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Blue Pill Examplestilllearningsed/r/TheRedPill20/03/15 11:34 PM
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Blue Pill Examplestilllearningsed/r/TheRedPill01/07/14 09:16 PM
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Red Pill Theorystilllearningsed/r/TheRedPill05/12/14 06:30 PM
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A woman with her own children, absolutely, never think twice about her ex's children. A woman without her own children, could miss the way her ex's children make her FEEL when they treat her like a mother. However, the moment she has her own children or starts dating another guy with his own children, she has a new source for that emotion and the old one is forgotten.
/r/TheRedPill21/05/15 07:31 PM
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This is a personal situation post and thus belongs in asktrp.
/r/TheRedPill08/04/15 07:48 PM
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FFS, read the goddamn sidebar.
/r/TheRedPill08/04/15 07:47 PM
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This is a personal situation post and belongs in asktrp.
/r/TheRedPill08/04/15 04:35 PM
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I would agree that most are FA, though attaching to the MGTOW community is healthier for them than the alternative because, as Zeus pointed out, it lacks the default defeatist language. I think it is largely down to how they arrived at MGTOW, reactionary vs proactive. The reactionaries are there because they are trying to find an identity that salves their lack of female companionship and doesn't make them feel like a complete loser. They're still better off than being FA but, they're just picki…
/r/TheRedPill08/04/15 04:32 PM
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Thank you for actually responding and having a conversation instead of just downvoting. I actually assumed you were a TBP/PPD troll and didn't want the few half-right bits in your post confusing someone into thinking you were giving good info. Since it appears you are sincere I'll pull back the snark and try and point you in a better direction. You'll notice the mods have already spoken on this, you have some sidebar reading to do. I do have a problem with stopping someone who is clearly walking…
/r/TheRedPill08/04/15 02:17 PM
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Holy shit. You are living SO FAR inside your own comfort zone its cringe-worthy. Approaching random girls on the street is creepy/pua behavior and should be avoided. Pestering girls who are just going about their day is not how you should be trying to pick up. Kowtowing to feminist male-shaming. There is absolutely nothing wrong with engaging other people in public. The idea that people 'just want to be left alone' is projecting your own insecurity. Yes, this is where it's socially acceptable to…
/r/TheRedPill07/04/15 10:34 PM
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Am really glad to see this updated list as I had noticed not all of the addendum within the last year were in the official posting rules and thus made it hard to point out to new posters where they were going wrong. One thing I don't see directly addressed here is the issue of referencing fiction as examples. Meaning specifically song lyrics, literature and film. I have seen a rare few quality posts use fictional references but, they take the form of the fictional reference being used as easily …
/r/TheRedPill06/04/15 04:05 PM
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Seconding Axel here, thank you for this quality QUICK filter. I'll definitely be adding this to my arsenal. I aim to be in the 'discrete lover' position because it fills my needs and tends to produce less pushes for moving the relationship towards serious and less fallout when the relationship inevitably ends. In implementing it I've also discovered it tends to result in more enthusiastic and varied sexual antics in the bedroom. I don't really care if they have an SO, though I tend to shy away f…
/r/TheRedPill06/04/15 02:25 PM
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I noticed that the recent updated mod rules don't touch on this. Specifically the issue of tossing out examples in film, literature and music. May want to bring this up with the other mods and update the post.
/r/TheRedPill06/04/15 02:06 PM
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They acknowledge and discuss this with regularity in r/sex which is a bastion of femcentric sex positivity. For women this is much like death grip in that it conditions you to need stimulation unachievable through normal sexual activity both at the psychological and physiological level.
/r/TheRedPill06/04/15 01:26 PM
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Personal situation posts belong in asktrp. Don't encourage this behavior by giving advice here.
/r/TheRedPill25/03/15 11:06 PM
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What does this add to the sub? This belongs in /r/pussypass or /r/mensrights
/r/TheRedPill25/03/15 08:32 PM
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You've overvalued brevity. Lists like this are generally pretty useless. Not because they're wrong but, because they lack enough context to cement them, meaning they'll be forgotten almost as soon as they're read. Modern media LOVES lists and we get inundated with them in turn becoming inoculated against them.
/r/TheRedPill25/03/15 02:22 PM
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You know what isn't redpill? Complaining about downvotes on an internet forum and then trying to shame those who don't like your perspective. Your points stand or they don't, you shouldn't care what others think about them as long as you are satisfied with the merit of your conclusions and presentation.
/r/TheRedPill25/03/15 02:10 PM
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This is a personal situation post and as such belongs over in /r/asktrp. The main sub is for more general discussion and theory, which is why we have posting guidelines in the sidebar.
/r/TheRedPill24/03/15 09:32 PM
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This is a meandering post whose purpose is unclear. Either your personal situation is of actual import and thus this belongs in asktrp or your questions are more general and likely covered by the sidebar. Certainly the rapidfire questions you actually typed out are all basic and covered by sidebar reading. Reading between the lines, it sounds like you have a particularly good plate that you feel getting ready to drop and are trying to prolong her stay or convert her to a relationship. This is no…
/r/TheRedPill24/03/15 09:30 PM
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This is what is referred to as tone policing.
/r/TheRedPill24/03/15 07:36 PM
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Similar boat. It's not the number, it's the behavior. I use the non-judgmental path to get stories out of them and from those I determine if she seems likely to bring strife into my life.
/r/TheRedPill24/03/15 01:54 PM
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Yeah, I intentionally positioned myself in the discreet lover category even before swallowing the pill. Back in my PUA days this was my persona because it fit my needs and required little effort. I wasn't aware, at the time, that it was so effective for me because it was actually congruent, something many PUAs fail to stumble into. At the time, my non-judgmental attitude was genuine. I actually enjoyed their slutty stories and got a vicarious thrill out of them. I heard the nastiest most deprave…
/r/TheRedPill24/03/15 01:43 PM
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Nope, no unicorn chasing here. I chose lifelong bachelor even before I swallowed the pill. However, it still sounds like you are saying past promiscuity doesn't matter. I'd point you at the often discussed study showing the disparity in how multiple partners affects pair-bonding in women vs men. There is a big difference between what they are CAPABLE of and what they've actually DONE.
/r/TheRedPill23/03/15 09:27 PM
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None of that PAST bullshit matters. It's just an indicator of what people are capable of and who they WERE. Very very few people are capable of real change. Past behavior is indicative of future choices. I'm kinda surprised to see someone with a +1 spouting 'the past doesn't matter'.
/r/TheRedPill23/03/15 04:35 PM
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I understand the need express thanks for something so life-changing. However, I'm with Turker that, these kinds of posts don't add any value to the main sub. Towards that end there IS a /r/ThankTRP to let those that feel the need express their thanks without cluttering up the main sub.
/r/TheRedPill20/03/15 07:17 PM
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I don't see a single link to a citation.
/r/TheRedPill20/03/15 02:37 AM
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No, I mean cult, as in they attribute near super-human results to the simple act of stopping masturbating entirely. I'd love to see some of your 'scientific evidence' because everything I've seen has largely shown that the over-stimulation of porn can be a psychological arousal problem and that excessive masturbation can contribute to low-Test. This is why I linked /r/pornfree However, I've never seen anyone link to scientific backing of NoFap's favorite concept that not masturbating at all ADDS…
/r/TheRedPill18/03/15 09:33 PM
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/r/redpillmusic is that way Mods have posted about not wanting things like song lyrics or reality tv examples as they increase the signal-to-noise ratio.
/r/TheRedPill18/03/15 09:18 PM
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Nofap is a fucking cult, don't spread that shit around here. If excessive masturbation is your issue check out /r/pornfree
/r/TheRedPill18/03/15 07:05 PM
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I don't think anyone will argue that, for the majority, being here means you didn't develop strong enough alpha tendencies naturally. We tell guys to not keyboard jockey and actually go out and test these things in real life all the time, because we know the target audience is at major risk for staying within their comfort zone. Your post is shaming, insulting and largely pointless, unless the point was to stroke your own ego, which seems likely to me. If, in order to feel better about yourself,…
/r/TheRedPill18/03/15 06:15 PM
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Its not that we're missing the point, its that his premise, as you've laid out, isn't really worth considering. Sexual prowess is not going to make up for more than a -1 disparity in SMV between you and another guy in a girl's head. Sexual prowess is a skill that helps set you above your peers in the SMP, it doesn't push into a new tier.
