ability to function or have somewhat healthy relationships (e.g. my poorness and conditions growing up will most likely have zero negative repercussions on my partner - sure it might change the way I (we) live but it isn't an…
/r/seduction29/10/22 01:35 PM
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I like people who drink, enjoy good wine and specialty beers and will experiment with psychadelics once in awhile, so a total teetotaller wouldn't mesh with me.... See that's fine. Everyone has their way of life or values. I wouldn't expect everyone to get along with me either. That's just life and basic human decency (respecting others even if they don't align with you). I don't think you are, you should keep looking and get yourself out there I'm going to keep on trying. No point complaining i…
/r/seduction29/10/22 01:26 PM
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Yeah I match those standards since they're based on me. I try to better myself all the time, but then again i'm not seeking perfection (in myself and others). I'm not expecting or demanding anyone to find me attractive, that's fine.
/r/seduction29/10/22 01:23 PM
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I see where you're coming from. But it's hard to see shit like "Oh she's adventurous" "but she does drugs" or "she's active" "but she's got crazy baggage". Those negatives outweigh the positives (not all, but you get the point).
/r/seduction29/10/22 01:12 PM
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Overall? Yes. You'll find some gems every now and then but at that point you're wasting a lot of your time figuring out if they're worth it. I'm a fairly attractive guy and get probably 100 matches in a couple of days and I met my ex through a dating app. In hindsight, it was a rare coincidence that our values and personality aligned. Probably won't happen again. In those places I listed, you're increasing your chances of finding high quality women which equals less wasted time and deeper connec…
/r/seduction29/10/22 01:45 AM
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Libraries, book-stores, volunteering organisations, university. No guarantees but a definite increase in chances of finding higher quality women. Anything that's a one-off event isn't something to pursue. You need something reoccurring (i.e. you got to go to it on a consistent basis).
/r/seduction29/10/22 12:37 AM
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maybe if you both live in the same neighbourhood and look the same age, you could ask them which school their in?
/r/seduction26/10/22 01:22 PM
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Honestly, it's hard to say bro. I think the best way of taking a step back is probably by not constantly hitting her up (however it's important to match the vibe or bring good energy if she hits you up). It is damned if you do, damned if you don't. You're just going to have to leave it to her and hopefully she figures out that she found someone good. Either that or you're going to need to have an honest conversation with her about everything. It's hard to deal with people who have life-threateni…
/r/seduction26/10/22 11:48 AM
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Seduction bs aside, bro.. she has cancer. You can't expect her give a fuck about you, especially since youre some guy from tinder. Speaking from personal experience - my mom had cancer, she didn't care about a lot of things when her health was stressing her. Some days she was warm, some days she was cold. I'd say give her space but let her know you're there to support her. Last thing you want to do is be a reminder of her having cancer and taking on the "full-time carer" position. But it's a dif…
/r/seduction26/10/22 11:17 AM
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I can't do the simple "hello, how are you" - I'm just too awkward with that approach. Use the circumstance and environment. I'm going to use some personal examples since I don't know your situation. Book-store: See a chick looking at a book - "ohh nah you don't want to get that one" boom conversation goes from there. (teasing/bullying/playful vibe) University class: "hey is it all good if I sit here", usual answer is "yes", sit down, make some comment "damn it's hot as fuck aye", boom conversati…
/r/seduction26/10/22 11:08 AM
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Hmm. 1) Bars - wrong, not everyone is in a group. 2) Clubs - wrong, I don't even need to explain this one. 3) Street - yeah and no - some are guarded up, some are just strolling. 4) Stores - wrong. low success rate is just life. 5) Libraries/bookstores - best place for quality women, easy to talk to, make sure you actually give a fuck about books. 6) Meetups - true, it's usually old people - i actually agree. 7) Gym - agreed, one of the worst places to pick up women if you're an average guy. 8) …
/r/seduction26/10/22 03:03 AM
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So many people missing the point of this subreddit and the posts. If you're someone who doesn't fuck outside of relationships, don't listen to this advice, it's not for you. Simple. There's a decent amount of chicks/guys out there who are the same as you. Find that person and you won't need this advice. Know who you are & know who your target audience is.
/r/seduction26/10/22 02:56 AM
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I've trained MMA for about what 4-5 years, and I can say with confidence that even for a professional MMA fighter 6 is way too many people to deal with. You're going to get fucked. Max, I could do is probably 2, 3 is pushing it.
/r/askTRP05/01/20 07:57 AM
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Legit though, it's usually those three attributes that get linked to being perceived as gay. OP shouldn't really give a fuck either way, but if for someone reason he wants to change that, consider if it's those three.
/r/askTRP20/12/19 07:42 AM
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Honestly, I don't understand 100% of what the fuck you're saying, but here's my take: You're too friendly. Your dress-sense is synonymous to what gay people wear. You're too feminine. It's probably either one of those three.
/r/askTRP20/12/19 06:04 AM
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Yeah, probably don't fight him, just be the better man and resolve it with words, or just ignore it.
/r/askTRP03/11/19 02:56 AM
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So, physically what's the difference between yous two? I know you mentioned he's 6'5 and jacked, and you're jacked as well. What's his/your weight/height? If you're not 5'7 and relatively close to his weight/height, you should have the advantage in a fight. Cunts who aren't trained in combat sports don't do well in fights regardless of their physique... 30 seconds and he's gassed - fighting requires a completely different level of stamina.
/r/askTRP03/11/19 01:04 AM
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Explain to him what happened in a nice, but confident way. If he doesn't take it well, just fight him. Get some mates with you and go for it (the reasoning behind having mates with you is because he'll probably have his whole squad ready to jump in if you're fucking him up). Use your wrestling advantage, shoot for the double or single and then ground and pound. Unless he's also a wrestler.. well then statistically - you're fucked.
/r/askTRP03/11/19 12:54 AM
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Is it something that can damage your image, career, social status? (e.g. accusing you about being pedo, or that you're racist - you know that type of shit) If so, call the cunt out. If it's not the above, but some petty shit (e.g. he called you gay, he said you're a dumb, he said you don't pull chicks - that type of shit), man the fuck up and don't give a fuck.
/r/askTRP30/10/19 05:57 AM
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