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sticktothehardstuff/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/14 03:47 AM
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But, I wasn't telling you found attractive, I said... "He basically sounds like a composite of everything you said" And then listed all of the physical traits, choice hobbies that you chose to offer to get a sense of what you were describing and how I reached that conclusion. You offered a rebuttal and I conceded that I wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/15 05:30 AM
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Ok, so http://www.123celebz.com/gallery/brandon_boyd/6.jpg this doesn't do it for you. That's fine. You fall outside of what generally woman find attractive. Some combination of average height to tall, tanned skin, classical handsome, toned body, low body fat with a successful and interesting career and life. Most men can't be this, but they can make an effort to have as many of these things as possible. Interesting hobbies, like music and lead an interesting life, like go to concerts. They can …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/15 05:14 AM
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The dude is Brandon Boyd from Incubus. Google search him with the list of physical traits that you and your friends find attractive, he nails more than most if not all of the physical trait that you described collectively. In addition, I'm not even making a generalization. I'm using your own words and description to put a face on what you all collectively find attractive, but if there's a better image, then I'll google search it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/15 04:37 AM
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Really, for which person didn't he check off for?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/15 04:23 AM
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He basically sounds like a composite of everything you said, minus a point or two. Me (half-Japanese) and my friend (Russian) are attracted to very lean musculature... told that we dress like designers and rock stars... My first sister likes men who are tall... masculine and assertive My second sister likes musicians with dark hair and skin, tattoos and piercings, and dislikes facial/body hair My oldest friend (Irish) also likes musicians Another friend (Chinese-Filipina) is interested in (geeky…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/15 04:03 AM
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http://imgur.com/gallery/0FzuJ8B - Basically, it sounds like you and all of your friends want to date this guy, and you are curious of how this fits in to the Red Pill?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/15 03:27 AM
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No. That's why I come on the sub and others like it, with the goal of improvement.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/14 11:59 PM
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Lol. I hear you man.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/14 02:58 PM
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The example I gave has drifted the post from what I intended. I'm not trying to analyze that situation. I could care less. But using that example, I spoke with the girl for over 3 hours with alcohol involved. There must be some way to become privy in a subtle way to finding out what a girl is comfortable with on a first night hook up. I understand the whole AWALT and unicorn thing. I agree with that to an extent. This girl seemed really sweet, so maybe I assumed wrong, maybe I assumed right, I d…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/14 12:18 PM
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I used my example above, because over the course of a 3 hour conversation through out a night with a girl, there must be some way to become privy to what she's comfortable with on a first night hook up. That's all I'm asking. Some girls are DTF, fine. Maybe I will be too with her. Some girls, need to follow a strict rule of only kiss a guy they're interested in. Fine, maybe I'll oblige. Essentially, I'm looking for subtle ways to extract this information, because it varies from girl to girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/14 12:12 PM
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Maybe to some extent it is. But, I'm not looking for tips on how to escalate and circumvent last minute resistance. I'd prefer to operate under a framework that identifies what a woman is in general comfortable with on a first night, because it varies from female to female. Someone can make another post overcoming obstacles with women, but fortunately not really a concern of mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/14 11:35 AM
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I see the distinction. Coy has multiple definitions. I was looking at it under the pretense of "hiding your intentions", whereas it could also mean "shy or passive". I still rather not be either forms of the definition. It's all good. I just have to accept there is no easy solution.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/14 02:03 AM
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my partners have been the coy ones I know. But, a lot of men are just tired of being coy. Especially, when you read these horror stories about women labeling post-sexual regret as rape. It affects a lot of mens psyche. I operate under "comfort zone" theory and will also withdraw participation/consent in any part of the process. This is what most people seem to operate under and it's not the most enjoyable experience for a man to basically keep on pushing until he hears a "no". But, it seems like…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/14 12:54 AM