/r/TheRedPill18/03/15 02:15 PM
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I'll have to try adding this to the set. I've only done it once and it was with a girl that knew better within earshot. She, predictably, countered my facetious self-deprecation and the rest is history.
/r/TheRedPill18/03/15 02:07 PM
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Check out /r/pornfree it is the non-culty core of why NoFap works for some people. Basically its just two simple steps. Cut back on your masturbation where you're doing it to as a release of built-up pressure, not an instant gratification fix. For most guys this is once a week or so. Stop using porn, entirely. Porn is a terrible bit of overstimulation that will key your sexual responses towards unrealistic stimuli. When you seek your utility release, do it using your imagination or by simply foc…
/r/TheRedPill18/03/15 02:01 PM
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And then it hit me: Self-respect would be simply cutting these men out of my life. They bring nothing to the table. They have no utility to me. All they do is hold me back. I'm really glad you reached this conclusion yourself. I'm not man enough to straight up say to them: "I no longer want to maintain a relationship of any kind with you", nor do I think that would be a smart idea in a small town where word gets around. Burning bridges is rarely a good idea. A soft next, as you mentioned, is usu…
/r/TheRedPill18/03/15 01:52 PM
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I think you may have just figured out sex early/easily. Personally, I don't think what I do during sex is all that special but, I've fielded SO many comments and inquiries afterwards that make it seem like most guys are the male equivalent of starfish, minimal effort to achieve copulation. I've also heard the sentiment 'he is/was hot and has a great dick but, I wish he knew how to use it' often enough to know there are good looking guys stuck in the ONS-zone because they're bad lays.
/r/TheRedPill17/03/15 10:25 PM
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This belongs in asktrtp. 'How do I meet women' is a super basic question. Read the sidebar.
/r/TheRedPill17/03/15 08:40 PM
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I'm not going to argue against the predominantly psychological nature of female sexuality. I know that the biggest contributor to my increasing attractiveness as a man is my shift in mindset and attitude and the behaviors that produces. The psychological game you play to make them attracted is all that matters. However, to me this sounds dangerously close to the 'looks don't matter, only game matters' mindset that causes guys to skip lifting or other simple aesthetics-enhancing steps. It seems t…
/r/TheRedPill17/03/15 07:55 PM
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This belongs and askTRP. Responding with advice just encourages these unwanted posts.
/r/TheRedPill17/03/15 06:36 PM
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No, not masturbating excessively helps avoid huge dips in testosterone as well as avoiding wiring yourself for effortless pleasure which can lead to complacency. Not masturbating at all, particularly with no other immediate outlet, is dangerous and will lead to being thirsty or angry and not really in control around women you're attracted to.
/r/TheRedPill17/03/15 05:42 PM
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/r/redpillmusic is that way .... Examples like this seated in fiction or entertainment add little to no value to the main sub.
/r/TheRedPill17/03/15 05:35 PM
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That would be her fucking dream come true, quite literally. Heh, I chuckled. Yeah, my point was that sexual proficiency is important but, more a side skill that pushes you to the top of the pile against your peers. A guy that has you beat in the upfront categories like confidence and status is going to win the pull 9 times out of 10. He is not your peer, he is superior. When it comes to plates though, generally you are competing against peers. Plates tend to spin longer and with less effort if y…
/r/TheRedPill17/03/15 05:21 PM
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Whoever lays the best pipe will be first on her drunk text priority list. Exactly. Its not going to get you INTO bed with her, the majority of the time. You still need confidence and status to build that initial attraction that leads to the lay. Once you're past the initial lay though, how much she enjoys sex with you IS a big factor in your prioritization on the list of men who are already 'IN'.
/r/TheRedPill17/03/15 05:07 PM
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They melt for status and confidence, no question. However, you take a girl and give her two relatively equitable, tingle-inducing alphas to play around with and one puts no effort into a lay and the other gets her off multiple times she's going to chase the sex-god first and harder. Being good at sex is NOT a replacement for status and confidence but, is more a parallel scale that affects their inclination to stick around once you're past the 'getting the lay' that the status and confidence prov…
/r/TheRedPill17/03/15 05:01 PM
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Sometimes I wonder if I'm the male equivalent of this. Almost completely missed out on my youthful party days by being a pathetic, obese, spineless, hermit, stereotypical gamer geek. Learned a little PUA and finally put some effort into my body and worked my way into some unsatisfying relationships that kept me occupied for my late 20's. Finally graduated from PUA to RedPill and am now enjoying immensely being on the other side of the fence. I don't see myself ever allowing a girl to place the '…
/r/TheRedPill17/03/15 04:51 PM
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Girls can use it that way but if you're a man then you should use it properly Personally, I've found it to be a losing battle trying to narrowly define and then personally stick to my definition of an ambiguous word. I agree with your sentiment but, I'd say just don't use the word at all unless ambiguity is your goal(powertalk). It certainly doesn't belong in FRs which should be straighttalk.
/r/TheRedPill17/03/15 04:13 PM
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This isn't an FR. There is little to no breakdown of your actions and results, just a rambling brag post with a personal situation inquiry. This belongs in /r/asktrp at best.
/r/TheRedPill17/03/15 04:02 PM
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hookup means sex and nothing else Actually, this particular word is generally left ambiguous intentionally. Its range goes from 'making out' to "fucking like animals'. Girls love using this word because it offers them ambiguity and deniability. Usually taking the form of 'oh I just meant we made out once, while drunk, it wasn't even a thing' even if the truth is she choked on his cock before riding him in a bathroom stall.
/r/TheRedPill17/03/15 03:55 PM
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First to answer your question, NO. Being 'good at sex' is as big a deal as being physically fit. Back in my pussy-obsessing, pussy-starved blue pill days, I went out of my way to study clitoral stimulation techniques to make sure I gave every girl I was with a memorable experience. Same, and I have no doubt that the girls that stuck around during my blue-pill days did so because I was great at getting them off. But, it was just that, getting them off. What it lacked was responsive passion for me…
/r/TheRedPill17/03/15 03:31 PM
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Honestly, if she mentions any other dude in a romantic context that isn't a derisive ... she sees you as beta. If a woman is truly crazy about you in the AF sense, there's no way she's going to mention other guys she's fucked and risk jeopardizing your opinion of her. Deep down, women know that guys don't respect female promiscuity While I agree this is generally the default, I think this is largely down to your own behavior beyond the initial interaction, they follow. If you present more aggres…
/r/TheRedPill17/03/15 03:01 PM
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I can't tell if this recent rash of pro-marriage ranting is men who think they've unplugged but forgot to disconnect the ground or something more insidious.
/r/TheRedPill13/03/15 08:37 PM
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Those are not tangible benefits. Every bit of what you what you just wrote can be boiled down to 'companionship' which is an emotional need rooted in external validation. An RP man living his life properly will never lack for companionship. The important distinction is that he doesn't seek that companionship out for validation, it comes to him because he is secure in himself and thus provides others with the validation they seek by giving them his valuable time.
/r/TheRedPill12/03/15 10:19 PM
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You know who you are. I'm under the impression that RPers that agree with this sentiment are either young and naïve, have been deprived of a stable home growing up, or both. Gee, look at that tasty shaming language. Lets call the opposing side dysfunctional manchildren, because thats how MEN debate! I don't see a SINGLE bit of rational, reasoned support for marriage in your post, just reactionary bullshit and an anecdote whose purpose, in this context, I still don't fully understand. You did the…
/r/TheRedPill12/03/15 09:44 PM
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Dude. Obvious troll is obvious, don't feed him.
/r/TheRedPill10/03/15 10:36 PM
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Yup. I have a 24 year old, still in college for her undergrad, attractive female roommate. I love the immediate and unfettered access it gives me to the life and mindset of the modern girl. I've observed many an occasion where she goes out to have a meal and companionable time with an interested guy. The poor shlub produces no tingles with his safe/boring date where he doesn't even TRY to kiss her. So what does she do? Messages her FB to come over and rail her. Her, took her virginity when she w…
/r/TheRedPill10/03/15 02:38 PM
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Are we so far gone that three average paragraphs, properly formatted, is the threshold for attention span? I'm hoping this is more a teaser than the first part of a series. We encourage reading whole, entire books on this subject. Surely we can handle a minimum of 5 paragraphs!
/r/TheRedPill05/03/15 02:36 PM
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I looked at my bro and was about to invite her over, and thought "WTF, its not my place to invite her over to HIS place" That thought snapped me out of it and realized I was caving. "No, bros only. We're gonna brodown" Maybe not the best recovery, but at least it wasn't a total BP cave. I'm assuming you're not interested in banging this girl and the rest is predicated on that assumption. Nothing wrong with allowing a girl to invite herself(give her shit about this) and tag along(tease her about …
/r/TheRedPill04/03/15 10:29 PM
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Yup, I do this too. Starts with clever innuendo teases and quickly leads to explicit vignettes on how I'm going to manhandle them that evening. Gets them so worked up sometimes they skip the customary mixed drink and kitten playtime and just drag me to bed.
/r/TheRedPill24/02/15 06:21 PM
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No fucking effort I'm this post either.
/r/TheRedPill07/01/15 01:53 PM
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Crap post, read the posting guidelines buddy.
/r/TheRedPill30/12/14 09:04 PM
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/r/Asktrp is that way... Not that they're going to care either. TRP isn't really concerned with the rest of reddit except for those occasions where we end up with a member surge due to some top post excoriating our community.
/r/TheRedPill30/12/14 09:02 PM
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Fake aggressive because I'm tired of all the lazy posts, in particular all the MRM bullshit whining about feminists? Yeah you're right, time to be done with this place for awhile.
/r/TheRedPill13/12/14 08:49 PM
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So, you're a special snowflake? He gave you the answer to your question and you respond with reasons you shouldn't be measured like other men.
/r/TheRedPill12/12/14 11:00 PM
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Dgaf. Either post in asktrp or add value to your fucking post.
/r/TheRedPill12/12/14 10:02 PM
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I think you should have put more effort in your post. Direct links aren't allowed for a reason, add some fucking value to your post or post it in asktrp.
/r/TheRedPill12/12/14 01:28 PM
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Really fucking tired of seeing her name here. Stop giving the attention whore attention.
/r/TheRedPill12/12/14 01:27 PM
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Fuck off with your no effort post.
/r/TheRedPill11/12/14 10:39 PM
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It seems against my nature to misrepresent my feelings, just to avoid being alone... If you are truly so far down the depression hole that you can't be positive at all, get some help, hopefully from family if they are a good support structure in your life. Otherwise, work on focusing on positives instead of negatives. I know it sounds both too easy and too hard, I've been there. It takes time, there are no quick fixes other than a drug haze. Ultimately your happiness is your responsibility, not …
/r/TheRedPill11/12/14 09:17 PM
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Personal situation posts belong in asktrp.
/r/TheRedPill11/12/14 05:29 PM
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This post is a mess and hard to read. I'm glad you're progressing but, post when you have something cohesive to add.
/r/TheRedPill11/12/14 05:27 PM
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Great post. I see people get butthurt even here about having their keyboard vomit criticized for being unreadable. If you have a point to make, make it in an articulate manner. It is important that your public persona or public talks or writing does not appear unhappy, sour, spergy, lashing out, butthurt—if you value your social reputation, always aim to be charming, smart, funny, sharp, sincere. To most humans, the sour and butthurt are unbearably uncharismatic, unbearably uncharming, and if yo…
/r/TheRedPill11/12/14 05:24 PM
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Fucking hell with the shitty posts recently. This is essentially a link post. Add some quality or don't post.
/r/TheRedPill11/12/14 05:02 PM
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Fuck off with your song lyrics. All these poetry, fiction and lyrics posts are pointless circle-jerking. 'Look look daddy! This person agrees with my worldview and was important enough to get published.'
/r/TheRedPill11/12/14 02:29 PM
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The fuck is this? Not only does it break the posting rules it makes no fucking sense.
/r/TheRedPill11/12/14 02:19 PM
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I believe this is the definition of a concern troll.
/r/TheRedPill10/12/14 04:44 PM
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There are only two times I play pool with a woman. Our first 'date' at a billiards hall. Pool is great for kino, keeps you on your feet and moving around and is fantastic for physical contact opportunities. I pull a girl with the 'join us for a game of pool' line. This is really just a less-planned version of the first reason. Its a great ice-breaker and I usually send them back to their seat with a 'Now you can watch how the game should be played' after either getting their number or burning ou…
/r/TheRedPill05/12/14 07:09 PM
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I have several geeky blue-pill male friends who have this same passion and they do it because they're interested in the combination of music and tech required to pull it off. Most of these guys will never get past the 'DJ at a house party' level. There is ZERO 'getting laid' attitude behind it. I've seen these guys accidentally pull girls because they get a 'shoo fly' attitude when the girl tries to fuck with the guy's gig. Most commonly this happens when they request shit pop songs that don't f…
/r/TheRedPill05/12/14 06:57 PM
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Some of us still have a masturbation problem, heh.
/r/TheRedPill05/12/14 06:37 PM
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Firstly, this belongs in r/asktrp Correct, and this is where your post should stop. Don't fucking answer questions that belong in askTRP, you're just encouraging bad behavior.
/r/TheRedPill05/12/14 04:58 PM
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This isn't meant to be very contributive Then don't fucking post it.
/r/TheRedPill05/12/14 04:53 PM
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I'm also getting sick of the 'What does TRP think of this? +link' posts. I would really like to see less, if not none, of the 'This belong in askTRP but, I'll answer anyway' responses to these posts, particularly from the endorsed members. If we continue to give bad posts good commentary then we're just encouraging bad posts.
/r/TheRedPill05/12/14 04:52 PM
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Personal situations belong in /r/asktrp
/r/TheRedPill05/12/14 04:39 PM
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Can we please stop giving Lena Dunham attention? Who gives a flying fuck about that waste of air?
/r/TheRedPill05/12/14 03:57 PM
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Read the posting rules. Add some fucking value to your post. A link and one sentence is not acceptable here.
/r/TheRedPill03/12/14 06:04 PM
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Read the fucking posting rules.
/r/TheRedPill03/12/14 05:16 PM
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I prefer to sort by controversial if I stumble anywhere else on reddit besides TRP subs. Most of the same results minus the chuckleheads that can't English even if their message is on point.
/r/TheRedPill03/12/14 05:06 PM
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Too much texting, make her earn her connection with you in person. Texting is for logistics. NEVER have a fucking argument in text, just don't fucking do it.
/r/askTRP03/12/14 03:57 PM
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If you are asking this question, you haven't read the TRP sidebar material. This is super basic stuff. Read the sidebar, it's in the posting rules of the main sub for a reason.
/r/askTRP03/12/14 03:07 PM
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Ffs, do you people even read the sub or do you just post in hopes of a circle-jerking pat on the back session? There was already a thread about this video yesterday with the title of the video in it. Like yours, it lacked any value added to the link via analysis or commentary. Your post amounts to nothing more 'haha look at the silly women'. At the very least you could have broken down how the video only has 3-4 real complaints(if that) reworded to inflate their presentation.
/r/TheRedPill03/12/14 02:52 PM
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There is another post less than an hour previous to yours with the same exact screenshot. At least he broke down the details in his post instead of this ridiculous sensational title and crap 1 sentence + link post. Not that I think this actually deserves any attention. It's a screenshot of a reddit post, not even an archive, anyone could make that shit up and screencap it.
/r/TheRedPill03/12/14 02:45 PM
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This exact thread was posted awhile back when TRP seemed to be going through a non-white SMV disadvantage circle-jerk. It's interesting to see the update, not that it was unexpected given that it was an arranged Indian marriage. It's funny to me how commenters are still pulling out 'the past is the past' as moving forward advice in a situation where the past is what caused the crisis, or at least her lying about the past if you want to be pedantic.
/r/TheRedPill03/12/14 02:40 PM
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Image meme? REALLY? FFS, I'm about done here. I mostly come for the refreshers and stories, this kinda shit is getting way too GD common and I'm getting tired of sifting through the crap. Time to take a break.