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You were being too timid. Possibly... Keep in mind, there are other parts of the story that I left out. Within minutes of meeting her, she asked "what do I do". I gave her my typical response, "I do poetry, write novels, music, play hockey... what do you do" Most of that stuff isn't true, but we all know she doesn't care. Her response... "no no, I meant what do you do for a living..." So we dance around the subject for a little bit, and I said as I always say - "I don't tell a girl what I do for…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/14 12:44 AM
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Everything, just pick one law. It's all brilliant. A lot of it seems bad to do, if only because it can be pretty obvious what you're doing. Go look at Law # 3.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/14 06:01 PM
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There be some elements in that. But, escalating isn't my primary concern. It's more of a boundary issue for women, particularly on a ONS or first dates.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/14 04:24 PM
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Rape is a terrible crime. It's not something you accidently do. To be frank, no shit. I'm more speaking to the fears men have about being too aggressive. Particularly with the culture of labeling post-sexual regret as rape. They are very different.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/14 04:02 PM
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Good points. Rational conversation is a turn off. In that situation, it worked, at least, it felt like it flowed with the our rapport for the night, but I wouldn't make that my default. I guess to sum your take on the situation- push as far and as hard as you'd like, but the minute she clearly pushes back, you immediately stop at that wall, at least for the night. Don't try to have a rational discussion about boundaries, because that is a turn off... Maybe, I'll make this my default, don't overt…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/14 04:48 AM
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Well, I guess I'm alone in this, at least based on the comments, but I really like the 48 Laws of Power Series on TRP. Read the book in the past, and reviewing a short synopsis of each law every day is beneficial.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/14 01:09 AM
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Aye.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/14 12:20 AM
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Aye.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/14 12:20 AM
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A reputation rests on what others think of you. Guarding that reputation requires you to change your behaviour based on what others think. But isn't that what the Red Pill is all about. Changing behavior based on what others think of you or may think of you. For example, if I'm upset from a bad day at work, I may want to come home and say, "what a crap day at work, blah, blah, blah... I feel like blah, blah, blah..." But, wouldn't the Red Pill argue, I remain stoic when I come home to my SO, and…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/14 11:34 PM
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I think you're agreeing with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/14 11:27 PM
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"Guard your reputations." I.e. "Care what others think." Guard your reputation and care what others think are not synonymous. Nearly, every non-sociopathic person cares what people think. The key is not making it apparent that you're affected by what other people think. It's in vein of maintaing frame. Especially, if your reputation is someone who "doesn't care what people think" or if your reputation is stoic and unaffected. That is a reputation you need to guard.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/14 07:45 PM
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Some of the critiques.... Women are illogical. This is a consistent tenant, so to speak, of the Red Pill. I just can't for the life of me wrap my head around it. It doesn't fit in to my experiences and my worldview. I understand, it's not meant to be misogynistic. To the Red Pill, this idea is equivalent to saying a black person is black. You are just pointing out what is. You wouldn't call that person racist. On the Red Pill when someone says "Women are illogical. AWALT." And another person rep…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/14 04:49 AM
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You've basically nailed the crux of the Blue Pill vs Red Pill debate, besides the whole women are illogical thing... I'll present you with 4 guys, and you can see the best strategy for each of them to use. Guy A. If you're a lady and you encounter a good looking dude who is nice a guy, doesn't neg or play dread game... You say he's good looking dude and he's a nice guy. I want to hook up with him. Guy B. Now, make him a good looking dude, who negs you a little and a few other little things. Now …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/14 01:45 AM
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I have some economic policy ideas that are still in their 'alpha' stage, but they don't really fit in to the mold of Blue Pill / Red Pill. Men perform better than woman in standardized tests. The data supports this. I am not sure it's safe to assume that in general, it is because men are smarter than women. Although, I without a doubt used to believe this and I still might. Subjective teacher grading in universities down through early education favors women. Data supports this, but I have some u…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/14 11:02 PM