/r/TheRedPill02/12/14 07:32 PM
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What the fuck is this? This has nothing to do with TRP.
/r/TheRedPill02/12/14 12:19 AM
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The concepts are fine, the execution is fucking awful. As someone who has read for entertainment all of my life, the fact that something with such horrific grammar and structure has done so well fiscally is both scary and offensive. No denying it's a great segue into sexual topics. I use it referentially and cringe internally every time. Not going to pass up on a good, easy tool though.
/r/TheRedPill26/11/14 08:54 PM
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If you're going to try and self-promote content on your domain, at least have the decency to build a quality post. A link + 2 sentences does not make a quality post.
/r/TheRedPill25/11/14 09:12 PM
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Then don't post until you have time to make a quality post. TRP isn't a place for the 'I'll fix it later' attitude.
/r/TheRedPill25/11/14 05:54 PM
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I feel like this post is the result of a 'player' who isn't discerning enough in his conquests and thus more regularly pulls from the crazier end of the scale. The closest I get to any of this is having a gVoice number for early contact before a girl reaches plate status. I'll admit most of my RP dating experience is late 20's on. In that time, I've always screened for the needy, entitled, socially awkward girls because I assume they'll come with some kinda fallout.
/r/TheRedPill24/11/14 08:24 PM
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What is the point of this post? How does it add value to the sub?
/r/TheRedPill21/11/14 04:40 PM
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Thanks for this man, I've only skimmed it for now but, I will definitely be referring back to this. The vast majority of these things have been on my list of things to inject into my weekly activities(recently got my old saxophone tuned up) but, haven't been ACTUALLY prioritizing. Stuff like this helps me get out of the 'I'll get to it' lazy slump.
/r/TheRedPill21/11/14 02:35 PM
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Not to mention there is already a post on this EXACT subject that isn't 24 hours old.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/14 11:18 PM
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Direct links are banned for a reason. Read the posting guidelines.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/14 07:20 PM
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Secondly, ANY TIME a post like this pops up, it is almost immediately ripped from this sub by SRS and other anti-TRP subs and pointed to as "TRP believes in beating women". I'm fairly certain these were attempts to vilify TRP by posting this kinda bullshit and hoping for supportive replies.
/r/TheRedPill19/11/14 10:41 PM
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I've been in semi monk mode for a while, so we haven't hung out for around a month and a half. It just sucks, we have a lot of memories and we go way back. I don't know your social circle situation or where this guy fits in so, if my advice seems like it would damage you in a social circle you value, I'd just go the 'no contact' route. If you are either significantly above him in your shared social circle or don't care about the circles in which he has influence then ... IF you still want to try…
/r/askTRP19/11/14 10:33 PM
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Alright, I have these two close bros of mine. One of them simply acts like a dick to me all the time, but when we are alone, he is respectful and great to be around. This is textbook insecurity. He is putting you down so he looks better. Just stop hanging out with him. If he has the balls to call you out on it just say 'You act like an ass when we're out, I'm not interested in being associated with that.'
/r/askTRP19/11/14 09:48 PM
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It's more an admonition against letting a link speak for itself. Added, for reference, to a decently written post like yours isn't an issue. Personally, I go by the 3 paragraph measure. If your thought/video/article doesn't deserve at least 3 paragraphs of analysis/commentary it probably isn't worth posting.
/r/TheRedPill19/11/14 07:30 PM
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The men are doing absolutely nothing to their women The fuck is wrong with you? That is definitely physical abuse. I'm assuming you're a troll looking for confirmation that TRP approves of abusive behavior.
/r/TheRedPill19/11/14 05:30 PM
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Direct links are banned for a reason. Read the posting guidelines.
/r/TheRedPill19/11/14 04:15 PM
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Direct links are banned for a reason. Read the posting guidelines.
/r/TheRedPill19/11/14 04:09 PM
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What is wrong with his profile pic? Vague responses like this are for women who expect you to 'just get it', be a man and say/clarify what you mean.
/r/TheRedPill18/11/14 10:18 PM
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O M F G, did you SEE what she just DID Becky? So, what would be the best way to return the favor and restore order without breaking reddiquette and while acknowledging site rules? Get the fuck over it and go do something worthwhile in real life. Chances are good this is simply the low-sub subreddit blues, because reddit itself downvotes new posts as part of its measures against vote manipulation. Every small sub I've been involved with has had this issue.
/r/TheRedPill17/11/14 04:44 PM
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Now even then, I notice that when I go out with my friends who are tall white guys that are in better physical shape than me, they get more attention from girls. Here I am stuck thinking is it because they're white guys and I look more exotic or is it because they are in better physical shape than I am in (these guys are either jacked or shredded, I am kinda chubby but not fat). Almost all of the girls in my area are white too. I am now left thinking if I am not doing as well as my tall white fr…
/r/TheRedPill17/11/14 04:40 PM
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No Direct Video Links. There is a lot of content on the web, and some of it is in video form for sure. We don't mind videos, however we will request that you post any video links you have in a text submission along with your analysis. Any video-only submissions will be deleted. A quip, a question and an opinion do not make an analysis.
/r/TheRedPill14/11/14 10:32 PM
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Absolutely no direct link screenshots or images. If you must post a screenshot of a comment or an image, include it as part of your written post. Do not make it your main link. Please include your analysis with the image. Any image-only submissions will be deleted. Emphasis mine. You didn't have even a paragraph of text in your submission, that is why it is gone.
/r/TheRedPill14/11/14 10:06 PM
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Direct links are banned for a reason. Read the posting guidelines.
/r/TheRedPill14/11/14 09:32 PM
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I'm not an SRS'er. In the off chance this is actually true ... which is that sexual strategy is amoral, so it logically follows that when it comes to getting sex you are morally free to do what you want. That is a ridiculous conclusion. Strategy is just a collection of what works, this is data, which itself is amoral. The admonition is to not filter or sensor discussion of reality through your morality, rather accept reality and apply the knowledge in a way congruent with your moral code. Don't …
/r/TheRedPill14/11/14 09:29 PM
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Troll is going to troll. I wasn't really sure until that last paragraph. This whole thing reeks of a SJW shill looking for something to post to SRS and go 'see, SEE!' And if one night you lie in your bed and ask yourself: “Am I still a good guy?” you must say no – and be proud of the fact that you are now Alpha, the embodiment of the dark triad: having finally mastered the essential human virtues of psychopathy, Machiavellianism and narcissism, the three necessary characteristics a true man must…
/r/TheRedPill14/11/14 07:21 PM
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Read the posting guidelines. Direct links are banned for a reason. Add some value to your posts.
/r/TheRedPill14/11/14 06:54 PM
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I like this turn of phrase, it also speaks to congruence. The primary reason PUA's have such spotty results is that their words and actions are not congruent. They're following a script but, because they don't understand the foundation on why the script works(sometimes), their actions and body language don't line up with the script they're regurgitating. The girls of value that they are trying to game pick up on this and dismiss them for the fakes that they are. They end up only succeeding with …
/r/TheRedPill14/11/14 06:53 PM
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Thanks for this man, they need it. I try to help where I can but, I spend more time in /r/trpgame than /r/askTRP because of this very issue. Its still a problem there but, not nearly as bad.
/r/TheRedPill14/11/14 06:40 PM
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From the sidebar: Bookmark our off-reddit site: Puerarchy.com Don't go looking for drama.
/r/TheRedPill14/11/14 06:37 PM
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Read the posting guidelines, direct links are banned for a reason.
/r/TheRedPill14/11/14 06:31 PM
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Its amusing, Jack is me before TRP, almost to a T. She repeatedly comments on how many similarities we have. She first expressed this with 'how similar you two are' which I laughingly corrected to 'how many qualities we share ... outside the bedroom' and still don't put up with a non-qualified version of this statement from her. When she first started seeing him, she'd ask me for advice 'because you two think alike' and I'd actually help her because she'd been pushing me for a commitment and I f…
/r/TheRedPill14/11/14 06:23 PM
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Exactly. I wouldn't put up with this kind of behavior in a girl I was serious about. Even before all this, she and I didn't match on a variety of factors that make an LTR out of the question. I expect her to be a recurrent plate, coming back to me regularly in-between her 'serious relationships'. I have her wing-woman for me when she's 'taken'. Our heavily flirtatious dynamic is great pre-selection for me and juggling flirting with several women at my table with ease solidifies my status in her …
/r/TheRedPill14/11/14 06:13 PM
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Direct links are banned for a reason. Read the posting guidelines.
/r/TheRedPill14/11/14 04:33 PM
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I have a former FWB who was a friend before the benefits and went back to friend after starting a relationship with a guy. Let's call her Jane. Jane comes to hang out with me about once a month. She is one of 3 women in my life whose company I enjoy in and of itself. Her guy, we'll call Jack, isn't in the dark, he knows who I am, what we were and doesn't take issue with her coming to see me. The evening usually involves grabbing a meal early(we alternate paying, I am not a free meal ticket for a…
/r/TheRedPill14/11/14 04:23 PM
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We're either brigaded or there are a lot of idiots lurking around hitting vote buttons in here nowadays. Based on some of the post and comment voting I've seen recently I think its the latter. Too many newbies that haven't lost their BP ego.
/r/TheRedPill14/11/14 02:34 PM
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I like his analogy as well, though I'd apply it more to those that ONLY theorize and never actually put themselves out there. There is often derision in the martial arts community for the dojo that only teaches exhibition-style sparring where you always pull your punches. It not only can be a hindrance in implementing the techniques in real situations but, also means the students don't learn what it feels like to take a real strike.
/r/TheRedPill13/11/14 10:47 PM
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This belongs in /r/askTRP From the Posting Rules & Guidelines Personal or Advice questions should be directed to /r/asktrp See more about this here: http://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/1jkged/mod_new_sub_and_a_new_rule/
/r/TheRedPill13/11/14 09:03 PM
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With instant frame however, nothing can replace practice. All your subtle body language flaws, your occasional conversational stutter, your frame fluctuations are magnified because the girl's absorbing whatever information she can get about you. No amount of theory can prepare you for what to say next or how to control the interaction when you're staring in the eyes of a cute girl you just cold-approached. You need to put yourself in these situations and learn the skill of managing them, recover…
/r/TheRedPill13/11/14 08:57 PM
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I hear TRP say it's "controlling" to not allow your woman to have male friends or whatever - and I agree, to an extent. That extent does not including texting all day or "hanging out" while I work to pay the bills. There is a difference between saying 'You can't have male friends' and saying 'I'm not going to put up with you hanging out 1-on-1 with male friends or drinking with male friends when I am absent'. I think that is the distinction you were looking for. The primary reason TRP cautions a…
/r/TheRedPill13/11/14 08:44 PM
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It was because your comment had zero value. Name calling has no place here, if you have issue with something, take the time to voice your contention in a reasoned way. It is in the Posting Rules & Guidelines on the sidebar Any post that does not make a point and instead makes ad hominem attacks will be immediately deleted. You're obviously not paying attention. The previous stickied mod post was about how much fucking work cleaning up an 80k+ sub is and that this means less capacity for leniency…
/r/TheRedPill13/11/14 08:09 PM
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Read the posting guidelines. Direct link posts are banned for a reason.
/r/TheRedPill13/11/14 07:40 PM
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Aye, I failed to make this same point in my question post below. Thank you mods for all the work you do, as a browser of New I get SOME picture of all the chaff you guys have to sift through.
/r/TheRedPill13/11/14 06:25 PM
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I've been around awhile but, have reserved myself to the comments because I still don't think I have something to say that deserves it's own post. What I've learned here has done SO much to improve my life, I feel a need to give back to the community. As such, I sift through the New posts on my phone throughout the day when I'm left waiting for a meeting or on the john and try and report low effort/quality posts. Most of my reports look something like 'low effort linkpost, link+1-4 sentences' or…
/r/TheRedPill13/11/14 06:05 PM
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Soldier on mate. The fact that you put in the effort to update and lack of reactionary defensiveness at having your mistakes pointed out means you're in the right mental place. I think you'll be fine the next time you decide to post.
/r/TheRedPill13/11/14 05:47 PM
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Read the posting guidelines, direct links are banned for a reason.
/r/TheRedPill13/11/14 05:41 PM
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That is much much better. This is what it takes to not have your post deleted for lack of quality. Unfortunately, this isn't the type of place for a "I'll beef/fix it up later" post.
/r/TheRedPill13/11/14 04:08 PM
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Way too much esoteric, not enough concrete. To me this reads like someone trying to sound eloquent/wise.
/r/TheRedPill13/11/14 03:52 PM
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This belongs in /r/asktrp
/r/TheRedPill13/11/14 03:49 PM
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You didn't even finish the fucking film before posting this? This isn't an analysis, its a poor description. We still have a mod post stickied about post content and quality guidelines. Put some some actual effort into your posts. It's also just a great classic, if you don't want to watch it for its RP value. Then go post it on /r/movies this is /r/theredpill
/r/TheRedPill13/11/14 03:09 PM
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LDR's are just a terrible idea. You are the emotional support ready at the push of a button while she gets her thrills with the guys that are THERE WITH HER. Anyway, one time a male friend of her stayed at her place, I was furious and we talked about it and I let that one slide. There were small conflicts but it was mostly ok. I even said that I was in the fault because he was her friend. But in fact, I was furious because they were drunk and they were sleeping in the same room, this was too muc…
/r/TheRedPill13/11/14 03:02 PM
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Read the Posting Rules & Guidelines, direct links are banned for a reason.
/r/TheRedPill13/11/14 02:42 PM
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Search power-talk on the sub man, there are many posts.
/r/TheRedPill13/11/14 02:31 PM
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Read the sticky by the MOD and get your ego out of the way. I just told you I've progressed enough to know where my voice is warranted. Right now, comments are enough.
/r/TheRedPill13/11/14 02:11 PM
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This is at least the third time this has been posted in the last few days. Read the posting guidelines and put more effort into your posts.
/r/TheRedPill12/11/14 10:45 PM
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Can we please stop with the link+3-or-less-sentence posts? Your post isn't as bad as most, you actually dissected a bit, instead of JUST circle-jerking. Quote the article sections you point to and work a bit more on breaking down the questions you lambaste. That would be enough to upgrade this to a quality post.
/r/TheRedPill12/11/14 09:16 PM
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Can we keep this place as where men learn the true nature of the female mentality, and how to put themselves and their goals in life/dreams before anything else? Yes please. I'll post part of my response to someone complaining about heavy moderation. I, and most of us, would rather see 1 quality post a day with valuable conversation in the comments than the current high signal-to-noise ratio clutter with tons of circle-jerking around MRM, AWALT, anti-feminism and ineloquent anger-phase ranting. …
/r/TheRedPill12/11/14 08:52 PM
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The fuck is the point of this post? To harp that certain attraction factors are just rolls in the genetic lottery? Yes, they are, it simply doesn't matter at the individual level. There is no point in focusing on things you can't change, like your dick size or your facial bone structure(specificity because bf% can make a massive difference in facial aesthetics) because ... you CAN'T CHANGE THEM. TRP is about facing reality and improving yourself. If you can't improve it then it isn't relevant. F…
/r/TheRedPill12/11/14 08:16 PM
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this is the problem with heavy moderation. what is going to be posted? it's all been said before. honestly, there is no need for anyone to keep posting anything new based on the new moderation rules. It's not a problem, it's a solution. We don't NEED 20 posts a day, you shouldn't be spending that much time daily reading ANY part of reddit anyway. I, and most of us, would rather see 1 quality post a day with valuable conversation in the comments than the current high signal-to-noise ratio clutter…
/r/TheRedPill12/11/14 07:53 PM
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It's because the previous posts on this have been deleted. Like yours, the posters added no valuable analysis/commentary to what is essential a link post. AWALT is not new and we don't need 5 AWALT links a day.
/r/TheRedPill12/11/14 07:28 PM
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But, this isn't important. It's yet another example of AWALT which is increasingly becoming a noise problem in this sub.
/r/TheRedPill12/11/14 07:26 PM
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This was a rambling mess that adds nothing of value to the sub. If you are going to rant, at least do so with some clarity and purpose.