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It's still possible for 'two men talking about "cunts" in a garage somewhere' to 'control the discourse through shaming, epithets and swearwords' even if they agree with one another. TRP is an open forum with dissenting ideas and people. Users are interacting with their interlocutors. Users are publicly voicing their opinions. Some users are mobilizing their ideas and minimizing dissenting voices within it's user base and the public through shaming, epithets and swearwords. It's no different tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/14 07:00 PM
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Taking issue with the use of 'pc lefty, SJW's, woman controlling the discourse through shaming, epithets and swearwords' on a post that highlights opposing comments that do exactly that.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/14 05:08 PM
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Some people are debating the factual content. Debating the morality or ethics of these statements is not exactly irrelevant, either. I didn't exactly read your comment that I agreed to earlier, but it's actually inane way to live your life. If you're qualifying yourself to pc lefties and SJWs, You're qualifying yourself to women. If a woman is worth qualifying myself, beliefs, ethics to; I will. Don't let them control the discourse with their shaming, epithets and swearwords You do realize the i…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/14 04:51 PM
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Fair enough way to live your life. But, this is a debate forum. If that is your attitude, then you're not really adding to the discussion.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/14 02:43 PM
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Because you said Why don't you red pill men stop kissing lefty feminist ass and just say "yeah, so what?" I'm showing you why no one sensible is defending these stupid generalizations. They don't even fit in to TRP. All these comments are made by the 80% of ignorant posters on the sub that have no idea what it's about.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/14 02:00 AM
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I don't have time to read this. I just saw fanatical feminists and figured you it was some stupid posts about dumb things some feminists from Sweden were saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/14 01:58 AM
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Ok. I'll take your word for it. I disagree with their assertions and worldview. If you want to start a thread based on this article and their viewpoints, then I'll agree with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/14 01:42 AM
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Because these are just stupid lazy generalizations that only fit in to a piss poor worldview. I'll show you how stupid some of the comments by reversing male with female. If I saw a feminist write this shit, I would shoot her down even harder than I am right now. If you're white then you really are a traitorous cunt. (didn't reverse anything there) I like fucking men, especially conservative red pill types. I like being a little slut and watch them hate how much it turns them on, and watch as th…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/14 01:32 AM
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You keep on breaking frame, my man.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/14 02:58 AM
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The continual use of sarcasm in your replies is ineffective to arguing your point. It comes off as passive aggressive and trite. It can be an effective tool. But, when overused, it just sounds like you don't have any real point to make. Btw, I said white, Eastern European.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/14 02:37 AM
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I didn't say I expected them to hang out or be friends. I personally don't believe finding someone boring is justification for the kind of comments I've heard. Might be some truth in that. But, I can't link any of the comments that you wrote to feminism or racism. In a private setting, drinking and socializing, those comments are mildly offensive, at best. I hope you're being a bit tongue-in-cheek. I think it would speak poorly of anyone who self-identifies as a feminist to dismiss a woman in IT…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/14 05:10 PM
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The whole post was dedicated to the fact that the progressive blue pill feminists were unusually rude and snarky to the notion of OP dating non Western women. I was pointing out that it was irrelevant that she wasn't Western. Were they being mean to her? It's possible. But I can't even make that judgement, based on what is wrote. It's still irrelevant to feminism. And I can't assume racism or link racism to feminism based on what is wrote. The Green Card, mail-order bride comment would have like…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/14 04:48 PM
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No. I understand the point and I responded to it directly. These women are not interested in associating with this woman. Feminism and racism is irrelevant to this post. How do you explain the green card comments? Can you elaborate how this relevant to feminism or racism?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/14 08:15 AM