/r/TheRedPill12/11/14 07:21 PM
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Read the posting guidelines, direct links are banned for a reason. Also, this belongs in /r/pussypass not here.
/r/TheRedPill12/11/14 07:18 PM
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Thanks man, I really appreciate it and the fact I'm not getting trolled over this haha Most of us have been where you are. As long as you're not trying to cough the pill back up, we're here to help. Solid date idea, but it'll much likely be a lot different as theres no where to really do any of that without a long drive. I live in a shit military town in texas at the moment. Yeah, smalltown logistics blues. The simple version of this is picking a place with at least two open bars within walking …
/r/trpGAME12/11/14 03:52 PM
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Direct link posts are banned for a reason. If you can't put in the effort to add commentary or the link isn't worth commentary don't post.
/r/TheRedPill12/11/14 03:30 PM
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/sigh The blog post, while a bit old, is interesting. However, this is barely more than a link post. Add value to your post with commentary or at the very least quote poignant points from the article.
/r/TheRedPill12/11/14 01:20 AM
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Direct links aren't allowed for a reason. Read the posting rules.
/r/TheRedPill12/11/14 01:03 AM
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Good job man! Keep it up, keep approaching. I'd encourage you to get AT LEAST one more girl's phone number before going on this date. It will help you to not be over-invested in this girl as your only prospect. she asked me if I would want to get a bite to eat sometime. This is good and bad. Good in that usually they don't suggest anything, waiting on you to take the lead, thus this is likely an indicator she is truly interested. Bad in that meal dates are awful. So final tip, don't take her out…
/r/trpGAME12/11/14 12:56 AM
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I appreciate that you made a decent sized post with your comments rather than just posting the link and a single line that amounts to 'AWALT lol' That being said, what value does this add to the sub? We really don't need DAILY AWALT reminder posts, particularly of this low a caliber. Post this to /r/pussypass or something but please don't add to the noise ratio.
/r/TheRedPill11/11/14 09:43 PM
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Eh, can't save the unwilling. I'm okay with this as a guide IF your friend is actively seeking your advice on their dating life. Otherwise you should just guide by example. That being said, fuck /r/nofap that shit is a cult at this point. If you want to correct that particular issue try /r/pornfree instead. Personally I don't think it's worth bringing up unless there are drive/performance issues to address.
/r/TheRedPill11/11/14 08:13 PM
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'We can discuss my 'qualifications' after the oral exam' Her: some comment responding to the 'oral' context You: escalate the conversation sexually such as 'Yeah, you'd be surprised how many girls get too worked up and end up biting me, hazard of the trade.' Her: some comment about checking creds BEFORE an exam. 'Good point, the last time I inspected my doc's credentials, they were from Sesame Street. Said I was the first one to catch it. Paid me off and gave me a referral to keep my mouth shut.…
/r/trpGAME11/11/14 08:04 PM
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Good god. Either you haven't read the TRP sidebar material or you need to go over it again. This situation couldn't be more basic and doesn't need customized advice. This post is an excuse to delay approaching, there is no perfect line. I'm currently sitting at the cafe as stated above. Made some great eye contact with a girl thats a solid 8. Want to approach Then approach, immediately, use the 3 second rule if you have issues with this. but she now seems engrossed in studying/school work. Do I …
/r/trpGAME11/11/14 07:41 PM
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There is already a post on this situation that is less than 24 hours old Your post is a link with a single sentence. Read the posting guidelines.
/r/TheRedPill11/11/14 07:32 PM
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You miss all the shots you don't take. Be direct and clear, don't leave room for your intentions to be interpreted as less than they are. If she makes it clear she isn't interested, STOP VALIDATING HER. This means zero response to any communications that aren't face-to-face. If you DO meet face-to-face, your attitude is cordial but, cold. She isn't worth your time, this includes being angry/butthurt about being rejected. If she is bold enough to call you out on your lack of response to her text …
/r/trpGAME11/11/14 07:29 PM
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So what's a good idea to hangout? This is basic shit man, tons of date idea posts. Personally, I save interesting date ideas for the second meet, once I've determined she's worth the effort. Go low-investment. For me this is either drinks at a bar/coffee shop(no lunch/middle-of-the-day shit) or ALLOWING HER TO JOIN ME for something fun I'm GOING TO DO WITH OR WITHOUT HER. The second option is less common and I make it a point to convey that her attendance will have little/no impact on my plans. …
/r/trpGAME11/11/14 07:20 PM
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Stop asking IF she wants to hang out. Pick a time/place/event to meet and TELL her to come. Anything other than accepting or offering a SPECIFIC reschedule should result in a next, because she isn't interested and you shouldn't be wasting your time.
/r/trpGAME11/11/14 04:57 PM
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I guess you have never had the experience OP is describing. My point was that OP is terrible at describing, which has nothing to do with having or not having experienced anything personally. If I have to have experienced something to understand your description of it, you're doing a terrible job. But know this. An ounce of cold-blooded empathy is worth more than all the "gains" you'll make in the gym. More fun too, in my opinion. Because I am not very nice this way. This was intentionally obtuse…
/r/TheRedPill05/11/14 09:40 PM
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I can't stress this enough. If you use porn or need to masturbate then you need to go monk mode. Seriously wtf. You do realize it is a biological need that will work itself out(wet dreams) if you do not take care of it yourself. I'm all on-board for the harm porn does but, non-excessive maintenance wanking isn't hurting anyone. Moderation people.
/r/TheRedPill05/11/14 09:24 PM
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This ... also did not make sense. You sound like you're trying to sound wise.
/r/TheRedPill05/11/14 09:17 PM
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Yes, this is seriously incoherent, an example of the chaff we DON'T need in TRP.
/r/TheRedPill05/11/14 08:28 PM
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However, discussion on how to successfully navigate the status quo is what belongs here IMHO. For instance, an insightful discussion on how to avoid divorce rape is exactly why I come here. That's not exactly self improvement, but it is strategy on how to navigate the status quo; the focus being on individual success in an unfair world rather than bitching about how life's not fair and how we all need to make it more fair. This is fine but, it doesn't represent the vast majority of MR flaired po…
/r/TheRedPill05/11/14 07:41 PM
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It's simple and essentially the same answer as drinking, it depends on the person. Is it a vice keeping you from progressing or a stress release you utilize with proper moderation? That being said, for most people it falls into the first camp and thus should be avoided or eliminated. If it's legal status is going to put your career or personal life in jeopardy, drop it. If it encourages you to hang out with stereotypical stoners who do/accomplish little, drop it. If you are toking up INSTEAD of …
/r/TheRedPill05/11/14 07:07 PM
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This is exactly how I feel. I would love to see the 'Men's Rights' 'Rant/Venting' and 'Blue Pill Example' flair get removed. These three tags make up the lion's share of unproductive and low quality posts. Those that post quality content under these tags would do fine without them. I would also love to see a word count minimum for posts, there are WAY too many posts with less than a paragraph of text. These posts only ever have value if a good discussion occurs in the comments. If you can't arti…
/r/TheRedPill05/11/14 06:52 PM
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It's hard to make examples because this is more about attitude than acts. In my head it often comes down to thinking of her as a girl rather than a woman. This is just a personal classification of those words because 'girl' is simpler than feminine and 'woman' is simpler than non-feminine. Women have life experience and thus baggage. They tend to let that baggage show by holding back more and testing more consciously. Women use more frowns and smug smirks than genuine smiles and giggles. Women f…
/r/RedPillWomen05/11/14 04:34 PM
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If you're ready to peace out after 3 months no sex, than this shows that you're not ready to have a serious relationship with the person in question. I'm with Humankeg on this one, good luck getting a high value man to stick around this long, assuming a monogamous dating situation. We're used to getting sexually sated and the novelty of being denied will wear out long before 6 months. If you're saying YOU don't have sex with him for 6 months without requiring monogamy from him, I can see that wo…
/r/RedPillWomen04/11/14 11:11 PM
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I’m going to say something to the ladies reading this blog that will make the guys at The Red Pill hate me. You do not want to be a plate. Just the ones still in the anger phase. I think the rest of us wish there were more feminine women worthy of an LTR around. Solid guide. As a guy only interested in spinning while working on myself at the moment, you hit most of my hallmark behaviors for keeping my sex and social life separate. So with metaphors aside, my advice is that you should know a guy …
/r/RedPillWomen04/11/14 10:32 PM
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All of this no fap stuff is RETARDED. There are absolutely NO BENEFITS to no fapping or not watching porn. The nofap community is definitely cultist and overblown. However, physical desensitization from excessive masturbation and/or training yourself to only get off to specific physical stimuli is definitely a thing, for both genders. Similarly, becoming wired to certain mental stimuli is also a real danger with porn. If masturbation, with or without porn, is an occasional thing to quiet distrac…
/r/TheRedPill04/11/14 08:30 PM
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So you watched the OTHER bugatti prank video from the 16 hour old post and decided to link the top related video which is another prank with the exact same premise by the same guys? Low quality, low effort post.