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she's educated I'll try to give a little insight. If you're friends are truly from upper middle class to 1% type backgrounds, NYC area; then, they really don't care about anything you've mentioned. Being educated is a just given. It's just expected of you. It's at best neutral. Unless, she went to one of the most competitive universities or prep schools, she might gain some favor. comes from a middle-class family in her home country Again, don't really care. Expected. Neutral at best. she is gai…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/14 06:32 AM
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You have some good stuff in there. I can see you're throwing some out there, and I'm not to hear to knock it. I up-voted a few of your comments for that reason. I really like the point about how people in relationships tend to move towards the middle of visually displaying their sexuality. I.E. men will move towards femininity and women towards masculinity. I think it does create a safer boundary in the sexual marketplace. It's a good point to remember if you are competing in the sexual marketpl…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/14 03:24 AM
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Interesting, at first read, I agreed with everything you wrote. At second read, I'm not sure I can agree with anything that you wrote. There's too many points to go thru. Young males are encouraged to be more gentle and feminine Atypical from my experience. Young men are encouraged to become more refined, cultured, aware, but this doesn't conflict with masculinity. Simultaneously, young men are encouraged to be strong, independent and are often "toughened up." It's not unusual for a young person…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/14 02:36 AM
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This is where is the Red Pill looses me. It's comments like this one that always make it to the top of threads. Flaking is in a woman's nature I'm not even going to respond to this. There may be some truth in this generalization. There may no be truth in it. The most important thing to remember is OP is a bad salesman. HE failed to secure to the interest and excitement of the potential dates. HE is doing something wrong. STOP blaming women for your rejections and making generalizations. HE needs…
/r/TheRedPill23/11/14 01:29 AM
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Dude, I love these posts. I listened to this book on tape, a while ago, and found it somewhat useful. Going over these tips, one by one, everyday is just awesome re-enforcement. It truly allows me to review and grasp each tip individually, and reflect on it.
/r/TheRedPill22/11/14 08:22 PM
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It sounds like you are basically saying three different things, but all related. 1.) AWALT. All women want to date a tall man, even the "feminist" who might claim something different. In general, some truth in that. 2.) Feminist and Blue Pill will disagree. Some truth in that. Based on the anecdotal evidence provided in this thread, you are getting different opinions. 3.) A guy shorter than 6' needs the Red Pill more often than not. People with most disadvantages have to find ways to compensate.…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/14 08:14 PM
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There are other options. 1.) Try to clearly state what you want or know exactly what you want. It seems like you want minimal contact, casual sex and the opportunity to go out a some dates and do fun things once in a while with a good looking girl. You do not want a relationship, you are open to one, if is she is Mrs. Right. But this needs to happen over time. This is realistic. A lot of people have relationships like this. 2.) Raise your SMV. Can you imagine Aston Kutcher on a blog saying, so g…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/14 08:59 PM
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I thought the point of dread game was to make you worry they would leave Yeah. You hit the nail on the head. I just checked my trustworthy blue pill guide. You went nuclear dread. You escalated his dread game, by using the most valuable tool in your arsenal. I also thought it was normal to leave once the trust is gone. This is a given, never questioned and was irrelevant; until you insinuated the possibility of broken trust; allowing you the possibility to go nuclear dread.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/14 10:36 PM
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Wohh. This beta has gone meta. Someone correct me if I'm wrong, but I believe you just ended your response with a form of dread game. You went from: he has female friends. Not sure if I'd interpret as upsetting. He can go out if he wants with his friends by himself. He comes back drunk and horny. I struggle to feel jealous... BUT if he cheats, I'M GONE. You've essentially one up-ed his dread. He was planting a small seed by going hiking with Sarah. It had nothing to do with cheating. You took ba…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/14 09:12 PM
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I agree with that. I would imagine most people on the TRP don't like using dread game. I'm sure on the other hand, many actually do enjoy using it. Just as I've seen, many women relish in this type of behavior, as well. Personally, I'd really prefer to stay out of any relationship that I need to use this competitive mirage to maintain the relationship or avoid getting in to any relationship, where a girl needs this type of behavior to persuade her to date me. The minute I find myself using even …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/14 07:42 PM