/r/TheRedPill04/11/14 08:02 PM
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Have gone on several dates with several girls since getting here. Not particularly invested in this one, just see an opportunity and want to take it. Good, you're fine then, go get it. Aside from that though, thank you for the advice. Very helpful. My friend's fiancee says that she is an awesome girl, bit of a homebody but still cool, so we will see what happens. Good luck man, sounds solid. I personally like homebodies because we spend more time in which leads to more play time.
/r/trpGAME04/11/14 07:46 PM
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First off, you're coming across too invested in this girl. You've been there for 3 months, how many other girls have you gone on dates with? If none, you're probably not at a level to smoothly pick up a girl at her place of employment. If you're going to try, be direct and be cool with rejection. Girls at work are still better off being nice to their customers than not, even if you're just a regular take-out order, you're still a regular. First off, you have a connection, capitalize on that. Che…
/r/trpGAME04/11/14 06:34 PM
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Gas. -- I gave up driving 2 years ago. If someone pays for my time to visit them, I take Uber and "share" the ride with them so they pay. I only date women with cars. They can come to me when they're invited, otherwise I just don't see them. This is a luxury only afforded to those in places with good public transportation. I applaud you for pulling this off though, if I lived in such a location I'd gladly give up my car for a bicycle and sporadic use of public transport or cabs. Gifts -- Gifts d…
/r/TheRedPill04/11/14 06:01 PM
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I think your premise is on-point, however, a lot of this list looks like being Beta in a relationship. There was a big thread about cost-per-lay awhile back, it made me chuckle. I have a regular plate right now that comes to my place, spends a few hours in bed then leaves. I've never been to her place, she lives 45min away. Total expense is the $2 mixing her a Mimosa costs me. Gas. Driving to see her, driving her out to dinner, taking her shopping and whatever else you do together. I'm willing t…
/r/TheRedPill04/11/14 05:18 PM
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Direct links are banned for a reason. Read the posting guidelines.
/r/TheRedPill03/11/14 11:26 PM
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Yeah, this is a rambling mess and the letters for names is only part of the problem.
/r/TheRedPill03/11/14 02:31 PM
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Stop posting links with no value added. "Feminists will hate this" is not adding value.
/r/TheRedPill01/11/14 05:27 AM
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Direct link posts are banned for a reason. Read the posting rules.
/r/TheRedPill31/10/14 08:16 PM
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Been posted several times already in the last two days. With much better commentary.
/r/TheRedPill31/10/14 05:34 PM
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There is a reason direct linking is not allowed. Read the posting rules and try again.
/r/TheRedPill31/10/14 02:56 PM
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At the least, looks like nutritionally you were looked after. Fuck no. One of the things I had to untrain was horrible nutritional habits. I'm 5ft 10in, weighed 215 pounds at 14 years old. The beginning of unplugging for me was dropping from 305 to 185 pounds and experiencing the massive difference in my treatment by women.
/r/TheRedPill30/10/14 03:51 AM
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I love my mother but, I've lost most of my respect for her. I've had to train SO MUCH out of myself because of how she raised me. Unfortunately my father is deep blue and didn't help the situation. Cooking for the family is one of those things she goes on and on about being this burden that was just expected of her, thanklessly. However, I remember the polite child I was thanking her for all our cooked meals and making some comment about how good it tasted, with the exception of some vegetables …
/r/TheRedPill29/10/14 09:40 PM
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You cannot force the pill down someone's throat. Keep out of his business, otherwise you won't just lose a friend, he'll hate/resent you by the time it is over.
/r/TheRedPill29/10/14 09:22 PM
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You didn't listen. Go read the posting rules.
/r/TheRedPill29/10/14 04:45 PM
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There is a reason direct links are turned off. Read the posting rules.
/r/TheRedPill29/10/14 04:26 PM
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My goal is not to hurt anyone This is classic Nice Guy behavior. Stop being a Nice Guy and say what you mean, this is what abdada is trying to tell you. He is right, that thing is WAY too wordy. Since you're unlikely to be blunt here you go ... Be active, be fun, be healthy, be fit. I'm looking for a girl that can keep up with me on the field, in the bedroom, in life. No couch potatoes please. That says everything you want to say succinctly and without apology. I'm not saying what I wrote will d…
/r/TheRedPill28/10/14 04:16 PM
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The comment thread involving /u/alickstee is absolute solipsism gold. She continually minimizes the actions of OP as forgivable 'mistakes' but tries to paint OP's boyfriend in a terrible light for getting back in a relationship with her despite having no intention of marrying her or having kids with her, such a horrible, horrible thing. /u/alickstee she starts out strong with the obvious premise that women have no agency so all decisions are in the hands of and the fault of the man. Then he shou…
/r/TheRedPill28/10/14 03:31 PM
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StraightTalk is NOT for dating if you want any reasonable return. Not saying you won't have success, it will just be at a vastly lower return on time/effort.
/r/TheRedPill24/10/14 03:32 PM
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We banned direct links for a reason. Add some value to your post with highlights and/or deconstruction.
/r/TheRedPill23/10/14 06:36 PM
1

It is better to just treat all women the same in this regard. Every time you think 'what would I do to girl B' you are wasting precious mental energy and your actions following have the potential to be seen as fake due to your body language revealing your true mental state. That being said, I have a plate I've kept around for a year. Pulled her early, before my confidence started building, would not pursue her now. I keep her around because she is a reminder of how all my plates SHOULD act if I …
/r/trpGAME23/10/14 06:29 PM
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Low effort post. Deconstruct or say something that adds value. This is why the sub went self post only.
/r/TheRedPill23/10/14 04:41 PM
1

What is the point of this post? It adds nothing of value. The women here are actively avoiding falling into the patterns of the stereotypical American Woman. Bring your Anger Phase rant/vents to us at TRP where it belongs.
/r/RedPillWomen17/10/14 11:42 PM
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gay beta faggot BFFF I think he blew out a gasket getting this particular bit of wisdom down.
/r/TheRedPill17/10/14 08:13 PM
1

I think the decision part is the key factor. It is important to note the demographic in this study was US married couples. In most of the US there is a fair amount of social pressure to be religious. However, going to church takes time out of your weekend and requires you to dress up, in other words it isn't convenient. So you have the devout, who go regularly and are likely to be much more conservative socially as well as have strong connections in a community that frowns upon martial dissoluti…
/r/RedPillWomen15/10/14 02:44 PM
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Exactly. Even taking a PUA perspective this is low-tier stuff you abandon quickly, passion > trivia.
/r/TheRedPill09/10/14 10:03 PM
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You write like a woman. Using attacks, stating assumptions as fact and using inflated numbers to make the counter sound ridiculous. If you want people to take you seriously, learn how to write. This post is a mess both gramatically and structurally. You guys are bullshitting yourself if you believe that peak male attraction is with 40. The generally accepted answer to this in TRP is early 30s, not 40. Enough time to have grown through experience and established your place/path in the world. The …
/r/TheRedPill09/10/14 07:14 PM
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If anybody really cares, I can contact a colleague that specialized in surveying closeted gay men about their sexual behavior and see what factor he used to bump up his estimates. I can't imagine women would be a harder group to accurately survey than closeted gays in virulently anti-gay communities. I would be interested, mostly out of curiosity. I am somewhat familiar with the extra steps a well crafted survey involves in order to get as accurate data as possible. The high median that you see …
/r/TheRedPill09/10/14 02:02 PM
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I never said anything about 30-40, just that the idea of 3.6 is preposterous. Likely these numbers, besides being self reported, include women far outside the age range most here would consider viable, bringing down the median.
/r/TheRedPill09/10/14 01:25 PM
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Exactly, because self-reported sexual statistics from women are reliable.
/r/TheRedPill09/10/14 02:20 AM
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I do not blame her for this; on some level, trying to get your rapist jailed after the act is an essentially masculine task (confronting your trauma, composing your emotions so you can deliver precise, carefully worded statements, and basically having to turn your pain into motivation to succeed). This is a great framing. It speaks directly to why a girl waiting to build comfort/trust before hesitantly revealing this damaging truth is as strong a measure of validity as a police report. It also, …
/r/TheRedPill08/10/14 08:27 PM
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This isn't AlreadyRed. Get over youself, you sound like a kid just regurgitating other people's wisdom.
/r/TheRedPill07/10/14 08:36 PM
2

The entrance vs entire canal is a valid point. I think we disagree on how much that inherent tightness past the PC muscles actually affects male pleasure. I'll give you that there is SOME difference, just not enough for me to care. In my experience, assuming increasing age correlates with more sexual partners/sessions, the order of preference would go something like this ... 20 year old doing kegels 35 year old doing kegels 20 year old no kegels 35 year old no kegels That, of course, is ignoring…
/r/TheRedPill02/10/14 06:56 PM
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it comes down to sports - kegels etc. if she's lazy and just lays on her back, or if she is just not aware of how her vagina really works, well yes, things are going to get loose with age. Spot on, any sport or activity that engages her inner thigh muscles and thus her P3 muscle. This is the same muscle that allows you to bounce your erect dick and stops urine flow for both genders. Excercising it has sexual benefits for everyone. Women get a tighter vaginal canal and stronger squeezes (so fucki…
/r/TheRedPill02/10/14 02:24 PM
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Except he is wrong. See godmodus's comment. Kegals are a thing. Apparently you've never had a woman manually(non-orgasm) squeeze her vagina on your cock, same muscle that allows you to bounce your erect penis and it can be strengthened.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/14 02:18 PM
1

It isn't the only way but, an easier to swallow route than something more direct like Bill Burr, who still pulls his punches. I'd classify Louis CK somewhere in the same vein as Mark Manson. Aware of the real truths but, using a presentation meant to soften the message or make it easy to interpret in a way that doesn't impune on the viewers worldview. Louie is largely RP but, he's smart enough to obfuscate that in his presentation so as to not lose the BP audience. There was a thread on TRP or A…
/r/TheRedPill29/09/14 01:54 PM
1

Oh its fantastic and really gets their emotions up. The more fantastic the better. One of my goto stories is that the guy is actually a secret agent and he is wooing the girl for access to something vital at her workplace. Another way to play it is, if you're good at reading body language, find a first date happening in your visual range and critique both parties, declare who is more interested. This also works for non-dating m/f couples "Yeah, they're just friends, she wants more but he's not i…
/r/trpGAME26/09/14 12:12 AM
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Depends on the girl, I had a plate that was a big reader and the library made a great place to hang out. Probably not going to appeal to most though. I'd add, if the attraction was already high, she wouldn't care WHERE you were inviting her.
/r/trpGAME25/09/14 11:02 PM
1

I have tried little one line interesting stories before with women I don't think this guy even realizes he is picking his nose in the middle of a crowded library, he is so focused on his book but it was not received well (read:no response) and I assumed it was a little weak as in obviously seeking her attention. Interesting. This tactic works quite well for me. If they don't respond, I just assume something more interesting had her attention or her attraction to me is too low. It IS highly congr…
/r/trpGAME25/09/14 10:59 PM
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Your writing style makes it apparent you haven't progressed far enough to consider converting existing acquaintances or friends to plates. Generally speaking this is considered be one of the harder things to do as they are already classified you beta from your previous behavior. Stop asking questions, make commands or simply announce your presence somewhere, let her assume it is an invitation, she will. This does not mean sending "I'm at the library" ... don't be boring, share something that wil…
/r/trpGAME25/09/14 09:17 PM
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Folks, I know he didn't read the sidebar or he'd have read the 'New here?' guidelines on posting. That being said, he took the constructive criticism without being a bitch about it. Don't downvote his reply just because you didn't like the original post. Here's an upvote for not being a bitch dude.
/r/TheRedPill08/09/14 04:50 PM
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I'm glad you're swallowing the pill, however, I don't see what value this post adds to the sub. Your presentation is rambling, lacking coherence. There is little here besides bragging. Try actually detailing shit tests or frame examples instead of how you got your dick wet.
/r/TheRedPill05/09/14 10:30 PM
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Read the discussion between caughtyouredhanded and I. Seriously, the guy pulled her, SPONTANEOUSLY mid-drinks, back to his place to watch a movie ON HIS BED. He even says her resistance to physical escalation was SLOW TO SHOW and did so LATER on each attempt. This is just standard ASD, she wanted it, as her decision to stay shows.
/r/TheRedPill03/09/14 07:29 PM
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What's the average age range you're being this straightforward with? Personal experience is that only has acceptable success rates with the over 25 crowd.
/r/TheRedPill03/09/14 07:20 PM
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I'd agree with you if the context was setting up a first date without prior face-to-face interaction allowing you to clearly establish your sexual interest. This guy is talking about using it as a pull to his place in the middle of drinks out. Nothing in his post indicated he had previously suggested the movie idea, making it spontaneous, to her at least. In THAT context it is no different than a nightcap or "I need to use your bathroom".
/r/TheRedPill03/09/14 07:16 PM
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He was saying what he meant all night long with his ACTIONS. I'm certain he didn't wait until they were in bed to escalate physically. This is a VERY basic hurdle to jump, the excuse to go somewhere private. It's not our fault that girls need that thin veneer of plausible deniability to be comfortable. They know what is going on, they just don't want to take responsibility.
/r/TheRedPill03/09/14 03:53 PM
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Seriously? Anyone with a modicum of social intelligence knows an invitation to do X at his place is just a socially acceptable excuse for the two of you to be alone.
/r/TheRedPill03/09/14 03:14 PM
1

People go to bars solo all the time, it is a social environment, be social. You walk in, buy a beer, sip lightly while doing a VERY SLOW deliberate scan of the bar. If someone meets your eyes, guy or girl, pause, hold their gaze momentarily, then continue the VERY SLOW scan of the room. You will likely lock eyes several times by the time you have completed your scan. Pick the most interesting 'I like her braided hair', most responsive 'she blushed and played with her hair while holding my gaze' …
/r/trpGAME23/08/14 02:11 AM
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Great book, mostly I took away the being more vocal and domination bits. I regularly get told I "ruin" girls with my bedplay. I attribute this to my sex geekery, I do a LOT of reading. I cheat though, apparently I was born a freak. I LOVE eating pussy, pretty much my favorite thing. I have little to no refractory period, for instance last night I just stayed in and kept a light rocking for 1-2 minutes then went back to pounding. And to top it off, it usually takes me over an hour to get off the …
/r/TheRedPill17/07/14 02:44 PM
1

I would have given you Sandra Bollocks or Sandra Blowhard. Sandra BERNHARD is a whole nother man-faced world apart from Sandra Bullock.
/r/TheRedPill16/07/14 10:12 PM
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Hah, yes. I caught that comment as well and thought it was hilarious. I want to fuck EVERY DAY and I consider myself only a bit over average ... for a man.
/r/TheRedPill03/07/14 02:14 PM
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Referencing the wonderfully effective EMSK post, 2X has been asked Do women actually want sex? The TOP post is a miserable "I WANT SEX LESS" who admits to her baggage holding her back. Coming in a not-so-close second a pat "Everyone is special snowflake" to which they readily rally. Third place is a pointless fluffy feelgood "can't we all just fuck along?" Following that is a "historical viewpoint" supporting the "women can be horny" line. Next the attack on the Nice Guy, then another "I'm diffe…
/r/TheRedPill01/07/14 09:16 PM
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That can't be real.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/14 03:12 PM
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Try asking this question in /r/fPUA/
/r/seduction26/09/13 05:00 PM
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