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I'm trying to imagine a subtle way to create a scenario of how dread game could play out in a relationship. Maybe, your boyfriend comes to you and says "hey honey, everything alright? You've been a little distant lately." You say "everything is fine, I just want to be alone for a little bit. You know, I'm quite the introvert." He says, "well, I'd really like to do something with you. What if we go hiking, do you want to come?" You say "No honey, I just want to be alone right now, I'm not much of…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/14 07:23 PM
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Truthfully, I've been using some form of dread game (if I have the term correct) since middle school. I'm not proud to say that I've used it in relationships in the past and would not be keen on using it now, while in a committed relationship. However, I still actively do use some form of it when pursuing women that I am interested in. It's extremely effective. I just hate the fact that it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/14 06:30 PM
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Alpha is how you make a girl feel. Beta is what you can provide for her. I lifted this saying from TRP, and often use it as a reminder while I'm dating, pursuing or interacting with a girl. Don't show her what you can offer her or how you feel, but to make her feel something. Make her feel special, make her feel funny, make her laugh, make her have a good time, make her feel sexy, etc. This can also be used when interacting with friends or making new friends. Don't show them what you can provide…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/14 05:10 AM
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If my understanding of dread game is correct, it appears that it is the manufacturing of the illusion of competition or creating competition anxiety in your significant other or the person you are interested in potentially dating? If this is correct, than this type of behavior is extremely effective. Unfortunately. If a person in a committed relationship does this, it is very possible that this is manipulative behavior. If we are just addressing it's effectiveness; it's effective. But I feel lik…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/14 04:23 AM
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Liberal arts people like to see everything as unique. It's the exact opposite. 'Liberal arts people' recognize the conformity in most people and processes and thrive in the creation of new ideas and systems. They have an aversion towards generalizations. They have an aversion towards misinformed generalizations. Most educated people do. That's why they're no good at science, let alone engineering. Approaching common problems from a unique or personal vantage point is in no way exclusive to a lib…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/14 01:55 AM
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Dude, buy a clue. It's not that hard to meet a girl in her late teens early 20's. Go to a bar where fairly young, single girls gather. Go to the mall. Go to the gym. Walk up one of them and introduce yourself. It's not rocket science.
/r/TheRedPill17/11/14 11:35 PM
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Women only care about your feelings if you are very good looking, high SMV (Alpha). They will be endeared / turned by your vulnerable side. The cliche of the Alpha male who has a vulnerable side is what literary porn for women is made of. But, in general, most men are not that good looking, don't have high SMV, so it's best to keep your emotions to yourself.
/r/TheRedPill17/11/14 10:53 PM
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People are let down by these generalizations and over time begin to loose trust in them. We rely on generalizations as quick, easy barometers to help distinguish between what is good, what is bad, what we like, don't like, etc. If these generalizations are effective, we like them and continue to use them. If they are un- or less affective, we will loose faith, question them and eventually might become angered by them. Sexuality and compatibility is much more nuanced then what we all can agree on…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/14 10:21 PM
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Because she is highly successful, she ends up dealing with other successful business men. Ehh. It's highly unlikely that she is successful, let alone, very successful. That's the narrative she's selling, but she doesn't even sell it well. Also highly doubt that she ends up dealing with other successful business men. Successful businessmen have options. Also, more importantly, successful men are successful because of discipline. They are not going to risk their career and shit where they eat. Ehh…
/r/TheRedPill11/11/14 01:37 AM
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My 2 cents. Put yourself in his shoes. He went to a concert with a friend. Maybe he's the DD, so he can't really let loose and drink. Drunk girl, who he's friend blows him off for another guy all night. What I usually do, is once I've established something with a girl, if I want to keep on pursuing her, I'll get her friends involved. Find a girl for him to talk to. If you're really generous, buy him a drink. Now, he's involved having fun, has someone to talk to, you look the man. He likes you. S…
/r/TheRedPill27/10/14 09:05 PM
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